5 Hints Your Friendship Is Turning Into Love

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  • Are you starting to catch feelings for your friend? If so, how can you tell where it’s going to lead? Friendships can be complicated, especially when there is potential for it to develop into something more. To help you self-reflect and bring a little more clarity to this topic, today we’ll be talking about the hints that your friendship is becoming romantic.
    We also made an opposite video - the signs they only see you as a friend, not lover: • 8 Signs You're Just a ...
    Writer: Monique Zizzo
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO:Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: Krisha Que ( / macchiusmoriatostudios07 )
    TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References
    Banes, K. (2017, April 27). 15 Signs Your Friendship With That Man is Turning into a Romance. FamilyToday.
    www.familytoday.com/relationships/15-signs-your-friendship-with-that-man-is-turning-into-a-romance/
    Cook, M. (2018, July 20). 7 signs your friend is in love with you. Insider.
    www.insider.com/signs-your-friend-wants-to-be-more-2018-7#they-take-an-interest-in-things-you-like-3
    Pace, R. (2021, November 12). 15 Signs of Friendship Turning Into Love. Marriage Advice - Expert Marriage Tips & Advice.
    www.marriage.com/advice/love/signs-a-friendship-is-turning-into-love/
    Tayloe, D. (2021, March 9). 10 Signs A Friendship Is Turning Into Love. Power of Positivity: Positive Thinking & Attitude.
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    Williams, E. (2021, June 2). Signs That Your Friendship Is Turning Into Something More. Curious Mind Magazine.
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ความคิดเห็น • 961

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +772

    Have you fallen in love with your friends before? How did it go?

    • @Raineirplayz
      @Raineirplayz ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I Have No Friends

    • @multi_otaku6867
      @multi_otaku6867 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      yes I have, I confessed to them and they felt the same way but we ended up not doing anything about the mutual feelings and now we're in a gray area

    • @evelingomez686
      @evelingomez686 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It was beautiful experience ❤

    • @Raineirplayz
      @Raineirplayz ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@spiderscanwalklikehuman technically its me and i saw the comment first but ok

    • @josephtplackal6013
      @josephtplackal6013 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Ya. She proposed to me . But she left me without any reason 💔🥺😕😭😩

  • @lavendertease
    @lavendertease ปีที่แล้ว +4116

    When I was 17, I found out a friend in high school had a crush on me. Now, we’re 31 with 2 kids. I just wanted to share 🥰

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      so you was borned in 1991

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +548

      That is such a story to tell! Highschool sweetheart it is

    • @nawshintabassum8324
      @nawshintabassum8324 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Super cute

    • @calmaschamomile1252
      @calmaschamomile1252 ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me emotional 🥹

    • @euniceong595
      @euniceong595 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      thanks for giving me hope 😂

  • @neillist5517
    @neillist5517 ปีที่แล้ว +962

    Getting feelings for friends is messy. It's frequently one sided. I've been friendzoned so many times I could do a TED talk.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I came to the comment section to find comments to relate to. So, thanks...

    • @daniella4800
      @daniella4800 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂lol

    • @darthvader0219
      @darthvader0219 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      At least you’ve been friend zoned. I have not been able to get close to a woman without wanting something else. If there is no friendship to begin with, the only thing that is going to follow your rejection is total silence!

    • @neillist5517
      @neillist5517 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@darthvader0219 I hear you brother.

    • @theunrealoreo621
      @theunrealoreo621 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fuckin same dude

  • @fkndeadinsd9524
    @fkndeadinsd9524 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    "An unhappy marriage is most often caused not by a lack of love, but rather because of a lack of friendship" - Nietzche

  • @quantlight
    @quantlight ปีที่แล้ว +1387

    1. You notice change in body language. 0:30
    2. You get jealous of each other's past or potential partners. 1:05
    3. You are more nervous each other than usual. 1:34
    4. Your friends are starting to notice 2:13
    5. Your conversations are deeper and more frequent. 2:47
    Thanks Psych2go for never stopping.
    Edit - 1 (25/10/2022): Thanks to be here with us.
    Edit - 2 (25/10/2022): *Congratulations!!🥳🥳* Psych2go for 10 million subs.

    • @cheekinyew4417
      @cheekinyew4417 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Still waiting

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Thank you for the timestamps

    • @jacktom3799
      @jacktom3799 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cheekinyew4417 dream fans get not bitches period

    • @thegreatunknown8574
      @thegreatunknown8574 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I have all of this except number five. We kinda stopped talking due to nervousness/awkwardness.

    • @jacktom3799
      @jacktom3799 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@thegreatunknown8574 ask her out

  • @MoyitasLife
    @MoyitasLife ปีที่แล้ว +870

    My husband and I were best friends for 7 years! Coming up on our 7 year friendship anniversary we got a tattoo together. And a few months into 7 years we started dating. Now we’re married, with a kid ☺️
    It’s a great relationship with a lot of acceptance 10/10 recommend falling in love with a close friend 🤣

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's been 7 years for us

    • @Angelsxlifeeeee
      @Angelsxlifeeeee ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Awwwwe

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes

    • @sufferbetter1387
      @sufferbetter1387 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I fell in love with my friend but she rejected me.

