Why Are Men Intimidated By Women Like Me? ©
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No matter what you think of this lady, her mature response to the feedback is commendable
It's too bad she gotta get the wake up call at 36
She seems like a good but missguided person to me. A shame she had been in a abusive relationship. If that one was good instead she could have been a llot better of
Until she gets in a relationship
Then it takes about 3 months for the beautiful playful sexy nature to dissolve and she becomes Ms. WHEELER. The nut cracking demon priestess sapping upon the life force of the pheasant snared in her clutches.
@@violent_bebop9687 its never too late for a wake up call
Mature, until it comes down to it. What she says isn't what she does. Women speak what they would like to like, but not what they actually like. Some unemployed bozo in sock and flip flops will get it in all the same.
Guys who are serious about relationships will most definitely pick an average woman with traditional values over a “baddie.” In fact the more sweet, peaceful, feminine in general, the more attractive she becomes. So relatively speaking, she becomes a high rank. Although we won’t even view it that way. It’ll be as simple as “man she’s amazing.”
Factsss
Yeah, things are changing. Normal girl with good values is becoming the new supermodel.
As they say, a pleasant seven is better than a bitchy ten.
Amen
I smashed the 10s and married the average women not affected by modern women bs. She doesn't ask for anything, and I go out of my way to give her what she wants because she doesn't ask, or demand.
This woman has great listening skills. I like people who seek advice and really listen, not argue with the person who is giving them advice. Respect to her.
I normally agree with Kevin on almost everything but the advice at end didnt make sense. From personally experience if your knowledgeable enough in something and put the work in it will work. I started my 2 YT channels in 2019 and 2020... I was studying YT for like 4 year prior watching everyone blow up and seeing how and I knew I would also by learning all the flaws and successes. When I started it was slow for a year and I was a dish washer.... even my girl left me for other reasons but made fun of the dream. I knew it would work tho and it went crazy in 2021 and now my first channel is 700k and this one i started uploading right after and now this one is at 140k. The chances of a YT channel blowing is is less then 1% but somehow I knew cus all the research and studying. Kevin said her company ain't gonna pop off but if you really know what your doing that 5% he said can go to like 70%... most ppl just dnt know what their doing or are lazy in most fields. I literally executed the exact plan I been planning for years and it worked. The first year I only had 1k subs so most ppl would just think it was a failure but I did that on purpose to build up a back catalog and then made a viral video and the past videos started to go viral with it and chain reacted to make me get 200k in 2months almost the exact way I seen other TH-camrs do it
I love this man... how did he die?
Why epsteined?!? What did he do?!
Most people are grown and insecure and run away from their problems so that they can't take criticism they can't stand the fact that you're telling them what they did wrong even if you say it's for their own good they're stuck and are statistics you are to move away from those people because they'll forever stay there and be miserable by partying drinking drugs to run away to escape reality but they don't know that soon they'll get their reality check and all that running will soon catch up until they hit rock bottom , a good listener could be broke but are powerful people bc they have the ability to change they're aren't stagnant
She had to least listen because the alternative is to be alone
This is the first interview I see where the lady is poised, open to learn, not arguing. She was so open minded and calm. I hope she finds love, she really deserves it.
Nobody deserves anything.
If she can really listen she may have a chance
@@davidsellers3639 Agreed!
I concur sis ❤some women just run their mouths wayyyy too much
@@alexismclean7667 that's a shame. KS taught us so much he wanted the best for the Black community
Don't give her any flack she sat and listened and took his advice.
Tons of respect to this young lady
>young lady
>36 years old, nearing the end of her fertility window.
Pick one.
@@blokeabouttown2490 Young lady
Don't tell people what to do
She is 36 noting in her vocabulary has to do with young
@@blokeabouttown2490 She looks pretty attractive tho in her defense
"He was intimidated." No, Ma'am, men aren't intimidated by that. Men are exercising their freedom to walk away from red flags and not to tolerate cold or bullish behaviour. Rejection is something you will need to deal with.
She sounds super boring in a relationship. Like you would have to sign a contract just to get head. 🤦🏿♂️
Exactly!!!
It's a saying women use as a coping mechanism to deflect their undesirability on to men to make men seem like they're the issue. It's as if men have to just accept anything that comes with a woman and if they don't it's somehow the man's fault for being inadequate or not man enough for not being able to "handle" or by being too "intimidated". Men have preferences and find certain physical and personality characteristics desirable. If a woman doesn't fit that it's not him, it's her.
When i worked at a hospital for a short period of time, i avoided speaking to the large, loud chicks that added bonnets to their scrubs uniform (classy). I primarily focused on my work and helping people’s loved ones; but would sometimes speak briefly with the civilized women that worked there.
The classy bonnets made sure to harass me daily until i finally quit (and got them fired before christmas 😅). I audio recorded them on my phone while i went on a break, they were openly trying to call me gae just because i ignored them 90% of the time. There was an caucasian new guy that was a silent worker just like me, but they showed him respect. With me, its like they felt i was obligated to be their court jester and show em attention.
