Also don't forget that you will attract every type of men... light attracts even moths and all kinds of nasty insects. So be very careful, use your time and discernment, most men are not worth it, that's the truth, most want to concur your body. Pay attention to their questions, are they really trying to get to know you, not what you do, your name etc. But what makes you tick., laugh, happy etc. not the basic... that shows emotional intelligence and real interest. Than always ask what their relationship with God, law and truth is, and really listen carefully. Most will run.
Just maybe, many women who have a weakened emotional immune system are survivors of childhood trauma and highly dysfunctional parents. This video is packed with great information to help those who didn’t receive love as a child and want it so badly, yet can’t figure out what they need to work on within themselves to heal. ✌🏼
My meditation practice is fasting. When I need clarity and to strengthen my immune response I pray to Yahweh and fast for a few days. This always rebalances my nervous system in a whole. This is possible because I truly trust God’s will and plans for my life. When I feel like I’m trying to take control over everything I let go and let God. Then I hear God clearly and know what’s meant to be for me will be.l and I keep it pushing.
Fasting is incredibly effective and beneficial. You can hear God much more clearly. It's not easy though so I suggest starting slow. Skip a meal..and ask God for guidance & discipline. He'll come thru!
Beautifully said! I will take on your practice because it makes so much sense, we need to stop thinking we are the ones controlling our lives, God has greater plans for us 🧚🏻 thank you for reminding that, you have a beautiful soul 🤍🪽
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
You have to stop the thought of her when it enters your mind, so many people are going through the same thing, I have many times in my life, time will heal your pain plus being as busy as you can , you'll meet someone else.
No matter how many times I stop watching Alex’s channel and choose to not want to believe his advice, I always somehow find my way back, he is 100% correct guys
I'm an empath with boundaries I than kyou for these videos. I love your hair. I am thankful that I married ny best friend. We did not have to play such games.
I have a “ friend “ who is truly a narcissist- like the malignant covert kind . She always did things to throw my nervous system off . After many years I learnt to not react bc I discovered that what she always wanted was a reaction. Once I realized that , I reclaimed a lot of my power back. This also applies to dating and like you said , I leaned to leave quicker. One little secret is to not be invested in other people’s approval ( specially at the beginning)
The crazy part is when the Ex that caused the girl to be weak like that is not a BF but her abusive family and she has to emotionally move past them in order to start dating again.
All right here's the analysis.. some wounds are not created by romantic relationships. Also wounds don't make you unworthy of love. After thoroughly reviewing the text, here's my analysis: *Harmful or potentially hurtful views:* 1. The text implies that people with weak emotional immune systems are easily gullible and lack self-esteem, which could be perceived as shaming or stigmatizing individuals who struggle with emotional regulation. 2. The speaker suggests that people who don't set boundaries or assert themselves are "easily played" and "emotionally easy," which could be seen as dismissive and unempathetic towards those who have been taken advantage of or have difficulty setting boundaries. 3. The text implies that individuals who have been in abusive or toxic relationships are somehow flawed or weak, which could be triggering or harmful for survivors of abuse. *Beneficial views:* 1. The importance of developing self-awareness, emotional regulation, and boundary-setting for healthy relationships and personal growth. 2. The need to prioritize clarity and firmness in one's actions and emotions to maintain respect and avoid being taken advantage of. 3. The suggestion to practice meditation for strengthening emotional resilience and developing a stronger emotional immune system. 4. The emphasis on having a long-term plan and clarity about what one wants in relationships and life. 5. The encouragement to develop a "threatening presence" (confident and assertive, not aggressive) to deter potential disrespect or abuse. *Specifically helpful points:* 1. "Develop a threatening presence... by limiting nonverbal cues... and having a plan." 2. "Set standards and be willing to discard people who don't meet them." 3. "Practice meditation to strengthen emotional resilience." 4. "Have clarity about what you want in relationships and life." Please note that while some points may be helpful, the text's tone and language could be perceived as somewhat aggressive or shaming, which might not be suitable for everyone, especially those who have experienced trauma or abuse.