    • @MoyitasLife
      @MoyitasLife ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@user-sc4pl8si8v that is a really uncomfortable response…. Even if you are trying to be funny… 🥴

  • @giovannamittelstaedt9326
    @giovannamittelstaedt9326 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Falling in love with a friend can be beautiful but also really painful... specially if your friend doesn't feel the same way as you feel.
    I'm 20 and I've been in love two times in my life. Both of them were my friends and both of them didn't feel the same way for me. It's kind of a torturing thing...

    • @kingofmemes5017
      @kingofmemes5017 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yep. _Especially_ if you live with them :/ I ended up just being grateful I get to live with them every day as really good friends and now have lost the feelings I had. It was a lot of stress.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kingofmemes5017 You should look into moving somewhere else maybe..

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Giovanna Mittelstaedt I just want to say.... Yes.

    • @giovannamittelstaedt9326
      @giovannamittelstaedt9326 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alexandred.4248 yes.

    • @marioskapetanakis
      @marioskapetanakis ปีที่แล้ว

      Then they didn't want you in their lives.its simple as that

  • @ClairDeLume
    @ClairDeLume ปีที่แล้ว +108

    i’ve known my fiancé since i was 9 years old, and he was 10. we were childhood sweethearts. and eventually our close friendship turned into love. and now i’m 24, and getting married to him in december. i couldn’t be more happier with him, i love him so much.

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Omg childhood friends turned romance? This is my favourite trope

  • @lilymackay5742
    @lilymackay5742 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    We started off as best friends and i was so scared to lose our friendship he had to ask me out 3 times before i said yes😅
    We're engaged nowww💍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations to you both! It might be scary at first but it’s worth it

    • @peanut_butterr
      @peanut_butterr ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aww❤️❤️

  • @burningmidnighturn
    @burningmidnighturn ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Right on target. The best relationships I've had started as being friends.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How are your relationships now?

    • @burningmidnighturn
      @burningmidnighturn ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm in between relationships right now. The last one (about 3 months ago) was well worth it but we just found out we were going different directions.
      Thanks for asking!!

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah. Absolutely. And usally the only ones that can actually be called relationships tbh

  • @SamCal
    @SamCal ปีที่แล้ว +338

    This video made me realize that if I were to hang out more with my bff, our friendship might have evolved into romantic love. As of now it's still platonic but that could change really easily considering how my bff's feelings tend to be.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Do you know how you bff feels towards you? Have you asked?

    • @SamCal
      @SamCal ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@Psych2go It shifted from a physical long term friendship to online/distance since I moved countries 1 year ago. We were super close the last 10 months we hanged out in person and some of these previous points above I actually acted upon sometimes we hanged out (like the deeper and more meaningful conversations or the changes in body language) without realizing what were my feelings exactly. I can't speak for my friend or put words in her mouth, but I haven't asked her and certainly don't want to because she's changed and mature a lot for the better sake of her mental and emotional health (plus recovered from a 5 years long toxic relationship from her ex bf). I was not jealous of her ex by any means, and actually felt sorry for the guy since their relationship started well but started to decline slowly but horribly.
      I don't know how does she feel about me but if I had to take a guess, she'd be sure she'd like to keep being my friend and not anything else. The reason I don't want to ask it's because I'd feel stupid by saying something cheesy/corny to her and then be embarrassed afterwards, and honestly, in relation to the previous video of why Intelligent people struggle to date and the reasons for that, well, that also plays into my feelings and knowledge. She's like my perfect candidate for a partner even with all her flaws and defects, but I'm also wary of whether should I jump on the trigger and when (thanks to external factors in both of our lives).

    • @Angelsxlifeeeee
      @Angelsxlifeeeee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    • @barkoictolugueneofbairtona2273
      @barkoictolugueneofbairtona2273 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goofy

    • @ujaanbhattacharya4275
      @ujaanbhattacharya4275 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SamCal it's better if you don't ask , I did the mistake ...

  • @TIPipdraws
    @TIPipdraws ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I absolutely love the animation style! It's so lovely

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thank you for your feedback! What other styles would you like to see?

    • @TIPipdraws
      @TIPipdraws ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Psych2go I honestly really love the anime-type style! Rn it's so cute and the quality of animation is always consistently good, keep it up

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would like a uniqe style something cartoony and animeish ( i dont watch anime a) and like blobby ?

    • @essence____beauty_92
      @essence____beauty_92 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts omg I love it 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @airamaulestia4484
    @airamaulestia4484 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    I've been dating my best friend (that I've known for 2 years) for almost a week and now I notice that there were a lot of signs that I missed before she confessed to me, but I'm so happy she did!
    I'm so proud of her! She sometimes struggled to express her emotions, but look at her now! I can't wait to continue growing with her!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      well sad life to me my room mate is not even intrested in my old poke mon toys from the early 2000s

    • @airamaulestia4484
      @airamaulestia4484 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@theno1stnamenolastname362 someone seems to be speaking from experience! Don't worry for us, communication is the base of our relationship and we are comfortable with ourselves; I hope you're able to find some peace of mind, good luck out there!