Sht was sad and pathetic how my “own kind” (supposedly), could be so destructive towards me. Nowadays i view these type of modern black cultured women as invisible ghosts. Nothing positive comes from em if you as a black man reject them.
A high-value man should feel lucky to get her 36-year-old womb and pay for housekeepers so she doesn’t have to work at all.
Guaranteed she treated that truck driver like he was “less than” or he was lucky. Then when he gets fed up, he is “insecure”.
What man says they are intimidated by the way their woman looks... unless he’s taking her to Wingstop and she’s dressing like she’s going to Nobu after the Grammy awards - 🥇🥈🥉
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich i think he simply thought up an example. That was a dumb reply to make.
Men staying away from Red flags is considered “insecurity”
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich so you wouldnt worry a woman who dresses up for wingstop like going to Nobu has serious mental issues?
@@cryptoscircus6880 😂😂😂😂
She is the first one to LISTEN and not just hear. Great convo
This lady is very different than 95% of the callers. She listens. She answers the questions accurately. She takes Kevin's answers and doesn't verbally question it. She actually seems like she genuinely wants to learn.
She’s a great woman to grow and build we’re is her meeting I will join
Well said!
She's probably a chameleon...the presence she's presenting, a man would've scooped her up already. She's pleasant and understands how to carry herself in different settings, as she stated. KS even mentioned she comes across as a imposter.
She post wall and starting to realize it.. only reason she's half listening. And she's got kids already, nobody wants that
@@infotechsailor oh I must have missed that part, she has kids?? Not a bad thing though...but how many?
I applaud the woman for her honesty, willingness to accept constructive criticism, transparency, and well mannered disposition. Thumbs up to her!
Those nostrils tho...
Many women are humble and behaved in front of their pastor. The problems start when they're not on stage. Does saying men are intimidated by me, match being humble?
Now what about the obscene delusion of her “standards” that a man has to have?
How do you feel about that?
Remember, she is a professional saleswoman. She knows how to behave in front of an audiance.
@@Geist_AD Those nostrils are beautiful n sexy. And they are a symbol of good health. *Look it up.* Learn.
Men don't want a " baddie". They want a Lady.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich Shouldn't you be busy sweatin your gf that you can't stop telling everyone about instead of hatin on dudes and puttin the cape on for these delusional chicks like a b**** made punk
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich hating for no reason
@@brownpapi2634 I think it's his rich girlfriend that's commenting
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich bot
Baddie stand for waste of time
Bloated expectations, but finally a woman without a bloated ego.
Well summarized. I wish she figures it out, lowers her standards, realizes the value of raising her own kids (instead of a nanny) cuts her spending, cuts travel goals and prioritizes family with a good average man.
For sure.. she's open to his feedback
I like that she’s listening and accepting feedback. This is how it’s suppose to go.
She dated a truck driver.
@@nursemcfarlane6655 so???
@@nursemcfarlane6655 so ?
It’s rare tho
@@nursemcfarlane6655 Many owner ops are making well into six figures, but being away from home can put a strain on any fragile relationship.
This lady was pleasant, listened, wasn’t rude, was respectful, and she’s not unattractive. I hope she finds someone that can appreciate her qualities and that she remains hopeful in her search. The biggest piece of advice anyone could get is to just be yourself and enjoy your life. That energy attracts the right person.
You can tell she's very picky
Her biggest problem, by far, is her hypergamy. Once she understands that money is only really important if you are homeless or hungry, she will be fine. But sadly, most women never figure this out.
@@ligafftheindifferent3495 Hypergamy is so ubiquitous as to basically be a truism for modern professional women. Money does matter, especially if a someone wants to raise a family with 2-3 children in LA. Remember, California makes life as easy as possible for junkies and "free-spirited" folks that would prefer being homeless if it means living aimless, idle lives in which they can party at will and avoid the responsibilities that used to come with adulthood.
But for those actually trying to do the best they can in life, trying to build a family and working to pay all the bills that come with it?? California's political leadership practically goes out of its way to make life as difficult and expensive as possible for THOSE people.
Agreed
This woman needs to learn to have fun, and a bit of adventure. She needs someone who will light her up a bit, and be a bit spontaneous, who isn't abusive, but doesn't put her on a pedestal. There are lots of men like this out there. They make $40,000-$55,000. She should find one of those. Forget kids. She needs a lover, best friend, and confidante. Not a "partner".
I'd give her a shot. :)
IF she could do this, she would find happiness.
Men are not intimidated. They just don’t want you. It’s just the true
Exactly, Madam!
lol
They confuse men avoiding ,aggressive,argumentative, masculine and insufferable women with being ”intimidated”
I’m glad a woman said this. There is absolutely nothing a man is intimidated by from a woman.
