7 Things Men Say When They're Falling in Love with You

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  • @LjubicaNaJutjubu
    @LjubicaNaJutjubu ปีที่แล้ว +858

    Having watched this video, I have come to realize that no man in my life has ever fallen for me 😄

  • @ashleyjones3652
    @ashleyjones3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I was dating this guy who was playing it cool because he was trying not to scare me off. I watched your videos, and he was doing all the signs that he was in love, but he hadn't said it yet, and I was too scared to say it. I let things happen naturally because since your videos suggested we were on the right path, I was not too stressed. Now we are official, in love and very happy. He is still respecting my pace and doesn't try to rush any of the steps. He just lets me know when I am ready; he is ready. I have only ever known toxic men, and this is the first time I have been dating a gentleman. I honestly owe so much to you because I never thought this type of man actually existed until I saw you and your videos. So, thank you for allowing me to open up to love. I had to trust the process and trust that love can be real.

  • @beverlyschultz9276
    @beverlyschultz9276 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    At 63 and on match for 18 months, I have finally found a man who can say all of these things with genuine honesty and gentleness. Hang in there ladies and be very genuine and he will too.

  • @annemariemaes5819
    @annemariemaes5819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    The man I’ve been dating for 5 months never tells me any of these things. Makes me really take a hard look at what I’m settling for.

  • @nearlysomewhere5797
    @nearlysomewhere5797 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Was dating a man for a bit less than 2 months. We had known each other for years prior to us both getting divorces. He had hit 5 out of the 7 here. Everything was going in the right direction. Chemistry, attraction, common backgrounds with family and our adult children. Then one evening after he had made me dinner, he was confiding in me some very specific details about his childhood with his mom, and then about his ex. He told me how much trust he had in me. We were so close it was surreal. Then he left to use the bathroom and when he came back he didn't even want to hug or sit next to me as we had been. It was like a switch went off and he became platonic. We ended it a week later, but remain passing friends. Another friend who knows him and felt we would be a great couple was sad to hear the outcome and felt he may be a commitment phobe (whatever that means). I had to let it go and try not to think about the "what ifs". When you find someone that is such a good fit later in life it is difficult to see them throw it away, most likely out of fear or past treatment.

  • @jenniferbrownlow8473
    @jenniferbrownlow8473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Mat, I really appreciate how you always display your points on the screen and then recap them at end of your videos! It makes it a lot easier to follow along with you and retain the information, especially for visual learners like me. I know it’s such a “little” thing but well worth the time and effort you put into it!! I think it sets you apart from others in the field and I know for me personally when I’m deciding whose video I’m going to watch I will gravitate towards yours because I always know it’s gonna be a home run for reasons listed above. 🙂 Thanks!

  • @clairekat1313
    @clairekat1313 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    This makes me happy because I tend to overthink and this made me realize that the feeling I have for a man is mutual 🥰

  • @hollydusek597
    @hollydusek597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He did all of those, and said that I am home. Wherever we are I am home. Yeah, we're engaged 😉👍

  • @emoke150
    @emoke150 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok that's my gay best friend!

  • @pedrodavidgonzalezmorales5088
    @pedrodavidgonzalezmorales5088 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me a gay man realizing i say these to my friends, but in a romance setting i never get them haha...

  • @shrinidhipatil335
    @shrinidhipatil335 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    1. How can I help you

  • @Elizabeth-bt5iz
    @Elizabeth-bt5iz ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Omg, I hit the jackpot with my BF, I got all 7. We are so connected. ❤️

  • @sajgonka16
    @sajgonka16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What I here many times is "You make me feel amazing/ loved/ alive/ important/ good" and truly love to here it <3

  • @evelynbyrne9955
    @evelynbyrne9955 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hi Mat. Just want to say I appreciate the way you tell us what you’re going to teach, teach it, then tell us what you taught. So easy to understand. You’re an awesome teacher. Thanks so much for what you are doing.

  • @getawaywithpam
    @getawaywithpam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for all this signs. He said he loves me but I don’t get to hear all this from him yet. So giving it time

  • @tabathakohler5964
    @tabathakohler5964 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I had this in almost every relationship I had. Unfortunately after years things change and life happens so it does not always work out. But I hope and pray that my exs are okay and doing well even if they are not with me. 😁❤

  • @herfknlife
    @herfknlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yayyy all the checks !! 👏🏼🥰 thanks for this video because I can feel his energy but he hasn’t blatantly stated I love you . But these points all help ! 😁

  • @blondielocs3165
    @blondielocs3165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Let me just say after listening to this.. I am excited about where I am with the amazing man that I have been seeing for two months.. He is definitely hitting all of these points… He is so refreshing to my spirit….I look forward to growing our future together…

  • @nourhanashour1179
    @nourhanashour1179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I signed up for your course, Mat! Can't wait! Been registered since you did that video with Helena 🤩

  • @Bizarrebread
    @Bizarrebread ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so much for this video! I have a hard time knowing my emotions well enough to see whether I'm falling for someone, having these guidelines helps me cross-reference my past interactions!