The Biggest Turn Off For Every Woman

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  • @TheRoommatesPodcast
    @TheRoommatesPodcast  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watch the full episode: th-cam.com/video/MuHuDN4TmaQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @timothydamoulis2574
    @timothydamoulis2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I think basically the whole idea can just be simplified into - respect yourself, value yourself and then you will be respected by others.

  • @Thatbul
    @Thatbul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Nice guys and good guys aren’t the same. There is something called nice guy syndrome. It’s when your lacking in certain things so you use being a nice guy as a way to make up for whatever your lacking.

    • @Introvertedalpha
      @Introvertedalpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing your insights.

    • @sammywilliams6
      @sammywilliams6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah you can just be a pure hearted human you tweakin why do you have to be lackin in some way huh? People these days just lack knowledge to me and most likely it’s financially why men call there selves a nice guy or seem nicer to women 😂😂😂

    • @Kenneth181
      @Kenneth181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People who are not nice,kind, or considerate aren’t good. It’s not to say your evil or bad but you can’t be good if you’re not nice, kind, and considerate of others.

    • @Thatbul
      @Thatbul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sammywilliams6 when I say lacking, I mean they probably not up their when it comes to looks, height, charisma, physical attractiveness.

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...Lacking in WHAT exactly?

  • @malcolmmascoll8419
    @malcolmmascoll8419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Some say I’m a nice guy, others say I’m a narcissist. Don’t lose sleep over any of this guys

  • @Samuel_Oluwadamilare
    @Samuel_Oluwadamilare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The dumpling analogy... 🎯 Hidden wickedness. This happened to me, she will swallow you emotionally, mentally and spiritually, she was also an expert at doing this, took me years to figure it out. Never underestimate women. The enemy you don't see can completely destroy your life. Keep your family relationships in check with a selfish but empathetic mind, so you don't lose balance, know when and how to cut off, timing is everything.

  • @truthbearer7891
    @truthbearer7891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Biggest turnoff for men is when they see a girl dressed so classy looking like wife material only to go to her IG to see she’s for the streets 🙃

    • @satorsaeed
      @satorsaeed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn right

    • @Comfy_Sleepyz
      @Comfy_Sleepyz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hey its female nature bro she tryna get that attention and validation🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @sunshinemoon7075
      @sunshinemoon7075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U for the street’s. Not confident to be with a beautiful woman.😆😆😆

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunshinemoon7075 Rather be with a less beautiful woman than with a beautiful hoe

  • @rocklandcompanies2765
    @rocklandcompanies2765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Since KS passed, content pumped by Hafeez has been 75 percent Jaxn-esque pandering, 25 percent selling suits. Dont kill the messenger, just calling it how I see it.

  • @Ryan-Horgan
    @Ryan-Horgan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    'Don't ask a fish how to catch a fish. Ask the fisherman'

    • @alejandromelendez1609
      @alejandromelendez1609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is how you know someone did not watch the video. A lot of the things she said would also be said by the fisherman.

    • @sportegrity
      @sportegrity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@alejandromelendez1609 but the advice is coming from a “fish” not a red pill alpha “fisherman” so guys like him won’t even listen

    • @alejandromelendez1609
      @alejandromelendez1609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sportegrity and that’s why he’ll never succeed with women. It’s a self-defeating mentality.

  • @prodigym
    @prodigym 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Roommates went from male self improvement to taking advice from women 🤣

    • @ginuwinereynolds7291
      @ginuwinereynolds7291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      They turned into nice guys. That's what a nice guy would do is take advice from women.

    • @YouKnowWh0ooo
      @YouKnowWh0ooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly WTF is this $HIT??????😡😡😡

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Not exactly fellas. Fine go ahead and be a value make with values you agree with. Who is a man for? A woman. A man that can compromise with a woman can make something happen. A man that won’t listen at all to a woman is more of a villain than a hero.

    • @prodigym
      @prodigym 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rodehs688 i like to refer myself as an anti-hero. But sure okay Hafeez.

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@prodigym Why not just be a hero?

  • @DKW3000
    @DKW3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I looked at her IG and was shocked she didn’t have a onlyfans link 🤣. I thought by the video she was a humble girl.

  • @sammywilliams6
    @sammywilliams6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    But a lot of women are in competition with there daughter so how could they teach em the ropes when they haven’t even figured it out either 😂😂😂😂

  • @ricasso777
    @ricasso777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Yes she’s turning into the man she desires for.

  • @Introvertedalpha
    @Introvertedalpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Interesting analogy about cutting the emotional umbilical cord. Thanks for this video!