Men dont want to fake this high level lifestyle like she does.. They just wanna be what they actually are... middle class regular ppl
This woman falls into the 1 percent of woman that hold themselves accountable and stay composed during criticism, she seems like great person
Im 42 years old, traveled the world, and i have yet to ever see/meet a woman that was “intimidating”. These women need to stop with that notion
“Intimidating” is a title they like to give themselves because it is easier to swallow than “shitty to be around” 🤷🏽♂️
@@CarlosRomero-uj6ry facts
@@CarlosRomero-uj6ry well said!!💯
Same I'm 42 truck driver I don't even look there way
@@musicfan5520 nope, she said it out of her mouth
Love how avoiding red flags and having common sense is considered "being intimidated".
It's because modern women have been taught to compete with the man, either explicitly or implied. If the man resist, they think it's intimidation. Modern women are not taught what a man wants/needs outside of sex.
Get you a 2nd world country woman
@@Jayinjapanese haha ?? What
A lie that makes them feels better about the fact that they aren’t desirable to the men they want.
@@keisha2shoes say it again for those in the back
This young woman was honestly fantastic in her poise and answers. I hope she finds her love/happiness
“Young Women”
She was silly and delusional.
She’s so fantastic that she needs a man that’s .8% of men
Why do you care
It’s hard because she’s already deep in being financially secure. She clearly is financially set and just looking for a partner. Basically she’ll have to let everything go, to attempt to maybe make a match. I’m high middle class I worked 4 days until I gave birth. We have a cleaning service, yet we raise our son together. He’s giving a old school standard of love and partnership. He wants you to be a perfect nothing, over a wonderful something. That’s not fair, there are more avenues to love then that.
Someone will DEFINITELY Choose Her... This woman is POLISHED, Non Combative, Listens very well and accepts the Insight and Gems that Kevin Is Giving. Great Conversation
Nope she’s in fantasy land. She watches too much tv
Right. No, this woman is just good at interviews, that's what she's trained for. She knows how to articulate things that make her appear better. She's good at making resumes, but when she's hired, you realise it was just lip service.
@@joschmo4497 100% correct my friend. It is amazing to me the number of comments from males on this video that were fooled by the presentation this woman gave on this call. It just shows the number of Simps out there still in this world that are ignorant of the nature and the duplicitousness of the woman.
What is her Facebook name or Instagram
@JDunk-tg5vr Why don't you choose her or someone just like her if you think she's so great?
Thought not. 😐
Watching this gave me the feeling I was eavesdropping on someone's therapy session. I think Kevin quickly zeroed in on her issue and gave excellent counsel. RIP KS.
RIP KS? Is he dead?
@@cellshaded months ago
I felt that it was a therapy session too. I think cos she had a better attitude than most of Kevin's guests in fact I quite liked her
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@@cellshaded Yep. But his message lives on. I think he is part of a gradual change of the culture if only these females will take note.
@@Sam-bd5mrwhat was the final, definitive cause of his death??
3 minutes in and she's figuring out the power couple issue is a pipe dream...
It’s such a outliner type of dream. Like their are maybe 1 I can think and I don’t really think it’s one Beyoncé and Jay z
Power couple 2022. Man does 95% of the work, these ladies Facebook post about the business and "network" to his already existing friends for the remaining 5%.
@@HARwinsOUTagain lol 😂 man you are so right .
@@HARwinsOUTagain LMAO on point😂😂😂
@@HARwinsOUTagain literally
I’m so shocked at how many of these women say they want a housekeeper and a nanny!!! WTF! Why even want kids and a nice home if you aren’t going to take care of either???
Yea I dont get that either I love cooking in cleaning myself and a I'm guy but I love maintaining things it's just in my blood people dont realize cooking and cleaning In doing all that stuff is what keeps you young being lazy is what ages you i be busy alot in I feel surprisingly awesome it keeps you going its just a game in you just keep running but when you stop you can hang it up
It really does depends on the size of the house! How many kids you have, and their ages, etc!
Because that requires this really cool thing called "personal responsibility."
They want the look the look......is love.....it's in their EYES....THE LOOK!!! TOO BAD I'M ON AN ISLAND EATING 🍐 & Papaya sipping coffee laughing at CRAZY!!!!!
It’s those pop culture films. They want the status of the children and the home. There is a reason they choose not to show what a housewife used to do before the 1920s.
Nanny’s are for royalty, castles for the same.
This girl has potential because she listens and doesn't get defensive
She has good emotional control. It hurts to hear the truth, but she held her composure. Of all the women that I’ve seen on this channel, she has the most potential to find her partner.
Thee most for sure. You’re absolutely right. This woman is humble and super chill. She deserve a good man
Her age is the main issue, that and she does not come across as a very good home maker. While she listened respectfully, she is not submissive, and she has champagne tastes with a cheap beer wallet.
She needs to drastically lower her expectations. Her goal should be a man she can trust, steady job, financially stable, no serious drug, alchohol, or criminal issues. Given her age and position, ANY man that meets those base criteria needs to be considered a viable option.
Given her age and desire for children, she needs to forget about career and focus on finding a good man, and becoming the type of submissive, nurturing, and hardworking woman that most decent hardworking men would want.
She is quickly running out of time, this needs to happen like yesterday. Her odds are not good, I wish her well and good luck.
