What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?

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  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    A healthy relationship consists of: allowing God to be the center of each other's lives, therefore making it easy to deliver to each other: respect, faithfulness, communication, honesty, caring, understanding, patience humbleness.

    • @dorothymartin5488
      @dorothymartin5488 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree Tony because it is a spiritual warfare open that door evil that follows with then you wonder why your marriage ended God made one woman one man for a woman each other to be as one and it is against God's word so no good things can come from that and keep up the good work thank you for this video there is so much truth in

    • @nikkiwest1631
      @nikkiwest1631 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dorothymartin5488 you

    • @talicialee
      @talicialee ปีที่แล้ว

      Whew 🔥🔥🔥

    • @feliciarichard686
      @feliciarichard686 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @DalbecKatie
      @DalbecKatie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is what caused so many problems. I can't love a God who could ever send us to hell if we don't follow his gospel or obey him especially knowing all the mental health issues out there.

  • @Desertvibes234
    @Desertvibes234 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    "In order to have the best love you can possibly have, you have to be willing to possibly lose". This is such a powerful quote!

  • @la6136
    @la6136 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I don't believe open relationships work. Someone will always be sacrificing more than the others. Someone will always feel left out and neglected. Someone will always be lying to someone else and leaving out information. It is impossible to build real intimacy.

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Love your quote, “communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life” is so very true! 🙏🏻

    • @DH-zi5ob
      @DH-zi5ob ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes that quote needs 1000 likes!

    • @Queengemi5
      @Queengemi5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very true 💯

  • @lisasmilez
    @lisasmilez ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Stay away from that ear and neck 😂😂😂😂 I was waiting for the hand gestures when he said bike(back) 😂😂😂

  • @joyariffic4217
    @joyariffic4217 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ive never in my life seen a heathy and healed couple that was polyamorous. Its always people that come from brokenness

    • @Graced4Glory
      @Graced4Glory ปีที่แล้ว

      I come from a good home and today I'm 1 of 3 wives. 😊❤

  • @chrissysam7949
    @chrissysam7949 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    We went back to Kiyah...with the neck & back 😂😂😂😂

    • @lisasmilez
      @lisasmilez ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @joiagenae
    @joiagenae ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Ready to learn! It's getting harder and harder to meet ppl that believe in healthy love. So many people have never seen healthy love and therefore settle for toxicity. I'm looking to break that cycle when it's my time 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @nymph3ttt
      @nymph3ttt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎯

    • @Tam-hg3ih
      @Tam-hg3ih ปีที่แล้ว

      Hallelujah 🙏

    • @Musikisbellatastic
      @Musikisbellatastic ปีที่แล้ว

      The time is now. Love yourself more than that "perceived need". Best to you Sis'!

    • @anointedhands4187
      @anointedhands4187 ปีที่แล้ว

      B. L0ml

  • @mntw6062
    @mntw6062 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “When you feed lust it gets stronger, and you just want more and more and more, and nothing is ever enough”…T.G.

  • @IAmTheQueen87
    @IAmTheQueen87 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not the Khia reference! 😩 That part had me cracking up! 😂😂😂

  • @poetik444
    @poetik444 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You’re a great role model for young black men who’ve lacked a strong male influence sir. Thank you.

  • @mntw6062
    @mntw6062 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Interesting that you say “for a man to enjoy more than 1 woman at a time I’d think there’d have to be some childhood trauma”.
    I think you hit the nail on the head.
    And
    One more thing: Sometimes a man or even this type of “playboy”can’t even please 1 woman in bed. 😂😂😮

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They really can't....its so sad that they think they doing something.....po thing 😂😂

    • @pkp6791
      @pkp6791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Childhood trauma is being used as an excuse for everything. Sometimes, people are simply narcissistic jerks. It doesnt get any ‘deeper’ than that. There are
      lots of armchair /internet ‘professionals’ out here who have NO clue. They use soundbites and key words to ‘explain’ things. It is messing our already messed up society even further.

    • @nymph3ttt
      @nymph3ttt ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @Brightestlightt
      @Brightestlightt ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooops sounds so true

  • @Iamsimplyfree
    @Iamsimplyfree ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Lord I pray I am blessed to have all these things given to me in a committed relationship with the one you made for me.

