I agree men need to step up. Just because standards of the top men have gotten higher doesn't it mean that you have to blaim them. Just go and met their standards! Go get some muscles and stress well, get your carrier and money right.
bro you had the chance to make Jordan Peterson realize the dating market is not the same as when he was younger YOU DROP THE BALL. I can't take you seriously anymore
I moved out of my toxic families household, started working as a Hvac Installer, got baptized Christian, stopped pursuing toxic relationships, started investing in my Roth IRA. Came from a dysfunctional lifestyle and I did this all in one year. Women aren’t the problem completely, YOU ARE! You attract what you are. Thanks you guys for doing what you do. God bless this podcast and your businesses. Love y’all ❤️
70th like. And I agree with what you said. Yes, people will do stuff do you, but oftentimes that's because you put yourself in a situation where they could do those things to you. And I also agree, it's not your background, nor what happens to you that's outside of your control, but it's what you do NOW is what makes you the man you are, and that dictates your future. The past is gone. The future isn't written yet. It's what you do NOW.
Discipline is essentially the key to all freedoms. Hafeez, your personal discipline has produced fruit other men can reap. Thank you being a man that the world needs.🙌
Thank you for this Hafeez! A lot of people need to hear this and take it in! Until people learn that complaining and pointing the fingers at others is not productive and a cope so they don’t have to look within themselves they will never learn. I never met anyone that didn’t get better at something when they put in the work or practiced.
Great message Hafeez! I see we are on the same vibration of trying to help the world break cycles! We need more men relaying these type messages to other men to get their lives in order. No more projecting onto women their past hurts and pains, address your childhood traumas, focus on fixing your finances, credit and investments, being in-tuned with ALL emotions not just anger. Be more self-aware and build your legacy. You create the world you want by who you are surrounded with. Be better and you attract better always.
Hafeez, This video makes by blood boil! Boil with intensity to be greater. Over 9 months of 2021 was the worst time of my life. Because of Robert Glover, Jordan Peterson and You, I started in October 2021 to correct the toxic behaviors I allowed to have place in my life. Things are 100% than they were, but 100% better of what it was is still a minimal improvement. You've woken me up from the slumber of recent victory, and it's time get uncomfortable and make some real changes. Thank you for your inspired words. I pray that you and all of those who work with you to bring us solid content will live a long prosperous life, because men like you are needed in this world. Thank you
At first I thought I didn't do enough this year but took time to reflect and I'm just happy about the progress. Saved money (Investment account and emergency account) of course, joined the gym and went from 56Kg to 67kg (since July 07)... Got my side hustle (trading forex). And taking care of family. And I'm only 23, thank you God.
Hafeez, you’re so right. While i don’t complain about women I have definitely been slacking, hard. I hang my head in shame. You’re right sacrifice, isn’t words , it’s actions. I promise to be better. Thank you for the tough love. God bless 🙏🙏
Perhaps I can explain; most of the audience wants to see OF, IG Models, and strippers get dragged on shows, like F&F and others of that ilk. They want these ladies called out, dragged, and kicked out if possible. Many of "that audience" cross-pollinate with your audience and KS audience. Your most popular videos do not appear to be financial videos, your poll doesn't seem to match your own transparent views, etc. I think what you're just learning is that although they resent these women, want to hold them accountable, etc., they would rather pay to see them half-naked than pay for one of your suits. These women get access to a whole new audience/market for a few minutes or criticism from your channels. They are the only ones winning; they are tapping into the manosphere market with a product that, although the audience chastises on a live stream, would rather pay for their product than yours. Make sense? To be clear, the product is live T&A.
The most accurate explanation about this "level up" phenomena. I don't think the host wants to fully admit that his audience is not who he believes them to be. He's still holding out hope for 2022 I guess.
Slow clap. Facts. Best comment on this video. These women aren't dumb. They know exactly what they are doing. Honestly, it's great marketing in their part. The guys blaming the women are the pot calling the kettle black.
Fellas we're all improving. Pay attention to the finance videos and the rest will be easier. Control yourselves or be controlled by others. Financially, emotionally, physically, spiritually.
I hate to admit this but I am guilty on some of these things. I spent my money on the wrong things, didnt prioritize paying my bills, failed to make a separate savings account, and consistently getting myself broke. I have to stop this and I'm not waiting for the new year to come to rework myself. Thanks for the wake up call.
*“Life is much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you.”* To literally 1% who saw this comment, I hope you’re having an awesome day.
I see it all the time, it’s easier to blame others than it is to improve yourself thus that’s what most people choose to do. Keep preaching the message Hafeez, you’re getting through to people I promise 🙏🏽 We’re just not as vocal about it because we’re busy trying to get our lives together.
