🤔 Are Men Intimidated By Successful Women?
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"There are some men who exist who are intimidated by a woman's success, however, in most cases it’s not your success, it’s your energy."
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“Lead with characters and not by accomplishment.” Amen!
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your accomplishments can show your character, however. It took a lot of hard work and discipline. Those are not solely masculine traits.
I'm also pretty sure most people don't want to marry someone who is a bum/doing nothing to help their bad situation out, man or woman. It shows character to take the steps to better yourself when you were dealt a hard living situation because it's definitely not easy and is terrifying leaving your comfort zone. No one is coming to save you but yourself. To wait around on someone to save you financially is insanity and shows poor character. Him talking about the millionaire marrying the cashier at chickfila is an anomaly and that could mostly be based on the man wanting control rather than a healthy relationship.
I have a friend who is successful and she takes her masculine energy into relationships with her. Makes all the plans, pays for everything, etc The man always disappears after a month or two.
Wow
foranimalwelfare cause they are probably insecure, and unsuccessful
Lady J It’s my understanding they disappear because there is no room for them to be the man in the relationship… She’s doing it all for him rendering his masculinity useless.
Lady J your bitterness shows. Please get help.
@@ladyJ_000 NO...they're probably thinking this will be a bigger problem as we go...so I'm out
Let me go find a flower...
Sade_Ashley right😂🏃🏾♀️
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This is so true. With two masculine energies, there's a power struggle. With two feminine energies, nothing gets done or moves forward in the relationship. Neither is better or weaker than the other; each energy has it's purpose and they complement each other, bringing polarity. Without polarity, there is no chemistry and it feels neutral, like a friendship instead of a relationship.
@Chanel R. Long Yep!!!
do not confuse introversion with feminine energy or make us introverted men feel bad. feminine energy more of vibe than energy. In most fundamental element of femininity is kindness and friendliness. If too much polarity is bad because you have nothing in command and can't even have friendship. men like my self logical enough and have good enough understanding that our sex drive can play tricks on us to be attractive to the wrong type of women. Also sex drive of women tricks her to love bad boys even though the man is worst one for her.
@@spark300c You are making an assumption. No one was confusing introversion with feminine energy except you. One can be introverted and masculine. Feminine energy is more passive. That's why with two feminine energies, things don't move forward because both are waiting for the other to do something.
Although now that I think about it, it could be similar because feminine energy is less likely to pursue masculine energy, it's usually the other way around. And introverted men might not pursue women as much as extroverted man. But even then, I've dated masculine men who were introverted but they didn't let their introversion stop them from pursuing me, it might have just taken them a little longer with them feeling out our vibes first. Most of the men I've dated have actually been the strong silent type, but I never pursue them, they pursued me. Don't let your introversion be an excuse to not pursue what you want. Introversion doesn't mean not going after what you want, but being passive does...
“Feminine energy is passive” translation WEAK, DOCILE & COMPLIANT. A perfect position to get DISRESPECTED & dog walked. I’m good.
This is all nonsense.
I really like this message. I heard this in one of your others videos but I wasn’t sure what you meant by it. I realized that the masculine energy that I carry is my shield and protection . And you are right, it needs to be toned down especially when in a relationship because it causes a distance with my boyfriend and I. At work I need a tough character but after work I could be my down to earth self. I will be more aware it going forward.
Many dudes can't approach a average woman appropriately how would they ever approach a structured woman?
Leave those dudes to the women they can and will attract. Just like many of them cannot approach women, the same goes for saying that many men are more than capable of doing so.
Stephan always tell the truth in respectful and tackful way! Keep being u, Stephan!
Thank you.
I know this excerpt is from the DC event! I was there 🙋🏽♀️... You were AMAZING! Thank you for BLESSING all in attendance with your wisdom and insight!
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This is awesome massage.. Its very true,a man who has it together doesn't care about what ever the woman's has got,all he requires is care,love and respect from her.
This was a bomb dropped on me! Thank you Stephan! Omg. I am so sad you dont do one on one coaching. Please do more webinars if you have time. I love your insight. I never realized men didn't care about my degrees and economic status. Love and support is EASY for me lol.
