"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Johnny Bravo
0:30 You can openly communicate with your partner. 1:00 You are an individual in a relationship. You are not the relationship. 1:45 You respect one another. 2:18 You show affection to each other. 2:42 You support each other. 3:06 You’re committed to each other and the relationship. 3:40 You both have mutual hobbies. 4:15 You both contribute to the relationship.
This Reminds Me Of This Quote While The Song Called ‘Love Like You’ Is Playing In The Background For Some Reason.. “I made my peace with what it says about me. You guys have no idea what it's like. She knows what a shitty person I am but she still smiled at me..” Probably Because I’m Thinking About How Toxic I Am Without Any Proof That I Am Toxic.
I knew right from the start it's a healthy relationship the moment he asked me "what are your wants and needs in a relationship so I know what to prioritize?"
Love, respect, commitment, communication, honesty, loyalty and being there for each other in the best of times and the worst of times. When you have that, keep it, fight for it and know how lucky you are.
Me and my boyfriend are great at communication, I always feel like I can go to him to talk about anything whether it's about school, work or the relationship I know he's always there to listen to me, and I'm always there to listen to him if he ever wants to talk about anything 🥰
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
unlike my last relationship, my current relationship actually succeeds in all of these - and despite having a rough time lately i overall feel happier than ever!
@@cultmindset sometimes things just don't work out no matter how healthy the relationship is, which is very unfortunate... things will work out though, you never know what life brings with it!
Just being able to talk to each other in a mature way about the problems you have, listening to each other and not fighting, respecting each other’s opinion is one of the biggest signs of a healthy relationship.
This also applies to different kinds of relationships! Not just romantic. While this was playing, I couldn't help but think of my family and as a result I believe that there are strong bonds between each of us.
0:32 you can openly communicate with your partner 1:03 you’re an individual in a relationship , you are NOT the relationship 1:44 you respect one another 2:20 you show affection to one another 2:43 you support each other 3:08 You’re committed to each other and the relationship 4:13 you both contribute to the relationship Hope this helps you find clarity and a fitting resolution ❤️
I would openly communicate, The relationship stood on my shoulders alone, I respected her, I showed her affection, I supported her through her disease, I was committed to her, I was the only one to contribute and give 200% In the end I'm still the one who got dumped, no matter how much she told everyone she knew and me included how perfect I was. Then she proceeded to humiliate me and disrespect me like I have never been before. A year later I'm still reluctant to see that friend group because I'm scared of how it'll make me feel to see her again. It still hurts too much.
@@Struggler12349 it's ok I can relate to you and empathize even if we're not in the same relationship I know how that feels but dont be scared have confidence knowing you got out of there! They were not the right person for you and you shouldn't feel guilty since it isn't your fault! Easier said than done and I know this proably sounds offensive and I'm sorry I'm not saying to just get over it just letting you know you will eventually find someone that's perfect for you just keep trying! Dotn stop! You got this! And you always got us to realte to, Your strong and I know this is alot to handle and this may not be the right response for you since everyone has a diffrent way of comforting and being comforted bit just know your not alone and people empathize with your pain
It makes me so happy that I'm in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend. I haven't had to best of luck with love/life in general, so it's really nice to have something healthy and stable 😊. We are going on 11 months!
@@Psych2go not that you asked me but I always go for a cliche and that’s how I started one of my favourite friendships. I just turned around and walked over to them and asked what their favourite colour was. I made sure my body language was truly communicating how I was genuinely wanting to get to know them as well. Sometimes the old ways are the best ways. I’ll go favourite colour, favourite food, movie etc and u can even do it with ur friend when u already know them but in different topics!
My boyfriend is currently busy with his family but he always lets me know whenever he has free time. although did not have time to chat much in messages. I love him like the beginning, I know we have our own busy lives. I miss him very much and want to see him again soon, but I value his time with his family more. I hope we're not in a toxic relationship because lately it's been really hard for us to have time together ☺
You don't seem to be in a toxic relationship, quite the contrary! And yeah I feel you when you say you don't have much time to chat by messages, its a real bummer, but just know that he loves you and I'm sure he thinks about you often ^^
There's something peaceful, calming and warm about this lady's voice and manner of speech. Listening to this first thing in the morning just makes the whole day better!😊
Nearly all of these apply to the relationship you have with yourself. Watch the video again while thinking of yourself as your own partner.. it’s scary but important.
