Imagine you had a son you love, care the most, and then you lost him forever because he saw some mentally ill/disabled person on the internet speak bs about their made out ideology and thought that it's something real that he should do. And now you can't get him back, he's lost in the abyss of retardation that the LgBtQ thing is.
That’s not “reality” at all. If you support transgender rights then you accept it for everyone. I’ve never met or heard of anyone, ANYWHERE who claimed to support trans rights but then disowned a family member who transitioned.
The audience claps cuz they are all paid to clap, cheer and boo whenever the teleprompter tells them. The screen says clap and they clap, the screen says cheer and they cheer. It's not a real audience. Most shows do this, which is why many talk shows are cringe.
@@CAfakmykak I dont neccesarily think that is think that's factual we went to a taping of the view about ten yrs ago they only held up a clap sign when the host came out .I personally think people clapped because there insensitive and relish in people's pain
@@denisestevens3102 I would disagree, there is no way everybody in the crowd clapped at the EXACT same time and everyone in the crowd supporting the trans guy. They're either only letting people with a certain opinion be in the audience or they are telling them when to clap and such. Look at other talk shows and stuff, it's basically all the same. You even said "The complete ignorance of the audience clapping", you really think 100% of them support being trans if they were not paid or had signs telling them what to do?
@@denisestevens3102 Bro a quick google search will prove you wrong, not all shows pay but there's definitely some that do. Even if they are not paid they definitely have "clap" "cheer" signs, or the audience is encouraged to be "over the top with there reactions". People who have been in shows have posted online about this.....
Yeah. Pain. Make no Mistake and claim Dr.Phil 'uses peoples pain to get money': You miss the point if you dont understand theres more to say here ABOUT the 'Pain'. This Pain is caused by social-Issues. This is the same Pain a Conservative Mother feels when their Child is playing D&D, which we all KNOW is EVIL! The same Pain that Unhealthy-Trump-Supporters felt when Trump wasnt elected; some of them literally going on their Knees. This is the Pain of someone who got indoctrinated and groomed to think you 'Lost' your Child if its not exactly how you wanted it to be.
@G4B5Y - I’ll help you: Selfish is creating your own nonsensical pronouns which you INSIST people must use. (When you’ve already got a unique first, middle, and last name which identifies you….).
HOW? HOW? HOW? People who want to come onto Dr. Phil show desperately want to come on the show. They are not forced to come on the show; they choose to.
THEY SIGNED UP AND WERE PAYED TO BE ON THIS IF IT IS EVEN REAL. Do I like the show myself, not really... but ppl please. They probably emailed the producers hundreds of times to get a chance to be on the show.
@@ripihy Unconditional love doesn't mean a parent should agree or celebrate every part of their child's life. Parent's also have children who abuse alcohol and drugs. Parents should accept what their child is and love them unconditionally, but the parents should also want their children to get help. Same with being transgender. People who are trans are much more likely to self harm and abuse substances to cope with their gender dysphoria. They should get the help they need to cope with it in a healthy manner.
@@blackhole7909 transgender women are not women, that is a biological fact, this doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t be treated with respect, it just means that they are not a woman, I’m not willing to argue with someone who disagrees with science
@@jeremyw.6946 Its not that easy buddy! ..its a tough thing to have to deal with..not all people think the same and that's not a bad thing. His father clearly loves him and is not a bad person. Hes not berating his son in anyway he just finds it tough to deal with cause this is something that he wasn't prepared for.
It’s worst than your son dying physically, I imagine. Your son is still dead, but you’re not even allowed to mourn, instead they tell you to celebrate it. Society is doomed
@@rachelholmes245 hahaha! Omg no one died! Just let them live how they want to live and be happy for them. If you cant do that you dont deserve kids to start with.
@@suborelseilltakeitpersonal8349 Facts! It amazes me how so many people invalidate the father's feelings and say "he's needs to accept it and get over it." Such entitlement!
@@ajaxjohnson7999 well clearly he can be upset, his emotions are valid because he lost a son but he needs to realise that his kid is so much happier living as she is now. she even said he didn’t do anything wrong, and i do hope that they have an okay relationship now. he lost a son, but didn’t lose a kid (unless he disowned her)
Can’t blame him for feeling how he feels. He raised a boy to be a man and feels like he’s failed. There’s no judgement there’s no discrimination , just pain.
I wish more comments explained like this how they understand instead of getting mad at one or the other. They are both hurt and grieving, and lucky for them they still have a relationship that cam be fixed, better than most
Yea it’s is discrimination and hate it’s sexism. If his daughter transitioned to a man he wouldn’t be nearly as upset. This idea that trans women have somehow “failed” by becoming women is an inherently sexist and patriarchal idea.
@@Dakota-s3foh shame on you, you piece of work, it would devastate him the same if not more, imagine raising your kid and they throw all their values just to feel "happy", and usually those trans people off themselves pretty quickly
@@laylatheskinniest lmao "she is doing well""she just changed A BIT" wtf are you insane a bit ????? gtfo mate. he lost his world, you don't understand what does it mean to have a son has a father.
Im a father of a single loving boy. I love him to pluto and back... but if he ever comes to me and say hes transition to trans then im blowing my brains out infront of him and let him live with that and the decision that came with his consequences...... the pain that father feels.... its feels like having your flesh ripped off very very very slowly. Fathers worst nightmare
Try and understand what this must be like from the father’s perspective. You can preach all you want that he should be accepting of his child regardless, however he must’ve felt a sense of pride when he held his “son” as a baby. He probably had dreams of his “son” becoming a man, getting married etc. As a result of this change, that’s an entire reality he will no longer get to experience. That’s gotta hurt man. He’s not necessarily transphobic per say, he just feels he has failed as a father.
Honestly, if I was in his fathers shoes, I was would be in shock too. My son is my life and I will always consider himself “my boy.” If you take that away from me, it would take me time to adjust. Anger first then hopefully acceptance.
i could understand how that could be difficult 100%. and could take time to get used to. but as a parent you’re supposed to support your kid & their choices that bring them happiness. imagine hiding who you are as a person your entire life & then finally having the courage to be yourself and have everyone you love make you feel horrible for it.
@@ameliasiebertr ummm this should have never been televised. The father was obviously overstimulated. If this was behind closed doors, it could have had a better result.
My father had struggle supporting me too, after a while he came around and now my gender is not even a topic at all. Im still the same person and our relationship as family is the same as before.