  • @sdmfp333
    @sdmfp333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Don’t care, I’m a man I don’t follow advise from woman

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you want women? If so, you need to listen to them. I didn’t say let them control you, but if you listened, she even mentioned Dr Peterson. This means she might even be trying to put us men on game from what she learned from Dr Peterson for example. This means even if she talks about what you like, you won’t listen because you don’t listen to women. We gotta change this mentality. It’s just like little boys with a no girls allowed. She just said she doesn’t want a weak man and you say I don’t listen to women.

    • @gfunkin2
      @gfunkin2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@rodehs688 Eh. I listen to women and take them very seriously. That is to say, I watch their ACTIONS, not their words, and let that be how I decide how to operate.

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gfunkin2 Fair enough

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rodehs688 Women often say a lot of things and do other things because they are influenced by their emotions too much and too often

  • @ToxicKing354
    @ToxicKing354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    DAMN! Hafeez mess up getting married. If he ends up cheating I’m not going to hold it against him💯

    • @YouKnowWh0ooo
      @YouKnowWh0ooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FACTS!!! Give him a little more time!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Y’all wild bro! Just say you find her attractive and pray he stays strong.

    • @ToxicKing354
      @ToxicKing354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol… I feel you bro but it’s in us to want to be with more then one woman.

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ToxicKing354 I feel you bro! Even as a married man it’s difficult.. nearly virtually impossible to not look at another woman sometimes. But I’m learning that desire is not a green light for action but rather a green light for introspection. Is this desire good to pursue or bad? What are the benefits and cons of pursuing desires like these? I’m also learning to be skeptical of my desires and to really think is this helping me, hurting me or just stalling me from my purpose. But man the upper limits of one woman far outweigh the fleeting pleasures of random women with their factor tree of problems and conditions. It’s harder to grow with many women. If you can find a woman who can nurture you and your children and she gets along with her mother and yours??? That is an Angel my friend and you won’t be the best you with many women. Just go look in the Bible at all the men with multiple wives smh lol it was a disaster and that is what the Bible teaches. One woman is hard enough lol So if you don’t plan to wife all these women, which I would advise you not do that, your more like a rolling stone. And he’s not a good guy to imitate. Last thing. Would you want a ladies man like James Bond or Hugh Hefner or a player/pimp to influence your daughter or somebody like Jesus or John the Baptist?

    • @ToxicKing354
      @ToxicKing354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rodehs688 excellent point…. I agree with you 100%. All I’m saying is that humans are flawed… specifically man when it comes to woman. Even man chooses by God had multiple woman.

  • @32afsdf
    @32afsdf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    No lie this episode lost all authenticity when I went to her IG and found nothing related to psychology 😂😂

    • @alejandromelendez1609
      @alejandromelendez1609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How does her IG page dispel truths like how many single moms shelter their boys and turn them into betas? A lot of the points she made are true.

    • @winterazulec
      @winterazulec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree the laugh seems so fake.

    • @truthbearer7891
      @truthbearer7891 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This comment sent me to her page. So disappointing. Goes to show you how it’s almost easy to get these girls in this generation by going to their social media. They can super classy in their appearance like this but the IG will usually give it away if they are on some other stuff

  • @great456789
    @great456789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So…..isn’t being nice to a woman part of being good to her?!?

  • @brandonanthony9488
    @brandonanthony9488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my values is being genuine and joyful or happy.

  • @davidwebb2816
    @davidwebb2816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great conversation 👑

  • @thetruth6532
    @thetruth6532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    r/CherlynthiaJoyTruth

  • @LewisMessiah
    @LewisMessiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wonder what values those are based on your instagram..

    • @ginuwinereynolds7291
      @ginuwinereynolds7291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right. She's judging men on her perception but then have a problem with men judging her based on her IG which is very telling.

  • @nicolash.9222
    @nicolash.9222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:50 Can't find the book on amazon, someone has the title right or a link please ?

  • @abelonte1
    @abelonte1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There are some things you cannot be honest about when it comes to women unfortunately and this applies to the regular joe smokes, now if you were a high value guy meaning you check most boxes then you can be transparent. And the ones that are going to be the most honest are the ones with the most options when it comes to girls and the ones with a non scarce mindset then it comes to females.

  • @jeanseguiver2809
    @jeanseguiver2809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    12:39-13:04 As Alpha Male Strategy would say. Breaking frame and being goofy. Gentlemen, watch your frame at all times.

  • @thenovared
    @thenovared 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm going to be on top of the MUSIC INDUSTRY, I promise 👀😈🌎🚀

  • @rodehs688
    @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Feez ima be 100 bro. I really appreciate the content but the angle of the girls dress is unnecessary.

