I Went To A Rave By Myself Because I Have No Friends and Nobody Loves Me
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Going to a drum and bass rave / festival / party / night out by myself because no one loves me. Met loads of dope guys and girls - cheers for partying. Here's what happened
I've been going out alone many times since I was 16 I was into techno music early and I had no friends enjoying it and it was always a blast. You meet so many awesome ppl u have 0 boundaries 0 obligations 0 people to take care of or to look out for, so if you wanna party hard, you keep going until you die.
Did this at hard summer cuz my friends cancelled and I partied with a whole other squad it was sick.
100% agree with this. I regularly go alone aswell and always have a blast!
ur nick killed me HAHAHAHA
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It seems really intimidating but also really liberating. I don't know why I feel like you get judged so heavily for going alone when in reality nobody really cares.
i find these to be so relevant to my life. As someone who just got out of a 5 year relationship and struggling with being single... this was the video for me
Same. I’ve really struggled since coming out of a 5 year relationship too. I moved an hour away to be closer to my work and because rent was cheaper so it meant I could afford a beautiful one bed cottage. I thought an hour wasn’t that far as I travel loads for work anyway. But I was wrong! Luckily my ‘rave family’ comes in the form of my work mates. I’m a lighting tech and work on some pretty fun raves and festivals. Music is definitely a great way to meet people. I went to Australia years ago for a working holiday and ended up at many raves alone in Melbourne and met some great people!
Going solo is underrated. It’s nice sometimes to not have to worry about others and just being spontaneous. Need to do it more often.
also been going solo since i started and either friends will come with me or i make new ones lol. i love how rave crowds are soooooo much more nicer than rap, rnb or any other genre in general 😭
@@zeru4600 funny you say this, was having this convo on NYE. Complete different vibe with non stuck up egos. Raving truly changed my life for the better.
@@JSF_7 sometimes its the girls that are the problem tbh. ill go with all my girls and fights start there because somebody wants to get their hands full
I went to my first ever rave solo, it was a Hospitality event. Met a bunch of people just having a great time. Now become very good friends. Been to so many festivals and raves together over the years. ❤️ DnB welcomes anybody
Always a vibe at hospitality, such a good bunch
How do you find out about raves? I want to go to one
DnB is life ❤
I am socially anxious person but love raving. When covid restrictions were lifted in the UK last year i had an Amelie Lens rave booked the following friday with a friend. He got covid and couldn't go. So i decided to just go alone. Despite getting drunk to calm my fears i was still incredibly anxious and nervous on the train and when queing the extreme fear i felt being in a queue on my own whilst there were groups of friends all around me was intense. However once inside hearing the bass thud and the euphoric atmosphere was amazing. Being able to go anywhere at the rave without having to consult with your friends makes it so much more freeing. I have been to a few alone since and its an amazing experience. When raving with friends i find i never end up speaking to anyone outside my group. Yet alone i've always end up meeting people and having a moment together.
DNB is just one big family . we all look after each other and we dance how ever the fuck we want and the vibe of everyone dancing is something else
I've always had the best experiences going into a gig with a few mates and all splitting up and creating little rave family's amongst the dance floor. 100% have to try a full solo sometime, when nz allows us to boogie again 😭
Pain bro, looking forward to when this whole red light system is over & we all can let loose
@@aryansheoran4438 word on the street jacinda is struggling to keep a crime charge against her partner suppressed and should be resigning soon
Is nz still shut down 🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@williamaustin1013 we were for ages. But we still have vaccine passes and no one goes out. PEOPLE STAY HOME AND ALONE. EVERYTHING night club is DEAD DEAD dead. even day shops, 40% of the closed down!! in our main cities dead. MORE HOMELESS people. born and bred here, but Jacinda has turned our country to shit in the past two years. People are really divided... OH , APRIL 5th is WHEN vaccine mandates NOT ENFORCED but you still have to wear masks to get into business! and some business will enforce vax pass so noeone goes there! they get govt funding to stay open if they use the mandates too!
Just what I did couple of weeks ago, we all found our little tribes then reconvened 😅
Love the positivity of this video, Im 46 and recently single and go out on my own every weekend, never had a bad night!! I hope this video sends out good vibes to those who maybe dont have the confidence to venture out alone...get out, live life, have fun, be safe!!
I don't think you realize how much I needed to hear this. I recently got out of a cult I was born into,
so I missed out on all of my 20s. I just turned 29 and just feel like a shell of a human. Makes me feel
good to know there's still good times if I try.
