"It's better to give it to a baby now, than being hoarded in my basement." Such powerful words. I'm so sorry for your losses but you will gift so many mamas with your amazing gift giving. And I'm glad Pepper helps you along the way. Such a great support kitty. 🐈⬛️❤️
I had the same thing happen to me. Multiple miscarriage after having 2 kids. We decided to stop trying. When I gave all the baby items away, it was very emotional for me. But I noticed once they were gone, I had an easier time with getting over not having more children. It was like keeping the items were keeping me wishing/wanting things to be different.
Letting go of that baby stuff is such a big step for you and I am glad you are seeing someone to help you with your losses and trauma! Glad that miss pepper is here to get you some comfort.
I know that I have 3 Beautiful Babies in Heaven. Both of my living boys had a twin and a one of one very early pregnancy. They are very hard. I just had the joy of trying my best to keep positive and try to make sure that the baby that stayed made it. The one that was extremely early happen when my youngest boy was 2 ½. I was alone when I went through that. Then about 2½ years later I had my now 12 year old daughter. I have 4 living children. One always thinks of what could have been. Yet, it is what is, we are truly blessed with who we been blessed to raise and our lives are what is now.
I know that its not that easy to get rid of some things, but try to think this way, if you dont use those things just remember there are a lot of kids they dont have any clothes or blanket so just imagine how much help you can give them by donating those clothes and stuff ,you re doind an amazind job just keep going 💪💪
You are a truly incredible, one of a kind lady! I know this episode was not easy for you but I am blown away by what you accomplished. Thank you for proving we can heal our trauma. Thank you for being brave on camera and working so hard to let us watch the transformation. Last I want to thank for for including the poles in the camera shot hahaha it truly helps me have an idea of the progress. Keep up the good work. YOU ARE A STAR!
I'm absolutely amazed at how far you have come. I can hardly believe you actualy got rid the entire baby bin. You have come so far. You are doing so well. You are so strong. It makes me so very happy for you, to know that you are getting better and slowly letting go of the taumas of your life. Not least because that will leave you more room for all the things in life that you love and enjoy. I know from experiance that dealing with the traumas of your life is rough, but I find that life is just so mush better once you get to the other side of it. What a great victory for you. Congratelations. I'm sending you all my love and hope that you and your family have a great day ❤😊🌷🌼.
You are doing so great!! I just want to hug you cause you are so much stronger than you know ❤️ those baby's that receive all those amazing gifts will be so blessed. ❤️
Miss Heart. I am so proud of you. I have been watching you for 3 years now. I am so proud of how far you have come. I'm really enjoy watching every video you post. ❤
You're so beautiful and strong, and seeing you healing at your own pace is so touching. We are all inspired by you. It's okay to feel how you feel. It takes such courage and depth of spirit to achieve what you are achieving. Look how much light you are bringing to the world with your kind nature and energy - you are making the world a better place just by being in it.
I haven't commented in a while but I'm still here watching. Wanted to let you know how impressive this step is, and it's very inspirational how you are moving through it
You can totally keep keep sakes. When you clear out the basement. Maybe you can display some of our childhood keepsakes when you put your crafting area together have some shelves and display those items. I am so proud of you!!! Your doing great!
Heyyyyy great job and few questions !! How are the Guinea pigs? And just curious do u know when the yard sale going to be those are my fav vids besides these ones ?? Once again great job love ya 💝And I am so so proud of you for letting go of that grey bin and you blessed a family that really needed it so great job!!
Oh...huge hug...this was a very big step forward for you emotionally. I am happy for you that you are making such wonderful strides. You are blessing others by donating.
So brave and well done for letting go off baby things so soon after your miscarriages, giving it to others that are in need and have nothing for their babies is a reward to them and to you
You are absolutely fabulous. What stores do you usually do your grocery shopping at? Do you ever stock up on water? Can you possibly do some in store grocery shopping videos? It would be awesome if you could show how you do your full shopping trip
Our church collected donations for a mother who decided not to abort her baby. She was not a Christian and it was a way we could help her and share Gods love for her.
