If I see a guy in shape talking about his body and strength confidently, I will be happy and applaud him cause am in shape myself, but someone out of shape will say he is being proud. Moral of the story is to be around people on your level. Another thing I noticed is these loosers will always try to compare you with someone else, if you say you working out, they compare you with Anorld, if you say you an actor, they compare with Denzel. They always try to compare you with other people except themselves
We are all mirrors. However, since misery loves company, if you’re exuding confidence, an insecure person will project their insecurity onto you in order for them to ease the discomfort of not seeing low confidence reflecting from you. Don’t let this deter you, keep shining! - Another great video Unc. 100k subs is on the horizon!
Even some women you deal with will be Haters. If your doing better in life than they are. That's the sad part. Only if they recognized they can be upgraded too, but Ego/ Jealousy always rears it's head . That's why it's important to only deal with people who are on your level or above. The ones below will try and pull you down to their level and beat you with experience
Confidence only begats more confidence, unless you don't have it yourself! Telling a woman she is fine is much easier when women tell you the same. It burns people up to see you smarter, younger, better shape etc., having things they will never have.
"He thinks he is better than us" "He thinks he is special" "Someone has to check him" "He's weird" "I think he's baiting attention" "I gave up on him" (Girl, I didn't even know you existed) Rom, I have had my pictures taken by other guys because they want to spread rumors or their princess asked for my photo. I won't lie I got quite bitter this week of all the bullshit, but it was a spiritual attack, the day Israel was attacked. I felt a wave of Dark spirit on to me. Which made me only focus on the negative's in my day. Just focus on the positives no matter how small, and let the shadows talk. Drake said it best "Lately I feel the haters eatin away at my confidence. They scream out my failures and whisper my accomplishments."
this is mostly true.. but not always. People who are doing better than you still have insecurities too. they can feel threatened by you because they don't *feel* better than you on the inside. I've had a couple of "friends" like this.
Rom - it's beginning to wreck havoc on my mental well-being. People are hyper-competitive & insecure to the point it becomes toxic. It's even worse when it comes from extended family members - it does nothing but fuel my rage.
Big facts! You can feel the negative energy. I used to be annoyed by it, still do from time to time. But when I feel it. I give dominant eye contact and they always look away looking scared
I've lost most of my friends to this. I found myself trying to act a different way just so that people don't even have a chance to be jealous of something. Truth is, even if you do manage that for a little bit, they will always find a, "Reason" to be mad at you or not like you. They will always nitpick, make certain jokes.. It sucks to actually care about these people and try to do more to get along with them, but, NO. No more. It is such a lonely place to be a confident and handsome man these days. Even women will try to throw dirt on your name, or nitpick to try and find some weakness. It's really tough guys, but I appreciate Rom's videos and giving us confident fellas a place to congregate. Keep your head up guys, aint nothing we haven't deal with before, jealousy is a MFER.
@@FeloniousMyronius Just know you're not alone bro. All the BS people try to pull with us is just a reminder that them too, can see our worth. They wish they could have it, but they can never take it from us.
Fam, I only have two good friends. One is in his 50’s with full of knowledge and one is a female. I get alone with females more than men because with men, it’s always a competition. With that being said, less friends, less problems. Keep doing you King🤴🏾
Great video Uncle Rom. Literally came at the right time. I will say this It’s crazy how other men will watch you and just hate or find something just to nip pick. Imagine I actually mind my business. I think have a quiet confidence people’s can’t stand it. It took me awhile to get use to it, Funny thing I do sometimes I actually confront them. It actually throws them off and confuses them. If another man is hating that’s his problem. Way to many insecure males be careful out here.
Anyone who tries to do anything meaningful or to speak out or to be different from the crowd or to improve themselves will draw haters these days. These are hateful times we live in today. Cancel culture, social media, it is also true that hating can be a cover for a power grab or a way for somebody to move ahead at your expense. Bob Marley sang “Down back biter”, but they are always around.