@@AfroSnackey you get out there and enjoy life, listen to music, buy new clothes if you can, create the best version of yourself that you can and go full throttle and have fun!! 👍
@@martinbuckenham3651 oh, I'm already stylish. That part's not a problem😂
@@AfroSnackey there’s no problem, you be yourself and don’t change for anyone!! 💪🏻 just be the best version of yourself! If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place!!
as a fellow DJ I completely feel for this title, I know that you're honest with it, people might be always thinking that we got tons of friends but in reality we either have non or we can count them on one hand, one love man, hope to stumble upon you on a rave one day! Greets from Croatia! ♥
Real friends will always be counted on one hand, few with two, none with more than that. That is just the way it is and it is alright.
Party comrades though? Those can be counted from the tens to the hundred.
This is so ABSOLUTELY TRUE! I went to London for my first rave ever at the Drumsheds for Pendulum and Hybrid Minds and EVERYONE was so fun amd kind to hang with! I was completely alone and everyone invited me to join without asking anything, by the end of the day I was full of photos with strangers which became amazing parts of my most precious memory ever. ♥️
I did this myself for the 1st time a few months ago as I had just moved to Manchester on my own. Scared shitless, but once accomplished felt very liberated and had a sickk night. Keep up the good videos bro 👊🏽
Yessss lad I was in the exact same situation I was debating whether to actually go on the night of the event but after downing a beer and tellin myself I have tickets why not I went. Had an absolute blast, been to a few more since, pissed I missed out on shy fx tho :(
If you want a Manchester DnB link up, give me a shout.
I party alone all the time, I love it, makes me feel so free, it's even better when it's in a country where you really don't know anyone, always end up meeting new people, this video gave me flash backs :)
back in the day this was actually typical even if you went with mates. most of the time even really good mates became mere travel buddies. some go for the music, some go to pick up girls, some just for the experience. you'd end up opposite sides of the venue before knowing it. attended a few solo and the only downside was the travel.
I always rave solo and completely sober. Have been doing it for a year. Go to like 3 events a month or so. I just get in there and dance
So do I, for a year, but not so often though. Dance and music gives me the best natural high ever!
My first festival I went solo. After going to countless shows and festivals I honestly prefer going by myself, making new friends along the way. Only one time have I ever felt alone, and that was at a preppy dubstep show in SoCal.
Going somewhere alone is a vibe, that everyone needs to try
Love the energy in this vid
Been in your shoes mate! I went to the Let It Roll Winter 2014 in Prague alone and it was one of the best decisions I made back then.
After that I had done it a few more times more and it was always amazing.
Doesn't matter if you're alone or not if you can get fun you'll get it! Cheers man
I remember moving to London on my own for Uni. Knew no one and booked as many raves as i could by myself. One of the greatest starts to living in a new city. Met massive groups of solid people and enjoyed the raves till the early hours. Highly recommend for anyone
I sent a few solo raves last year and shared similar experiences. Drumsheds NYE raving to Andy C with complete strangers until 5am, only for the venue to announce it's closure a few weeks later... Take action and go, for the love of music!
I'm Brazilian and I'm using google translator now haha. This video came at the right time man, I really want to go to Rock in Rio, but I don't have company, after this video, I got really motivated to go alone!!
go alone it be great!!
Same as going to a festival on your own, it forces you to be more sociable and you meet loads of people.
Although, I go to raves with my friends in a group, i tend to sometimes walk off on my own as I like an adventure and meeting strangers. Best part about raving!
This inspired me, loved electronic music since I was 11, 20 years later and I never went to a EDM concert/festival because I don't know anyone who legitimately loves electronic music. Time to hit the rail and just have a blast by myself.
Do it. Been going to this event for 13 years while 10 of then were going solo. Definitely worth it!
I am not into techno music at all, but I went to concerts alone before and they were all amazing. And I didn't even do anything special, I was just standing by the soundguys absorbing the music I loved and it is one of my fondest memories. I agree with this video.
I went to a festival solo and had a great time. DnB crowds are just one big family
if you dont make a plan, it can't go wrong !!!! LFG!
You’re slowly convincing me to go SG LEWIS solo today. I been solo in the US loads and the best time, but I never find us Brits the same. Think I’ll take the “F*** it” approach and do it, this video was a def what I needed for that push
Man this is the content i always look on TH-cam and Mo always delivers.
I used to do this quite often in my 20s, because nobody in my friend group liked the same type of music as me. I used to make my way through a crowd of people and dance with everybody who was likewise having an amazing time.
It was harder to stay in contact back then because this was pre-Smart phone era - I had a mobile, but didn't take it with me everywhere.
I imagine if I was doing this still I'd make a lot of new friends.
During my time in sweden, raving by myself was the every weekend adventure and it was amazing, best of the best.
