Man Humbles A Room Full Of Women
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- This man silenced a room full of women when asked a question by a woman in the audience.
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Women in this generation: "there should be no gender roles"
Also them: "men are supposed to pay" 🤡🤡🤡
It's almost as if there are different types of women with different opinions. Hmm, mindboggling 🧐
@@christopher152 I was thinking and was about to comment the EXACT same thing
@@christopher152 Yeh but as evidenced by the video, a majority of women have this mindset. Plus, theres no way the op would ruin his comment by putting (There are different types of women with different opinions and this doesn't apply to them) stfu ;-;
@@longbread3593 They are not a proper sample most likely. Probably from a geographically similar area, potentially already linked by a common desire/mindset. Although it was an overwhelming majority who shared that opinion so there is probably something to it.
@@longbread3593 I don't know what type of inbred culture you come from to think that a majority of women think these way. Or maybe it's a generational thing and you're on the end of the spectrum where people are getting ready to wave goodbye to this world. Either way, I was never suggesting to improve his comment. I was simply pointing out how retarded his point of view is. No parentheses would help that. Now, you obviously on a whole different level of special and/or belong to some type of stagnated culture, so we better just leave that at that.
This guy is great, he’s not even sexist in saying this. He’s being genuine and respectful. World would be a better place if things were talked about like that.
I especially love the line “if you go on a date, and he doesn’t pay, he wasn’t raised right”. He’s not arguing that the woman should pay, he’s arguing that, in a healthy relationship, everyone contributes
No shit he’s not sexist lmao, he’s using common fucking sense, which the world as whole could use a lot more of 😂. I swear we’re so busy running around with our heads cut off that we don’t even stop to try to put 2 and 2 together, instead we glance at them pick the 2 that’s more appealing in the moment and chuck everything else in the trash 🤦.
Ofcourse it's not sexist. It's sexist the other way around.
Yes, but in the years like these where snowflakes dominate, telling the truth and having common sense are not allowed.
ahh the goto S word
The fact that he has to explain this to grown women is almost mind-boggling.
"grown women".... We live in an age when women (men too) were raised by the television. Seldom these days to young people have role models or mentor to help guide them through life. It's mostly trial and error. Sadly for women, trial and error means accumulating a high body count.
The guy alluded to it in his speech; essentially she was raised wrong. Whether that be by her parents, peers, TV, school or a combination of those and more. The fact is that expectation was taught to her
Those aren't women there immature girls.
Not Really, Modern Women eat the poisonous Mushrooms Mindset
The only reason they actually listen (or at best silent) is because he is Attractive to most in that audience.
Older guy here, I ALWAYS paid, she NEVER paid. What did she do? "You like spaghetti? Come on over for a plate of spaghetti and we can spend some time chatting." I remember that "date" vividly, one of the best we had and it still warms my heart almost 30 years later. Married her, had a family, hold her close as often as I can and love her completely. She's still the most beautiful woman I've ever met and I look forward to many many years with her still.
Was it actually spaghetti….? Guess the old tricks still work 🤣
"I find the tasted of D on my holes mouth to be delicious"
@@parishapeach yea the old tricks work on fools that like dk taste xD not for other men who know how much you fk and suck to get what you want XDDD
Amen
MY kind of man. Old fashioned and pure.
My wife of 14 years now - when we were dating, on the third date, she offered to pay for everything. I honestly thought it was a test and I refused. EVERY woman I dated before her rarely offered to pay - most NEVER offered to pay. I was just expected to pay as the man. So when this amazing woman grabbed the bill and paid for not only dinner, but the movie as well, I knew I found a unicorn. The very next date she came over and cooked me an amazing meal. She did all this because she was trying to impress me as much as I was trying to impress her. An actual equal relationship! And that strong relationship is now entering its 15th year 🙂
(Add-in) Thank you and respect to all of you who have extended best wishes to me, my wife and our family. I really hope fellow men find happiness and that one true woman who appreciates who you are. I'm thinking on adding videos to my channel about relationships after reading the responses. I understand the frustrations so many of you have - I was there before I met my wife. There is hope, brothers. Stay true to yourself! Respect 🤜🏾💚🤛🏾
When a woman spends money on you, she really likes you. Women and their money are really close.
Good for you man hope you're doing well!
@@jakobmalki8972
Depends . Before I met my wife i went out with different women they always payed.
They did it only because I am good looking that's it.
So it really depends.
Does she have a sister?
Man u hit the jackpot 🎊
This man is so calm and concise it’s actually legendary!
lol he also gets payed for this
@@lionelhutz5137 yup,, that's because women are big kids,, they follow behind other women instead of standing out
Matthew Hussey is just another conman that exploits the fact that it is more profitable to tell women what they want to hear rather than what they need to hear. But I won’t lie he hit the nail on the head on this one. You know what they say, a broken clock is right at least twice a day.
@@playingwithballsack1533
In my experience, after seeing a lot of his videos, he's been right more than wrong.
I know Aba and Preach think he's a con man, but I think they misunderstood him on that issue and pointed too broad a stroke.
The audience was also amazing, nice and quite. Just adsorbing what he was saying in the moment, even if they did or didn’t like it.
He’s helping them not hurting them. He’s speaking facts.
Okay
So true. But a lot of women are emotionally hurt by facts, which shows that they live life on emotion mode
He’s inaccurate.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984no he's not. It's the truth. Women need to contribute as well. Don't put it all on the guy. A healthy relationship is teamwork and both male and female need to contribute to one another.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984please don't date someone
"Let me tell you what means something to a guy: trying"
The most easy, basic, and most true statement about relationships between men and women that will ever be spoken.
I'm a woman and I agree 100% to what that man said. Relationship is about teamwork; don't always be at the receiving end, but also be a 'giver'.
When’s our marriage?
@liz blanco No better than what?
You didn't get it sweat heart, in the moment you had a side of receiving and a side of giver you fckup, you should only have one side, WE, when you understand is We then you are contributing as much as you can, as a partner, watch yourself you are doing great 💪🏽💛
@@JonyMSalomon the hell
@@kyumazu1926 you need something? Maybe a lesson or two? Sorry but i make no discount for multiple classes and i only give for free this kind of easy advices. Let me know👌🏽
I had a female friend years ago, a highly qualified doctor who was a single parent. She listed the (expensive) restaurants she likes to be taken out to on dates. Immediately I knew why she's been single for nearly 10 years.
hahaha and she will stay single for another 10 probably
😂😂
😂😒
Who knew even having certain tastes men could make into a misogynistic insult
Wow, now people can't have their own taste…
Couldn’t agree more with this guy! There is definitely a double standard here. Some women say they want to be treated as equals with men, but when “equal” doesn’t benefit them in some way they get mad. As a woman, I find this infuriating!