This is so true however, verbal and physical responses are handled differently. In person i have learned to fix my face, never let ppl know how you feel even if they are creating a scene. I treat them as if they are not there so i don't hear or see them. Verbal is a lil different, if my relationship is a long-term intense one, being emotional i can lose it.
If they don’t chase they were never interested in the first place. And it’s a bit confusing especially if ya’ll had a bunch of sex or they were previously interested (maybe for shallow reasons like you were skinny or pretty). The truth is they never liked you for you they liked you because you made them look good
This is how ive been feeling lately about plp. Ive been protecting my piece. The more you let them disrespect you the more they get bolder and the next disrespect is worser.
We are all energy frequency and vibration only vibrational matches to our frequencies are what can show up. That's how you know what's running your subconscious..... if things show up that you think you don't want, there's some program or pattern or have it that needs clearing out because you are admitting something you don't want. Or perhaps you're focused on what you don't want, the secret is to focus on what you do want❤ The reason people move their standards is because they are recreating their childhood wounding traumas and emotional neglect😢 we make excuses for people which is not our job to do, because as children we have to make excuses for our parents and their toxicity or their dysfunction, it's a primal need that we fragment ourselves with because we have to survive within a family unit, no matter how damaging it is.. we carry that into adulthood without realizing it
I choose emotionally unavailable people because I can't fall in love with them. They attract me and are my dopamine fix, nothing more. I love to chase them! And then I get bored. Emotionally healthy ones give me an ick. Yes, I need therapy. I'm hoping one day I'll be ready for my golden retriever that's safe, goofy and kind.
12:06 From Your POV, makes Total Sense! However, If a woman is Weak, and was Controlled, If you Had Real LOVE, PURE Which I honestly don't think you've EVER Learned ( & I don't mean felt a twinge of Luvvv) If You Are LOVE & You like this woman, You Step Up and Nurture her out of her Weakness into her true strength Through Love. Sounds like you're used to living in a Tough Ass Jungle , 🌴🌴🌴 Where it's Toxic Male Dog eat Dog...
Someone else would describe what you are defining as pride. The aloof kind of pride. Most people don't like that , they won't even approach you. There is no one way of attracting others. I think everybody has their own way of gauging someone worth being in a relationship with. Sometimes the one pursuing does not want the prideful kind, they want the agreeable kind. So really there is no one way of gauging someone liable. Everyone has their own type. Standards or no standards. Everyone has their own type. It does not mean when someone is agreeable they agree with everyone. They have their own type. They may tell you to go to hell in the most loving way, if you don't understand them you will be pursuing indefinitely till you know they don't like you. The agreeable type are most no nonsense type the world has. They are just nice people. So be careful with the kind of believes you have. That is the world for you, it has different kinds of people. You know what you want as an individual, so keep it to yourself and hunt according to what you want, don't think almost everyone does it the way you do. Everyone does it according to their personality.
I had to leave a man because he literally tried to change everything about me. Why be with me if you need me to something else? I was open to wearing what he wanted an following his religion that I disagree with. Until i noticed his requirements of me continue to evolve at his will. We'd have conversations and agree then later I'd get scrolled with a new demand that we already agreed was ok before. I can't be with a man like that. Men who claim to be good leaders then suffer from effective communication and always change and expect you to just give up yourself for them scare me.
11:55 my ex wanted me to believe EVERYTHING he believes. If I have a different opinion he calls me masculine. It could be as simple as the shape of the earth. So annoying
The Bible says that God is close to the broken hearted. Oftentimes, we subconsciously pick the wrong men. I decided to allow the Lord to help me navigate this shaky dating terrain. I don't have casual sex anymore. 100% clarity, self respect and high quality men started approaching me. Even got a few marriage proposals.