When you move with faith in yourself then some people have this itch, this inclination to hinder you for no reason. You a be questioning yourself "tf I do to make them that mad". Personal experience, no hyperbole. They see the world thru the lens they see themselves in, whether its envy, sabotage, condescension. Please pay heed to Unc Rom's message
I've let myself be brought down by people who were jealous. Honestly, it was a from a quality that I like and that is that I want truth, and I'm open minded for input. But slowly I'm realizing that I'm too open and letting too many people's opinion in. Luckily I'm more on my own now and having time to start over and build myself up. It was a long lesson but lesson learned. Because I was down the last 2 years I have also experienced jealousy, but I didn't let it influence by behavior or bring me people down. In opposite, sometimes I even humbly expressed my jealousy. People who let their jealousy bring other people down are the worst. Lots of love
It is interesting to look at the linguistic roots of words. Confident, originally meant "self trust". I think that carries a lot of weight and says it all.
...especially when you level up, such as getting a nicer vehicle. The haters or fake friends will say, "Why'd you get that?" "Your monthly's gna break you" "That thing has terrible mpg" or if you get an EV "Man you bought that beta-assed s$$t?" "Everybody got one of those" "You shoulda got a Tesla!" "Why didn't you wrap it?" All to try to bring you down.
As a man I don't understand how you can be jealous of another person. That takes up too much energy. Energy that you can use to improve yourself.
Man Unc, you hit the nail on the head with this one🤴🏾
If I see a guy in shape talking about his body and strength confidently, I will be happy and applaud him cause am in shape myself, but someone out of shape will say he is being proud. Moral of the story is to be around people on your level. Another thing I noticed is these loosers will always try to compare you with someone else, if you say you working out, they compare you with Anorld, if you say you an actor, they compare with Denzel. They always try to compare you with other people except themselves
So true brother, the only people that’ll hate are those that don’t have what you have
They literally call me Terminator at school coz I work out😭
“Be your best company” I’m putting 18 months aside just for that
Being on top of the mountain is lonely and tough, so people will get jealous for no good reason frfr
You nailed it! "They dont have the intelligence to ask you how you did it".
Truth.
Facts instead of trying learn or soak up game they hate and be a little mad square
We are all mirrors. However, since misery loves company, if you’re exuding confidence, an insecure person will project their insecurity onto you in order for them to ease the discomfort of not seeing low confidence reflecting from you. Don’t let this deter you, keep shining! - Another great video Unc. 100k subs is on the horizon!
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DAMN! 💯
When you start to work on the confidence, you'll realize that you can deflect hate like it's minute and keep it moving lol
Even some women you deal with will be Haters. If your doing better in life than they are. That's the sad part. Only if they recognized they can be upgraded too, but Ego/ Jealousy always rears it's head .
That's why it's important to only deal with people who are on your level or above. The ones below will try and pull you down to their level and beat you with experience
Facts 💯
Facts. I was aware of the men, but later on in my life, it became some women, too. It blew my mind and changed how I moved in this life.
Women be haters fr I thought
Only man could hate cuz I’m a man no women too
Confidence only begats more confidence, unless you don't have it yourself! Telling a woman she is fine is much easier when women tell you the same. It burns people up to see you smarter, younger, better shape etc., having things they will never have.
"He thinks he is better than us" "He thinks he is special" "Someone has to check him" "He's weird" "I think he's baiting attention" "I gave up on him" (Girl, I didn't even know you existed) Rom, I have had my pictures taken by other guys because they want to spread rumors or their princess asked for my photo. I won't lie I got quite bitter this week of all the bullshit, but it was a spiritual attack, the day Israel was attacked. I felt a wave of Dark spirit on to me. Which made me only focus on the negative's in my day.
Just focus on the positives no matter how small, and let the shadows talk. Drake said it best "Lately I feel the haters eatin away at my confidence. They scream out my failures and whisper my accomplishments."
I could never understand the trolls and hater coworkers. It finally make sense, thank you Rom.
Always remember, you will never receive hate from someone doing better than you
this is mostly true.. but not always. People who are doing better than you still have insecurities too. they can feel threatened by you because they don't *feel* better than you on the inside. I've had a couple of "friends" like this.
@@xavierxerxes6254yup that’s also the same with working on a job , I experience it doing Hvac with the older guys and some younger ones too.
@xavierxerxes6254 true alot factors. They could be spoiled and you could be Independent person.
Rom - it's beginning to wreck havoc on my mental well-being. People are hyper-competitive & insecure to the point it becomes toxic. It's even worse when it comes from extended family members - it does nothing but fuel my rage.
