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Etterlyn Debarge failed her kids....periodt.
That is an understatement!
Yes she did. Failed them horribly. I believe this is the reason they have fought with drug addiction. All of them.
I agree
So many like her, can't understand it.
She was the problem all this cuz she didn’t wanna be black smh
DeBarge is literally one of the worst cases of abuse I have ever heard tbh.
I agree I remember hearing their story when I was a teenager. It was and still is very tragic. Smdh!! I’m 45 & still get heart aches about their story. She totally failed herself and her kids. Smdh!!
@@ScorpioRising_1975 agree💯💯to think of what those poor siblings went through sends a shiver down my spine even after all these years 😳😭
@@ScorpioRising_1975 their mother was a selfish woman. She was trying to prove point to everyone that said don't marry that man. The first time that he hit her she should of left. She was a horrible human and that man she married.
So sad. Nowonder mostly all of them have drug battles and emotional issues
Daammmm
“Listen, Blackie, I know I’m racist, but you can’t marry my son because he’s crazy!” 😂😂😂😂 Girl, your comedic skills are amazing!
That part had me cracking up!😂
😂😂💀💀
This is the post lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Little did Etterline know, that military freak with narcissistic personality disorder charmed her, love bombed her, had her produced a bunch of "toys" for him to "play" with, then tried to destroy the whole bunch like a family annialator. I feel so sorry for those poor children.
Omg this is so on point. Think she had self hatred issues to bc of her being bw.
@@sandriea30 There are multiple issues that were at play, all of which revolved around power imbalance, especially in the mid 1900s.
He was older, white, attractive, in uniform, masked by charm, willing to take care of her, and completely self-preservational.
She was a young, immature female, person of color, bound by religious norms to forgive, bound by social norms to give the illusion of "the happy family" and the dutiful wife. He made sure she was constantly pregnant, and reliant on him; an abuser, just the way he planned. She had no idea what she had gotten into.
The mother makes my blood 🩸 boil!!!!
@chulababy2120 Oh, I totally agree with you. I have one in my family. They are 89, and I stopped speaking to them a long time ago.
Religion seems to be the mask.
@Just the Facts she part of the problem
Moral of Part 1…When a man’s mama tells you her son is crazy…BELIEVE THEM! A mother KNOWS their child!!!
You got that right....mom warned her.
100% agreed!
You know what? My mother in law tried to warn me....30 years later....yeah
Facts. I had to learn a hard way. Mom told me she didn’t like watching me deal with her child and it wasn’t fair to me. Like a dummy I stayed awhile after, but it didn’t get to marriage thankfully.
LOL facts
When someone’s mother tells you not to marry their child, because they are crazy, BELIEVE THEM .
Now that’s the truth
AMEN 👋🏼
Chile...
She was trying to save her. She know she raised her son to hate black people and she knew that he did despite him pretending like he wanna marry one for a wife. He wanted a slave.
@@marketiadavis9040 He would have abused any woman irrespective of race! His mother knew he had mental issues but chose not to do anything to aid her own child. She was domineering and emasculated her husband in front of her own son. This abuse no doubt had a psychological affect upon Robert. She scarred himfor life just as Etterline had towards her own children.
Etterlene was just as SICK as him for ALLOWING this to happen. I Have NO RESPECT for her!!!
I agree 20000 % with YOU!!!!!! SMH
Swear. & The worst part is she fought harder for that excuse for a man than she did her own kids. 😑😑😮💨😤
I lived it. Not as bad but quite traumatic. Still trying to build a good relationship with my mom. So are my siblings
@@BeaMode1990Lived it. Was it the times and women were just too dependent?
Me either
I wouldn't put this in the gossip or scandal category. This is true crime.
I read the book about The Debarge. That Daddy was the reason all those kids became addicts.
They are both to blame for sure.
The mother also. She did nothing to protect her children
@@ericapatillo6355 I kinda hated the mon after heard of about how she sacrificed the kids to their demon of a father. I don't care how much she hated her dark skin
The mother as well as the father. The father was abusing them while the mother did nothing and also continued getting pregnant and breeding more victims for him. I blame both parents equally.
I wanna read the book. Please what is the title.
And people say Joe Jackson was terrible! SMH. Joe looking like a whole SAINT compare to Bob DeBarge.
The Jackson kids couldn't stand their dad either. Joe, Bob and Marvin Gaye's dad are some of the worst fathers connected to show business legends. Period.
Exactly! He made Joseph look like Heathcliff Huxtable😡!
Chile.. Im only 2o min in and I had to pause and take a breath. I can't believe she let her kids suffer so much abuse. I think he is worse than Joe. 😢
Nah Joe was exactly the same, personally I think he did touch them too.