Except the child who’s finally happy now? Are we really supposed to care about a father who completely invalidates his child’s feelings and emotions because he’s ignorant and selfish?
@@alexanderb2193 and the child invalidates the father with their actions. I don't understand how the trans communities argue and expect respect of their opinions, however don't respect the opinions of elderly. These people were raised and taught almost their whole lives stuff like this is wrong. If you're taught something your whole life it's hard to break away from that or understand. He clearly doesn't see this as what the child wants to be he sees this as him losing his son and didn't do good enough. He's not even really transphobic he's blaming himself more than his kid
@@colddaysnowdays he does not have to share that child’s delusion and if that child is refusing help for a mental disorder then all he can do is turn his back
@@seanparkk19 he doesn't lose anything but gains his real identity and peace of mind. the uncle / father has no right over the 'boy' , the boy/girl should have been dressed better, but it's his/her right
This emotional pain comes from the soul making apparent the spiritual ramifications of the young man’s choice. Such a wicked generation without understanding.
well its always accept your kids no matter what until its his own kid hes just gonna have to accept it. i understand its new and shocking but hes clerly gonna have to get used to it.
i agree but this is the first time this man has seen his child as the opposite gender. it will be a shock and he was upset due to all of his dreams/hopes of seeing his “son” grow up to be a man and get married and do guy things w him. it’s a shock u have to look at both sides of this story.
@@smacklol5363 Exactly. It's important to look at both sides. Of course the daughter deserves to be accepted for who she is, and parents should accept their children. But parents are human too, and he was visibly very upset at first and that doesn't make him a bad person for his initial reaction
it's always fun to see confused people complaining about a sane man not accepting their delusions, the psychological pain may be real, but if you have pain, you go to the doctor, A REAL DOCTOR.
@@Matt-nr3bhHis son deserves love yes, and his father loves him, that's why his father wants him to realize that he's not a girl, he's a confused man in need of help.
@@stuff2047 I appreciate your sentiment, I know it's heartfelt. But they knew they were going to be on TV. And they may have even had their own reasons beyond being on TV. Why they wanted to be on Dr. Phil is their business and theirs alone
I'm sorry, this might sound wrong. But I feel like they shouldn't have done this in Dr. Phil. This is a conversation that should take place at home between the two of them. Not on national TV Infront of millions of people
This issue is common in America. That is why many people wanted to bring such conversation to national TV. There are better way to do it but this needed to be addressed. The parents or loved one effected by others person transitioning need to be brought to public attention which media will not show only the story of the one who transitioned.
Society isn't doomed because a grown man doesn't understand what it's like being trans and is sad that his kid didn't turn out how he wanted, that's selfish even ignoring the trans angle of it- If you as a parent can't deal with your kid turning out exactly how you want them be it in terms of career, Relationships and Whether or not they're LGBT then you're not ready to be a parent
It's like the little boy you had adventures with died. So when you look at the images of the past with your little boy....you cannot relate and he died. I feel this father
@@gameforce7791 how is it worse there still his kid she hasn't changed a bit she's still the same person you make your horrible by being that why my mother is still the same was in denial because I'm male instead of being a girl like she's prefers I'd be but oh well if people choose to make it hurt that that's them nothing changes but looks the heart stays the same
His son, that he held in his arms from the day he was born, suddenly comes in looking like a female. Don’t pretend like you’d be all excited and joyful seeing your own flesh and blood go through a whole gender reassignment process
His feelings most likely come from him being taught to see trans people as unnatural or evil in some way. It’s still his child no matter what, once the person is grown up you can’t be there to tell them what to do, you have to be there for them and not reject them.
@@Coolhalo not a matter of rejection; it is LOSS in it's greatest sense. The loss of humanity having been replaced with confusion/delusion and a complete break of reality.
Dr. Phil is the best at this. He’s the only one that ever tries to find common ground without bringing in his personal biases. What he did was a true devil’s advocate.
He’s grieving for the son he’s lost. Doesn’t means he’s homophonic, he just lost a son & is processing that. I think the emotional turmoil of the parents are sometimes overlooked & it’s all about the individual coming out. It’s a big deal.
Ed don't you think this could really help people in the future going through the same thing. And do you forget that they both signed up for this? I think it's good for erybody to see this. This shii is happening in real life eryday.
@@dawn-fp3zw so basically what your saying is the father is not allowed to be heartbroken who are u to say that u are not that persons father so he cant have his own opinions your a joke
Me to, not getting in on the transgender debate but it’s the idea of wanting to raise a strong son and having that exciting life planned and when that derails you feel like you failed, that man still loves his son but it hurts him because that’s not how he thought things were going to go
Yeah I think he comes from another time another world, and even now transgenderism isn’t accepted whole by society and it might still upset parents and loved ones, so you could never criticise this man for having initial shock, it’s what he does afterwards to reconcile
@@destroyerofmoronswoah there partner, yeah he’s probably disappointed his father but has the right to feel what he feels. On the fathers side though, he feels like he lost someone and he’ll never see them again and that he’s failed as a father. Either way finding out that a son is trans is horrible for both parties because one feels betrayed and feels like they failed and the other disappointing someone they viewed as a role model.
How pathetic u are guys. This is how u'll end up consoling in a state of shock while few POLITICIANS and MEDIA COORPORATIONS snatched ur livelihoods and children to brainwash them in becoming aliens and robots. U CAN'T EVEN STAND UP TO THEM. then i don knw why u get SURPRISED if this is what you anticipated. RRAP WHAT U SOW.
And your "son" most likely would have just killed herself afterwards to see her mere existence is emotional torture to you. Now you dont have your child who you raised at all
It's one thing to make your mother cry but it's a whole different story when it's your father. If you ever hurt your father it's something you don't want.
@@abhishekchavhan2018he is a failure let's say only 1 person is left to protect a place and decides to quit his great service and becomes trans and no one is left to protect the place would you support them or hate on them
The father blames himself which is rough he didn't do anything wrong but deep down in his heart he thinks he failed as a father and nobody can blame him I would be reacting the same way
@@daffow4904 I think he did too. Dont know the full story but I certainly wouldnt assume the father didnt have an impact here. He's probably thinking about all the things he could've done differently through the years.
I mean, I do feel sad because he is sad, but he shouldn’t. He didn’t do anything and it doesn’t do anything if he is like this. It is kind of like hearing your child just got brain surgery. You feel sad, but it is good for the child.
