Good video. I’m 30, and still single. More than 10 years ago, I thought I am going to be married and have children, but life didn’t turn out the way I wanted. Did it upset me? Yes. Should I stay upset forever? No. More blessings are coming. I hope your family and you, Tiffany are having a great week, and thank you for sharing. Be safe.
Taking hypotheticals too seriously is the big one for me. I'm in my mid-30s and just entered my first relationship fairly recently. In talking with some friends after he and I initially expressed liking each other, I told them that my mind keeps telling me it's not going to work because of this whole list of reasons...virtually all of which are things that could happen in the future but aren't guaranteed. My friends told me not to worry so much about what could happen until it's actually time to cross that bridge. I've always been the type to have Plan A, B, C, etc., so trying not to do that is a challenge and something I definitely need to be reminded of. Yes, there definitely are real challenges (distance right now unfortunately), but I'm trying not to let the what-ifs get in the way of the present.
I'm so glad you're back doing Tuesday videos, Tiffany. Always so thoughtful. Whether faith-based or no, I think these five mistakes are pretty much universal. Back in my swoony younger days, I pictured my boyfriend/husband reading poetry to me. My husband of almost 20 years would no sooner read poetry to me than go flying out yon window. But has he been a great companion in good times and the Rock of Gibraltar in bad times? Absolutely! People demonstrate their love and loyalty and faith in different (equally valid) ways. Excellent point about not letting a dating partner isolate you from your trusted loved ones and community. Very bad sign indeed. Classic abuser behavior. I remember when my now-husband met my family. An older cousin to whom I'm very close enjoyed meeting him, so thumbs up there, but her line in the sand? Was he accepting of/comfortable with my sister with Down Syndrome? The people who love you and know you are not the ultimate deciders...but their input is indeed valuable.
TIffany, I've loved your videos for years, and I appreciate that this channel is your business as well as your mission, but I can't help but be disappointed by your recent quick-hit, Top # Tips! content. I feel like you're producing work far more for the sake of attracting new visitors than cultivating a relationship with your long-term viewers... and I miss those livestreams, long Q and As, etc. that were far more genuine!
Thank you for sharing this @justinehudock4108 !!❤️❤️ I would really value your input here actually. It’s been a long time since I’ve posted regularly, and all the videos I’m making now are what I think my viewers would find helpful, and full of the tips I would have wanted to know. (Tho I have changed the titles and thumbnails to hopefully be more catchy and interesting, but the content is still much like I used to do.) sadly with two kids, and James’s busy work travel schedule, I don’t have time for livestreams anymore, but I’d love to hear what kinds of videos you would like to hear! (And anyone else who reads this comment!) I’ve tried asking for questions on my channel discussion page but got very little interest / few responses, so I haven’t had enough feedback to do another long Q&A video. All this to say, is value your feedback as to what you feel my long time viewers are looking for! Thanks in advance!😍😍
Hello Tiffany, I have a question regarding heartbreak. Do you ever still think about about any of your past exes, guys you liked that rejected you, maybe guy friends and ever still wish that something worked out between them or that you maybe still remained friends with them? I'm asking for myself, because I'm going through a really rough heartbreak. A girl from my church that I was friends with and really liked rejected me, didn't want to talk to me anymore, started avoideding me. I feel as if I can't love anyone else or that person God has for me won't be able to "beat" that girl from my church.
Right?! I talk more about it in this “to the girls who grew up christian” series!😍 Part 1: th-cam.com/video/MHV6YMilaE4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=DoeHSlqbe5UfnPp_ Part 2: th-cam.com/video/ufX_3OVEf80/w-d-xo.htmlsi=wdOJi0DOtzKqdN54
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Never crossed my mind that "How do you feel about martyrdom?" could potentially be a first date question. 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂 right??
