The communication with validation is truly important. There’s a difference between telling some hey you created problems you lied, manipulated, etc… and telling them this made me feel confused, I didn’t understand what you needed or where you were getting it. It’s a huge difference because it can easily turn into blame shifting instead of understanding and communication.
Yes!!!!! Good communication does NOT equal passive aggressive behavior and/or straight up accusation... Both, terrible conflict resolution strategies. Validate each other and gain perspective. 1. When something is triggering you... What are you making it mean about you? 2. What do you need to relieve how this is making you feel? 3. What is the strategy for how you will get these needs met?
What I've been getting from both you and Brene Brown is vulnerability is not the problem it was made out to be of curse their is a potential of being hurt even when you express your vulnerabilities but the potential of being seen is even bigger and that's worth the while
This channel is absolutely outstanding! Your lucid, accessible teaching style is wonderful and very engaging. I am very grateful to have found your amazing channel. Thank you for all the great work you are doing!
The part where you talk about validating each other's feelings, how to talk to each other and etc. It reminds me of the book called "nonviolent communication". He basically focused on how to communicate with your partner in a way that expressing what we feel and understanding each other's needs too. Boring book, interesting concept. The whole idea in expressing and understanding needs goes over my head. It's such a complicated topic.
Excellent work once again! I had an idea! Do you think in the future you might provide these same videos but in a power point type format? Your face is super pretty but I'm a visual learner and I'm betting many people on TH-cam are the same way. If the key information was available written on screen with your voice explaining, I think your work could reach a whole new wider audience! Also, thank you! For all you do!
Where do we find the free worksheet on identifying our needs? I have made an account but can't find the resource. Thank you! Your work has been so helpful.
So i have this struggle i want to be with my BF but I feel that my feelings are block n the story doesnt help cuz it want to push him out but i consciously know i want him, is terrible cuz the study telling is a block making it harder to open up in the first place, I recently become like this the past weeks n though not much of it but it's threating my RL, my thought associate the negative that never happen n when I break through them by going easy my though turn from being nice n lovely into im going to get hurt n just waiting for it to happen , n due to my FA it want to get them met put uses distraction to get them it's so annoying n i didnt know i allowed it to get worse. The job to undo all this is even harder bit worth it it's all safety n trust n love affirmation n mental exercise ,( mindfullness)
Hi, I would like to register for the online courses but i'm from Europe. Will I have access to all the options? Thank You for sharing your knowledge ♥️
Hi Sissy! Absolutely! They are pre-recorded so you'll have access to everything. Then I'll be doing 2 live webinars each week with everyone. After they're livestreamed, the recording will be posted for anyone who missed them! I hope to see you in there!
The communication with validation is truly important. There’s a difference between telling some hey you created problems you lied, manipulated, etc… and telling them this made me feel confused, I didn’t understand what you needed or where you were getting it.
It’s a huge difference because it can easily turn into blame shifting instead of understanding and communication.
Yes!!!!! Good communication does NOT equal passive aggressive behavior and/or straight up accusation... Both, terrible conflict resolution strategies. Validate each other and gain perspective.
1. When something is triggering you... What are you making it mean about you?
2. What do you need to relieve how this is making you feel?
3. What is the strategy for how you will get these needs met?
What I've been getting from both you and Brene Brown is vulnerability is not the problem it was made out to be of curse their is a potential of being hurt even when you express your vulnerabilities but the potential of being seen is even bigger and that's worth the while
This channel is absolutely outstanding! Your lucid, accessible teaching style is wonderful and very engaging. I am very grateful to have found your amazing channel. Thank you for all the great work you are doing!
Congrats on 10k! Very well deserved. ❤️
Thank you!!
Negative sentiment override is real when there is a buildup of unrepaired conflicts.
The part where you talk about validating each other's feelings, how to talk to each other and etc. It reminds me of the book called "nonviolent communication". He basically focused on how to communicate with your partner in a way that expressing what we feel and understanding each other's needs too. Boring book, interesting concept.
The whole idea in expressing and understanding needs goes over my head. It's such a complicated topic.
Excellent work once again!
I had an idea! Do you think in the future you might provide these same videos but in a power point type format?
Your face is super pretty but I'm a visual learner and I'm betting many people on TH-cam are the same way. If the key information was available written on screen with your voice explaining, I think your work could reach a whole new wider audience!
Also, thank you! For all you do!
Thank you so much 💓
You are so caring and passionate...and not money driven!!!❤
As so many other self help influencers appear...
Can you make a video on the 22 common core wounds?
Yes please!!!
Great content - thank you :) I searched for the needs list on your webpage but cant find it.
Iam excited. This is awesome
Where do we find the free worksheet on identifying our needs? I have made an account but can't find the resource. Thank you! Your work has been so helpful.
do you need to know why you have these core wounds (where they originated from) in order to do this work?
Thank You 😘
So i have this struggle i want to be with my BF but I feel that my feelings are block n the story doesnt help cuz it want to push him out but i consciously know i want him, is terrible cuz the study telling is a block making it harder to open up in the first place, I recently become like this the past weeks n though not much of it but it's threating my RL, my thought associate the negative that never happen n when I break through them by going easy my though turn from being nice n lovely into im going to get hurt n just waiting for it to happen , n due to my FA it want to get them met put uses distraction to get them it's so annoying n i didnt know i allowed it to get worse. The job to undo all this is even harder bit worth it it's all safety n trust n love affirmation n mental exercise ,( mindfullness)
Amazing!🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Hi, I would like to register for the online courses but i'm from Europe. Will I have access to all the options? Thank You for sharing your knowledge ♥️
Hi Sissy! Absolutely! They are pre-recorded so you'll have access to everything. Then I'll be doing 2 live webinars each week with everyone. After they're livestreamed, the recording will be posted for anyone who missed them! I hope to see you in there!
Do I need to be in a relationship to do the Personal Development School?
Ember Jones no way! You can always better yourself ❤️
Of course not! There are so many other courses in there that have nothing to do with anything outside of the relationship to yourself
Not at all; frankly, not being in a relationship right now is making doing the work easier. Less to have to process!