I knew when you opened the box that this would be emotional, but I didn't think you would declutter it, what a surprise you did, well done. It is hard but it's an incredible step towards recovery. Keep positive memories not negative. Miss Pepper is your baby for sure, she keeps following you around, she is so sweet. 🥰❤🧡💛🧡❤😍
Oh Miss Heart, letting go of the whole tub is SO BIG 💜 I learned that if I want to let my traumas heal, I have to make sure that the scars don’t break open all the time too. When this tub is leaving your house, not only blesses it a new family a lot! But it will not be there anymore to remind you of that big losses you had. Saying that, I have a tub with babythings in my own basement.. and watching you helps me to heal too.. I lost that baby in the first trimester too, we didn’t even make it to a heartbeat, and that I even got pregnant was a miracle in itself. I want to let go of my tub within the next week. I am collecting strength.. please say a little prayer for me 💜
And by the way: by weeding out your belongings, you are even safer then you were before. Because if all your sentimental and important things are collected and labeled, they are way more visible and available to you, in times you feel insecure and meet them! You are doing an impressive job, I am very proud of you!
@@holiday991 That is a great idea, I will do this! After I watched this video and decided, it is time to let go and close this chapter.. I left my house to call my boyfriend (inside I have no reception) and tell him. He is a pilgrim at the moment on Camino in Portugal, and just today he met a couple that invited him and sang a song for him, and although he is no religious believer this touched him to tears, and continuing his way he cried a lot and reflected on all the things that happened to him over the past years. (Writing this down, I start crying again..) And finally, although he never wanted children, he started mourning our baby too. He said he saw the two of us together with a little boy, and he was sad for the chance that we missed. Some things just cannot be accidental.
Me watching Miss Heart starting to let go, and deciding that it is time for me to do so too.. him grieving for the first time, not pushing his thoughts and feelings aside as he does too often.. We have not talked on telephone for two weeks now, but today we did. And both of us wanted to talk about this, not having it mentioned for over a year now. And while we were talking, a car parked and neighbors I do not now got out with two sleeping children, one of them a newborn boy. I am anxious to talk to strangers, but I paused my boyfriend and ran after them to ask if they could still use some of the things I have, like a crib or clothes or bottles.. The woman couldn't understand but called her husband back, and he was very hesitant. But I showed where I live an he could come and ring and take a look if he could use anything. Who knows, maybe he will or maybe he won't, than I try to give it to another family. But this is too much to be accidental!
Wow, I’m so impressed you were able to declutter the baby items. That shows how much you’ve healed. With them gone you won’t have the physical reminder of those sad times and you can know that another family may be benefiting from them.
Miss Heart ❤️ my thoughts and prayers are with you. You are such a strong woman and being able to let go of that amount of baby stuff is monumental. Be gentle with yourself. I’m so glad to hear you are getting the help you deserve with the traumas you’ve suffered. You are such an inspiration to me and so many others, thank you 🙏 Miss Pepper is minding you too 🐈 Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife ❤️💐🙏👏👍💪🐈🦄
I have tears in my eyes because you're so strong and I am so proud of you. You are a beacon of light for people with hoarding problems.Through you, I understood that my hoarding was a form of anxiety and walls to keep me safe. Thank you for all that you do now and what you will do in the future ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That was incredible! ((Sending you hugs)) I know that was difficult for you. Whether it was 1 outfit or the whole tote we're still proud of you for still going. You've come so far.
I've always felt privileged to be able to watch your progress over the past few years, but I was genuinely moved to tears watching your strength in this episode. Your progress, strength, and power are exponential. I'm so proud of you! ❤❤
This is one I will need to come back to when the time is right. I’ve lost 10 pregnancies (like you I fall easily but they never stick) and had 3 poor rounds of IVF in 2020-22. I don’t have any living children so we are keeping on until the time is right to stop. I’m almost 40 so time will do that for us anyway. I have a cot, a pram, baby clothes and maternity wear I will need to part with one day but that will be part of my ‘accepting childlessness’ journey and I’m simply not there yet. This trauma is hard so hats off to you for being so strong! Big hug x
I can see how painful it was for you going through the baby stuff, and I’m so very proud of you for letting it go! There are so many people in dire straights right now that desperately need it now. Have faith that, should you need it in the future, it will come to you. ❤️
This segment of basement looks great after your declutter and so does your nails! 💅🏻🌈 your decision to get rid of that box of baby stuff really impressed me! ❤
I went thru 3 miscarriage during 2019 2020 as well. I now have my lil hazel kitty. So yes pepper was like im the baby now. God sends us baby's but they are not always in the form me think. I'm so proud of all you have over come and you have helped me to over come my heart breaking moments while I'm am decluttering to. My hazel baby says hi
Holy cow. I'm so proud of you!! I started crying when you talked about your miscarriages. I can't imagine.. We were never able to get pregnant. You're a great mom and wife and a wonderful inspiration.