@@hollee5912
Its rumored.
They made Joe and Katherine Jackson look like Saints how their kids were raised
Abuse is abuse its all bad
Tomikco Nelson. Abuse is abuse. Its all bad
And yes I know what abuse is because I came from an abusive home and I thank God my grandparents were there to raise me
Lol
@@kennettabradford6566 Yeah but Mr.Jackson didn't molest his kids.He was more concerned with making them billionaires.Totally 2 different motives.
Their father was a devil. His demonic spirit passed down to his kids. I never heard about the incest and child molestation. This is the sickest family situation I've ever heard.
Ikr they smoothed that crap over like it wasn't a thing
The demonic spirit was in him, not in the kids they never asked to be abused...
Physical abuse, sexual abuse, rape, incest.
This is one of the most disturbing episodes I’ve ever heard.
Very.
Agree
Yeah, and I thought my family of origin was effed up.
Unsung did not disclose many of the alarming acts of abuse which ensued throughout this dysfunctional family. Nor was the Bobby Debarge story cinematically impressive.
That's why all them children are messed up mentally drugs,alcohol etc tgata what abuse of any kind does to children shouldn't be allowed period.
This is why I firmly believe some people DO NOT deserve to be parents. DISGUSTING!!!
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Facts
I worked with abused children and this has to be the worst case of abuse I ever heard of. So disturbing
That mother makes me sick. She is a sick desperate woman. Him tricking her the first time on the phone should have been her first clue
If a man beat me, that’s one thing, but you’re not about to beat my children. You’re dying in your sleep for that.
He’s dying in his sleep if he beats me! He won’t get a chance to abuse my kids.
Girl somebody call Farrah fawcett
@@ladyplantzalot6987 😂ok! light his ass up in that burning bed!
What? That should be done when he beats You!
@@ladymarmalade9941 exxxactly
Robert was a racist psycho who married a black woman & had children with her just to torture them, this breaks my heart for those children.
I think the father has a hate for them hence why he showed such aggressions,I understand that there are other races who do this but in this case it was definitely done with disgust n hate for Black's
There are plenty of white men and women who abuse their black and Asian partne and vice versa. Racism is sickness. Periodt
Fact. And the mom was a no good bed wench who did nothing to protect her children.
@@valeo3508 And it's amazing that as much as he disliked his mother, he acted like her. It's said that his father was passive as hell, his mother ran the household including having extramarital affairs and his father did nothing.
It seems he got a lot of that controlling behavior from his mother.
Calling a white man that married a black woman with 10 kids a racist to simplistic. Not everything is so clear cut as being a racist or ally. Robert was not a racist. It was just the time frame of their love. Robert who should have been a celebrated soldier but instead he was reduced to just being a n****r lover. For perspective, Loving v. Virginia was in 1967. Bunny was born in 1955. The father was an outcaste from the white world he came. In similarity, Trevor Noah spoke about being ‘born a crime.’ I can only imagine the father seeing his black wife and mixed children with resentment. He was conflicted with loving them (like Prince Harry to Meghan Markle)…that’s why he chose them. Love in one hand and a loss of a white world he once had access to on the other hand. The father, though a monster to his wife and children, was also a victim of the anti-miscegenation climate of the U.S. at the time. We as audience have to humanize all of their struggles. The father, the mother, Bunny, Bobby, James and whomever else where all victims. Today we live in post Loving v. Virginia so may not empathize with the psychology of that time.
She didn’t want Bonnie telling anyone about her dad’s sexual abuse because she knew they would blame her (the mother) for letting it happen. 👌🏾
And she does deserve a lion share of the blame. They both failed their children and it’s just sad how this curse plagued their family for nearly three decades.
Robert wasn’t the only crazy one. Ettaline was sick too!!!
Why do I want to slap her more than Robert?!
@@LyricalXilence I felt that too.
I know that as a mother myself, I would put someone six feet under for even attempting to hurt my children this way.
No way in hell could I sit back and watch, especially when I had a family willing to help me.
Etterlene should have gone to a vet and got spaded
for they way she let her crazy husband treat the first born
Well said
Facts
The fact that Mama DeBarge did nothing to protect her children makes me mad. A parent is supposed to protect their children at all cost. She put her children in harms way and as a result her children became drug addicts.
Alot of mothers back then were sorry parents. The ones that weren't took care of the sorry ones children. That's how most made it through.
Yes I completely agree..it makes my blood boil when a parent fails their kids.
