2 Subtle Signs He's Falling In Love With You ~ KNOW THIS!

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  • 2 Subtle Signs He's Falling In Love With You ~ KNOW THIS!
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    How can you tell if a man is falling in love with you?
    To be honest, there are lots of clues, and yet deeper love is often exposed through the subtle signs men give off that most women don't know.
    In fact, there are 2 signs that are often overlooked by many in the dating arena which I want to talk to help women better understand men.
    In today's video, we are going to explore the DEEPER subtle signs men share which might go under your nose.
    Let's talk about... 2 Subtle Signs He's Falling In Love With You ~ KNOW THIS!
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  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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  • @selmag3284
    @selmag3284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    1- he tries to meet your needs.
    2- when your partner's needs become your needs.
    Love you 💖

  • @Montalvo13
    @Montalvo13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You'll know if he's in love with you. He'll do everything to make you happy. You won't need to watch these videos. You'll just know.

  • @kam0406
    @kam0406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I do agree that it is all about putting thoughts into actions. A man can say a lot of things but at the end of the day, words are cheap. A man who really is capable of being in a relationship and SUSTAINiNG a healthy relationship will SHOW you through his actions.

  • @Beautytrends77
    @Beautytrends77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My ex met my needs, did things for me that no other man has done then turned around and dumped me for someone else. So I’m kinda having a hard time believing any guy I meet has true intentions with me.

  • @sallie4059
    @sallie4059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I long for the day that I meet a man who will care about my needs as much as his own. My late husband was an old-school gentleman and a real gem in this regard. Not sure if it's modern times, self-centered Los Angeles, or everyone has their guard up, but it's rough going out there.

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sallie . I agree ... When widowed it's sooooo difficult to meet a genuine type . Unlike divorce, we didn't fall out of love , we had no choice in the matter . I wish you luck in love . X

  • @kj5205
    @kj5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Makes sense. Your selfish behavior becomes selfless when you meet someone you love and want to be with.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Most humans are myopic though...

    • @kj5205
      @kj5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JonathonAslay that's the sad part.

  • @venusisqueen8993
    @venusisqueen8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love that your videos are not too long & straight to the point

  • @flowerchild3312
    @flowerchild3312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Good Morning Johnathon ☕ My Sweetheart has made reservations for us to have a vacation together, I couldn't be happier , He is everything I've longed for. Feeling loved Grateful and Blessed ❤💕❤

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wonderful

    • @flowerchild3312
      @flowerchild3312 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JonathonAslayThank You! I'm Soo Happy! 😊 💘

    • @flowerchild3312
      @flowerchild3312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Siquomb1 Hi there! A couple places in our home State, one place is beautiful in the winter time has all the festivities, Horse and buggy ride, Outdoor holiday lights display Etc. I'm soo happy !

    • @pam3906
      @pam3906 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's so nice!!!

  • @PsychicMedium777-uw4mm
    @PsychicMedium777-uw4mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If she still takes your "breathe" away
    9 months later, then....
    It's pretty obvious you have a thing for this girl! 😎

  • @MaryamPirzada
    @MaryamPirzada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m 23 but I’m addicted to your videos!!! 💛 thank you for helping us and giving us insight. 💛

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love that! Just posted this on my Instagram. THANK YOU!

    • @imwatching2960
      @imwatching2960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I had these kind of videos when I was your age. I'm 38 and literally learning everything from scratch after decades of messy dating and relationships. My parents' relationship wasn't in any way a good example and set some subconscious stuff that's so hard to change. Good luck, you're on the good path.

  • @nancydrew6679
    @nancydrew6679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a generous man. You care so much about people.
    Thanks.
    Blessings.

  • @ShalimarPicasso
    @ShalimarPicasso 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like the idea that a man can fall in love yet not be ready for it. I would like to know more about it, is there a video?

  • @debbiesianturi2505
    @debbiesianturi2505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A lyric of song "As Time Goes By" saying "A woman needs a man, a man needs a woman"

  • @lindal6032
    @lindal6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love that you give examples when you talk about a topic. That is quite helpful. Thank you, Jonathon.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awe... thank you.

    • @kam0406
      @kam0406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. Examples are extremely helpful.