Allover the world,there are many people who dont have even a tshirt or a blanket for their baby..i find myself selfish if i hold on to clothes or whatever i dont need..(sorry for my english ,i am from Turkiye) love you ...
When you were going through that tub, I just wanted to give you a big hug! So when those items go away, just imagine a great big, gentle hug coming your way. You're doing amazing, and every bit gets a bit better.
It's because things like those baby clothes cause so much sadness that it's healing to remove them, so we are living in the present. A lot of hoarding is about trying to hold onto a feeling. In this case, the baby clothes used to represent hope, but then became a reminder of loss and sorrow. So whether we can bless someone else with these things or not, removing them will lighten our spirit. Unchaining ourselves from so much stuff that doesn't serve the person we want to be is a beautiful gift to ourselves.
Thank you for continuing to share your journey through decluttering the basement! I appreciate you sharing the stories that go along with the "stuff" as I have things that have stories that are hard to part with for that reason. I'm continuing to go through a small bit of my house each day and am finding that not having to part with things is making it easier to part with them over time.
Oh my goodness! My heart is with you as you go through all this. I am glad that you are getting help to process your emotions and experiences. Blessings to you and your family. And great job as you keep making progress on your basement!
You are a champion. I could never have children. It was hard to except. Life give you hope in different ways. Just think a little boy or girl sleeping warm and cozy and pretty in hat clothes. We love you and support you try this journey. Some flowers for you because you deserve it.🌸🌺🥀🌹🌼🌻🌷🥀. Karima South Africa
You are making amazing progress. I really felt emotional when you got to the baby box and was telling you that was enough for this session. Sending a big 🇬🇧 hug.
I'm so proud of you!!!❤❤❤❤❤You've come so far processing all of this hard stuff. You are so incredibly strong and such a good mama to your boys (and kitty Miss Pepper). Such a pure heart to think of those mamas out there struggling.🥺 I'm so freaking proud of you! 😭😊😊😊
How awesome is the My Little Pony sleeping bag?! 😻😻 Ugh, wow- you have come SO far! This was a tough one. 💙💙 I love how your narrative coaches through the process. 💖💖
Caught up to present! I've been binging your videos from the beginning since March 5th, 2022! I'm astonished as what you've been able to accomplish in the last 4 years. I'm so proud of your ability to donate the baby stuff gifted to you for desired baby #3. A momma and baby will be truly blessed by those items. Side note, I know it's the summer and you don't like to do No Spend Challenges in the Summer, but I love those videos and can't wait for the next one!
I have prayed for you for the probably more than 1.5 (at least) years I have followed you, specifically about your miscarriages. I have cried listening to your stories and seeing and hearing your heartbreak. I'm single, never married, no kids... but, I would have had a basketball team if I had my druthers! It just was not in the cards. I thought about going-it-on-my-own to motherhood as friends have done. But, I got cancer, and my potential for carrying a child and my ability to care for it with disability that resulted from chemo complications, proved God had other plans. I see your pain with each bin that you come across for "when I have my baby". I cannot begin to imagine your pain. But, what I see and hear each time is that your emotions are as raw as when each loss JUST occurred. Seeing you pass along a bin today both shocked and touched my heart. I pray you are soon able to let go of more of those that you have put back "for now/later" already. Times are so difficult right now, and there are many families that would certainly benefit from your gifting of such lovely items. The same goes for maternity clothing and etc. In your time and God's time, as you process and progress, I pray you find more closure with each step in dealing with these items. Your life is so awesome with all you do for yourself, your family, and your community! The more I see you release from your home, the more I see your life get fuller and richer! Your debt is GONE! Your home is functioning soooo much better. And, your baby steps are shuffling you to more freedom and reflection. God's speed as you perhaps think about pulling those "when I have my baby" boxes out to Konmari and keep absolutely the most dear and precious pieces or just decide to donate flat out. You've got this and God's got you. Prayer and reflection with Him will give you the answers you need, and are longing for, to take your next steps with these specific and special mementos. XO, Your Sister in Christ, Crystal
"It's better to give it to a baby now, than being hoarded in my basement." Such powerful words. I'm so sorry for your losses but you will gift so many mamas with your amazing gift giving. And I'm glad Pepper helps you along the way. Such a great support kitty. 🐈⬛️❤️
It’s so powerful! I had a basement that flooded and I had to toss a lot of baby stuff. This stuff will bless a baby indeed ❤️
I had the same thing happen to me. Multiple miscarriage after having 2 kids. We decided to stop trying. When I gave all the baby items away, it was very emotional for me. But I noticed once they were gone, I had an easier time with getting over not having more children. It was like keeping the items were keeping me wishing/wanting things to be different.
