That's the marital contract going back to the stone age times. Women trade their beauty, and womb for a man's resources. When it's a fair trade both parties are happy
After 15 years of marriage( western wife) and a divorce i traveled to south East Asia and i was shocked how the lady's were treating me. Now i'm 40 years old and having the time of my Life. I've had a couple relationships and they were all 10 times better then my ex wife ever was. But woman always try to make some drama, it's in their blood and i'm allergic to drama. Jalousy is a very huge thing here, it's on a totally different level😅 You said it like it is and still stayed very humble and once you realize that we western men with some money are indeed a walking winning Lottery Ticket over there.... In Thailand and the Phillipines its not difficult to find a partner. The difficult part is to stay single for more then 1 month 😂
This is exactly true. Filipina has a thing, foreign men - especially white men. I thought being half Filipino who grew up in the Philippines and speaks Tagalog fluently would give me an advantage but that's not the case. On top of that, I probably make more than the majority of expats in the Philippines with 7 figures in savings, in shape, and under 40 years old but did not get that "foreigner treatment". Maybe I just don't have that "exotic" factor since I behave like a Filipino when I'm in the PI. Needless to say, I dumped every single one of those Filipinas. I'm not posting this to brag, I'm just reinforcing Calvin's point.
You are 100% correct. My Filipina and I had this discussion this morning. I was worried of her safety because if she dies our household falls apart. She agreed But Dan she said If you die my whole world falls apart. Mutual benefit Let's all be big boys.
I love the way you end your videos. Always encouraging to help others. I literally laugh out loud when you say “Don’t do anything stupid”. Keep it up!!
Thank YOU Again Brother Calvin You Always tell us what we need to hear at the right time. God Bless You And Your Wonderful Family Robert Thomas Houston Texas
Thank you my brother for the truth. I could never find a good wife with the chareter of a filipina. There very good woman and deserve the best in life. God bless your channel
Facts, i am blown away from the gratitude that my wife and her family show me when im in the Philippines visiting. Hell, the village people treat me like im the chief of the village, because i give back and help feed the needy in her village. A good man takes care of himself and his family and plans ahead to make sure his family will be taken care of after he is gone to that upper room. What tyoe of man are you
Thanks for your post. I am not concerned about money. My concern is finding a good Filipina . I would give away my retirement incomes to be 10-15 years younger. I am trying my best to get excited about traveling to the Philippines in late September, and I will be 65 years old.
In the Philippines and other countries popular with passport bros, the women have figured out that you attract more flies with honey as opposed to vinegar. Because of this, a woman with ulterior motives is a lot harder to spot off the bat. An American woman will make it obvious she sees you as an ATM by the way she treats you. Foreign women with ulterior will treat you as good as they need to for you to catch feelings and then when you fall in love is when your wallet gets drained because she starts asking for more out of you. You have to be very careful dating overseas.
Not entirely true. In my experience many men are foolish and flaunt their money but get outplayed in the game because they have never experienced what it is like to be viewed as wealthy back home. We hear it constantly with men sending money overseas, marrying a foreign woman, and when they take her back to the west she leaves. This is not a difficult game to win.
Due to the quality of your content I try to watch through 90% or so of the advertisements to help support your channel and brand. Keep up the good work brother. Salamat. 🙏🏻
Mr. Calvin you are very smart with baseball mits for hands lol. It's a foreign concept to the westerners but you nailed it. Western woman will say she is using you yet they are the biggest users. I think that Filipina women are taught to treat their man with respect and if they catch a westerner..well great they might succeed
Calvin, you knocked this one out of the park! In return for how well (some) American men treat their Filipina, she should treat him well. But I noticed a larger message in your talk this morning. The US and the Philippines have been close for a long time now. And our countries are getting closer especially these days with the growing China belligerence in the region. That’s all on a government to government basis. But as American men who choose to live out our lives in the Philippines, by doing what you described, we are helping the country on a person to person basis. Affecting hearts and minds, hopefully for the better. Family is the building block of society. Filipino family values is strong in the culture. By treating these women right, and breaking the cycle of poverty for them and their families,we are helping to build a stronger society in the Philippines. At least I hope this is the case. Keep on truckin’ brother.
