I'm Angry and Invisible...And No One Cares
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ก.ค. 2022
- I'm Angry and Invisible...And No One Cares
On today's video Hafeez addresses all the young men who are hurting in today's world and needs a message of support and encouragement.
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Dear men, you are not invisible; you are a person with dignity, value, respect and decency. Now that you are seen, let's be great.
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In history women weren't allowed to vote. Weren't allowed to college. There are still countries that forbid female education. Imagine all the hate that was created because of that. All the hate that is caused by men who sexually assaulted women.
Thank you for your kind words, Hafeez. Every video you do gives me a sense of inspiration. Keep up the good work and I will put this into practice.
I thought being invisible sucked. Then when I hear about the drama and nonsense, I start to appreciate the being invisible to others.
for real Bro lol that is one way to look at the cup half full for sure.
exactly. we're not missing out on anything. just gotta live life and create your own world to live in.
Wow, this sounds like my story. Every relationship I’ve had, friends, siblings, or potential relationships, I’ve initiated the communication. No one ever calls me and I feel no one cares. I feel alone. When I lost my mom, I lost the only person who would talk to me.
Same here, man. Before I figured out how to survive and even be happy (not just saying that, I actually feel pretty decent most of the time), it was daily torture.
Yeah pretty much no one initiates contact with me.
The only time people call me is to ask for money. My own daughter don't call. My dad was the only person I could call he died this past September
If nobody wants to talk to you then u may be the problem
I can acknowledge that Candice and thanks to my renewed faith in God and learning how to value myself. I don’t care who loves me, I’m not here to satisfy anyone. Plus, you’re not a man and won’t ever understand.
The child that's not embraced by the village the child will burn it down to feel its warmth - old african proverb
Hmm...deep
I agree
After hearing what Hafeez is saying, I realize now why I was jealous of the popular kids. It wasn't that I wanted to be popular, but it's because I wanted to be noticed and to know whether or not someone actually cared
Been having a couple bad days recently. Absolutely needed to hear this today. Thank you.
“Tough moments doesn’t last but tough people do”
Love this!
Demi demi
There is a level beyond this as well. When your life is filled with purpose and you feel the weight of responsibility that comes along with it, you quickly stop caring about who sees you or hears your cries. You become selfless in pursuit of that higher purpose. Perhaps it is ironic that people actually see and respect that.
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I will still say it depends on personality. No matter what your calling is. You still will care about people liking you. Heck I'm in med school and I still care about my friendships
Is this why it’s important to move out of your parents house?
It's ok to cry, tough times don't last for long, you got this!
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To quote Scott Hall "hark work pays off, dreams do come true. Bad times don't last, but bad guys do"
Couldnt even if i wanted to
Amen brother
The harsh reality. Not something to complain about just something to notice and work with.
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Being man is a constant up hill battle. I try to develop the same mindset as a Navy SEAL, to go through life's problems.
Try being a woman who has no right to vote, no right for education and independance. Try it out and see what uphill that was for women.
You think women have forgotten what men have done? Men will pay for everything you have done.
@@reenaree1953 Be thankful you live in America.
In america's history women didn't have the right to vote and go to colleges. Learn history. Karma is teaching men.
@@reenaree1953 true, it did happen. Should men who had nothing to do with womens oppression in the past, pay the price now? Should you go to jail because you're grandpa committed a crime? Just like North Korea.
Where we are today is determined by the history. Also all the sexual assaults men have done, this leads to somewhere. Karma does exist. Start realizing this and you will grow.
Karma doesn't put you in jail for grandfather's crime but it hurts until you realize what men have done. All of it.
Had a lil melt down yesterday in the car. This is right on time.
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Tired of fefails huh f&f 😒only get them
I was invisible for a long time until I took on some sales jobs and read a ton of books on socializing. Thank you for reminding me of my humble beginnings because there have been times where I see socially inept men acting like I used to for attention, sometimes even worse, and I attack them for it. Some may deserve to be put in their place to know their behaviour isn't acceptable, but most often than not, they just need compassion. The kind of which I've learned to give to my past self.
What do you mean when say socially inept men? Like what do they do for attention
Like Brill said in Enemy Of The State:-
"If they're big and you're small, then you're mobile and they're slow. You're hidden and they're exposed. You only fight battles you know you can win."
There ARE perks to being invisible, find them and take advantage of them. Oh and REMEMBER when you do become visible, don't EVER EVER EVER give those people the time of day, because they weren't there for you when you needed them.
just know as a man nobody is coming to rescue you either you put in the work to become better or be stuck in the same position
everything you have said is basically my life i was just born with bad luck probably or a curse that makes me invisible to others especially females it sucks man 😞 only those that have been through or are going through hell will understand me…
I understand you man, just don't give up and find a way to better yourself,as a 24 year old man I want to encourage you brother.
@@lifeafterkings6315 thanks brother appreciate it 🙏🏼
@@lifeafterkings6315 I as well...
Finally this dude's getting back to content that doesn't alienate the people that made his channel grow by supporting them.
Even from a business standpoint all that elitist content lately and negative attitude to their own community made no sense.