His mother warned her about his mental issues but she didn't listen
How could he have been in the military if he was diagnosed with a mental disorder. She met him in the military.
@@Sheislinda1 He probably lied.
Something about Etterlene and those blonde wigs never sat right with me. Now I see why.
Lol!!!..I’m dead!!
Her and Diddy’s mama. I actually think Etterline has a gorgeous face, but those wigs...😐
😂😂😂😂😂
Chile…
Same here! I didn’t understand but this story clears it up. Her self hatred. Wow!
And Eterline remarries to a convicted felon who is a heroine addict and beats her son Chico. She should be in jail for child endangerment and abuse.
Bobby wasn't gay, naturally, his FATHER! made him that way! He was confused. 😢
Good God, the Generational curses on some peoples families. 😢😧
None of the boys ever said the father sexually assaulted them. So it's not true unless there's something I don't know
@@sherrdi6778the sister said it, he sexually abused her and her brothers. idk which brothers but i know bobby for sure, which caused bobby to start doing it to james.
@@MichelleWhite-z6p
Oh ok.. Where can I find that statement of the sister saying the boys were sexually assaulted too .. In her ( the sister's) book she never said the boys were molested or sexuality assaulted.. But she gave details about her sexual assault from her father and did say she, Bunny, was sexually assaulted by her father .. sooo where can I find statements from the sister or brothers saying the boys were sexually assaulted or molested..
Him showing up to her house even though she told him not to come is a MAJOR RED FLAG‼️
I caught that one too
Exactly
Facts!!!!!
I broke up with a man for this! He was like “what’s the problem?” TUH
Yes that crap is scary, I was talking to this white guy once, and he showed up at my place out of the blue once, never told him where I lived nor the apartment number yet he knew exactly where the go… never talked to him again
No one can ever convince me that the mother didn’t know these things were happening to her children. ESPECIALLY her ONLY daughter at the time.
She knew. She threw Bunny way under the bus.
@@monilaninetynine3811 Yes! How low is that? She is just as guilty as a father or more! She gave birth to these kids!
@@resurrectionpower4749 YES! Great observation! I would think so too. The mother and father were sick in different ways. The children had no chance
That’s why she left them alone while she went to church every night. She sacrificed her children so she wouldn’t get the abuse…smh
She did. I watched Bobby story
Sadly, these kind of stories happened in a lot of families we just learned about this particular story because of their incredible talents. 😢
The other woman he had kids with had more sense than Etterline because she was gonna go to war for her kids & did what she had to do to protect her daughter FIRST.
I remember Bunny saying she could never trust her mother. I’m sorry their mother was the Pick Me of the century and a bird brain. You hurt my damn kids you will meet your maker.
PERIOD!!!!
Factz
If that was blk man would she tolerate that abuse.
@@kevinknox1239 NO!!!
@@kevinknox1239 it doesn't matter because women back then were taking abuse from them to while being cheating on
The DeBarge house was literally the House of Horror. It has always upset me how complacent the mother was with the father's actions. She did absolutely nothing to protect her children and they all still suffer from what happened to them.
is it possible in that time that the white man word held favour than a black woman (as we can see how BW are treated, they are at the bottom of the pyramid and perhaps she did raise it up but received no help and possibly shun by black community for marrying a white man and she was young, there was no way out so she decided to remind complacent. granted I dont side with her but i would like to see her viewpoint. things werent as evolving as now, right?
@@megblue1 family members tried to help her and she still went back. Not only that, she never took any accountability for not protecting her kids. I think it was the debarge unsung I saw her on and she downplayed how horrific their upbringing was.
Yes.
I agree. Mom seems as happy as she can be. When I hear her speak, she doesn't seem to be in pain or have remorse, but _all_ of her kids were in constant pain, even into adulthood, and onto death (Bobby, Tommy).
This story broke my entire heart 💔💔. Those kids were truly tortured by their father. May God cover them.
I grew up around the deBarge’s family! This is a lot of truth!… love you channel!
This story made me mad as hell. This was the ultimate Plantation story that came to life
Indeed🧐
That part.
Do you feel this way about black males and white women?
@@PrimordialChaos07 hmmmm 👏👏👏👏
@@PrimordialChaos07 them too
Hearing all these stories just makes me realize how resilient people can be. (Yes, I know the DeBarges of course had their troubles for sure.) But the fact that any child can go through such an awful awful life and still survive and live their lives is amazing to me. To have both parents completely betray a child like this would probably completely break me.
Look at how common abuse is. You’re most likely to be abused by someone you know rather than a complete stranger. I’m not shocked because a large amount of the population is forced into resilience on an everyday basis. Even those that you know can be silently struggling. Victims of trauma have no other choice but to function, most of them do.
