Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: Why Did You Want to Get Married? | Brides
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ส.ค. 2018
- We asked married couples at various stages: why did you want to get married? From being married for 5 hours to 65 years, take a look at what these couples have to say.
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Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: Why Did You Want to Get Married? | Brides - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
“It was time for him to get married. He was 33. He was old...”
“I was a modern man.”
I’m dead....😂
I never would have guessed he was 91 and she was 81. They both don't look their age.
Went into the comments just to find someone say this and it was the first one lol
Lol clever man
😂😂😂😂😂😂
What does the classics mean ?
“I loved her, and so, why shouldn’t I ask her to get married?” BEST ANSWER
neeno001 yes. Best answer
Totally agree
Agreed! Was the sweetest
neeno001 Marriage is more than love. It’s LEGALITY. You become legally responsible for that person. You need to know much more than people expect to ask.
neeno001 Meh. It's like saying "why not?", which is kind of a non-answer
"Well I was a modern man." Grandpa was living his best life, ok? lol
lmaooo he was
Hahaha lmao!
Love them❤❤❤❤wish i could have something like that i dont mind age gaps❤❤❤
My great uncle and great aunt were married for 71 years before she died I pray for you and others who have lost their on and only
Your boy is 91!! 🙌
Being raised in a broken and dysfunctional family, this gives me hope that marriage might not be so bad after all
Ayla S. Marriage is like life. It’s amazing, but there of course will be tons of struggle and problems.
Ayla S. Lol same I wish the best for you
Ayla S. same, wishing us the best!
Ayla S. Same 😘
Ayla S. Same
Love and respect is the foundation of marriage. I was married for 34 years until my husband pssed away. I miss him everyday. It will never be the same again.
Hugs to you 🤗
Sudeshna Raychaudhuri so sorry for your loss :(
Just because it isn't the same doesn't mean you won't be happy.
I'm 40 and have never been married. I'm very happy as I am but I do wonder about other paths I'm glad yours was so happy
My condolences.
My parents divorced after 22 years of marriage. It's good and uplifting to see these couples who are married for 30,36,65 and years still together!
laczkaeszter what was the reason after 22 years to get divorced what was so bad.
@@Sr68720 well I'm not the original commentator but my parents did so too on their 20 years of marriage... the reason was not just a sudden huge problem.. it was more subtle, step by step they were just walking away from each other and found comfort in another person and activities...
Yeah my parents divorced after 30 years or marriage. This is a good video :)
Yeah, my parents separated after 18 years of marriage
“Well I was a modern man!” Lmao that part killed me 🤣 in 2018 a 33 yr old man acts like he’s 19!
So true
😂😁
2:42 No way are they married for 22 years! They look so young!
Asians!
Asian don't raisin
Look at her neck.
they got married young, they said 18. they are only about 40.
Long live Pink Floyd !
You see an Asian couple that looks, like...23 and it's like "married 22 years", good damn genetics.
Truesky44 they are actually around 40 they mentioned in a video they got married at 18
Black don’t crack and Asian don’t raisin
You cant look good eating junk everyday, our diet is very poor compared to theirs
@@danielle021297 how many other people can y'all say look that good at 40
@@mariahyohannesWell this is about an Asian couple so It's Asian couple so Asian don't raisin
We don't have to include ourselves in everything
the most romantic answer was the last one - thats how it should be. Not a "I figured it was time" or any other unromantic reason.
Not everything has to be romantic.
Well said, Angelina.
Marriage is more than romance - but also I see what you are saying
@@idislikemints A reason to marry someone should be romantic lol
Andria A. Maybe not for people who don’t mind being with someone that doesn’t really love them or possibly being miserable or breaking up but I’m sure the reason to be MARRIED should be romantic.
The last man - goals 😊🙌
That's the dream; it's really that simple #life
@@twincherry4958 and nika's words right!! That's what I want.
@@wshelby83 that's what we'll get!!!!
@@twincherry4958 I really hope so!! May this wish of ours come true. Real true and genuine love
It's unbelievable that noone said they wanted to marry because they were in love until the last man
That last sentence came from the heart, so beautiful ❤️
It really did. That's a special type of love right there.
It took everything in us to not get married 2 weeks after we met. We knew it was us the day we met. We got married because for us there wasnt anyone else.
@Al Wa 6 years later and still "playing house"
that's like me and my Robyn, we met when I was 15 and she was 16. we knew instantly and got married at 22 and we're both now 25
I resonate with that so much. My bf just got divorced, i just broke up with my bf of 3.5 years.
Under other circumstances this would have made lose faith in true love but love just hit us and we can't wait to get married.
My boyfriend and I just celebrated 4 years yesterday and I’m only 20 & he’s 21. We’ve known since we met at 16/17 and will likely be married before I’m 22. Obviously young marriage is scary, the statistics are scary, etc. but you know when you know. When I was explaining it to my mom I said “maybe we’ll be poor and maybe things will go wrong but he is a man who respects me, is gentle and kind to me, and puts my happiness first. That’s all I could ever really want and all you should want for me” and then she got it
@@caitlinbishop6624 that's just like us!