A good relationship is going to require communication, patience and trust. Without this, the relationship may be doomed to fail. 💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Tbh this really helped because sometimes I’m not so sure my boyfriend and I are having a strong relationship. After watching this I now know that my boyfriend and I actually do have a strong relationship and we’ve been together about 5 years now and I’m so happy that you made this video thank you 🙏🏻
Just looking at this video because I think I'm in the healthiest relationship I've ever been in in my life. Glad to say most of these things are check-marked.
When I tell my boyfriend I feel stressed or overwhelmed he always comforts me and massage my feet and is there for me and when we went to cali he met my friends and he was very chill and calm and he clicks with them and he was happy to meet them
I actually confessed to someone i liked a few days ago, i was nervous because we never talked about each other that much and i only started to like him because i used to be one of his fans, i sent him a friend request in fb and he actually noticed me, i liked him for months now and i finally confessed to him, my friends were cheering me, it turned out that he liked me for while too, he just doesn't have the courage to confess to me so he's actually grateful that i confessed first lol, kinda ironic tbh. For now, we have a healthy relationship and i wanna stay like this forever
Oh gosh... I'm subscribed for a little while now, but never got a video perfect for my situation m im in a relationship for like, 2 weeks? It's my first ever relationship, hers too, and I was a little stressed that it might not work, but this video really helped me. I'm probably going to watch this and more videos about relationships with my girlfriend, so we can educate about relationships, because we're both like, confused about love, and want to know how it works. I found this vid really valuable, and I've never been more thankful for your video!!!
Great video. But I recommend removing the dialog bubbles from the video. For some people they end up being distracting. For example, I found myself pausing/rewinding the video just to see what was being said. And this took focus away from the narrator. But other than that, I enjoyed the video. Very useful tips. Thanks for putting this out!
ya it right but a relationship lets say we ha a empty box what you put in then you can take out also he has a life i have a life and we have a life together that's TRUST
When you overlook their shortcomings and they overlook yours. Your appreciate their hobbies and they love yours. You are their Ugly Prince and she is Cindrella for years.
Everyday I think about the future like I’m only a kid like that’s gonna take like 20 years… IM WORRIED ABOUT THE FUTURE LOVE? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!
so me and my (ex) bsf of just friend not rly sure anymore but we used to be so good long distance and sometimes she’s there for me however I’m always there for her, she got a bf and barely paying any attention to me and caring less about me and then cancelling plans to hang out with other people and we know our friend up is toxic so she said we can’t be bsf anymore yet I want her back even though our friendship is toxic. I’m stuck in the past I can’t let go of what our friendship used to be like. I’m always saying sorry even when I didn’t do anything and She’s never giving back I’m constantly making her feel better even when she doesn’t need it but I don’t get the same in return… how do I let go?
I was just about to watch this when it came out yesterday in my notifications, and then last night my boyfriend broke up with me.... so ig it wasn't a strong relationship, huh....? :')
Me and my boyfriend took a break these days. He said is because he feels like he can’t talk to me anymore. We don’t have subjects to talk about as we used to have. Sadly we both are kind of introverts so yes, it might be hard to talk all the time. Any advice on this? I really want to become a more talkative person and make him feel better
Phsych2go I just watched your Dark emphat video and I have a question is it possible that a certain individual can go from genuine kind person to dark emphat then back to genuine kind person again?
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"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
- Johnny Bravo
Mya Angelou actually said that.
No, they forget that too.
I like how no one got the joke
@@downykitten6439 Did you forgot your school bully? Or your first crush? If yes then seek memory treatment.
0:30 You can openly communicate with your partner.
1:00 You are an individual in a relationship. You are not the relationship.
1:45 You respect one another.
2:18 You show affection to each other.
2:42 You support each other.
3:06 You’re committed to each other and the relationship.
3:40 You both have mutual hobbies.
4:15 You both contribute to the relationship.
Yesss thank you
Thank you very much
This Reminds Me Of This Quote While The Song Called ‘Love Like You’ Is Playing In The Background For Some Reason..
“I made my peace with what it says about me. You guys have no idea what it's like. She knows what a shitty person I am but she still smiled at me..”
Probably Because I’m Thinking About How Toxic I Am Without Any Proof That I Am Toxic.
Thank you
I knew right from the start it's a healthy relationship the moment he asked me "what are your wants and needs in a relationship so I know what to prioritize?"
Are you 2 still together?
Love, respect, commitment, communication, honesty, loyalty and being there for each other in the best of times and the worst of times. When you have that, keep it, fight for it and know how lucky you are.
You have a very empowering attitude!