Look at the statistics and see how many truly suffer in silence, and how many families facilitate abuse. It could be happening in your family and you wouldn’t know it. 1 in 3 women experience it, 1 in 6 men experience it. (As a survivor I hate being called resilient, we didn’t have a choice)
@@Jaded42O Very true and yes I know how common this is amongst family especially. It’s just terrible. So so terrible.
Maaaam....did they really become resilient tho....they all had drug problems, run in with the law. Bobby literally contracted hiv and died in prison.....resilience???????? Shid Chico still dealing with legal trouble
@@kindred42 I was not talking about the DeBarges specifically and exclusively. However even with their problems, it’s still incredible to me that they are trying, yes some more than others, to get better. They went through THE WORST trauma that a child could ever go through for years. They were totally betrayed by their mother and father. So they tried to cope with it the best way they knew how. I still see that as resilience.Though it’s obviously the worst form of resilience and has proved to be very detrimental to them.
All those kids are drug addicts!! They’re all messed up thanks to the mom not leaving the abusive dad!
I just saw an interview that Chico did and he said the step-dad used to beat the brakes off of him!!! Wow, that mom was wack for allowing her kids to get beat.
Dam ...this was deep...has the mother ever taken accountability for her stupidity and weakness?
As SOON as you said Robert got a job as a truck driver, my first thought was 'Oh, he had another family'. VERY common back then.
😂😂
Lol
And nowadays...lol...
Most of 'Em are extremely Unfaithful.
Very common now too 🤦🏾♀️
That monster father caused all this destruction, it’s sick, disturbing and soul crushing. I feel so bad for those kids. They should have been taken away from the parents. Those parents should be in prison.
N Etterlene
And the mother
He was a Bigoted White Demon who married a Black Girl to have Biracial Children that he could exploit and abuse. He truly committed some horrible and EVIL Acts on them.
Both of them
So basically Robert and Eterline both had issues within from their upbringing which made for a very turbulent life and marriage. It's so sad. I remember watching the Unsung and it was horrible. My heart goes out to their children.
GIRL! YOU DID A GREAT JOB WITH THIS STORY! ❤
There's no doubt in my mind that their mother knew that their dad was molesting those kids. I think she was just relieved to not be the target of his wrath. You pretty much confirmed that for me with the tuck n roll story where she jumped out of the car and left the kids. Her safety and well-being came before anybody else's.
Their mother is as sick as their father. Don't know if they passed yet but when they do the devil will be waiting
Y, those kind always wants a lot of kids, just to make them suffer,,she's an example what not to do.....sickening,!!!!
I agree because unt unt as a mother once I heard about the other lil girl he would’ve never beeen around
I believe that too. She knew what was happening and did not care because she wanted that man around.
He would have been dead had he been my molesting my children. End of story.This is awful. The entire story was on TH-cam, one of the sisters told the story prior to this young lady's story telling. Just sad.
I really just want more black people to realize that you cannot hide behind God and the church for everything. In order to see an actual change (or miracle) you have to put in the work yourself. She should’ve left but instead she was so insecure she accepted whatever was given to her which was Robert and he prayed on that. I really feel for these children they deserved better.
Not only that but those baptist christians back then, and some still today, including pastors and ministers of those church’s would convince the women to stay with their abusers because it’s what God wanted and expected. So many women are DEAD because of that religion and it’s practices. Sad really, because God wouldn’t want that for anyone. I can’t get down with religion because people has distorted the word of God and accept evil💯💯hypocritical
I agree
I agree she ran to cogic and left the kids in his hands to abuse
Well said...agree 💯 perfect.
If only CPS had existed then.
Abusers NEVER change. This is just horrible what the DeBarge children had to endure as children. The longer their mother stayed with their abusive father the worst it became. I like the way Ashley tells this true story. It kept me watching until the very end of this video.
The mother is just as much to blame as the dad, she knew what was happening in her home 🤬
Damn! Bob DeBarge makes Joe Jackson seem like a saint!
Agree 💯
Right!
I am very sad to have to agree.
Joe Jackson wasn’t nothing like him please stop
Agreed
I've NEVER liked Etterline DeBarge! She's always given me "Pick Me" vibes even before it was a saying! I have NO RESPECT for a woman who doesn't protect her children from an abusive father!
I've heard about the S.A. that Robert Sr. perpetrated upon his children, and what happened between the children. I wouldn't be surprised if Bobby and Bunny had an unnatural relationship. It's what they were taught by their father! I'm triggered, but not because it's happened to me, because I hate to hear about anything happening to innocent children.