You right! I use to until somebody told me they thought I was mean cause facial expression and energy. I am very sweet person to the core. I changed that right away. Lately, I have been noticed the more and more in tap into feminine energy ( smiling more, more loving, confident, more caring, more warm, and sweeter) the more. I have grab men's attention around me lately. They are flirting, staring, and trying to making conversation everywhere. I did something different with my appearance now men checking to see what's going on. Truth! Great video! Thank you!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼preach!! Ugh I love your knowledge and delivery! Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant!!
Very nice. Very concise and understandable. Great video!!
Thanks very much! Read your book The Man God has for me! Wonderful and thanks for your words of advice! 🦋
"Stop leading with your accomplishments and lead with your character."
Well!!!!
I don't know how I knew to do this, but still ... I end up in the friends zone. But it's okay. This too shall pass.
That's God protecting you...say thank-you Jesus.
@@nay9nay Yes!!! & Thank You!!!
Does leading with character apply to men as well? God gives each of us each the possibility to be successful. Women should not have to hide their talents, ambition, education, or success. No one should have to make themselves "small" around others. Let your ordained purpose shine through. It may help others around you!
I don’t think it’s just the energy. Sometimes you may be very humble and doing your thing. Being feminine and giving him his place as a men but he still feels insecure and intimidated because you’re doing well. 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Very true
You hit the nail on the head !!!!!!!!!!!! Very well said.
girl exactly!!!
Step up. If I'm doing well because I've worked hard. Why so intimidating?
Exactly. I experience this more times than not.
Good message! There is a lot of women that do this very thing as well as compete w/ their man. It's the craziest thing.
I can dig that men are intimidated by the energy, not the money! But, I still think there are some insecure men who are bothered by the money regardless of your energy! 🤨
True,
Bothered by the money or bothered by the perceived power struggle and emasculation?
Sherwood Walker Both!
Agreed! Many men equate their self worth with the money they make so they may not be too comfortable with a woman making as much as them or out- earning them, no matter what energy she exudes.
Fay Marie it does matter to me as long as we operate as a team. I win and she wins the team wins.
You are on point here, Stephan!!!!!
@Steven Speaks BEAUTIFULLY SAID!
Your explanation is simplistic, and clear. WONDERFUL! Thank you X
I keep telling dudes tho as black women we can’t be nice to everyone and when we’re too nice we end up in danger.
True
Exactly
Stephan Speaks You are so right 😂. Thanks cause I got tired of pepper spraying and stabbing men lol. They get that out of control smh.
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Simone Peter it’s not about being nice it’s about being feminine. Not being afraid to be girly, or prissy. Of course we have to protect ourselves and have a backbone but when your energy as a woman is masculine, a masculine man will be turned off by that. A lot of feminine BW were told that they are too girly or prissy. I’ve been told that and I don’t understand what’s wrong with it. I say of course it’s only natural as a female.
I have to agree with him!
Well said, no woman wants to feel and be “ butch”... and if I see a man too feminine.. I’m walking the other way because there can only be one woman in this friendship, relationship period...watch how you do walk into a room you Energy will speak for you before you even open your mouth.. vibes matter..✊🏽🤴🏾✊🏽👸🏾🙏🏽🔥
Finally a man that tells women the truth!! Great video!
The main problem is men and women trying to mold people to fit their wants and expectations. If she’s too masculine or he’s too feminine, move on! Somebody will like them without them having to change for anybody. Be true to yourself at all times people! Don’t get wrapped up in this physical traditional world. You’re born alone, you’ll die alone and all you’ll leave behind is the essence of you.
Yes sir..... I hear you...you are helping us...yes I love it. It was very nice meeting you in Dallas I have followed you for years thank you teacher.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks when you come back to Dallas, Im there! I am subscribed so I should get an email but I will be checking. You are a blessing!
Always on point 🙌
I agree Stephan😊💙
I'm so Glad i found this channel me and my wife love your advice to the world
Great info! So true! Thanks
Some Black men feel jealous, resentful, insecure and ashamed when their Black women are more successful. These type of Black men need a relationship with THE LORD JESUS CHRIST because they can become very dangerous to the Black Woman !