Oddly enough I've been looking at doing the same thing over the coming summer. I know it may seem odd to be admitting but I genuinely do not have any friends, nobody to call, nobody calls or messages me to ask about going out. Days off from work can be extremely lonely and I hate having to take annual leave from work as I don't see a soul.
Hats off to you and to anyone who is courageous enough to go out on your own 🙏
Do it Gary fella!
I’ve been out to a club alone once before and it wasn’t that much fun. I like the idea of not caring what people think about you and just living in the moment. I wanna go to a DnB show now 🤙🏼
Going solo after over 6 years of raving for me ends up in seeing ppl i haven't seen for years and talking 70% of the night xD
I’ve been always going everywhere without friends cuz I don’t have any , at first I was scared but I got over it and met new friends totally worth it
When I went Raving I used to go solo most the time. I’ve done it since I was 20. Best way to get out your comfort zone and meet people. I used to have a lot of social anxiety and find it hard making friends.
I go out raving less now as in my 30s.
Now I’ve got mates I go out with them but I started with nothing! You have to love yourself first before loving other people 😉
i unexpectedly solo raved twice. both times i went with my brother's friends. and they were weed smokers and head bangers. they were supposed to take care of me, but they left me because they were high as a balloon filled with helium and went straight to the front while i got lost all the way to the back where all the open space dancers were. this was about a decade back, i'm 31 now. and i've gotta say, it was a damn good thing i was left behind. don't know anyone around me, everyone just minding theirs and having a blast. it was literally the best scary experience i will have at a rave. feels great & liberating, not caring what people think of you, just looking at the stage and jumping and hardstyle shuffling and sweating my arse off. suffice to say, i don't see my brother's friends anymore. given a chance, i'd do this again. without a doubt.
I always go out raving solo. I like it because I don't need to worry about nobody and I can dance wherever I want. DnB is not my cup of tea but raving to house music is amazing experience.
I NEVER end up alone whenever I go to a concert or rave alone. Always meet fun extroverted people who ask me to join their group or solo people who notice am alone! :)
Went to many of the top venues in Brooklyn alone..and those were definitely among my best times!
This advice is great for festivals too! Especially if you want to see different DJs than your group dont be afraid to venture out alone
I love you bro! Keep uploading this amazing content. Greetings from Germany :)
Greetings from me to from germany :)
Thank you brother
Relatable.
2:30, literally met some of my best friends this way. GO RAVE SOLO ITS THE BEST!
Great video great message
Rave is culture, you are never alone there, just positive vibes and tons of fun and memories :D
Bro, going out alone is so much fun especially if you're meeting strangers and making friends. no one to hold you back or annoy you
There's an event this Wednesday I'm really trynna go to but none my homies free. This was the sign I needed.
i've been to 2 festivals all by myself at 17 years old(that was last year) and those festivals were the best things in my life. guys go for solo raves you won't regret ir
I’ve been going alone for about 2 years now. Sober as well. Had some major events happen in my life which caused me to loose contact with all friends. Sometimes my cousin will tag along but I will go solo to 6 events a month. Sometimes if I’m not in a good mood it can be very hard to talk to ransoms and I get anxious.Other times I’m in a good mood , I can go and talk to anyone . I’m really working on making permanent connections at these events but it is hard . Still amazing experiences none the less . Awesome video.
I have been going to nightclubs since 2016 and I still go. I don't drink, smoke, none of that sorts. MY LOVE FOR THE MUSIC WILL NOT DIE!
I’m actually traveling to London this weekend for a solo rave! I’m pretty excited
Dude raves are the best thing I’ve ever experienced. I’m socially awkward but the last time our friend group went out, I kinda branched off and met so many cool people. Can’t wait for the next
Man I like this video m8 x100 even better because it was drum n bass show! Wicked and your the legend
Only works with D&B…. No ego just love 🤟🏽💙
couldnt agree, I love techno, house , but people just seem to not go in as hard
Hard Dance Music like Hardstyle or Hardcore works fine as well
Agreed. Drum and bass and jungle ravers are the nicest people you’ll ever meet. Everyone comes together as one in the dance. Been to loads of events on my own as a raver and usually I’ll make at the very least 3 friends each night.
speedcore too.
@@Neudany this. harder the music nicer the people, for some reason
Class as always 🔥
That’s me man’ part one of two of the two girls who formed the rave crew, love it!
I was at Wilkinson on my own too ha. Everyone's always surprised when I say Im on my own, I don't even think about it.
We all a big one family ,you never gonna be alone thats the rave culture 🤩
editing is just spot on, so sick
Mo absolutely kezzled at the end
I love you
Wilkinson slaps, seen him live here in New Zealand. Vibes were on, I went in a group though, didn't send it solo like you!