Letting go of that baby stuff is such a big step for you and I am glad you are seeing someone to help you with your losses and trauma! Glad that miss pepper is here to get you some comfort.
You made me cry when you were talking about the baby clothes.
I know that I have 3 Beautiful Babies in Heaven. Both of my living boys had a twin and a one of one very early pregnancy. They are very hard. I just had the joy of trying my best to keep positive and try to make sure that the baby that stayed made it. The one that was extremely early happen when my youngest boy was 2 ½. I was alone when I went through that. Then about 2½ years later I had my now 12 year old daughter. I have 4 living children. One always thinks of what could have been. Yet, it is what is, we are truly blessed with who we been blessed to raise and our lives are what is now.
I am a horder in crafts and watching you It makes me feel good knowing to give to people that are in need ,thank you for your help
I've never seen one of your videos within 1 minute of posting! Yay!!
I know that its not that easy to get rid of some things, but try to think this way, if you dont use those things just remember there are a lot of kids they dont have any clothes or blanket so just imagine how much help you can give them by donating those clothes and stuff ,you re doind an amazind job just keep going 💪💪
Good point about the brain needing to take its own time to heal.
It almost feels like a treasure hunt, working through the unnecessary items to find the safe ones! TFS 💕
You are a truly incredible, one of a kind lady! I know this episode was not easy for you but I am blown away by what you accomplished. Thank you for proving we can heal our trauma. Thank you for being brave on camera and working so hard to let us watch the transformation. Last I want to thank for for including the poles in the camera shot hahaha it truly helps me have an idea of the progress.
Keep up the good work. YOU ARE A STAR!
Not gonna lie, I teared up watching you go through that baby bin. Hugs.
I'm absolutely amazed at how far you have come.
I can hardly believe you actualy got rid the entire baby bin. You have come so far. You are doing so well. You are so strong.
It makes me so very happy for you, to know that you are getting better and slowly letting go of the taumas of your life. Not least because that will leave you more room for all the things in life that you love and enjoy.
I know from experiance that dealing with the traumas of your life is rough, but I find that life is just so mush better once you get to the other side of it. What a great victory for you. Congratelations. I'm sending you all my love and hope that you and your family have a great day ❤😊🌷🌼.
You are doing so great!! I just want to hug you cause you are so much stronger than you know ❤️ those baby's that receive all those amazing gifts will be so blessed. ❤️
Thank you for sharing and being so open. The amount of work I see over the years is inspiring ❤️
You are doing a great job. Very emotional,but you talked it through and was able to give things up. Very proud of you.
Miss Heart. I am so proud of you. I have been watching you for 3 years now. I am so proud of how far you have come. I'm really enjoy watching every video you post. ❤
You are so strong. So inspiring. I love how you reframed things into something that empowers you. And hells others.❤️
You're so beautiful and strong, and seeing you healing at your own pace is so touching. We are all inspired by you. It's okay to feel how you feel. It takes such courage and depth of spirit to achieve what you are achieving. Look how much light you are bringing to the world with your kind nature and energy - you are making the world a better place just by being in it.
I'm so proud of you. Letting go of the baby stuff is such a big accomplishment. I know how hard that is. ♥️♥️♥️
You made me cry. It's hard to not have the babies you want.
I pray God continues to be your strength in this process. Good jobs mama. Your baby steps have turned into miles 💜
Im so proud of you for being able to declutter baby items. You're an inspiration Mrs heart
I hear and feel your loss. What a beautiful example of healing grace you are giving to others.
I haven't commented in a while but I'm still here watching. Wanted to let you know how impressive this step is, and it's very inspirational how you are moving through it
This was a big day for you. What a step forward! Both the baby items and art from the boys. You have made such great strides! Love you Pepper!
What a wonderful accomplishment in your basement declutter. So proud of you!
You are so strong! I am 100% with you. Thank you for that emotional segment. Bless you and your family.
I am inspired by your selflessness. ❤
Wow, I'm so proud of you for letting go of that whole bin! I know it will bless someone to receive those things.