I enjoy your talks ! I met a young lady from a Davao mountain province online and she is very nice! Incomprehensible poverty is a good description because what I take for granted in the states she can’t afford !She doesn’t even have a fan never mind air conditioning !Thanks
My fiance continuously impresses me. I have never met a woman nearly as amazing as her. I just want to give her everything I can, whatever that may be. As far as her family, they adore me, I want them to live well as well. So long I have the means to help where I can, I will. In the last week her father bought a caribou and two pigs for our palanus. The people up here in the Cordilleras are totally different than the people from the people in the lowlands, consistently astonished.
Because they are poor and desperate for financial support. Not all but some. The competition is high in the Philippines with plenty of other Filipinas. A savior or ATM only last as long as money exists. Not all Filipinas are the same. Some Filipina has known for killing their husband for money. Poverty humbles most people until they strike gold. Be careful, find the one that works for you and live a happy life. Remember nothing is guaranteed in this life. Cheers
That's not always the case. I'm half Filipino and grew up in the Philippines. I thought speaking Tagalog fluently would give me an advantage but that's not the case. On top of that, I probably make more than the majority of expats in the Philippines with 7 figures USD in the bank, in shape, and under 40 years old but did not get that "foreigner treatment". Maybe I just don't have that "exotic" factor since I behave like a Filipino when I'm in the PI. After hearing what other expats say about what their Filipinas do for them, I dumped my Pinay GF and never had another. I get better treatment if I just pay for it outright. Filipina just has a thing for foreign men - especially white men.
Retired expat from the US living in Thailand six years. Have a great Thai Wife. She had a successful business before she met me. We get along great. Mutual respect and love.
And how are the women in the US? They've probably Monkey Branched to someone (perceived) better before you lost your bag and things got hard. Oh AND took half AT A MINIMUM (MORE IF THERE'S MINOR CHILDREN), leaving you struggling just to survive.
I'm not breaking NO money for no woman. Abroad, in the states wherever. Any woman that can't survive without a Man, is not the woman for me, because if something happened to me, I don't want a woman who can't figure out what to do. Period.
Imo Calvin is dead right, when you’re dating someone there the impact you make on them far outweighs a similar dating relationship in the west, her and maybe her families security and future depends on it - no pressure guys
I can't believe some of the comments I'm reading. The majority of the dudes in these threads are sitting here literally advising one another to trick long-term. This is a sad sight to know that my fellow men think that you bring money to a woman to "secure her future"!!!! That's what her FATHER should have installed in her. This type of s**t is embarrassing as a man. And THIS is why men get played 24/7. Just WOW!
I wish women in the states gave the same respect and treatment to their men, these days. When i was a teenager, if you had a car you could find a girl. These days, different story in the states especially after you hit a certain age, unless you got some big cash. I think when it comes down to it with women, it about money with women either up front or over the duration of the relationship, wherever you go in the world now. To get more bang for your bucks, i guess you have to choose whichever woman that will treat you the best and will satisfy you. The meter is running wherever you go with women , and it will either be a short ride or a long ride..... No money, no ride though....
Incomprehensible conditions sound like it's transactional. And, the ladies with education just want that green card to enhance their careers and send more money home like an OFW. Never petition.
I´m not sure a single mom can ever leave... except as an OFW... and her child stays behind... costs the left behind father nothing not to support his child, and a whole heap of blackmail, when she wants to leave (cos he knows she has you...)
As long as the Green backs are flowing they are happy, Unspoken agreements are real, loose the money loose the honey, Switch em out and play the game better that’s all, Never buy or build a home always rent it’s cheaper in the long run.
I keep hearing how her loyality will always be with her family. Is this true? (Obviously we are talking broad strokes here) And if so, how do you stay loyal to a woman who isn't loyal to you? And if she finds a guy with deeper pockets she is gone. These things have been said by several of the younger Filipinas on Utube. But then their next vids thay claim the opposite. So, Cal, you are a straight shooter. What's the reality of it?
When the new gold backed currency is issued and the RV is worldwide it will be an interesting time when 1 dollar is equal to 1 pesos and 1 pound. NESARA/GESARA will be a huge wealth shift and literally make everyone wealthy (all taxes repaid, all debts wiped, birth certifcates no longer traded on stock exchange etc). But for me it's the behaviour shift that I am looking forward to see. Will a Filipinas that's now rich still be interested in a foreigner.......that is the question
don't kid yourself, Filipina women don't treat foreign men more than local men.. Women are raised in our country to take care of their husband and family it does not matter whether you are local or foreigner... Most Filipina, If you treat them well with respect and provide for them, they will double that affection for you, its just the way it is.
