Does BIPOLAR Get WORSE With Age?
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⚠️ Is Bipolar Disorder progressive? I mean, does it get WORSE as we get older?
THE ANSWER to this frequently-asked question is:
👉👉👉YES!.... and NO! You see, there are certain aspects of Bipolar Disorder that DO get worse with age, while surprisingly, there are a few things that can get better. It completely depends on the person, AND - all of the factors that we are going to explore in this video from Polar Warriors!
▶️ Not to be a pessimist, but I'll start the video by sharing 7 ways Bipolar Disorder can get worse with age. After that, I'll point out a few things that can get better. Please keep in mind that if someone isn't, or hasn't ever sought treatment, they have a much higher chance of the illness progressing.
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My BPD has gotten much better over the years. At 57 my highs aren’t so high and lows are manageable. I’ve found a great medication regimen and therapy support. I sleep on a schedule. I’m more self aware through meditation and experience. I look forward to aging because of all the self care work I’ve done over the years!
My experience has been similar to yours. Applying the knowledge and skills I’ve gained through years of frustrating effort has paid off. As you say, a good sleep schedule, meditation and good stress management and self awareness come with maturing and help tremendously.
@@lainey2988 I agree.
I am so happy to hear this! I do all these things too.
Sir my son aged 39 years is suffering from BIPOLAR aa diagnosed by Psychologist snd he is treatment for last 15 years it started when he didn't get through high school SSC matriculation he is employed behaves well with our relatives and friends friends he is very much fond of eating sweets and other fried things Hope for good
I been walking through life for 35 years with bipolar 1 and ADHD, I found that cutting people out of my life who triggers me has been giving me peace
Likewise. I’ve done the same.
@@tylerellicott4716 you have to sometimes, they just don't understand our disease
Agreed. I cut millions of people out of my life when I left a cult-religion at 16, and I have never looked back.
@@DanielleSainte-Marie an atheist too I take it?
Highly recommend doing this. Several people who have given me grief about my being bipolar were dx'ed bipolar themselves.
Thanks Robert. I’m 62 and my first appointment with a psychiatrist is in a few hours. I’m nervous but really glad to listen to this.
Good for you. It’s normal to be nervous, but you’re taking that crucial step. Keep with it and life will get better.
I'm getting better as I age (I'm 58): I bounce back quicker after an episode of depression and they tend to be less intense & shorter, manic episodes are less commun, more positive thoughts, less anxiety/fear, more acceptance of myself, I recognise my limits and RESPECT them. Take care of you all xx
Yes, I agree that I am also going through all of that at the same time as it's getting worse (it's like: the illness gets worse for me, but all my coping skills are also improving). This is just me, now, I'm not saying this should be anyone else's experience. Curiously, in our ages, I am 55 ( I think I am. I'm bad with dates and times and had a horrific childhood) and you are 58. We're contemporaries in this sense. Interesting this illness operates in each of us differently. Anyways, I am so happy you posted these positive results and ideas. Thank You!
Definitely noticed deeper depression in my later years. I still have moments of euphoria but it’s fleeting. I was diagnosed at 16. I am now 53.
I would give you a big hug if you like, and tell you, "You're a warrior, a person who knows the value of this life and won't shy away from adversity just because so many people suck. You were given a gift that is also a curse, but no warrior fights for anything other than the chance to find a better day, someday. And that warrior will keep fighting until they can remark, 'At least, I can say, I never gave up. I fought it my whole life.' That's a HERO, or, HEROINE in a woman's case, a person of great character, depth, and wisdom."
The depression for me has gotten worse and lasts for soooo long now. Like it's just my constant state pretty much. The mania is a lot less common, but is so much more intense when it does happen.
Yes I'm in tears daily with it sick of it and I isolate
Are you on meds or no?
please, try not to isolate. If you can’t cope with friends or family, assuming you have them (you may not) just going out and talking to store clerks briefly or sharing an exchange with a stranger at a coffee shop can brighten your day. Don’t despair. Things can get better. 💖
I spent years in a depressive state in my fifties. Now, in my sixties, I have reached a peace I never would have expected, despite a diagnosis of MS and age related illness. I couldn’t be more surprised. I had almost given up but all those years of just working on things when I was able paid off. I still have episodes, but they are briefer and I’ve learned to swing with the punches better. You can too.
I also went through about 6years of non-stop depression, and thought it would never end- it was exhausting. But it did; not only that, but my manias returned, though not as severe and scary as they were in my 20s. I’m 55 now, and am so very grateful I didn’t give up- I pray you don’t either. I now have found supports I never dreamed possible before, and my life is so very rich. I hope this may give you hope that things will change- keep seeking the supports and answers you need, and practicing self-care. You are worth it! 😊
Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been worried about my bipolar disorder progressing as I get older (majority of my health issues are progressive). It’s reassuring to know that it’s not just the possibility of the condition worsening, but things could get better when we become older. The biggest thing is the growth of support system.