Alex i went 7 times to Vipassana in Dilsen also Thailand. What you said, it changed my life.... 🌱💚 Much love from Amsterdam. Would love 2 debate with you about life 💫✨️✨️ and love❤ Meditation every day will change your whole being
I think it's a combination loving yourself & being humble. All at the same time. You have to embrace your womanhood & you must have a solid friendship with Jesus. Life changing!!
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Went to my first 10
Day vispassana retreat, since I heard it from you.
You are officially part of the family :)))) guenka would be happy
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 I’m looking forward to the growth , visited the only Center in Africa , in Cape Town ✨
I went to vipassana in 2018 it changed my life. Maintaining the practice is hard but worth it
I can't find your online class for dating. The 3 phases. Help. I can't wait to take it
I love looking at your content when my emotional immune system needs strengthening. You are the truth and the light 💡
💯 this is the secret to attraction. Masculine energy cannot resist a feminine with standards.
True. That's been my experience.
Also don't forget that you will attract every type of men... light attracts even moths and all kinds of nasty insects. So be very careful, use your time and discernment, most men are not worth it, that's the truth, most want to concur your body. Pay attention to their questions, are they really trying to get to know you, not what you do, your name etc. But what makes you tick., laugh, happy etc. not the basic... that shows emotional intelligence and real interest. Than always ask what their relationship with God, law and truth is, and really listen carefully. Most will run.
💯
Decentering men and focusing on your goals may seem a selfish approach but it makes them crave your validation.
Nothing inherently wrong with being selfish IMO. Putting yourself first is almost always the best choice when it comes to relationships with men tbh
Only insecure men
I fall in love with myself when I dump losers before they keep repeating inexcusable disrespectful behaviour
Eew.
Ik what you mean
❤😊
I love how every video is a variation of "don't become attached so quickly and hold firmly onto your boundaries"
The reminder works great every time
Another way of saying, 'Don't give yourself to a man too easily.'
Just maybe, many women who have a weakened emotional immune system are survivors of childhood trauma and highly dysfunctional parents.
This video is packed with great information to help those who didn’t receive love as a child and want it so badly, yet can’t figure out what they need to work on within themselves to heal. ✌🏼
Πολύ σωστά!
😍😍😍😍😍😍 yes
True
My meditation practice is fasting. When I need clarity and to strengthen my immune response I pray to Yahweh and fast for a few days. This always rebalances my nervous system in a whole. This is possible because I truly trust God’s will and plans for my life. When I feel like I’m trying to take control over everything I let go and let God. Then I hear God clearly and know what’s meant to be for me will be.l and I keep it pushing.
sis I love this!!!!!!
Fasting is incredibly effective and beneficial. You can hear God much more clearly. It's not easy though so I suggest starting slow. Skip a meal..and ask God for guidance & discipline. He'll come thru!
Beautifully said! I will take on your practice because it makes so much sense, we need to stop thinking we are the ones controlling our lives, God has greater plans for us 🧚🏻 thank you for reminding that, you have a beautiful soul 🤍🪽
@@danilaroche1156truly beautiful!! This comment section has taught me so much 🤍 guess this is also a God’s plan 🧚🏻💌🪽
Woww
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
You have to stop the thought of her when it enters your mind, so many people are going through the same thing, I have many times in my life, time will heal your pain plus being as busy as you can , you'll meet someone else.
I blocked a guy the other day because he mocked my boundaries. Gtfoh respect me or nor
Exactly next!!!!
💯
You go girl! Proud of you ❤
Nice
Nah fr 😂‼️
A man is supposed to pursue the woman he wants. So it is written,.... the Bible..... so it is said in the word. I respect it, so i listen.
To follow this, people should get over of anxious attachment style.
No matter how many times I stop watching Alex’s channel and choose to not want to believe his advice, I always somehow find my way back, he is 100% correct guys
I'm an empath with boundaries I than kyou for these videos. I love your hair. I am thankful that I married ny best friend. We did not have to play such games.