  • @alexisagginie4574
    @alexisagginie4574 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It seems when you live within the boundaries of a healthy relationship, you both grow and become more compassionate, more ready to learn and more trusting.
    There is so much to learn about the Self to keep us occupied for a great length of time.

  • @DeniseM4698
    @DeniseM4698 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    TONY!!!! Remember that video you posted about “Having Balance” ?!
    I realized how much you’ve been posting , also fluctuating between business videos, love and relationships , and also sermons, and live chats!!! Chilleee you doing the Darn Thing!!! You are truly doing Gods Work! I appreciate the consistency of the videos !!! Thank you Tony !!!

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Healthy communication!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    WHAT DON'T COME OUT IN THE WASHER WILL COME OUT IN THE DRYER......THEY WILL GET CAUGHT IF DOING WRONG....THEY AIN'T 007 😂

  • @qscott888
    @qscott888 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Let’s get into it. 🙌🏽

    • @dublingirl1691
      @dublingirl1691 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👍🏻🙌🏻🤗

    • @carolyn4realife
      @carolyn4realife ปีที่แล้ว +7

      When I hear, "hey, hey Tony Gaskins here.." I hit the LIKE 😄

    • @qscott888
      @qscott888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@carolyn4realife 😂Exactly.

    • @qscott888
      @qscott888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dublingirl1691 🙌🏽👋🏽. I post some of his quotes on my IG story on Fridays often. Looks like this might be a good one for tomorrow.

  • @Carter989
    @Carter989 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Back and Neck like Khia😂

  • @lgeorges4289
    @lgeorges4289 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Put God first in your relationship and your going to be fine

  • @annagrace1159
    @annagrace1159 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yes to a 4-8hr prepaid seminar on relational warfare 👐

  • @belindamendez1278
    @belindamendez1278 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Proverbs 24:3-5...through Knowledge, understanding and wisdom in God, His Word, principles...we grow in self love, the love towards God we'll know who we want in our lives...and our lives and homes with have pleasant experiences.

  • @portia547
    @portia547 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Childhood Trauma really affects so much of your life as an adult. Never be afraid to get help 💖🙏🏾

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations to 16 yrs 🎉🎉🎉👏👏👏❤️✌🏾

  • @Slayfear101
    @Slayfear101 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Preach Tony. You may not be ordained by man, but you are certainly ordained by God to speak the truth! And that’s what matters. God bless you and your family.

  • @sullivancountydays
    @sullivancountydays ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm glad to hear a man say the truth. Your barely making 3rd base. Who needs a third party.

  • @bbQueens22
    @bbQueens22 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lawd…I’m July1984…I always said, us 80babies Rocks!!!

  • @HaranArena
    @HaranArena ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What are the signs that a man likes other men that are undercover? What signs can you look for when the guy has kids with multiple women?

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A much needed message! There definitely is a difference between a healthy vs. unhealthy relationships. Plus, much of what is shown on social media unfortunately is unhealthy or fake relationships

  • @teeswan9354
    @teeswan9354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony said ‘Like Khia’ 🎵🙃😫🤣

  • @Nitra813
    @Nitra813 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Get out of here. My husband and I anniversary is March 30th as well. Renewing our vows next month. So glad I found your channel. We’re not perfect but we were very fortunate to have a healthy and godly foundation.
    Praying for many years of love and happiness to you and your wife.

  • @luevondataylor6286
    @luevondataylor6286 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video well needed for such a time as this.

  • @DrEliane01
    @DrEliane01 ปีที่แล้ว

    This maybe the best I've ever heard! No stone left unturned! Thank you!

  • @supermodelatlanta1354
    @supermodelatlanta1354 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You definitely slimming down and skin looks good 👍🏽 👌🏾

  • @Chosengirl1
    @Chosengirl1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony is changing lives! Amen 🙏🏾

  • @Indiscrazyworld
    @Indiscrazyworld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfectly said Tony 👌🏽💯

  • @nettas5437
    @nettas5437 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so timely! Thank you Tony.