As a woman, I agree with you!!!
Very well spoken. We guys also deserve respect, dignity & appreciation for what we go through. We don't need much else. Thank goodness I've never been surrounded by gold diggers.
Especially when males suic*e rate is higher than females
Unfortunate fact
"Gold diggers" means women marrying a very wealthy unattractive man for his money without being in love with him.
If you want to go on a date, that's a job interview for the job of being a husband and job of being a wife.
One of the duties of a husband is to financially support his wife in marriage. He has to pay for meals during the dates, which are interviews for compatibility.
Some dates should be more than a meal, such as going to a museum where they can discuss what's in the museum. The man has to pay the museum entrance fees.
I met my ex on Tinder - yes, I know... and when we went on our first date, she chose the restaurant - a very expensive restaurant, I might add. When the bill came, and I was about to pay, she said: "I chose the restaurant, I'm paying". And this was in Mexico City, where women are still more conservative than in the US. After that, and without even "talking about it", every time we did something, whoever chose the activity or the place, paid for it. It was the most comfortable and fair unspoken rule I've ever had in a relationship.
This is amazing
sounds like a keeper to me, really.
My ex and I never really talked about who is paying what, it was just clear that both of us pay half of the time. It worked. Even when we went on vacation, we had a list with personal expenses, like when she wanted to buy herself a nice dress, we would pay it out of our common money but she would put it on the list and finally we would add up all the personal stuff and balance the check. Turns out, in the end we both spent nearly the same ;)
@@jemand8462 there's more to relationships than who's paying for bills you know? idk if she's a keeper or not
This is my rule. Seriously. Unless we both agree on going Dutch whoever does the inviting to the activity pays.
No bro, that’s a real Mexican chick you got there. Kudos
As a girl, I always thought that splitting the bill is the most responsible thing you can do and a healthy start to a relationship.
I would feel very bad if I ever made anyone pay full for my food only my parents are allowed to do that for me and I for them.
Maybe it's different if your just dating around with different people but me and my last girlfriend, whenever we went out, I paid. However, now take into account all the times she came over to my place and brought pizza, or burgers, or Chinese food, or a bag of groceries wanting to make me something. If your decent people and genuinely like each other eventually it all evens out.
@@johnfriday5169 yeah but its give and take at that point. as long as the scale isnt overly tipped in one direction, id say thats a relatively healthy way of going about things.
you a rare one
In my homeland men must pay and do all the stuff women are treated like queens , but womem are modest and clean not like the feminists
@@unknownaccount8411 where you from?
He’s 100% correct! Woman want equality but on “buffet” terms!
This is a great video. Dude was honest while appealing to a considerate manner that we all should expect from a close person.
Funny how we've reached a point in modern society where grown adults have to be told "Be nice."
And have to have basic empathy explained to them.
Humans are f*cked up lol
So true
I mean, based on history that's a huge step up. Compare it to the balance 100 years ago.
@@BaneSIlvermoon I am confused.
You're suggesting that in the 1920s, people had less moral fiber and a less calibrated moral compass than they do... now?
@@NicholasBrakespear in the 1920s, women had just earned the right to vote and couldn't open bank accounts or have credit in their name. The relationship balance was incredibly different.
This sounds ridiculous but it's the truth, I married my wife because she bought me a sandwich. We were in school not dating but in a pretty stressful group project together I'll spare you the details but picture a 4-month project with 4 people and hundreds of hours. I happened to be the best editor in our group so I stayed in the lab till 10pm one night and she showed up to bring me a sandwich. Men really don't need much to feel valued, just make an effort.
**Update, I'm really surprised this got so much attention. Comments are actually pretty wholesome for the most part. Not sure why but a lot of people asking about the sandwich? It was an end-of-day clubhouse from a Tim Hortons chain, it was stale and it didn't taste very good. I had to soften up the bread with hot chocolate. It's been a long time since then, we have a son now and my wife is a fantastic mother.
I know marriage and monogamy aren't what everyone wants out of life. But if it is what you want, try not to let all the negativity and bad statistics stop you from looking. Someone told me you have to slay some dragons before you find your princess and man did I find a dragon or two on the way (That's a whole other story). Be smart, protect yourself but keep looking, she is out there.
So sweet of u: she offering you the sandwich and you keeping this memory.
Also: that woman made you a sandwich🤣🤣 /jk
Amen
Im my mind, this story ends with you proposing immediately after taking the first bite of the sandwich. One because of the gesture and two because it tasted that good 😂
Congrats bro....
Must have been a good ass sandwich 😂
I've watched the full seminar before, but I gotta hand it to our geezer on the side here... dippin' in with smooth, well timed and constructive commentary which actually adds value to whatever video is on the big screen.
Excellent work, mate. Bang on.
What is his name? I've been looking for that seminar.
I totally agree it's the offering of help that counts . Years ago my grandmother passed away and at the time my wife and I were living financially pay check to pay check. She wasn't working at the time but she knew how much my grandmother meant to me and I needed to mourn . She offered to take the little money she had in her savings to allow me the time to heal . I didn't take it but it's the Little gestures like that which reminds me that i got a keeper . I love u Sandra .
As a woman I was already cringing at the whole "you're the gentleman here, you're suppose to pay" and then seeing that the 90% of the women in the room agree to that statement is worrying. And those are the same women that claim to be feminist and wanting same equal rights and wanted to be treated the same as men.
Bill burr was right!
A woman who does not offer to pay even on the 2nd date is not worth a man's consideration as even a girl friend, let alone a wife! A woman like that is not a man's equal and is selfish as well!
Why should any man be a gentleman to these unladylike buffoons? You gain nothing except the privilege of being taken advantage of and implied access to a used orifice.
@@evorider3689 exactly yk she doesn't even have to pay just the though counts of "hey let me pay this time" lets me know ur not just here for my money ur here to spend some genuine time with me
He picked the nicest way possible and it still came out harsh.
*Equality dictates women are just as responsible to earn money the same hourly rate and to PAY THE SAME.* 😉😉😉
How did this man get a woman, let alone a whole room of women, to listen to him... especially when he is telling them they're wrong? Mans a wizard.