The problem is that the people at first the young folks don’t even realize what consequences what decisions and also which solutions or results will occur. And it’s gettimg trendy So no it’s not really OK it’s OK that people can do it but it’s not OK that we have a massive trend in it because if we’re trending on it what will happen in 20 years?
If identity begins in the brain, and the brain is a part of our biology, which it is, then since it's a part of our body, I'm thinking that trans people are biologically the gender they transition to.
All insecure, self-interested, narcissistic parents cry and whine about their own feelings instead of supporting their child for who they are.@@TemplarX2 It is so much easier to accept than to make it about yourself and victimize yourself.
@@SarcasmIsMyGame_ Why do we feel sad for the perpetrator of the crime?🤣 The funny thing is that the son has no feelings towards his father who is crying intensely in front of him.
@@miguelsaldana2964 Why do we feel sad for the perpetrator of the crime?🤣 The funny thing is that the son has no feelings towards his father who is crying intensely in front of him.
Are yall ok? People cant control this, they are born this way, a parent should love their child unconditionally, and if they cant based on their sexuality or gender orientation maybe thay shouldnt have kids in the first place
This. That's that alot of people forget, imagine you being around someone for decades thinking you know them, believing it. Only for them to turn out to be trans, it really shattere you espcially if its your offspring. And nothing against trans people either, I'm just saying how it is for those around you, espcially if you haven't let them know prior.
@@SuperSwagTino i wish this wasn't true. but i think it is for many. but i cant control how others feel. i just know how i feel, and i know in my heart that this is something i have to do, something that finally makes me feel like myself, like I'm not wearing clothes that don't fit me.
Under no circumstance should this conversation have been shared with the internet. This situation is far too complex and deserves to be speculated within the family only.
If we don't brings to light, we will forever remain in the darkness of ignorance, apathy, ignorance and conflict. MLK Jr tried to teach us that, as did Buddha, Gandhi, Jesus and countless others. We cannot improve what we don't acknowledge. I'm sure Dr Phil said something like that too. The "Big Book" (AA book) also said we cannot change what we don't admit. There needs to be much more conversation about this issue globally. The fact that you want to bury your head in the sand regarding such a serious issue is a symptom of the problem. And it's not your fault. Society teaches us to either ignore or kill things and people we don't agree with.
aw 😩 this made me so emotional… I think that the biggest misconception is that people make it seem like parents don’t have the right to be hurt by something they don’t understand. It’s okay to hurt or disagree, but LOVE is what has to be consistent. I hope that their relationship is great now.
@@ayyboii8108 you don’t always understand hurt. but for someone like this older man who grew up in an era where this wasn’t as normalized or respected, he doesn’t understand it. there is no definite answer as to why he is as emotional as he is. all I’m saying is, being apart of the lgbt+ community myself, I have seen people genuinely hurt or confused for whatever personal reason. and I feel like they have that right to feel that way, as we do about other things. the problem comes in when you CHOOSE to disrespect and “unlove” one because of personal objection…
This poor man, my heart goes to him. Probably hes not even transphobic or homophobic. He think he failed as a father, and his dreams of being at his sons wedding, holding hus nephew, and his old friends congratulating him are now gone.
that’s so selfish. he is transphobic. very transphobic. he won’t listen to what she is saying. he literally said it’s not his fault. he is in no way the victim in this situation so don’t make him out to be one. her well-being and happiness are way more important than any “dreams” that horrible father had.
@@willzisi3888 dude i am talking about his reaction. I think every father will be extremely sad or angry. I dont know the aftermath, in my country we dont got Dr. Phil. But this clip is the father reaction, and i see nothing transphobic. I see a man devastated by (his perceived) guilt, struggling to even see his son. He is even convinced that basically his sons dysmorphia is caused by a joke he made once.
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This is so exploitative. Shame on you.
bro they just all clapping while the father just already hyperventilating
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@@rosiegarza2698 ah yes because men cannot have legitimate feelings right
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@@rosiegarza2698 care to elaborate with evidence?
The father looks like he could have a heart attack just from the shock.
He came back from the military and seeing his son like this who wouldnt get heart attack
Shii I would too
Imagine you had a son you love, care the most, and then you lost him forever because he saw some mentally ill/disabled person on the internet speak bs about their made out ideology and thought that it's something real that he should do. And now you can't get him back, he's lost in the abyss of retardation that the LgBtQ thing is.
@@biofilms22 ew
@@saintmay1952 ?
The reality is that people will support those types of decisions until it happens to their kids
Facts
That is true
That’s not “reality” at all. If you support transgender rights then you accept it for everyone. I’ve never met or heard of anyone, ANYWHERE who claimed to support trans rights but then disowned a family member who transitioned.
And where did you get that from??
@@m.w.2105 You can accept it while not wanting it to happen to those in your family
The complete ignorance of the audience clapping while this father is dealing with such heartbreak cruel and heartless I could feel his pain .
The audience claps cuz they are all paid to clap, cheer and boo whenever the teleprompter tells them. The screen says clap and they clap, the screen says cheer and they cheer. It's not a real audience. Most shows do this, which is why many talk shows are cringe.
@@CAfakmykak I dont neccesarily think that is think that's factual we went to a taping of the view about ten yrs ago they only held up a clap sign when the host came out .I personally think people clapped because there insensitive and relish in people's pain
@@denisestevens3102 I would disagree, there is no way everybody in the crowd clapped at the EXACT same time and everyone in the crowd supporting the trans guy. They're either only letting people with a certain opinion be in the audience or they are telling them when to clap and such. Look at other talk shows and stuff, it's basically all the same. You even said "The complete ignorance of the audience clapping", you really think 100% of them support being trans if they were not paid or had signs telling them what to do?
@@CAfakmykak no audience members get paid to tapings of sitcoms or talk shows.
@@denisestevens3102 Bro a quick google search will prove you wrong, not all shows pay but there's definitely some that do. Even if they are not paid they definitely have "clap" "cheer" signs, or the audience is encouraged to be "over the top with there reactions". People who have been in shows have posted online about this.....
I'd be crying too. No normal man wants this for his son.
Daughter**
@@bullymaguire7693 shut up
@@bullymaguire7693Lmao its son
@@Chill_syr no its not lmao, don’t you see her long hair and dress? That’s a woman
@@bullymaguire7693 LMAO its a man
I am a father with 3 boys at home. This brought tears to my eyes.