Me and my boyfriend are great at communication, I always feel like I can go to him to talk about anything whether it's about school, work or the relationship I know he's always there to listen to me, and I'm always there to listen to him if he ever wants to talk about anything 🥰
That’s so nice!! I’m happy for you🥰🥰
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
@@searain1573sounds like you have never been in a relationship. As a guy i am very emotionally connected to my girl
unlike my last relationship, my current relationship actually succeeds in all of these - and despite having a rough time lately i overall feel happier than ever!
My last relationship had all of these but he still left :(
@@cultmindset sometimes things just don't work out no matter how healthy the relationship is, which is very unfortunate...
things will work out though, you never know what life brings with it!
@@1cedcoffee Thank you so much, I really needed that ^^
Thank you! This is useful. I've been with my gf for 2 months and it's my first relationship, this really helps!
Congrats! Sounds like she's the right one for you. How did you both meet?
@@Psych2go we both bumped into each other at the mall haha, not the most romantic, we're going on a movie date this Sunday!
@@theyluvasa oh cute!
@@theyluvasahey man 2 years later yall still going strong ?
Just being able to talk to each other in a mature way about the problems you have, listening to each other and not fighting, respecting each other’s opinion is one of the biggest signs of a healthy relationship.
Damn true......... I have been unfortunate to find such thing though
This also applies to different kinds of relationships! Not just romantic. While this was playing, I couldn't help but think of my family and as a result I believe that there are strong bonds between each of us.
This one too!
0:32 you can openly communicate with your partner
1:03 you’re an individual in a relationship , you are NOT the relationship
1:44 you respect one another
2:20 you show affection to one another
2:43 you support each other
3:08 You’re committed to each other and the relationship
4:13 you both contribute to the relationship
Hope this helps you find clarity and a fitting resolution ❤️
I would openly communicate,
The relationship stood on my shoulders alone,
I respected her,
I showed her affection,
I supported her through her disease,
I was committed to her,
I was the only one to contribute and give 200%
In the end I'm still the one who got dumped, no matter how much she told everyone she knew and me included how perfect I was. Then she proceeded to humiliate me and disrespect me like I have never been before.
A year later I'm still reluctant to see that friend group because I'm scared of how it'll make me feel to see her again. It still hurts too much.
For me this is online freind and freind relationship!
I have all of them most of the time except my parents
@@Struggler12349 it's ok I can relate to you and empathize even if we're not in the same relationship I know how that feels but dont be scared have confidence knowing you got out of there!
They were not the right person for you and you shouldn't feel guilty since it isn't your fault!
Easier said than done and I know this proably sounds offensive and I'm sorry I'm not saying to just get over it just letting you know you will eventually find someone that's perfect for you just keep trying!
Dotn stop!
You got this!
And you always got us to realte to,
Your strong and I know this is alot to handle and this may not be the right response for you since everyone has a diffrent way of comforting and being comforted bit just know your not alone and people empathize with your pain
Thank you for the list! I love that I have all these with my bf 💕
ty!
It makes me so happy that I'm in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend. I haven't had to best of luck with love/life in general, so it's really nice to have something healthy and stable 😊. We are going on 11 months!
Congrats!!! How did you set the foundation for your relationship?
Dam big up you all I'm happy for you all and I don't even know u hope it lasts long btw if u don't mind me asking are u guys still together??
All of these contribute to a successful relationship, but the two that stand out are respect and communication! \🕶/
For sure! How do you practice communication? What tips do you have?
@@Psych2go not that you asked me but I always go for a cliche and that’s how I started one of my favourite friendships. I just turned around and walked over to them and asked what their favourite colour was. I made sure my body language was truly communicating how I was genuinely wanting to get to know them as well. Sometimes the old ways are the best ways. I’ll go favourite colour, favourite food, movie etc and u can even do it with ur friend when u already know them but in different topics!
And Don't take my piggy away.
@@GS-zc4sk ??
I am currently in the healthiest relationship I have ever been in and I am so happy! All of these apply!
Congrats!!! How did you meet and how did you set up the foundation?
I don't have a girlfriend, for some reason still watching it. Maybe doing future prep?
heh same
Yep! To prep for the inevitable.
@@Psych2go yeah i don't want to ruin the other significant way of life and hobbies for my sake
Who here is single and ready to mingle? Comment below and we will link you up. :D
Don’t read my channel namee
I'm single
I'm single but I don't wanna mingle. (Granted: I'm a teenager.)
I'm not single Lol
I am single as well. haha. I tried the 'So Syncd' app but didn't get much matches. I don't think it is well known where I live. Love the videos!
Literally describes my BFF's relationship with their spouse. It's nice to see healthy relationships for a change
My boyfriend is currently busy with his family but he always lets me know whenever he has free time. although did not have time to chat much in messages. I love him like the beginning, I know we have our own busy lives. I miss him very much and want to see him again soon, but I value his time with his family more. I hope we're not in a toxic relationship because lately it's been really hard for us to have time together ☺
You don't seem to be in a toxic relationship, quite the contrary!