The Roommates - Was this a response video to the Mahogany Pink video where The Roommates were shown repeatedly as an example of blaming Black women/now here emphasizing women aren’t the problem?
This is what accountability looks like. So many people want the easy and quick gratification, not realizing that it's fleeting. Working hard and being successful in the long term will give you true happiness and satisfaction.
I appreciate this. Too many male centered platforms focus on what women need to do and not what men need to do. We would better off as a community if men leave women alone and focus on keeping each other accountable.
Thank you Hafeez, there’s a reason why I watch your channel more than others. It’s getting to a point that all men talk about in the red pill/manosphere is only modern women, how they cheat, they are entitled and yes this true but is very repetitive and all you see is the same TH-camrs reacting to the same tik toks over and over. The main focus should be on Gen z and millennials because when everything is said and done these generations are next in line. Men are getting to comfortable and are lacking accountability, should be an equal exchange. There’s needs Critique on modern men and women equally
There are issues in *both* genders. *Men* and *Women* Some men are feminine, some women are masculine (I am very masculine for a woman) but don't spend you time worrying about it. Worry about you. Some of the feminists that complain about men all day sound the some of the mgtows that complain about women all day. Worry about thr guys/girls you want. Stop complaining like old granmas and granpas
Exactly...get yourself together first...the real men are fed up with men blaming women but they are raggedy in all areas... No stable housing, no stable job, making poor financial decisions, no resources, delusional thinking, and dysfunctional ways of doing things....the real men are tired too! Keep doing what you're doing...this is so refreshing to hear....Men take action, stop making excuses and do the work!
The real issue is priorities and accountability! Sadly, a lot of these men just want to complain about the state that some women are in. Consequently, they are the ones funding these women lifestyles instead of putting in the work and effort it takes to become a better man and attract a wonderful woman. Complaining is easy and that's all some ppl want to do is take the easy way!!
Unfortunately this was a fact that was happening for years. Men were simpimg women because their lifes meant nothing. So they started to critisize women for everything they do because they were insecure about themselves.
Something that will always stay with me from rich dad poor dad is when the author said that it is easier to change yourself than it is to change other people or the world around you. If im failing all the time the only common denominator is me. Not women, not the reccession, not COVID, but me. The only solution will be myself.
You guys literally hold me down when I'm at my worst. I usually just log in to TH-cam and you always have a video I relate to. Thank you so much @The Roomates
Thank you posting this, I work in the finance industry. Part of my role is to help individuals grow financially. Growing financially starts with talking about priorities. We have to reframe their minds to what is important to them.
While i totally agree, i need to point out that you need a healthy balance, like in everything in the world. While you can't just blame others all the time, it's important to not go too hard on yourself to the point where you think you are not even worth any effort. I made that mistake a couple of times, and trust me, that doesn't help you with your mental health.
Not sure what you guys were going through but 2021 was rough for me. This year I was diagnosed with an Inflammatory Bowl disease, hospitalized from a sickle cell crisis, suffered from chronic anemia, and lost so much weight I looked like the shimigami from Death Note. My only accomplishment this year is that I survived. My goal for next year? Survive.
Everyone should definitely be held accountable for their lives I look how this is a reminder to men to get to work on themselves It may not be a quick fix but it will definitely be worse to not start Thank you for another year of great advice ❤️ I just noticed 12 rules for life in that book like
It might be worth it to do more of the “Lessons I wish my big brother taught me.” I write that because so many men / boys of today either didn’t or don’t have a father in their lives on a daily basis to guide them in the right direction
It’s so true I was one these guy his talking about . I’m not a shame to say it , because you have to learn from your mistake . This is great advice 👏🏼 Men it’s never to late to make a change, make change NOW! Actually start writing your goals for 2022 and make it detail on how you going to do it . Most important make a schedule of how your going to execute your plans . Day, weekly , monthly and 3 months . Journal daily is key 👏🏼
Wow!!!! How you have "come up!" I remember when I first started following you, you had a partner and were on a couch!!!! 😳😱😉 Your growth and transformation has been AMAZING! Keep up the awesome work!!!!💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🌟🌟
I've been trying to follow a lot of what you've said. I'm budgeting, working out and working hard. But I'm honestly have a difficult time finding a community of friends or men that I can grow with. I'm cutting out toxic and lazy people. But finding people is a bit tough and then keeping them is tougher 😅 could anyone drop me some advice please?
I think we all struggle with this! I'm not a guy but I feel the same way. You've gotta put yourself out there to meet new people. The easiest way I've found is to try new things and sign up for classes in things I might be interested in. A lot of them could involve fitness so it doesn't take time away from that aspect of life too. I've gotten into dance and horseback riding and met some amazing people doing so. Could try boxing, karate, cooking, shooting, archery, pottery, ect the options are endless and there is something for everyone!
hey, thanks so much!! Maybe you're right I need to put myself out there even more. I was depending on the gym and university to be enough. But Nah classes seem like a great idea. Thanks so much 😁😁i hope you meet some great friends as well.