In my case, I would say that I have more rapid cycling now that I’m in my 30s than when I was in my 20s, although my episodes are less intense than before due to meds. It also helped that I married someone who understands that I have bipolar disorder, and he always keeps an eye on me to make sure that I’m safe. My mother became more accepting with my condition after she saw the huge positive change in me after undergoing treatment.
I wasn’t diagnosed until my mid fifties with rapid cycling. Now that I’m on the correct meds, the highs and lows are less severe and much shorter in duration, but anxiety and panic disorder is debilitating. I do resonate with your comments about gaining new skills and knowing oneself better to assist oneself in riding the waves a little better. Thank you for your videos
I wish my mom would take her medicine.
It was diagnosed 15 years ago.And then she refuses to believe it because she thinks it's Insomnia and
Metapause
She doesn't want to take the medication because she thinks It's toxic because of the side effects.
She thinks pharmacy Companies are just trying to get people on drugs.
I'm sure it's true to this, but We all wish she would just take her medicine
She gets in trouble with the police. I guess it's because she can't seem to control her frustration of people.
@@meggrotte4760 she definitely needs to find her right team of Dr, Therapist and meds...it is hard to take that first jump, put it makes life a little easier..
take care of yourself. You are going through so much. Your mother may never change, but you can look after your needs first.
@@meggrotte4760 Oh wow...do you know if she ever had a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder. Borderline people are notorious for not accepting diagnoses about themselves, even their own Psychiatric condition. Borderline also mimics Bipolar in many regards and many misdiagnoses have been made. Well, whatever the case may be, I surely hope that things get better for you real soon! Truly!
For me its the opposite. I was diagnosed when i was 7. As i grew up with treatment i was more and more stable. The frequency of my manic episodes are so rare and dont last as long. The more i have matured the easier it has been to be aware of my moods. But i also was medicated from a young age and i can't imagine what it would be like without that.
I was not diagnosed until after 50. The biggest change I've had is the first you mentioned-- cycling faster. I've had four or more manic episodes in the last 2 years, compared to about 1 a year earlier. And the extremes are getting much worse. I've been "lucky" with meds at least seeming to work, but I guess now that I think of it maybe not if the episodes are getting more frequent.
You know, it takes a very long time to really figure out the amazingly complex (at times) maze of getting the medicines and everything else in your life in the right order, and knowing how to use it all in the best synergistic way for YOU. And, here's the fun part: (*rolls eyes*) every year that we age, those medicines and our ways of using them can and WILL change. In fact, it can change in just one day.
You're looking a lot more fit nowadays! This is one my of biggest struggles. Keep it up!
I've learned to manage it better. My symptoms aren't as bad. CBT taught me many things. Different coping mechanisms and tricks. I was diagnosed very young. It's been 33 years since. And I was blessed in that my late mother was a psych nurse. In the past I was in hospitals at least once a year, usually several times. But in the last, almost 4 years I haven't had a single hospitalization. I've never been this stable. It's a journey and I know I'm going to have issues in the future, that's the nature of bipolar. But with all I've learned, I can accept that.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Your strength is commendable, and your story can give hope to many :)
-Rob
www.patreon.com/PolarWarriors
Mine was getting worse, until the VA prescribed me Lamotrigine. It has been a life changer for me.
Me too
Much less mania now that I'm older. I wasn't even diagnosed until I was 40. It took me getting a new PCP and her referring me to a clinic for diagnosis because I'd been on every antidepressant on the market and nothing helped. Then once I was diagnosed my PCP tried to treat me. Eventually I ended up in a mental hospital for a week and got referred to a psychiatrist and shes been wonderful. I've been with her 4 years and I love her so much.
I started rapid cycling in my mid-30s. This is great information, thank you!
Thank you for all of your supportive videos. I was diagnosed at 25 & I am thankful for makiing to 49. I've learned to never stop learning & love myself. I wish you much ✌️ & happinness
Mine has definitely improved since diagnosis in my 40's and good medication regimen, but now, as I approach my 60's, this has got me a little concerned hearing I may get wonky, again. Definitely bringing this up next appt!
I'm a 33 year old male just recently diagnosed with type 2 Bipolar. My depressive episodes have definitely progressively worsened over the last 8 years or so, they have become longer in duration and more severe which has caused me many problems over the years. My hypomanic episodes are less often and I don't seem to spend much time at baseline. I have been misdiagnosed with major unipolar depression for years as my hypomanic episodes were not too intense, I would just feel really good and positive about life. Id make heaps of plans, start new hobbies or get back into old ones, catch up with and stay in touch with friends, get all the stuff done that i had been putting off due to my last depressive episode, I would get back into exercise, yoga and meditation, And id have this overwhelming sense that finally this is it, I'm finally going to beat this thing and get my life back on track for good. Only to crash hard into a deep depression potentially lasting months.