So much growth! You are an inspiration!
I can;t express how much I admire you and your brave sharing. Thank you -you are a treasure!!!
So proud of you!
You can totally keep keep sakes. When you clear out the basement. Maybe you can display some of our childhood keepsakes when you put your crafting area together have some shelves and display those items. I am so proud of you!!! Your doing great!
Woah that was a tough one. I had tears in my eyes. I am so proud of you. I am not strong enough....wish I was as strong as you. Take care!
You did a really hard thing. You CAN do hard things! Be proud and keep moving forward!
Heyyyyy great job and few questions !! How are the Guinea pigs? And just curious do u know when the yard sale going to be those are my fav vids besides these ones ?? Once again great job love ya 💝And I am so so proud of you for letting go of that grey bin and you blessed a family that really needed it so great job!!
Omg that lunch box from the 80's on the floor! (After) You can sell that on ebay for a lot! I'll even take it!
You are very brave! I love how you work through things. Good for you! Great job. 😇
Oh...huge hug...this was a very big step forward for you emotionally. I am happy for you that you are making such wonderful strides. You are blessing others by donating.
So brave and well done for letting go off baby things so soon after your miscarriages, giving it to others that are in need and have nothing for their babies is a reward to them and to you
You are absolutely fabulous. What stores do you usually do your grocery shopping at? Do you ever stock up on water? Can you possibly do some in store grocery shopping videos? It would be awesome if you could show how you do your full shopping trip
SO proud of you for donating the baby booties!
You are so strong and loving!💞
Excellent- that was very strong of you💕
Sending you a hug and a high-five. You are amazing! 💖 love your sons garden project 🐝
Wow! I am so proud of you for being strong and willing to let go of the baby bin! What a great accomplishment!
Congratulation you did a really big step of your recovery to let the baby clothes go ! 😘👍🙂
That was huge progress be kind to yourself.
❤️❤️❤️sending hugs!!!
I'm sorry for your losses, and I'm happy to see that you are in this step of your journey. I'm proud of you
Maybe you can use your childhood My Little Pony sleeping bag as an afghan/throw? Then you can enjoy it and have it serve a useful purpose as well. 🤩
Sending you lots of love for being so brave and letting go of a bin of baby items you are doing amazing xx
Our church collected donations for a mother who decided not to abort her baby. She was not a Christian and it was a way we could help her and share Gods love for her.
I am so so so so proud of you!!!!! This was beautiful!
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I knew when you opened the box that this would be emotional, but I didn't think you would declutter it, what a surprise you did, well done. It is hard but it's an incredible step towards recovery. Keep positive memories not negative.
Miss Pepper is your baby for sure, she keeps following you around, she is so sweet. 🥰❤🧡💛🧡❤😍
Oh Miss Heart, letting go of the whole tub is SO BIG 💜
I learned that if I want to let my traumas heal, I have to make sure that the scars don’t break open all the time too.
When this tub is leaving your house, not only blesses it a new family a lot! But it will not be there anymore to remind you of that big losses you had.
Saying that, I have a tub with babythings in my own basement.. and watching you helps me to heal too..
I lost that baby in the first trimester too, we didn’t even make it to a heartbeat, and that I even got pregnant was a miracle in itself.
I want to let go of my tub within the next week. I am collecting strength.. please say a little prayer for me 💜
And by the way: by weeding out your belongings, you are even safer then you were before. Because if all your sentimental and important things are collected and labeled, they are way more visible and available to you, in times you feel insecure and meet them!
You are doing an impressive job, I am very proud of you!
Maybe say a blessing to your items to bless babies in the future before you let them go.
@@holiday991 That is a great idea, I will do this!
After I watched this video and decided, it is time to let go and close this chapter.. I left my house to call my boyfriend (inside I have no reception) and tell him. He is a pilgrim at the moment on Camino in Portugal, and just today he met a couple that invited him and sang a song for him, and although he is no religious believer this touched him to tears, and continuing his way he cried a lot and reflected on all the things that happened to him over the past years. (Writing this down, I start crying again..)
And finally, although he never wanted children, he started mourning our baby too. He said he saw the two of us together with a little boy, and he was sad for the chance that we missed.
Some things just cannot be accidental.
Me watching Miss Heart starting to let go, and deciding that it is time for me to do so too.. him grieving for the first time, not pushing his thoughts and feelings aside as he does too often..