Thats true Marie
Marie Nicole And so do the women. We came into this world with nothing and will leave with nothing. Plus did not Christ always correct the Pharisees and scribes for their self-righteous behavior. If men are guilty of this what sins or flaws do the successful black women have that equal or exceed theirs? If the righteous of successful black exceeds that of the black man she will still be lost in the end. The standard is Christ. I pray that black men and women love and honor each other and stop trying to tear each other down.
Really?
Marie Nicole granny you sound dumb
@@hg2blackcat411 Nah, things are changing and religion is dying here in the West. Good riddance too.
No, we don't need to know our place, we are past that. It's funny though because it seems that a lot of misogynistic men like you just want slaves and not a real relationship. This hatefulness toward women are making women not want to be in any relationships and they are walking away. Being single is much better than dealing with disdainful, egotistical, angry, bitter men with a narcissism streak such as yourselves. Things are changing and men are slowly but surely losing their dominance over women and that is what this all really boils down too. You are angry because of that.
No, you will no longer tell us to "know our place" Maybe instead, you should be learning yours,
Yes Sir! Love it!
Stephan speaking soooo much truth !!!
Key words...the men who have their “stuff together”.
51% of black men are single and childless. 60% of black men are middle class. And the average black man out earns black women, both as a collective and in virtually every industry. And the average black male only earns 10k a year less than the average white man in this country.
So black men who have their business together aren’t a rarity. They’re the norm.
Ego feminists and my achievements defines me type of woman famous question?----------------Are men intimidated by my money, my success, my brains, my smartness? Do I have to ‘play smaller’ than who I am to get a man to love me? It’s a great question, and my answer is, NO!
A healthy Man, with a good sense of self-esteem and confidence and his own set of goals and accomplishments, will not be intimated by your success and power. However, and this is where the big catch lies, he will not fall in love with you BECAUSE OF it, either. men are not intimidated by Your smartness. They truly appreciate your intelligence and intellectual merit, but that is it. You're connecting with men at a superficial mental level and that is the only level at which they could respond to You-“Wow, she’s smart” and not, “Wow, I want to see her soul.” You're actually the one blocking men from connecting with you because You're afraid to be seen. Vulnerability scared the hell out of you. If suddenly all Your external achievements and honors were taken alway from you, You would feel naked, insecure and worthless. Yourself-worth is attached to what You do and not who You're. The problem is not that You're smart and accomplished and men are intimidated by you, but that You wanted to be loved for it at the expense of who You actually is. Men just don’t connect that way, in fact nobody does. The one fundamental truth: is
Men loved you for who you are, and not for what you've achieve. Your pure souls, your weaknesses (yes, those too!), your fears, your vulnerabilities, your passions and your dreams-your inner content is what inspires a man to get to know you, to connect with you in deeper ways. He needs to be able to see you and you need to allow him to do so. A man does not fall in love with you because you've travelled over 20 countries, speak five languages, wear Chanel make up and run a company. When was the last time you just sat on a date with a man without an urge to narrate how great you are and project how great your life is?
When was the last time you shared with a man, what makes you afraid, what brings tears to your eyes and what brings a smile to your lips? Even the thought of letting a man really see you and being vulnerable before him would make you especially the strong and guarded part in you, feel icky and activate your defense systems. The fear of appearing imperfect and weak overtakes and all of a sudden, all you want to do is get back to appearing strong and together. For many of women today, this has becomes the pattern of relating to others in your lives. You cut off the possibility of connection with others, not just men. It is therefore not surprising that many successful women-like You -experience disconnection with men and attribute it to the man feeling intimidated.
Well said. I agree with the points you make. However, there are some men who are intimidated by women making more than them or being more educated than them. For example, I know of instances where if a woman and a man are in an argument and the woman points out that the man is lying or that what he is saying doesn’t make sense, he'll become defensive and say that she is throwing her education in his face or talking down to him. I completely agree with your point and Stephens point--- we should not lead with our education on our sleeve as though it will make a man fall in love with us. However, there is truth behind the idea of men being intimidated. Moreover, when women open up and show vulnerability, many men (or grown boys I should say ) lay in wait to exploit their weaknesses and take advantage or play on their insecurities. Just saying...
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Patrick Brian well said bro....ladies strip urself of it do called achievements then you will see ur real worth. Now the question is what are you worthy of? Point is it success don't intimidate men....it repulses them. A man was wired to lead so anything short of it....is a beta.