On a positive note, I have begun seeing a Psychiatrist and adjusting my meds to hopefully improve my symptoms. I'm holding out a lot of hope that my new mood stabilizer will work for me. I Cant keep going on like this.
I am young (20's) and I do experience more mania/ hypomania. I have issues with my memory and I can't think clearly all the time. Especially when I have to memorize other people's faces there is a blur. Thank you so much for your videos!
@breadandpeace447 just know, you aren't alone. I have some customers that are in their 70s and 80s with better memory than mine
I would say things are maybe starting to finally stabilize for me, however, my lows are still incredibly low. I just have a better handle on what to do when I lose sight of hope.
Also wanted to add, I've tried *many* things for the depression, ranging from talk therapy and medications, to CBT, DBT, even extreme options like ECT and TMS/Ketamine. I wouldn't go through ECT again personally (not that I think it's bad across the board, it just wasn't a good fit for me) but TMS/Ketamine in combination with my meds and normal therapy really seemed to help.
Even tho bipolar may get worse with age we as the people may get better with time.
I was diagnosed late in life but made it a priority to research and learn everything I could about my disease. It was also important to me to review my past behaviors for patterns and "triggers."
With menopause, my bipolar disorder was INTENSIFIED. My highs and lows were more extreme. This was complicated by severe emotional swings. Now, in my mid-60s, I'm experiencing rapid cycling but thankfully, my mood stabilizer keeps the intensity of my mania down to a more manageable level. My depressive episodes are less severe as well. Polar Warriors has provided me with much-needed support and OUTSTANDING tips & suggestions to help me cope & deal with my late-in-life diagnosis.
Very refreshing to see a return to this straight forward and informative approach to the videos.
To be honest my Bipolar 2 is getting worse. The big relief is knowing what is happening to me and knowing that an episode is not everlasting. For some reason handling myself accordingly really helps me navigate episode as a journey. Only disorder where I can be excited to be depressed again---that illustrates an end of a manic episode, and I was truly happy to be sad! Also, I found episodes to last shorter time with Lithium. This YT channel is a big help.
It was interesting hearing this news. My medications don't seem to be working as well but my experience in handling episodes has definitely been easier. Knowledge is power.
Yes, but I’ve noticed that the depression phase has increased. When I was younger, the manic episodes were more frequent. And first me, my life seemed do much more enjoyable that way. I knew I was in mania, but lived it. Now, with the depressive episodes being more constant, I’m really not enjoying my life at all.
I'm not as manic now just depressed but I spend like crazy on line every pay day can't stop that tried
@@user-ds5uj6mj9n I commented earlier generally but commenting again to you. My bf goes on crazy spending sprees. He can't just seem to buy one of anything. He bought some fitted sheets recently and bought 7... Crazy since he lives alone and he ends up overdrawn every month buying stuff he don't need. So I was interested in your comment - I didn't actually know this was part of the disorder
the episodes of hypomania have reduced but the depression was getting worse. i recently had to change to a new doctor and we decided to switch up some of my meds, best thing in a while for me. i feel more stable and less depressed.
I'm glad I can say that I've gotten better over the years.
I had my first episode around age 12 for sure, maybe earlier but I can't say that with certainty.
I was already smoking cigs and weed at that age, soon after drinking. Didn't get on any meds till 10 years later.
Being primarily type 2, I always considered the hypomanic phases as just me being normal again after depression.
That is, until I hit a full blown manic episode at 22 and another at 23 with added psychosis from drug abuse.
I've been doing much better every year since then, and especially this year sticking to my therapy.
I also found a special someone, so I'm hopeful for the future for the first time in decades (30 now.)
Having bipolar, should not drink (alcohol bev) and smoking (nicotine) also shouldnt drink coffee and tea (kafeine), and narcotics drugs. All those could trigger mania episodes
@nathangodzilla9967 Yeah, lol. Even if I knew that back then, I don't think I would've stopped. I have co-morbid ADD, tho, so that gives me quite a tolerance to stimulants, at least.
Thanks for the great info. Its hard to tell as i was diagnosed with BP1 at age 47 and now im 51. The best thing with finally understanding BP is that my past was a mess and i can finally move forward as i have now understood my actions.
I hope to get more relaxed as im older and be more stable in my feelings and emotions.