And yeah I feel you when you say you don't have much time to chat by messages, its a real bummer, but just know that he loves you and I'm sure he thinks about you often ^^
There's something peaceful, calming and warm about this lady's voice and manner of speech. Listening to this first thing in the morning just makes the whole day better!😊
Nearly all of these apply to the relationship you have with yourself. Watch the video again while thinking of yourself as your own partner.. it’s scary but important.
Nice to find that almost every sign is present in my relationship and it's my 1st one🥰hope it goes on the same way🤞🏻
Best of luck!
I dont have partner but there's one I really like and watching this video made me realize that our relationship is healthy
Remember consider a person's heart and soul first before their looks. Looks eventually fade, a person's heart and soul never do.
This helped a ton as someone who is scared of dating, I think it applies to friendship too
A good relationship is going to require communication, patience and trust. Without this, the relationship may be doomed to fail.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Yes, thank you.
This video helped me acknowledge lots of wrongs in my current relationship.
You are so welcome. What do you plan to do next after this realization?
@@Psych2go I mean we already had multiple serious talks before I watched this video, I’m still trying to gather my head around the next step
I can agree. For me . A healthy relationship builds a good invisible bond to both sides
Thank you for the videos! Each video helped me realize things I like about myself but also things I want to change.
You're so welcome!
Tbh this really helped because sometimes I’m not so sure my boyfriend and I are having a strong relationship. After watching this I now know that my boyfriend and I actually do have a strong relationship and we’ve been together about 5 years now and I’m so happy that you made this video thank you 🙏🏻
I love how my bf says “we” all the time 😭 i just luv it sm!
Just looking at this video because I think I'm in the healthiest relationship I've ever been in in my life. Glad to say most of these things are check-marked.
I needed this tbh. I needed to know how I was in a healthy relationship
When I tell my boyfriend I feel stressed or overwhelmed he always comforts me and massage my feet and is there for me and when we went to cali he met my friends and he was very chill and calm and he clicks with them and he was happy to meet them
How Ironic it is that this came out when I just ended a toxic relationship 😆
Sorry to hear that.. do you recognize some of these signs though in your toxic relationship?
I’m so focused on the mini characters they’re so cute 🥰
I don’t feel none of these in this relationship but I still can’t let go …
Wow you guys are killing it w the uploads 🤩
4:30 The guy rolling in the money got me 🤣
Same 🤪😆🤣🤑🤣 show me the money!
Love it so much, thank you Psych2Go team! Lovely colors and animation
Glad you enjoy it! Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go It’s okay, I like it a lot however it’s not my favorite yet 😁
I see that twoset reference at 2:50
one thing I haven't seen you put in your videos is expectation and how it effects relation ships
Last relationship lasted 3 years and I had no idea how toxic it actually was. Just started a new relationship, hoping to break bad habits
I actually confessed to someone i liked a few days ago, i was nervous because we never talked about each other that much and i only started to like him because i used to be one of his fans, i sent him a friend request in fb and he actually noticed me, i liked him for months now and i finally confessed to him, my friends were cheering me, it turned out that he liked me for while too, he just doesn't have the courage to confess to me so he's actually grateful that i confessed first lol, kinda ironic tbh.
For now, we have a healthy relationship and i wanna stay like this forever
Yes very valuable video ! Thank you
I’ve given up on love already. But I’m happy for those who are in healthy relationships.
You got this!!
Just went out on my first date yesterday 😁
Congrats! Hope you had a good time! :D
Wow looks like this video came out for u😆😆😆
When I realized I could 100% be myself with him I knew he was a good one.
Oh gosh... I'm subscribed for a little while now, but never got a video perfect for my situation m im in a relationship for like, 2 weeks? It's my first ever relationship, hers too, and I was a little stressed that it might not work, but this video really helped me. I'm probably going to watch this and more videos about relationships with my girlfriend, so we can educate about relationships, because we're both like, confused about love, and want to know how it works. I found this vid really valuable, and I've never been more thankful for your video!!!
First and last are key components in my opinion.
But my god is respect the anchor…
This will probably help me later on in my life
For sure! Maybe tomorrow?
@@Psych2go probably not
I love your channel 🤩 you always help me 💓💓
Glad that it could be supportive! Let us know if there's any other videos you would like us to do!