I am awaiting part 2, though! You've got me biting my acrylics girl! Great job as usual!
Oh yeah Tennille I read somewhere in article about the debarges. The father forced the children to have sex with each other and Bobby raped his brothers James and Tommy. El became a father at the age of 15. Its been said El was hypersexual teenager maybe because of the sexual abuse in the home. Its also been said El doesn't like to talk about certain things in the debarge upbringing. The debarge has serious generational curse. Chico debarge son was murdered last year in Sherman Oakes, CA. The young man was homeless. El debarge oldest son El Jr. has talked against his father on Instagram how he was absentee father and slept with one of his girlfriends and got her pregnant. It's complete mess in the debarge family Its just sad Tennille. The debarge siblings have so much jealousy against El because he became the star of the group.
I never liked Etterline either. When I see the Debarges paying tribute to her, I side eye because she is part of the reason the whole family is damaged. I’ve never heard her publicly apologize for letting that evil man abuse her kids.
My sentiments exactly 🎯🎯🎯
Honestly I do have some feelings about their mother letting their father do those things but at the same time I do understand that she herself was abused by him. She also seemed to have a lot of pride, she had her family to help her but went back to him because of pride.
@@crystalcormier9376 I've heard about El and his escapades before too. Now, I didn't know about the son's girlfriend getting pregnant by him before! Just scandalous!😵😵😵 Bobby hated James because he was Robert's favorite child. So he all but killed him as a kid. Just crazy stuff!
I'm so thankful for my family and my upbringing when I hear stories like this. I NEVER had to worry about someone doing something to me like that. I've gotten maybe 3/4 spankings as a kid combined from mom, dad and both sets of grandparents. I never had to see my mom being abused, and my home was full of love and laughter. I always say I grew up in a lunatic asylum and the patients (us kids) were running it. And I wouldn't change it for the world! Everyone was always at my maternal grandparents house because they knew they'd get a great meal and some good laughs. Any day of the week, someone extra had their feet under Gran's table and she was more than happy to have them. I wish everyone grew up like I did. I think we'd have so much less crime and violence in our community if the children were loved as much as we were. Don't get me wrong, none of the adults were to be played with...ESPECIALLY Gran! But there wasn't abuse of any kind going on there. She beat up one of my mom's friend's mother for beating her child so badly she was hospitalized for 4 weeks with multiple broken bones. My grandma said she wanted Daisy (false name) to feel that same pain Karen (false name) did. And boy did she! The only reason my grandma stayed outta jail was because Daisy's ass didn't want to go for what she'd done, and she knew Gran would be honest about the reason behind the assault. But let me stop talking lol. I'm just hoping part 2 doesn't take forever!
All this started with a wrong number. Whew...
Etterlene should have been jailed along with Robert !
"In his younger days he was a looker." Proceeds to post creep vibe picture. No ma'am!😂😂
I agree 👹🤛
😩😅
Exactly. I busted out laughing.
White women didn't want his creepy ass
@@laurieb.9555 😫😂😂😂 omggg
This one literally brings me to tears. Those poor children trapped With those crazy, sick parents!
The truth is once again confirmed that no matter how talented, beautiful, rich a person or persons may seem to be to be, you never know how much pain, sorrow, our misery they are suffering.
Me too. I had to shut this one off in the middle. Then I came back to watch the rest. I couldnt cope with what those kids went through. All of that glitter and fame seems to cover up a whole lot of pain from an early age.
I had to pause it too. It affected me for the rest of the day... so sad
This is so true.
This story had me so outraged at the level of abuse inflicted by both parents to their children. Undoubtedly, the most despicable, heinous, tragic and depressing story I have ever heard. Even if 1/100th of the story is true, both parents needed to be committed to an asylum or given a life sentence for child abuse. Robert Sr.'s mother warned her......smdh.
Robert literally treated his wife like a bed slave... If he could put them babies on a plantation, he would have
Classic Bedwench syndrome...dam sad
This needs to be a Netflix series with at least 3 seasons
A scary movie
@Freckles There was a made for TV movie.
@@donnadallas3029 That movie wasn't good at all and it was about Bobby. They didn't even talk or show alot in the movie.
@Freckles I think people want more justice done to their story and go into depth of everything Ashley mentioned essentially. I watched it although I wasn’t a fan it covers some parts in a jumpy way x
Yessss I’m here for it.
This messed my whole afternoon up. Man I heard the dad molested them but to hear the details and to hear they started to molest each other is just beyond devastating. And the mother...what a piece of TRASH! Thank you for the review Ashley! ❤
I know the dad did it to some of the kids but the kids did it to each other?
