There is NO Court Order that orders DAD to PAY Child Support | He doesn`t owe me anything
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- Confirmation of child support arrears
Dad makes $25 an hour and only works 50 hours per week but generally he works 60 hours a week
the court order states this child support ended as daughter graduated from high school although there is another child that's still under the age of 18
the court order that was done in 2019 didn't order Dad to pay child support for the child unemancipated minor
the way this court order is written dad doesn't have to pay child support for that child
Mom cries and says that's not fair
Apparently Daughter was not fully enrolled in a accredited high school education program that allowed for child support to continue past her 18th birthday
home schools generally are not accredited
Child support is money paid by one parent to the other parent for the purpose of providing financial support to a child or children. Most frequently, child support is paid by the non-custodial parent to the custodial parent, but this is not always the case. Depending on where you live and the agreement you reach, the child support you pay or receive and what expenses it should cover will vary.
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Father should get credit for all the extra child support he did pay!
You must not have been paying attention, at the very end there the judge clarify that was an issue for a separate government entity to handle. Odds are if he brings it up she'll have to pay him back and if she doesn't have the ability to do that then the swbt owed here could be used in place of if the parties agree to it. It's also his responsibility to know his payment schedule, he should have stopped paying months earlier and she should have stopped receiving it early. In the end his claim against her is called something like unjust enrichment. It was clearly an error
@vfreeman3188 They take it out of your check, so how are you going to stop it unless you quit working ?
The state took that money and run
He will get an offset or refund from the state. Trust me they won't keep the money. It may go towards administration fees once the child ages out.
Having have dealt with this, the state will call them voluntary over payments and as such the state doesn't have to pay them back to the father or give him a credit for them.
The states position is that any errors or over payments are on the father to address in court in a timely manner.
Too many women really want spousal support disguised as child support.
One, child support shouldn't exist. Two, if it's going to be done it should be fixed like tax deductions and credits for children. A child can easily be provided for around 300-500 dollars a month; especially, if it's not full coverage, so that's what it should be regardless of income. Not to mention, if the mother isn't working, then the father should have full custody, since it makes no sense to pay for them to live with someone else.
in my state 300 will cover food and thats about it. plus the added cost of a second bedroom place clothing and any other expenses. i can see 700 being more than resonable, but like anything it would depend on the sate/location@@litigioussociety4249
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Why shouldnt you pay for your child?
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@@litigioussociety4249child support absolutely should exist if the Father refuses to coparent. If the father will split custody and takes care of the kids while with him then no support is needed. There are plenty of deadbeats out here making new families and leaving their kids behind. Every case is different.
Only working 50 hours a week, usually works 60 hours! That’s a hard working man!
The job he works he is sometimes looking for new work the hire him to complete ONE job.
standard hours in these expensive times.
And was penalized for it.
And they’re still trying to tear him down!
That would not be permitted in Australia, nor would they get anyone to work those ridiculous hours. That is appalling.
He paid $750 for 2 kids. Now he’s paying $750 for one child. How does that make sense?
Inflation because idiots voted for Biden.
That's the judicial system...
If a guy oays for one child, that child gets between 25%-50% of the man's income. If he pays for two, child 1 gets 15-22% and child 2 from 5-10%. Each amount goes down, until the 10th kid gets like 1% of the income.
You can praise the fvkked up system of "justice" in America.
The original order was based off of his income at the time which was a lot lower. the new order is based off of his present income.
@@amberstorm1139nothing is ridiculous if both parties agree and sign the order. Evidently both of their signatures are on the original.
Because "America".
It's crazy how many people forget child support is for the CHILD, not the mom.
If only that was “true”
It's not. Odd you wouldn't verify that. It's for the costs associated with raising the child. Associated is keyword.
They haven't forgotten, they dont care because that the way the law has been written.
Please! As if mum's don't use it to but as long as the Child is continuing well it's good to just soldier on
My (child support) $ allows her to buy cigarettes and beer…just like when we were married, while my children show back up my place starving and actually take food with them back to her place. SMH
I got one for ya fellas. My name is Donterry Woods, my daughter was kept from me so much that I only saw her about 10 times within 11 years. I went to jail at one point for missing payments. Little did I know, my daughter was being abused and had a cyber relationship with a man in his 20s when she was 11. I LEGALLY kidnapped my daughter since there was no court order giving sole custody to her mom took her to court and won custody!!! My daughter has been with me almost 5 years now. She went from Ds and Fs to being in college at UNCW at the age of 16! Keep fighting dads!! I hope this made you guys feel better!
This glows fed
@@Chad-oh5ik just trying to make the fellas feel better about how the world doesn’t care about fathers. Idk how you got that out of this.
Congratulations!!! God bless both you and your daughter. Peace and blessings always 🥰🙏💯
what took you so long?
Great dad
why is he paying $760 for one child, when he was paying $750 for two kids. THIS STILL ISN't FAIR! WHY DOESN"T SHE GET A JOB
Bc that's how CS works, when you have say 2 kids and your monthly support is 800 a month and one ages out and owes no arrearages when the one child drops off they aren't going to half it, they will take maybe 50 bucks off or so...my dad was to pay 100 a week for 2 kids (this was late 90s early 2000 (I was 18 in 2002) when I dropped off, dad had thought it would go to 50 a week and when the judge dropped it to only 80 a week my dad throw a shit fit in the court room... Btw my dad has been at the same machine shop since I was like 6 I'm 40 now and he's still there he will be 60 in Nov 2024. And has always made well above average he just didn't want to pay mom shit...
Yeah he gonna have file a petition for child support review and he will win to reduce support…. It’s funny how ugly they get in the face when it doesn’t go there way🤣
It depends on how much money he and the mom were making at the time of each child support determination.
I suspect Mom does have a job. But she has the child the vast majority of the time and likely makes way less than 57K.
@GoodnightJLH We watched the video, instead of doing actual math to see the actual calculations
The judge made an high child support as a form of rear payments
ONE DAY WOMEN'S CONSUMER DEBT WILL BE TREATED EQUAL TO A MANS CHILD SUPPORT OBLIGATION.