    • @airamaulestia4484
      @airamaulestia4484 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Someone3951 uff, that happens sometimes; pokemon toys are cool tho! There must be someone out there that has as good taste as you!

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Heck yeah i’m so happy for you two and your wonderful relationship, I confessed to my bestie too and we’ve been togheter for two years ❤ he’s my best friend and my love

    • @airamaulestia4484
      @airamaulestia4484 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rebecca_rh Thanks! I hope my relationship gets to be as wonderful! So far so good we are super healthy but we have a long way to go and a lot to learn but we're doing fine, we send you good vibes from here Senpai! Take care!

  • @Therevenant-tu2ju
    @Therevenant-tu2ju ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Was in a situation where i liked a friend but she was already in a relationship so i ended up dropping my feelings in favor for the friendship and to not sabotage her current relationship, we’re still friends today and I’m grateful to have her as a friend

    • @tainakishihara9827
      @tainakishihara9827 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had a few friends like that. After I broke up he wanted to be with me. I said no I wanted to be friends and he left me a well.

  • @1wayroad935
    @1wayroad935 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I sometimes hate the "when friends start to notice" bit. Just because you two have chemistry together doesn't immediately mean that you are obligated to start dating.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That is true! Sometimes friendships only stay friendships and there’s nothing wrong with that

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I gone to chemistry class once and there was this dude his name was bob then we put all those chemical stuff and this dude started looking at another person and not even focusing so i slapped him to get him back to work he should've known that

    • @1wayroad935
      @1wayroad935 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Someone3951 That's what he gets for looking at someone else when he already has you

    • @nombulelokhanyile945
      @nombulelokhanyile945 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow ,l had not seen it that way😐😐

  • @Unitato152
    @Unitato152 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I met this good friend of mine over the summer before my first year of high school and we became gaming buddies for quite some time, even shipped our characters together for fun whenever we did some friendly RPs together. It was about 4 months in that he admitted to having a small crush on me. It slightly took me by surprise, especially since it's been so long since someone ever felt that way about me. I took some time to think about it for at least 2 months until I realized I began feeling the same way about him. He was catching onto it a few times (noticing that I was wanting to talk and hang out with him more frequently) but I tried my best to hide it until I could find the right time to tell him. Soon enough, on December 14, 2019, I blurted out my feelings for him and... Well, let's just say we've been together for nearly 3-4 years now

  • @angelc286
    @angelc286 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Substitute step 5 for spending more time together with a mutual interest.
    Just hanging out more, like binge watching sitcoms together at the end of the day is one of the reasons my husband and I started dating❤ We’ve been married 14 years now.😊

    • @seekerofsouls74
      @seekerofsouls74 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love ❤️ this idea because I absolutely love sitcoms!!!

  • @madi_stellar
    @madi_stellar ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I’ve been catching feelings for my one friend. But I just got cheated on by my ex. My “friend” and I just sit next to each other any time I can, we laugh a lot together. He checks up on me, making sure that my mental health is okay and that I’m eating enough. The way he smiles at me and only acts around me makes me think he likes me. Everyone in the class thinks we’re dating, but he tells me that he’s straight.
    Also hello! Time traveler gang :3

    • @nis_bea
      @nis_bea ปีที่แล้ว +6

      wow 😲

    • @Seranade_WOW
      @Seranade_WOW ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Woah? How’d you do that? 4 days ago?

    • @loony9157
      @loony9157 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      WHY IS YOUR MESSAGE FROM 4 DAYS AGO...

    • @smiley4341
      @smiley4341 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How is this 4 days ago this was just posted 30 sec ago💀

    • @LX31415
      @LX31415 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am not typically the brightest bulb but how did you send a comment 4 days after the video upload?

  • @DJ-1Q84
    @DJ-1Q84 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Every relationship is an opportunity for learning and evolving."

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love yourself and be honest with yourself
    You are a great person

  • @ZayDashAnimates
    @ZayDashAnimates ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Thank you so much for each video you upload to help us understand hard relationships / friendships even if friends turn out to be toxic. Things can get rough from time to time but we learn from those toxicities and we notice more clear red flags from them. Remember to always take time to boost your energy and confidence so you can prevent people from tearing you down… thank you so much @Psych2Go and happy early 10M subscribers! ❤️

  • @chantengel
    @chantengel ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I recently( actually yesterday) me and my girlfriend separated and it hit me hard since i love her so much, and I’ve been very sad since then, but watching this video and listening to your soft voice definitely just made me smile a bit and calm down and ease up. Thank you so much and also i love your videos they are so well done, much love!