James Armah you are awesome. This type of women needed details explanation which you have commented. If they are really intelligent then they will not ask again.
Fay Marie I suggest you stop dating grown males and date grown Men.
Well said!
The problem is alot of people aren't raised in a two parent household today. Need a DAILY example of what it looks like. My best relationships were with women her parents were still married. I was just young and dumb at the time.
Great points, so helpful wow
This Made So Much Sense & Clicked For ME-Absolutely NOT Would I Want An Feminine Man So Why Must I Be Masculine? Ding, I Don't Have To Be.
Good Advice Stephan..
Great video!
That was really good!!!!
Great advice thank you
Awesome word
Very, very wise counsel!
So what I hear you saying is; be strong be successful and accomplish your dreams, there’s a place and a time for that, but with your partner allow that time to be a unity that’s shared among partners sharing the love and connection to each other/ it’s not a time to impress or overpowering one another,
Matthew 19:6
The best answer to this thus far
Breeny Lee has a recent video “Why Men Are Imitated By You” where she talks about this as well. It was pretty insightful and mirrors what you’re addressing.
Update: and she added a new one? “How To Be Feminine ” lots of good points to consider 🥰
It's nonsense.
Great Advice Indeed
That’s true too I never thought about it like that . A lot of men are intimidated by strong women. I never thought about it like that tho. Great point.
He said it best without being disrespectful💯
❤Absolutely love your mind..
I love this video
I have to make a comment about this because I am a woman that leads with her character and non-accomplishments and I have to turn this around and say men need to lead with their character and not have me sit there it can consistently listen to their list of accomplishments and bragging points. I feel like I get nonstop it’s all about me from my husband and I want that man that I can rely on and relate to and feel emotionally fed by but this man clams up all the time doesn’t share anything and he’s the cheater and I’ve been the one who is the feminine woman the support of one the one that wears flowers in her hair, Artistic, compassionate, not necessarily full of zest because I feel like my spirit has been killed so your recommendation for women to not have those masculine traits I think sometimes comes out of survival mode because their needs aren’t being met by the man who won’t lead by his character and only leads by his accomplishments
How long are you staying in a relationship to be able to recognize this about a man? Only you allow who comes into your life.
Oh yes. They get to be as proud and accomplished as they wanna be. They can shout it from the rooftops. But us? We have to hide who we are and what we've done so they'll feel better about themselves 😏. Bullshit.
Exactly 💯
Finally somebody said it! Why would anyone want to hear anyone (let alone a man) brag all the time? Men do it a lot and it is not appealing listening to a braggart.
Women wants someone older than them, have more height, make more money than them
Men wants someone younger than us, shorter than us, make less money than us
Thats how male and female attraction works.
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All successful people have certain common characteristics. Woman find these qualities sexy in a man but men find these qualities repulsive in a woman.
Successful woman don't intimidate men just like seriously feminine men don't intimidate women. Its just a great turn off.
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Men and women look for different things in thier partners we are wired different
I need a flower...lol I died 🤣😂🤣💃...but this is the honest truth though...
Dang, why does this man understand us so much? Are there any other like him in stock?
I hear what he is saying, but what characteristics do identify as feminine and as masculine?
I can agree with this but I must say that I find it difficult to keep up this routine when my single ladies and I date guys who're afraid of spiders, can't change a tire and have to be asked to open our doors. I'm looking all cute with my fem energy glowing and now I feel like I have to teach him how to treat me. I think those who have any issue may actually just want their mothers...to make them feel better? Instead of doing all the work, I'll just date myself. IJS...Truth
Sounds like you want a traditional man while not being a traditional woman. Can't have it both ways.
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Yes they are
How about you are correct ❤
All women should be successful full stop!
Lady J All men should be extra successful.
@@menaretheprize2673 no It can be both
Makes sense. What created the "loss" of feminine energy though 🤔
A.S.L. M. Great point!!!! Women being required to step up and take care of the entire household (for whatever reason)
Feminism lol
Our “dark skin” 🙄
Agreed. You can't softly ask to stop being treated like a mule. You have to let it be known, then reinforce it. Unfortunate but true.
That could be part of it
A healthy man...will not be intimated by your intellect. A healthy man...can see past the smoke screen. A healthy man....will choose you & not tell you how lucky you are to have him. A healthy man....is a pillar in his community. A healthy man...knows to leave you alone cuz your not the one and won't string you along for his own financial benefits.
