6 SECRETS TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP | Buddhism In English
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1. Treat your companions with physical kindness
2. Treat your companions with verbal kindness
3. Treat your companions with mental kindness
4. You have to share without reservation
5. You have to be virtues
6. You have to have common goal in any relationship
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You have to have patience in any relationship..you have to have open communication..no secrets then only we can trust someone totally
No hate for budhism
But I saw few people (budhish) spreading hate agenst sanatan dharm what you say
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This monk is young and his wisdom far exceeds his age. And he is so humble.
What he is telling is what Lord Buddha taught
Yes, sure
Are you a monk
@@arpitaroy919 I am not a monk, but I am a Buddhist, who knows Buddhism well. Lord Buddha's teachings far exceeds this monks knowledge.
But still the topic dosen't still justify.. why is that partner always feels they are right ????😅
The aura of this guy is so heavenly. The way he delivers the message is a precious gift.
I thought I was seeing this alone
I truly agree with you! How are you
Yes when we hear to the words of this person we will get some positive vibes
Hello pretty
All relationships go through bad times but the real relationships get through bad times..❤
Treat your companion with,
1. Physical kindness
2. Verbal kindness
3. Mental kindness
4. Share without reservation
5. Be virtuous
6. To work for one dream or goal
Namo Buddhaya 🙏
Let me take a screenshot Your comment Navin.🤗
Nice
@@shivaprasad8549 I did the same 👍🏿🙏🏿
Also be intelligent to find a proper trustworthy kind partner
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I feel so peaceful whenever I come here. I hope other people find this channel too.
Yes true, I’m going through depression right now and I’m trying to get away from it 😢
@@sugeeshaperera1349 Hope you find your true inner peace soon!
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Indeed I am so happy
I do also.
I was dating a guy who was compulsive liar I ended it with him in Dec 2022. No matter how many times I told him to not do that to me as it hurt my feelings he always felt the need to prove him self why he did do it eventually when he did get caught out. 😢 it was toxic so I totally agree without honesty and trust there is no point when one can’t understand. I am on my journey to healing and mentally recovering from this. Thank you 🙏🏼
I'm sorry to hear about that. Be strong and hope you are happier now. You'd be able to find comfort and be stronger through these teachings on this channel too. Hope it helps you find happiness! 😊
proud to be buddist and from sri lanka🇱🇰
Many many salutes to this young monk. Let this monk live for hundreds of years.
I feel so at peace in my soul after listening to your positive messages. Our world has always had evil which want people negative, angry, bitter and fighting with each other. This feeds the psychologists, psychiatrists and medical companies. Evil controls and love/peace sets people free. Programmed w tvs, bad news all day, people have lost their souls. You and the other monks have a way to provide what people require. The social media reaches thousands and The Buddha's legacies are reaching souls longing for peace. Thank you, Sir, for your beautiful smile and inspiring thoughts. I helped my sisterinlaw with your videos. Her life was becoming difficult. Now she is hooked on watching encouragement! A huge hug from USA.
Your amazing thank you for all your help ❤
One of the greatest monks I have come across. Thank you so much and may you be blessed with good health and long life to continue your great service for a very long time.
The monk teaches so calmly. Wow! No rushing.
This monk,touches my heart!
Absolutely
He said it all! How are you my dear
I admire this monk, the way he express each motivational speech which gives me peace of mind & joyfulness.
Thanks for your sharing Buddhist knowledge of good relationship.❤
A happy relationship is expressing ones needs and stay open to each other knowing that we are not having the same needs. But giving space and right for other person of living his her needs it is just fine!)
My life has changed after watching these episodes. Thank you🙏🌹❤.
He is so cool n calm his voice make everybody to listen to him
Beautiful speech....very humble kind
I too like his way of
teachigs.being a
Roman Catholic Recently
I have been following
Give me peace of mind.
Dear monk,This monk is very humble and kind he expresses good thoughts i watch his videos frequently and I am also following his thoughts.I urge all of you we must watch his videos.after watching his videos definitely way of thinking will be change
I like his contagious smile. So natural
You are indeeda rare breed of a monk.thank u for sharing ur very self to the world
U are indeed a god's sincere gift to humanity
ඔබ වහන්සේගෙ ධර්මය මා පුලුවන් නිතරම අසනවා.ජීවිතයෙ බොහොමයක් ගැටලු වලට ඔබ කියාදුන් දහම් කරුණු වැදගත්.නිවැරදි බුදුදහම මම දකිනවා ඔබෙන්.තෙරුවන් සරණයි ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස🙏🙏🙏
Thank you 😊 for all these great learnings
I'll practice all thse qualities
To become better daughter,
Better sister, better granddaughter & better friend
What I'm learning by practicing kindness ?