  • @nicolechambers6859
    @nicolechambers6859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is good to know my goodness!

  • @shelley1071
    @shelley1071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always learn something helpful from your videos! Thank you for taking the time to share 🤗

  • @maribethcharles
    @maribethcharles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes, can you please do a video on what you went thru after your divorce and how/when you knew you were ready for a relationship? Very helpful!! 😍😍

  • @eva-nr2bs
    @eva-nr2bs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh yes. Penta water, one of the best quality. I used to buy the whole case at Whole Foods for $50. Fifteen years ago. Gelson's has it as well.

  • @tableleader254
    @tableleader254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning Jonathan 🌞alot of value! Thank you. Have a sunshiny day🌞🙋‍♀️🌻👍🤗

  • @lyndamcmullen9410
    @lyndamcmullen9410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jonathan. ♥️

  • @felicitygrace5113
    @felicitygrace5113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Please do talk about when you are not ready for a healthy relationship, and the signs of that 🙂 Thank you!

  • @eps4560
    @eps4560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So...we must clearly identify, understand and meet our own damn needs first, deeply. Learn how to Be Present with ourselves. Have a high quality relationship with ourselves first. Ah, what would that be like if we are not familiar with any other way of being?
    Then you law of attract someone who mirrors You or the level you have achieved internally for yourself and you decide to want to collaborate and serve their needs in a non dysfunctional manner.

  • @jessika6482
    @jessika6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, John! I’ve been enjoying your video’s content. Thanks for them. I was wondering if you recommend the book Eight Dates for guys as well. I’m getting to know this guy who loves to read and he got divorced about six months ago. Regardless of how our friendship progresses, if it will help both of us, I feel inclined to order one for each and sort of begin our own mini self-help book club. Discussing our impressions of the book might result in a good thing.

  • @sunshine-wb7gr
    @sunshine-wb7gr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi John stay safe 🙏🇦🇮

  • @marissavaldez4735
    @marissavaldez4735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jonathan, I’m just making reference to your comment about being a train wreck and not being ready. My husband made his way to Heaven about a year and a half ago. We were married 25 years. I know that one day I do want another beautiful relationship. I just I’m wondering when I’ll be ready🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @CanadianShoeLover
    @CanadianShoeLover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes, PENTA water still exists, it's very expensive! The Real Housewiveas franchises drinks it all the time.

  • @laurastevens5733
    @laurastevens5733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi jonathon! Penta water does exist. My friend works for the company. It is a wonderful tasting water. Girl has good taste & how sweet of you to make sure she had her special water 🤗

  • @LivingMyBestLife517
    @LivingMyBestLife517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Jonathon! I bought the Gottman book - Great suggestion.

  • @drenacastiglione4798
    @drenacastiglione4798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always do those things although not in love. I also had guys do the for me right from the beginning. Maybe we are just in the present

  • @palmamingozzi5736
    @palmamingozzi5736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hugs mean you really matter 🤗

  • @carlahabib1768
    @carlahabib1768 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you were referring to Pana water? It’s Italian. I drink it all the time, it’s my favorite too. 🥤

  • @margueritecrater6016
    @margueritecrater6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know exactly what ur talking about!!! I have done this in my relationships and I love doing it! But my last relationship which lasted 2 yrs started out on the wrong foot pretty much rt from the start.... we had been together about 6 mo by the time Christmas and my birthday (dec 19th) rolled around and I was curious to see how much it would mean to him to get my presents to me on time... it wasn’t actually about the presents themselves really cause he didn’t have much money but it was more about his loving concern to get them to me on time.... well... he put it off and put it off and finally waited til after Christmas to send to me....it disappointed me deeply cause he didn’t put forth much effort toward my gifts... contrary to him I could hardly wait to send his gifts to him cause I was so excited for him....

    • @Kat-mn6zi
      @Kat-mn6zi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trivial though it shows a lack of preparedness in the way of time. You hadn't even known one another long enough for all the expectations of lavishing so much attention and expense. Though it didn't have be all those things- but he probably didn't and couldn't afford all the expectations required so soon. Another case of the American principles of I need you to make me extra important, so soon. Six months is not enough time to have expectations. We are adults here, right. Excuse my naked opinion. It's just my own. Good luck.