We have not talked on telephone for two weeks now, but today we did. And both of us wanted to talk about this, not having it mentioned for over a year now.
And while we were talking, a car parked and neighbors I do not now got out with two sleeping children, one of them a newborn boy.
I am anxious to talk to strangers, but I paused my boyfriend and ran after them to ask if they could still use some of the things I have, like a crib or clothes or bottles..
The woman couldn't understand but called her husband back, and he was very hesitant. But I showed where I live an he could come and ring and take a look if he could use anything.
Who knows, maybe he will or maybe he won't, than I try to give it to another family.
But this is too much to be accidental!
Prayer said. God bless!
Wow, I’m so impressed you were able to declutter the baby items. That shows how much you’ve healed. With them gone you won’t have the physical reminder of those sad times and you can know that another family may be benefiting from them.
Miss Heart ❤️ my thoughts and prayers are with you. You are such a strong woman and being able to let go of that amount of baby stuff is monumental. Be gentle with yourself. I’m so glad to hear you are getting the help you deserve with the traumas you’ve suffered. You are such an inspiration to me and so many others, thank you 🙏 Miss Pepper is minding you too 🐈 Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife ❤️💐🙏👏👍💪🐈🦄
I have tears in my eyes because you're so strong and I am so proud of you. You are a beacon of light for people with hoarding problems.Through you, I understood that my hoarding was a form of anxiety and walls to keep me safe. Thank you for all that you do now and what you will do in the future ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That was incredible! ((Sending you hugs)) I know that was difficult for you. Whether it was 1 outfit or the whole tote we're still proud of you for still going. You've come so far.
My heart is with you. You’ve come so far after all of this time. You’re just so amazing 💖
I've always felt privileged to be able to watch your progress over the past few years, but I was genuinely moved to tears watching your strength in this episode. Your progress, strength, and power are exponential. I'm so proud of you! ❤❤
This is one I will need to come back to when the time is right. I’ve lost 10 pregnancies (like you I fall easily but they never stick) and had 3 poor rounds of IVF in 2020-22. I don’t have any living children so we are keeping on until the time is right to stop. I’m almost 40 so time will do that for us anyway. I have a cot, a pram, baby clothes and maternity wear I will need to part with one day but that will be part of my ‘accepting childlessness’ journey and I’m simply not there yet. This trauma is hard so hats off to you for being so strong! Big hug x
I can see how painful it was for you going through the baby stuff, and I’m so very proud of you for letting it go! There are so many people in dire straights right now that desperately need it now. Have faith that, should you need it in the future, it will come to you. ❤️
I had tears in my eyes from the moment you opened that bin. That was the most beautiful breakthrough!
Recovering from a miscarriage is hard...had one 5 years ago and I still tear up when I think or talk about that baby
This segment of basement looks great after your declutter and so does your nails! 💅🏻🌈 your decision to get rid of that box of baby stuff really impressed me! ❤
Each declutter gets a new layer of emotions. I'm so proud of you.
I cried about the baby items… you’re such a strong girl!!
I cried too! Kind of sad but such a blessing she can let go. Hang in there! God will bless you in other ways🙏for letting go and blessing others
Thank you for donating the baby supplies. A family member of mine was someone who was in desperate need of donations.
I went thru 3 miscarriage during 2019 2020 as well. I now have my lil hazel kitty. So yes pepper was like im the baby now. God sends us baby's but they are not always in the form me think. I'm so proud of all you have over come and you have helped me to over come my heart breaking moments while I'm am decluttering to. My hazel baby says hi
The last hour ive been going through my spare room closet and watching your old videos. I love your videos. They have helped me so much
Holy cow. I'm so proud of you!! I started crying when you talked about your miscarriages. I can't imagine..
We were never able to get pregnant. You're a great mom and wife and a wonderful inspiration.
Allover the world,there are many people who dont have even a tshirt or a blanket for their baby..i find myself selfish if i hold on to clothes or whatever i dont need..(sorry for my english ,i am from Turkiye) love you ...
Your videos always inspire me!
When you were going through that tub, I just wanted to give you a big hug! So when those items go away, just imagine a great big, gentle hug coming your way. You're doing amazing, and every bit gets a bit better.
It's because things like those baby clothes cause so much sadness that it's healing to remove them, so we are living in the present. A lot of hoarding is about trying to hold onto a feeling. In this case, the baby clothes used to represent hope, but then became a reminder of loss and sorrow. So whether we can bless someone else with these things or not, removing them will lighten our spirit. Unchaining ourselves from so much stuff that doesn't serve the person we want to be is a beautiful gift to ourselves.