THEN, SOCIETY WILL HAVE A PROBLEM WITH EMOTIONAL LEGAL ORDERS THAT BEAR NO MATHMATICAL REASONING
Due to Greed
Imagine paying child support for a child whose married and lives with their husband
This is why we need abortions if one of the parents don't want to be a parent.
Agreed. Many entitled gold digging people believe the child support from mom or dad doesn’t end at 18 😂 or they move to Hawaii when it’s about to end or going to end like Kevin Federline and his wife 😂
worse the child he gave money to the mom for was living with him and then moved in with her husband. Sooo She wasnt getting it. The mother was
Funny how he could not make that over pay returned to him that she spent, but can make him back pay child support. Fine about him paying for the. 14 year old.
Up to him to speak up.
Judge needs to treat mothers as equally able to hold down a job.
Some courts will actually assign income to unemployed parents in cases like this when calculating support.
Yes!!! This judge always goes out in the Dads, but since he speaks all calm, folks think he is being "compassionate & fair"
Why should men who make less then a woman pay almost whole check?
@@jonosay854 dunno about other cases, but this one seems adjudicated according to the law. what i'd really hate is a judge that decided what he thinks is fair and ignore the actual law or overstep his authority. this is all assuming the judge went directly by the given formula and didn't try to make up for the loss by making the new child support amount higher than it should have been
@@foxpaw1ah yes the law that lets women lie about paternity with no consequences. The law that has terms like “legal” father. The law that creates terms like “squatters rights”. The law that protects thieves. Yea I know the law
Poor mom, the gravy train isn’t running anymore. Her crying is despicable
huh? she's getting the same amount of money for 1 kid that she got for 2 kids.
@@crosstudioExactly, idk why she's even crying lol
Yes my kids mom was mad when she found out I was no longer having to give her money. What a great day it is 😅
@@crosstudioshe is getting $7 more.
@@michaeljenkins1491my ex wife was like that as well. Then took me back to court and was mad b/c she was gonna be homeless b/c CS wasn't paying her mortgage.
I also had her financial records summoned and she misused CS and was ordered to pay me back $9K.
Ahe has yet to do so and my kids won't speak to her b/c she lied to them and stole from me.
Another example of how fathers are shafted in this anti-dad court system.
Hell, all he has to do for YEARS is work 60hr weeks to pay his exes meth habits.
So True!!
At least the judge didn't make him pay the back child support
He actually caught a lucky break. The mother's attorney way back then screwed up the language of the order and stopped the CS with a minor still in the house. That saved him 10k 🤷♂️
What are you talking about? He's a deadbeat dad. He just got away with ripping her off for two years of child support.
She's crying because she now realises she can no longer afford the vacation she had booked.
Miami trip went down the drain 😅
Emperors package Caesar’s palace
Unreal that you have no clue what your talking about. He pays 750 in child support and what she was crying about was back child support. The back child support he would payed was 25 dollars a month. Not really something you plan a vacation on. Maybe she is crying bc she is sick of that man not doing what he is supposed to do for his children and she is tired of doing it all on her own. Seems plausible.
@Justme0288 unreal that you're complaining about my obviously sarcastic statement by writing your own ficticious statement.
That's what I said. You can't miss what you never had. She had big plans for funds age thought was coming her way. I find that to be the most hilarious thing ever. Honey make your own money and whatever daddy gives is extra. Put it in a savings account. But bigger question is how the hell you don't know when she graduated. SMH
No way she is that upset about child support if it was going to the child, she has been using it herself and he needs to go after the AG office for overpay. The kid is 18 not a infant.
yep, because alot of "mothers" that get child support 90% of the time will use it on themself FIRST and whatever money is leftover they MIGHT give it to the child for clothes etc.
But she has a son who IS NOT 18.
I think she was upset because she thought she was gonna get back pay for all that time
I hate it when people assume the money should just go into a little kid wallet or purse for them. Lights, gas, car expense, rent, clothes, cable, wifi, new bedding, toothbrush, soap, laundry supplies, on and on, extra curriculum activities, etc. All that goes into a child's life. And they set it based on what is earned by both. Women who don't work( yuk BTW if you get away with not having a job on this day) goes to minimum wage number.
If you put a baby in someone, then leave, or however it happened ya split, ur child deserves to live the standard of life you are capable of providing. If you think baby mama gets a " come up" from this, well oh well. Too bad. Deposit ur seed in a woman who makes more then you. Then go work for minimum wage urself. And get custody of the kid and she will have to pay you. It's just what it is. Wrap it up next time or don't divorce till they grown.
Most of what you listed should already be provided by yourself in the first instance, in order to be considered a fit parent. If you can't afford detergent independently, you can't provide clean clothes for your child. If you can't afford your utilities, you can't provide them for your child (heating/AC being a necessity dependant upon state). If you can't afford internet independently, you can't provide it for your child, and realistically, just shouldn't have it, if you can't afford to provide it.
The other parent has to provide these things whilst they have custody of the child, and they're not getting support of the other parent.
As stated, most of what you listed, you should be capable of providing independently of child support payments.
I mean the big one is rent - your housing/living arrangements are your own responsibility, if you cant afford the rent independently, you need to find a place you can afford, or, face homelessness and a potential loss of custody
Mr Smith paid support when he wasn't obligated to, so he should be given credit for the payments already paid.
right, the record shows he paid 9 months longer than he should have, I guess he already had some arears already?
He has to file a writ to have it returned or have it calculated and adjusted to 9 mos in the future and if it’s granted he won’t have to start paying for 9 mos cause mom already got paid and she knows it but wants to sniffle cry for sympathy and I really don’t get how these women be acting like the world coming to an end when things don’t go their way put ya big girl panties on an keep moving
Once he files the paperwork, he will get it back in the way of payment on arrears.