Edit: It baffles me how many people can't see a joke right in front of them. My comment was 5 months ago. Leave me alone. So many comments of people not understanding it. It's a comment on the internet. Don't take it seriously. Please. Dear lord.
cos he's good-looking. if he was 300 lbs. saying this they would flip out
@@qarcon3247 My comment was satire, but you're not wrong.
@@qarcon3247 😂 I was saying the same thing
He's fit, good looking, and makes a good point using psychology not bravato.
It’s the accent 😂
I was in a 12 year relationship and then married her. The best thing about my wife is that during our dating period she always asked me to split the bill, and even if I didn't she made sure that she paid the next time, even when I did not demand anything. That showed how she was raised.
GOOD stuff here!!! Thank you for sharing! My wife and I were friends before we started dating. We carried are friendship into our dating relationship, we shared paying on our dates. Married almost 24 years now. A lot of our dates involved walking and talking to save money.
This man needs a medal for his articulate analysis of basic relationship issues of the modern day couple. Cheers to you sir 🍻
This is exactly what I think so too. This problem comes from the wrong education where everything is due or in other words they have been spoilt. It's normal that I try to impress her but she has to impress me as well! That man in my opinion not only he's a genius but also fair...
Son, they’re silent because you’re educating them on how to disguise to the next level, you’re helping women and hurting men… Good job 👏🏻 #motherraisedbeta
True! But it’s sad to think all those women need to be explained something so simple and logical
It's honestly imo just social programming, girls are raised to expect to be treated like a princess and it's being perpetuated by a lot of guys, groveling at their feet and worshiping them it's really sad
And a pair of socks unless it's no posh boy for the polar bear thing ? Bless him
Staying single, working on your dreams and let other people experience the mistake of getting with these women is literally the best thing you can do in this century.
💯
These woman? Most women.
@@quaid667 most women? All women
@@Kiruma_Tatsuki nah just most women. There are still some humble people out here in this world.
@@Kiruma_Tatsuki true. I get what this speaker is saying but if he has to point this out on a date, why go on another date? Just pay the bill and end the association there and then. That's the advice i would given myself back in the day. And my younger self would of ignored that advice lol
My friend and I always contributed and paid our own way. It's respectful and puts you on an even keel with no expectations. Friendship only, which is just streetwise and common sense to me.
I LOOOOOVVVE this!
Bravo, good man.
It's so funny, my father even warned against taking certain kinds of gifts from a man ... to guard against encouraging misplaced expectations.
"You are the gentleman"
Yes, but are you a lady? You can't demand a traditional man when you are not a traditional lady.
If they’re not a virgin, they’re not traditional
Edit: well in most cases
They can demand it, because enough simps out there keep accommodating their bullshit
Facts.
Definitely
based + redpilled + ratioed + touched grass + touched iron + haipy (hairy and happy instead of mad and bald(mald(hahahahah!!!11 get it?)))
I once dated a girl for around 3 months and paid for every meal, parking expense, gas, everything you could think of during that period. I once forgot my wallet in the car and asked her to buy me a drink, she literally hesitated with an offended face and said, "let me check my bank account real quick." At that moment I knew it was going to be over soon.
If she doesn't offer to pay on second date she is not the right one. You don't have to let her pay. But she has to offer.
3 months?
Dude, look in the mirror, you'l find the problem there
@@Bubbles99718 I was young and dumb. I'm happily married now and everything worked out.
@@clashoflions7339 If she doesn't pay the second date, how would you take the conversation to break it off?
Would you say "I don't want to date you because you didn't pay on the second date? And that probably means you aint contributing?"
Thanks
was she super hot?
Once in the dorm i had a neighboor. She was simple smiling girl, i remember we went to market for some food and i paid for her croissant just to get all items in one shot instead of splitting it to two. Later that night i went to shower and left my room open, when i've returned, i saw big sandwich on my table. One of the best things that ever happened to me.
Brother, I've seen a million of good points from you, from your other videos as well. You have earned yourself my respect and Subscription.
Best line: "This is the most polite they're ever going to be." Too much truth for a room full of women.
Said with right attitude from handsome guy and they listen, they may not like the message but at least they're listening.
I feel that if a man asks a woman out to dinner, of course he should pay. Even maybe three or four more dates if he asks her out should pay. But after that I think A woman should definitely try to contribute. Obviously she likes him or she wouldn’t be going out with him that often, so what does she want to help him ? Before I was married my friends used to think I was crazy because when I went out to dinner with a man I would always order the cheapest thing, because I didn’t know his financial situation. I know things are expensive so as a friend why not offer to help ? I think it’s just the right thing to do .
@@sunnydaze2359 If you invited a dude to eat, you would pay for him ? gtfo
In my 12 year relationship I actually started out like a bit of a crazy bitch, but I've become waaaay nicer and more normal. However that was my original demeanor I had as a kid. I think I was just struggling with literal mental illness lol
@@Aypeross I don't see how that is hard to believe lol
This man clearly is not a cat lover. If he was, he wouldn't be telling these women how to avoid being a cat lady.
Relationship goals is being a cat couple.
😼😂
🙀
Sure he would! He wants all those cats for himself! If they become cat women, then he can't have them!
Only the most undesirable of women get that fate, the rest just find a betabux loser to settle down with lol.
I keep saying this as a older man, married, people dating need to wake up and realize, no matter how much you have monetarily, if you enter a relationship with these sort of crazy ideas and don't approach relationships like your part of a team where you both work to help each other best you can, then you are doomed to fail, life is too big and too tough and will wreck you if you think otherwise.
What gets me about young women today is all their talk about equality, then they give you a list of everything men should do and yet they aren’t willing to do any of the things they expect from men. I met my husband 24 years ago, he was old school thought he had to pay for everything, our first date was to a concert I bought the tickets he paid for dinner and then he wanted to know how much the tickets were worth so he could pay me back. I told him no he paid for dinner I’ve got the tickets covered. There were other times I had to grab the bill first so I could pay. These women need to get off their high horses and start acting like responsibility adults if they want have a lasting relationship with a decent man.
The fact women are in this seminar to learn the man's side is a miracle in and of itself
Searching for mind improvement is só important and Basic,but our generation managed to turn It into a super out of normal thing,but before knowing the truth you should ask yourself If you are able to carry the burden of truth for the rest of your days.