  • @star-stonelegend
    @star-stonelegend ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your videos have help me understand myself and my feelings. Especially since I have developed feelings for this girl I’ve known for 14-15 months. It could be just a minor crush, but my feelings for her kept growing and I am at the point where I want to hang out with her more. I know my journey will be long weather we start as friends from square one or even more then that. But I glade I am getting the chance to know her first.

  • @isaidimapotterhead
    @isaidimapotterhead ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can we just appreciate how this was animated? This was so great it made me wonder if the friendship I have been carefully having with someone I have known for quite a while now qualifies all these signs. That or maybe she's just super friendly. 😭

  • @aestaetic07
    @aestaetic07 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I SAW WOTAKOI IN THE THUMBNAIL AND I IMMEDIATELY CLICKED

  • @skitts6644
    @skitts6644 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am very emotionally invested in the two characters featured in this video, they have my whole heart

  • @cosmicspacebub5978
    @cosmicspacebub5978 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Did have something like this. But didn’t work out that way. Was catching heavy feelings for my best friend and even told them. However, we agreed our friendship is too good to lose over a relationship. They’re seeing somebody else and I’ve just learned to accept it and move on from my feelings. It’s a slow process but I’m glad our friendship is still strong there. However, these signs will be useful for someone else in the future.

  • @katerina.vidal.
    @katerina.vidal. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    congrats on 10 million subs! ur channel is so inspirational and I watch it every day! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennifergray6433
    @jennifergray6433 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's been 19 years. We lost contact along the way. We reconnect last week and I have the feels. But sometimes I doubt myself, doubt what he says and I close off. I know it's been a while but whenever I hear or see him, butterflies ☺️☺️

  • @NitwitGuitarist
    @NitwitGuitarist ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could have used this a couple months ago lmaoo
    I've known him for five years, but only started crushing on him last year.
    Saw subtle signs he liked me back, but didn't believe it..
    Yes, there was the change in body language, the jealousy, the constant checks to see if we look presentable, our mutual friends making fun of us (some even thought we were already dating) and we literally went from not talking at all to talking and calling every day.
    We've been together for five months now and I couldn't be happier :D

  • @monstercatx
    @monstercatx ปีที่แล้ว

    All your videos are so cill and satisfying to listen and watch ! It's really helpful !

  • @tranqui_lil_ie
    @tranqui_lil_ie ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok so...one of my friends is also my crush and sadly we don't talk often. A few months ago we talked like twice a week,but now like...once every month,and I kinda dislike this,but I'm scared about disturbing him,he told me that he's busy etc...sometimes he behave like he's my boyfriend/he has a crush on me,and this made me fell for him,but I think that he does this just because he wants to treat me well. But I appreciate the fact that a few days ago,since I have covid,he worried about how I was doing with that ❤️.
    And only two of my friends knows about this crush,one of them doesn't say anything,another one a few months ago he gave me a lot of advices to know him more but I think I'll do that reaaaaaally slowly. The next "step" is me doing a drawing for his birthday,it will be in december.
    I forgot to say that I also put him on my instagram close friends's list because I want him to "know" him more,there I post some of my "private" drawings etc...sometimes he puts like on my ig's stories,and he told me that he does that if he likes something and it makes me think that he likes my drawings! :)

  • @888MisterX888
    @888MisterX888 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fell for a beautiful girl but as soon as she realized it, she completely cut off the friendship. I'm not even afraid that she doesn't love me back, but I also really love her as a friend. It breaks my heart that she built that distance, even though she might have her very own reasons. Wishing everyone who is going through similar situations that you keep going and open to new partners again! It can be frustrating and painful at the beginning because you always think of that one person, but it will eventually slowly get better from month to month.

    • @xdrazormon454
      @xdrazormon454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry you've been through this :( I've also been friends with a girl for a year. I then caught feelings for her that reasolted into rejection and blocked so now she's gone. Catching feelings for a friend is risky but eventually you can't hide it for too long and have to let it out

  • @MiaMoo.
    @MiaMoo. ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Absolutely love these videos. I feel like I have a crush on my boy bestie. This will really help me to have even more close friendship… possibly love!

  • @ashiyahbliss4944
    @ashiyahbliss4944 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I freaking love the thumbnail!!!
    As an anime lover, the thumbnail is so cuteee, on point love it so much💗💗

  • @Duranie4Life
    @Duranie4Life ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “Your friends are staring to notice” Bruh EVERYONE IN THE LITERAL WHOLE SCHOOL WHO SEE US NOTICES

  • @xBlacksStarx
    @xBlacksStarx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so adorable I loved this video so much haha

  • @peanut_butterr
    @peanut_butterr ปีที่แล้ว

    YAY EARLY CONGRATULATIONS FOR THE 10M PSYCH2GO❤️🎊
    YOU DESERVE MANY MORE REORGANISATION!!!!
    SENDING HUGS

  • @rumbodeglasas2797
    @rumbodeglasas2797 ปีที่แล้ว

    im very glad i stomped abravely on this chanel
    and it has become a routine to watch atleast on video to relax
    i dont even have a crush rn
    im just glad these videos exist

  • @Seranade_WOW
    @Seranade_WOW ปีที่แล้ว +40

    1. 0:30 You notice changes in body language
    2. 1:07 You get jealous of each other’s past or potential partners
    3. 1:36 You’re more nervous around each other than usual
    4. 2:14 Your friends are starting to NOTICE
    5. 2:49 Your conversations are deeper and more frequent
    Your welcome! :D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the timestamps!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      8th :|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| sheesh

    • @Seranade_WOW
      @Seranade_WOW ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go Np!