@BC J you know I like that. I'm waiting for marriage but it's so hard to find others who want to wait or read their Bible even at church. I might need to look at a different church but thanks! I should look for people like that.
It takes work, not going to lie. You have to do a bit of pre-screening, then allow people into your life and kind of let them show their real selves to you. You don't have to let them in too much, but just enough to where you get a really good feel over who you should actually be trying to keep around. Also...recognize that a good person may not have the exact same interests as you, or even values, but they will never do things to intentionally hurt you or sabotage your success. They won't be jealous of you because they'll have their own things that they're working towards. And they will inspire you to go after what you're trying to achieve, whether that be by encouragement or straight talk. If you find folks like that, make sure you reciprocate. Easiest way to start is by continuously doing things you like to do. So for example, if your big goal is getting your body in shape, continuously go to the gym and see who shows up a lot of the time. Then see how they act around others--do they keep to themselves, are they patient with other people, do they wipe down the equipment, etc. That will tell you who is serious about the goal, and what kind of person they are. Once you find someone who seems cool, find a way to just strike up a conversation; it can be as easy as, "Yo I see you here a lot, you seeing any progress with your goals?" Again, gym is just an example, but it can be anywhere--arcade, gun range, dance class, whatever.
Hafeez, I’m dealing with the same frustration you feel towards men on the women’s side!!!🙄 I spend more time telling the women to focus on THEMSELVES!! Stop focusing on what the men are doing! Level up YOURSELF and those guys will fade away. People spend money on what they WANT TO!! Sex is and will ALWAYS be their kryptonite!!!! Guys, get some sexual discipline, please!🤦🏽♀️
Exactly the classic is they want low body count women but at the same time want sex easily The whole 30-50% men are incel is not pity worthy. If women offered these men sex they will instantly take it.
Well men and women are different and value different things in the opposite sex. The confusion is often that men think women value what they value in a women and vice versa.
A follower from the beggining of your channel. Delighted with your improvement in your content and personal and proffessional development and transformation. Thank you for sharing. Hope men listen to you!! Merry Christmas from sunny Spain.
Love the passion my dude. Step 1: run a mile every day and do pushups. Not once a week. Every day. That will juice your brain into the right state and you will want to move forward, and you will do so with ease. All other aspects of emotional and financial health will come after that.
this is a big issue. Vut this is what society is. Negativity always sells. that's why most men are average or bellow. I have accepted this fate. I am a trader slash investor and I hear a lot of men say they want to learn it as well and all this. Then some of these men I take my time to help them and push mind you my friend I never asked for any money just using my knowledge. But even then they were so lazy and always excuses of ill do that later etc. eventually not following trading rules losing money then say fords is a scam you can never make money. It pissed me off so much but then I realized majority don't have the mindset so I stopped caring.
@@UnitedPacci damn sorry you had to go through that. I think its a thing everybody does at some point, not caring i mean. Most be hit that breaking point at some point. Some earlier than others.
Hey guys. What's the title of that book on Hafeez desk. Second from the top, the red and yellow one. Thanks in advance to anyone who knows the title, and shares with me.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 thank you for doing gods work. So many guys are complaining and whining about their life and no one “wants them”. But they wont improve, pray, learn about improving mental health, improving their daily lives and taking risks to evolve and exciting.
Come through a pandemic basically alive and well. Took advantage of stimulus money until the powers that be raised prices and then promptly gave all the stimulus money back and then some through higher prices paid for just about everything. Was willing to walk away from a relationship that I really wanted, but saw going nowhere for whatever reason. Working on internalizing more and more of my own locus of control so I am not easily manipulated or controlled by others no matter how I might feel about possibly needing them.
Thank you brother for bringing the heat appreciated it isn't easy but it's worth it remind myself this if you're not willing to sacrifice for what you want what you want will eventually become the sacrifice extreme ownership brother I'm starting with the man in the mirror👍🏼
*9 Simple Self Improvement Principles* 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Listen to a TED Talk 6. Forgive someone 7. Join a group of supportive individuals 8. STOP nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good 9. Congratulate yourself for this growth For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)
Un gran mensaje, uno intenta dar lo mejor cada día y cada paso siempre es un punto más cerca de la meta. La contundencia de las palabras solo duelen si describen tu situación, en mi caso intento ser mejor cada día, actuando dentro de las posibilidades que me permite mi patria.
men and women get so irritated when I say having a woman is a bill.and I would rather spend that money I would spend on a woman, on a supercharger and car parts.