Come on...what women do is primarely to satisfy them
Are they really there to learn it from men's side? It feels like there must be something else other than that but I don't know what it is.
They were only there to drool over that one hot guy, who they would all be content with sharing.
They all listen and respect his words, because they are attracted to him. If a guy of average looks came with the same statements, he'd be booed off stage.
Yea to gather more Intel on us men
"when you are not even trying to contribute, then he feels used"
not a SINGLE nodding face
Its amazing you caught that . Can't believe I am so unobservant.
Cuz that’s what they do, they wanna use guys
Well is simple really they wanna go after the most muscular brad pitt looking dude possible yet they feel like its an obligation to them to get things like that cause 90% of them feel like disney princesses who need to be catered to
Wow not a single nodding face!
I'm really disappointed and I'm apologising on behalf of the disgusting women in that room😔
When they use us it's fine, but if we use them it's a violation. These double standards dude.
Preach 😎💪🤠 This is my wife and I through and through ❤❤❤❤
Bro it breaks my heart so many peeps are broken with current courting/dating standards. Yes, I know it’s never perfect all throughout history but dang… these times man.
He is so well spoken, articulates his point and provides excellent reasoning. Without being able to do all of those, he risks losing an argument even though the point he is making is 100% truth.
It's not fair! He's attractive AND charismatic?!?!? I'm lucky to even have a smiggen of the latter on my best days!
Agreed. It did get a little tense for a minute in there. I thought he was going to have to call security. Lol.
I mean if the dude was ugly, the women would just say that he has no bitches.
Tbf that’s true for most argument
That goes for every single argument one tries to make.
It’s like the guy in the bottom left corner said. Men are usually willing, but it shouldn’t be expected. It shouldn’t be a standard. I’ve been expected and even demanded to pay for things. From when I was broke and then even worse when I started making real money. The guy in stage is 100% right about it being about the lack of gesture and feeling used when there’s only expectation and no contribution. Dating is NOT one sided, no one is a “prize”. It’s a partnership.
Brialliantly said.some women usually think they're a prize, playing hard to get and all that.
@@agu3798
Mhm.
And even stuff like chasing and playing hard to get can be fine, so long that you’re expressing real care for the other person, and not just using them
Don't act like this dude gave any sort of insight all he did was mooch off of a guy doing better than him, like just look up this exact title and there's 50 vids with only that title and they're all reactions. They don't give a f
All he did was reword it in his own phrase. Stop acting like he's a saint
@SilverGhost no one's saying he gave special insight or that he's a saint, I'm just quoting his summary of an important topic that's undervalued in today's society. Stop playing dumb and get off the internet if you have nothing productive to say.
Common sense is literally dead ! I find it hard to watch a room full of woman that need to be educated in manners and respect! The world is fine the new generation is completely doomed ! Always a good video pal 👍🏻 keep up the vidz
💯 agree nicely presented to these women. I wonder how many of these women agree? 🤔
As a woman I've always offered to pay half, it's absolutely shocking to see what people have gone through in the comments
Not ppl, men
Yes, not people, its men. You should be cloned btw.
@Miriam Svenson ofc men are people, but it’s an issue that “affects” men, and not commonly other “types” of people, obviously when it comes to the relationship between men and women, I wonder how Gay men treat each other in this regard! 🤔
@Miriam Svenson it's just being more specific lol
It's an American thing. They have a culture of simps. My partner still pays for some of the meals we enjoy out after beeing for 9 years together. To the women i would ask. Why would you treat a partner like that? To the men. Why would you allow someone to treat you like a atm ??? This is not ok.
I'm a young man and my girlfriend and I started dating at around 16. In high school before college I had a lot more money to spend on food and dates and started the relationship off paying for everything, spoiling this girl with everything that I could afford, not driving myself broke by any means. When we were in college together and things were harder if she wanted to go out to eat and I told her I couldn't afford it she understood and would offer to pay for me instead. This is how a relationship works. She doesn't owe me for what was done before and I don't owe her for that time, but you do what you can and you're together in things.
Only because she was a keeper. Many would have lost it when you said you couldn't afford it, call it an excuse and bitch about you. You got lucky, that's an important factor
My boyfriend and I always split equally. Of course paying for one's ice cream when we're taking a walk isn't a big matter, that's what we'll for sure do without hesitation. But like real meals are always split. Or cinema tickets, gas price, and and and.
Right now he is more financially stable than I am because I am only a student. I do work, yeah, but I have cost of living still yk. I will pay my part but I can't sadly offer him to pay tickets for him. But when I received my first ever big pay check a month ago I wanted to pay for the cinema for him. We sadly couldn't meet because he ditched me twice and now, after having had a 3 day vacation, my money is sadly empty.
Sorry to break it to you man but you lost her the first time you let her pay for you......her protected and provided for instinct would have come up that very moment ...and now emotionally she doesn't belong to you anymore.... she'll hang around as long as someone more dominant and assertive and loaded moneywise comes along and dump you for him.......and that will happen very soon if she isn't an unattractive fatty...there is no equal partnership between man and woman...
W gf
What you thought you was inspiring somebody🤣
This man speaks wisdom, truth, and just what should be implemented.
If only I could come up with words as efficiently and as precisely to make my point! Wow!
Women... "Its about EQUALITY"
Men: "So its cool if we split the check"
Women: "Not that type of EQUALITY... you can have that one"
Lol
Well put, and says it all.
Most women aren't traditional now, so.if a woman still expects the man to pay I automatically assume she tries to use men to gain experiences at certain restaurants/venues at the men's expense.
Stop dating women who belive in total equality, including yourself. I don't belive in total equality because it doesn't exist naturally. Biological we are all different with different strength, so we have different task. There are still women who are independent strong intelligent, without believing the bullshit from today. Look at more traditional women who will accept your duties as a men.
😅😅😅 The craziness of it...
Him saying “this is the most polite that they will be” is the absolute truth. A lot of people just don’t realize that. What we all have to remember is that most people aren’t trying to be rude, they just haven’t thought things through. On the same point though, most people won’t gaf about being a better person
That is true, that's a good point most should know, but at the same time, I doubt most of those women wanted to think that through. I bet that's thought train they leave untouched in their subconscious cause they won't like the answer they reach and he just shoved it in their face.
I always told myself that dating should be the EASIEST part of a relationship, if dating is hard wait till you have to talk about bills and the future lmao
You mean most women TODAY (not in the recent past) don't care about being a better person.