  • @SherwoodChiropractic
    @SherwoodChiropractic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loving your book and your alacrity! Can you please do a video or podcast on how to have difficult conversations, what are the most important q’s to ask in order to reach clarity in an established relationship? Specifically if your partner seems to be on the avoidant side but “tries”. You can think you’re on the same page, but are you really?Things can get murky over time it seems. Thank you!

  • @maryangelatheys8080
    @maryangelatheys8080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Penta water is still around

  • @laurai2599
    @laurai2599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, Penta still is there. Made here in good old SoCal.

  • @amyhall6
    @amyhall6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watch to many of your videos lol jkjk, bc I remember these comments specifically in another video, about the water and the Yelp reviews,
    Also the gin rummy,

    • @amyhall6
      @amyhall6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you're having an amazing day Jonathon

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      awe... thank you.

  • @candidaberweger5722
    @candidaberweger5722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It may be Acqua Panna water, its spring water and its amazing!! Thank you for your videos, you're awesome!!

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's been confirmed, it's Penta. Happy you like the videos, thank you.

    • @candidaberweger5722
      @candidaberweger5722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JonathonAslay 🤗

  • @carolynayala1490
    @carolynayala1490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jonathan. I still want to take you out.

  • @rosemarybrewington8250
    @rosemarybrewington8250 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jonathon, lately feel that their happiness is my happiness. It is that wrong?

  • @dellchica2373
    @dellchica2373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im 50 n still dont understand men.

  • @suzannejonker2726
    @suzannejonker2726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Penta is still around!

  • @brendaansorge1161
    @brendaansorge1161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am reading your book and love, love, love it! I have many pages bookmarked. I enjoy your talking/writing style. I enjoy the other book recommendations as well.Thank you for sharing your wisdom and guidance. You pave a positive path for ourselves that we bring into our relationships and life in general.

  • @venusisqueen8993
    @venusisqueen8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you do a video on age gaps?

  • @kimmonks116
    @kimmonks116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos are great 😁 watch lots 👌 I thought you were gonna say..Penthouse water 😂😂😆 probably quite effective lol 😆 🧡💚

  • @lisaottomann2396
    @lisaottomann2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if a man brings you your favorite chicken wings?🤣 and says I have his heart?

    • @lisaottomann2396
      @lisaottomann2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @FREEDOM yes! For sure... I mean it’s not a full-blown relationship because I don’t want that at my age but I like having him around when he comes over

  • @prettyshield5070
    @prettyshield5070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fixing was hopeful to get your free discovery call but you didn't call on schedule date...Hope your doing great!!!

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you send me your email address, because I don't recall having a call scheduled with you.

    • @prettyshield5070
      @prettyshield5070 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JonathonAslay Prettyshield49@gmail.com

  • @aleksandrakettner905
    @aleksandrakettner905 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💓

  • @kimbruins9007
    @kimbruins9007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got it

  • @Montalvo13
    @Montalvo13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bought the man I care about pain patches. He'd bring me Tums if I needed them.

  • @loganross4774
    @loganross4774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Is it a cop out to say the other person ‘just isn’t ready’? Because they could be if they wanted to!
    Judaism considers Marriage a business contract. It is sigNed called the Ketubah!
    Thanks for the hug! Hugging back to you J!

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hug received and appreciated.

  • @JuliesWorldXo
    @JuliesWorldXo ปีที่แล้ว

    Acqua Panna. 😊

  • @sharonopperman8406
    @sharonopperman8406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love ur oomph amd just spirit...😄can i clone you?

  • @annamorgan129
    @annamorgan129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Recently started dating a man who is coming out of a long marriage. He told me last week he needed some space and time to process all the changes in his life. I asked if you wanted to stop us? He said he did not say that. He said he needs space and time to process. He said he is not saying goodbye just needs some space. I haven’t heard from him in a week. Why would he not just end it?

    • @mae88b.16
      @mae88b.16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because he only needs space and he felt smothered by you

    • @mae88b.16
      @mae88b.16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amyis486 it’s not that. Some men are not ready for a serious commitment but when they meet the girl they really like they don’t know how they will process between their emotions and their life situation. Men who chases a woman a lot usually are broken men, insecure, needy, narcissist.