Then get ghosted because she didn’t feel a “spark” or she got “bored”. We’re not only supposed to be rich but also be entertainers 24/7🤡 too. I’m 23 and I stopped looking for a LT relationship 2 years ago. Focusing on my finances, career, gym and ONS. Zero fuks given to be honest.
Yea I believe sex addication is stronger than substance abuse. Porn is available 24-7, can be accessed on your phone and watched in the comfort of your bed. At least with drugs/alcohol, you have to get out of bed and need money to purchase it. Sometimes the act of getting out of bed wakes up your brain and it starts to ask "do I really need this?"
what do you mean by stronger? do you mean harder to break free from? If that is the case, I think it depends on the individual, the upbringing, the moral compass, the environment, the spirituality etc
I'm all for self improvement and men taking accountability but if the other gender standards keep increasing while they lack quality wouldn't our efforts be futile ?
improvement is for self first and foremost. So who cares if someone else chooses to self destruct, let them in their pit. Rise and if that means you are alone then be it.
@@RDCFemmes I agree but if you want to futher/create a better generation you kinda are screwed either way. It like helping somone that spits in your face 😒 than getting mad when avoid them smh.
Great Video Young Successful God. You a real one and the melanated men might be the biggest problem because if we change the whole world will be forced to change
What I notice is when a video is posted trashing women from a creator it gets considerately more views than the content on self improvement. what I also notice is when fnf has a video with Instagram models their follows will go up and ppl from chat hitting them up.the manosphere is full of simps .
I set myself back to square one, and stopped concentrating on the women. I've concentrated on myself, I've made minimal gains because I haven't put in enough time. My goal, now that I've started doing the right things, is to do more of the right things to maximize success. More hours in the gym, more hours studying for college, less hours watching TH-cam, and less hours idling my time. My success or failure comes from within. I believe that 1% of life is determined by the world, and until I master the other 99% I have no room to complain. Thanks for the amazing help you give, even when it's lighting a fire under our ass, to get up and do something, or in my case finish something. Hope to be one of those guys in the next year you can give a head nod to.
Passing the buck always gives the accused more bucks than you!! The only question needed every morning IS WHAT CAN I DO!! Make it happen by keeping all your bucks in your own dam hand!! OWNERSHIP
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I agree men need to step up. Just because standards of the top men have gotten higher doesn't it mean that you have to blaim them. Just go and met their standards! Go get some muscles and stress well, get your carrier and money right.
LFG!! Focus on myself only
Dating & Fitness advice for short dudes like me 💪🏽📈
spectacular ENERGY Big BRo. bounce back and compete with the 10% players
bro you had the chance to make Jordan Peterson realize the dating market is not the same as when he was younger YOU DROP THE BALL. I can't take you seriously anymore
I moved out of my toxic families household, started working as a Hvac Installer, got baptized Christian, stopped pursuing toxic relationships, started investing in my Roth IRA. Came from a dysfunctional lifestyle and I did this all in one year. Women aren’t the problem completely, YOU ARE! You attract what you are. Thanks you guys for doing what you do. God bless this podcast and your businesses. Love y’all ❤️
Keep up the great work
70th like. And I agree with what you said. Yes, people will do stuff do you, but oftentimes that's because you put yourself in a situation where they could do those things to you.
And I also agree, it's not your background, nor what happens to you that's outside of your control, but it's what you do NOW is what makes you the man you are, and that dictates your future.
The past is gone. The future isn't written yet. It's what you do NOW.
In a few years the world will look back and be grateful for men like Hafeez today.
Thank you
@@TheRoommatesPodcast Thank you too 🙏🏾
*emphasized*
Discipline is essentially the key to all freedoms. Hafeez, your personal discipline has produced fruit other men can reap. Thank you being a man that the world needs.🙌
Y’all better go buy this man’s suit. Y’all got him big big mad out here 😩
Lol
Thank you for this Hafeez! A lot of people need to hear this and take it in! Until people learn that complaining and pointing the fingers at others is not productive and a cope so they don’t have to look within themselves they will never learn. I never met anyone that didn’t get better at something when they put in the work or practiced.
You're welcome!!
I’m a woman and this was encouraging even to me.☺️
Same here! 🤗
Damn even women agree with the message
@@reinhartgregory Looool no we don’t.
@@alwaysinpluto yes we do😂
@@ecuafamily15 If you want male validation just say that.
Great message Hafeez! I see we are on the same vibration of trying to help the world break cycles!
We need more men relaying these type messages to other men to get their lives in order. No more projecting onto women their past hurts and pains, address your childhood traumas, focus on fixing your finances, credit and investments, being in-tuned with ALL emotions not just anger. Be more self-aware and build your legacy.
You create the world you want by who you are surrounded with. Be better and you attract better always.