I feel happy ,not stressing over anything but focusing on solutions , Mentally independent , I was so short tempered back then but now my patience levels are increasing I feel I'm becoming a good listener ..... yeah sometimes I feel angry or sad but These feelings doesn't take over me .....
Thank you sir for this awareness.
In past I didn't pay any attention to thse qualities .... okay but NOW
To be honest just by listening you Now I feel those all changes in me without me putting so much efforts .... I behave subconsciously
Wow you're a great learner my friend 💗
So happy to hear!! 😊 May you continue to do so :)
Hello
I have all the problems in the universe, yet feel happy listening to him. ❤
I love his teachings
He is so knowledgeable and humble
Sadhu sadhu sadhu.Thank you guru, bhanteji,for your stunning prabachan.I should practice it.Namo Buddhaya.
Thank you so much for your wisdom. I love your speech it make feel more kind and compassion 🙏🏽
It's truly a privilege listing to you 🙏🙏
I love this monk I learned a lot of him.
Ur smile make me happy and calm.
Your postive smile and language make positive vibes
Thank you! Your words have been so helpful to me today 🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing your valuable words and please never stop 🙏🏻
Always try to be a good memory to someone 💓🌼 Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙏🙏
Hey can I know more about you
Agree 100% How are you dear
Thank you Bhante for your valuable teaching. Namo Budahaya 🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thank you 🙏🏻 namaste for these words. I hope I will have better relationships by practicing these principles 🙏🏻
Thank you very true sayings 🙏 hope every one would learn from this now on!👍🏾from London!
The message delivered is so sweet n melodious that gets to our heart
Whoa, this video spilled all the tea on what it takes to have a happy relationship! I loved hearing these secrets, from open communication to embracing quality time. It's like a cheat code for relationship success! Can't wait to apply these tips in my own marriage. Thanks for sharing the wisdom!
How has it worked out so far? I am looking to implement as well
This so simple, but so right!
Thanks for the sharing.. especially the last reminder.... it's workable on "true relationship" 😘
Adversely, if we met karmic relationship no matter how hard we practice these principles in return will be hurting more.
They might take things for granted.
I'm was born after my parent failed trying 2 times abortion.
I grow up as an verbal abusive child.
Amongst the 4 siblings, I'm the one taking good care of her when she was sick.
Now she is Age 86,super healthy and I'm Age 47, she still likes to verbal abusing me without any reason.
I already accepted and "social distance" from her. 🤣
Always sending my blessings to her live well & happily 💞.
Hey 💖💔💔
" Your words become your action .... your teachings are so relevant to my team, to work with a common goal. I love ❤️ it. Namaste 🙏
Great teaching.May you be well and happy 🙏.
Vandemi Bhanteji nicely explain 5 precepts of Buddhist which call as PANCHSHEEL ( 2600 yrs old Pali language which Budhha use to interact with people during his Vipassana meditation teaching) SADHU SADHU SADHU Sabka Mangal Ho May all beings be happy 🙏🙏🙏 every Human Being must start practicing PANCHSHEEL 🙏🙏🙏
Gentleness personified 🙏
Respected sir
Your teaching change my inner thoughts .
Thanks a lot for these beautiful teachings. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🤗💗🌸✨✨✨
He has the wisdom of the world .
Heel mooi gezecht ❤ dank u lieve monnik ❤💕🦋🍀🌈🙏
Thank you for your teachings. May you attain your goal sooner rather than later. 🙏🙏🙏
This is the most simple and practical steps I have ever heard. I wish I have heard this earlier. ❤
Literally love your way of speak and your thoughts also.😊
This video really helps, especially when 2 people are growing apart in the relationship. It hurts but these words help.
Very inspiring ❤
Vandami Bhanteji
You explained this very sweetly and in a nice way.
I hear your impressive and useful Buddha's dhamma Deshna and like it very much.
Kindly keep it continue.