Great video. But I recommend removing the dialog bubbles from the video. For some people they end up being distracting. For example, I found myself pausing/rewinding the video just to see what was being said. And this took focus away from the narrator. But other than that, I enjoyed the video. Very useful tips. Thanks for putting this out!
Thanks for the tip! We will let the team know
Just seeing this vid makes me feel happy knowing the bond I have with my love ❤️
Can this count for friendships?
Yes, of course! You can utilize the love language concept too in friendships.
@@Psych2go That's a great thing to know for us platonic ppl.
@@Psych2go thank you :D
ya it right but a relationship lets say we ha a empty box what you put in then you can take out also he has a life i have a life and we have a life together that's TRUST
After watching this I value my girlfriend so much more 😊
I just found out I’m in a healthy relationship😊😊
Your voice is so soothing ☺️
Hello friends I hope today or tomorrow treats you well
Hello.
I needed this video. Thanks Psych2Go!
Thank you for watching!
@@Psych2go Your welcome, love your content!! 🤍
Ty so much for all of your great content!
Thank you for always watching!
Feels like I really did meet my soulmate ❤️
glad you did!
i needed this
I love the style! :)
Yay, thank you!
Good Video, Thankyou. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That little person had bubble tea without eating the bubbles 😭
Omg the Ling Ling reference!
When you overlook their shortcomings and they overlook yours.
Your appreciate their hobbies and they love yours.
You are their Ugly Prince and she is Cindrella for years.
Everyday I think about the future like I’m only a kid like that’s gonna take like 20 years… IM WORRIED ABOUT THE FUTURE LOVE? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!
her drawing sooo cute
This one is probably the best, don't you agree?
Camilla doesn't necessarily mean moving in... it means commit to the relationship itself♡
Thank you!
Thank you!
wholesome video just so wholesome
Intresting video!
Does this count with friendships?
I can't relate to this in any way, shape or form but one day someone will love me even thou the chance is Slim.
hey now, the chances are never slim for love. im sure someone, somewhere is looking for someone just like you, and you dont know it yet.
I love ur videos so much
Glad it could be helpful!
@@Psych2go OMGGGGG AGAHHAHAHAHAH IM SO HAPPY
Wow I've been with my husband for almost 16 years and only 2 of these ring true for our relationship. 😬
Amazing!
How many lives this channel has saved? It isn't zero.
Thank you so much!!!
Super cute! I love it!
Thank you! 😊
I never been in healthy relationship.. :(
Me who's single: interesting
you got this!
I'm just distracted by how cute those animated leaf blobs look lol. I wanna squish them in a bear hug 😩
ty!!
so me and my (ex) bsf of just friend not rly sure anymore but we used to be so good long distance and sometimes she’s there for me however I’m always there for her, she got a bf and barely paying any attention to me and caring less about me and then cancelling plans to hang out with other people and we know our friend up is toxic so she said we can’t be bsf anymore yet I want her back even though our friendship is toxic. I’m stuck in the past I can’t let go of what our friendship used to be like. I’m always saying sorry even when I didn’t do anything and She’s never giving back I’m constantly making her feel better even when she doesn’t need it but I don’t get the same in return… how do I let go?
Kinda makes me feel that I'm not in that great relationship
Is it bad that im an indecisive person? Im struggling of deciding because of what i feel
I think most of us are indecisive to some extent when it comes to matters like relationships..
My girlfriend just broke up with me when I was watching this video. It was unexpected.
Relationship status: single for 21 years
26 years 😎 i win... or lose i dont know 😂
Damnit, I'm last with only 10 under my belt🤣
Came before 1 hour👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
That sounds like fun lol
I was just about to watch this when it came out yesterday in my notifications, and then last night my boyfriend broke up with me.... so ig it wasn't a strong relationship, huh....? :')
yes
yup
Our relationship literally has 7 of these. We just don't really have mutual hobbies.
You don' t have to have mutual hobbies.
Me and my boyfriend took a break these days. He said is because he feels like he can’t talk to me anymore. We don’t have subjects to talk about as we used to have. Sadly we both are kind of introverts so yes, it might be hard to talk all the time. Any advice on this? I really want to become a more talkative person and make him feel better
Looks like Portugal at the end
interesting...
TYSM
Phsych2go I just watched your Dark emphat video and I have a question is it possible that a certain individual can go from genuine kind person to dark emphat then back to genuine kind person again?
Thank you for this we all have something to learn in relationships
You are so welcome :) Do you relate to these signs?
As an introvert I've decided that relationships are not worth my time or money. I have decided to stay single indefinitely
I like puzzles and puzzles boards he likes doing them with me ....
I got all of these with my BEST FRIEND who is the same gender as me. Is this healthy?