  • @mariabbanks
    @mariabbanks ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Been researching on this topic

  • @damarish.torres145
    @damarish.torres145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤needed this today Tony! Gracias

  • @SimoneWmson
    @SimoneWmson ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many gems! I would definitely support the tour

  • @dianamadison1623
    @dianamadison1623 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this. Thxs Tony.

  • @Truu5StarLifeDriver
    @Truu5StarLifeDriver ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❗️This waz BETTER THAN GOOD...And tha TIMING 🙌🏾 DIVINE❗️HUGE GRATITUDE for this Share 🙏🏾

  • @gtd743
    @gtd743 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony thank you for all your helpful messages. Sending you a light and love from Bulgaria and our pisces ♓ team here! God bless you 🙏

  • @candacesimpkins902
    @candacesimpkins902 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great message Tony!

  • @iriscaba3352
    @iriscaba3352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony be preaching and never disappoints ! I learn so much here ty! He also be having me lol over here he definitely makes some funny comments !

  • @e.jackson1308
    @e.jackson1308 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol you might wanna stay away from the ears and the neck fa ya be on ya bike! 😂😂

  • @Essdotg1710
    @Essdotg1710 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks tony!!!!

  • @Mercedesthegift
    @Mercedesthegift ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yessssss you went in on this one!!! Praise GOD and your parents for you 😭😭😭💓💓💓

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every video I listen to appreciate and learn from. God bless!

  • @carmenscottie2678
    @carmenscottie2678 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this information. God bless you and your family.

  • @shannon08261
    @shannon08261 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is soooo Good … thank you for blessing us with this video. I wish it was longer, but definitely not complaining. ❤️

  • @Themelissaeppingermorningshow
    @Themelissaeppingermorningshow ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are teaching today!!! This is absolutely amazing today and it’s needed. Thank you for the pour!

  • @parvinacouture
    @parvinacouture ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony quote has really changed my life when it come to relationship. God will keep granting you wisdom 🙏🏻

  • @kellyharrell6521
    @kellyharrell6521 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for inspiring words it really helps me understand appreciate my relationship more

  • @TaKyraMoonlight
    @TaKyraMoonlight ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the video ✨

  • @lashandaedwards6691
    @lashandaedwards6691 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good teaching 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @StrengthDignity
    @StrengthDignity ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good 🦋 tysm!

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤. I DEFINITELY NEED THIS.

  • @tamikadaniels6556
    @tamikadaniels6556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love ❤️ the topic
    Kudos to Tony Gaskins for this one

  • @chrissysam7949
    @chrissysam7949 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm going to enjoy this! Thanks Tony 😊

  • @janiceborne8882
    @janiceborne8882 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just wanted to say I thank you for being obedient to GOD to speak to his people on this WISE about All of this is SPIRITUAL

  • @roseamezcua4180
    @roseamezcua4180 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Go deep Tony!!! God built us to handle it 🥰 God bless you and your wife Tony! U guys are changing the next generation 🙏❤️💯 Stay humble and stay blessed ❤️

  • @maraka8106
    @maraka8106 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love the improvement on the sound❤️

  • @mexicaflor05
    @mexicaflor05 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The title appealed to me because I can honestly say I have yet to see a genuine healthy relationship 😢

  • @glorytoyahuah2935
    @glorytoyahuah2935 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Life is spiritual and what you were speaking of at the end there, I completely understand. Praises to the Most High for giving His people Spiritual Eyes to see! Bless Yahuah indeed through Yahusha for insight via the Holy Spirit. Not many ppl have the understanding but I am grateful and love those who do!

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    🙋🏿‍♀️ Am here listening , this going to be full of wisdom Blessings to you Bro Tony 🙏🏾♥️

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so good! It’s great to hear a man talk about spiritual warfare. Ive never heard it explained this way. Keep being a light!

  • @ambermj3037
    @ambermj3037 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to write my letter to Tony!!!

  • @seeksimplicity
    @seeksimplicity ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You answer some concerns I wasn't connecting the dots. I'm going to rewatch this video again. God is using you for his purpose.
    Thank you

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need to hear this.