Thank you for continuing to share your journey through decluttering the basement! I appreciate you sharing the stories that go along with the "stuff" as I have things that have stories that are hard to part with for that reason. I'm continuing to go through a small bit of my house each day and am finding that not having to part with things is making it easier to part with them over time.
Yes, giving away those baby clothes to help someone else is being a mother to the mothers who are struggling. You are strong 💙
Pepper looks so sweet ❤️
Oh my goodness! My heart is with you as you go through all this. I am glad that you are getting help to process your emotions and experiences. Blessings to you and your family.
And great job as you keep making progress on your basement!
Beautiful clip ! ❤️ perfect by clip .. cleaning old papers, mails, documents ... sorting ripping your beautiful hands..... can you make that clip?
I am beyond proud of you! That was such a massive leap x
You have come SO FAR!! U are so so strong!! It’s wonderful to see your progress & strength❤️❤️❤️
You are a champion. I could never have children. It was hard to except. Life give you hope in different ways. Just think a little boy or girl sleeping warm and cozy and pretty in hat clothes. We love you and support you try this journey. Some flowers for you because you deserve it.🌸🌺🥀🌹🌼🌻🌷🥀. Karima South Africa
You are making amazing progress. I really felt emotional when you got to the baby box and was telling you that was enough for this session. Sending a big 🇬🇧 hug.
I'm so proud of you!!!❤❤❤❤❤You've come so far processing all of this hard stuff. You are so incredibly strong and such a good mama to your boys (and kitty Miss Pepper). Such a pure heart to think of those mamas out there struggling.🥺 I'm so freaking proud of you! 😭😊😊😊
I watched this again today. I have to tell you how strong you are. You gave me strength just because I watched your honesty. Tina, Al's wife
its been two weeks since this video....missing you and your videos.....where are you my lovely and i hope you are well and ok.....
How awesome is the My Little Pony sleeping bag?! 😻😻 Ugh, wow- you have come SO far! This was a tough one. 💙💙 I love how your narrative coaches through the process. 💖💖
Caught up to present! I've been binging your videos from the beginning since March 5th, 2022! I'm astonished as what you've been able to accomplish in the last 4 years. I'm so proud of your ability to donate the baby stuff gifted to you for desired baby #3. A momma and baby will be truly blessed by those items. Side note, I know it's the summer and you don't like to do No Spend Challenges in the Summer, but I love those videos and can't wait for the next one!
This is a testament to your strength and your understanding of yourself. I applaud you. Also I love your kittycat. Great job!
You have come a long way...FOR SURE
Were you able to have your garage sale yet? How is it looking for one?
I have prayed for you for the probably more than 1.5 (at least) years I have followed you, specifically about your miscarriages. I have cried listening to your stories and seeing and hearing your heartbreak.
I'm single, never married, no kids... but, I would have had a basketball team if I had my druthers! It just was not in the cards. I thought about going-it-on-my-own to motherhood as friends have done. But, I got cancer, and my potential for carrying a child and my ability to care for it with disability that resulted from chemo complications, proved God had other plans.
I see your pain with each bin that you come across for "when I have my baby". I cannot begin to imagine your pain. But, what I see and hear each time is that your emotions are as raw as when each loss JUST occurred.
Seeing you pass along a bin today both shocked and touched my heart. I pray you are soon able to let go of more of those that you have put back "for now/later" already.
Times are so difficult right now, and there are many families that would certainly benefit from your gifting of such lovely items. The same goes for maternity clothing and etc.
In your time and God's time, as you process and progress, I pray you find more closure with each step in dealing with these items.
Your life is so awesome with all you do for yourself, your family, and your community! The more I see you release from your home, the more I see your life get fuller and richer!
Your debt is GONE! Your home is functioning soooo much better. And, your baby steps are shuffling you to more freedom and reflection.
God's speed as you perhaps think about pulling those "when I have my baby" boxes out to Konmari and keep absolutely the most dear and precious pieces or just decide to donate flat out.
You've got this and God's got you. Prayer and reflection with Him will give you the answers you need, and are longing for, to take your next steps with these specific and special mementos. XO, Your Sister in Christ, Crystal
Wow very big hugs 🫂 The recycling and the babies stuff 🥰🥰 bless you hon This was a great mile stone for you. Your words are touching