@@chrisjackson9429It's considered a gift
@@Winddancer1991not necessarily. It's considered a gift. Plus he would appear in front of the same judge either way
The mother needs to get a job.
Why is she crying, did she think that child support was gonna be a lifelong thing?!
Yes…yes of course
Well I think what happened is that she thought she was gonna get back child support in which she woulda technically got a big ass lump sum of Child support but because of a judicial error on child support order he didn’t owe her shit
Yes women do think child support from Father is a lifelong payment, including gov assistance of 220 euros of each month for each child here in poland. They get used to with free money and fancy lifestyle
A child. Isn't a child. At 16. Let alone 18....
She thought she was going to get a big payday
We have such a fucked up system for child support. Dads are getting screwed every day.
i am 75 and i can tell you it's always been a fustercluck.
Then stop shoving your goddamn baby making stick in these thirsty bitches. I had an ex that was crazy and all she wanted was a baby I knew damn well to get the hell out before anything bad could happen.
@@donwelch6612dang and no one fixed it through the years...
@joeshmow1583 you sound like a b*tch, fact of the matter is men don't stand a fucking chance against this corrupted as system, speak about these pos women who takes advantage because of the system. I hope guys start dropping they asses to be found and I mean that in the worst way!
When I owed child support, the state of NY said that they didn't care if I lived in a cardboard box on the street, the only thing that matters was the child support, not whether I had a roof over my head or not. The system is rigged in favor of the mother. My ex worked for her lawyer, and even got an increase to keep her high expensive living routine.
She was wanting that big payday so badly😂
That is why she was crying.. maybe she could get a job instead?
@@grbenway
What makes you think she doesn’t work? I can’t imagine she was surviving very well supporting the kids without getting any child support if she wasn’t working.
Sounds like she won't have a choice...?
That's the thing; She WAS receiving CS...This was a modification hearing (She was asking for more CS...) Sounds like he was paying the months that he could, and went into arrears for a month or two. All that $ + interest + fees must be credited back to him...
It isn't though, it is $30 extra a month on the child support.
Once the last child aged out she would only be getting $30 a month.
Why does the dad have to pay the court costs, when he's already getting sacked for child support. Seems unfair.
The whole system is rigged against dad
Oh it's bad. Really bad. Never ever put kids in court. Your better off handling on your own. If you can't. You're still better off. The system is really bad.
It gets even worse. He also has to pay taxes on the entire thing and the money she gets is tax free.
Just let the system eat itself, don't pay fines and be homeless like me.😅
As both parties stated.. Neither ask for this case to be before the judge. The state of Texas simply wants it's cut of the money that get processed through the system. It's a self serving system. Conflict of interest and a reason the "system" will never be fixed. It's another income producing source for the state.
She went from saying the kid graduated in 2021 to the judge to telling the lawyer she didnt know, and telling them what year she was born. Gotta love it.
The attorney general needs to give him his money back that he paid. He has a court order. That’s BS
True. But he can’t get it back when he and his ex are the only two parties in this court case. He will have to first request his money back. If denied, he has to file suit against the AG.
Welll hopefully he does that and he's successful. Im so sick of this type baffoonery.@@GoodnightJLH
@@IndiTol-qo1eghis kids never got that money. That's what he was asking and what the commenter above me said. Think of it this way. He now has to pay the 765 plus for the one kid going forward. He owes like 2 grand back however he paid for that year and the state has that money. He will ask the state for it back and In a perfect world he would get it minus the arrears and continue paying for the one kid going forward. The state will probably deny this and at that point he can sue the state for it or let it go and the state keeps it but it won't go to the mother (supposed.to be for the kids) because there wasn't an order for it.
@@IndiTol-qo1eg The state took child support from the dad after the first child aged out and didn’t send it on to the mother. The first court order was f’ed up. Dad will have to request for the child support the state is holding to be sent back to him. If he’s a decent guy, he’ll send it on to the mother for his son, but he has no legal obligation to do so.
Most likely needs to file a civil action against CSS, and include any damages/interest/fees in the settlement...
It’s very concerning that neither of them know when their child graduated! 🤦🏾♂️
Yes very.
It's because she didn't "graduate".
Was thinking that
He said she lived with him for half of 2019 & actually had gotten married. If she was married, then child support should automatically stop for her, there is absolutely no reason this woman should get any back child support for her married daughter, even if the girl was married before her 18th birthday!! The day I turned 18, during the fall of my senior year of high school, my dad quit paying child support because I was 18. This was WAY back in 1971.
That's true
I've Never Seen Someone Cry Over Money They Didn't Earn Or Work For...
Raising a kid is work. I would say you should try it sometime. But you should never try it actually.
@@PallasAthenian the daughter he was paying child support for was living with HIM, so according to your logic, she should be paying him for that additional "work".
@@PallasAthenianbeing responsible matters. Try not having kids with losers and you won't have to worry about it
You aren’t entitled. Get a job and don’t rely on others to take care of you.
You don’t think it is normal to cry when your child is deprived of money they need to live a comfortable life? You’re heartless. I lived with a single mom and a dad who only provided for his new family. The amount she cried after I went to bed because she couldn’t give me what the other kids had still haunts me.
From the looks of mama's face, something tells me she's been spending money she didn't have. A LOT of it.
That was my take-away too. Mom is short on cash and thought she could shake the money tree.
Crystal Smith is crying because of how much crystal she won't be able to buy with the windfall she's not getting.
What's ironic is even if he owed a substantial amount of back child support, he'd only be asked to pay it back at $80-100 additional per month. It was never going to be a windfall in the first place. So much drama!
Yeah; But she was expecting a check for $750.00 that day. Most likely went out and took credit on the $ she now isn't getting..."I get paid next week..." Turns out, they owe him $$$/interest, and fees...Poor dude gonna need a forensic accountant to figure out how mich the state owes him...
Still an extra $100 a month she wont be receiving...Judges math is still wrong; By his own ruling, the credit should begin on Nov/Dec 2020...He needs to hire an accountant, and start. removing fees, and adding any credits from there...