Hafeez, This video makes by blood boil! Boil with intensity to be greater. Over 9 months of 2021 was the worst time of my life. Because of Robert Glover, Jordan Peterson and You, I started in October 2021 to correct the toxic behaviors I allowed to have place in my life. Things are 100% than they were, but 100% better of what it was is still a minimal improvement. You've woken me up from the slumber of recent victory, and it's time get uncomfortable and make some real changes. Thank you for your inspired words. I pray that you and all of those who work with you to bring us solid content will live a long prosperous life, because men like you are needed in this world. Thank you
A lot of guys need to hear this, even myself at times. Thanks for keeping it real
At first I thought I didn't do enough this year but took time to reflect and I'm just happy about the progress. Saved money (Investment account and emergency account) of course, joined the gym and went from 56Kg to 67kg (since July 07)... Got my side hustle (trading forex). And taking care of family. And I'm only 23, thank you God.
Hafeez, you’re so right. While i don’t complain about women I have definitely been slacking, hard. I hang my head in shame. You’re right sacrifice, isn’t words , it’s actions. I promise to be better. Thank you for the tough love. God bless 🙏🙏
Perhaps I can explain; most of the audience wants to see OF, IG Models, and strippers get dragged on shows, like F&F and others of that ilk. They want these ladies called out, dragged, and kicked out if possible. Many of "that audience" cross-pollinate with your audience and KS audience. Your most popular videos do not appear to be financial videos, your poll doesn't seem to match your own transparent views, etc. I think what you're just learning is that although they resent these women, want to hold them accountable, etc., they would rather pay to see them half-naked than pay for one of your suits. These women get access to a whole new audience/market for a few minutes or criticism from your channels. They are the only ones winning; they are tapping into the manosphere market with a product that, although the audience chastises on a live stream, would rather pay for their product than yours. Make sense? To be clear, the product is live T&A.
The most accurate explanation about this "level up" phenomena. I don't think the host wants to fully admit that his audience is not who he believes them to be. He's still holding out hope for 2022 I guess.
Slow clap. Facts. Best comment on this video.
These women aren't dumb. They know exactly what they are doing. Honestly, it's great marketing in their part.
The guys blaming the women are the pot calling the kettle black.
Fellas we're all improving. Pay attention to the finance videos and the rest will be easier. Control yourselves or be controlled by others. Financially, emotionally, physically, spiritually.
Thanks Shamz!
I hate to admit this but I am guilty on some of these things. I spent my money on the wrong things, didnt prioritize paying my bills, failed to make a separate savings account, and consistently getting myself broke. I have to stop this and I'm not waiting for the new year to come to rework myself. Thanks for the wake up call.
I'm feeling these suits
Thanks Cliff
*“Life is much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you.”*
To literally 1% who saw this comment, I hope you’re having an awesome day.
Appreciate that 💪🏼 have an awesome day
Thanks a lot,
Regards,
Harry
I see it all the time, it’s easier to blame others than it is to improve yourself thus that’s what most people choose to do. Keep preaching the message Hafeez, you’re getting through to people I promise 🙏🏽 We’re just not as vocal about it because we’re busy trying to get our lives together.
Thanks Chris
The Roommates - Was this a response video to the Mahogany Pink video where The Roommates were shown repeatedly as an example of blaming Black women/now here emphasizing women aren’t the problem?
(The False Promise of Black Love - Part 2/ Mahogany Pink)
This is what accountability looks like. So many people want the easy and quick gratification, not realizing that it's fleeting. Working hard and being successful in the long term will give you true happiness and satisfaction.
I appreciate this. Too many male centered platforms focus on what women need to do and not what men need to do. We would better off as a community if men leave women alone and focus on keeping each other accountable.
Thank you Hafeez, there’s a reason why I watch your channel more than others. It’s getting to a point that all men talk about in the red pill/manosphere is only modern women, how they cheat, they are entitled and yes this true but is very repetitive and all you see is the same TH-camrs reacting to the same tik toks over and over. The main focus should be on Gen z and millennials because when everything is said and done these generations are next in line. Men are getting to comfortable and are lacking accountability, should be an equal exchange. There’s needs Critique on modern men and women equally
There are issues in *both* genders. *Men* and *Women* Some men are feminine, some women are masculine (I am very masculine for a woman) but don't spend you time worrying about it. Worry about you. Some of the feminists that complain about men all day sound the some of the mgtows that complain about women all day. Worry about thr guys/girls you want. Stop complaining like old granmas and granpas
Ngl I have been neglecting watching your videos in my feed but I'm glad I watched this. I've been running from my problems for too long man.
Exactly...get yourself together first...the real men are fed up with men blaming women but they are raggedy in all areas... No stable housing, no stable job, making poor financial decisions, no resources, delusional thinking, and dysfunctional ways of doing things....the real men are tired too!