@@ericmichel3857 you’re right. Look at me over here simping!! I take my comment back, dammit! 😂 thanks for highlighting all of that, bro.
@@ericmichel3857 Her age is what it is.... she can't change that. What is impressive is that despite her obvious intelligence, she didn't try to rationalize bad decisions like so many women (especially those who know how to choose their words) tend to do. She didn't pretend to have a good argument or justification in the face of Kevin's inconvenient truth bombs about the reality of life and relationships in the modern era. She actually listened, and made no effort to hide the fact that she's got a lot to think about in terms of what was just discussed. She is pretty and willing to learn, I think she might end up finding happiness. She has a better chance than a lot of the girls Kevin interviews.. in my humble opinion.
FACTZ
That maturity hit different. Salute to this sister for her openness and vulnerability. Hope she find happiness. 💯
Yup.
That's another lie people tell. You don't find happiness. You create it
@@AnAZPatriot well said
She fell for the lies, realized it late, and is trying to fix it. I definitely feel sorry for her.
Woman: They're intimidated
Reality: They're not interested
Men tolerate her long enough to have sex, and then deal with her accordingly.
Exactly
A woman can be the future Queen of Neverland and marry a peasant. If that man isn't running the show, he'll leave her and gladly go back to being poor.
@@dangerwetikosclose2682 facts. Women have really lost it trying to be equal
😆☝🏽🤣
Respect to her for her ability to listen & accept facts
Listen to ALL the positive affirmations about this woman! She was polite, didn’t argue, listen to HEAR instead of respond, she was definitely in her feminine energy…. basically she was displaying everything men have been asking for for years! And you can absolutely see how much truth there is in that just by all the comments. Everyone showering her with compliments and positive wishes, she deserved it too! Hope many women see this and read the comments and GET it all! RIP Kevin, you’re sorely missed. ☮️
She's respectful and well spoken despite being asked some difficult questions by Kevin. Hope she finds what she needs.
Hope He Finds Her!💯
How is it difficult when it's your life no one suppose to know u more then u unless you lie to yourself
She does seem trainable. That's a good thing.
@@balloonmanalvinpitts she is too old. I don't know any man who wants to build a family with a 36 years old woman.
@@charlesirby9571 There are a lot of broken brothers out here with self esteem issues. They would do it. 36 and Abandonment issues.
This young lady is very attentive, submissive and humble. She's a very effective communicator because she listens without the burning desire to respond. She's a looker. She's got all the prerequisites and criterion to impress a high value man....
I like how she stayed out of her feelings, listened, and answered questions. She earned points in my book.
that's rare
She was really there to listen and juice the advice. Also very poised and well spoken woman.
She has to be the most solid lady ever interviewed here. She’s going to be good.
yeah, a woman who doesn't want to work & doesn't want to take care of her own kids is _"solid"_
@@negative949 If you want to choose between work and don't work but with no penalty in your financial situation, would you choose to work? If you say yes, you are the minority of population! It is not just a pandemic of women, it is human to just try to go in a path of less resistance.
Yes. And that's sad that only one out of all the interviews. I would of loved to have a conversation with this man
@@negative949 any reason to stay mad huh?
@@negative949 she said she wanted to work. Are you deaf?
This is the first one I’ve seen where the woman is actually focused and receptive to the conversation. She isn’t messing with texts and notifications. She isn’t arguing. She isn’t denying anything. Best episode I’ve seen.
Yeah but she’s not smart
@@Chris-ey7zyaverage in every sense
Isnt it sad though that we are happy to just see a woman that listens..shes completely delusional in every possible way..But are just happy to see women with common courtesy these days..Its insane
I wish her luck. Don't hate on her for being fed the wrong message.
@@THOMPSON8787absolutely pathetic. How low is the bar.
I like this girl. She's resisting internally, but he hit that cord and she knows it. She probably accepted it within about 2 weeks after the call. Praying for her.
🥇
I am praying for her also, that man will find her…soon!
She should be already married for 15 years with two kids.
I found Kevin after his death and hearing all the hate. I don’t believe the hype til I see for myself. I think this man is more than reasonable and he makes excellent points. I’m already married with a child, but he definitely plants seeds in my head that are helping me discover my potential as a better wife.
Me too, Kevin definitely helped me step up my wife game!
I just found him but he on target im married to grown children and married why these women cant get on cause all it is luxury no mother no wifey kmsk
Alexis, I also found Kevin after his death. I’m picking up gems watching his content.
Same😍😍
I have to say after listening to more and more videos I saw that he based his advice off statistics only. He didn't bend from that and had no room for the other world. His world is based solely in appearances and that is a real world that many live by bit not all. I have to say he does make valid points but leaves out some valid numbers affecting black women and racism.
Overall, this was a great conversation. They respected each other’s talking space and she listened. She called because she wanted Kevin’s assistance, not because she was perfect.
She was relatively cool headed and not in her emotions. She was respectful and never talked over him.
I also think she was one of the few women on the show that he was making up stuff to knock her down.