The ones like this behave like children. She's clearly to emotionally immature amd poor to have custody of those children. The courts lawyers and politicians are complicit in this mess.
She ain't doing crystal. WAY too portly.😆
Why is only the father responsible for court costs?
probably cause he got off easy today.
Women who can't support their children get benefits and free money. Man who can't support their children and go to jail, let that sink in.
He is the only one working.
Because women are strong and independent as long as a man is paying. Court costs should always be split 50/50
@@tiredofit1968most mothers get off easy 🎯
Sir get an ATTORNEY ASAP!! The judge is giving her back pay without giving her back pay. WTF 😮
You are one thousand percent correct
This is why we need abortions if one of the parents don't want to be a parent.
I’m impressed, a judge that’s actually a judge
I’d be contesting this court ordered child support when he’s paying the same amount on one as he was on two. This is a crap ruling!
Apparently, if you've noticed, his employment isn't stable. That's why. Set it low so he can afford something to pay. Duh.lol
Also, blame the courts.
Technically he was paying for 1 in the Court eyes...that's why when she turned 18 the support ended
Child support isn't calculated strictly on a per child bases. You get a set amount laid out by a formula for the first child, then they add an additional percent onto it for each additional child, something like $500 for child 1 and $250 for child 2. This is because the extra expense of housing is typically covered by the payments on the first child. If calculated at the same rate of pay he made in 2019, it would likely be paying closer to $500 but since he almost doubled his income, the amount of support for the 1 child is increased.
I would say the previous order was written based on wages and formulas in place at the time. At the current time his wages are probably higher and the formula for calculating the amount may have changed. The Dad didn't have to pay back child support. So it isn't really that unfair. After all his younger daughter deserves his support even though she was born later.
@@ArchanDelon12 seems you are saying that when this period of intermittent employment ends, as he's indicated is its nature, he has to go back to court to lower it and she must then file every time he gets another contract to increase it again. btw, it seems the state wanted it fixed retroactively so they wouldn't have to deal with this family, ignoring the illegality of just retroactively rewriting a court order.
Why is she crying? She's getting more than she was getting for both children for just the one child! Plus he has to pay $150 in medical? That's insane.
because shes not getting the past 2 years of back support from oct 2020 to 2022 when she was served.
And medical is free, why does he have to pay that?
Not in Texas, noncustodial has to pay back the state for medical since the state is providing it!
As an outsider of the US, I'm aware that if he can get and pay for health insurance for the kid, and it's over $150 per month, he can file again and her payments would be reduced further.
Why medical can't be paid through taxes is beyond me. 🤷♀️
@@darciedelao6825 The health insurance is not free it is paid for by tax players, so most states require reimbursement for the cost.
Dad needs a refund!
You can safely bet the rent that he will get one, or at the very least, have it applied to his future obligations.
@@richconboy6896 This is Texas, I would be surprised if he does.
Won't happen. State will find something else to apply it to. Likely the other child that is still in school.
He’ll never get a cent. That’s just sad
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Their kid would have more if MOM WENT TO WORK.....why doesnt that question ever come up in these cases?
What? Actually expect an entitled divorcee to work for a living?
Because they can count on him working 60 hours a week. They shouldn't count more than 32 hours a week against child support.
child support is really economy support.
Child support is spent to support the economy.
child support is rarely saved.
It does. I have seen quite a few videos where judges tell mothers they have to get a job, or if they are under-employed (could earn more) they base payments on what they should be earning.
They won't do that due to the courts knowing it'll be less money for them along with less cases. If people looked up child support how it came about and what they can do woman would understand not to deal with them over dealing with them. They use and view woman as cattle to make money from and men as the farmers to the cattle. They treat an view woman as incompetent and helpless. Completely undermind the vaule of a woman due to the out look on woman they have. When it comes to the givwrmant they are treat like children yet think they are thought as adults in the situation. Yet they are more just money to these people over anything.
that lady lawyer Hill-Leonard knew exactly what was going on... she knew every issue coming in and tried to do some weird shit
That lawyer is awful! She should go back to the job, at the Library, checking in books, updating new Library cards, vacuuming chair cushions and sharpening pencils. 📚
@@Letsdolunch2023🤡
She was hoping the judge wouldn't see it!
Shes not a lawyer, she is a worker for the attorney general
@@sabrinawilliams4260She actually is a lawyer. She is a associate lawyer. A lawyer with lesser experience.
Why is he paying more now than he did with 2 children? Why can she not work? I’m so tired of these women who are deadbeats and who the court keeps pandering
Because he makes more money.
@@karenlazzaraspoken like a true leech
Oh, your name is Karen. Makes perfect sense
@@777Buo69Karen spoke like someone who actually watched the video. They said he makes significantly more money than he did when the prior order was made.
Texas child support is 20% of income up to the max amount of 1849 for one child. They cap the amount of the earner at 9,200. If Mr. Smith made 15,000 thousand a month, he would still only pay 1849 dollars for the child.
They kept focusing on graduation... But it actually read that reached age of 18 OR graduated.
Once the kid hit 18 he was done. Period.
I noticed that too but the smug judge missed it with his arms behind his head acting like he just solved an impossible riddle when, in reality, there were two key words: “any” as he discovered and the word “or” which he overlooked. Shame on the state’s attorney for missing these key words, taking him to court, and then requiring HIM to pay court costs.
Barry is over there relaxing and having a smoke after the judge said “He doesn’t owe you any money”… 🤣🤣
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He did. He owed 1025.00. But that's better than he thought it was gonna be
@@tiredofit1968nope he owes zero
Poor decision on the judge for making him pay More now for one kid than he did for two, Makes No sense , I hope the dad fought the ruling
Why didn't the Dad ask the judge about that in the hearing. Also, he needs to appeal to the state AG about the money he paid for child support that he didn't owe. Receive that money back from the Mom or have it credited to what he still has to pay her.