Keep doing what you're doing...this is so refreshing to hear....Men take action, stop making excuses and do the work!
The real issue is priorities and accountability! Sadly, a lot of these men just want to complain about the state that some women are in. Consequently, they are the ones funding these women lifestyles instead of putting in the work and effort it takes to become a better man and attract a wonderful woman. Complaining is easy and that's all some ppl want to do is take the easy way!!
Unfortunately this was a fact that was happening for years. Men were simpimg women because their lifes meant nothing. So they started to critisize women for everything they do because they were insecure about themselves.
Something that will always stay with me from rich dad poor dad is when the author said that it is easier to change yourself than it is to change other people or the world around you. If im failing all the time the only common denominator is me. Not women, not the reccession, not COVID, but me. The only solution will be myself.
We love Rich Dad, Poor Dad
You guys literally hold me down when I'm at my worst. I usually just log in to TH-cam and you always have a video I relate to.
Thank you so much @The Roomates
Thank you posting this, I work in the finance industry. Part of my role is to help individuals grow financially. Growing financially starts with talking about priorities. We have to reframe their minds to what is important to them.
Your a legend thank you for all the help you provide to us all 🙏🏽
This is why i live hafeez and this us my fav level up channel
Hafeez I respect your commitment and dedication to helping men get back their masculinity.
While i totally agree, i need to point out that you need a healthy balance, like in everything in the world.
While you can't just blame others all the time, it's important to not go too hard on yourself to the point where you think you are not even worth any effort. I made that mistake a couple of times, and trust me, that doesn't help you with your mental health.
Not sure what you guys were going through but 2021 was rough for me. This year I was diagnosed with an Inflammatory Bowl disease, hospitalized from a sickle cell crisis, suffered from chronic anemia, and lost so much weight I looked like the shimigami from Death Note. My only accomplishment this year is that I survived. My goal for next year? Survive.
Look into to the Carnivore diet 🙏🏾
Dr Terry Wahl's autoimmune protocol diet
Everyone should definitely be held accountable for their lives
I look how this is a reminder to men to get to work on themselves
It may not be a quick fix but it will definitely be worse to not start
Thank you for another year of great advice ❤️
I just noticed 12 rules for life in that book like
It might be worth it to do more of the “Lessons I wish my big brother taught me.” I write that because so many men / boys of today either didn’t or don’t have a father in their lives on a daily basis to guide them in the right direction
It’s so true I was one these guy his talking about . I’m not a shame to say it , because you have to learn from your mistake . This is great advice 👏🏼 Men it’s never to late to make a change, make change NOW! Actually start writing your goals for 2022 and make it detail on how you going to do it . Most important make a schedule of how your going to execute your plans . Day, weekly , monthly and 3 months . Journal daily is key 👏🏼
Wow!!!! How you have "come up!" I remember when I first started following you, you had a partner and were on a couch!!!! 😳😱😉 Your growth and transformation has been AMAZING! Keep up the awesome work!!!!💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🌟🌟
Congrats on getting engaged, Hafeez
Thank you!!
I've been trying to follow a lot of what you've said. I'm budgeting, working out and working hard. But I'm honestly have a difficult time finding a community of friends or men that I can grow with. I'm cutting out toxic and lazy people. But finding people is a bit tough and then keeping them is tougher 😅 could anyone drop me some advice please?
I think we all struggle with this! I'm not a guy but I feel the same way. You've gotta put yourself out there to meet new people. The easiest way I've found is to try new things and sign up for classes in things I might be interested in. A lot of them could involve fitness so it doesn't take time away from that aspect of life too. I've gotten into dance and horseback riding and met some amazing people doing so. Could try boxing, karate, cooking, shooting, archery, pottery, ect the options are endless and there is something for everyone!
hey, thanks so much!! Maybe you're right I need to put myself out there even more. I was depending on the gym and university to be enough. But Nah classes seem like a great idea. Thanks so much 😁😁i hope you meet some great friends as well.
@BC J you know I like that. I'm waiting for marriage but it's so hard to find others who want to wait or read their Bible even at church. I might need to look at a different church but thanks! I should look for people like that.
It takes work, not going to lie. You have to do a bit of pre-screening, then allow people into your life and kind of let them show their real selves to you. You don't have to let them in too much, but just enough to where you get a really good feel over who you should actually be trying to keep around.
Also...recognize that a good person may not have the exact same interests as you, or even values, but they will never do things to intentionally hurt you or sabotage your success. They won't be jealous of you because they'll have their own things that they're working towards. And they will inspire you to go after what you're trying to achieve, whether that be by encouragement or straight talk. If you find folks like that, make sure you reciprocate.