Good video. I’m 30, and still single. More than 10 years ago, I thought I am going to be married and have children, but life didn’t turn out the way I wanted. Did it upset me? Yes. Should I stay upset forever? No. More blessings are coming. I hope your family and you, Tiffany are having a great week, and thank you for sharing. Be safe.
Love your perspective!!!
Taking hypotheticals too seriously is the big one for me. I'm in my mid-30s and just entered my first relationship fairly recently. In talking with some friends after he and I initially expressed liking each other, I told them that my mind keeps telling me it's not going to work because of this whole list of reasons...virtually all of which are things that could happen in the future but aren't guaranteed. My friends told me not to worry so much about what could happen until it's actually time to cross that bridge. I've always been the type to have Plan A, B, C, etc., so trying not to do that is a challenge and something I definitely need to be reminded of. Yes, there definitely are real challenges (distance right now unfortunately), but I'm trying not to let the what-ifs get in the way of the present.
I'm so glad you're back doing Tuesday videos, Tiffany. Always so thoughtful. Whether faith-based or no, I think these five mistakes are pretty much universal. Back in my swoony younger days, I pictured my boyfriend/husband reading poetry to me. My husband of almost 20 years would no sooner read poetry to me than go flying out yon window. But has he been a great companion in good times and the Rock of Gibraltar in bad times? Absolutely! People demonstrate their love and loyalty and faith in different (equally valid) ways. Excellent point about not letting a dating partner isolate you from your trusted loved ones and community. Very bad sign indeed. Classic abuser behavior. I remember when my now-husband met my family. An older cousin to whom I'm very close enjoyed meeting him, so thumbs up there, but her line in the sand? Was he accepting of/comfortable with my sister with Down Syndrome? The people who love you and know you are not the ultimate deciders...but their input is indeed valuable.
Thank you for your transparency! ❤
Such good advice!!!
Advice I needed a LOT when I was dating 😬😂😂
TIffany, I've loved your videos for years, and I appreciate that this channel is your business as well as your mission, but I can't help but be disappointed by your recent quick-hit, Top # Tips! content. I feel like you're producing work far more for the sake of attracting new visitors than cultivating a relationship with your long-term viewers... and I miss those livestreams, long Q and As, etc. that were far more genuine!
Thank you for sharing this @justinehudock4108 !!❤️❤️ I would really value your input here actually. It’s been a long time since I’ve posted regularly, and all the videos I’m making now are what I think my viewers would find helpful, and full of the tips I would have wanted to know. (Tho I have changed the titles and thumbnails to hopefully be more catchy and interesting, but the content is still much like I used to do.) sadly with two kids, and James’s busy work travel schedule, I don’t have time for livestreams anymore, but I’d love to hear what kinds of videos you would like to hear! (And anyone else who reads this comment!) I’ve tried asking for questions on my channel discussion page but got very little interest / few responses, so I haven’t had enough feedback to do another long Q&A video. All this to say, is value your feedback as to what you feel my long time viewers are looking for! Thanks in advance!😍😍
1:25 I'm glad that your plans didn't work out for you.
Me too!!😂😂
You’re the best! Love from Brazil 💕
Hello Tiffany, I have a question regarding heartbreak. Do you ever still think about about any of your past exes, guys you liked that rejected you, maybe guy friends and ever still wish that something worked out between them or that you maybe still remained friends with them?
I'm asking for myself, because I'm going through a really rough heartbreak. A girl from my church that I was friends with and really liked rejected me, didn't want to talk to me anymore, started avoideding me. I feel as if I can't love anyone else or that person God has for me won't be able to "beat" that girl from my church.
How come christian teenagers can be so judgy? Its def true with me and many others. And now tiffany too?
Right?! I talk more about it in this “to the girls who grew up christian” series!😍
Part 1: th-cam.com/video/MHV6YMilaE4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=DoeHSlqbe5UfnPp_
Part 2: th-cam.com/video/ufX_3OVEf80/w-d-xo.htmlsi=wdOJi0DOtzKqdN54