Hi my name is Jeff and I'm from Woodstock ontario Canada, thank you for this channel, I'm a bipolar type 2 and just started my journey of excepting my bipolar illness
Hey Jeff, thanks for sharing your story. It's awesome that you're starting to accept your bipolar illness. Keep pushing forward and know that we're here for you! This illness can be incredibly hard to navigate. I'd love to offer any support I can... If it interests you, I have a private community where you can message me directly and network with other people who are going through similar struggles. No pressure of course, but it would be great to have you join us. I'll include a link below:
www.patreon.com/PolarWarriors
-Rob
I was diagnosed with cyclothymia at 18 and by 21 I had been diagnosed with bipolar psychoses and bipolar 2 instead. I’m 23 now and have noticed I have less episodes per year, probably because I’m much more medication compliant now than when I was first diagnosed and after 5 different medications I’ve found aripiprazole to be excellent at preventing my manic and psychotic symptoms.
My bipolar disability application is current on last step at DDS!!! So excited hoping i get it and my backpay❤ please wish me luck
Btw i submitted it in June 2023. Been a year and keeps going
Thank you for the update! Your perseverance is inspiring.
-Rob
www.patreon.com/PolarWarriors
@@PolarWarriorsThanks Rob love you man.
Thank you so much for sharing your life and all the information!
Don't quite know where to start. Female, 66, first dx'ed in mid 20's, first treated for it in mid 40's a little after the time I went through menopause. No kids, didn't want any. I've become good at managing my bipolar, dealing with triggers and coping in general with no meds except edible CBD. My husband is great, we have a pack of 6 dogs, and they are our kids. Meds and their side f/x made my life hell. Too much to list. My first service dog, Luna(RIP), saved my life when I was attacked from behind unexpectedly. Privately trained, I gave the command to guard, and she did. I was able to get away and survived. I got my current service dog, Jack, while he was a sick puppy. I was grieving the loss of a good friend and he was grieving his two littermates when they died a day apart, one the day before and one earlier that day. I held him as I cried. He put his muzzle up to my nose and mouth, and sniffed. Took him home thinking he would die that night and at least not be consumed by buzzards outdoors. He survived and thrived, and turned 2 in May. To this day, he senses when I'm upset, sniffs my breath and sits tight against me or lays across me on the bed. Highly recommend a service dog.
I'm so grateful that you found solace and protection in Luna and now in Jack. They truly are heroes in your life. Thank you for advocating for service dogs.
-Rob
www.patreon.com/PolarWarriors
Your story is very inspiring!
@@PolarWarriors Thank you. I miss my Luna, but I think she sent my Jack.
I'm experiencing a serious crash and more frequent lower moods in my thirties.
I’m 43 and I think I’ve gotten better. (Was diagnosed at 32) But I’m on regular therapy and the right meds, I think. I also have BPD and PTSD and I mostly now deal with psychosis and dissociation and less with mood swings. When I was younger and didn’t know I had any mi, I can recall having more bursts of hypomania. Now I’m more “chill” sort of speak.
I had my first manic episode in the fall of 2016. I wasn't diagnosed for a couple of years. So i was in my 40's when diagnosed. My worst manic episode was in conjunction with postpartum depression after i had my second child at 44. I was hospitalized. I have been able to find medication that helps & i haven't had a manic episode since. For me things are more stable and improved with time. However i have only dealt with BPD for a short time. I appreciate your efforts to help people Rob. You have been very helpful to me.
I was diagnosed when I was 20. I started lithium then and still on it 46 years later. I think I am better in all aspects. I know to avoid stress when possible as that will get my motor running. My forgetfulness is bad. Age or BPD? Probably both. My BPD improved a lot when I retired because then I have little stress. Thank you for your videos. They make me feel like I’m not alone and I’m okay. 😊
I’m in my mid sixties and have suffered from severe bipolar disorder since my teens. I can honestly say, I have never been better, despite a very rocky few years of late. Who would have guessed that my meds would finally get sorted out and that I would find a good psychiatrist and supportive, though few, friends. It’s never too late. Those years of working on myself as I was able to are paying off now, as I am able to cope much better and have surrendered a lot of the things that used to concern me so much. Life is shorter ahead, but I’m so glad that I hung in there and didn’t succumb to suicide. If I could do it, it’s really possible for anyone. I was a tough, refractory, case. Now I feel that I have some good years ahead and enjoy my modest life to the fullest.
I'll be 60 and I have to say I'm feeling much better. I've learned to manage my high and low cycles. They aren't as severe as when I was in my twenties and thirties. I wasn't diagnosed until I was in my mid 40. But I still suffer from deep anxiety where I had to take an Uber to work since the anxiety driving a car was too much. I'm at a good place in my life but I also know I can cycle at any moment if I don't get enough sleep and reduce the stresses in my life.