Does he really believe wealthy men don't hire cooks, housekeepers and nannies? Seriously? He also contradicts himself because previously he's stressed that the wife of a HVM needs to have excellent social skills, and yet this woman says she has those skills and he acts like they aren't important.
The wife of a wealthy man runs his household by directing the servants and managing the homelife, seeing that bills are paid, kids are doing well in school, ironing out problems in the neighborhood, scheduling and conducting social events, involving herself in charity events (promoting her husband's and families' reputation in community) etc. She isn't locked up at home on her hands and knees scrubbing floors and elbows deep in diapers.
@@stephenjones101 agree
@@stephenjones101 She don't got the looks (A higher earning man can get the younger version of her ) .....because she aged out .....if she did she would be dating that man and not on the show at 36
@@stephenjones101 Yes, you're spot on.
Agreed, clearly just as disillusioned as the rest but, her manner was noticeably different. I'm not giving too much respect for behaving as you should in conversation but, she's at least listening.. At least
the majority of these women who call in wouldn't even make a good roommate,forget about a wife.
😅😅😅
It’s not necessarily that you intimidate men as you turn men off by your masculine challenging traits that put men in their primal protective and defensive reactive mode!
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich most men don’t like girls who act like men. Just because you struggle to get woman and have settle with what you can get. The rest of us have preferences.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich It’s not all that great and it’s sad how stuff like that is used as a weapon against people. If people were like this in the past humanity would have went extinct a long time age.
@@ZackSNetwork that’s a troll. No doubt that’s a bored fifteen year old going around trolling people on TH-cam.. poor sap
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich you are not married. according to the godfather that still makes you single. Its kinda cringe to see you flaunting the fact you have a girlfriend. Is that supposed to be an accomplishment?
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich That's a stock photo.
No one is intimidated by you, they are choosing to not invest significant amounts of their time and resources in you
Often these women confuse independent with troublemaker. They really think men are intimidated but in reality, men hate this type of vvoman.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich bot
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich nobody is mad who lied to u?
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich
Relax Russel Wilson
Exactly fam! Most cats aren't intimated they are just choosing not to deal with yall.
Wow that's the first time I actually seen him talk to a woman and had a great conversation and she actually listened great episode
“You can work a room. You can network for a sale. Can you build a life? Can you build your own network?” Well said.
I honestly feel sorry for her. Her expectations are a result of the modern media. She seems like a sweet person.
media only does half the work, you do the other half feeling sorry
Don’t feel sorry. She’s pretentious as hell
@@Ryan-xq3klyea people feeling sorry for delusional women are the ones at fault 🤦🏻♂️🤡
@@Ryan-xq3klyou seem wise. Wiser than most.
Do you use preferred filters or just wing it? Either way, notable....
Delusional like most of them
I'm actually impressed. Good faith, sincere and self aware. I wish her well and hope millions of other women learn from her.
But she seemed emotionless. Like she would be in a relationship without that feminine softness that should nourish her loved ones. She looks like someone who is incapable of laughing or crying.
@@taiwoajumobi9553 I agree something was definitely missing and you hit the mark 👏🏽💯 Ppl can portray to be all put together with every fiber in their being, but energy will always overshadow the words that come out the mouth. Overall great observation 🤗
@@taiwoajumobi9553I don't think so. I think she just has put imaginary barriers to herself that are crumbling as her self awareness increases. She looks like she has cried hard to me.
That has to be, hands down, the most productive call I've ever seen.
Gone from us too soon-RIP Mr. Samuels.
I like her. She's willing to listen and learn, and isn't deflecting with her feelings or her ego. One of the few women I've seen in these videos thus far who seems willing to grow.
I can't imagine how bad this is all going to be in 20 yrs. The women of my generation are absolutely entitled and broken.
the genes will die out eventually
@@mask9558 not if these beta male simps keep giving them babies 😒
@@abyssalzone2957 exactly!!!
@@abyssalzone2957 not the betas as much as the Chad’s and Tyrone’s knocking them up. Remember only 1 in 4 black women ever get married.
I'm looking forward to seeing the shit show. It's unfortunate the family and community will continue to break down, but I honestly can't think about how to we can return to those values. I'm just going to enjoy the show
“You can work a room, you can network for a sale….but Can you Build a Life?” Just sent shivers down my spine. Preach Papa Preach!!
Saint timothy boulevard parkway
truth hurts, but he really brought this lady closer to reality
I respect her for the fact she didn't get combative and listened. This was a conversation and not the usual combat we see Kevin runs into.
She seems like a sweet hardworking lady. I agree that she needs to temper her expectations. I feel like people fantasize luxury things, that has nothing to do with happiness. The girl I was with before my wife was like that, and i couldn't afford her, nor did I place a lot of value in things. My wife hates this label, but one reason I love her so much is because she is simple. We both earn about the same. We live below our means so that we can live comfortably. We double pay or mortgage and own everything else we have. We both work hard and take care of each other. It's a good full life and we will be able to put out kids through college and retire in our 50s if we want.