@@alri97 yea I can only imagine that once your parent does something like that to you, there really aren’t any boundaries left. Such a depressing story. I feel so sorry for all of them. ❤️
Same
Yep. The details get pretty raw.
S....mmm...ddd...head. Hard to LISTEN to.
Im sorry but that “hey listen blacky “ took me out 😂😂😂
"Listen Blackie"...I'm dead...🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Bobby DeBarge is a whole episode alone. Bonnie..El.. even his favorite James carried this abuse with them throughout their lives. Drug issues.. impulsive and it's said they would fight at the drop of a hat. Fight one.. fight them all
@DB Lewis here's the shake up, James was the father's favorite child with barely no abuse from him. Instead the abuse James suffered came from the Bobby Jr (Switch) as kids due to jealousy because of all the love, spoiling and attention the father gave James more than Bobby Jr causing him to project that same abuse their Father did to him onto James 😢. Serial killer and sociopath runs basically in that family household.
Lol, " Robert Debarge, A Looker", girl you got jokes. The UNIBROW gave his insanity away!
I didn’t want to be rude but I said “She must have done this while it was late cause Ashley must be sleepy” 🤣🤣🤣 he look like your basic white military man from that time
He looks like George Bush's cousin.
That's what the folks told me🤣🤣🤣 I just went by the TEA😭😭😂😂😂
Tyard OvdaBull , You saw the same thing I saw when I saw the unibrow. Special is as Special does.
I was gonna say... the man looked like Nosferatu.
Words cannot describe how shocking and saddening I have felt for days after watching a father and others live without setting boundaries. So much damage done to children at very young ages and wickedness passed down from generation to generation.😢😢😭😭😭😭
Despite the fact that you called that filthy, disgusting, hideous father HANDSOME, I overlooked that and truly feel that this video is stellar! The DeBarge family story is heart wrenching, and often serves as a cautionary tale for those who jump into these particular type of relationships, smh.
Her calling him handsome is just a part of the narrative and how she's presenting the story. I don't think it's her personal feeling.
@@balston113 Sure you incel simp
Um, two things can be true at once: he was handsome and he was a sick f***! Case and point, Ted Bundy. Bad people can have good looks. 🤷🏾♀️
Amen the father looks like a demon
Can you imagine how different their lives would be if the right Robert answered the phone. Robert number 2 deceived her from the the moment he got on the phone and Eterline fell for it from day one. This story is just too much. Gee wiz.
Right. Satan deceived her.
True..only thing is only mother E's life would change,not the kids..becuz if the other Robert answered the phone..the Debarge kids wouldn't have been born. (But seriously soo sad and tragic that they had to live in this household of trauma..cuz seriously it's just soo crazy to believe,soo sad their parent's failed them..😔)
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Facts
Robert, Sr. and Etterline, Sr. are utter disgraces. Prayers to the DeBarge siblings continued healing.🙏🏽
They messed them kids up
Very disgusting and will answer to god
The Mom knows best... She tried to warn her ‼️💯 Crazy is REALLY REAL‼️
“Hey listen, Blackie…”😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mannnn if a mother warns you about their own child you, better “look deep before you leap”- Judge Mabelline…
You actually feel sorry for a man when his own mama doesnt believe in him!! You still are not supposed to marry him
the mom does kinda actually look like mabeline
@@anthonyjohnson8971 She does! I never thought about it.
First flag, he lied about himself. Second flag, he came up to her house despite her asking him not to..
Ikr
The DeBarge Family had more talent than the law allows, and more tragedy and sadness than the heart can handle.
The DeBarge Family makes The Jackson Family look like The Osmonds.
Both parents should've been under the prison, absolutely horrific and definitely demonic.
I wonder how life would have turned out if the originally intended black Robert would have answered the phone when she called….
Sounds white Robert’s mom tried to warn Etterlene…😔
She should have listen to his mom
Right
That’s a good question
I’ve wondered that too, but If black Robert had answered the phone, we wouldn’t have had the legendary DeBarge family. I guess something good still came out of that terrible marriage.
Right, she knew he was inbread and insane like the rest of their family.
I always have empathy for a woman whose in a domestically abusive relationship.
That empathy disappears, once she subjects her children to the abuse.
Once you give life to a child, your priority is to PROTECT that child. Period.
Amen, Amen, your life is no longer your own xXo ✝️💝
Exactly!!