And you, my dear Friend and Brother by Polar Warrior, a saviour TH-cam community and mental health in general
first let me say Rob, UR very very well informed. I am a 69 yr old woman with bipolar 1. Everything you said is true for me . Of course at this age I could write a book but I'll keep this short. I just want to tell anyone who is channel surfing from one youtube video to another for information on Bipolar, please go no farther. Stick with Polar Warriors. Rob only does his videos while he is stable. He'll do many in one day if thats what it takes. I've been with Rob for many many years, and I "KNOW" here w Rob is where you will get your very best information. Thank You Rob for all your help :)
Interesting. But one GOOD is the fact that I am used to having to deal with it.
My Bipolar disorder type 2 has significantly improved over the years through adherence to taking medications & acceptance of the condition. I had a couple of terrible manic episodes in my 30s but now I am in my 50s I haven't had any for at least 10 years. The depression aspect has also improved although it still happens I recognise my behaviour & take preventative measures. I consider myself fortunate & it is important to have a support network.
I definitely had more euphoric mania when I was in my 20s. Now that I’m in my 40s, I experience depression and an occasional dysphoric mania where I feel extremely suicidal. Unfortunately, there is no medication that gets rid of my depression. Fortunately, my medication does get rid of my SI and eases my depression some.
Thank you for posting this. I had assumed that my lack of manic phases, and longevity of depression phases, was linked to my psych meds. Now that I'm 40 I'm almost always depressed, and over the last ten years it has only accumulated to the constant depression I have now. I never knew it might be because of my age. Perhaps it's time to work with my doctor to tweak my meds appropriately.
Hi Michael,, Thank You for All your Great 👍 Video's you Share with us..Yes we are All different and grew up in different Ways. Being over 50 yes I feel different when I was younger.Take Care of your self.
gosh thing you for helping us love your show
My deep depression has gotten worse, tried so many meds I can’t take, but still trying what they throw at me. Ig the take away is I’m still trying? When I’ve literally given up a few times, still here for some reason… keep trying frens, I pray they come out w/ something amazing that will help all of us better!
Your resilience shines through your words. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. We're here for you.
Below is a link to my private community on Patreon. It's where you can message me directly and I'll get back to you right away. We can also arrange a phone call if that would be more helpful.
www.patreon.com/PolarWarriors
-Rob
I'm going to ponder on these lists, but some of these points seem to fit where I'm at. Thanks!
Robert, thank you so much for your videos! I am turning 70 this year and my BP conditions have definitely worsened (I was finally diagnosed at 59).. I still have a lot of hypomania (including rapid speech, lots of creative energy - I’m an electronic musician- and also severe anger/rage & frustration).. but I am much more depressed now as well, feeling hopeless a lot. I have “mixed episodes” most of the time. My own opinion is, as they always say, depression is anger turned inward.. But I also feel anger is depression turned outward. I am now in the process of getting a new psychiatrist for going back on meds (nothing has worked much for me in the past few years, maybe temporarily) and I also am starting talk therapy (trying again lol, I’m pretty resistant).. so anyway, I am hopeful. Thanks again for what you do.
Hey there! It's heartwarming to hear that my videos have been helpful to you. Stay strong on your journey to better mental health. Cheers to new beginnings with your psychiatrist and therapy sessions!
-Rob
www.patreon.com/PolarWarriors
Thanks for this. It really is a life long journey. Time has been my one true advocate and I also wish there was a shortcut. But alas, there is not.
Thanks robert good insight. Im 26 yrs with bipolar. Youve gone with knowledge and make a sound arguement. There is so much to it as this illness is complex...but for me my outlook is simplistic and contented. Peace mate. Heath.
Went carnivore three years ago. Bipolar gone, anxiety gone, Dark deep depression gone. So many mental and physical issues have gotten so much better it hard to believe. I feel like a new person.
You are in denial
@@PolarWarriors why would you say such a heartless thing. I and countless others have experienced the same thing. I thought you were here to help people. Not crap on what helps them.
@@PolarWarriors. in fact, there is plenty of published books and papers by prominent doctors psychiatrist and professors on this very subject. Look up Georgia Ede for one of many. You are the one in denial.
I’ve noticed my Depressive episodes last longer.
I have to fight Depression almost everyday I'm 55 . it seems to have gotten worse.
My Bipolar Level I has increased dramatically over the years, and my medicine requirements keep changing. There's something more powerful than Lithium (yes, I still take Lithium everyday). But, the ultimate medicine I discovered has all positive benefits for ME, and has no negative impact on ME at all. The medicine is called THC and CBD and I suggest you try it out.
Agreed!
My psychiatrist advised me to avoid THC if you've ever experienced psychosis; however, early studies suggest that CBD might actually prevent subsequent psychotic episodes.