You picked well. Your very fortunate.
Proverbs 31:10 - “An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than Jewels”
I’m sorry but that sounds like a very tiring life for your wife
Excellent.
Great
This woman was open and honest. I very much appreciated her candor. I think after this conversation this woman gained more understanding. On that day Kevin helped her. I think she's gonna be alright.
Intimidated has become code word for repulsed….
FACTS.
Preach!!
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich Bruh,you’re literally in every comment trolling. Shut the hell up 🤣
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich trolling again?
@@blackandproud83 like bruh tf is wrong with these people lol. Like these mfers just be pathetic
The ending was one of the best speeches I’ve ever listened to. Emphasising the importance of people, relationships and a solid network over money, success and beauty is everything man. Kevin went way too soon, his message could have helped so many more people. RIP to a legend.
This lady is awesome in her demeanor. The others should learn from her
Publicly, sure.
@@undertyped1 this guy knows what’s up. I’m assuming jasmiena is a female. And they’re the worst judge of character for females lol
She is a lot more tolerable than most. I'm only half way through, but she hasn't cut him off yet. I think she is truly seeking advise on how to move forward. You can tell because even Kevin was patient with her too.👏
She handled the truth way better than most!
I agree. I think she's fine. It's not what we have but what we enjoy that brings true happiness!
She was one with a common sense which is rarely seen in KS show.
Even if she did it’s too late her ass finished.
If she were this way at 23 then she wouldn't be calling KS...
@@babyblue7phoenix69 Yeh but maybe, just maybe she can change her expectations. Either way she is not gonna get what she wanted.
I really don't know how he has the patience to continue explaining these basic concepts to GROWN women.
Saint Kevin, patron saint of patience...
"Start living life ON PURPOSE." Best point of the whole conversation Bro. KS.
May 2022 will mark ONE FULL YEAR that I've been saying that to my "poor, Black west side Chicago kids" in my (K8) school. The culture change, in the eyes of the MEN in the building, was swift and clear. WE SEE IT. Kids used to come in stomping up the stairs. They HATED being there. WE TALKED THEM THROUGH IT. WE DID THAT, in our particular way, ON PURPOSE. Randomly pulling kids for check-ins, sometimes stopping class to make everybody smile, sliding a kid an extra chocolate milk or pack of goldfish. LITTLE, KIND THINGS..
Now they come in EARLY and with a SMILE on their faces. All bc WE quietly agreed to be intentional about asking if they're ready for the day, reminding them to do their best AT ALL TIMES, by doing OUR best at at times and...guess what...
WE FKN SMILE AT OUR KIDS.
SMILE NOBLE MAN, especially my fellow Black Man. Smile bros. We know how to fix this; just say no (to all dysfunction). BE THE PRIZE. Go out here and focus on doing GREAT SHYT. We change the WORLD with our light. Do your best, ON PURPOSE!!
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Awesome man! Keep going! You're making a change
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Nicely put ;)
Thank You, Brother. 🖤
RIP Mr. SAMUELS.
Let's Listen, with an Open mind and Heart.
" Practicle Honest Advice , sorely needed for all generations "
When A woman is convinced she's the SHIT, she's dangerous to herself😉
Well said
Exactly
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And to everyone and everything around her... except for her cats of course.
and "the shit" Is exactly what her life turns into when the wall comes
This was one of the only videos I could watch without getting annoyed. I loved her poise and willingness to listen. In the end, I learned something about myself as well. I wish her more success and joy in her life with children who will love her and care for her as well. Her husband is on his way.
I think she'll find it.
I'm a man and I learned a LOT too.
Mr. Samuels is a gem.
She’s very receptive and not combative. Which makes this very informative. I am rooting for her💯
seems like the only one with class
What did you learn about yourself?
Yes. She'll find someone unless she already has.
The best advice that Samuel gave was doing charitable work. That shows how humble you can be to others. We have to serve each other as people.
I thought so too and agree.
That's so she can meet rich Men...
Thats the golden ticket right there!!!! We are here to serve each other!!!! Some people don't see life like that anymore. But it's exactly what life is about.
Not only that but I think it would be good for women to do some charity work because it would give them a sense of what life can be really like and get her out of her delusion.
She’s open minded and willing to learn. I hope it works out for her
I actually did learn a lot from this video myself.🥺
And the lady... She's golden. The fact that she listens and responds the way she does is heart warming, I wish she had everything she wants coz she deserves it.
My grandpa (passed) retired as a janitor with his wife whom worked at an office and retired after his passing.
They produced a large family which they both showed love, and paid off their house in nyc. Grandma was sad when he passed, and they stuck together through their fair share of serious issues; ultimately getting past/resolving them all (over time, duty, and effort); and lived happily married. They traveled annualy during older age, rather than going to miami every month as 20 something year olds.
My Grandpa in this day and age, would be looked down upon as a “broke niqqa” by most of the new black women’s culture and ideologies.
Sadly no respect for the average working man who will do anything for their family.
James your grandparents as well as mine built a " life"!