  • @the_UF365
    @the_UF365 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Personally, I'm in a situation where I need to avoid most romantic relationships to keep my friends safe from getting involved in all my drama, but this video cpuld help me with warning signs.

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sir i got no friends :((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      F IN THE CHAT

    • @lesclart
      @lesclart ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Someone3951 me too 😢 😭

    • @Gotham-guardian-pls7t
      @Gotham-guardian-pls7t ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Someone3951 now you have one ;)

    • @Gotham-guardian-pls7t
      @Gotham-guardian-pls7t ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lesclart now you have one ;)

  • @xZadkiel
    @xZadkiel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just exactly what I needed rn, your the best🥰

  • @robertnixon7447
    @robertnixon7447 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always feel like this channel is watching me cause vids like this coming out at perfect times

  • @mm.moon13
    @mm.moon13 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are almost at 10M ❤️ Congrats

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!! We are happy that you are apart of it

  • @pc1231
    @pc1231 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    congrats on nearly 10 million!!! ❤❤❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are so close! So happy you are apart of it with us

    • @Commentingstuff
      @Commentingstuff ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Psych2go :D

    • @pc1231
      @pc1231 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go 👍👍👍

  • @Rachel-tp3or
    @Rachel-tp3or ปีที่แล้ว +162

    time stamps! ~~~
    0:30 changes in body language
    1:05 you get jealous of each others past or potential partners
    1:34 you’re more nervous around each other than usual
    2:12 your friends start to notice
    2:46 your conversations are deeper and more frequent

    • @ironical-tofu6
      @ironical-tofu6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This comment is going to have thousands of likes after a while...
      I feel it in my balls...

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thank you so much for including it!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      7TH LAD

    • @Evelyn-cu5ez
      @Evelyn-cu5ez ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ironical-tofu6 AYO😳📸

  • @Andre-zw5kl
    @Andre-zw5kl ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lots of thanks for this wonderful clip. It made me realize that my girlfriend's pal's (she is also my pal's twin sister) and I start to catch feelings to each other (and I don't really know what do do now)

  • @wynbd
    @wynbd ปีที่แล้ว

    The voice is calming that's why i always find peace with your beautiful videos♡

  • @rebecca_rh
    @rebecca_rh ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My boyfriend is also my bestfriend and tbh that’s just the way a relationship should be, we were best friends before getting togheter, supporting eachother and discussing about our problems, and now that we are togheter we still do. Now he’s my best friend AND my boyfriend

    • @hannahdewinter5515
      @hannahdewinter5515 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was it awkward at first with the transition? It can be hard to shift the mindset of seeing someone as a friend to a romantic interest even if you have some attraction there

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hannahdewinter5515 I guess for some people it is but not necessarily really, for me it wasn’t hard at all nor awkward, it just happened naturally and painlessly (I guess I was lucky lol), I think it really depends on your mindset and the way you live the transition is different for everyone
      The way I felt it was like the romantic feelings appeared quietly at some point and they started growing with time, until I realized, so I made my move and it just happened,since luckily the same exact thing happened to my partner ^^

  • @kres_de
    @kres_de ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well this is going to be alot weirder than i expected
    also nice video

  • @xyn5804
    @xyn5804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the Wotakoi reference in the thumbnail! ❤

  • @manarmohialdeen3939
    @manarmohialdeen3939 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice is so soothing and relaxing❤

  • @dinaagyemang336
    @dinaagyemang336 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think he knows I like him or is starting to suspect. But I belive we have the potential, I've also noticed we copy each others gestures and find it wayy easier to maintain eye contact or just make more eye contact.

  • @UndercoverTherapist
    @UndercoverTherapist ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think the best types of romantic relationships are the ones that started from friendships.

    • @nombulelokhanyile945
      @nombulelokhanyile945 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yet other motherfuckers out there believe that "you cannot escape the friendzone"! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lydiahiksan1232
    @lydiahiksan1232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 31 f and my best friend is a guy who is 23. We've spoken to each other everyday for the past year. It's clear we really love each other but we keep it platonic.
    We' live in the same major city.
    We are from different cultures, are different races, had a completely different upbringing, I'm an extrovert and he is an introvert, he's been in relationships and I never have been in one (I like being single and more "free" ), I'm celibate and he is sexually active, and I'm 8 years older (even tho I look 23 and he thought I was at first).
    There are soooooo many differences between us.
    I've never been so emotionally intimate with a guy before and for this long. He stopped telling me about other girls he's sleeping with about 6 months ago.
    He talks to his family about me all the time.
    I rent with my older sister and will be moving to a new apartment next year. Since I'll be living on my own next year and will be allowing him to come over it's clear we will likely become an "old married couple" who does not sleep together. I think when people are age 25 and older they're 2 adults that can make decisions for themselves.
    I've always been someone who is happy on their own but he makes me question this part of myself.