@@ericwitt4359 what, were women somehow amazing at some other point in history? I seriously doubt a single woman helped stack the pyramids or lay down the great wall.
The closest women have come to measuring up to what men are simply expected of was the 800,000 female red army volunteers in ww2, compared to the 14 million male red army conscripts...
@@cpob2013 I don't understand what you are saying something I never said? I only think they were better than today. And who cares if they didn't stack a pyramid. They kept the home nice and clean and raised children. They did their part. Even in the 1980s and 1990s when many worked they tended to expect a lot more of themselves than they do now.
honestly, that’s exactly it. the entitlement. we already pay for our own lives. nobody gives guys free shit. paying isn’t the problem, it’s feeling like a doormat that is
This is sublime discourse; moreover, it carries with it a coherent argument for true egalitarianism; expectation - from either party - does not even enter the equation.
Out of everything that guy said, the one thing that made the most impact on them is the "I would always treat my partner how I would my best friend, you don't expect your friend to pay for everything everytime you go out" part. No more chuckling from the audience after that.
Exactly! Every time a woman complainns about her man, or says things like "Well, I'm going out, I shouldn't have to tell him, he can deal with it!" etc... I think well, that shows a complete lack of respect, and it makes you sound like a silly teenager; if you wanted that life, you could've stayed single. No man, or woman should have to put up with being treated like that.
Then there's the moods, and ignoring him because "He won't do.... and I want him to" their friends wouldn't tolerate being treated how they treat the men in their lives.
Mutual respect, consideration, honesty (but politely) and trust etc... are paramount.
Is it any wonder there are so many divorces? People lack humility, the ability to acknowledge they're wrong, they can't say sorry, they manipulate to get their own way etc... It's a tragedy.
In the past, when we in the west had clear gender roles and a nuclear family setup, it made sense for the man to pay. Usually, the woman was home with child, but now, things have changed so much and women still expect the man to pay, even when they themselves earn their own money. Equality is only wanted when its a net positive for the woman usj.
@@MylilPwny85 totally.
That part resonates with me too
MylilPwny@
I do not agree with you. Today every "beautiful" woman has many men she can choose more than ever. So why would she choose you? A man who is average and not the other successful men?
Paying this is one of a man's courtship ways to get the woman and stand out from other competitors and show that you have wealth and confidence.
No one is forcing men to pay on a date. They pay because they want the "beautiful" girl while the girl wants money and wealth in return because she knows what she is worth.
That's why men pay because they are "interested in a beautiful woman" and they are
They are afraid that a woman will throw them away if they do not pay and they will not find someone like her anymore.
But when it comes to a girl who looks bad with a good heart. Men are in no hurry to woo
And say emphatically that they prefer not to pay.
Every man has the right to choose the girl he goes out with if you are dating someone just because of looks then do not be surprised that she also has requirements.
If you are a handsome man then a woman will even want to pay for you and even take money from her wallet.
It's all a matter of how everyone sees their status in a relationship whether you are top or bottom. If you are in the groove then you will have to work harder to get a beautiful woman.
The women in the audience agreed with him because he looked good. And if he looked less good then they would say he's resentful.
And also what he said about me so that he "looks at a woman on a date as if she were his friend" is hypocrisy in my eyes. After all, I'm sure he does not mean to kiss his friend in the mouth. (Not gay).
Just as he wants a "beautiful girl" so the beautiful girls have the right to choose.
There is no such thing as truly love and especially love and grace.
Love is something you have to achieve especially that you do not look good.
After all this is not class or trip this is battel
When my husband and I were dating (we were both poor working college students), I still offered to, and did, pay at least half of the time. I gave him the money to have his alternator fixed in his car, he hated my paying for it; but, it had to be done. We always have operated as a team, kinda "us against the world". We celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary last December.....still a team!
That’s beautiful. I’m happy for you! God bless you!
Stories like these give me hope. Thanks for sharing.
It’s the only way! A belated happy anniversary. He’s a very lucky man 🌹
Congratulations! You are a great example of what men want in a woman. I'm sure he is a happy man
Awesome to hear congratulations
very inspiratinonal this helps me speak to women.
Amen!
This man single-handedly described what I have been trying to convince my friends of doing in the most eloquent and emotionally detailed way
it plays out here perfectly coz the man's on a podium which exemplifies his status.And any knowledgable man knows what that means to fml psych.
No gurl would give a shet if he said the same on the streets
They ain’t yea friends pal 🤣🤣💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@otakuhunter4817 Except they would. Because guess what? Women care about looks too.
@@oussovzzz3100 true,partly.They care more about your height than you ever care about their weight.
It is just not sold at a premium when men like to try out many sauces.
Hierarchial power rests above on the priority list.They would fight over a lanky guitarist among the band of sisterhood .Step back and recollect ,no man has not witnessed it happen.
As a woman I can't believe that a whole room of women think men should be paying for everything. No shame
I met a girl when I was 24 who like me had very little money. She also had some difficult times in her life. On our first date I watched her dig through her purse for as much as she could when the check came. Then I realized she ordered very little because she couldn’t afford much. Even despite my encouragement to get what she wanted. I found it heart warming and of course paid the entire bill as was always my intentions. I married that girl. 14 years later I can’t imagine my life without her. Men should be gentlemen and women should be ladies. This is not “traditional “, it is natural. And in this way you will find happiness.
Beautiful, I'm sure you both will be happy together forever🤗
You blessed mother f'r glad you know what you got. And you got what you got. God bless.
Such a woman is quite rare nowadays. I'm not playing such an uneven game.
One of the few actually based comments here
You make me cry vro 🥺, such a beautiful story ❤️
Our concepts of best friendship are totally different across genders. I think contributing should be through gestures.
For real, I invited a female friend out to dinner once, it was technically a date as we hadnt seen each other in years, and she came all dressed up. No discussion about money or who's paying for what - I invited her, so I was happy to pay. But even as I said "Dont worry, ive got this", she said "Are you sure?" - Just the fact she asked me that was a gesture in itself to make me feel like she wasn't expecting a free meal. That's all it takes! I was happy to pay, but that one question she asked me made me feel even more happy to pay. Ladies, it's that simple, I promise you.
The fact that this is a “news flash” to so many women is mind boggling.