5:34 Married for 65years " I loved her, why shouldn't I ask her to get married" ❤❤ Those are so hard to find nowadays
So sweet ☀️
I think the longer they were married they look more inlove
This was definitely not the video I should have watched hours after my breakup :(
Find someone that loves you and wants to marry you!
@@laurengibson748 Easier said than done! I'm nearly 20, and I've never been in a relationship. :'( I would marry tomorrow if I met the right one.
@@beth9603 Great guys are worth waiting for. I don't think you should let your age make you feel insecure about either never having a relationship or not being married yet. I'm 22 single and half my friends are getting married but on the brightside I can travel wherever and whenever I want, still spend holidays with my awesome family, focus on strengthening my friendships, and finish with school. I feel like people look at being single too negatively.
You will be fine! And I mean that cause 6 months ago I too was in your place watching sappy things and feeling the same thing you did 💜
What’s meant to happen will happen. You’re probably better off without them anyways. We’ve all been there and done that, just grow from it and make it a positive learning experience for any future relationships 😊
My parents got married when they were 18 and have been married for almost 40yrs, have seven children and nine grandchildren and are more in love than they have ever been. It's really inspiring.
God bless them 🙏🏼
The last guy reminds me of my future husband. In case you are reading this love, that’s the only reason WE should ever get married!
Thanks for the lovely videos @brides. I adore them.
All the answers were great too.
Rudi the last answer was amazing!
Love is a choice and it is the choice to be committed to one person and doing all that to honour both God and the significant other. So if you want a prince I hope you are a princess.
☀️🌸
@@petermbuguanjoroge8038 you were doing great until that last statement buddy
Marriage stresses me out so much. I want to be making six figures before I get married. I’m getting older, 28, and I am so stressed because most of my friends are married already. My family situation growing up was terrible; my parents hated each other and they were polar opposites. Going back and forth between their houses destroyed my childhood and left me feeling damaged in many ways. I vowed I would never marry someone unless I was beyond 100% sure they were right for me; great now I’m too picky. I hope it works out for me and I can have a long healthy marriage.
I actually think this is very fair. And I do not blame you at all.
Don't be stressed about it and don't rush yourself. Just take it slow. Work on yourself to overcome your childhood traumas. Maybe try a therapy. I did it myself for same reasons as yours, highly recommended. The most important for you is to be a happy person, in a good place and with peace with yourself. Only then you can create a happy family. You are still very young, you should wait for the moment when you're ready. Wishing you good luck! ✊
OMG the last couple "I love her that's why I get married her"
I love seeing the couples who have been married 18+ years. It will be 4 years in December for my husband and I.
I’m crying there’s so much love in these marriages and I hope I too can be with my loved one for a lifetime!
4:40 A similar situation as my grandparents had. My grandma was 25yo when she married my 35yo grandpa. They stayed that way for about 50 years, until my grandpa died and she followed him a year later. I remember my teenage self actually asking them what their preferred age to die would be. My grandpa actually said, "A year sooner than grandma." And it happened. I also remember my teenage self once asking her if she could do it all again, would she pick the same man? She said, "Hell no!" Still, there was love. I caught them foolin' around once :/ Never have I seen two old people giggle that much.
Man at 5:25 he looks like he is 60 yo how is it possible that's been 65 years married!
I wish my marriage go to 65 years
eleonora sava his wife clearly lobes n takes good care of him...his doesn't only look young for his probable age which is atleast 85-90 but also very healthy
"Well I was a modern man"
They are such a cute couple ☀️
I soooo look forward to being married. Wow, this was a beautiful and inspiring video. The last couple and the black couple talking about "playing roles" really resonated with me.
I've witnessed my mom get divorced 3 times growing up and I don't come from a functional family. At 23, I've improved a lot in my relationships with others (platonic and romantic) but it's still hard for me to not feel anxious about relationships and I still tend to not fully let people in. It's a work in progress and I know with the help of therapy I'll continue to improve. I hope one day I can experience the same joy many of these couples feel with another person.
4:14 no way she’s 60
No she’s 64
Hot grandma
Some of these couples are so classy. I appreciate seeing the older generation speak into our lives especially since so many are afraid to get married. This gives me hope
This is beautiful and inspiring. I think all of us wanted to marry someone whom we could spend the rest of our lives with. Some people may think marriage is not a necessity, but some couples who stay together for a long time now think of marriage a significant part of life.
0:22 she has the most gorgeous blue eyes I've ever seen!
Her and 2:18
who else is watching this completely alone and single 🤣
Love these videos man 😍😍😍
“I have to leave my mom’s cooking to get married.” Awee
I've been married for 1 year and I love my husband more and more everyday, we're almost at year 2.
This brings me so much joy.
I've been married to my husband for 29 years, the longer we've been together the more bothered I'd get being away from him. We have had our ups and downs while raising our children, but we're very happy together.