Nice explanation of PANCHSHEEL ( PALI language use during Buddha's era) which is taught on v first day of 10 days course of Vippasana Mediation 🙏
Thank you for this great words !! Namo Buddhaya 🙇🌼
I am so glad to hear about the abstaining from killing beings. It is so sad 😞 that in most societies we are brought up eating meat and don't even think there could be anything wrong with it. I can feel the pain of the animal kingdom and I pray that we all wake up to understanding that every being comes to this earth to live and to evolve and we have no right to take anyone's life just to satisfy our tastebuds.
That's so true and as much as I'd love no one killing animals it most likely won't happen. However, the 1st precept of abstaining from killing beings is not taking a living being's life (also not harming them).
Buying poultry or meat from a supermarket or restaurant is not actually breaking the precept - but don't have it if you know they're killing the animal just for you.
I believe you are one who doesn't eat meat? (I may be wrong) but I'm saying this so you don't have the wrong view of other people/ or even monks simply eating meat as it is not breaking the precept as taught by the Buddha. Hope it helps! :)
May all beings be well and happy! 😊🙏🏼
@@mahe4102 Thanks for your words and your trying to educate me. I must say, it makes me very sad how this precept of not killing beings has been misinterpreted by some people. What you said about meat bought in a supermarket that has not been killed for you specifically, is simply a bad attempt to justify the fact that the person does not want to give up eating animals. I can definitely not respect a monk who eats slaughtered animals while there is so much vegetarian food available, and at the same time they talk about compassion. Can you not see how much pain is inflicted? And ultimately you inflict the pain on yourself through the karma you have created. If you pay someone (the butcher) to kill an animal you definitely share the karma.
@@ashapuri3114 Namo Buddhaya!
Thank you for sharing. I understand that once anyone learns something and have a view about a particular topic we tend to think we are right and others are wrong - and that's a scary thing at times. I'd like to mention that I wouldn't have told you that or gave advice without knowing that it is certainly what the Buddha had said. I have read it in Suttas and heard it from Venerable Monks of Mahamevnawa. I also usually don't hold certain views of things I hear until I crosscheck with the words of the pure Dhamma (from the Sutta Pitaka). I hope you know that there is only one truth and that you find it, or in that case that we all find it! :)
I can direct you to this video (th-cam.com/video/72nt9dR9UAQ/w-d-xo.html) which explains the full story/sutta in detail (but it is in Sinhala) and if you don't understand Sinhala, you can use this website to read the Suttas in English (suttacentral.net/snp2.2/en/sujato?layout=sidebyside&reference=none¬es=asterisk&highlight=false&script=latin). Alternatively, if you understand Pali you can use (tripitaka.online/sutta/12687) or the above link and turn on Pali and/or translate the page to english by right-clicking.
Hope this helps! Theruwan Saranai! 🙏
Killing involves anger, greed and delusion all 3 unwholesome emotions in the mind. At the time of killing, there are only these negative unwholesome states if one stops for a second during that act to investigate his/her mind. Eating meat or buying meat from the supermarket does not involve hatred in the mind. At that moment there is greed in one’s mind, There is no anger when one sits down at the table to eat a roast chicken. But there is greediness and delusion operating. So, between the two acts (killing vs eating meat), killing is the worst as it defiles the mind with all 3 unwholesome states. Greed, hatred and delusion are the cause for all negative happenings in one’s mind and in everyone’s mind in this entire world.
If a lay person is determined to keep the 5 precepts and develop seela (code of conduct via speech, deeds and thoughts), sooner than later, that person will slowly get away from eating meat as well. In the Buddha’s time period, factory farming as done in modern times was non-existent. If a person really learns how billions of animals are raised for meat in cramped and terrible conditions in the modern era, it is certain that a great majority will stop eating meat. People do not think beyond the pack of meat they buy…we forget that the pieces inside that packet once belonged to a sentient being. Once one learns to think that way, he/she/they will automatically refrain from eating meat as well. But we cannot force one to be a vegetarian or put down their eating habits of another.
Namo Budha....Great speech .. we love to hear your wise words.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Excellent.Extremely practical and what a Nice sermon.Most of our Buddhist priests focus on uncertainity and ss a result Most people think Buddhism is a Negative Religion.
Whenever I listen you... I see you.. I am fallen love with you.... Thank you for creating peace in my life... Thank you so much
Thank you. I so much enjoy all youir videos. It helps me feel inner peace 🙏❤💞 you really radiate peaceful energy just as your words do 🥰🙏
I’m so grateful for your meaningful share 🙏
I am happy to hear I am already practicing this entire list with my own intuition from my connection to spirit. 🥰 Thank you for your teachings & for this confirmation! 🙏🏼☺️
Thanks for the good vibes...and a very good advice...