  • @aapjm
    @aapjm ปีที่แล้ว

    10 million subs???!! omg i remember when this channel only had like a million followers and it was just like a year ago. congrats!!

  • @SquidTheFurryRecRoom
    @SquidTheFurryRecRoom ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you I have been struggling with this situation

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m sorry to hear that, did this video help you?

    • @SquidTheFurryRecRoom
      @SquidTheFurryRecRoom ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go yes it did

  • @Robin_Moony
    @Robin_Moony ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Heyy I love you! Been watching your vids for years!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so sweet! What makes you continue watching our videos?

    • @Robin_Moony
      @Robin_Moony ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go It help me feel..better I guess I’ve always had problems with my parents friends etc. so it’s kinda nice having somewhere I can turn to to help me feel better!

  • @Zipz-ju4ir
    @Zipz-ju4ir ปีที่แล้ว

    10M subs!!!! Congrats❣

  • @kart01
    @kart01 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re almost at 10 million, keep it up

  • @ShinjouOfficial
    @ShinjouOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +27

    0:30 - Changes in your body.
    1:05 - get jealous of each other's potential parents.
    1:35 - nervous as usual
    2:13 - friends starting to notice~!
    2:47 - conversations more frequent and deeper.
    I like this channel so here's timestamps!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      9th well pysch is getting more time stamps then comments but this is society now.

    • @ShinjouOfficial
      @ShinjouOfficial ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Someone3951 that true

  • @Imari3
    @Imari3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People love to ask the single friend for relationship advice. Anyway, nothing is more stressful or frustrating than getting mixed signals. Do they love me? New photos posted, so cool/pretty!! Is that the person they’re in love with? So many questions that can drive a person mad. Sometimes outright rejection is the best way to give closure to someone. When you know that you have no chance, it’s really okay to free your heart. No matter what you’ve been through, know that you’re capable of loving another person. You deserve the warm and kindness you have given to others as well. Please be gentle with yourself. (:

    • @AmIWhatIAm
      @AmIWhatIAm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely. 3 years ago, I kinda knew my crush didn't like me, but because I felt very uncomfortable with how I was acting around him, how I used to think about him constantly and my grades were slipping, I just had to just confess and let that part of me shut down lol.
      The rational part of me knows that he doesn't like me, but the emotional part of me keeps doubting it. He was shocked at first when I messaged him, but then I told him the reason why I decided to confess and thanked him for being honest, my heart finally became calm. Though it is a broken friendship now, but at least we don't hold back each other anymore, we pretty much went on with our own lives.

    • @Imari3
      @Imari3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AmIWhatIAm Thank you for sharing this with me. I think the risk of falling for a friend is that if it’s not mutual, we could make things awkward or lost the other person completely. If the relationship doesn’t last, a breakup would yield similar outcome. A lot of things are out of our control completely. When it comes to how you feel, sometimes being logical doesn’t always work. Well, that reminds me of “the heart wants what it wants”. But I think you’re really brave for confessing your feeling. No wondering ‘what if’ later on. There’s always lesson for every experience. And I think he was good for being honest with you as well. As for someone who’d been given false hope so many times, I can understand the agony of holding on to sth that will never happen. I wish you good luck in your future endeavors, in study, work, and love. Take care~

  • @sebhipolito5244
    @sebhipolito5244 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looove the thumbnail!!! Makes me wanna rewatch Wotakoi!

  • @thegoldenwolf3737
    @thegoldenwolf3737 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy that i found this channel! 😊😊😊🥺💝

  • @flowersforthea
    @flowersforthea ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was kidnapped with my friend when I was 6, twice. now we're getting married in december so sometimes bad start has a happy ending, as long as you believe and work for it :D

  • @theatenusagi
    @theatenusagi ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You guys are so close to 10 million!! Congrats!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes we are! Thank you for being apart of the community

  • @maxiew
    @maxiew ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg i love the new art style!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your feedback!

  • @adammanuel3525
    @adammanuel3525 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou for this video, i learned a lot. My heart broke.

  • @lightningquiz7924
    @lightningquiz7924 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is it possible for you guys to make a video on when you’re ready to be in a relationship? Not as the giver, but as the receiver

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin ปีที่แล้ว +11

    0:00 intro
    0:30 1. You notice change in body language.
    1:05 2. You get jealous of each other's past or potential partners.
    1:34 3. You are more nervous each other than usual.
    2:12 4. Your friends are starting to notice
    2:47 5. Your conversations are deeper and more frequent.
    3:32 outro

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for including it!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      samE GUY

  • @radouanemegherbi3499
    @radouanemegherbi3499 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch, watching this hurts. Early congratulations on 10 millions 💛✨🥳

  • @Maria-ek5vw
    @Maria-ek5vw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the animation sm!