So what's a healthy women?
A healthy man is he, who has defeated CORONA virus & thiks his wife as SARS virus.
@@j.inkstv Crickets..4 months & counting.
I don't think any man wants a woman who doesn't need him to some degree...tone it down because to me it comes off cocky...I just tried it after listening to a similar video from Stephen and I got offended on a date lol🤷🏾♀️
It sounds like you are suggesting that women need to try/work/struggle/alter/change/adjust, in order to earn the great gift that is the attention of a man (Can you hear the sarcasm?). Are you suggesting that the method to getting what you want is to be different? This is the SAME message big business sells us... “you’ll find true love with this lipstick/ this surgery/ this FLOWER...”. Maybe there is actually another way... What if we were to LET GO of the desire for something outside of ourself? What would we be missing then? Oh... nothing.
So you don't think women require a man to change his character to accommodate his partners needs once he's in a committed relationship?
He's simply saying women shouldn't alter their feminine side as they become successful....women should be more focused on who they are (e.g supportive..humble...kind) more of that rather than their accomplishments
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We successful men laugh at these types of women , You only intimidate recessive men, Your degree & money means nothing to us but It means everything to a bum & dusty.
(Quickly looks through wardrobe) Oh, so that's it.🤔
Men aren't intimidated by successful women, but we're smart enough to know that she'll sacrifice you for money.
Man doesn’t approach woman: He was threaten by my success
Man approaches woman: He wasn’t on my level.
Women don’t know what the hell they want 😒
Ladies need to let the men be men!!!
Well. I wouldn't want a man who couldn't meet me where I am.
I would support him til the day I died.
Well. To me. That's essentially what you're saying. I'm to strong for him.
So what if we have out stuff together and our man is still living at home in his 30s, no car, mediocare job ?
I disagree with he just said the first couple minutes of the video. I had a friend who is a man who told me he was afraid of me and I thought that was very strange and weird. we've been knowing each other for over 15 years went to college together and we will laugh and talk. he recently told me this and I asked him why why are you afraid of me. I thought it was strange he said because I was smart and strong and he said it seems like he have talked to women from where I grew up at seem like they are strong smart and independent and seemed like they don't want a men. I said to him Women has been hurt so many times and they just don't want to take that chance anymore. they rather be by themselves then to be hurt. also who's going to take care of them. which a woman should be taking care themselves anyway it's not a guarantee every woman is going to get married. I always have been kind and loving toward him I have never disrespected him nor talk to any kind of way. Still this very day I'm trying to understand why would he tell me that I'm not sure we wasn't he was just laughing and talking out of the blue he just said that to me.
I think Stephan may over generalizing. I definitely want a man who is in touch with his feminine side. As the for the CEO who marries a cashier, he may be looking for a more submissive woman. Not a woman who will challenge him.
Men need to be strong.
Tap into your feminine energy 🙌🏾
Women wants someone older than them, have more height, make more money than them
Men wants someone younger than us, shorter than us, make less money than us
Thats how male and female attraction works.
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All successful people have certain common characteristics. Woman find these qualities sexy in a man but men find these qualities repulsive in a woman.
Successful woman don't intimidate men just like seriously feminine men don't intimidate women. Its just a great turn off.
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Men and women look for different things in thier partners we are wired different
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Ahhhh I just became 19
I'm rich (Dad), will be rich (self made), extremely beautiful (people's gaze), virtuous etc. Y the heck will I even look at someone who isn't capable to even pay for my one makeup brush.
This intimidation excuse shit is getting old. Majority of these so called successful women are in debt, the intimidation excuse is just another shaming tactic they use against you when you don’t want to deal with them.
BOTH are needed. When you’re too feminine you get dog walked & disrespected. I balance them BOTH.
At this point I’m probably going to die alone. WGTOW
Im a strong successful beautiful black woman...and men are intimidated...amazing!! didn't know I was carrying masculine energy...I did grow up with my brothers and boy cousins......but I dress really girly and feminine as well......it makes sense tho...thank you
No but we’re intimidated by successful men though. Jealousy is a real thing.
Not intimidated....simply put off...