It's not a easy situation to see your son wanting to be a girl.
@@OldDumbTeenCommentAccount . same brother.
Hope your boys not only become men, but also Strong Gentlemen
Its easy to raise boys, but it's difficult to raise men, good luck to you and your sons
Sorry but I have to be honest with you, you think you have 3 boys but in the future they will identify as girls
You can see the moment he switches from sadness to hiding the pain.
Yeah. Pain.
Make no Mistake and claim Dr.Phil 'uses peoples pain to get money': You miss the point if you dont understand theres more to say here ABOUT the 'Pain'. This Pain is caused by social-Issues. This is the same Pain a Conservative Mother feels when their Child is playing D&D, which we all KNOW is EVIL! The same Pain that Unhealthy-Trump-Supporters felt when Trump wasnt elected; some of them literally going on their Knees. This is the Pain of someone who got indoctrinated and groomed to think you 'Lost' your Child if its not exactly how you wanted it to be.
Yup, it's pain.
Idk what u mean
This is what *parents* do.
@@turabalikhan1341 None of that was in my mind. Just pointing out how parents will commonly do this when hurt by their children.
Fathers don't usually show much of their emotions, if you see your father cry you should know you messed up real bad.
Who messed up?
@@TdotSoul- His teachers and their union.
His crying is what caused his son to become trans
@G4B5Y - I’ll help you: Selfish is creating your own nonsensical pronouns which you INSIST people must use. (When you’ve already got a unique first, middle, and last name which identifies you….).
@G4B5Y - Agreed. That’s why people can legally change their name if they wish. What are you missing here?
I can tell you as a father with personal experience, this hurts. It's like no pain I've ever felt before. It's like you've lost somebody you love.
I can only imagine
I'm genuinely sorry you have to live with that. I can't even imagine 😢
I feel so sorry for your child. You should be there for them no matter what.
Praying for you AND your family. 🙏
@@Sean-xy4hk no
Every father's worst fear.
you mean parents or any logical thinking human with basic knowledge of biology
Not the child dying?
@@roguetank3526 Yes...
It's not my father's worst fear, he's normal and not transmisogynistic!
@@lwakvra a father who dont fear that his child would cut healthy body parts to live a lie is bad father
This has no business being on TV. It's extraordinarily exploitative of this family.
Well it's dr.phil.This is nothing new
Welll it’s on national television so to late😂
HOW? HOW? HOW? People who want to come onto Dr. Phil show desperately want to come on the show. They are not forced to come on the show; they choose to.
Well, it IS Dr. Phil... nuff said..
THEY SIGNED UP AND WERE PAYED TO BE ON THIS IF IT IS EVEN REAL. Do I like the show myself, not really... but ppl please. They probably emailed the producers hundreds of times to get a chance to be on the show.
"He’s not a good looking girl, he’s a beautiful man." This hits hard on.
I feel extremely bad for that father brought a tear to my eye when he was crying
I feel the same
Yes. It's hearbreaking.
Yeah but he’s gonna have to deal with it, if it was my child, I would love unconditionally
@@ripihy Unconditional love doesn't mean a parent should agree or celebrate every part of their child's life. Parent's also have children who abuse alcohol and drugs. Parents should accept what their child is and love them unconditionally, but the parents should also want their children to get help. Same with being transgender. People who are trans are much more likely to self harm and abuse substances to cope with their gender dysphoria. They should get the help they need to cope with it in a healthy manner.
@@ripihy his son is dead
My respect for the father showing emotions 📈📈📈
@@yusranarais2677 he isnr
So I respect the father hurting his daughter, the reason why he’s showing emotions is bc he doesn’t like his daughter being a girl
Showing his emotions but at the same time desperately staying in control so he can talk. I've been like that
@@blackhole7909 transgender women are not women, that is a biological fact, this doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t be treated with respect, it just means that they are not a woman, I’m not willing to argue with someone who disagrees with science
@@blackhole7909 im pretty sure he had a Adam apple not so long ago
I'm glad we are taking the father's feelings into consideration. These are the people we forget
That literally makes no sense. If you can’t accept your child for who they are then you are the issue & deserve to be forgotten.
@@jeremyw.6946 Its not that easy buddy! ..its a tough thing to have to deal with..not all people think the same and that's not a bad thing. His father clearly loves him and is not a bad person. Hes not berating his son in anyway he just finds it tough to deal with cause this is something that he wasn't prepared for.
The father is crying, and the son has no reaction
@@jeremyw.6946 that mans son is playing dress up
They ask to be on the show dude
It’s worst than your son dying physically, I imagine. Your son is still dead, but you’re not even allowed to mourn, instead they tell you to celebrate it. Society is doomed
It's exactly like that. I'm going through it right now. Not allowed to even see my grandchildren. I'd rather be dead. 💔
I feel this should be included under the trans widows movement as well. Where one has a significant other that transitions
@@rachelholmes245 hahaha! Omg no one died! Just let them live how they want to live and be happy for them. If you cant do that you dont deserve kids to start with.
@@WilhelmLAndre🤡
Nothing is worse than your child dying. Shameless to say this, imo. Wouldn't you rather change your child's name than write their obituary?
You can hear the pain in his voice. He knows he's not going to see his son again
@@YACHIHANNAH well yes obviously. Just not exactly the son he expected. The average parent would be disappointed
@@suborelseilltakeitpersonal8349 Facts! It amazes me how so many people invalidate the father's feelings and say "he's needs to accept it and get over it." Such entitlement!
@@ajaxjohnson7999 well clearly he can be upset, his emotions are valid because he lost a son but he needs to realise that his kid is so much happier living as she is now. she even said he didn’t do anything wrong, and i do hope that they have an okay relationship now. he lost a son, but didn’t lose a kid (unless he disowned her)
@@ajaxjohnson7999 how are people being entitled
@@eggchomp He*
Can’t blame him for feeling how he feels. He raised a boy to be a man and feels like he’s failed. There’s no judgement there’s no discrimination , just pain.
I wish more comments explained like this how they understand instead of getting mad at one or the other. They are both hurt and grieving, and lucky for them they still have a relationship that cam be fixed, better than most
Yea it’s is discrimination and hate it’s sexism. If his daughter transitioned to a man he wouldn’t be nearly as upset. This idea that trans women have somehow “failed” by becoming women is an inherently sexist and patriarchal idea.