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It can be a big mistake to fall in love with a friend and ruin the friendship it's not worth losing a friendship

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is something to think of. What if they feel the same way too?

    • @liamodonovan6610
      @liamodonovan6610 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Psych2go that could happen but that is s very rare occurrence

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Money cant buy love but love break friendship thats way of life

    • @liamodonovan6610
      @liamodonovan6610 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Someone3951 i would perfer to stay friends

    • @peanut_butterr
      @peanut_butterr ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true one of my valuable friendships fell apart bc that person cought feelings for me while I was obsessed with my former crush (funny ik lol) however I had to reject him he still sometimes text me and bring up unnecessary fights and stuff which is annoying🥴 we no more good friends

  • @claretcactus
    @claretcactus ปีที่แล้ว +4

    help I'm crying the timing is just right😭 yesterday my friend out of nothing just started to act like he is my boyfriend, he leaned on me, hugged me for minutes, kissed me on the forehead and on the cheeks and tried to kiss me on the lips and I'm like what the hell is happening

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg! That’s adorable but how do you feel about the actions he took towards you?

    • @claretcactus
      @claretcactus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Psych2go I don't know, i liked him for months but i forced myself to put him in the friendzone, now i'm still trying to figure out what i feel and what to do next

    • @tranqui_lil_ie
      @tranqui_lil_ie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww,this reminds me of me and my friend/crush! Sometimes he behave like he's my boyfriend,like that time where he tried to warm my hands (I felt like they were gonna explode lol) with his...but I let it go because we were at the school gym,anyone could see us.

    • @claretcactus
      @claretcactus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tranqui_lil_ie awww, that's so cute!!^^

  • @benh2913
    @benh2913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this channel. like these videos make me so ❤❤❤❤

  • @void_StarXD
    @void_StarXD ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tysmm I have been waiting for this type of video tysmm

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so happy you found it relatable! What did you learn from it?

    • @void_StarXD
      @void_StarXD ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go I found out my bff keeps doing that things in the video do u think he really likes me? 😅💙

  • @rattersworld1016
    @rattersworld1016 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Are you starting to catch feelings for your friend?" No, I'm watching this because it's entertaining

  • @overeasymode
    @overeasymode ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm not sure if relationships that start out as friends turn into lovers are the best. But I do l know that the best relationships in love are best friends.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s true. Sometimes friendships don’t turn into relationships but we all want to be best friends with the person we love

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh ปีที่แล้ว

      At the end of the day, your romantic partner is also your best friend so i agree

  • @LambdaPsi
    @LambdaPsi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Psych2go thank you for all your videos, you know how grateful we are of your efforts. Thank you alot

  • @HoneyyChai
    @HoneyyChai ปีที่แล้ว

    congrats on almost 10 mil:)

  • @smiley4341
    @smiley4341 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love how all the things she said doesn't happen in my life😊❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It hasn't happened yet! Will you be prepared if it does happen to you?

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Smiley im with ya i failed in the intelligent test then the mental age i dont even do all a b and c i run away

    • @smiley4341
      @smiley4341 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Psych2go thanks!
      But the only problem is that girls take 5-8 steps away from me💀

    • @AmIWhatIAm
      @AmIWhatIAm ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smiley4341 to tell you, most girls will not interact with boys unless they have to or need to. I'm sure it's the other way around too lol. Usually during group work.
      If you want a more natural approach, maybe you can discuss homework at school if you're still studying. I'm sure all friendships start with something that's common around the environment. For students, this is the easiest way to start a conversation.
      If you have social media, you can share some of your interests if you've added your friends.
      For me I got to talk to my crush because I posted a screenshot of the game he's playing too. (I heard them talking about it in class and I've decided to try it out bcs I like games too). The next day, he came to my place and asked if I played the game and invited me to his group chat with his friends :) We became good friends since then.

  • @NezzoTwine
    @NezzoTwine ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have a crush on my best friend currently. However, it's a bit hard to tell whether if she likes me since we've only been communicating with each other by text in the past 5 months. I really want to confess to her but I'm too scared of getting rejected and ruining our friendship.
    Also I'm in love with this animating style.

    • @matthewtan614
      @matthewtan614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you made any progress with her?

    • @NezzoTwine
      @NezzoTwine 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@matthewtan614 Sadly, I got friend zoned but thankfully we're both cool with it and doing great as friends

  • @sammessi7765
    @sammessi7765 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her voice!! 😚❤️✨🤌🏻

  • @kht_eboni
    @kht_eboni ปีที่แล้ว

    Just 1k and your at 10milion subs! Congrats🥳🎉

  • @snailie
    @snailie ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So I'm sitting here watching this video and noticing my crush is indeed showing some of those signs mentioned here when we hang out... and people around out do notice and have been teasing us... but I still can't bring myself to believe that he could possibly feel anything more than friendship for me. I know fully well that my self esteem isn't on top when it comes to this, maybe because in the past no man ever took any interest in me other than being buddies, and me being ugly on the outside and weird on the inside... oh well... if it ain't complicated, I guess it's not my life. :(

  • @djfrost7801
    @djfrost7801 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I confessed to my best friend, she felt the same way.