If all these woman all have masculine energy, why does it change the whole game when they are lying about their jobs?
A strong woman needs a stronger man, then she won't grow too much wings. He has to be stronger in every way more than her
I think the man I'm in fellowship with is sick now that I'm hearing all the comments. I'm was thinking that he was for me and the things I do only to find out that he intimidated by what I say,do and lifestyle. That's so sick to me. The more he shows me that side of of him even tho I'm attracted to him it killing my Love,passion ,etc for him
Please just leave him then. For both of you.
The dynamic between men and women is damn near the same dynamic as white people and black people in the workplace. Be smart, but not too smart. Speak up, but not too loudly. Don't you dare be more successful than them. Don't talk about your accomplishments. The focus can't ever be on you lest the other party feels ignored. Tone down your natural energy so the other party doesn't feel threatened. Don't wear your hair like this or like that because it's "too black." Don't be too masculine because you're coming across too strong. Don't be too feminine because you're coming across too weak. Black women can't win for shit in this world.
😅😅😅😅...why do I feel as if Mr. Labossiere was speaking about me???
I own up to it~~I admit I'm feminine like no one's business. However, I have had a gf and a male acquaintance both tell me I am too "hardcore." What I am is NO NONSENSE where f***ery is concerned..thus the reason i put on that B.S. REPELLANT (i.e. "masculine energy").
Is that other guy Derrick Jaxn?
@@MeetStephanSpeaksthank you for replying 😁
I just noticed that it was derrick
Men want to feel needed, and successful women don't need a man, but to be wanted is more powerful. I'm a girl who will fix my car with nails all done, and dolled up. Don't turn it on us exuding strength that most men are to weak to handle. I will not change who I am to stroke a man's ego.
I think you are interchanging the meaning of "need" and "want"
@@journee8724 no, there is a difference between want and need.
*Yeah TBH wemen, we just want a woman that just loves us back men are simple minded so why make/think everything complicated??? makes sense???*
To be honest...women make things complicated... If all of us just focus on character like what Stephen said.. It would be much easier
Think you should teach men how to handle successful women; stop making women always have to forego our success and security for tye male. Let's try mtg in middle. Learn how to enjoy a women's successes to add to a relationship.
A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT WORTH JUMPING THROUGH ALL THESE HOOPS........WOMEN NEED TO STOP THINKING THAT A RELATIONSHIP IS THE IS ALL AND END ALL....NO ONE ..MALE OR FEMALE SHOULD BE ROUGH TOUGH HARD OR CRUEL.....LOOK AT THE FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT.....THOSE ARE THE CHARACTERISTICS AND CARRIAGE ALL CHRISTIAN SHOULD HAVE.....YOU ALSO MENTION A LOT OF WORLDLY POWER AND MONEY TRAITS THAT WOMEN ARE ""SUPPOSED TO VALUE "" OR IT SEEMS .....IN A MAN....JESUS SAYS THE LOVE OF MONEY....IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL ....SO NO ONE MALE OR FEMALE SHOULD BE EVALUATED BY THE GOLD STANDARD....THAT IS THE PROBLEM IN THE WORLD.....SO LONG AS SOMEONE....ANYONE...
WHO IS ABLE TO WORK...
IS WILLING TO WORK....IS THE BIBLE STANDARD....JESUS KINGDOM...IS NOT OF THIS WORLD....AND YOU ARE ENCOURAGING MEN AND WOMEN TO EVALUATE EACH OTHER BY TOO MANY WORLDLY STANDARDS...
MONETARY AND POWER PARADIGMS..
.INSTEAD OF HEART MIND AND SPIRIT.....
The majority of men are intimidated because they feel incompetent now as their traditional role of provider is taken away- hence the rise of tate and Peterson as male role models
Yes they are bc we shine in our divine Goddess power and men are intimidated by that bc they see god as a male only
He is a man. I don’t buy this advice unless the man you meet is prone to be controlling or jealous of what the woman has accomplished.
If he is truly a whole, loving man that won’t be a problem just loving the lady and not envying her. It’s really about controlling the woman. The lady he mentions at the doughnut shop may be a great woman but will bow down , be needy, dependent, and an easy Mark for his control and abuse. That’s the truth of the matter.
Be feminine but not weak and stupidly submissive