No money no honey! To keep her happy give her money. To keep him happy give him sex and peace! Problems are solved 😊
That's the marital contract going back to the stone age times.
Women trade their beauty, and womb for a man's resources. When it's a fair trade both parties are happy
After 15 years of marriage( western wife) and a divorce i traveled to south East Asia and i was shocked how the lady's were treating me.
Now i'm 40 years old and having the time of my Life. I've had a couple relationships and they were all 10 times better then my ex wife ever was. But woman always try to make some drama, it's in their blood and i'm allergic to drama. Jalousy is a very huge thing here, it's on a totally different level😅
You said it like it is and still stayed very humble and once you realize that we western men with some money are indeed a walking winning Lottery Ticket over there....
In Thailand and the Phillipines its not difficult to find a partner. The difficult part is to stay single for more then 1 month 😂
This is exactly true. Filipina has a thing, foreign men - especially white men. I thought being half Filipino who grew up in the Philippines and speaks Tagalog fluently would give me an advantage but that's not the case. On top of that, I probably make more than the majority of expats in the Philippines with 7 figures in savings, in shape, and under 40 years old but did not get that "foreigner treatment". Maybe I just don't have that "exotic" factor since I behave like a Filipino when I'm in the PI. Needless to say, I dumped every single one of those Filipinas. I'm not posting this to brag, I'm just reinforcing Calvin's point.
You, my friend, as realistic as you are, not that you can be...., but YOU ARE the teacher of realism. Thanks.
You are 100% correct. My Filipina and I had this discussion this morning. I was worried of her safety because if she dies our household falls apart. She agreed But Dan she said If you die my whole world falls apart. Mutual benefit
Let's all be big boys.
Love this Calvin. Got turned on to your channel while sitting in my car by an old friend I haven't talk to for years. Thank you
I love the way you end your videos. Always encouraging to help others. I literally laugh out loud when you say “Don’t do anything stupid”. Keep it up!!
Thank YOU Again Brother Calvin
You Always tell us what we need to hear at the right time.
God Bless You And Your Wonderful Family Robert Thomas Houston Texas
Thank you my brother for the truth. I could never find a good wife with the chareter of a filipina. There very good woman and deserve the best in life. God bless your channel
Respect my man.
Awesome work Calvin, struggling at this minute in the ranch community but i want to specifically contribute to the cause
You telling the truth Calvin. Keep up the good work!!!
Man,, moving is tempting, but for now., I'm protecting my soul & lunchbox ...😂 Cool Video
Calvin, you giving knowledge is powerful, thank you for the Philippines 🇵🇭 information.
Facts, i am blown away from the gratitude that my wife and her family show me when im in the Philippines visiting. Hell, the village people treat me like im the chief of the village, because i give back and help feed the needy in her village. A good man takes care of himself and his family and plans ahead to make sure his family will be taken care of after he is gone to that upper room. What tyoe of man are you
Thanks for your post. I am not concerned about money. My concern is finding a good Filipina . I would give away my retirement incomes to be 10-15 years younger. I am trying my best to get excited about traveling to the Philippines in late September, and I will be 65 years old.
@@henrymcmiller2527 I'm here already and I'm 67...been retired 2 years... it's great
In the Philippines and other countries popular with passport bros, the women have figured out that you attract more flies with honey as opposed to vinegar. Because of this, a woman with ulterior motives is a lot harder to spot off the bat. An American woman will make it obvious she sees you as an ATM by the way she treats you. Foreign women with ulterior will treat you as good as they need to for you to catch feelings and then when you fall in love is when your wallet gets drained because she starts asking for more out of you. You have to be very careful dating overseas.
Yes your right. I have been through it. But there is good and bad in life😮
Not entirely true. In my experience many men are foolish and flaunt their money but get outplayed in the game because they have never experienced what it is like to be viewed as wealthy back home.
We hear it constantly with men sending money overseas, marrying a foreign woman, and when they take her back to the west she leaves. This is not a difficult game to win.
You hit the nail on the head.
You brought up a lot of truthful points. Everything you mentioned I can relate to. Take care always.
Due to the quality of your content I try to watch through 90% or so of the advertisements to help support your channel and brand. Keep up the good work brother. Salamat. 🙏🏻
Thanks for that!