Shout out to yo grandpa
Beautiful story. ❤️❤️❤️
James, that was a good example of real family and love. Too many women today want an "event" more than actually building a family and legacy. Salute to your grandparents!
Mr. Samuela knows what he knows.
What a gift to share with us all.....
Start living life on purpose.
Quality, not quantity.
I have a feeling things will go well for her just based on how open she was to the advice Kevin gave. Isn't it shocking how actually listening, being honest, and being non-combative can facilitate a respectful, productive conversation? RIP KS
She listened and learned. Didn’t get defensive, didn’t argue and took the advice. Lots of respect for how she handled the conversation.
Why is everyone giving her props for simply acting like a normal person? This is how far Bw have fallen. When someone is respectful everyone has to mention it.
This lady knows who she is! I have respect for that!
Props to her being perhaps the most respectful, engaged interviewee I've seen speak to KS; she LISTENED!
I thought so too
This woman wants us to believe that a man actually told her he was intimidated by the way she was dressed??
Not "Intimidated."
Annoyed. Uninterested. They realize this isn't worth the effort.
Easily one of the most powerful episodes Kevin ever put out.
word is bond
Riveting!!!
Yes!❤❤❤
“Men are intimidated by Women like me…” is a statement rejected and undesired Women use to help themselves sleep better at night.
They are never intimidating. What they are is chaotic.
Well said that’s exactly it
Ohww yeah sirrrrr
Facts
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This lady is listening to learn and do better im proud of both of them. Great conversation. Im sure she doing well beautiful sister! Do well!
This lady passed out of the "I'm going to have it all" category a long time ago, fact is she was never in it.
Yeah she washed up 😂
@@93chrish "marcus camby, washed up" - Kdot
Binge watching. This man is (was) brilliant! I hope this channel stays online for a long time. The brutal insight and honesty are unparalleled.
Doing a cost to benefit analysis and seeing someone as not worth the trouble ≠ Intimidated
Not wanting to deal with unnecessary drama, combativeness, and annoyance ≠ Intimidated
Being all of those things does not make you intimidating it makes you insufferable.
Men are not intimidated by your college education, money, and career. While those are great personal accomplishments, most likely you let that go to your head and really need to get your ego checked. Always trying to "sword fight" with a man. You should be a companion not a competitor. Also, they are no substitution for a severe lack of being fit, friendly, and feminine.
The whole intimidated line stems from their lack of accountability, they gotta find a reason why every man walks out on them
Whoa. 🙌 Now I couldn't have articulated those facts any better. Brilliant.
@@subzaddo Now ain't that the gospel truth? 🤣
Not to mention, there are a lot of college educated FOOLS out there!
200k in debt to get a 50k annual salary! Yep. That'll do it for me.
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I love how she just listened and so did I! I’m 31. Childless traveled the world and Learned through my 20s. Lived the life of my dreams truly, and now I desire marriage and heirs. I’m currently dating my childhood sweetheart and I really see it going further. I did have to come back down to reality and I’ve had to accept that this man doesn’t make 6 figures a year and I’m okay with it. Down in my soul I know that he will do anything for me and our future family and I want to do this right ❤ and I am!! I never watched Kevin and now I’ve started too his message was powerful.
She handle this well. I love how she listens and doesn't let pride block her mind.
She crazy she just know how to "talk well"
@@kekin7691 true lol All my women been crazy
@@kekin7691 😁😁😁😁
Why do they think we're afraid of them, it's not fear we recognize confusion.
You mean delusion 😄
We recognise their contempt and disrespect.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich ur on every comment stfu go touch grass
One of the many showings of Kevin using his platform to help someone who WANTS to be helped and by enduring his direct honesty & listen to his advice and do what they will with it. instead of going back & forth with the person trying to help them & force him to get brutally honest and make an example out of them.
This woman seems smart and willing to listen, it's just that no one ever told her these things before. Imagine how much better her life would be if someone told her when she was 16 instead of 36. Or 20. Sad for the world.
Someone has told her she wasn't willing to listen during the younger days. I told my cousins what type of guys to avoid my sisters too. They still decided to date whomever they wanted. This premise black women don't know is a fallacy. They have been told they don't listen to their fathers, brothers, cousins, uncles or even male friends. They have to live with their poor decision making.
She was raised middle class, reality is she grew up knowing this wasn’t going to happen, she wants to be taken care of without earning. She wants it all,but doesn’t have anything to bring to the table. A lot of women today think like this.
We are all guilty of being ignorant or naive when we are young, but I hear you. As a guy I made poor choices to get laid too lol, but these modern women are on a whole nother level. They think they known men but they really don't. Kevin is giving humanity an education it seriously needs.
That's true
Actually nah.... in the court of law they tell you ignorance is not a valid thing for a bad decision. Just because you didn't know doesn't make it right. See the thing about this is that the information was always out there. She just never chose to seek it. I do not agree with everything you just said but I do see your point.
Wow, she's really respectful and seems willing to accept the information given. Everyone has issues but she seem willing to accept them and work on herself.