It was literally like if this were a fitness channel and the coach started shitting on the audience full of obese people for being lazy, but the coach grew up with a father who was also a trainer and also happened to have the genetic disposition to have the drive to get in great shape. I personally don't need this type of content anymore, but happy to see it on behalf of the others here who I'm sure do need it and will need it for the rest of their lives. Not everyone is meant to "level up" and that's fine, different priorities and talents; and quite frankly those who will "level up" are likely out there doing it on their own.
You summed up my views on the recent direction of the channel.
True comment-
and you are correct
-levelling up can only be achieved by one self -tbh
Pretty much just accepting folks to stay in their lane, cause seems like society keeps trying to either force men to change lanes when it is unnecessary or zombiefied them to stay in the lane instead of genuinely wanting and needing to stay on that path way and nothing wrong with that tbh
Genetic disposition for Drive? You seriously delusional with excuses. Drive isn’t genetic. It’s pure heart. Stop bitching and work. Everyone can level up. Most choose not to. You make your own choice.
Thank you! You described my opinion on this channel
I do feel for men in today’s world. You’re somehow supposed to navigate a world where you’re supposed to “be a man” but without all that “masculine energy”. Women will say time and again “I don’t need a man”, but we do need good, real, masculine men, it is what makes us whole with our divine feminine and let’s each party shine to be their best selves and always strive for improvement in all the vast areas of life.
Thank you for posting this video the good side of social media to see I needed to hear this 💯
Long time no see, Hafeez. Thanks for the help, man.
Thank you my friend. It really rings a bell🙏 I'm a father taking care off my son alone.
But the loneliness is making me crumbles. No family left, but luckily a few good friends
I needed to hear this message. Thank you
I love this! Someone needs to hear this!
This the content we need Feez!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
Dude it's called CHARISMA
And that can be learned.
Man is born with it!
This the content we need Feez!!!
Thanks, good message
Thank you for the message king
On the plus side, if to be removed from society means you become invisible, then you have nothing to lose. It's irrelevant. Too many people seek attention, when actually you can enjoy total freedom and really notice the world, as opposed to the tiny slither of obsessive attention you give to women, status, or social situations, thus ignoring the truly amazing things. While everyone is busy getting married or having their fiftieth baby, the loner contemplates the world on their terms. The trade off is you don't get to argue the toss with another person. But I don't see that as such. To me, it's about choice. We all have autonomy. Let's not devolve in to a victim hood. Embrace and enjoy. I do.
Great insights around visibility; thanks for sharing!
Thank you Soo much for this video I really needed this today 💯💯💯
Keep on doing this great job! Congrats!
Your words are nice bro, thank you.
Literally found this video when I am indeed suffering from past few months. The idea of the hero you depicted is what I want to become one day! As always thanks for this video.
You are seen.
Powerful message to the men
Great message
It’s like your speaking to my soul. I have to improve myself
thank you, sir, for the video.
Sometimes life is better with a smaller circle, as long as those fewer people are consistent.
Such a good video my brother!
Ngl I think the roommates is the most underrated channel, you guys give such good advice and my favourite playlist is the big brother series that changed my life.
When you give someone love who you think deserves it the least, THEN you'll be a man of God
The fact that The Roommates only get 11-20k views per video SHOWS the mentality of men today. At this point, however young men of today end up by age 55 is 100% on them. This channel is doing everything they can to help, empathize, and give practical solutions.
My guy, dropping jewels 💯
Fantastic video 👍🏿
Great video 👌
Saddest thing is that if all the unnoticeable men perish and die....no one will notice....but God only. The hardest thing is accepting that you were born alone....and you will die alone...
Great video
The only options we have are to push ourselves to succeed and be the best we possibly can, or let life pass us by and die one day without having ever really lived
I'm 16 and this hurts, supposed to be chillin with homies and pulling girls but instead nobody even talks to me
I need not notoriety. I’m good.
Forget the notoriety I rather have my finances straight and be lowkey without no one noticing me
Great video. We want to feel seen and heard, humans need authentic connection. I think the reason men especially struggle with this is two fold: male friendships often don't involve enough deep connections that focus on supporting one another emotionally, and two that men feel stigma in getting and asking for help, and when they finally do the resources are often not well built up enough. We definitely need more men becoming therapist, teachers, spiritual leaders, support groups, ect.. Investing and building up our communities in ways that count.
In history, women weren't seen: women didn't have the right to vote, the right to get education etc etc. Imagine men can't go to schools and can't vote. That would be fair.
@@reenaree1953 true, I definitely don't think we can overlook how much additional oppression and subjugation women went through and continue to go through. building strong relationships and mutual aid helps everyone.
Exactly. Also all the sexual assaults men have done to women, thoughout history, this will not be forgotten. Men must redeem all the suffering they caused, until then there is no peace. Karma.
(July 21)
Word of the Day: Iconoclast
Iconoclast originally referred to someone who destroys religious images or who opposes their veneration. It is now used to refer broadly to anyone who attacks widely accepted beliefs or institutions.
From Merriam-Webster
OK this is an eye opener bcuz men seems to be short in supply and more desired, so this is surprising that "so many men are suffering", hope they can find their worth and purpose and become heard and visible in Christ the Saviour of the world. It's hard to find a good man so it seems both ways we have a crisis. God help us.