I don't know any woman who would expect her date to pay for everything. Maybe it's a culture thing. I'm in the UK and certainly the person who asks the other out on a date usually offers to pay. I would perhaps have accepted that if I knew there would be a second date when I would assume it was my turn to pay. I would never assume someone is going to pay for me!
@@maxineallen5673 then you and the women you surround yourself with are decent people. I am not in the UK so you may be right about the cultural thing, but a lot of (I won't say most because I don't know most) women do expect men to pay for everything and treat them like princesses. At the same time they wonder why men don't respect them.
@@maxineallen5673 but since it's common that the man ask out and not the other way around , usually the man pays aha but I agree with what you say
Also if a woman likes you she will flirt to the point to try and get you to ask her out. Rather then doing the asking herself. That in itself also sets the tone for unequal treatment. She is setting you up to guess and act based on her wants.
@@maxineallen5673 As another European I think this is mostly an american thing. At least when talking about the west.
I was on a date with a lady and she ordered butterfly steak. She made a point of telling me she'd ordered butterfly steak. I'd never heard of butterfly steak and I wondered how did they get a steak from a butterfly? I asked her - "do you enjoy butterfly steak?" She replied: "It's the most expensive thing on the menu, I wanted to see your reaction."
I asked a lady on a date and she said she couldn't afford it as a single mum. I said I'd be happy to pay, and she agreed after persuasion. I asked her to pick where, she picked a Korean self-serve buffet. It included self-serve soft drinks and when I finished mine ( more than once ) she grabbed the glass and refilled for me. I got a bit annoyed at that as I felt I was interfering with her meal and enjoyment. Her explanation? "I can't afford the meal but I can afford to show you consideration." Guess which one touched my heart?
Daamnn bruh
That's a fantastic line! Women don't even have to contribute money, but just SOMETHING positive back.
Man are simple creature to be pleased with..but still they dont understand that.
Women who show maturity and consideration are huge ass turn ons! And not even the sexual kind, but the kind that truly matters in a relationship.
Not gonna lie, when I read the last part, my eyes started to sweat a little bit…
inside every feminist is a future middle-aged cat lady.
I could listen to this guy talk all day. Like a podcast in the background. Guy has a calming voice. He has Facts
This guy is brilliant, very well balanced, honest, and giving these women some perspective, but he does it politely and nicely.
This reminds me of the author years ago whom became prominent largely
from his phrase, "everything I need to know I learned in kindergarten".
Such sanctimony. Everything you need to know you learned in 7th grade:
'it's a compromise'. If you want to stand on purity and the lessons you were taught in kindergarten, you can claim moral superiority. But it's the priggish, self-encomium of the moral, immature midget. YES...you do have to give up things to get things, and pious, self-aggrandizing holier-than-thou phoniness is one.
If she's so insanely hot that they're standing in line by the millions, and they're out there,
you do what's necessary or join the queue: OUT THE DOOR...
(not directed at you individually)
does it politely and nicely, not something kevin samuel can do 😉
@@chrisathian5450 that is absolutely correct 👍
@@chrisathian5450 race plays a huge part into who's willing to listen on both ends.
@@nolanlee5517 indeed
He’s not humbling them. He’s helping them have better relationships. And that comes across.
Well, they needed to be humbled anyways
this guy gets it^
He didn't help them because none of them wanted the help. They all sat there stunned a man would call them out on their double standards. They all look like he slapped them.
@@ABC-sc2ip I would slap them ngl
He's doing both but it won't work. They're paying for a quick fix to apply to men being the problem, not to change their own behavior. Their silence speaks volumes.
Dating has only existed for about 100 years.
And in the beginning, it was seen as a kind of shady, immoral practice.
Back then, women were either not working or were paid less than men; fr, not the bs we hear now.
Therefore, the man actually did need to pay. She literally couldn't afford it.
Applying this to today's dating environment is clearly OUT of date, irrelevant, and needs to be sh!tcanned asap.
True talk young blood! I couldn't even buy my wife a bottle of water when I met her. 5 years later I'm blessed with 2 little ones.
Years of feminism and all women in the audience still shouted 'MEN PAY!'
Many women want equality, but not the accountability or responsibility that comes with it.
@@thehighllama8101 Exactly... They should've called it Female Greedism instead 😂
yeah they have to because of the gender pay gap .. the amount of privilege and dismissiveness in this comment is unbelievable
@@bysscanna Then it should also be unbelievable to you that 60 % of women make more than men now and they are actually the breadwinners. I thought a date meant you found interest in someone, not because politics is involved
@@bysscanna Men work longer hours, are more likely to be and die alone, are far more likely to be judged harshly by women for a lack of good looks or income (rather than vice versa), we live shorter lives than women, are more likely to suffer from depression, drug abuse, and homelessness, are more likely to suffer from physical ailments and mental illness, and are more likely to commit suicide. Oh, and we are more likely to work physically demanding jobs (like building the house you live in or the highways you drive on). And we're more likely to die in war. That's some privilege us men have. The gender pay gap is a myth by the way. Men work longer hours. My own life experience showed me that. It's rarely the women who work overtime, or work off the clock, or come to work when they're sick, or sacrifice their weekends and vacation time to come to work.
I will never forget this. I had no money or real income for a long time, especially during the college/dating years, and the girl I crushed on must have really crushed back on me. On our first lunch together I barely had enough on me to pay for my own meal, which I inevitably had to reveal to her by the end. She was intuitive and perceptive enough to realize that I liked her so much that I was literally spending my very last dime on me to be with her. She laughed and paid for her meal and the tip for the waiter. We dated for 4.5 years before getting married, and are now 7 years married still going strong as ever...I don't know why I felt compelled to tell this story here, but well...there it is. I'm one of the luckiest men on the planet.
You feel like one of the luckiest men on the planet because in that one afternoon she showed you without a doubt, she valued YOU!, not what you could buy her, not what you could do for her, just You. And that is the greatest treasure you can find in life, a true partner.
You know that "joke" about how only women, children and dogs are loved inconditionally cause men are only loved if they bring value? She showed you that you trully are loved inconditionally.
You are indeed one of the luckiest in the world. Good for you man!
This was a sweet story. Thanks for sharing!
She saw you as a human. Not as an ATM machine.
Call it empathy, love, friendship or all combined, she is the one for you. I'm happy for both of you
You felt compelled to write this because you wanted to share with people how good it can be
It may be a long time before a guy finds Mrs. Right, but stories like yours gives us hope for the future
They never ever to confess her fault
this is very true. all a man needs is that attempt to try, just like a parent sees a baby trying to walk.