@@Trollophile Well, there is no hard, fast rule for everyone in these matters. Than you for sharing, but for me, THC is like the most valuable substance on this earth. It's the only thing that calms my body, gets me to sleep, and makes me less rage-filled and more soft, and loving. Whatever works, right? So, I support however you take care of your mental health. :-)
I probably shouldn't have said, "I suggest you try it out." What I mean to say, is that you should investigate it for yourselves. Okay? Now myself, I'm not trying it out. I'm taking gummies, doing bong rips, eating cannabis cookies that are delicious (but not because of the chocolate chips). So, I am not trying it out. I am IMMERSED. You might say my head is in the bong. Nothing has ever been so absolutely wonderful and helpful to my bipolar than cannabis. Why? It takes care of ALL my symptoms, gets me to sleep, makes me smile, takes away rage, and my relationships have improved. And now, since my brain isn't always screaming a million suns of exploding crap, I can handle therapy and am much more introspective, kind, and in many ways I am improving. It's like Bipolar gets worse, but, my coping skills also increase every-time too. So, look, we're living our lives. This isn't going to last much longer. So, let's all strive to live the best, happiest existences we can. While we're here, remember this from the great, bipolar poet, Dylan Thomas:
"Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light."
@DanielleSainte-Marie - Oh, yes, I agree and support THC for you! 👍❤
In my case, however, I experienced a long and severe episode of psychosis. My therapist explained that once something like this happens, the odds of THC triggering another episode are greatly increased.
I did not mean to invalidate what you KNOW works for your symptoms. 🤗
My episodes have become less common over the years I have not had a big episode for a long time
How does Keef Richards cope so very well? Kinda admired since 64.
I watch your channel because a close family member has bi-polar rapid cycling. I do think it is getting worse as they age.
I was told it gets better towards 60+. I sure hope that's the case.
THANK YOU so much
Have bipolar 30 years. Depressions are less intense but last longer, hypomania has stopped all together. Understanding the processes means i can manage things well. Only thing ive not learnt to control yet is the cravings for carbs after i take quetiapine. Intermittent fasting and eating healthy has my weight reasonable. If anyone has learnt to control the cravings for carbs with quetiapine please message me with how you did it. Thank you.
My worst anger erupted after i got out of a inpatient in new york state.
So as fast as i could i ran back to san francisco.
Got a room in one of those places for down and outers for $35 a week
Worked the 2nd shift at veterans cab company usually until 4 in the morning.
Met a nice women
At a singles thing
She liked me a lot.
But one day my head was so full of rage
I destroyed my room
Throwing anything at the walls including my bloodied fists.
Grabbed a few things and left.
As i was leaving my women showed up.
Walking right past her like she did not exist.
44 years later i am still haunted by this.
However i was diagnosed at the age of 50.
Much better even at 73
Having been diagnosed for years. I have noticed less manic episodes as I grow older, just being replaced with constant depression. Yes the management has become more controlled in a few ways. I can fool others into my "I'm fine" when really I'm not, have that down pat. I can also push down the impending storm as I call it for longer. The question I really pondering now is it all worth it, why am I still trying so hard just to exist.
Hey, I hear you. It's tough to keep up the facade sometimes, but remember you're not alone in this. Keep reaching out for support when you need it. This illness can be incredibly hard to navigate. I'd love to offer any support I can... If it interests you, I have a private community where you can message me directly and network with other people who are going through similar struggles. No pressure of course, but it would be great to have you join us. I'll include a link below:
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-Rob
hello. Ifind your videos enlightening, lo say the least. Today eas no exception. I hadnt explored this concept before. Thank you. Can you share in a next video how CBT has changed you manage the disease? I am on my third session and still unsure if its really worth the money and time invested
I come from California, now live in France, where my psychiatrist said I am bipolar. Maybe? But, I had been with a narcissist for 10 years and I got out...divorced and cared for my 2 adolescents and my first, from another relationship. The 2 with him, became him, and I think maybe I'm suffering from PTSD and not bipolar? Or maybe both? Lucky me!!!
My psychiatrist told me that bipolar symptoms tend to get worse in woman as they age while they tend to improve in men. Not sure if this is due to research or just her personal observation. I’d be interested to see if research has been done on the differences between genders. Based on the observations in my own family this holds true. Bipolar is so prevalent on my dad’s side of the family that it is considered family “personality” that is inherited. To my knowledge, I’m the only person who has received a diagnosis and treatment.
That's true ivgot loads worse daily deppresion since I got older
My doctor told me my depression will be less severe after I retire due to stress at work. I am on three antidepressants and Lamictal. I really noticed a difference with the addition of Latuda. Somehow my psychological pain left. When I am feeling down it doesn’t “hurt” as much. I don’t go around ready to cry so readily. I don’t know why it works but am grateful that it does.
Thank you Robert for another wonderful, educational video. I think that I manage better now. I thank GOD for doctors and modern medicine. I was not diagnosed until in my 30s, but looking back I can see that I had episodes back as early as my late teens. I too have had my meds changed in the last couple of years and I think that the new meds are working well.