  • @YouKnowWh0ooo
    @YouKnowWh0ooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Check her IG! Just another clout chaser! She is aware of the RP and is taking advantage!!!

    • @doloboizay
      @doloboizay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn fr?

    • @YouKnowWh0ooo
      @YouKnowWh0ooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@doloboizay Yup... they want you to get distracted by the pretty face! But listen to the message! Just because she has ONE picture of JP standing together does NOT make her worthy of RP content!!!!!

    • @doloboizay
      @doloboizay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YouKnowWh0ooo facts thanks for exposing hoes bro

    • @theace3164
      @theace3164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YouKnowWh0ooo what’s her IG

  • @saha5962
    @saha5962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    background music is annoying

  • @ROBERTDAVis2271
    @ROBERTDAVis2271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video 👍🏿

  • @brianking5208
    @brianking5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is this still a mens channel?

  • @Didi781c
    @Didi781c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This episode is full of contradictions

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you name them so I can know what you mean?

    • @truthbearer7891
      @truthbearer7891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually the points made were very coherent and consistent. The contradiction is when you check this girls IG🙃

    • @bakedbeans5494
      @bakedbeans5494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@truthbearer7891 They said nice guys are weak but proceeded to agree that they are abusive.

    • @Mtsiagbe
      @Mtsiagbe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bakedbeans5494 then Hafeez proceeded to say that they bottle up their emotions or whatever which emanates into physical abuse of their partner. The complete opposite and contradiction of the definition "nice".
      She mentioned nice guys don't stand up for anything but then said she needs a man who has values and if they conflict with his partner's they should either go separate ways or negotiate for a common ground, i.e compromise, so then not standing up for your values if you are compromising on them. Contradiction.... I could carry on

  • @gokugotop
    @gokugotop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This girl know how to put on a front. Her whole ig screams I belong to the streets

  • @krishnaadhikari4931
    @krishnaadhikari4931 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a type of girl you know belongs to street when you visit her Insta

  • @Herozonex200
    @Herozonex200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why take advice from a woman to get women. Their expectations are from what they want in man is extreme.

    • @alejandromelendez1609
      @alejandromelendez1609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your first mistake is focusing on what women say they want.

  • @sprts1v1
    @sprts1v1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WE NEED THE TWO ON TWO INTERVIEWS

  • @steph6109
    @steph6109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did the roomates finally understand and clearly communicate what women want and expect from men?
    Did Hafeez also communicate the whole idea from his own mouth rather than just the woman say it qnd him look at her suspiciously?
    Bravo my dear. Your wife will be relieved.

  • @wwjack215
    @wwjack215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This woman makes up her perfect man as she goes. This is waste of time. And lastly as a man I'm not taking advice about relationships etc from a single woman looking like that and a single dude with his life in order. That makes no sense

    • @itsjp2383
      @itsjp2383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      he’s married

    • @AGirlNamedVan
      @AGirlNamedVan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But shes so pretty. Don't all guys want someoneike that? I wish I was prettier and classy like that.

    • @wwjack215
      @wwjack215 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsjp2383 we will see how long that will last m, since you have the answer I see how long has Buhl been married?

    • @LewisMessiah
      @LewisMessiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AGirlNamedVan Beauty isn't enough to keep a quality man. It's about what you do with it. Do you use it to get attention on social media alongisde your sexuality? Boobs, bum etc? Or do you use it to attract and keep a man you can have a family with that will give you long term fufilment in life?

    • @AGirlNamedVan
      @AGirlNamedVan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LewisMessiah naw I wouldn't even have the confidence to put myself out there like that. Lol my Instagram is pictures of mushrooms and sceneries and such. I'm just saying the prettier girls do get it easier. But I don't hold my hopes up any longer. It's my birthday in 2days and I become more and more depressed with each passing year. 38 this year and I know it's over. I mean if I was prettier and maybe classier I'd probably be married already.

  • @MrK1ngi
    @MrK1ngi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nothing about "John" is a nice guy. The dude is a playa trying to run through as many women as he can. And kudos to him. It's pretty easy to distinguish the two types...

  • @brianj7027
    @brianj7027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Get cold guys.

  • @adrianholder6933
    @adrianholder6933 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone know the name of Disney short film that he was talking about?

  • @PolskiRoland
    @PolskiRoland 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can be honest only for those how can take it from you and be glad about it, another way it is pointless, because you lost your time to argue with someone how is not ready to pick it up

  • @castronatefit5754
    @castronatefit5754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude thinks cause he wears a suite he’s too dawg bro why would you post this. Look at her instagram

  • @WeAreAllWittness
    @WeAreAllWittness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She a baddie.