Most of these dads are cucks that will never stand up for themselves or even bring an attorney to do so. They'll just bend over, take it and work more overtime
Actually, the judge followed the law for Texas. This woman was expecting to be awarded 2 years of back child support and she left with nada.... further, I can say the father absolutely would get credited for the continuation of the child support beyond the original end date of Oct 2020. He would just have to go court to get it addressed. I wouldn't be surprised at all if the whole "arrears" that he has on the books was wiped out by that too.
Can ANY woman come to family court, not get her way and NOT cry to manipulate the judge? That must be so annoying for judges.
That crying would aggravate me so bad and I'm a woman!
Shouldn't judges by now know better not to fall to their wimps? Seems like they like it.
There are 2 guarantees with these cases: The mom will cry. The dad wont bring a lawyer.
As bad as this seems i think overtime should not be touched by child support. Ever
@angeiang7006 Because over-time is not guaranteed. The courts base the rate off last year's tax returns over-all. One year you can make $150,000 ot built in, the following year your company can do drastic cuts thus significantly reducing your salary.
@@angeiang7006 I’m sure sitting there at YOUR kid’s activities is the same as working. Grow up.
@@dmoney8373grow I pay for all of it. Work 112 hours a week. To pay for daughters 22 hours a week gymnastics 1 hour a way. Do the math. It’s 4 hour practices. So far away I stay where she does gymnastics. I could’ve worked and made more please stop. U have no clue. FYI I don’t watch who does that.
@@user-dv7nk7hy3fno it’s not but u make it happen for ur kids if u give a f. Kids are not for ur happiness. U there so they become better than u. Teach them. Let them grow. Sorry that takes money. Y do rich put their kid in travel sport. U thinks it’s just because they are good at it. A lot of rich kids suck. But it teaches them a lot!
@@dmoney8373112 hours a pay and still take my kids to their stuff an hour away because I can’t depend on their daddy to do it. Taxing af. But will better my child. My overtime goes all to my child! Why shouldn’t his
I bet Child support wasn’t used for her child. Strong independent women !!right ?
Maybe cost of living
@@Onewithdessgetting a job helps with that, like her bum leeching ass should do.
My daughter is in her second year of college. Her "father" and i divorced when she was 2, he never paid a dime, never bought her as much as a pair of socks, i never took him to court, i figured you can't make a man be a father. She never went without, had everything she needed and most of what she wanted. Some men are worthless, some women are worthless. I imagine its been that way since time started.
My ex is a multi millionaire. We have a disabled child. He doesn’t pay anything. So thank you tax payers for all the insurance as I take care of this child alone. Like white trash. (I work part time when he’s allowed at school) so unfortunately the system does fail. Especially when you can pay off the judge. FYI. If you don’t want to pay child support- just make a bunch of LLC’s.
She doesn’t need anything from the dad…..only money 😂🤣
"When did your daughter graduated?"
"I don't know, she was born in... so I guess..."
Parent of the year right there.
That was very telling to connect the truth of what eventually came out..... she didn't graduate from h.s!!!
I caught that too. The dad said 2020 but when he first asked the mom she said no 2021. The judge asked again and that’s when she said idk 🤦🏾♂️. I just knew he was gonna get on her for lying but everyone just danced right over it!
How in the world does a parent who has custody of their child not know when their child graduated?? I have 4 and know to this day when they each graduated. First she disagreed with dad on the year then wants the judge to do the math based on when the child was born?? Lol Some kids don't graduate at the exact age that most kids do either due to repeating a grade based on their grades or lack of attendance. Parents really need to get it together, especially if they're going to go through this process of court. Document & keep copies of EVERYTHING in chronological order.
@@debracoggins6825Some people don’t have as good of a memory as others, especially when it comes to dates or numbers in general. There may be mental health issues contributing, and then there’s just the simple fact that they are in a court hearing right now. That can be extremely stressful, and when some people get nervous they have a problem thinking straight.
I don’t think we can really judge a complete stranger off of that. I know that I love my child more than anything in the world, and I gave my everything to raise her and give her the absolute best she could have (and still do even though she’s an adult herself now). But if I’m in a stressful situation, I wouldn’t just be able to rattle off her graduation date to you if you asked. There are some things like that that seem to stick in your head for eternity (for example I’ll never forget her birth time, birth weight and length, and phone numbers from my childhood!), but sometimes I can’t even remember how old I am! That doesn’t have any bearing on my ability to love and provide for my child.
You look way too old to be playing this character of the shaming villain. So let’s not play the judgmental mom to other parents, Debra. It’s a disgusting look in the absence of anything serious. She’s a woman in distress, whether we understand or agree with the reason she’s in distress or not. She’s obviously not going to be at her best right now. I’m sure you’re not perfect, and I’d like to see what people would comment of a video of one of your worst moments put up on TH-cam for everyone to watch and scrutinize.
My children are grandparents themselves but I can remember the years they finished secondary school (and the rest) even now.
The arrears are unreasonable. His support was ended, he shouldn't be forced to pay for a judicial error.
He needs to consult an attorney.
It seems the dads never want to get a lawyer
So a couple gets divorced and comes to an agreement about child support, then later she doesn't like the agreement and a judge says "I agree let's redo this" ....Unreal
Murica
He can sue the AG to get his money back
This attorney is HORRIBLE
A real p.o.s. hope he appealed
They are not attorneys.
Diversity hire
Topiachu actually got a job
@@chula686 Chula? Por favor...
Could you tell me which of the ATTORNEYS present was the diversity hire... Estoy muy interesado...
Especially since there were CERO attorneys actually present in the call...😂😂.
Muy mal Chula, Muy mal! 😂😂
The way she is acting. It was just for the money.
Barry passed away in Oct 2023. I pray that these children are doing okay. Seems like a decent guy trying to do his best. May God Bless his children and Grandchildren.
The father passed away?
That mom just wants free money. Disgusting.
For her child?
@@nikkid4890For herself, mostly her upkeep.
You need to put your listening ears on because the judge specifically stated he has no jurisdiction over that matter due to federal laws. He did, however suggest, that the father take it up with the attorney general's office!!!