Big facts! You can feel the negative energy. I used to be annoyed by it, still do from time to time. But when I feel it. I give dominant eye contact and they always look away looking scared
Can’t let a hater shake you out of your boots either!! Because they’ll definitely try you. Can’t be afraid to stand with boldness and confidence. 💯
Took me long enough those haters were so called friends and they downplayed your achievements or your development out of some weird jealousy
Confidence is within and always value yourself
I've lost most of my friends to this. I found myself trying to act a different way just so that people don't even have a chance to be jealous of something. Truth is, even if you do manage that for a little bit, they will always find a, "Reason" to be mad at you or not like you. They will always nitpick, make certain jokes.. It sucks to actually care about these people and try to do more to get along with them, but, NO. No more. It is such a lonely place to be a confident and handsome man these days. Even women will try to throw dirt on your name, or nitpick to try and find some weakness. It's really tough guys, but I appreciate Rom's videos and giving us confident fellas a place to congregate. Keep your head up guys, aint nothing we haven't deal with before, jealousy is a MFER.
I can relate to this.
@@FeloniousMyronius Just know you're not alone bro. All the BS people try to pull with us is just a reminder that them too, can see our worth. They wish they could have it, but they can never take it from us.
Fam, I only have two good friends. One is in his 50’s with full of knowledge and one is a female. I get alone with females more than men because with men, it’s always a competition. With that being said, less friends, less problems. Keep doing you King🤴🏾
Facts I tried do same trying make people jealous but it didn’t work I gave up not my problrm
@@MrKwatts27that’s why I only hang with women I don’t want give another men chances cuz of hate
Great video Uncle Rom.
Literally came at the right time. I will say this It’s crazy how other men will watch you and just hate or find something just to nip pick.
Imagine I actually mind my business. I think have a quiet confidence people’s can’t stand it.
It took me awhile to get use to it, Funny thing I do sometimes I actually confront them. It actually throws them off and confuses them. If another man is hating that’s his problem.
Way to many insecure males be careful out here.
Anyone who tries to do anything meaningful or to speak out or to be different from the crowd or to improve themselves will draw haters these days. These are hateful times we live in today. Cancel culture, social media, it is also true that hating can be a cover for a power grab or a way for somebody to move ahead at your expense. Bob Marley sang “Down back biter”, but they are always around.
When you move with faith in yourself then some people have this itch, this inclination to hinder you for no reason. You a be questioning yourself "tf I do to make them that mad". Personal experience, no hyperbole. They see the world thru the lens they see themselves in, whether its envy, sabotage, condescension. Please pay heed to Unc Rom's message
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Facts. Hard to find people in their early 20s on my level. Lions don’t lose sleep over the opinion of sheep.
They all little squares these days
I've let myself be brought down by people who were jealous. Honestly, it was a from a quality that I like and that is that I want truth, and I'm open minded for input. But slowly I'm realizing that I'm too open and letting too many people's opinion in. Luckily I'm more on my own now and having time to start over and build myself up. It was a long lesson but lesson learned.
Because I was down the last 2 years I have also experienced jealousy, but I didn't let it influence by behavior or bring me people down. In opposite, sometimes I even humbly expressed my jealousy. People who let their jealousy bring other people down are the worst.
Lots of love
It is interesting to look at the linguistic roots of words. Confident, originally meant "self trust". I think that carries a lot of weight and says it all.
Speaking facts when they see you in shape and confident and happy with yourself they will start hating 💯💯
Absolutely it will. but don't let that Confidence go Guys. Keep shining on them haters.
Indeed brother, I can confirm that 😂
BIG FACTS! 💯 #BODYGAMENATION
PerfectTiming😂❤
...especially when you level up, such as getting a nicer vehicle.
The haters or fake friends will say, "Why'd you get that?"
"Your monthly's gna break you"
"That thing has terrible mpg"
or if you get an EV
"Man you bought that beta-assed s$$t?"
"Everybody got one of those"
"You shoulda got a Tesla!"
"Why didn't you wrap it?"
All to try to bring you down.
Yep you really gotta pay attention to what people say to you frfr
Rom lookin extra swoll today! Body game on point!!!
Its all projection what they see in you is missing in them misery loves Company
Seems like you always drop what I need to hear in the right times thank you 💯
Haters come with the territory
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