I felt like this through school and work. Being an INFJ explains a lot.
I’m going to die a nobody and I’m ok with it. I won’t however take my own life because of my pain depression is just going to have to beat me.
my kind advice is, the reason you are invisible is not so much that society rejects you, but you also reject those who are like you. you do not have to be part of the so called social grand scheme, get together and create your own, you don't have to be lonely
In USA there were time when women had no right to vote, no right to go to college. Imagine this. Men, you should live that life in return. Karma teaches men their own medicine.
@@reenaree1953 do you know there was a time when not all men could vote too, besides there are more women who are lonely,
@@Mindandbodysports
Actually the stats on who dies alone say different.
I'm 36 I've felt this way at least 15 years
We as men desire freedom to pursue the enjoyment and peace of life. I hope you all are able to feed into this important craving over the ones that drag down the soul and continue to pursue them (even through weakness) with the help of God.
Ones anger is their own responsibility to sort it out
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Flying under the radar has it's advantages
When I tell women what I go through they say I’m lying. Women cannot believe me when I say I’ve never even gotten a woman’s number in my 33 years of life.
I will forever be invisible I’m just another lost soul who wasn’t meant to be on earth
Yup, just extreme anger constantly. I actually do talk about being invisible/ not existing alllllll the time because people literally don’t even see me haha and nobody listens to anything I say much less consider my ideas. People at my work don’t even respond when I arrive and say hi 😂 but it’s ok invisibility has helped my criminal life
This is the man that gets all the women!
It's 2024 and I am 24, I decided to quit my job on the 23/02/24, because in that Job I can't handle it I feel sick to my core to stay there. So I decided to dedicate my focus and my energy full time on trading, had 2 years experience and I don't know how things will turn out to be and I feel very lonely on this path. I will come back to this comment and update how I'm doing. Those who can see me thank you I appreciate you seeing me. I wish you all the best in life.
You can even be medium and top tier guy and not be noticed nowadays. I'm definitely top tier and feel fully expendable.
Lord put it on my heart if anyone reads this stop what your doing and just pray don’t stop till you feel the Holy Spirit tell you to If you end up praying the whole day thats fine because the Lord needs us all to come together around the world to pray today in Jesus name I pray Amen
learn to care about yourself, guys.
As a women listening to this ! Men are just not appreciated enough !🥰🇬🇧
👤 'Those who cast out from the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.'
-African proverb
Invisibility is bad enough but I'd rather have that than pure and utter contempt is another.
At least invisibility has some perks while the look of disgust or bitterness from someone who can't tolerate sharing the same earth with them is just a crumbling feeling from the rejected.
Damn….
Invisibility has its advantages. 🙂
So what is the solution for these type of men?
Growing?
Obviously. But if you are alone, and you dont have any friends?
Forget it, its impossible. Human beings are social creatures. We need people around us. Atleast family.
Baby steps bro. Join clubs, classes, schools, meet ups, sports, etc. You are not alone in feeling lonely, the biggest obstacle is getting out of your comfort zone and trying out these things - becoming a regular at it. But when it comes to making friends, that shit's way easier because most people out there are feeling lonely, bored, and will be glad if you approach them and get their number to make plans to hang out later.
@@zukondis this is my point bro.
Before trying to grow as a person, find some people to be with, so you are not alone.
What was the solution for women when they had no right to vote and no right for education? How did women feel? You think women have forgotten all this and all the sexual assaults men have done?
Think again.
Being alone is pure peace as you don't have to listen to people's moaning and problems
Y’all better buy them suits 🤣
If you didn’t know who Drake or Justin Bieber were would there still be a spotlight on them when they walk into a room? Doubt it…
This pep talk is irrelevant because it does not override observable reality.
Don't be invisible be visible
Be invisible and lead a ninja life.
Don't be invisible be invincible
Work in silence MEN
You gotta go hardd & then all the praise will come…
i like being invisible :)
You are a brothers keepa.
I would hardly call Justin Beiber or Drake a "top man" 🤮.
That's cause there famous people that live on TV'S, I care less for famous people and what they bring etc.....this topic for men that want to be known famous wit billion dollars 🤣😂.....
Jesus was a great man
For all my brothers, become a passport bro if you have the income means.
MUCH BETTER prospects from happiness, dating, QoL?
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invisible to whom? the beautiful and sexy woman? or the good woman who is normal looking?
Men, is it true that you want a woman that will help you become a better person?
I am angry & bitter ….at the age 27 … I’m not fat nor ugly but it’s tough out here 💯
God cares and Jesus will talk to the broken. America is a lonely place but so is London but Jesus of Nazareth is the answer and the local Church family
why compare the famous to the everyday man? put on something that makes u stand out. I bet you wont be invisible no more.
1. get better and stop complaining
or
2. keep complaining and do nothing
or
3. blackpill cope, accept it and move on.
Men need to move beyond being mummy’s baby
Immigration status (social leprosy)
No one cares😢
What a lie stop scaring people
Bullshit .your talking about bullshit