@@angelicrealtor you need to put your condescending ego in the toilet and flush it into the sewers. Listening ears….what a D bag 😑
What in the world was so sad that she had to cry? Did she think she was getting a big payday and planned on a big purchase?
Bingo
Mine got a new car afterwards. I still drive a beater
Sounds like she owes a dealer for her pain killers
its a natural response girls have to manipulate the situation. They all learn it at a very young age and use it through their whole lifes to achive goals.
Yep! Probably promised her new boyfriend something, and thinking he’s gonna leave her now!
This woman doesn’t want to work, she should be working instead being dependent on Child Support.
She was expecting 7k back pay with 1500$ a month after. She is pure evil.
She already had that Miami trip booked I'm sure
American women are lazy what’s new.
Miss Smith just get a job !!
In her eyes, child support is her job
@@Juggerknot1328he is taking the call prolly between jobs trying to make it .. she’s sitting on her butt.. laying out on the patio .. nah she ain’t getting no job maybe another baby daddy but no, no job… she’s too lazy to even workout her Only Fans muscle 💪
I’ve been screwed by my ex. I’ve watched friends get screwed by exes. I have zero sympathy for this woman. ZERO!
Makes me glad I am a closeted Gay man!
@@douglaswilkinson5700 Lol
@@douglaswilkinson5700it happens to gay men too now. Welcome to modern society. Rofl.
The woman is crying and she's literally the perpetrator of this. She is responsible for all of it and he's a victim of her being a predator and she's upset because she doesn't get free money for taking a man's child from him.
@douglaswilkinson5700. Woh woh woh! You're not gay man....just deeply closeted.
Mom, you need to get off your behind and do something. I am a mother of 4 and believe that all involved should take care of the child. But not when mom is doing nothing.
I don't see Ms. Smith being capable of home schooling her children.
She didn't, she said she paid to have her privately home-schooled, i.e. she hired someone else to do it.😅😅
The RIGHT JUDGE would make her GET A JOB!!!!
Mr Smith appeal and get it lowered. Homeschooling no babysitter no special needs kids…GET A JOB
Wow! The mom needs to get a job. Mr.Smith didn’t make the children on his own.
I’d love to see payment sheets done for both parents. majority custodial parent can pay more if they spend more time with the child. Parents paying hundreds of dollars and only seeing their kids one or two weekends a month when they aren’t incurring the costs is nuts. Support shouldn’t be a penalty for not being with their kids 24x7. Each parent should just pay for expenses when they have the kids and split custody fairly. Then both parents need accommodations for the kids and are spending the same amount.
@@shawnacaron1809 Totally agree. The default position should be joint physical and residential custody. No child support and no alimony. All marital assets split down the middle. Neither parent should ever have a financial incentive to divorce. Neither parent should ever be able bludgeon the other with the threat of financial ruin and an every other weekend "parenting" plan.
How did that lawyer get the facts right here? Didn’t she read the court order? If she read it, didn’t she understand it?
She either missed the technicality or she tried to slide it by the judge. It sounds like the attorney general’s office missed it too so it must be an easy mistake to make. It’s very sad that the mistake was made in the first place.
Because Mama needs her Drugs, she sounds so High!
I doubt she read it. It's a very atypical court order, and the judge said it wasn't fair, so it shouldn't even be the way that it is. She probably assumed that the child support order was just standard, but this one isn't. It's wrong. It's not supposed to say what it says. The attorney general didn't screw up, the attorney who wrote the child support order is the one that screwed up. Even the judge said so.
She only read the parts important to her...The judge taught her a valuable lesson that day. Read/understand EVERYTHING. Details matter! LoL; Divorce atty trolled another one with the old "any child", trick...Divorce atty's do this on purpose to troll other lawyers.
She understood it. She was being sneaky.
Why is she crying she should feel blessed that she has the children with her every day.
Why is she crying? She can't afford to take care of the2nd child...she shouldn't have custody. The court doesn't care about the child's best interest... they care about getting money from who earns the most.
The father got screwed! He needs to appeal this ruling right after he gets off zoom. That lawyer is shady AF and she should be turned into the bar. Moms so upset because she thought she wasn't going to have extra money to spend on whatever. She should have a job and actually be made to support her kids like the father is. This ruling is so wrong 🙄
Appeal? Laughable. The system worked as designed. It extracted maximum resources from the man for the profit of the woman and the state via Title IV D.
@@MikeS-7 👌
Exactly. 750 for 2 kids then. And 760 for 1 child now? He should've had a lawyer or voiced how it was unfair. Child support goes down and kids age out. Not stay the same
@Steve-qr2lo They get away with it because men are more individualistic. Somehow we need to organize and shame the people responsible for these laws and those sitting behind the bench representing women as their clients (both the OAG and judge). Judges use their discretion for women and follow the letter of the rigged law for men.
@@PrayingPanda pretty sure his income went up.
I wonder how old the youngest child is. That may be the reason she is so terribly upset. The child may be close to aging out. 😂
Really despicable how she starts crying when she realizes she missed out on some free money. Just the thought that he doesn't have to pay kills her inside.
Poetry in motion
I love how everyone assumes that the mother has nefarious intentions because of the child support. She may just be struggling to keep up her household, which includes everything needed for the child who is still a minor. People always think the worst of the mother or the father, and just sometimes, they're just trying to honestly make it.
@@lianithomasprewitt2428 maybe dont get a divorce then ? or get another job......no sympathy for this ridiculousness , all the time and money wasted in court could have been spent on ACQUIRING funds to "make it". Shes lazy and doesnt want to work, her body pretty much shows that.
@@Rye___amen 👍
@@lianithomasprewitt2428well everyone has a choice, either get a damn job and stop leaching off the system and others, or just don’t get pregnant and have children!! It’s very simple 😊
Based on this court order (point #1), if any child graduates at 16, or any time before 18, child support stops.
I was just going to say that. I'm glad some one noticed as well.