Mr. Calvin you are very smart with baseball mits for hands lol. It's a foreign concept to the westerners but you nailed it. Western woman will say she is using you yet they are the biggest users. I think that Filipina women are taught to treat their man with respect and if they catch a westerner..well great they might succeed
Calvin, you knocked this one out of the park! In return for how well (some) American men treat their Filipina, she should treat him well. But I noticed a larger message in your talk this morning. The US and the Philippines have been close for a long time now. And our countries are getting closer especially these days with the growing China belligerence in the region. That’s all on a government to government basis. But as American men who choose to live out our lives in the Philippines, by doing what you described, we are helping the country on a person to person basis. Affecting hearts and minds, hopefully for the better. Family is the building block of society. Filipino family values is strong in the culture. By treating these women right, and breaking the cycle of poverty for them and their families,we are helping to build a stronger society in the Philippines. At least I hope this is the case. Keep on truckin’ brother.
THIS! 👆
I enjoy your talks ! I met a young lady from a Davao mountain province online and she is very nice! Incomprehensible poverty is a good description because what I take for granted in the states she can’t afford !She doesn’t even have a fan never mind air conditioning !Thanks
Thank you, always good. 😀
I believe it is about tradition .they are taught to be nice abd treat a man with respect . Since they will have more chances to have a husband...
My fiance continuously impresses me. I have never met a woman nearly as amazing as her. I just want to give her everything I can, whatever that may be. As far as her family, they adore me, I want them to live well as well. So long I have the means to help where I can, I will. In the last week her father bought a caribou and two pigs for our palanus. The people up here in the Cordilleras are totally different than the people from the people in the lowlands, consistently astonished.
Going to Ethiopia.
Tks., much appreciative.
Because they are poor and desperate for financial support. Not all but some. The competition is high in the Philippines with plenty of other Filipinas. A savior or ATM only last as long as money exists. Not all Filipinas are the same. Some Filipina has known for killing their husband for money. Poverty humbles most people until they strike gold. Be careful, find the one that works for you and live a happy life. Remember nothing is guaranteed in this life. Cheers
That's not always the case. I'm half Filipino and grew up in the Philippines. I thought speaking Tagalog fluently would give me an advantage but that's not the case. On top of that, I probably make more than the majority of expats in the Philippines with 7 figures USD in the bank, in shape, and under 40 years old but did not get that "foreigner treatment". Maybe I just don't have that "exotic" factor since I behave like a Filipino when I'm in the PI. After hearing what other expats say about what their Filipinas do for them, I dumped my Pinay GF and never had another. I get better treatment if I just pay for it outright. Filipina just has a thing for foreign men - especially white men.
@bakismash I noticed quite a few of the Pinays on Filipino Cupid were widows. 🤔😳😨
Retired expat from the US living in Thailand six years.
Have a great Thai Wife. She had a successful business before she met me. We get along great. Mutual respect and love.
A blind squirrel found an Acorn !!!! it happens once in a blue moon !!!
@MrORANGEMAN1966 ha ha Great acorn.
As long as the money is there, they are good, take the money away, and find out
Money is not enough. If we're not around it means nothing.
And how are the women in the US? They've probably Monkey Branched to someone (perceived) better before you lost your bag and things got hard. Oh AND took half AT A MINIMUM (MORE IF THERE'S MINOR CHILDREN), leaving you struggling just to survive.
I'm not breaking NO money for no woman. Abroad, in the states wherever. Any woman that can't survive without a Man, is not the woman for me, because if something happened to me, I don't want a woman who can't figure out what to do. Period.
@@StormbladeX69 Are you just living your life without female attention or interaction?...You cant navigate female nature?
It’s mostly the money. It’s also the culture.
Brother you have great videos and information. I will be there with my woman soon. You are accurate about what you are saying
Good content. Giving it to people straight
Good morning brother Calvin !!! Watching you from Colorado....Rocky Mountain country ✊🏿👑
I wish i could like this video twice. Nothing more true than that they don’t want to lose you to another Pinay.
I agree.
I've come pretty close to pulling the trigger. I visited in Oct and Nov of 2023. A great trip!
Imo Calvin is dead right, when you’re dating someone there the impact you make on them far outweighs a similar dating relationship in the west, her and maybe her families security and future depends on it - no pressure guys
Wise words my man, thank you.
They love green
Money alone is not enough. Don't forget it
Both men and women love the green ! Nobody more than Western Woman.
women ALL OVER the world do.