  • @ardjus1
    @ardjus1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    your example for 'their needs become your needs' doesnt make sense to me. i dont get it.

  • @michellepalmer42
    @michellepalmer42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Plz do a video when they love you or are interested but leave you.

  • @faezahjumahat4196
    @faezahjumahat4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Jonathon Good Night's From Singapore! How To Knows If A Guy's Has Falling In Love's With A Woman He Never Meet Or Knows About Her? Can Real Or Honest Feeling's Develops Over Time Apart Or He Is Acting Hot Or Cold Behaviour Or A Narssistic Human Beign? What Is The Real Process To Knows A Person's Interest Or Not To Get A ConFlict With? Can SomeOne's Who Never Trust AnyOne's Or Having Some Personal Issues Or Have A Bad Pattern's With Dating Or Rebound Relationship Will Eventually Have SomeOne's Special Dear To Them By Admiring Silent Or Distants Or He Is Shy Person's & Really Needs SomeOne's Talkative's To Break The Ice To Engaged A Talks Or Have A Conversations With? What Is A Guy's Or A Man's Looking In A PartNer Or A Woman?

  • @sunshine-wb7gr
    @sunshine-wb7gr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How about when in a long-distance relationship

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What about an LDR are you asking?

    • @sunshine-wb7gr
      @sunshine-wb7gr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JonathonAslay yes dear

    • @catricegreer9498
      @catricegreer9498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jonathon Aslay Hi 👋🏾 What are the signs a man is falling in love with a woman in a long distance relationship (such as met virtually but separated during quarantine).

  • @lilbitqueenbee4life
    @lilbitqueenbee4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💛🌻🧡🌻💛

    • @lilbitqueenbee4life
      @lilbitqueenbee4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please elaborate on falling in love with her but you weren’t ready? Did you end up together?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      will do...

    • @lilbitqueenbee4life
      @lilbitqueenbee4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jonathon Aslay Thank you!!!

  • @margueritecrater6016
    @margueritecrater6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I do have questions about your lady friend that u were falling in love with... I have heard u bring her up many times and I’m wondering why u don’t try re-kindling that relationship... sure sounds like to me in ur voice ur still carrying something for her...

    • @MizTChuckles
      @MizTChuckles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's married now.

    • @margueritecrater6016
      @margueritecrater6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MizTChuckles ohhhh! Darn!! Thanks for telling me...

  • @yanosyanoss5937
    @yanosyanoss5937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My name is Shemer and I love all your helpful videos a lot. my Instagram is @shemerrhoue and im trans. i always believe that the way into a relationship and dating between trans and men are the same with straight people. i hope u get me some light of this.

  • @jessika6482
    @jessika6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excuse me, Jonathon, for using the wrong name.

  • @Tina-fi2wy
    @Tina-fi2wy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been watching many of your videos lately, trying to understand not only the male mind-set, but also the widower. It seems that everyone lies, no one values honesty or integrity anymore. Yes, we say we do, but we do not. This makes for a very sad state of the world. I am not surprised, only disappointed, because I still hold out hope that there are others who still love truth.

  • @angiej4865
    @angiej4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've still got two bottles of tonic water that I bought for my ex boyfriend for exactly the same reason. One is out of date. I can't quite bring myself to throw it down the sink....😳

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How long ago did the relationship end?

    • @angiej4865
      @angiej4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JonathonAslay 7 months ago...yeah, I know. We are in occasional contact but he's not relationship material, for several reasons.

    • @TheSharronW
      @TheSharronW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Water yr plants? What makes water go out of date???

  • @uoohoo99
    @uoohoo99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me guess. The first relationship after your divorce, the girl that you were falling for. She told you that you were a mess because.....you CRIED to her. Right? Yeah, I'd run away from you as fast & far as possible!!!

  • @naninejeanquart7524
    @naninejeanquart7524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jon are you single?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes...

    • @naninejeanquart7524
      @naninejeanquart7524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JonathonAslay I like your videos I have read prior to finding you Getting the Love, Four Agreements, can’t wait to read Eight dates and yours. If you ever plan to be in Door County, Wi I will gladly show you around.

    • @flyfish2562
      @flyfish2562 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nanine, why you hitting on my man??? 😉