Hey, glad you could relate! It's wild how our moods can impact different aspects of ourselves, right?
-Rob
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I have always rapid cycled since i was diagnosed at 17. I'm 28 now and I can't wait to go through menopause and be done with PMDD. I feel like it's the reason i rapid cycle bc when I have anorexia relapses and I lose my period my bipolar II is much better. It's really the biggest reason I relapse.
Thank you.
I’m 62 and recently diagnosed after being treated for treatment resistant depression. The depression and intrusive thoughts are intense. The slightest thing happens and my mind goes to is it really worth it….
Hi @teschchr122! Thanks so much for taking the time to comment. I know this illness can be incredibly hard to navigate. I'd love to offer any support I can... If it interests you, I have a private community where you can message me directly and network with other people who are going through similar struggles. No pressure of course, but it would be great to have you join us. I'll include a link below:
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-Rob Whittaker, Polar Warriors
@@PolarWarriors hi Rob, I’m actually a member on your Patrion but not to tech savvy. I forget to go there to check for things. When are the zoom meetings and where can I find the links? Big hugs for all that you do!
I often had mania/hypomania between the ages of 20 and 28. I was admitted to a psychiatric hospital for a few days and I also got better. after I passed 30 I became more and more stable with the help of medication and I have personal help where I live (care home) 😃
It gets worst when menopause hits. It’s like bipolar in steroids. Just heads up to older women. My meds have changed.
Very interesting. My non Medicated bf aged 51 is finding his crashes are getting worse and more frequent. Problem is that he blames the pressure of a relationship for the crashes, I don't agree and think this would've happened anyway as he gets older, so it's great to see your video. Trouble he refuses to discuss it much and won't join a support network. I'll keep trying ..... Even tho he tries to push me away when he's down, I'll continue to support him, even though it may work out in due course it can only be as a friend
I had a BF during a manic episode take my hands beat himself in the face about 50 to 60 times stop start again and then call the police and have me arrested for beating him up I'm 5' and he's 6'2 . I had no marks on me till about 3 days later. You could see the palm of his hand and fingerprints from my elbow to my wrist in bruise mark form from his grip. I now have a record of domestic violence I didn't do. Cost me thousands of dollars. From lawyer to getting my car out of impound that was at his house to bail bondsman fines etc
Ty
Mine has gotten worse over the years, at least the depressive episodes. Luckily I have good help from my psychiatrist and psycholigist to handle it.
Thanks
Hi Helen! Wow! Thank you so much for your donation 🤩🙌❤️. How are you doing this weekend?
I too have been on a ton of meds and med combos. I was stable on lithium and lamictal but had a lot of siding effects. I was convinced to get off the meds. Now i rapid cycle weekly, cant remember anything or understand anything and have have a very negative self image from the moment i wake up till the moment i go to bed. I used to be smart and have a great memory. I believe these meds have taken that all from me. Maybe i havent found the right one or maybe there is no right one for me, idk
I'm so happy for you :)
-Rob
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My cycling is becoming frequent I’m 47 now but being on the medication for five years my cycling is less intense and less. I’m on lamotagine 150mg and venlafaxine 75mg for depression
I take advantage of my highs is when I become very connected to a higher conscious which is a benefit when the Lowes details I don’t want to do nothing
What to do if your spouse chooses not to get rediagnosed and help with the illness
Hi @christyfallinger8716! Thanks for joining the conversation in the comments. I'm very accessible and happy to answer any questions you have
If it interests you, I have a private community where you can message me directly and network with other people who are going through similar struggles. I am hosting a family and friends support group next Sunday. No pressure of course, but it would be great to have you join us. I'll include a link below:
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-Rob
Im 40 f and im so scared of menopause im bp 1 with psychosis. 😢 im damn scared I have been stable for over 5 yrs. Menopause on bipolar must make our emotions feel like a tornado.😢😢
Hey there! It sounds like you're going through a tough time. Remember, you've been strong for 5 years, and you can handle whatever comes your way!
-Rob
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Mine has gotten worse 😢
No Meds for me I work full time Im chilling
I'm still trying...but this episode unfortunately suggests prognosis negative. It's crazy that when I'm sort of manic, it's as though my brain can't conceive of another depressive episode ever happening, though I know it's inevitable, I can't imagine it....then boom. Some stupid trigger sets it off and now I can't even believe or understand what normal or manic is. Like it's never exactly before. It's very confusing
Must say rapid cycling more with increased anxiety.