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I said the same thing. She had a huge family, & on unsung it reported her brother's beat up that devil (husband) & demanded she leave with her kids to their home & she refused. Then she got pregnant by him again, & the abuse continued 🤦🏽♀️😢
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I heard stories here and there, but never knew their story was thisssss bad. Omg so awful. How could they still talk to their mom after all that. Now I truly understand the drug and criminal lifestyle they engaged in. My heart goes out to all the kids.
😱😱😱...I had to watch this in pieces. I cried so hard when you talked about Bobby. I just couldn't listen. 💛💛💛 This is what makes people turn from God. There's no way anyone deserves this treatment. 😭
If I was the debarge kids I wouldn't have a relationship with the mother.
I was thinking the same thing. Especially Bunny.
Makes me not believe these stories they tell cuz ain’t no way I would even deal with the mother
I have worked with abused children before, even where the mama traded her young daughter for drugs, and these children still love their parents, smh. It's so heartbreaking 💔
I think they have probably lied to themselves about who she is and since that's their mother they're going to hold on to that.
Yep I completely disown both of them. There are certain times where forgiveness may not be an option. As soon as I was 18 I’d have to part ways
Two ways she could have protected her children... 1) He gotta go to sleep sometime 2) I would be the only one preparing his meals...he would have a very 'special' dinner.... :)
Can't detect ground glass...
@@girlinterrupted9792 That part!
@@girlinterrupted9792 What? Wait hold on... Tell me more 🤔
I always say Ya gotta eat and ya gotta sleep.
O maam once my children is touched you are deceased she suppose to handled that there asap because if nobody else gonna do it my kids gonna know its past war behind them I just don't understand when she did finally leave she went back to him ughhhh
This is one of the most craziest stories anyone in history have heard
Perfect example of how you never know what a person is going through behind closed doors. The pictures of the kids with their parents and smiling all big, one would never guess they were in trouble.
The million dollar question is, was the mom really going to church. We had to go to church every time my mom was at church. Often times we did not want to go to church but had too. The daughter wanted to go to church begged her mother and she choose not to take her to church. This seems so odd when many black kids growing up in her daughter time, had to go to church and you have a child begging to go and mom still won’t take her to church. This crazy and sad
True I thought that was strange too
This part. We literally had to be dragged to church as kids when we didn't want to.
I thought that was strange, too. Mamas kept their kids in church eventhough the father hardly went.
She wasn’t! She was leaving so he could abuse them children!
The whole time I was thinking the same thing. It makes me wonder did she leave them there knowing what he'd do because remember she knew about the other girl being molested. Like she wanted him to stay so bad that she allowed this mess to occur. I feel very ill as a result of hearing these details. I heard this before but not in this details. SMH!
Why didn’t she take her children to Church with her? Why did she leave her children alone with this monster. How could she have TEN CHILDREN with this sadistic psycho!!! I am so disgusted with what happened to them.
Robert Debarge makes Joe Jackson look like an angel
Both are bad.
All Etterline needed was a good old fashion cast iron skillet.
Hot grits
I'm disgusted. How the hell can someone put their children through so much torment? Why even have kids if you know that you truly don't want them? This is sickening
I need therapy just from watching this video....I was like no mo...tea please...no more!!!!
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Me too!! Damn!!
Me too ..so sad ....
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So sad 😔 this broke tears to my eyes
Why do you give me Patti LaBelle Vibes!!! Recently found your channel, and am enjoying your content. Chile…..these singers and artists were wild in their day!!!
Welcome to Ashley SaysSo 😁
Women and men have that issue STILL...the self hate is rampant.
8 years ago when I used to do para-trasit here in San Bernardino, CA. Tommy DeBarge was one of our clients that we transported to dialysis every other day. He was such a grouchy person. But after I told him how much I loved his and his family's music he warmed up to me a little. That's when he told me about his book "They'll Never Be"...I finally understood his bitterness and mean disposition.
Damn that is soooo sad
Wooow
This is a sad 😞 story and their mother deserves the pits of hell!!!!! Mother is supposed to protect you’re kids
@@ummmouhamad10 EXACTLY!!!!
Yeah I can believe it cause Tommy's book Is tragic...very hard to digest and even harder to put down
Storytelling skills are A1, do your thing girl, can't wait for part 2.
Robert Sr. @ 25:54 looks just like “Grandpa Munster” (without makeup) from the 1960’s show-The Munsters. But, Robert was in fact a real life monster full spectrum.
This couple destroyed their children and their children children. Ettelene is as guilty as her husband. Most victims of child abuse often evolve into nothingness, no matter how brilliant, how talented or how successful, they eventually self destruct. Some become perpetrators as well. We need to pray for these victims.These monsters murder the souls of their kids. This warrants the same penalty as physical murder.