Loving the content mo !
Went to an Andy C DnB night a few years on my own met a few mates who I still keep in touch with now. Had an absolute brilliant night.
Man, I love this video lol, I've been going to DnB events for a few years by myself now, but since I always meet new people on those nights, just like you did, I actually always bump into someone I know now.
And every single night is legendary! So glad to see you tried this, it's amazing to do.
Haha love this bro pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone whilst having fun :)
Been going out on my own since 91, always have a great time
Could not agree more to that! Done it myself. Probably one of the best experiences I had so far!!!
I had this urge to see my favorite artist but all of my friends were busy so I ended up going alone and I randomly met this girl named Destiny who also showed up by herself... I cant make this up!!
same here except i didnt meet another loner😂
i went partying alone all the time... with friends was good, going solo was great, no one to carry around passed out from too much booze, no one to have to go home with early cause they couldn't hack it. i now even love travelling alone.. no restrictions man... party on!
I went to Glasgow to see ArrDee by myself the other week. Amazing time (not like you can have a conversation with someone at a music gig) & I'm away on a car rally 500 miles, driving solo but meeting up with others on the event. epic
Glad to see you so happy bro,keep doing you 👍🏻👍🏻
You know I gotta hit that thumbs uppppp glad to see you doin uuuuu
Decided I needed to do this experiment on myself as well and loved every effing second of it... no better place than okeechobee camping fest for 4 days everyone is all love and I met so many great people. Do what you want in life you create your own reality❤️
Hell yeah brother just go for it ✌❤ looking to go to a rave soon too
Went to a rave alone last year since I had no one to go with, definitely recommend!
Love these vids man!
None of my friends are into dnb so I went to go see Metrik by myself. Had a blast and enjoyed his set so much. It's like going to check out an artist displaying his art.
you know mos taken when he keeps his shirt on at an event
you are an absolute legend, im currently at bristol ariport after me and my girlfriend break up, she studies in UK i came to visit her and she broke up with me.
I'm a foreigner but i love UK culture so much. I tattoed the gunfinger because its something that i real love and now i want to come back and make it to a festival on my own. i did back then in my own country but now i wanna do it in another country.
see you at DNB all starts barcelona LADS
I remember I went to a Caribbean R&B festival in October last year on my ones. Was soooooo fun.
I myself have gone out many time by myself because it better then missing the concert, show, rave or whatever because you have no one to go with or whatever other reason you have in your head for not going then being like man I should of gone after the fact when it to late unless it super serious and you can't go for whatever the reason is
as someone trying to get started dj-ing, thanks for this video. im terrified to try and get a gig because of anxiety; i should probably start with actually going to a party in the crowd before i try to dj
You should, just go.
If the energy isn’t good or you just don’t feel it you can always leave a party
Tysm this motivated me so much
Title goals ❤️🥰
Went to my first rave alone 2 weeks ago. What a blast it was. 10/10 would do again!!
Bruh the dnb scene is pure love, been too long
Every event I've gone to with my pals I'll get either distracted, or lose them etc and just make friends! The amount of times a group has taken me under their wing at festival 😄 Some can be forever. Part of the culture is meeting and talking to like minded ppl. Best way is on your ones!
this is exactly why i love raving
Your edits pure euphoria
Much love do ya thing
Hahaha can’t wait got a solo rave coming up soon, don’t care what people think we there for the music and a sick time! Sick video mate love them 🔥
Absolute gezza love the energy bro 💯
DnB events are the bomb
Been going to parties solo for the last twenty years not because I have no friends but because it's so much easier to get into the music and enjoy it on your own.
Welcome to rave culture, where nobody gives a shit what you wear or what background you come from. It’s the kind of place that I imagine church was supposed to be like… all accepting and an absolute blast!
Accepting as long as there is drugs and alcohol. They are not like that when sober.
@@peaceformula5830 maybe not AS outgoing, but the circle of friends I surround myself with are super nice to people all the time. So it doesn’t take drugs or alcohol to be accepting towards others.
I went to 6 raves one summer and the most fun I had was the one I went solo to. I made a life long friend that time too. The other times our group missed a third of the evening arriving late and we wasted a bunch of time waiting to get drinks. But the group hotel experience added to it. Still not as cram packed fun as going solo.
I often went to all nighter Techno and Trance clubs on my own, if my friends were not up for it. Had some great times.
Even went to the odd after-party on my own.
I would talk to strangers much more I noticed.
Never regretted it.
Sometimes there would be a few of us there all 'on own own'... so we'd all team up!
Sick Vid Mo
Great video Mo!