@@Dakota-s3fyou don’t know that he wouldn’t feel the same way if he had a trans son.
@@Dakota-s3foh shame on you, you piece of work, it would devastate him the same if not more, imagine raising your kid and they throw all their values just to feel "happy", and usually those trans people off themselves pretty quickly
@@Dakota-s3f its more of the fact that he thinks he has failed as a father for his child even wanting to transition regardless of gender
I remember holding my son at birth, looking forward to all the things a father does with his son. My heart breaks for this man.
"Looking forward to all the things a father does with his son"
What a creep
@@hotmango5647 anime pfp moment
@Dylan McD thanks bro
@@hvr. indeed
@@hotmango5647 Average weeb mindset
Who's still watching this video from 8 years up to now 2024
I watch this everyday for 2 years im still wondering if steph has a vagigi by now
Watching it now
It's the sickest thing that I 've ever watched 👀 Almost sadistic the pleasure on the face of transgender son..wow!!!!!
I’d like to know if the boy is still a trans woman - rapid onset gender dysphoria resolves 18-25 years
8;16 PM NOVEMBER 20 2024 WEDNESDAY
Father is hurting and the crowd is cheering on.
Both sides of the story should be acknowledged and validated.
Notice how 5 years ago it was the “new fashion” and now look where we are. These idiots don’t support anything besides virtue signaling.
@@amyyy3477 No
good
Bad audience
This poor man is digging up every ounce of strength in his being not to fall apart.
I would have the same issue if my mentally ill son had butchered himself in such a way.
Yeah when your kid is mentally ill like that I'd fall apart too
So am I just watching this!!! 😢
4 minutes and 44 seconds of happiness in watching him suffer
Or have a wank
My mom always said it’s really sad when a grown man cry. Hope this father found peace!
I doubt he did!
He had every reason to cry. His son died
he lost his child
I hope the father found peace too. The son never disappeared, she just changed a bit. I hope she is doing well.
@@laylatheskinniest lmao "she is doing well""she just changed A BIT" wtf are you insane a bit ????? gtfo mate. he lost his world, you don't understand what does it mean to have a son has a father.
People have the right to like or dislike something , his father has every right to feel this way .
so he can just dislike people because they were born transgender against their own will ?
I feel so bad for the father I hope he is okay, he looked as if on the verge of having heart attack
He lost his son.
Im a father of a single loving boy. I love him to pluto and back... but if he ever comes to me and say hes transition to trans then im blowing my brains out infront of him and let him live with that and the decision that came with his consequences...... the pain that father feels.... its feels like having your flesh ripped off very very very slowly. Fathers worst nightmare
@@whosurdannyIt’s not your fault if he comes out as trans. You should just accept him
@@qksf1645 of course. Like a muppet
@@qksf1645 No
That’s the face of a man who just had his whole squad wiped out in Vietnam.
Lol
I didn’t find it funny although i felt that
Bro I shouldn’t be laughing but your comment me laugh too hard
@@EvidenceRoom979 I'm in tears rn 😂
@@EvidenceRoom979 ngl that gave me a good laugh
He’s not a good looking girl, he’s a beautiful man. Wise words from an outstanding father
Shut up, SHES a woman, nothing anyone can do about it, not you not me not even her own father
@@bullymaguire7693 I think the word you're looking for is mental. Lol, good joke tho
You hit the nail on the head.
Hes like i want my OLD SON BACK 😢
@@bullymaguire7693 Hes a man
Audience got real quiet when they realized these were real people with real emotions
Try and understand what this must be like from the father’s perspective. You can preach all you want that he should be accepting of his child regardless, however he must’ve felt a sense of pride when he held his “son” as a baby. He probably had dreams of his “son” becoming a man, getting married etc. As a result of this change, that’s an entire reality he will no longer get to experience. That’s gotta hurt man. He’s not necessarily transphobic per say, he just feels he has failed as a father.
He did fail as a father.
@@MiguelDS5547 maybe you failed as a human
@@z0pzip I'm actually a trans-species, I identify as Pepe the Frog.
@@MiguelDS5547 wow so funny i forgot to laugh! no wonder you're a disappointment!
No. Hes dissapointed at his daughter happiness and right to be herself. End of argument.
You know what else is heartbreaking besides seeing your mother cry ? Also seeing your father cry
and it's even worse.
it's even harder, the strength of the family crumbling infront of you
His 'son' seemed to be very cold and emotionless even when seeing his father crying.
@@waldemarsilas6675 Thats what happens when you cut off your junk. All the emotions go with it
@@waldemarsilas6675 of course he is. he is literally watching her father cry because shes being herself
I really felt for the Father. This would be incredibly difficult for him too.
Honestly, if I was in his fathers shoes, I was would be in shock too. My son is my life and I will always consider himself “my boy.” If you take that away from me, it would take me time to adjust. Anger first then hopefully acceptance.
i could understand how that could be difficult 100%. and could take time to get used to. but as a parent you’re supposed to support your kid & their choices that bring them happiness. imagine hiding who you are as a person your entire life & then finally having the courage to be yourself and have everyone you love make you feel horrible for it.
@@ameliasiebertr ummm this should have never been televised. The father was obviously overstimulated. If this was behind closed doors, it could have had a better result.
@@ewjiml oh yeah i agree. definitely
“difficult for the father” what about the trans daughter??
My father had struggle supporting me too, after a while he came around and now my gender is not even a topic at all. Im still the same person and our relationship as family is the same as before.
Im glad your father accepts you everyone deserves respect.
You are deranged
What a kick in the gut for the father. Nobody wins in this picture, it's truly sad.
Except the child who’s finally happy now?
Are we really supposed to care about a father who completely invalidates his child’s feelings and emotions because he’s ignorant and selfish?
Yeah
@@alexanderb2193 Nothing like living a lie to be happy. Do a little research into this gay man and see how things are going.
@@alexanderb2193 and the child invalidates the father with their actions. I don't understand how the trans communities argue and expect respect of their opinions, however don't respect the opinions of elderly. These people were raised and taught almost their whole lives stuff like this is wrong. If you're taught something your whole life it's hard to break away from that or understand. He clearly doesn't see this as what the child wants to be he sees this as him losing his son and didn't do good enough. He's not even really transphobic he's blaming himself more than his kid
@@khravos exactly
The “Why” is so painful omg...got me cutting onions here.