I can't believe some of the comments I'm reading. The majority of the dudes in these threads are sitting here literally advising one another to trick long-term. This is a sad sight to know that my fellow men think that you bring money to a woman to "secure her future"!!!! That's what her FATHER should have installed in her. This type of s**t is embarrassing as a man. And THIS is why men get played 24/7. Just WOW!
@@jaymoose4337right on you are not alone.
Calvin, A+ video.
Well said. Many men need to realize the equation more.
Good vid Calvin👍 thank you
Well said. I agree with you.
Thank you cal
Calvin ….I have to meet you in person..I will be back in December/ January 2025 ….keep up the good content …no sugar coating
Tell it like it is
Great 👍
So true
I wish women in the states gave the same respect and treatment to their men, these days. When i was a teenager, if you had a car you could find a girl. These days, different story in the states especially after you hit a certain age, unless you got some big cash. I think when it comes down to it with women, it about money with women either up front or over the duration of the relationship, wherever you go in the world now. To get more bang for your bucks, i guess you have to choose whichever woman that will treat you the best and will satisfy you. The meter is running wherever you go with women , and it will either be a short ride or a long ride.....
No money, no ride though....
“@ss, gas, or grass, nobody rides for free!”
@SammifromMiami Thats all it is....Not much love anymore, but if so its hard to find these days.
Incomprehensible conditions sound like it's transactional. And, the ladies with education just want that green card to enhance their careers and send more money home like an OFW. Never petition.
I´m not sure a single mom can ever leave... except as an OFW... and her child stays behind... costs the left behind father nothing not to support his child, and a whole heap of blackmail, when she wants to leave (cos he knows she has you...)
Calvin said a mouthful…..Guys…Know your worth! Be leaders…not followers
She's going to take good care of you and the trike driver too.
Thanks Cal
"There's a reason for that."
My Old Man
Tell it Cal!
As long as the Green backs are flowing they are happy, Unspoken agreements are real, loose the money loose the honey, Switch em out and play the game better that’s all, Never buy or build a home always rent it’s cheaper in the long run.
Or buy on time, which can be better. Either way she can't kick you out and make the payments without you ;)
Keeping it real!!
I am married to a Filipina for 20 years and I wouldn't trade her in for anyone. Enough said.
Another Classic... when Construction workers earn $7 a day, your western commuter coffee & pan/cake is their wages.
Same in America. 🇺🇸
Women prefer a man with money. It’s just cheaper to keep a woman happy abroad.
I keep hearing how her loyality will always be with her family. Is this true? (Obviously we are talking broad strokes here) And if so, how do you stay loyal to a woman who isn't loyal to you? And if she finds a guy with deeper pockets she is gone. These things have been said by several of the younger Filipinas on Utube. But then their next vids thay claim the opposite. So, Cal, you are a straight shooter. What's the reality of it?
Uncle Cal!
❤If U want her to stop treating U soo well it's E Z... Take her to the U.S 😂
🤣
nice
If a dude treats his lady well, she will treat her man well. Appreciate your boots on the ground perspective brotherman.
A big salute from Fred in Thailand. Calvin always seems to nail it.
Money Money Money !!!
It's deeper than that. You have to stick around to make it work. Money alone won't get it.
I take it that you are talking about western women
When the new gold backed currency is issued and the RV is worldwide it will be an interesting time when 1 dollar is equal to 1 pesos and 1 pound. NESARA/GESARA will be a huge wealth shift and literally make everyone wealthy (all taxes repaid, all debts wiped, birth certifcates no longer traded on stock exchange etc). But for me it's the behaviour shift that I am looking forward to see. Will a Filipinas that's now rich still be interested in a foreigner.......that is the question
Not happening friend. But the Philippines is definitely on its way up.
Not happening friend. I do think holding tangible assets is wise though, especially PM"s.
How about stopping the cycle of poverty in American families, first?
Hey I bet most of rhem know how to cook too.
don't kid yourself, Filipina women don't treat foreign men more than local men.. Women are raised in our country to take care of their husband and family it does not matter whether you are local or foreigner... Most Filipina, If you treat them well with respect and provide for them, they will double that affection for you, its just the way it is.
Mo Money Mo Money 😂
Hmm.
Hey cal I’m a long time listener. Where are all the Muslim filipinas are. Im ex. navy got out and would like too visit sometime soon.
Mindanao. Specifically Zamboanga City and Cagayan de Oro
For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord - Romans 6:23