The only reason he succeeded in getting his point across, is because he had a microphone. If it was one on one, the vast majority of them would have crucified him before he could finish.
Lol like shit we dont like logic
And also because he looks quite good.
very based
Underrated comment. Unfortunately 😢
Truth!!!!
I will say, respect to the women for listening and not talking/booing him.
They only listened because he's attractive, most women go off feelings and superficiality, not the actual value of something. Regardless of his words, if this guy was ugly, they'd have thrown him off stage
@@chico9805 exactly plus they all looked on the older side too early-mid 30’s or above much more desperate to find a man….if they were in their 20’s they would’ve been screaming and yelling back with their usual feminist talking points
they are in shock, and there was plenty of quiet nagging.😂🤣
I hear ya - Glukhar_Agapov!
If you take a girl out - you pay, only if it’s a first date.
Now after that, if you keep on going out to eat - that’s a whole different story, and I don’t think you can just keep on paying, unless you’re wealthy and can afford it.
Having said that, just go out for a cup of coffee, if it’s someone you’re just getting to know - don’t waste your hard-earned cash on just anyone!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Of course their mindset is a bit different than the norm just for showing up to his talk 😁
As a man this is 💯 true.
The speaker did a good job handling the question. I am an older women and even women in my generation would offer to share the cost (if not pay out right). Going 'dutch' was a thing even when I was in high school, which was back in the days of black and white tv. I like the idea of framing this as you would behave with friends gives people easy way to judge a situation. You would not ask your friend to always pay or to always be the one who bolsters you up emotionally.
The “men should pay” thing would still apply if feminism didn’t obligate all women to join the workforce
Because their contribution to wealth is miniscule without working, in this much I agree
@@ThatWhichObserves stay at home wives + mothers contribute so much to society, it’s priceless. Of course there are other factors, but we are now experiencing the consequences of this being taken away from our society (by godless commies).
Not feminism, the government. By not barring them from working the government is actually requiring them to work. Slave masters do that. We are slaves.
@@ThatWhichObserves you have it backwards. Their contribution to wealth and to society is staying at home to raise her children. A beautiful gift every man should try to give his wife.
Facts. If you don't earn you don't pay the bills. You earn you help your spouse with the bills. Simple as that.
when any woman tries this bullshit on me, I simply ask how many years did she live as a man to feel comfortable about to talk about how a man should be, it works every single time for me.
Of course it does because it’s a great analogy, hit them where it hurts with logic 💪🏽✌🏽
Goes both ways. A woman can say the same to man lol
@@lolong5976 obviously likes of us can't lecture women on how to be a woman.
If anyone claims can, then lmao.
@@lolong5976 Yeah, which is why we have zero expectations of women. Can we get the base courtesy of not having to meet expectations in return?
@@TheStraightestWhitest sounds like a you problem. Just cause you have zero expectations of them doesn't mean they aren't allowed to have any expectations or preferences. Kinda stupid analogy you're using here. And if both you and your girl don't have any expectations then what's the meaning of having relationship?? You're just there for benefits lol.
You're already predetermined that every woman isn't worth it and yet y'all are whining about not finding"the one". Y'all sounds like some hypocritical feminist.
And bruh you really have over 4 comments on this video alone as early as 5 minutes. Maybe try to interact with girls in real life instead of forming your opinions based on girls you see on the internet lol
He was awesome. He is so right about the whole dating thing. Especially about paying for time to be with her. As if her time is more valuable than his. That is a great truth.
I’m in total agreement with what this guy. It’s plain and simple. No guy wants to be taken advantage of. This idea of entitlement has gone way out of context. Women should always find a way to contribute in a relationship.
I mean a relationship isn't a relationship if there aren't two people actively in it.
So yes naturally women do contribute into the relationship.
Or else it wouldn't be called a relationship
In my mind the whole framing is off.
First, the title of the video: "Man Humbles A Room Full Of Women" - does not convey respect. It conveys dominance and superiority.
Second, the question was honestly very simplistic and prescriptive. There isn't ONE way to deal with others (whether you are on a date or not).
Third, the response was more nuanced than the question, but it still was prescriptive. Certainly there are general expectations of the woman and the man (or with just women or with just men), but the key is communication. The two people can work out these issues amongst themselves.
@@wd4440 no they don't. That's why this is a hot topic. Women are recievers. Expecting and rarely ever do anything.
Why don’t we call things the way they are?
Women want men who can best provide for potential future offspring. That is why men pay- it’s a heartwarming love story as old as tyme.
Here’s the thing, whatever you believe about being a man or a wohman, I promise you the amount of effort the average woman puts into looking beautiful to secure a mate, as well as the amount of financial resources and just plain old time, would blow men’s minds. Not figuratively, literally ;).
Now you can raise your picket signs and tear down the wall- the picket fence ideology, but the truth is if you like a high quality woman and you’re competing against some other dooder who can shell out the roo and you make the case that you won’t. You will lose Mates, mate, it’s a biological weapon of fact.
Now posy on down to crysville, jk stay toasty rabbit woasty!
Women were never meant to lead. It was to stand behind their man. woMAN. She was made out of a man. God made woman for men.
"It's not about the money,it's about the GESTURE" well said brother🍻
100% NAILED IT !!!!!
Can we applaud this "guru" for how well he handles this question in a group full of women? That was class.
Bro he said “this is the most polite they are ever gonna be and they aren’t trying to pay now” that’s fricking real
It's pretty scary! People sometimes need the red flags pointing out. If you're dating someone look for how they treat people, not just you, who they're trying to impress, but people who serve you in restaurants, shops, and other places. When I met my husband, sometimes I'd go into work with him, and we'd have lunch with his bosses, bosses, boss, and sometimes we have lunch with Lee, the janitor. My husband and I met online (I don't recommend it, as there are crazy people out there 😄) so I had to rely on my visits to see him to see how he was with other people.
I also think how people treat their parents is a good tell.
I loved it when he said about the way you treat your best friend, because I say it too.
People don't seem to have any humility anymore. They can't accept when they're wrong, can't apologize, can't see the other person's point of view etc.... There are still lots of amazing people out there, you just need to be careful ❤️
When a woman expects a guy to pay for her stuff because "he is supposed to" that's a major red flag! Emancipation goes both ways ladies.
If I have to pay for your meals when we go you you have to make my meals at home.