This is a well meaning woman with expectations at her age that are unrealistically too high. If you find someone who you are spiritually compatible with it rathers little of they are rich or not. Financially stable is good enough.
It’s fun to watch Kevin “destroy” idiots but it’s always awesome to see him give the tough love. He can get to very interesting places when he has a guest that isn’t combative and actually wants to learn something. He was an amazing man. All the people these days stealing his style don’t have half his insights or talents.
I am 37 single male with no kids, never married. I would give this woman a chance, she is intelligent and open minded. I live in Houston as well. I am a business owner. I’m not rich but I am stable .
When you make 650k hit her up 😊
@@ObiWanShinobi_ If I make 650k and up im having multiple women
@@ObiWanShinobi_hahaha.
B@@musicplug1730 If I make 650K, I go buy a whole village in Thailand..😊
Do you smoke or drink?
This was a conversation between two adults, you both listened to each other and communicated respectfully. I liked it.
Good luck girl!!!!
This woman is marriage material and worthy of a good man.
She seems great but not marriage material unless u want a stay at home wife who has a champagne budget. Her career isn't going to contribute to it by her own admission.
A stripper deserves a good man? You have to be kidding me, a good woman deserves a good man, a woman with a real career deserves a good man.
How tf did you get that impression lol she just said she would hire a nanny and maid to clean her house if she had the choice. Marriage material for a woman means you want to and are going to act like a wife and mother and do those things and not pay someone else to do them…. They would be her biological kids why tf would she not want to raise them if she would be unemployed and financially secure because of her husband? Wtf is she supposed to do all day? Day drink and swipe the credit card? That’s not wanting to be a wife or mother. Why have kids if you don’t want to raise them? She said she WANTS at least two kids but doesn’t want to be a mother? She grew up in a middle class income but had to be talked back into reality that the men she wants are less than 1% and probably won’t want her back which proves she’s been living a false and privileged life even though she didn’t deserve it. Because she was attentive and non combative and gave thoughtful responses doesn’t mean she’d be a good wife 😂 she proved she doesn’t understand reality or have any self awareness. She deserves a good man only if she’s willing to be a good woman, put in the work, and know her role/part and not just say it because she’s on a live chat with thousands of people watching to say all the right things.
She won’t get a $650k like he said she is out of her league she is middle class. She doesn’t want to marry an avg earner making $80k plus she wants to stay home & be kept.
It's a very far fetched assumption. Nothing in this interview says anything about how she is in a relationship and if she truly was wife material then why is she still unmarried at 36?... Women who are wife material get off the market quickly.
I enjoy your honesty and keeping the woman to your standards instead of talking over you and avoiding the question.
I grew up hearing “date in your lane” it’s simple as that. Everyone should be aware of where they are financially and what role it will play in their relationship.
Yeah but only women have this mindset men are pretty hip to all this it’s just women believe a lie that was given by mainstream media and stupid ass BET shows. Like Kevin said women are all fighting for the top 1% and women out number men sooooo the quicker women snap out of this imma marry a prince or a king or a top earner is superficial and very very unlikely unless you’re Beyoncé level and even then it’s still hard for women. It’s beyond unrealistic and the sooner women realize this the better for all. Men know we have to work hard and get ahead in life or we will lose…
I always told my kids to "NEVER DATE OUTSIDE YOUR READING GROUP", they seem to be doing OK with their mates so I guess I was kinda right.
@@nashambenyisrael7689 facts. Men are hip to it. But women are sooo far gone
@@stackzdollaz9508 it’s a western ideology thing, because women in eastern countries don’t act the way western Eurocentric countries women do. They think the average women complaining about the things they complain about stupid as dog shit.
Money ain't got nothing to do with dating ....
The most educated and humble woman I've ever seen in the channel 👏 🙌 👌🏻.
Salute to her. She’s learning and open minded. She and any women her type eventually will make it. 🎉
The fact that she said Baddie ruined her chances with certain men that would never use that word.
Kevin is so good at reading people, to imagine he's meeting these people for the first time, it's almost as if he can see right through people.
Image consultant, duh. Years and years of meeting people in that capacity..duh.
To be honest. Most men can see right through women and the type of woman they are.
@@could9006 it's not ovious things that you can just look at people and see it's at the point that these people open their mouth's that he gets to opportunity to actually see them for who they are. Duh
@Dubphilly males are way more easier to read🙄🤣
Lots of women are sneaky
@3nR.I.P oh please girl i have 6 brothers and was a stripper ....
I know people extremely well but wishful thinking. I can read a mf like no other 👍
This is a keeper.... listens..... realistic..... planner..... I hope she gets what she wants because she believes in personal development.
I'm so glad that Kevin is so well versed in womanomics.
"What do you do for a living?"
"I'm an entrepreneur"
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Code word for unemployed
@@tonimartin8547 😂
Code word for gtfo instantly
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I give this young lady props for at least wanting to be open about her issues and really sit back and LISTEN,really LISTEN. She didn't over talk ,have attitude. I hope she can make it happen.