Only in that particular order. Circumstances vary and most orders are not written this way. Unless it's a special needs child financial support is required until the age of majority. Very often provisions are made to continue portions of support through college. I
Or quits school
@rustynails8756 special needs kids don't deserve extra time
my children were raised by a mother that took off across the country. both my kids dropped out of school at 16 and moved out of thier mothers house. my daughter was 23 and married and i was still paying child support. 7 years i unjustly paid child support. i would have been fine with it if i was paying it to my children.
if she's currently relying on child support payments, send her to judge Vonda B
There you talk right!Judge Vonda she's the best,good and just judge.
.......so the laws in america change depending on what judge you get? Americans will never cease to amaze me with the things they say and think. After listening to a judge explan 5 different times, multiple times in detail the exact situation around this law and this case...but nooo bloody diane dobson and mthom are the real experts hiding in the comments 🤣🤣
@@dar4061 I'm not sure why you think this is unique to America.
There are inept people throughout the world that can and do ruin other people's lives.
That show is completely scripted.
She probably had big plans for all arrears. 80" TV, New purse and shoes, facelift,etc. lol. Then heard the bad news that he didn't owe her shit!
Bet she already spent it, she was planning to pay the credit card off😂
@@jondoe406 Hahaha
So many women claim to be strong, independent women right up until there's bills to pay or they have to get a job.
To be fair she’s probably never claimed this
@@existential09do you know her personally and every word she said?
Love how the judge can take and change money as long as it's for the woman
I'd love to know when the mother truly spent $750 dollars in a calendar month on her child. Never! Ever!
Most likely on rent and food which is the kid
@@melaniejarrett2953she charges her child for rent? Please. A child does not eat 750 worth of food. And a child SUPPORT payment is to support the mothers income so the child is not impoverished or malnourished. He isnt supposed to pay for the entire kid.
Oh please
@@karynsilva9834 oh please what? Tell us what a child uses that costs 750 a month? School was paid separately, and insurance was covered separately. Break it down for us
@@melaniejarrett2953….your kid eats 750 dollars worth of food???….and as far as rent goes….you charge your child for rent??? You are by far a way worse parent than anyone shown in the video
It infuriated me how her face changed when he said she WAS going to get a check. This order still isnt fair AT ALL, hes paying the same amount he was for 2 kids for 1. And in all reality hes supporting his ex. Plus he paid when he had them full time and after the order should have stopped. I hope he takes it back to court she needs to support herself.
Yeah brothers coworker has all three of his kids 24/7 and is still paying a crackhead $500 a month in child support
@@beverlyarcher3744 that's just wild. I feel bad for him. Thank god those kids have at least one solid parent. I cant stand how kids get used as a weapon. I'm sure if she really doesn't get the kids he can get it modified
sadly he passed away in 2023, hope the kids are ok.
@@kevinprzy4539 oh no, that's so sad. The only parent they had with there heard screwed on properly is gone. So sad. I pray the kids make it out ok.
Mom is pissed her ATM machine is no longer available, has nothing to do with children.
This is why we need abortions if one of the parents don't want to be a parent.
This is why we need abortions if one of the parents don't want to be a parent.
The tears of a woman who was promising people money because she thought she was getting some big back pay.
%100!!! Gonna be some very angry people after this..."I told you, NEVER loan $ to anyone, for any reason!!!"
That isn't how back child support works though, she gets $30 extra a month.
@@MA-mh1vsbut she's getting the same amount now for 1 kid that she got for 2. That's why men need lawyers.
@@PrayingPanda A lawyer would not change the fact that he is making more money than when the old order was done. It goes by a percentage of the income, if he still has two kids it would have been even higher.
Ahahahahahahaaa, NAILED IT! Why didnt I think of that!? I'll bet you're exactly right 😂
All of those tears for his money. For adult children
Over $700 a month for a child is uncalled for.
Hallee Berry pays 16,000 per month . Charlie Sheen pays 55,000. Now those are some crazy payments.
Right! My car payment is half his support payment. I don’t think I’ve ever spent my car payment on my kid after he outgrew daycare. My jaw drops at how much support some folks have to pay knowing damn well it doesn’t cost all that. I know someone paying over $1200 a month for his two kids and his ex doesn’t work so she’s home with the kids when they aren’t in school. Like, they aren’t eating lobster every night, wth.
My dad was paying my ex step mom $900 for ONE kid, which was my half brother! It’s based on your income.
Ha ha ha. I had to pay $1800 for one child. Until learned the rules. 😂😅
The state receives $0.66 on from the feds for every dollar it collects in child support. The state doesn't make any money if it were to aware physical custody to the father. Even though common sense says he has the monetary ability to rear his son without the intervention of the court. This arrangement isn't in the best interest of the state.
Why did the judge levee the costs of this proceeding on the father. The AG brought the case only to find out they had no case but he still has to pay for the court costs???
Dads always get screwed - SHE CAN GET A JOB
It’s convenient that the child left public school to be home schooled in her senior year causing ambiguity about her date of her graduation.
She wanted that lump sum back child support you ain't going to get it Becky😅
This Mother's reaction just proves she looks at child support as a job, instead of what it is actually intended.
Child support ended when the one turned 18 and yet it took the "system" a year to stop it since he obviously assumed he was paying for both kids. Not hard to figure out.
Sounds like 2 years...Depemding on the age of the second child, his CS obligation might very well be close to being done...
Yes. HER ass should be paying him.
Ms. Leonard is a liar who tried to hide things and not mention them, hoping the Judge would not notice or see them. He did. You are disgusting Ms. Leonard. Shame on you!
She should be disbarred
I'm not quite sure what she did wrong. She didn't have access to the previous court order, so there's no way she would have known that it was supposed to have been terminated. Whatever attorney wrote that court order is the one that screwed up.
Nah; She simply didn't read the order...The "any child", stipulation is an old trick divorce atty's use to troll the opposing council. If anyone screwed up, it was her OG divorce atty for not catching the mistake...