Easiest way to start is by continuously doing things you like to do. So for example, if your big goal is getting your body in shape, continuously go to the gym and see who shows up a lot of the time. Then see how they act around others--do they keep to themselves, are they patient with other people, do they wipe down the equipment, etc. That will tell you who is serious about the goal, and what kind of person they are. Once you find someone who seems cool, find a way to just strike up a conversation; it can be as easy as, "Yo I see you here a lot, you seeing any progress with your goals?" Again, gym is just an example, but it can be anywhere--arcade, gun range, dance class, whatever.
Hafeez, I’m dealing with the same frustration you feel towards men on the women’s side!!!🙄 I spend more time telling the women to focus on THEMSELVES!! Stop focusing on what the men are doing! Level up YOURSELF and those guys will fade away. People spend money on what they WANT TO!! Sex is and will ALWAYS be their kryptonite!!!! Guys, get some sexual discipline, please!🤦🏽♀️
Agreed both men and women should be held accountable instead of telling the opposite gender bad and blame them
@@Amthealpha YES EXACTLY
Thank you!!!
Exactly the classic is they want low body count women but at the same time want sex easily
The whole 30-50% men are incel is not pity worthy. If women offered these men sex they will instantly take it.
Well men and women are different and value different things in the opposite sex. The confusion is often that men think women value what they value in a women and vice versa.
Remember boys. Focus on the money and the women will come. Focus on the women and nothing will come.
Damn what great video I needed this I upgraded a lot this year grad from college save my money got a full time job own place everything
I was going through a lot of emotional pain and felt I could spend my way out of it.
It didn't happen for the most part.
My guy Hafeez is preaching
The suit game on point, looking good bro, bring class back to society.
A follower from the beggining of your channel. Delighted with your improvement in your content and personal and proffessional development and transformation. Thank you for sharing. Hope men listen to you!! Merry Christmas from sunny Spain.
This was the mosted deserved "like" i ever gave to a video. Thank you for this
GOAT talk. Respect
Indeed!!
Hafeez constantly improving!!! Good stuff G!!!!
This channel always has great information.
Love the passion my dude.
Step 1: run a mile every day and do pushups. Not once a week. Every day.
That will juice your brain into the right state and you will want to move forward, and you will do so with ease.
All other aspects of emotional and financial health will come after that.
A man without any iota of self discipline is a ticking time bomb waiting to blow up....thanks for putting things in perspective hafeez....
Holding men accountable. Awesome stuff. To bad the views wont match. Let it be about how women are the problem......100k first hour smh
this is a big issue. Vut this is what society is. Negativity always sells. that's why most men are average or bellow. I have accepted this fate. I am a trader slash investor and I hear a lot of men say they want to learn it as well and all this. Then some of these men I take my time to help them and push mind you my friend I never asked for any money just using my knowledge. But even then they were so lazy and always excuses of ill do that later etc. eventually not following trading rules losing money then say fords is a scam you can never make money. It pissed me off so much but then I realized majority don't have the mindset so I stopped caring.
@@UnitedPacci damn sorry you had to go through that. I think its a thing everybody does at some point, not caring i mean. Most be hit that breaking point at some point. Some earlier than others.
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Hey guys. What's the title of that book on Hafeez desk. Second from the top, the red and yellow one. Thanks in advance to anyone who knows the title, and shares with me.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 thank you for doing gods work. So many guys are complaining and whining about their life and no one “wants them”. But they wont improve, pray, learn about improving mental health, improving their daily lives and taking risks to evolve and exciting.
Come through a pandemic basically alive and well.
Took advantage of stimulus money until the powers that be raised prices and then promptly gave all the stimulus money back and then some through higher prices paid for just about everything.
Was willing to walk away from a relationship that I really wanted, but saw going nowhere for whatever reason.
Working on internalizing more and more of my own locus of control so I am not easily manipulated or controlled by others no matter how I might feel about possibly needing them.
Hafeez straight purple now.
please!! turn on auto subtitle for more languages. Many people in Brazil watch its content. please.
Okay!
Suit collection? Thats dope!
I’m sharing this.
Thank you brother for bringing the heat appreciated it isn't easy but it's worth it remind myself this if you're not willing to sacrifice for what you want what you want will eventually become the sacrifice extreme ownership brother I'm starting with the man in the mirror👍🏼
Awesome!
I needed too hear this
Ive done alot. And I have no interest in disturbing my peace w a lesser person.
Hafeez needs to write a book.
Wise words my good man.
DANG MY MAN PREACHING OUT HERE
Hafeez said visual cocaine, going to use that phrase in conversation's.
I 100% agree, most men want to complain and instead of finding a solution. And have the audacity to call themselves alphas.