Let them come to you stay in your divine feminine energy . 🎉❤😊
Don't close the channel pls😂 man, I just love you... Thank you for another great vid 🎉
He said he was gonna close it?
He’s been saying that for years
😂😂😂😂
Yes. Y'all don't listen 😢@@Quebonitoeslobonito123
I have a “ friend “ who is truly a narcissist- like the malignant covert kind . She always did things to throw my nervous system off . After many years I learnt to not react bc I discovered that what she always wanted was a reaction. Once I realized that , I reclaimed a lot of my power back. This also applies to dating and like you said , I leaned to leave quicker. One little secret is to not be invested in other people’s approval ( specially at the beginning)
The crazy part is when the Ex that caused the girl to be weak like that is not a BF but her abusive family and she has to emotionally move past them in order to start dating again.
You're damn straight. I'm 28 and I'm just now, not only realizing, but trying to FIX these problems
@@morganchristmas6299 wish you success on that journey, me too
“Strong immune response” ooh I like that phrase. 🙂✨🥁
“Emotional immune system” 😅
He's Genius❤
All right here's the analysis.. some wounds are not created by romantic relationships.
Also wounds don't make you unworthy of love. After thoroughly reviewing the text, here's my analysis:
*Harmful or potentially hurtful views:*
1. The text implies that people with weak emotional immune systems are easily gullible and lack self-esteem, which could be perceived as shaming or stigmatizing individuals who struggle with emotional regulation.
2. The speaker suggests that people who don't set boundaries or assert themselves are "easily played" and "emotionally easy," which could be seen as dismissive and unempathetic towards those who have been taken advantage of or have difficulty setting boundaries.
3. The text implies that individuals who have been in abusive or toxic relationships are somehow flawed or weak, which could be triggering or harmful for survivors of abuse.
*Beneficial views:*
1. The importance of developing self-awareness, emotional regulation, and boundary-setting for healthy relationships and personal growth.
2. The need to prioritize clarity and firmness in one's actions and emotions to maintain respect and avoid being taken advantage of.
3. The suggestion to practice meditation for strengthening emotional resilience and developing a stronger emotional immune system.
4. The emphasis on having a long-term plan and clarity about what one wants in relationships and life.
5. The encouragement to develop a "threatening presence" (confident and assertive, not aggressive) to deter potential disrespect or abuse.
*Specifically helpful points:*
1. "Develop a threatening presence... by limiting nonverbal cues... and having a plan."
2. "Set standards and be willing to discard people who don't meet them."
3. "Practice meditation to strengthen emotional resilience."
4. "Have clarity about what you want in relationships and life."
Please note that while some points may be helpful, the text's tone and language could be perceived as somewhat aggressive or shaming, which might not be suitable for everyone, especially those who have experienced trauma or abuse.
😳
Well d@mn. This was most helpful. Baby, where your channel at?? lol 😅👀❤️
Great summary 👌
@@Cocohontas82OKAY??? Cause I’ll be their first subscriber 😭😭👏🏽they ate this up.
Outstanding and thoughtful comment. Thank you, giant soul. You said everything.. 🌹
This is so true however, verbal and physical responses are handled differently. In person i have learned to fix my face, never let ppl know how you feel even if they are creating a scene. I treat them as if they are not there so i don't hear or see them. Verbal is a lil different, if my relationship is a long-term intense one, being emotional i can lose it.
U ignore men n they come hard on u chasing...
💯
💯
Yeah just like my ex have been chasing me for years lol
Facts ...its the weirdest thing 😳
If they don’t chase they were never interested in the first place. And it’s a bit confusing especially if ya’ll had a bunch of sex or they were previously interested (maybe for shallow reasons like you were skinny or pretty). The truth is they never liked you for you they liked you because you made them look good
Yeah im about to walk away from a relationship im in. He doesnt communicate with me as much as he use to...time to walk away
Same here sister 😢 what is happening with you right now what you did?