  • @radyank0
    @radyank0 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love listening to ur voice man

  • @fredsimon8199
    @fredsimon8199 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.What a nice video!

  • @TheCematrixX
    @TheCematrixX ปีที่แล้ว +23

    What can you do, if you have feelings for a friend but if you know that if you tell them you'll lose them...

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why would you lose your friend if you told them?

    • @FFRrox
      @FFRrox ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go I feel that's one of the risks of having feelings for someone like a friend. Also, from my experience, sharing feelings like that for friends, let alone crushes DID NOT end well because of rejection and awkwardness. If it doesn't work out for a someone who is a friend, for me, it likely wouldn't work out if I met up someone in a social setting and confessed to them. I'm way too shy and socially awkward to be able to risk this kind of thing again

  • @ZeroZmm
    @ZeroZmm ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've had friends where the chemistry is so undeniable that others assume we are a couple and then when they point it out, the partner denies it, thinks on it and then ghosts me..
    Something's wrong with me I just can't tell what is

  • @zer.oo.o
    @zer.oo.o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the Wotakoi thumbnail!

  • @user-io2fc9ll7k
    @user-io2fc9ll7k ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this video so much

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you take away from the video?

  • @bachpham5025
    @bachpham5025 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been best friend with this girl for like 8 years, ever since we met in HS. We have all of these signs especially recently when most of our inner circle friends ask if we have something more. But she’d always deny it (I was not there) and when we hang out just the 2 of us (and we do that very often) she usually says something like I’m very important to her but she just wants things to never get any further. She even tells me multiple times about her dream, her vision in like 10 years when she’d have her own family and a daughter and I’d have my own family and a son and they’d go to the same school be best friends since a very young age 🤦🏻‍♂️💀😭 I’m so confused

    • @ujaanbhattacharya4275
      @ujaanbhattacharya4275 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Probably She's not interested romantically bro , happens

    • @matthewtan614
      @matthewtan614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you made any progress with her?

    • @bachpham5025
      @bachpham5025 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@matthewtan614 I just want to leave all of this behind but since you asked… I had confessed my feelings for her not long after I made the comment. Long story short, it is what it is. I decided to take a step back and get away, keep my distance from her for some time (7 months now). Who knows what will happen in the future. Maybe I’ll find someone else or maybe we’ll have another chance…

  • @ArcadeMarx
    @ArcadeMarx ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Regarding the 5th point about conversation, me and my female friend who I am in love with talked about some personal stuff recently and I told her I was in love with a girl (obviously implying her but I don't know if she figured out I was talking about her) and how I feel bad because "that girl" doesn't like me back and I remember her saying "well if she doesn't like you, others will". Also while a friend of her had told me she likes someone when i asked her directly she said "I don't know". Idk are those signs or not.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe its hard for her to voice her feelings. The best is to evaluate the situation

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sad life we will respect you and you will be rememebered for your nice bravery one like ;\

    • @ArcadeMarx
      @ArcadeMarx ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go yeah she's hard to understand. I really can't tell yet whether she actually likes someone else (like her friend told me) or if she's interested in me.

    • @matthewtan614
      @matthewtan614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ArcadeMarx Have you made any progress with her?

  • @l0_0l
    @l0_0l ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love the thumbnail art especially because i recently rewatched wotakoi: love is hard for otaku.

  • @diemention5208
    @diemention5208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adorable animation.

  • @farah_nm162
    @farah_nm162 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When singlehood hits hard, but you still watch Psych2Go crushes videos for hope🤧🤧

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Timestamps
    1). You notice changes in body language 0:30
    2). You get jealous of each other's past or potential partners 1:05
    3). You're more nervous around each other than usual 1:34
    4). Your friends are starting to notice 2:13
    5). Your conversations are deeper and more frequent 2:47
    Hope this helps you out. Sorry this is a few hours to late I was I was stuck in traffic on my way home.

    • @juts_sama
      @juts_sama ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Barb, hope you're doing okay. I just heard about Maddie. I'm really sorry. If there's anything I can do to help. Just ask.

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juts_sama I don't know anyone named Maddie

    • @alinanymus6830
      @alinanymus6830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A55a551n but I’d your name barb?

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alinanymus6830 I name is not barb

    • @alinanymus6830
      @alinanymus6830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A55a551n oh ok That would have been really funny 😂

  • @namratabalasekar5473
    @namratabalasekar5473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The animation and artistics of Psych2Go keep getting better!! Keep going Team!

  • @user-zb4rq3pb4j
    @user-zb4rq3pb4j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    seriously so trueeeee, my whole school, including the teachers, students and staff members gossip about me and shipping me with a girl named Evelyn Wang and those actions in the video are sooooo true but in the end I got rejected by my last year crush who is not Evelyn and is now her adoptive mum... Life is so weird yet so sweet~