@@taxcitybagtalk No I'm saying the qualities that make most people successful (usually through competition) are masculine qualities. A woman can have those things and still very much sit in her feminine. But often strong successful women can go into dating with the same energy that made them successful, where coming from that feminine space serves them more
@stayslickwithkit hence why a strong woman needs a strong man. It is the weak men who see these women as masculine and I guess feel intimidated or annoyed. It all boils down to the level of respect she has for her regardless of what she has.
@@psc6716 No, masculine men just aren't looking for themselves, they're looking for someone who compliments them and their energy. The irony is that it's feminine men who ARE attracted to these kinds of women (the masculine attracts the feminine and vice versa) but most women just don't want feminine men. While there can be a few men who are 'intimidated', this reason is often over-used as a cope for why these women are not being chosen by the men they actually want, instead of looking at themselves reflecting on why they don't attract the kind of partner they want. Because they could, but they would have to change what/how they're doing it. This "intimidated" reason for everything avoids accountability. Just because a man doesn't choose you doesn't mean he was intimidated by you. He most likely just doesn't want you.
@stayslickwithkit tbh I have heard men said they would never date a woman who earns more than them or has more than them. These men are indeed intimidated. A lot of times women who are considered 'strong ' won't necessarily judge a man on only what he has. Sometimes she just wants love and attention. I have seen women who have all their assets choose men with far less just because they want to be loved. I would consider my personality a strong one, I have spoken a guy before with a not so strong personality and it did not work out. In his eyes I may have been a bit too 'masculine' and in my eyes he may have been a bit too 'feminine'. As a result, my partner after him (current) is who I would describe as a 'strong' man. Unlike the previous partner he does not feel threatened by accomplishments, independence etc. At one point I was earning more than him and it did not bother him at all. Hence why I said, sometimes a 'strong ' woman needs a 'strong' man. Ofc it varies on a case by case basis. But not in all circumstances a strong requires a weak to compliment them.
My brain cells killing themselves at this point.
ENERGY IS EVERYTHING
Actually good wisdom
I'm not intimidated by successful women, I just find them to have an attitude towards I'm not willing to put up with
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There is also the fact that successful women tend to be out of shape and it’s less offensive to call her intimidating than unattractive
Maybe im taking the content out of context but youre saying a woman having her own house and car is masculine 🤔
@@taxcitybagtalk No I'm saying the qualities that make most people successful (usually through competition) are masculine qualities. A woman can have those things and still very much sit in her feminine. But often strong successful women can go into dating with the same energy that made them successful, where coming from that feminine space serves them more
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@stayslickwithkit hence why a strong woman needs a strong man. It is the weak men who see these women as masculine and I guess feel intimidated or annoyed. It all boils down to the level of respect she has for her regardless of what she has.
@@psc6716 No, masculine men just aren't looking for themselves, they're looking for someone who compliments them and their energy.
The irony is that it's feminine men who ARE attracted to these kinds of women (the masculine attracts the feminine and vice versa) but most women just don't want feminine men.
While there can be a few men who are 'intimidated', this reason is often over-used as a cope for why these women are not being chosen by the men they actually want, instead of looking at themselves reflecting on why they don't attract the kind of partner they want. Because they could, but they would have to change what/how they're doing it. This "intimidated" reason for everything avoids accountability.
Just because a man doesn't choose you doesn't mean he was intimidated by you. He most likely just doesn't want you.
@stayslickwithkit tbh I have heard men said they would never date a woman who earns more than them or has more than them. These men are indeed intimidated. A lot of times women who are considered 'strong ' won't necessarily judge a man on only what he has. Sometimes she just wants love and attention. I have seen women who have all their assets choose men with far less just because they want to be loved.
I would consider my personality a strong one, I have spoken a guy before with a not so strong personality and it did not work out. In his eyes I may have been a bit too 'masculine' and in my eyes he may have been a bit too 'feminine'. As a result, my partner after him (current) is who I would describe as a 'strong' man. Unlike the previous partner he does not feel threatened by accomplishments, independence etc. At one point I was earning more than him and it did not bother him at all. Hence why I said, sometimes a 'strong ' woman needs a 'strong' man. Ofc it varies on a case by case basis. But not in all circumstances a strong requires a weak to compliment them.