@@siddiquasheikh2058 over 2 billion people in the world. Move to the next. Date outside your race.
This is how ive been feeling lately about plp. Ive been protecting my piece. The more you let them disrespect you the more they get bolder and the next disrespect is worser.
I honestly like these self concept videos more.
I love the way that he's elaborating on these things that have been so unspoken. ❤❤❤
We are all energy frequency and vibration only vibrational matches to our frequencies are what can show up. That's how you know what's running your subconscious..... if things show up that you think you don't want, there's some program or pattern or have it that needs clearing out because you are admitting something you don't want. Or perhaps you're focused on what you don't want, the secret is to focus on what you do want❤
The reason people move their standards is because they are recreating their childhood wounding traumas and emotional neglect😢 we make excuses for people which is not our job to do, because as children we have to make excuses for our parents and their toxicity or their dysfunction, it's a primal need that we fragment ourselves with because we have to survive within a family unit, no matter how damaging it is.. we carry that into adulthood without realizing it
This goes for all relationships and in business too. Such important advice. Thank you!!! 🙏🏻
Yes people need accountability especially men.
Been a while since we heard from Tyrone the personal trainer. 😄
Please, not Tyrone...thats my sons name..😂😂😂
.(On a lighter note tho)
🤣🤣
Sending love from africa, been watching your videos since 2019 , I appreciate you father Alex❤
I choose emotionally unavailable people because I can't fall in love with them. They attract me and are my dopamine fix, nothing more. I love to chase them! And then I get bored. Emotionally healthy ones give me an ick. Yes, I need therapy. I'm hoping one day I'll be ready for my golden retriever that's safe, goofy and kind.
12:06 From Your POV, makes Total Sense! However, If a woman is Weak, and was Controlled, If you Had Real LOVE, PURE Which I honestly don't think you've EVER Learned ( & I don't mean felt a twinge of Luvvv) If You Are LOVE & You like this woman, You Step Up and Nurture her out of her Weakness into her true strength Through Love. Sounds like you're used to living in a Tough Ass Jungle , 🌴🌴🌴 Where it's Toxic Male Dog eat Dog...
Absolutely Never drugs- Never- if I have Problems I will get me out of there and search for help or Go to a psychologist-
Someone else would describe what you are defining as pride. The aloof kind of pride. Most people don't like that , they won't even approach you. There is no one way of attracting others. I think everybody has their own way of gauging someone worth being in a relationship with.
Sometimes the one pursuing does not want the prideful kind, they want the agreeable kind. So really there is no one way of gauging someone liable. Everyone has their own type. Standards or no standards. Everyone has their own type. It does not mean when someone is agreeable they agree with everyone. They have their own type. They may tell you to go to hell in the most loving way, if you don't understand them you will be pursuing indefinitely till you know they don't like you. The agreeable type are most no nonsense type the world has. They are just nice people. So be careful with the kind of believes you have. That is the world for you, it has different kinds of people. You know what you want as an individual, so keep it to yourself and hunt according to what you want, don't think almost everyone does it the way you do. Everyone does it according to their personality.
it is Vipassana. I did it. what you said about it is true.
It’s been some years since I’ve seen you. You look refreshed💙
24 k gold video on self respect. Best I've seen🥇👏
I had to leave a man because he literally tried to change everything about me. Why be with me if you need me to something else? I was open to wearing what he wanted an following his religion that I disagree with. Until i noticed his requirements of me continue to evolve at his will. We'd have conversations and agree then later I'd get scrolled with a new demand that we already agreed was ok before.
I can't be with a man like that. Men who claim to be good leaders then suffer from effective communication and always change and expect you to just give up yourself for them scare me.
Men like women with the same mindset!
Men don't like women trying to be men. Da fuq?
Wow, this was so very powerful for me
I like the good vibes! thanks for your advice, it's very helpful
I am learning to discard people based on the standards that I have quickly
So trueeee thank you so much❤boundaries need to be protected
I love everything you mentioned in this video. ❤️ Thank you for your view points.