  • @AGirlNamedVan
    @AGirlNamedVan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How does one become so pretty and classy.

    • @bakedbeans5494
      @bakedbeans5494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's neither.

    • @AGirlNamedVan
      @AGirlNamedVan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bakedbeans5494 ok sorry shes prettier than the average. I'm still trying to get there. But it doesn't matter anymore. Today is my birthday and I'm 38. No need to be pretty anymore. I'm beyond the wall.

    • @bakedbeans5494
      @bakedbeans5494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AGirlNamedVan Okay?

    • @AGirlNamedVan
      @AGirlNamedVan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bakedbeans5494 yeah

    • @AGirlNamedVan
      @AGirlNamedVan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karenkath4350 wow that is out of my league. Maybe I'm not meant to be classy.

  • @sammywilliams6
    @sammywilliams6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How can a women want a man like there dad? But men can’t desire a women to have there mothers characteristics? Huh ? They’ll get shamed for it, How does that make sense 😂😂😂

  • @cashcam9243
    @cashcam9243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My dad is the nicest person and the most disrespectful person at the same when his values or his morals are crossed. Maybe the guys she's been around are weak because she only sees one side of them that the guy allows them to see. The nicest person can be the strongest people. The ones ik have gone through hell and back and I'd like to say the same for me.

  • @kinGsaL1515
    @kinGsaL1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bad idea to take advice from her especially on how to get a woman. She said she'd be happy with an ugly man who can "make her laugh" lmao

    • @YouKnowWh0ooo
      @YouKnowWh0ooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just look at her Insta!!! She's not yours.... it's just your turn!!!

    • @kinGsaL1515
      @kinGsaL1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YouKnowWh0ooo Basic 304 - I really don't want to sound like a hater but I am disappointed in where Hafeez took this channel. Mainly because he used to always flex how he isn't one those guys and how he can "bring women on anytime and triple his views but he wants genuine quality content" and now he's bringing on basic 304's dressed like that talking complete hypocrisy out their ass. At least we brought on decent women at first but he is clearly after the numbers now. It's pulled me away from this channel.

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...And what is wrong with what she said?

    • @kinGsaL1515
      @kinGsaL1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marlonmoncrieffe0728 What's wrong with it is that its a lie. A normal lie all women tell but their actions prove the exact opposite.

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kinGsaL1515 ...So this is all based on you simply not believing her?

  • @buddylee2020
    @buddylee2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Audio on this is reversed. Hafeez on right and chick on the left

  • @ccorl2977
    @ccorl2977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guy slap the hell out this girl…
    Girl: wth I thought u were nice
    Guy: wth is a nice guy

  • @devnotes00
    @devnotes00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think people should take this and many different opinions of different women, I don't like how men discount her opinions simply based on her being a woman.

    • @kinGsaL1515
      @kinGsaL1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's not because she's a woman, its because she's obviously lying and she's a living contradiction to everything she was saying here. She was preaching modesty and not seeking attention from men but look how she comes to dress for an interview and her instagram is the complete opposite of what she preached here. And any women who says they just want a funny man is lying to look "modest" on camera.

    • @devnotes00
      @devnotes00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kinGsaL1515 maybe so but I disagree with a lot of many of these RP type of channels and that say don't listen to women's advice unless it agrees with their mindset. I'm just saying listen to differing opinions whether you agree with them or not and make a decision then

    • @kinGsaL1515
      @kinGsaL1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@devnotes00 I agree 100%. The extremes on the RP are basically men feminists but 1 thing that stands true in the test of time is "don't listen to what a woman says but watch what she does" women are the worst to take advice about women from, that part is a fact.

    • @devnotes00
      @devnotes00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kinGsaL1515 that should be said about people in general, not just women. Some people will sell you a lie just to make profit or a few more views on their videos

    • @bakedbeans5494
      @bakedbeans5494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@devnotes00 Do better, bro.

  • @Artof_vrose
    @Artof_vrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some poorly raised individuals here be, “what’s a mom”?

  • @JollyMidnight
    @JollyMidnight 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree, and relate :' D

  • @mariovaldez3147
    @mariovaldez3147 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can u get Andrew Tate here

  • @GhostCuete369
    @GhostCuete369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman knows a thing or two. That’s a real female.

    • @mmaya772
      @mmaya772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s her Ig?* @Name Unavailable

    • @mmaya772
      @mmaya772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!* @Name Unavailable

    • @DevinObi
      @DevinObi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check the IG broski 🤣

  • @bananapee86
    @bananapee86 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    RRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE