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I love your ideas… great topic. You are wise and smart. You know your topic. My humble and sincere advice to you is to slow down your speech a little bit. You seem to talk a little fast. Thank you for what you do. From Abidjan, Ivory Coast, West Africa. I am subscribing.
1. Avoid women who believe in sex clubs or threesomes unless you’re into that type of thing 2. Be careful when their sexual intimacy suddenly changes out of nowhere 3. Run if they’re always argumentative over the most trivial things 4. Definitely beware of the little details not shared 5. Personally I wouldn’t date a woman who wants to maintain friendships with ex boyfriends 6. Don’t fall for the tears when you decide to walk away for your best interest (plenty of good women available) 7. Avoid women who seek attention from other men or ask why you don’t chase them
"1. Avoid women who believe in sex clubs or threesomes". This includes her need to use nudist beaches, shaving her "nether" region, and extremely revealing bikinis.
Disrespect is a clear sign that she lost or never had respect for you. In either case, once it's gone, it ain't coming back, if it was ever there, to begin with.
Facts. And I would add; A relationship is supposed to be just like a friendship but to a higher degree. It's not about making her feel like a queen or making him feel like a king. It's all about Building a bound of trust and kinship. (Example; if y'all can have a good time or great moment without sex and money on the table ---- then it is a true relationship.)
@@hammertyme8392 Could it be simply that these men are smart enough to know they need help in areas that she is better equipped to handle? As long as she is respectful and it works for them let time tell the validity of it. Egos are put aside, and having to control everything isn’t healthy for either person.
Facing challenges in relationships is part of the journey, but there’s always a way forward. My marriage encountered significant issues, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to overcome them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are attainable if you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate. Keep your hope-solutions are out there.
I’m facing major problems in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her greatly and am prepared to do whatever is necessary to have her return. I’d be deeply grateful for any advice or guidance you can offer.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
Damn!!. This is a Must View Video - Before, During and After a Relationship has failed - I'm guilty of making over half of these mistakes- Thank you for taking the time to post this content, especially #2: - Women who are unimpressionable, and who compare you to their past.
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
I am 62 now ...I can say you are right on the money! All those things and events I experienced and can relate to but never gave too much thought. If I knew all those things as a young man growing up I would much better position in life.
1. Accept a woman that is non cooperational. 2. Accept a woman that is non impressionable. 3. Accept a woman that doesn't acquire compromise. 4. Accept a woman that doesn't value equally all important traits in you. 5. Accept a woman that has close male friends. 6. Accept woman complaining without stating clearly what her issue is. 7. Obtain sense of validation with a woman at the expense of respect and appreciation for you. 8. Bending to a woman's lifestyle not being able to afford it. 9. Accept a woman who is hypergamus. 10. Accepting to resume a relationship with a woman who has cheated on you.
Let's clarify #7. Do not value 'love' over 'respect'. A woman that respects you will manage days her love for you is low better than a woman with no respect for you.
Never come back with a woman who cheated on you. That woman neither valued you nor respected you. When a woman doesn't respect you, infidelity is around the corner.
This is pure GOLD!!! Yes.... it dramatically reduces options..... mental health, time and freedom are far too priceless to waste time on unqualified partners.
The moment you accept to be with a woman who most of the times will want you to bend to her wishes instead of her bending her desires to fit into your lead, especially when your lead is for the best good of the both of you, you have become Ahab and she has become Jezebel to your life. You are doomed sir. Utterly doomed. That relationship is headed towards dark places and will be full of damaging problems.
Bro. Darwynn you have become my Social Media Uncle! Thank you Uncle Mac for this highly informative and enlightening podcast! I'm age 73 and I experienced ALL TEN of these MISTAKES! AMEN-ASE!
I love when I see a woman helping out at the self care wash; if you find that one, don’t let her go. If she’s willing to get her hands dirty alongside you, there’s no ceiling as to where you two can go in life.
I watch videos for both men and women so that I as a women can better understand the relationship. This is the best video I have watch which is for men. I think these are very smart things to watch for. Any women not fitting within these things, is not relationship worthy. Run from any one else. If a man is worthy of these things from a women and wants the give and take of these things, he too is a quality man.
Wow I can relate to the topic! I recently encountered a situation where most of the 10 things mentioned I observed in this particular lady. For reference, I am 73 and she was 67. Both of us have kept ourselves in good physical shap. We met at the gym. Now, she was attravtive for a "67 YO" female. But the problems was she felt as if she still had the attributes she had when she was in her 30s 40s even 50s!! Example I talk to her twice and went on one date that was all it took. She insisted a man has to take her out to a Fine Dining experience one a month. During other times, a regular one would suffice. Oh, and because of her eating schedule She insisted it had to be before 6pm dinner lunch no later than 12:30 constantly talked about her ex husband who she had been divorced 26 years ago!! Not only that she married him twice!! She talked nonstop about herself, as if she was the only one in the conversation. She lefted me a 3 minute voice message to confirm our dinner date You get picture. And this is a 67 YO female. Good luck you young guys looking for wife material😮 She really thought she was the PRIZE.
If I had heard your message years ago my life would have been 100 times better. Ever mistake you mentioned I have experienced and it has caused me nothing but grief. Thanks for you insight 👍
This kat genuinely might be the next Kevin Samuels. His camera/studio setup game is on point. He has a strategy and he is going for high style. His points are articulate like KS or any pastor/preacher
Thank you @julez4002 It is an honor to be mentioned in the same sentence so i have to show respect and pay homage to Kevin R. Samuels, RIP to the legend. This motivates me. I will increase the pressure! Thank you sir.
Mistake #2 Reminds me of that lady on social media posting a 3 inch tape measure stating "if you're this, you better watch your tone when you're talking to me." 😆
Reminds me of that skit from Queens of Comedy. The female comedian said bigger dudes can only talk with aggression with women, but smaller dudes have to speak softly 😂😂😂. Brutal, man.
Let's put it this way, your girl should support you 110%! ! ! This goes beyond cooperation ! ! ! She should absolutely put you as No. 1 in her life ! ! !
so just be authentic in every situation to your self with your partner. i realized i do the" right thing" when im just simply doing what i feel is better for me, youll end up finding youll end up right beside your other half.
Subscribed. Darwynn, right out of the gate you had me. I’ve practiced all ten mistakes you’ve laid out. I’ve made, all ten mistakes. Your delivery, the content, spot on. Great stuff. I’ll also add, that the things you’ve highlighted aren’t necessarily “natural” for men. Any of us. These are lessons we can learn the hard way and most do and? It’s amazing how quickly we’ll forget them with the new girl. Or, explain it away with a “she’s not like that”. Good stuff. Great video. Thank you.
Thanks for your wonderful comment. Glad to have resonated with you Jack. You are correct. Men have to learn by trial and error. Sometimes that way have results that have a permanent impact. Which is why I have inserted myself into this space to work as a cheat code giver.
Every one of these is bang on. Women are NOT the prize. A good woman is the prize. These women are confused of their role and these men are weak. What does she add to your life. If she doesn’t bring peace and sex and intimacy when you want it, it’s a no go. Men don’t get to neglect their duty to her so don’t let her neglect her duty to you. There are worse things than being single.
This is actually my first time of stumbling across your channel.And trust me, when i say your content resonates deeply. More power to your elbow ,man-quite a pukkas job,you are putting up here!
Welcome Aboard!!! I am happy we connected! If you need anything shoot me an email! Also I send out weekly tips through email if you want to get exclusive advice here and there. The links for more content are located in my TH-cam profile and in some of the video descriptions. Again ChristianDon glad to have you!!!
Dont bend to a woman’s lifestyle if its beyond your current means. This is so important in this current age when women keep screaming “I want a provider”👌🏾
If a man you don’t accept your wife to have male friends. The same for men also with women friends. One thing I believe as a man you are the leader you have to be an example for your family you can’t ask things that your are not ready to do
This is stupid. Our responsibilities are not symmetrical. If i require a child, it's because i cant give birth to one myself. If you require sperm, its because you cannot produce one yourself. If you need a protector and provider for life, its because you are incapable of handling that responsibility over a lifetime. Attraction is not symmetrical, so although i dont condome men having female friends that do not provide economic value, it is not your place to tell a man how to lead.
Damn this is good. I’ve heard a lot of relationship advice, but brother Darwynn you make it make sense. I’m subscribing and locking in Now. Keep bringing the content. How can I support you?
Sign up to my email list. Link is in the description sir! I send out weekly gems and tips on relationships. It may seem like I’m serving you but if any of my brothers can make it easy for me to keep them aware that is supporting me and my cause
Why a good woman could never find a good man? Like wise men,some women and some men make relationships so hard for we the good ones out here,excellent advice 💯👍🙏🙏🙏❤️
Well said sir , most of the mistakes you said here I have done in my last relationship, I tried to make sure it worked but at the end it didn't so when you talked is as if you were talking to me ...😢😢😢
These rules can also apply to men. My ex was constantly looking for someone newer and better. Thank you for this information. It will help me find someone compatible to me. Great information.
The first one hit me in the gut and sent me into tomorrow. I'm in the process of dumping someone for this exact problem, and my friends are trying to convince me to give her a chance
A note about respect. Respect in an LTR must be earned and maintained by leading properly as a man, retaining frame and being consistent in shaping behaviors for you both. It is disrespect that must not be tolerated, you must say this in a conversation early on, and you must consistently call her out whenever she behaves inappropriately for the health of your relationship. ❤
In France we say that a woman and a man cannot be close friends ,if the woman or man is already married .Meeting with other married couples is the answer.
She'll be back as soon as that marriage fails whether i am there to give compliments or not. She remembered me. Telling her no male friends will work while you are together but when that marriage ain't working anymore. It's, "Hey, how have you been doing?" from her. 💯🤷🏿♂️😆🤭🤭
RIGHT. ON. POINT.🤨 You’re not like a lot of these weak kneed influencers that want you to bow to the sista hood! I wish I had this kind of info growing up but now that I’m way north of 60, I’ll keep your info top of mind! 🎯💯
I agree Darwywn. Team work trying to help. Yes but women will not like a man who is has been through many many women is not one I want. Compromise is absolutely necessary. A man doesn’t necessarily have to lead but agreement and compromise
@darwynnmcpherson it was very good, spot on. This is a topic lm into really deep. We need seminars for High School boys & teach them the truth about what's really going on IF they even have a chance at keeping a good woman. I'm lucky l have one yr 30 I'm 64 on #2 after 13yrs in it. So I know all too well, l married my 1st gf. Got too comfortable she found Chad.
8:37 well this mistake is tricky. A woman is like a child. Now imagine a child whose parents are so strict and keeps this child indoors always, someday the child will feel that the parents are too strict and will want to know why his parents are locking him in. That will lead to the child going out to experience something else. So I will say let her have a balance of it. Why you are observant let her know when she does something you are not happy with
I sign off on all these 10. Fellas if you want better then you have to prepare yourself for that. The best you can be. For you. All 10 here are great points. Good deal D.
@@marguskiis7711 I know it sounds like that. The point that D is making is you have to know yourself first and then, only then is when you'll be able to search her out. She'll stand out for you. Know what you want as a man. But much more important know what Margus needs next to him. Then you'll easily be able to weed out the posers and pretenders. Hopefully this will help you to understand more. Listen D is next level the way he break things down. Not everyone will get what he says, let alone understand. You have to already be made the same way. That's why I know he's next level. You'll be ok. Don't put such a strain on finding her. Stay working on you.
“The more men she’s been with, the less impressionable she is.” This is just flat out weird. Unless you’re the type of man that feels threatened when a woman understands what she needs in a relationship, it’s just a false assumption. Like yeah, she might be more adjusted to her own preferences than a seventeen year old virgin, but the correlation between number of partners and personality just reeks of bad male aspects like controlling and manipulative.
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@@professionalpookieor whatever you label them…
According the video is literally inpossible bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
I love your ideas… great topic. You are wise and smart. You know your topic. My humble and sincere advice to you is to slow down your speech a little bit. You seem to talk a little fast.
Thank you for what you do.
From Abidjan, Ivory Coast, West Africa.
I am subscribing.
Well said
1. Avoid women who believe in sex clubs or threesomes unless you’re into that type of thing
2. Be careful when their sexual intimacy suddenly changes out of nowhere
3. Run if they’re always argumentative over the most trivial things
4. Definitely beware of the little details not shared
5. Personally I wouldn’t date a woman who wants to maintain friendships with ex boyfriends
6. Don’t fall for the tears when you decide to walk away for your best interest (plenty of good women available)
7. Avoid women who seek attention from other men or ask why you don’t chase them
Defn number 7
#6 was my biggest weakness since i was the "hero" type
"1. Avoid women who believe in sex clubs or threesomes". This includes her need to use nudist beaches, shaving her "nether" region, and extremely revealing bikinis.
@@kwb3612 Thank you brother I really appreciate it your advice
Mistake #1...Not being the Man of the relationship. You must lead!
@bryanrose1793 why is this always thrown around in black relationships
Disrespect is a clear sign that she lost or never had respect for you. In either case, once it's gone, it ain't coming back, if it was ever there, to begin with.
Facts
Its usually she never had respect
Pure facts....
Facts.
And I would add;
A relationship is supposed to be just like a friendship but to a higher degree. It's not about making her feel like a queen or making him feel like a king. It's all about Building a bound of trust and kinship.
(Example; if y'all can have a good time or great moment without sex and money on the table ---- then it is a true relationship.)
A dominant man cannot be friends with his woman. He can and must be friendly, but not truly friends.
Most women will be more of a problem than a blessing. Never settle for beauty over character
🤦🏿♂️😢
This is our down fall, beauty, the eye of the beholder.
It’s because we have wtxeneky poor standards for them.
also don’t let 🐱 manipulate u
I wonder if that's what your mom thought as she squirted you out.
Never let a woman be in charge.
The biggest mistake a man can make is letting his woman think she's the boss.
@@hammertyme8392 some idiots even talk about their wife being the boss 😂 madness
@@hammertyme8392 Could it be simply that these men are smart enough to know they need help in areas that she is better equipped to handle? As long as she is respectful and it works for them let time tell the validity of it. Egos are put aside, and having to control everything isn’t healthy for either person.
Listen to the vudeo.
@hammertyme8392
If she's the boss,
he's the simp
Respect is central to me in any relationship. Thats my day one. 👏
Heavy on the “she’s been imprinted by other men” 😪. They all comparing you to the so called toxic ex they “hate”
@@3-dreticle826 Soul ties
@@3-dreticle826 me too
TRUE FACTS!!!!!
Facing challenges in relationships is part of the journey, but there’s always a way forward. My marriage encountered significant issues, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to overcome them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are attainable if you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate. Keep your hope-solutions are out there.
I’m facing major problems in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her greatly and am prepared to do whatever is necessary to have her return. I’d be deeply grateful for any advice or guidance you can offer.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
You should
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Damn!!. This is a Must View Video - Before, During and After a Relationship has failed - I'm guilty of making over half of these mistakes- Thank you for taking the time to post this content, especially #2: - Women who are unimpressionable, and who compare you to their past.
I appreciate the feedback! Glad you found it helpful 🙏🏾
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I am 62 now ...I can say you are right on the money! All those things and events I experienced and can relate to but never gave too much thought. If I knew all those things as a young man growing up I would much better position in life.
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
@@marguskiis7711 LoL....Marry them young and inexperienced with a good background is my suggestion. However, that is probably one in a million.
@marguskiis7711 , Never get the State involved in your Relationship. That's how you leverage a Good Productive Relationship 👏🏿 👌🏿
Leverage the Relationship by Never allowing the State to be involved.
That's how you keep a Productive Relationship & your Assets. Salute 🫡
1. Accept a woman that is non cooperational.
2. Accept a woman that is non impressionable.
3. Accept a woman that doesn't acquire compromise.
4. Accept a woman that doesn't value equally all important traits in you.
5. Accept a woman that has close male friends.
6. Accept woman complaining without stating clearly what her issue is.
7. Obtain sense of validation with a woman at the expense of respect and appreciation for you.
8. Bending to a woman's lifestyle not being able to afford it.
9. Accept a woman who is hypergamus.
10. Accepting to resume a relationship with a woman who has cheated on you.
Let's clarify #7. Do not value 'love' over 'respect'. A woman that respects you will manage days her love for you is low better than a woman with no respect for you.
I agree with you 100%
Never come back with a woman who cheated on you. That woman neither valued you nor respected you. When a woman doesn't respect you, infidelity is around the corner.
11) constantly buying your way into the relationship. If she can't look beyond the financial needs, she will bring you down mentally or emotionally.
@@christianhenry4173 The poetic realm has been signaling throughout the ages why. "Money can't by You Love"
The imprint things is true. I’ve had relationship where I feel like I’m competing with a ghost from her past
This is pure GOLD!!!
Yes.... it dramatically reduces options..... mental health, time and freedom are far too priceless to waste time on unqualified partners.
The moment you accept to be with a woman who most of the times will want you to bend to her wishes instead of her bending her desires to fit into your lead, especially when your lead is for the best good of the both of you, you have become Ahab and she has become Jezebel to your life. You are doomed sir. Utterly doomed. That relationship is headed towards dark places and will be full of damaging problems.
Your girl having female friends sometimes is worse or just as bad as a male friend
Bro. Darwynn you have become my Social Media Uncle! Thank you Uncle Mac for this highly informative and enlightening podcast! I'm age 73 and I experienced ALL TEN of these MISTAKES! AMEN-ASE!
It’s an honor to be family my brother!!!! Let’s grow!
Be cafeful with narcissistic women. They are great pretenders.
@@LAQueja very true , I av been dating one for about a year +
I love when I see a woman helping out at the self care wash; if you find that one, don’t let her go. If she’s willing to get her hands dirty alongside you, there’s no ceiling as to where you two can go in life.
I watch videos for both men and women so that I as a women can better understand the relationship. This is the best video I have watch which is for men. I think these are very smart things to watch for. Any women not fitting within these things, is not relationship worthy. Run from any one else. If a man is worthy of these things from a women and wants the give and take of these things, he too is a quality man.
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Wow I can relate to the topic! I recently encountered a situation where most of the 10 things mentioned I observed in this particular lady. For reference, I am 73 and she was 67. Both of us have kept ourselves in good physical shap. We met at the gym. Now, she was attravtive for a "67 YO" female. But the problems was she felt as if she still had the attributes she had when she was in her 30s 40s even 50s!! Example I talk to her twice and went on one date that was all it took. She insisted a man has to take her out to a Fine Dining experience one a month. During other times, a regular one would suffice. Oh, and because of her eating schedule She insisted it had to be before 6pm dinner lunch no later than 12:30 constantly talked about her ex husband who she had been divorced 26 years ago!! Not only that she married him twice!!
She talked nonstop about herself, as if she was the only one in the conversation. She lefted me a 3 minute voice message to confirm our dinner date
You get picture.
And this is a 67 YO female.
Good luck you young guys looking for wife material😮
She really thought she was the PRIZE.
Thanks for sharing.
On point is so many levels. Listen up guys.
ALL FACTS! I greatly appreciate the "Darwynn Principles"! Great reality checks, my brother. Keep up the great work, D-Mac! K.S. would be proud!
You’re welcome 🙏🏾🫱🏾🫲🏽 💯💯💯
Brother, you are sharp. Stumbled on this channel on accident but man I’m so glad i did. KS passed and now we got you brother. Thank you!
Thanks for the support, brother! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 R.I.P. to the Godfather Kevin Samuels!!! It’s an honor being mentioned in the same sentence.
Excellent video! Keep up the great work!
Thanks, will do!
If I had heard your message years ago my life would have been 100 times better. Ever mistake you mentioned I have experienced and it has caused me nothing but grief. Thanks for you insight 👍
You’re welcome Kenneth!!!
Totally understand my brother🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
This kat genuinely might be the next Kevin Samuels. His camera/studio setup game is on point. He has a strategy and he is going for high style.
His points are articulate like KS or any pastor/preacher
Thank you @julez4002
It is an honor to be mentioned in the same sentence so i have to show respect and pay homage to Kevin R. Samuels, RIP to the legend.
This motivates me.
I will increase the pressure! Thank you sir.
I agree. 👍
Mistake #2 Reminds me of that lady on social media posting a 3 inch tape measure stating "if you're this, you better watch your tone when you're talking to me." 😆
@@fourtywater77 muthafuqin’ tone..”
@@fourtywater77 yeah she's a real classy one
Reminds me of that skit from Queens of Comedy. The female comedian said bigger dudes can only talk with aggression with women, but smaller dudes have to speak softly 😂😂😂. Brutal, man.
I was talking to a lady on a dating site, and out of nowhere she said, if you're not 7-Up, hang-up...
Very solid advice, thank you very much for your help!!
Very welcome!
To Know is Not to Know
&
Not to Know is to Know
Respect 👑
Wow. Great video and insight. Thank you Darwynn
Glad you enjoyed it🍻🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
Let's put it this way, your girl should support you 110%! ! ! This goes beyond cooperation ! ! ! She should absolutely put you as No. 1 in her life ! ! !
so just be authentic in every situation to your self with your partner. i realized i do the" right thing" when im just simply doing what i feel is better for me, youll end up finding youll end up right beside your other half.
One of best videos on self care/self love. Simple and too the point. Definitely a good changer. Thanks for sharing bro.
No doubt! Happy to help!!!🫱🏾🫲🏽
Subscribed. Darwynn, right out of the gate you had me. I’ve practiced all ten mistakes you’ve laid out. I’ve made, all ten mistakes. Your delivery, the content, spot on. Great stuff. I’ll also add, that the things you’ve highlighted aren’t necessarily “natural” for men. Any of us. These are lessons we can learn the hard way and most do and? It’s amazing how quickly we’ll forget them with the new girl. Or, explain it away with a “she’s not like that”. Good stuff. Great video. Thank you.
Thanks for your wonderful comment.
Glad to have resonated with you Jack.
You are correct.
Men have to learn by trial and error.
Sometimes that way have results that have a permanent impact.
Which is why I have inserted myself into this space to work as a cheat code giver.
Spot on sir. Spot on. Keep it up. You are doing exactly what you should be doing and kudos for sharing what you’ve learned.
No problem 💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
Every one of these is bang on. Women are NOT the prize. A good woman is the prize. These women are confused of their role and these men are weak. What does she add to your life. If she doesn’t bring peace and sex and intimacy when you want it, it’s a no go. Men don’t get to neglect their duty to her so don’t let her neglect her duty to you. There are worse things than being single.
💯💯💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
#11 - Thinking she’s all yours, but in reality, it’s just your turn.
@@sixfootse7en248 skepta - bullet of a gun
Preach 🙏🏾
Truth. Set em free
This is actually my first time of stumbling across your channel.And trust me, when i say your content resonates deeply.
More power to your elbow ,man-quite a pukkas job,you are putting up here!
Welcome Aboard!!! I am happy we connected! If you need anything shoot me an email! Also I send out weekly tips through email if you want to get exclusive advice here and there. The links for more content are located in my TH-cam profile and in some of the video descriptions. Again ChristianDon glad to have you!!!
Dont bend to a woman’s lifestyle if its beyond your current means. This is so important in this current age when women keep screaming “I want a provider”👌🏾
This deserves a million followers lads🎉🎉🎉🎉
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If a man you don’t accept your wife to have male friends. The same for men also with women friends. One thing I believe as a man you are the leader you have to be an example for your family you can’t ask things that your are not ready to do
Bye
This is stupid.
Our responsibilities are not symmetrical. If i require a child, it's because i cant give birth to one myself. If you require sperm, its because you cannot produce one yourself. If you need a protector and provider for life, its because you are incapable of handling that responsibility over a lifetime. Attraction is not symmetrical, so although i dont condome men having female friends that do not provide economic value, it is not your place to tell a man how to lead.
As an older man, you’re 💯 on point! Subscribing.
Welcome OG! Thanks for joining sir! 🫱🏾🫲🏽
I 1000% agree Respect is greater than Love
Damn this is good. I’ve heard a lot of relationship advice, but brother Darwynn you make it make sense. I’m subscribing and locking in Now. Keep bringing the content. How can I support you?
Sign up to my email list. Link is in the description sir!
I send out weekly gems and tips on relationships. It may seem like I’m serving you but if any of my brothers can make it easy for me to keep them aware that is supporting me and my cause
Why a good woman could never find a good man? Like wise men,some women and some men make relationships so hard for we the good ones out here,excellent advice 💯👍🙏🙏🙏❤️
This content was PURE GOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well said sir , most of the mistakes you said here I have done in my last relationship, I tried to make sure it worked but at the end it didn't so when you talked is as if you were talking to me ...😢😢😢
We've all made mistakes. Together we will overcome and do better in the future.
I subscribed without a single doubt... straight to the point, insightful.
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Eloquently stated. Thank you
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These rules can also apply to men. My ex was constantly looking for someone newer and better. Thank you for this information. It will help me find someone compatible to me. Great information.
Absolutely!
Highly recommend you use a covering for proper discernment
Thank you Darwynn for your advices.
You’re welcome, thank you for listening! 🫱🏾🫲🏽
SOLID!!!! EXCELLENT EDUCATIONAL INFORMATION!!!
Glad it was helpful!
The first one hit me in the gut and sent me into tomorrow. I'm in the process of dumping someone for this exact problem, and my friends are trying to convince me to give her a chance
What does the Lord say? Pray to hear His voice.
@@danilaroche1156 1 Peter 3:7 says " Dwell with them according to knowledge". No communication, no knowledge, no unity, no oneness
In the process?
@@professionalpookie I like to make things clear if I can. If not, then oh well
The respect is the key force always must have respect for you no doubt!! 👍🏾
A note about respect. Respect in an LTR must be earned and maintained by leading properly as a man, retaining frame and being consistent in shaping behaviors for you both. It is disrespect that must not be tolerated, you must say this in a conversation early on, and you must consistently call her out whenever she behaves inappropriately for the health of your relationship. ❤
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Shout out to the poster. This is very fundamental and deep information for men of any age.
No doubt!
Well delivered no drama especially with a mature tone. Important general information/guidelines, red flags to watch out for and take very seriously.
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2 mins in already subscribed. Respect brother
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Great video!
Glad you enjoyed it
Very good, thank you!
Appreciate you 💯
You are preaching truth to the 100th degree One of the best explained yet.
He's speaking Big Facts. I've left my standards on women and the future guys will have to measure up.
I've listened to the brother... Guys, he's all truth and facts. He ain't said nothing wrong!
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She disrespectful she doesn't LOVE you.She just with you not to be lonely .💯💯💯
In France we say that a woman and a man cannot be close friends ,if the woman or man is already married .Meeting with other married couples is the answer.
Mission impossible...no wonder I prefer being alone.
She'll be back as soon as that marriage fails whether i am there to give compliments or not. She remembered me. Telling her no male friends will work while you are together but when that marriage ain't working anymore. It's, "Hey, how have you been doing?" from her. 💯🤷🏿♂️😆🤭🤭
Love this dude. New subscriber.
Welcome aboard!
If you truly have the ability to close down and walk away, you are in the drivers seat.
This the bestbI have seen. Passing it on!
Great video, Ive lived enough life to know the truth when I hear it
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Well said Brother much ❤to U NH and Yours
♥️Thanks and same to you!!!
RIGHT. ON. POINT.🤨 You’re not like a lot of these weak kneed influencers that want you to bow to the sista hood! I wish I had this kind of info growing up but now that I’m way north of 60, I’ll keep your info top of mind! 🎯💯
Appreciate OG! 🫱🏾🫲🏽💯💯💯
Excellent video with accurate information. 👍🏻👍🏻
Glad it was helpful!
I did not really mean to click on this but DAMN this dude spits facts!
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@darwynnmcpherson Very helpful. And 100% agreed. Thank you.
You’re welcome
This guy issss…..dead on, not much new to me but great to share with friends you been trying tell forever😮😂
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I agree Darwywn. Team work trying to help. Yes but women will not like a man who is has been through many many women is not one I want. Compromise is absolutely necessary. A man doesn’t necessarily have to lead but agreement and compromise
Man, you said it! Oh my goodness. I have learned something!
Great video
Thanks for the visit
@darwynnmcpherson it was very good, spot on. This is a topic lm into really deep. We need seminars for High School boys & teach them the truth about what's really going on IF they even have a chance at keeping a good woman. I'm lucky l have one yr 30 I'm 64 on #2 after 13yrs in it. So I know all too well, l married my 1st gf. Got too comfortable she found Chad.
I think it’s time I look into speaking at schools. To the young men and women.
Salute King...keep spitting 💎 💎 💎
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8:37 well this mistake is tricky. A woman is like a child. Now imagine a child whose parents are so strict and keeps this child indoors always, someday the child will feel that the parents are too strict and will want to know why his parents are locking him in. That will lead to the child going out to experience something else.
So I will say let her have a balance of it. Why you are observant let her know when she does something you are not happy with
Mistake #2 Is very enlightening and interesting 🤔
What made this one stand out to you
Respect > love
I sign off on all these 10. Fellas if you want better then you have to prepare yourself for that. The best you can be. For you. All 10 here are great points. Good deal D.
Thanks Moe!
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
@@marguskiis7711 I know it sounds like that. The point that D is making is you have to know yourself first and then, only then is when you'll be able to search her out. She'll stand out for you. Know what you want as a man. But much more important know what Margus needs next to him. Then you'll easily be able to weed out the posers and pretenders. Hopefully this will help you to understand more. Listen D is next level the way he break things down. Not everyone will get what he says, let alone understand. You have to already be made the same way. That's why I know he's next level. You'll be ok. Don't put such a strain on finding her. Stay working on you.
@moejohnson8459 women have so many options that they do not have need to follow any man
@@moejohnson8459@moejohnson8459 women have so many options that they do not have need to follow any man
If she have to many guys daily leave her alone
Find another girl that's not gonna do that
You right 💯%
Powerful advice!
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Good advice bro 🤜🤛💯🤔
This is good unless she’s just a TOXIC mess!! She won’t listen, communicate or respect anything you say, nomatter how hard you try.
Time to WALK!
Great advise mahn ,and i also like the way dressed ,classy bro!
Thank you and appreciate the compliment!
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
So it is possible to find 1
@@darwynnmcpherson checking thousands of women? Really?
@@marguskiis7711 Over a course of 'X' amount of years... Do able!
This was very accurate. Thank you for this video.
You are so welcome
Great advice. Thank you.
You are so welcome!
Great video sir very well balanced.
Thank you kindly!
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
Great information. Thank you, sir.
Darwynn nails it
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You can’t compromise to everything. You have to compromise to what is ok with God
Good info
Glad it was helpful!💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
“The more men she’s been with, the less impressionable she is.”
This is just flat out weird. Unless you’re the type of man that feels threatened when a woman understands what she needs in a relationship, it’s just a false assumption. Like yeah, she might be more adjusted to her own preferences than a seventeen year old virgin, but the correlation between number of partners and personality just reeks of bad male aspects like controlling and manipulative.
Simp this conversation is for men not boys.
Your a blessing.
Instead of listening i was watching a movie over my wife amd i. Thank you.
Appreciate the blessing!!! And your welcome, glad you enjoyed ♥️