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My bylpor is getting worse the older I get I am 46year I have more angry out bust and I have more crying episodes and more low then than my hi episodes feeling more worthless about my self and my l feeling loneliness and feeling like not want to be around no ppl anymore
Hi @johnmolda3152! Thanks so much for taking the time to comment. I know this illness can be incredibly hard to navigate. I'd love to offer any support I can... If it interests you, I have a private community where you can message me directly and network with other people who are going through similar struggles. No pressure of course, but it would be great to have you join us. I'll include a link below:
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-Rob
Who and how can they stop this onslaught as we may be due for a breather. No more Closerill, Zyprexa! Imagination? Antipsychotics bad for seniors anyway. Thanks!
You should state your sources so that people like me can read and analyse them.
Hey, Rob is not trying to blow smoke at you. He's simply offering information that may help you from both his personal experience and reliable sources. It's very easy to research facts or anything you have questions about.
He's already putting a lot of hard work into these videos without the additional burden of "footnotes & bibliographies."
YES - exactly. Thank you
I have been aware of the progession a while back. So I meditate 2 hours a day, eat a handful of blueberries a day, I run, I take Iodine for my thryroid, I am in nature often and try to go out in nature each day, I eat more veggies with salmon each week, I try to go to bed by 11. I only work part time. I got rid of all my toxic friends and family. I moved to a place that by far healthier than where Im from. I work a very stress free job. I do puzzles, sudoku, read, and chess for mental stimulation. I found my purpose in life. I went to therapy to make sense of the things I saw while manic. I continually learn about bipolar. I take my meds. All of these. Find what works for you, let it be connected to your purpose and you will overcome the illness.
Thank you for sharing your journey and offering such valuable advice!
-Rob
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Sure, it does.i'm 72, going down hill since my divorce..
Hi @johnizitchiforalongtime! Thanks so much for taking the time to comment. I know this illness can be incredibly hard to navigate. I'd love to offer any support I can... If it interests you, I have a private community where you can message me directly and network with other people who are going through similar struggles. No pressure of course, but it would be great to have you join us. I'll include a link below:
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-Rob
Suisidal feelings are not good all time
I don't know.... I'm gonna say .... worse
Wow. Lost all hope
Iv never had treatmean.t I'm later in life and yes more deppresion bipolar 2.
❤ iv allso cptsd and adhd it's bloody hard plus iv under active thyroid I'm a mess. My bipolar did not start till I'd been in a violent life as I was married to a violent malignant narcissist husband and it started at 35 when I left him so it started at 35. I did not go to see a phyc till 14 years after leaving him . Allso I have a mother who was a malignant narc violent and she had adhd. I have had panic attacks to so yes it's got worse my bipolar depresion I don't go out . Iv life of abuse and the abuse bought on a thyroid prob which I'm medicated with thyroxine.
Absolutely not for me! Smoke weed, stop supporting big pharmaceutical, the drugs just about KILLED ME! Smoke weed, it’s never been calmer! Not hypo manic like before!
Not everyone responds well to THC.. it pushes me into the worst anxiety, paranoia and just feeling stupidly out of control. I smoked with friends for years as a young man (peer pressure), and I always hated the way it made me feel 🤷🏼♂️
I think u smoke wrong strain maybe .do u know what u smoked. But ur right not everyone can smoke. What do u take ,@@ikestevers
@@missconger619I am almost 70. Trust me, I used the old school crappy stuff back in the 70s & 80s.. Got clean & sober end of 80s.. Tried weed again this decade (all the various strains of designer stuff).. It was way worse for me, still hated how it made me feel (crawl into bed with covers over my head with a bag of crunchy Cheetos).. I cannot tolerate THC. Many people are like this.
@@ikestevers that’s my sister, she’s not bipolar! We’re a colorful bouquet 💐 aren’t we! What ever works for you 🙌🏻
Please help me. I can't live with this anymore.
Prayers
Totally understand! Your not alone, we’re all in this together🩷
Hey, I hear you. It's tough sometimes, but you're not alone. Let's talk it out. Please reach out to www.crisistextline.org/ for immediate support. I'm also very accessible and happy to answer any questions you have...
Below is a link to my private community on Patreon. It's where you can message me directly and I'll get back to you right away. We can also arrange a phone call if that would be more helpful.
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-Rob
It could be worse, but know that things will get better...always.
give lifeline a go...I spoke to them a while ago. They have prof. Councillors and listen to you. Its anonymous.131114. No shame in it. If not you've got us.
first let me say Rob, UR very very well informed. I am a 69 yr old woman with bipolar 1. Everything you said is true for me . Of course at this age I could write a book but I'll keep this short. I just want to tell anyone who is channel surfing from one youtube video to another for information on Bipolar, please go no farther. Stick with Polar Warriors. Rob only does his videos while he is stable. He'll do many in one day if thats what it takes. I've been with Rob for many many years, and I "KNOW" here w Rob is where you will get your very best information. Thank You Rob for all your help :)