The video - his smile - his voice - his words - his teachings - everything is contagious seems like his voice speaks to my soul
I made a mistake in my life that too was like i cheated on my partner it doesn't mean that i never loved him. I loved him whole heartedly but it's all was my mistake that i cheated and hurted him i just wanna accept my mistake and i just want him to be happy in his life cuz i love him even though he broke up but I'll always pray for his happiness I hope so he won't get betrayed in his life again it would be tough for him to build up trust on someone else but idk what to do now my past was traumatizing since childhood n another mistake - I cheated on someone I don't want him to accept me cuz he won't be happy with me again i wish he'll find someone who'll understand him and won't be as toxic as i was ...... I want him to be happier :'
I agree to your explanation sir, i been study and im going to apply it in my partner, your explanation very valuable to deliver to the whole world, especially todays era
Thank you so much...
Great advice.
Kindly keep up your teachings.
We loved it ❤️.
Very nice teaching...Namo Dhamaya.....
I really think improving loving linguistics can improve humanity. Clarity of language is so important and the most important distinction is between love and ego. Adding adjectives like body kindness, mental kindness etc etc can help kindness grow on the planet 🌼
You touches my heart! Namo buddhaya
U are amazing Monk i came across one time right away i subscribed.. i feel positive everytime i watched your motivations. And keep staring your smile super love it.. handsome monk❤
He is very youngbut full of vibrance and wisdom! More videos please.thank u sir
I am really happy to listen your message dear Monk. Pray for us. I too like to practice the same in my Life and I try to follow all these principles but Sometime I too fail in that. Today I felt very happy to listen the beautiful principles to follow in our life. Thank you dear Monk.
Thanks bahnate.when we want to knowling the other person .we must uderstanding our self frist. When we know my self very deeply.to looking for the truth self.we will know the other person. Make the Relationship with our self.frist so we can make the relationship with other namo buddhaya.
Vandami Bhante ❤
True story thank you guru bhanteji.Namo Buddhaya.
Your preaching is very pleasing i love to watch . I regularly watch
Luv watching and listening to you. Thank you !! I am learning a lot from you. 🙏
I’m so grateful for this teaching 🧡🧘🏼♀️🧎♀️Namaste🧡
Love the way you explain sir.
Thank you 😊 💓 ☺️
The discourse is called "Warm Hearted" ! Cannot describe the happiness and admiration for the Buddha who has thought of preaching about this. So grateful for the Buddha, for having taught about having a "Warm Heart".... how beautiful is that, how important is that. I have never heard of anyone talking about how to have a warm heart! So precious, so so precious. So grateful to the Dhamma for being so clear and simple and applicable. So grateful to you the sanga for bringing this to our light. 💮💮💮💮💮💮
I am inspired for the ideas/principles you shared ❤
Thero you talk people to their mind spirit and soul thank you very much.namobuddhaya
May the suffer be free from suffering.
May the fear be free from fear.
May the grive be free from grive.
May all suffering be free
Excellent Principles!! I luv it... thnx so much to you for sharing it to us... 😇
Thank you so much for sharing these things to us
I have been watching your vedios and shorts for a long time .. ❤
It's helping me a lot to be a good and perfect person in my life..
So we can't thank you enough god .....
Thank you i wanted this so much i was searching for this finally i found it 💖🙏i pray and hope u achieve whatever youre searching for bless you💖
Beautiful lesson..thank u Sir 🙏
ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS 💞
Thank you, Sifu, for the wise, and helpful, words! Namo Amitofu. ☸️
I love you like my son. All it' s Devine power.🙏
I can spend hours listening to you during my day. It’s all really grounding. Thankyou ❤
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. It was really helpful.
I simply love to hear his thoughtful words& see his way of speech and his smiling face 😊
Hey 💖💔💔
Your face n voice so relaxed, i contagiously to your positive energy
gratitude for this wisdom. it helped me very much
Wonderful, thank you so much!
Thank you for postive massage, u r so humble...sadhu sadhu sadhu
Hi mam 💓💓💓😘❣️
I listen to this everyday morning, it gives a positivity. Thank you so much for your valuable lessons