Ikr 🥺
He should accept her. I’m sure she has been through enough
@@aku69157 *him
@@aku69157 it’s a he, and the father doesn’t need to accept him.
@@aku69157 just understand what he's going through he literally lost his son, he became a completely different person
To make a father cry it takes a lot... A LOT... I feel for this man.
True I feel for him to
But he still needs to accept his kid
@@colddaysnowdays no he doesn’t
@@DiedInFire yes he does. that's his kid
@@colddaysnowdays he does not have to share that child’s delusion and if that child is refusing help for a mental disorder then all he can do is turn his back
@@colddaysnowdays that’s attention seeking
An absolute nightmare for this poor father. I couldn’t imagine
If my son ever showed up like this it would shatter me. I understand this man’s pain very well.
usually i’d say “sounds like a you problem” but i know for a fact you’d make your hate your kids problem too.
I hate how you are homophobic
@@rickhammond2473the peak of insanity
@@babs_babs some things should and need to be hated and this is one of them
@@rickhammond2473
Said the reprobate
This is a perfect example of the concept of "nobody wins"
the girl wins, it's HER life
@@oliviawutam Gender Dysphoria does not go away once physically changing appearance, it's something that's within the mind.
@@oliviawutam boy loses, it’s his life*
@@seanparkk19 he doesn't lose anything but gains his real identity and peace of mind. the uncle / father has no right over the 'boy' , the boy/girl should have been dressed better, but it's his/her right
@@oliviawutam there is no girl there
The father seems really heartbroken 💔
🤣😂🤣😂
I would be too
@@bychen5011 I wouldn’t
The real question is: who wouldn't be!
@@assadshewabakhtiar1110 true
This emotional pain comes from the soul making apparent the spiritual ramifications of the young man’s choice. Such a wicked generation without understanding.
I feel so bad for the father too. He looks heartbroken
well its always accept your kids no matter what until its his own kid hes just gonna have to accept it. i understand its new and shocking but hes clerly gonna have to get used to it.
Dont have kids if ur not going to accept them
i agree but this is the first time this man has seen his child as the opposite gender. it will be a shock and he was upset due to all of his dreams/hopes of seeing his “son” grow up to be a man and get married and do guy things w him. it’s a shock u have to look at both sides of this story.
@@smacklol5363 Exactly. It's important to look at both sides. Of course the daughter deserves to be accepted for who she is, and parents should accept their children. But parents are human too, and he was visibly very upset at first and that doesn't make him a bad person for his initial reaction
it's always fun to see confused people complaining about a sane man not accepting their delusions, the psychological pain may be real, but if you have pain, you go to the doctor, A REAL DOCTOR.
i feel so bad for the father and it’s good to know people are on his side here because they should be.
There shouldn’t be sides. These are both humans and they both deserve love bd respect.
Not those who encourage certain lifestyles through outright propaganda. That may not be relevant to this case but it often is.
*Alhamdulillah* for *Islam*
@@Matt-nr3bhHis son deserves love yes, and his father loves him, that's why his father wants him to realize that he's not a girl, he's a confused man in need of help.
I understand his emotions as well but he should try to accept his daughter 🤷 I sure it take time
This in not the sort of thing I’d bring on national television.
why not? Because their is genuine emotion on both sides that appears to be more than just theatrical?
@@rainoffire24 IMO it’s too private a matter for TV.
@@stuff2047 I appreciate your sentiment, I know it's heartfelt. But they knew they were going to be on TV. And they may have even had their own reasons beyond being on TV. Why they wanted to be on Dr. Phil is their business and theirs alone
@@rainoffire24 no disagreement there, was simply stating my personal opinion.
@@rainoffire24 their pain is being exploited for the shock factor it brings. Its all about sensationalism
When he walked on.
Fuuuuuckiiiiiinnell🤣😂
If I was the father, I'd just sit there laughing my head off. The boy's confused. And the make up/wig?😂
I'm sorry, this might sound wrong. But I feel like they shouldn't have done this in Dr. Phil. This is a conversation that should take place at home between the two of them. Not on national TV Infront of millions of people
Totally agree with you
Typical dr Phil moment...
This issue is common in America. That is why many people wanted to bring such conversation to national TV. There are better way to do it but this needed to be addressed. The parents or loved one effected by others person transitioning need to be brought to public attention which media will not show only the story of the one who transitioned.
They both agreed to this.
I feel like if it was just the two of them in a room the father would walk out, but not the son 💀
That is tragic. It's like he's lost his son. I cried with him.
G.D!! HE DID!!
yes but he gained a daughter
@@apasih6854 Dr. Phil sold out long ago, which means you'd be better off getting advice from some drunk guy at a bar.
@@apasih6854 with a mental illness.
@@apasih6854 I don't think you understand how he feels. Maybe if it was your own son you would.
I feel sorry for the father 💔
@@opmab5941 dilate
Me too
@@opmab5941 why be rude?
Me too 😢
why ?? You’re intolerant if u feel sorry for the father. Nothing happend to him. He should accept what her daughter feels like and who she is
I can feel the father pain so much that i cried with him.
Society is doomed.
Society isn't doomed because a grown man doesn't understand what it's like being trans and is sad that his kid didn't turn out how he wanted, that's selfish even ignoring the trans angle of it- If you as a parent can't deal with your kid turning out exactly how you want them be it in terms of career, Relationships and Whether or not they're LGBT then you're not ready to be a parent
It's like the little boy you had adventures with died. So when you look at the images of the past with your little boy....you cannot relate and he died. I feel this father
They're still the same person though?
They can still be related to because they're your child.
@@cassier8414 it is not the same, its like looking at family pictures with yor ex who cheated on you but worse
@@gameforce7791 how is it worse there still his kid she hasn't changed a bit she's still the same person you make your horrible by being that why my mother is still the same was in denial because I'm male instead of being a girl like she's prefers I'd be but oh well if people choose to make it hurt that that's them nothing changes but looks the heart stays the same
@@depressivschwul2377 he*
@@lotsaspaghettimamaluigi she not he she grow tf up and stop being childish
This poor Father. My heart breaks for him.
Why poor him? He’s transphobic.
@@SpiralTheFirst poor father
His son, that he held in his arms from the day he was born, suddenly comes in looking like a female. Don’t pretend like you’d be all excited and joyful seeing your own flesh and blood go through a whole gender reassignment process
@@Taygon094 being a woman and man is natural. Not being trans and all that other stuff.