You should tell feminists that
What I find shocking is that in the USA people in 2022 say "men are here to provide" but if you ever say "women are here to take care of the home" you are called a sexist.
Dems da rules*
(* not actually the rules)
As a woman, I would agree!
Thank you “Edward” we as a whole are good. ✌️
These women are clueless. Regardless of the logic and common sense this guy throws at them they will leave thinking "This guy is a jerk and a misogynist . The man should always pay for me".
Who cares what they think
Actually they know that it's unfair, selfish, and irresponsible of them to insist that the man pay their way. They just figure that if they can guilt him into paying, then great! The truth of the matter is: Most women today have no shame and no conscience when it comes to taking advantage of men financially!
i dont wanna be a pussy slave lol
They only listened to him because he's handsome.
we've got a mind reader here
Humbling is the reason I’m smiling
I love the way all these uggo women are oogling over this Chad guy and probably not listening to a single word he says.
A wide ass genuine smile indeed.
No way, it's the real Borzah. Nice to see you here brother, glad you're good mentally as well, keep your head with the right ideas homie
4 or 5 months, and not paying a share! Mind boggling!
I am a woman and never understood why a man would have to pay it all 💀
Expectations
It's really incredible, how some women certain things still take for granted and at the same time yell "equal rights, equal rights!" There is still a lot of work to do, and thank god there are men like this guy...
How many of those women in the ground do you think he banged tho just sayin
🤔🤔🤨🤨
Months of dates and paying for them all is a lot of money
Ukraine and algorithms. That is all😂
u must be real stupid if u think paying for smth is the same as having no rights or being discriminated at stfu
When he say: if a woman don't pay she wasn't taught right (the room in silence 🤐) if he doesn't pay he wasn't taught right (all the room "yeeeeah").
I can't believe that in 2022 women haven't understood human nature.
I imediately noticed this. And was looking for this comment. They really are self-absorved hypocrites.
They understand human nature well enough to feel they are entitled to finesse stuff out of men.
Ding ding ding
Men are supposed to provide, if you dont want to do so, then don't expect a woman to respect you. Personally if on a first date the guy doesn't at least offer to pay the bill I cut him off very quickly.
@@tatianannar1065 no one is going to respect a woman that uses a man financially and you are definitely not traditional based on that pfp
3:50 yup yup yup. also probably applies to friendships!
"Let me tell you something that means something to a guy...trying." The bar so low that literally trying is all a guy needs and it's seen as too much.
"If a girl doesn't offer to pay for their part, they weren't raised right"
No one laughed
"If a guy doesn't pay for his part. They weren't raised right"
Females laugh
Exactly!!....i observed that...lol
That's why all these women are still single and spent 1000 dollars on seminars like this.
@@lightdragon5821 lmao
@@lightdragon5821 don't tell the truth everytime 🤣
@@lightdragon5821 Women☕☕☕
The teammate / bestfriend analogy is on point. A lady has the right to be courted but let's not forget it's an old fashioned trope which used to also entail ownership of the woman by the man, so if you are a modern "independent", feminist woman, you can't really have both. You have to chose. No double standard.
As a mom (51) with two daughters, I agree with you and this speaker. (Guess I raised them right!).
Too true. But you're forgetting that feminists want it both ways. And they want rights, where men have obligations: they want to right to join the military, but not the obligation (draft). They complain about a "wage gap" but never consider the "death gap".... men dying in the workplace more than women. Is this death gap 20%? No. 30%, 40%, 100%, 500%? No it's well over 800%. Men die over 9 times more than women. I think that when the death gap is equalized then women can expect to have their total earnings equal that of men's total earnings. It's disgusting that they disregard the death of thousands of men whilst in pursuit of pay they haven't earned... and they'd earn it by working the dangerous, filthy, physically demanding jobs. Do men complain about the death gap? No. Men provide, feminists whine.
@@mjstow the wage gap is also because women have only been working 80 years, companies pay higher premiums for women for insurance on a regular rate, have some level of maternity leave pay and of course the built in premise that men are paying for everything
@@mjstow I tend to think those are female clowns and not feminist but i wouldn't know i'm not an expert on feminism. I'm happily an ally for actual genuine feminist though.
Edit: some women want to do more hazardous work traditionally occupied by men. They are just not the majority. People should do what they want to do as long as they know what to expect.
Guys need to just stay away from modern “ independent” feminist woman.. don’t even entertain it or one night stand it, it’s just not worth the hassle. Men are the ones in control, we always will be, we just need to understand this and make better choices with the women we date. Start thinking with your big head an not the One between your legs.
"Equality! ...can you pick up the tab though?"
I think the matter is, when a man goes on that first date with a lady and he pays for her meal, that should be the first and only time he does. Anytime after that, its an agreement from both the guy and girl.
If he continues to pay for her meal from weeks to months, she gets conditioned to him automatically paying for her meal, so whenever a dinner date comes along she never pays for her share. Just my opinion🤷♀️
As soon as he said "confident and self-respecting" guys feel taken advantage of if she doesn't try to contribute.....BOOM!
His point landed like a ton of bricks! The type of men that women want most will walk away from them for the reason he stated.
Awesome.
I was with a girl for a little while a few years back like 3 or 4 years ago, anyway up till then and even a little bit after we went our separate ways, I remember whenever we went out to dinner she always offered to pay and it eventually got to the point where we fought on who was supposed to pay. It was insane cuz yah I offered to pay and she’d tell me “nope I’m paying this one” eventually we made the deal of if one of us paid for dinner then the other paid for the movies for example. It was a very eye opening experience and let’s me know that there’s women out there that chose not to fall into the “a man is supposed to pay” way of thinking my wife is the same way
Honestly, those women are as rare as hen's teeth! Many women who DO offer to pay, are simply testing the guy, and if he let's them pay, then they will not go out with him ever again!
@Joetoy90 Exactly, that's how you route out the ones who aren't worth your time!
I was dating a person like that but they lost attraction to men and lost the probably best relationship I’ll ever have we were so compatible and are still friends since this was the second time we dated but man if it doesn’t hurt like hell that I can’t have them
@@evorider3689 I like that video of the guy talking to the woman on his left with his body turned towards her. When the check comes he slides it across the table over to the woman sitting across from him (which I assumed was his date). She has the look of "Oh, no he jus didn't" as well as the look of "I cant afford this".
@Hunchoz no they just aren’t into men anymore that’s it