Let’s do more of these types of videos! The world could use more of this ☀️
the girl in the second couple is so pretty omg her eyes r so beautiful they r literally PIERCING like wow
That college answer is gold!
There are people who knows what they really want in life and one of this is marriage, and there are also people that marriage is not for them even though they are in relationship but no matter what your preference in life is, what's important is, you follow the things that makes your heart happy.
3:32 such an adorable couple!
It would have been really cool if they included pictures of each couple on their wedding day
this made me cry.. i don't know if i am able to see a future with my 2 and half long year relationship
I want a best friend in my marriage. Not this wild, passionate thing; that always dies out eventually. The strongest love is between people who decide each day to love each other, despite the sometimes stupid or selfish actions of either. I know that's not a popular opinion, but I still think that people who go around chasing "the feeling" their entire lives will find only that such a feeling is fleeting.
My mom’s uncle and aunt were married for 50 years and he passed away two years ago...My aunt hasn’t been the same, she’s depressed and she cries every night saying that her other half was taken away and there’s no purpose for her to live anymore :(
They should interview the same couples every 3-5 years on the same questions!
Bless that last man's heart.
The couple married at 41 years are terrific role models! Know what you want and tell the other person. If they are not on the same page, do not waste either of your precious time.
The 9 month couple is so beautiful they just look like 2 little rays of hope how young and happy they are it's beautiful I watch every video for them
4:56 how is he 91 holy cow he looks 80
5:34
thANK YOU!! answer I was looking for!
Notice that all the young ones give some intricate thought out answer, and the older ones crack jokes and laugh. Some valuable advice right there
this gives me hope 🥺
Loved it. Especially the older couples, eho had remained together for such a long time.
4:27 is the grandpa from the movie Up
That last man was so wholesome
Awwww, I love that grandpa with his red pullover!!!! 😍😍😍
the girl of the married 9 months couple has such stunning eyes. It seems like they are glowing
This old lady at around 2:34 always gets me shook for a moment. She looks so much like my grandma, who passed away.
These vids are the best
5:01 looks like leonards mom from big bang theory 😂
“Well, I was a modern man” 😂
That couple that has been married for 41 is so similar to me and my husband! We dated for almost 5 years since I was 17 and I was 22 when we got married! (Which was 2 days ago ☺️☺️)
0:33 I love her eyes
I wanted to wake up every morning next to her
Best answer ever ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2019
🤩
This gives me hope. I’ve been married for 4 months but I worry about the future. Sure everything’s great now, but what if we wake up one day and just don’t love each other anymore? Thats what happened to my parents who were married for 20 years, which is why it scares me I think. But seeing this kind of thing reminds me that love can stand the test of time ❤️
Love is an action! :) as long as you're both trying and rooting for each other, love is maintained
Elder couples get me all the time. My heart is melting. Being together for that long, the way they still care about each other, it must be love 😢😍
3:47 that laugh tho 🏍
the lady married for nine months has the most beautiful blue eyes!
Last one “i loved her thats it”❤️❤️
Thank you for featuring a black lesbian couple 😭 the best surprise and representation
Agreed!
They had the best answer.
That second guy looks like Niall Horon with brown hair 🤭
Brides - you should include a wedding picture of the couple
4:26 just look at this guy he's like: I remember it all clearly and that was a good thing to do, I'm still happy with it 🙆
Lady at 2:21 can I borrow your hair pls
sameeee
These older couples look good! I'm impressed aaaand it makes me feel like I won't age horribly when in a happy relationship lol 😘 April 2020!!!!
I’m gonna CRY
4:53 wtf he's 91?
all of these couples are beautiful wth
Omg the older couples are so adorable I cant!!!
2:22 She looks STUNNING!!!😭🙈❤️😻
That first couple is beautiful xx
They are 😭 you can tell how in love she is with her
so precious ❤
2:20 she is absolutely stunning wow
That husband in the elderly couple married for 18 years is the DEFINITION of stubborn. 🤔
loveharrydaily for real !! Lol 😂
Last guy gave the best answer ☺️
Renee is a smart woman.
yooo the nine months couple: that girls eyes are the most vibrant blue ive ever seen .. FANFICTION BLUE EYESSSSSSS.. plus the 3 years couples eyes as well. you know literally everyones eye colour in this is way too good like the 4 year couple that girl literally has jade eyes
If he didnt ask me for a couple of months from there on, i was on to my next month.” Love it. The confidence of her. That is right. Why wait and settle for someone who isnt sure of you
Those eyes!!!
Last line
84 days and 9 months couples- same here!!!
HER EYES ARE SO BLUE WHAT
In place here..no one gets divorce unless it's something too bad happen so out of 100% only .01% get divorce. Why get married if you are not ready for life together until dead depart us. My parents are married for 55years and I m married happily for 5yrs. Marriage is a sacred unity of two into one. Respect that!
Okay but for the first couple can I just say the two of them are just so damn pretty? Like dang that's a good looking couple what
They should add how long they've been together like dated ❤️
Awesome!
Squished to a stop... best line ever