I have not looked at Your videos for 4 Years. You look much more Younger now. Congratulations.
GOD, healing, low stress, healthy diet.
Thank father Alex we've evolve thanks to You 😊
Suave, Charisma, Confident... Smells like a Narc!
This video was really insightful into a man’s mind. Thank you!!
… »or I’ll close the channel » 😂yuh so funny & yuh content is supreme! Thank you🙏🏽
I love your videos father Alex
You are so smart Alex. Keep up the Good work. I am enjoy your channel as a woman
Don't forget that everybody has a packpack! Everybody has been through shit in life! Some even more then others, not everybody has the perfect life!
11:55 my ex wanted me to believe EVERYTHING he believes. If I have a different opinion he calls me masculine. It could be as simple as the shape of the earth. So annoying
Your videos have helped me so much ❤
You’re awesome bro! God bless you !
You are very emotionally smart, mate.😉👍♥️
Omg my favorite thing is when you threaten to shut down the channel…and also Melissa and Tyrone…just hilarious 😂
thanks father Alex.i needed to hear specially this video today.
Love your content
Alex how are you spot on with the advice that I need !! Thank you universe 😜✨💫🙏🏼😁
I’ve had that feeling of repulsion
Lets address daddy issues and women who are actively practice getting over them 👏🏼
Seems like men don’t want to build anymore. They just want the end product 😞
Same 4 women
I agree
I am so over the flattery and empty words
Thank you King💚💚
“Emotional immune system” 👌🏼
Hola mi bello. Can you make a video explaining how to detach from the guys who hurt your ego? This guy cancelled on me once and it’s like a curse
I second this. How to detach from someone who hurt you, or someone who left you. Please Alex
That’s going to be hard to do unless you have an avoidant attachment style.
It takes practice.
The Bible says that God is close to the broken hearted. Oftentimes, we subconsciously pick the wrong men. I decided to allow the Lord to help me navigate this shaky dating terrain. I don't have casual sex anymore. 100% clarity, self respect and high quality men started approaching me. Even got a few marriage proposals.
Ok this is so unique and informative.
Now I knw one reason my guy is attracted to me😂 I match his defensive side-big time😂
Ai told me I am going to marry someone named Alex. ❤😂🎉
Do you have a long term gf or wife? If not how do you know?
This the one!!!
Alex it is called “the ick” 😂
I’m new and this is good.
One great video 🫶🏼
I love this video!!!! I love you Alex ❤ chicago here 📍
Hey absolute props for the new presentation of the course, I'm legit interested finally!
Good video
He's so right
Yes indeed very true!
Damn! You're totally talking to me❤ i really needed to hear this! Thanks
Thank you for this
Alex i went 7 times to Vipassana in Dilsen also Thailand.
What you said, it changed my life.... 🌱💚
Much love from Amsterdam.
Would love 2 debate with you about life 💫✨️✨️ and love❤
Meditation every day will change your whole being
This was sooooooo good!!!
Did you try avoiding salicylates foods for tinnitus ?
10:53 Han Solo from Inglorious Bastards is the funniest mixup yet 😂😂😂
We love you
Not Retriever go like a crazy Chiwawa 😂😂
💯 %FACTS🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amazing video.
Thank you and bless you 🙏
This is very informative. Thank you! ❤
I would download so many videos
you won it where u mentioned vipassana.. :)
Vipassana ...it IS the most powerful thing anyone can do.
Can you teach us how to give dream women vibes to men , even when we aren’t his type ? How to TURN heads energetically
I think it's a combination loving yourself & being humble. All at the same time. You have to embrace your womanhood & you must have a solid friendship with Jesus. Life changing!!
Love this!
you helped me soo muchh thank u alex love youuu
13:51 Emotional Resistance? Or WALLS???
Should you do this at work? No right?
This video is the one
No.