Exactly I now see why bobby acted the way he did in the movie
From my personal experience,
Mentally emotionally and spiritually broken , recurring thoughts . That will never go away . It's genocide of my soul / sprit
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And the worst mother award goes to...Ettelene!!!!
Ndeed. Bobby sexually abused n abused his brother too
Mrs.Debarge needs to go to jail I don't care if her pathetic behind is 85 years old. This story outraged me 😡
We would have got together and beat Dad ASS
She too old now what the CO's gonna do with an 80 plus woman back there.They ain't got time to keep up with her.Hell is waiting.You don't protect your gifts (kids) and thinks she is gonna waltz her way up in heaven.Lets see if she can sing her way pass "God" Probably gonna bust hell wide open.Need to go sit down and be praying over her soul.Thats called Repentance.
karma will finish her
but the father don't need to go to jail huh? take him to Disneyland since he did nothing wrong
@@she45namify Um that's not what I meant first of all the father is dead so what are you talking about?
The mother thought that she was slick she'll want to tell on her own kids so that their dad could deal with them with abuse instead of bothering her!!
AIN'T NO WAY I would stay with a man cheating on me beating on me BEATING ON MY BABIES I WOULD HAVE LEFT HIS 🤬🤬 She didn't protect her children AT ALL
I read Bunny and Tommy's books and everything you're reporting seems right on track. I pray for this family often. So much talent and so much deep, trauma. This is an entire case study. I'd love to see Etterline on Iyanla with some accountability. I understand the times, and the abuse, then add unaddressed mental illness (even post-partum) and religious deflection...(and back then women couldn't get homes, bank accounts or cars without men)...HOWEVER...those children had NO covering or protection...horrific. There is some, clear mental instability from both parents. That father was absolutely sick AND perverse. Unbelievable.
I just went ahead and bought the books because ppl kept messaging me and saying whoever told you the story got the info from these books so I was like let me buy these books and read them when I have a chance. Out of the few pages I've read it seems like alot of this gossip is true and that is absolutely horrible. I would have rather it was gossip than true things. I knew before research that they were abused but not to the extent of what they truly went through. I have to say I'm happy they're still standing strong through it all because this is just a true mess.
This man was a devil! Sick & Perverse doesn't describe this man accurately!
The daddy wasn't even providing. She was sick just like him
I read she, Etterline was getting a reality show or going to be apart of one
Etterline wouldn't have no to choice to stay with her toxic husband because it would extremely difficult for her to take care of all her 10 kids by herself and as a black woman during that time period it be very difficult for her even a having decent to support them financially. She had no choice and she did called the cops on him for not only abusing his kids but also abusing her too and since he was a white man, the cops didn't arrest or charge him assault or rape.
I’m related to the DeBarge’s I am too young to know what is true or false. However, a lot of people forget how talented they were/are! Your story telling skill are amazing 🤍
Related how?? Which one was your parent??
No one and I mean no one forgot how talented they are. That’s why they are so polarizing and we still talk about them to this day. We’re shook at how such a talented family endured so much.
@@opulence_prime definitely... it's often said that those with the most talent endure the most crap.
Thank you so much and I'm so grateful for your comment one thing I can say about your family is that they are strong💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
no one forgets their talent. they LEGENDS. periodt
When the mama tells you, you better listen!!!
I remember seeing their story on TV One years ago it was the most heart wrenching sad story I've ever heard. Very impactful. You would never know they was going through this because they were always so happy go lucky in their videos.
I've heard of this story but not this much detail. I'm overwhelmed I started to pray! That is a lot. I know this was long time ago but I'm still praying for them. It's so disgusting
SO disgusting. I honestly feel for the kids.
Etterline had so much self-hate to the point where she welcomed the abuse from her crazy, racist husband because she was a pick me who wanted biracial children and I feel that she hated her kids because she sacrificed them to her husband. Robert was disgusting and depraved, Etterline was disgusting and sick, and the children were tortured and groomed to become sick, that's why they had so many drug & legal issues throughout their lives. I HATE women who have children and refuse to protect them.
Preach!!! You do know this isn’t the last abusive marriage Etterline gets into and puts the man above her kids.
I agree 💯
Exactly, unnatural N wicked.
@@Shortlady82 Now this I didn't know, but I'm not surprised. It's just so sad that anyone has to go through type of torment.
@@yardiebabe oh yes and it’s alleged that Robert Sr was whoopin Etterlene’s ass before they got married.
You are incredible gifted at telling these stories. You make it look easy. Great job!!
I’m truly disturbed after hearing this. I loved this family when I was coming up. This completely saddened me!😢