  • @theresa_jwallace1737
    @theresa_jwallace1737 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tony I want to send you some gifts for you and your wife. Your my new children spiritually. I pray you get all you endeavors met. Thank you for talking about the real in the relationships. I know what your talking about. My friend died now I am by myself and Father God and Jesus Christ thank the Holy Spirit. Keep it coming to people.
    Sincerely yours, Theresa Wallace

  • @lechellejackson1226
    @lechellejackson1226 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is good 😌 😊❤.

  • @Desertvibes234
    @Desertvibes234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!

  • @ewomick
    @ewomick ปีที่แล้ว +3

    18:39 😁😆Leave us alone Tony. Love this video. Thank You!

    • @jlee3242
      @jlee3242 ปีที่แล้ว

      So hysterical 😂

  • @holaciao54
    @holaciao54 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jack of all trades Tony!

  • @Prettywings777
    @Prettywings777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always value these pointers!! TY Tony… And i dont think hes ever been married, so im not surprised they in to that

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women do need to understand men and women are different most men not gone put up with what women put up with and that is just true for most men

  • @modestmama3863
    @modestmama3863 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I loved this so much. Thank you! I’d say either wanting to have multiple women had childhood trauma or have been programmed by the porn industry. Unrealistic and unhealthy desires

    • @justinray8107
      @justinray8107 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agreed. Especially with the latter. What you feed your mind determines your appetite basically.

  • @michellewilliams1489
    @michellewilliams1489 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is good 😊

  • @adrienneallen3022
    @adrienneallen3022 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. You saw my comment! That's great!

  • @Iamsimplyfree
    @Iamsimplyfree ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏 life goals

  • @BluProspectsLLC
    @BluProspectsLLC 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh wow! This is deep! Breakdown TG again.. on the spiritual regarding these threesomes. 😮

  • @teresadaniel2077
    @teresadaniel2077 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @lindasaintil1928
    @lindasaintil1928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy early birthday Tony, fellow March baby!! My birthday is March 9th. I pray for God to continue to bless you abundantly, may his face shine upon you, may he bless you with good health always. You’re doing the Lords work and I’m grateful for you.

  • @keenenellis2308
    @keenenellis2308 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are 100 percent correct. Then at the end we definitely don’t live have the culture

  • @sophisticatedsoulvegan1031
    @sophisticatedsoulvegan1031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a Pisces ♓️ 3/13

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen 🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @jazzythoughts-maat-ra
    @jazzythoughts-maat-ra ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🏾💯

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @FortifiedGlow
    @FortifiedGlow ปีที่แล้ว

    This message was exactly what I needed. But I disagree with cannabis being a “gateway”. I would like the traditional folk to understand that not everyone who consumes cannabis is abusing it. I consume cannabis for medical reasonings. I also started a body care business that incorporates the cannabis plants healing effects on the body. My grandfather consumed to help with his chromes disease…. My goal is to show people that this plant is and has scientifically proven to be an ally to the human body. Look up endocannabinoid system in the the human body and the cannabis plant.

  • @dtanner70
    @dtanner70 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree 2 women somebody not satisfied

  • @queenlene9218
    @queenlene9218 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙💙💙

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How are you doing

  • @lashondajack7403
    @lashondajack7403 ปีที่แล้ว

    Healthy relationship doesn't have a look it just is.its a feeling not a look healthy walks by faith n not by site.

  • @joyariffic4217
    @joyariffic4217 ปีที่แล้ว

    Youre talking about crowd funding. People pay ahead of time and that money funds the event or product.

  • @OrganicallyYahs
    @OrganicallyYahs ปีที่แล้ว

    I ain’t heard the word”transvesdykes” in a minute 😂😂omg

  • @hillmeli
    @hillmeli ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't stand when my opening up leads to a long convo. I literally want to tell you 5 words from my heart with intention and purpose and that's it. To talk SO MUCH absolutely drains me and discourages me from further talking...it actually makes me shut down. I really am a woman of few words when with a man. With my girls ..I talk alot

  • @mykingthoughts2224
    @mykingthoughts2224 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    March 11 here Pisces brother

  • @o00..
    @o00.. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The area I live in... nonexistent!

  • @scottthomas5819
    @scottthomas5819 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