@brentfarvors192 she's making crying faces/sounds. She should be given whatever she wants.
@@JeremiahLOsborne hell she wasn't even a LAWYER when that order was written.
The state wants their money since she is on support. The judge looks like he’s wrong as he ignored the emancipation clause.
She thought she was going to get a 2 yr back pay payday!.................Dude ahead of the game actually
1:40-ish - I would never tell anyone with Child Support I work more than 40 hours a week. It is just WRONG that they force people to continue to work overtime because they so happened to be getting overtime when they were in court. That is sooooo wrong. 40 hours a week should be all you are required to work.
I agree.
Except his pay stubs will show his actual hours and earning. To lie about it would result in committing perjury.
@grumpyoldlady_rants they aren't saying not to say the truth but that courts shouldn't hold overtime against fathers.
@@jasonwethy8360 - I get what you’re saying.
Honestly is the best policy😮
How does this mother not know the year her daughter graduated high school. Her answer was “I dunno she was born in 2002 so ‘21 probably? That’s how that works”….yikes
These people are nuts.
This system is so rigged and doesnt cost 700+ to raise a child that mom should get a damn job.
The amount is based on the father's salary.
It includes part of rent ….car ….all of it…..and is based on dads income….try to keep up
It absolutely does cost that much and more. Especially if a child is in private school, daycare expenses, don't even get into sports! If the child has a chronic illness.like asthma, ADHD, special needs, need braces, glasses, tutoring for the God awful state Staar Test, needs a car for school, car insurance, school field trips, basic toiletries, school uniforms, their feet grow every year, a high school senior year is HELLA EXPENSIVE. Even college applications are costly. Even elementary kids require wifi for daily homework...However she does need a job.
@@mrshappilymarried1 both parents jeed to pay for day care and tye child can go to public school and medical is usually covered with the parents job. Just because one has the kid for two more days doesn't cost 700 a month for the one parent , there is a lack of holding both parents accountable.
@@Whatsthe_dill I have 4 children and daycare alone for our twins was more than $700 a month. You really don't have any idea the money public school cost in a year. School uniforms, school supplies, fundraisers, PTA events, you must have no idea. Health insurance is astronomical. My coverage is better so I carry everyone and it's over $300 per pay period. Our son was born with an eye condition and has had 3 surgeries since birth. There are out of pocket expenses BEFORE your deductible pays their portion. His glasses alone are $400.
I could go on but I won't. Bottom line is Children are Expensive yet Priceless Little Blessings that cost more than $700 per month.
It's so stupid that he paid child support for 2 yrs and then hits him with a 1700$ that he missed but doesn't go back and credit him for the amount he already paid when he was not suppose to. People forget that child support is for the child, so the mother is crying acting like a victim is crazy to me.
She’s crying like a child because she doesn’t get back pay. Pathetic.
She should be embarrassed! I cannot! Crying!🤦🏾♀️
Boy her feelings were big hurt!!!! She must have made a decision based on the money she thought she was going to get. the lawyer that wrote that order deserves atleast a drink!
Attorney General need to give him his money back..
😮 the father should be getting a refund of his money back. Sound like to me he overpaid since his daughter graduated and now married come on now. 😮 BB, have my money 😅
Why does it cost more for 1 child than it did for 2?
COLA.
Economies of scale
My guess is his income went up.
His income is much higher now.
To make up for the time he wasn't required to pay support.
$750/mo, even for two children, is highway robbery.
It's based off the income of the one paying. You should see how much some guys pay for one child but makes over 100k a year. Thousands a month bro, thousands.
@@jonathancarr4998 Yeah, it's an absolute joke. There should absolutely be per child cap based off standardized cost of living in the area.
It’s a lot of money, but if you play you pay and I am not for overcharging, these men but children are expensive actually living is expensive so if you’re paying for two children 750 is not unreasonable
@@MeandDexter It does not cost $375/mo to take care of a child. $375 is groceries & utilities for the entire family. The parent receiving support shouldn't expect to pay their own rent and have all expenses covered for child support, that's not what it's for. It's to support the essential needs of the CHILD.
Whatever food that CHILD needs that month, clothes that CHILD needs each month.
Im paying 380 a month for my son.
Why is she crying.? Good grief!
Her Free ride is coming to an end
Legend has it, she kept crying until she completely depleted her body of liquid. She became so dehydrated that she eventually passed away. God rest her sweet soul. Mr Smith is still paying child support to her.
😂
She upset because she felt she was going get a big back pay in child support... Funny as Fuk!!!;-)
The fact the daughter is MARRIED and living with her husband the past 2 years speaks volumes about these parents.
Seriously why always blame the parents 🤦🏼♀️
@@erikagerstner6591 lol ur funny
From the sound of it dad has a great relationship with his married daughter, while mom can't even remember when she was supposed to graduate while SHE was not only primary but setup the homeschooling.
What's your issue with and adult being married however...?
That's what they do in small towns. Get married and have kids.
@@pii-chan8804 I don’t have an issue. I have an opinion. As a child of teenage parents I know how growing up can be more difficult. As a mother to a 20 year old college student. I’d kick my child’s butt if she even thought about getting married and moving in with a boy at 18 dropping out etc… I want her to be set up for success in life. But some kids just want to get out of crappy homes. I get it. Hell I did it. But it’s bc my parents were 16/20 when they got married and struggled my whole life. I did a little better. I at least went to college and made sure my kid had no excuses. You always want better for your kids.
She is just crying because she thought she was gonna get a nice little pay day for her so she could go shopping for herself. And now she has to cancel her vacation that she had planned.
The laywer was just on another level...even a paralegal knows not to be this sloppy Lorddddd
What about the judge? He signed it.
@@TowGunner He said he didn’t, if you watched the video lmao.
@@aj897
Talking about the original order stating ANY AGE. A judge/magistrate/whomever has to sign off on any action. This judge even stated how SOMEONE wasn’t doing their job. Jesus, can’t believe I have to explain something so simple.