@@SpiralTheFirst years of raising a child for them to change gender and unable to reproduce, ending the bloodline
The father can feel how he wants to feel, he raised a beautiful son and that got taken away from him. His feelings are valid.
His feelings most likely come from him being taught to see trans people as unnatural or evil in some way. It’s still his child no matter what, once the person is grown up you can’t be there to tell them what to do, you have to be there for them and not reject them.
@@UnkArch yeah coz humans are all about nature now
@@Coolhalo I mean if switching genders were natural you'd see other animals doing that
@@Coolhalo not a matter of rejection; it is LOSS in it's greatest sense. The loss of humanity having been replaced with confusion/delusion and a complete break of reality.
@@Coolhaloa child who is good for nothing
Dr. Phil is the best at this. He’s the only one that ever tries to find common ground without bringing in his personal biases. What he did was a true devil’s advocate.
"I'm hurt bad...really bad"
I am, as a father, feeling the pain this father is feeling right now...
I'm crying😢 he killed me (
Why are you feeling the fathers pain ?
@@jaidaleshe694 this really painful if you have a son. I will educate my son to be better in the future.
@@dohc5976 what does "be better" mean exactly?
Same here 😭
@@jaidaleshe694 because they are a kind person
He’s grieving for the son he’s lost. Doesn’t means he’s homophonic, he just lost a son & is processing that. I think the emotional turmoil of the parents are sometimes overlooked & it’s all about the individual coming out. It’s a big deal.
He was never a man.
*I think you meant to say doesn't mean he's transphobic*
@@bail997 that comment is just delusional. He was a man. She is a transgender woman now.
He never lost anyone. His kid is still very much there. He can still have all the exact same experiences with his kid as he could have before.
What do you have against homophones?
This is so wrong. That's a private family matter. They both deserve support and understanding. Both sides are hurting and scared and confused.
They chose to do it on Dr Phil tho.....
Ed don't you think this could really help people in the future going through the same thing. And do you forget that they both signed up for this? I think it's good for erybody to see this. This shii is happening in real life eryday.
Steph real name zack was married to my cousin Rebecca and hurt her bad from all of this
Exactly ya they didn't have to go on Dr Phil if they didn't want to but that's on them fr fr
And Dr.Phil is not a doctor.
wow, cant pass, the poor father! His son destroyed himself...and now its a beast of a fake unnatural wannabe woman.
Do you know what it's like being trans Kim? No? Then you have no room to speak on what a trans person does to feel comfortable in their own body
Im tired of this world, god save us all
True that
Me too, man... me too.
Jesus will take us out of the evil and crazy world❤️🙏
Same
Speaking facts. WHAT HAS THIS WORLD BECOME. 😭 I HOPE LGBTQ COMMUNITY QUITS
Poor man, he is clearly heartbroken.
I TO WOULD BE HEART BROKEN .
@@dawn-fp3zw so basically what your saying is the father is not allowed to be heartbroken who are u to say that u are not that persons father so he cant have his own opinions your a joke
@jjtolsk shes a woman m8, if u cant handle that fact then go cry abt it lol
@jjtolsk sorry you're stuck in that false reality 🤷♂️
@jjtolsk you seem angry, i suggest a breathing exercise.
1:29 - Man put on all five stages of grief in one face.
Thousand yard stare
@@Sayseyphousepribe that’s going a lot of far😂
@@Sayseyphousepribe looking back at the time stamp you’re right😂
Right.
I'm very proud of her for showing how she really is and confronting her fears, he's just a bad father for not supporting his children to be happy
Him not her you blind 🤦🏾♂️
@@onceagainme Im 20 and ur account looks like a bot
@DoIgopyat you want them to never have kids because they're okay with their children being happy with themselves...?
@@GuesinoThere is no female person speaking in this video
hey look at the full episode.
see what the son has done to hurt people.
then come back to this comment, and tell me what you think.
No father should have to go through this. I feel so sorry for him.
please never have kids
Me to, not getting in on the transgender debate but it’s the idea of wanting to raise a strong son and having that exciting life planned and when that derails you feel like you failed, that man still loves his son but it hurts him because that’s not how he thought things were going to go
The amount of closed-mindedness in this comment section is stunning. Americans have not evolved at all
why for his daughter becoming a girl he needs to deal with it
@@jason_dyre he should not disown his daughter if i was the priminister id make it illegal to be transphobic
I am not a parent yet but I think this would be extremely difficult.
agreed, but you don't own a child
@@oliviawutam that’s why they said “I am not a parent.” Tf
@@oliviawutam you can be 1000% dissapointed for sure!!
Very difficult and insane mate
Don't become a parent. Recently it's like playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded @un
Newsflash: wearing a wig and makeup does not make you a woman.
I agree.
newsflash: She's a woman because she says she's a woman.
@@snipesalvia I agree.
Facts
bro. ur a donald trump fan you should not be talking
She is right to live her life as she wants, and he is right to feel bad. No one is wrong here and that is just how life ends up being sometimes.
One of the only non transphobic comments on here thank you 🖤🖤
Yeah I think he comes from another time another world, and even now transgenderism isn’t accepted whole by society and it might still upset parents and loved ones, so you could never criticise this man for having initial shock, it’s what he does afterwards to reconcile
Very logical take, unfortunately emotions come into play.
NO! *HE* IS A DISGRACE TO HIS FAMILY AND HIS FATHER!
@@destroyerofmoronswoah there partner, yeah he’s probably disappointed his father but has the right to feel what he feels. On the fathers side though, he feels like he lost someone and he’ll never see them again and that he’s failed as a father. Either way finding out that a son is trans is horrible for both parties because one feels betrayed and feels like they failed and the other disappointing someone they viewed as a role model.
“You’re not a good looking woman, you’re a very beautiful man” dude forgot to say no homo lol
Yes say no to omoh
Bruh-
He paused as if waiting for the audience to applause him after saying that too, but nope!
🤣🤣🤣
It’s his father so it’s not gay
If one of my sons came to me this way I would emotionally die like this man clearly did.
You would emotionally die, if you had to burry one of your sons. Be grateful, they would be your child regardless.
He will for real before I die in prison
@@aidenw207 Finally someone sensible 😂
How pathetic u are guys. This is how u'll end up consoling in a state of shock while few POLITICIANS and MEDIA COORPORATIONS snatched ur livelihoods and children to brainwash them in becoming aliens and robots.