“Knuck if you buck chicks” lmaoooo
I’m 💀.These men out here spending money on fantasy instead their real life
Accountability on both ends 💯💯
Yes indeed!
This man talks truth
*9 Simple Self Improvement Principles*
1. Drink more water
2. Eat whole foods
3. Practice daily gratitude
4. Pick up a book
5. Listen to a TED Talk
6. Forgive someone
7. Join a group of supportive individuals
8. STOP nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good
9. Congratulate yourself for this growth
For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)
This is 👑 advice men no more simpin!!! 🦾
Hey bro, love your channel. I missed the episode on the suits. Which brands do you recommend?
Un gran mensaje, uno intenta dar lo mejor cada día y cada paso siempre es un punto más cerca de la meta. La contundencia de las palabras solo duelen si describen tu situación, en mi caso intento ser mejor cada día, actuando dentro de las posibilidades que me permite mi patria.
Go off then Hafeez
"Women making 50k a month doing porn"
Hafeez: what have you done this year? did you save money?
LAWD
Bro that's nice and all but making yourself a victim does absolutely nothing for you.
BEST VIDEO HANDS DOWN
Hafeez, will the suits be something sold again? Really want one, just not in the best shape right now. Getting myself right though 💪🏾
You was preaching today!!!
The problem is you need an extra $15,000 a year to spend on your woman.
men and women get so irritated when I say having a woman is a bill.and I would rather spend that money I would spend on a woman, on a supercharger and car parts.
this is the mindset of a weak man. to see a video from a man calling for men to stand up, and you chose to blame it on women.
Then get ghosted because she didn’t feel a “spark” or she got “bored”. We’re not only supposed to be rich but also be entertainers 24/7🤡 too.
I’m 23 and I stopped looking for a LT relationship 2 years ago. Focusing on my finances, career, gym and ONS. Zero fuks given to be honest.
@@nnelson4557 so Nelson instead of pointing fingers,bc that helps no one,is his statement correct or incorrect? Plus or minus a few grand .
@@alimo3011 Facts man but with a mindset like that, you definitely go far my dude💪🏾
Fire intro
I wonder if sex addiction is stronger than substance abuse. I never had drugs/Alcohol problems, so I wouldn't know.
Yea I believe sex addication is stronger than substance abuse. Porn is available 24-7, can be accessed on your phone and watched in the comfort of your bed. At least with drugs/alcohol, you have to get out of bed and need money to purchase it. Sometimes the act of getting out of bed wakes up your brain and it starts to ask "do I really need this?"
what do you mean by stronger? do you mean harder to break free from? If that is the case, I think it depends on the individual, the upbringing, the moral compass, the environment, the spirituality etc
Y’all better buy this man suits so he can stop yelling at y’all 😂😂😂
💪🏾 much needed video
When you're wise, you know that the problem isn't elsewhere. The problem is you.
This man is on point
I'm all for self improvement and men taking accountability but if the other gender standards keep increasing while they lack quality wouldn't our efforts be futile ?
improvement is for self first and foremost. So who cares if someone else chooses to self destruct, let them in their pit. Rise and if that means you are alone then be it.
@@RDCFemmes I agree but if you want to futher/create a better generation you kinda are screwed either way. It like helping somone that spits in your face 😒 than getting mad when avoid them smh.
Needed this today.
Go Thrive
Channel went real quick from women need to improve too to Steve Harvey Lite. Lol.
Great Video Young Successful God. You a real one and the melanated men might be the biggest problem because if we change the whole world will be forced to change
God told y'all not to love and respect these females. Respect yourself, Love God.
What I notice is when a video is posted trashing women from a creator it gets considerately more views than the content on self improvement. what I also notice is when fnf has a video with Instagram models their follows will go up and ppl from chat hitting them up.the manosphere is full of simps .
I set myself back to square one, and stopped concentrating on the women. I've concentrated on myself, I've made minimal gains because I haven't put in enough time. My goal, now that I've started doing the right things, is to do more of the right things to maximize success. More hours in the gym, more hours studying for college, less hours watching TH-cam, and less hours idling my time. My success or failure comes from within. I believe that 1% of life is determined by the world, and until I master the other 99% I have no room to complain. Thanks for the amazing help you give, even when it's lighting a fire under our ass, to get up and do something, or in my case finish something. Hope to be one of those guys in the next year you can give a head nod to.
You're Welcome Bro!!!!
You change the outer world by changing yourself.
The Spirit is your true source of power and wisdom because it is a reflection of God.
Damn feez brought the 🔥 on this one
Thank you!!
Passing the buck always gives the accused more bucks than you!! The only question needed every morning IS WHAT CAN I DO!! Make it happen by keeping all your bucks in your own dam hand!! OWNERSHIP
This is the reality check everyone needs.
Indeed
Hafeez looks like he should be on CNN