U CAN'T EVEN STAND UP TO THEM. then i don knw why u get SURPRISED if this is what you anticipated.
RRAP WHAT U SOW.
And your "son" most likely would have just killed herself afterwards to see her mere existence is emotional torture to you. Now you dont have your child who you raised at all
It's one thing to make your mother cry but it's a whole different story when it's your father. If you ever hurt your father it's something you don't want.
lol wut? gimme a break. if his mom was crying itd be just as sad
@Benzzzo haters call me gay but that ain't really hating cause I'm not homophobic my morals are straight
- bo Burnham
Rubbish... Its exactly the same..
@@MsDudette21 father doesnt show his emotions, but once it was shown... its clearly horrible mistake, like this failed abortus
@@miof896 bukvalno dude
imagine raising your son to be a real man working at the military, all of the sudden this happens
I’d be as hurt as the father in this video.
Imagine having a father that feels you are a failure as a son(child) because of who you are, not what you did or did not do.
@@abhishekchavhan2018he is a failure let's say only 1 person is left to protect a place and decides to quit his great service and becomes trans and no one is left to protect the place would you support them or hate on them
Proof that the military is excessively masculine.
The father blames himself which is rough he didn't do anything wrong but deep down in his heart he thinks he failed as a father and nobody can blame him I would be reacting the same way
Sadly I think he failed
@@daffow4904 I think he did too. Dont know the full story but I certainly wouldnt assume the father didnt have an impact here. He's probably thinking about all the things he could've done differently through the years.
@@daffow4904 I truly and honestly hope you never have kids. She didn't ask to be this way. You are disgusting.
I mean, I do feel sad because he is sad, but he shouldn’t. He didn’t do anything and it doesn’t do anything if he is like this. It is kind of like hearing your child just got brain surgery. You feel sad, but it is good for the child.
Sadly if thats how you'd be thinking you have already failed.
Imagine people clapping and cheering while a father is crying and sad😭. Who are these people 💔💔💔
It was funny Zach turned into Gary’s little princess
People encouraging and showing love to another person who lives even more pain than this father could ever imagine...
They just clapped not knowing what they re clapping.
I want to believe there were some sane people in the crowd who didn’t applaud but anyone who goes to these types of things surely isn’t.
The new world
It’s hit hard when he said “I’m hurt bad...really bad” 💔
😂😂😂😂😂 he’s only pretending so he can make his daughter feel bad and go back to a man
@@pepperghost3477 😂😂
@@pepperghost3477 هههههههههههههههههههههه
مسكين يعني ربى ولد و بالاخير طلع بنت…
@@blackhole7909 dude, just look how his son looks, it’s weird and unacceptable😂
This father is more strong then most men I ever seen
“To biologically become a woman.”
That’s biologically impossible.
Embarrassing
💯
The problem is that the people at first the young folks don’t even realize what consequences what decisions and also which solutions or results will occur. And it’s gettimg trendy So no it’s not really OK it’s OK that people can do it but it’s not OK that we have a massive trend in it because if we’re trending on it what will happen in 20 years?
If identity begins in the brain, and the brain is a part of our biology, which it is, then since it's a part of our body, I'm thinking that trans people are biologically the gender they transition to.
Facts
I don’t even have a son and this brought a tear to my eye.
Worst thing that can happen to a father. All real, decent men feel for this man.
Its proven to be genetic
All insecure, self-interested, narcissistic parents cry and whine about their own feelings instead of supporting their child for who they are.@@TemplarX2 It is so much easier to accept than to make it about yourself and victimize yourself.
did you ever have one? may he's just a daughter now.....
Don’t ever have kids if you won’t love them unconditionally
I totally understand that Dads pain and struggle
20 years wasted. Disappointment.
@@385ers3 Agreed, pal. Agreed. 1/4 of your life, all for nothing.
@@385ers3 then in that case, kill your child and start over. Whats another 21 years?
@𝕴 𝕬𝕸 what? Are you Part of this lgbt Thing? Dont talk to me.
@@385ers3 ❤
He looks Adam Sandler wearing a wig lmao 😂
AHAHAHAHAH
OH MY GOD YOU'RE RIGHT BAHAHAHAAH!
I LITERALLY SUPPORT HIS FATHER
Are you his chair?
Nope 👎
Are you his shoes?
As a father, I am hurting for him. Praying for him.
@@Hugecannonballsunderrated comment
Ladies and gentlemen... this is what happens when europe is at peace
Yes yes so true lol🤣🤣
I dont get it
Hmm cant wait trans women everywhere hmmmmhmm
@@daviddekaj2085 Me either 🤷🏻♀️
Yes
When a millitary man is crying, you can understand how hurt he is!!! I hope NO ONE has to go through this pain ever.
What about the pain of the daughter?
@@miguelsaldana2964
Seems like people only see the father's perspective. Must have been hard for her too.
@@miguelsaldana2964 You mean the son.
@@SarcasmIsMyGame_ Why do we feel sad for the perpetrator of the crime?🤣 The funny thing is that the son has no feelings towards his father who is crying intensely in front of him.
@@miguelsaldana2964 Why do we feel sad for the perpetrator of the crime?🤣 The funny thing is that the son has no feelings towards his father who is crying intensely in front of him.
This is the future of USA
Good
@@owen3721Bad
Sadly
Less than 2% of Americans are Trans
Heart breaking to see. Feel so bad for them both, looked like a tuff moment
No only for the father
@@CustomKB. 🙄
Only for the father
@@wholesomemario3241 exactly
@@CustomKB. can I just get an amen i mean these people need help
Those tears in his eyes show he’s never going to look at his “son” the same ever again..
edit : thanks for the 170 likes, never got this much :D
Islam is again, proven to be right again mate.. lol
yea, insha'allah islam will reach everyones houses@@Taliban.The.Hyperpower
Agreed with your saying , giving you more likes 😂
Now you have 231! You gave a good comment!
*daughter
Watching the exact moment a father's heart breaks on live TV
Poor father, he is really in pain. I feel sympathy for him. Send you some prayers and strength.
You are the worst person ever btw
@@vincentjpkno u r
@@vincentjpk no, u are the worst person
@@vincentjpkthat's not very nice
@@ThePimpinator I think the guy who made that original comment is worse. He has no reason to feel sympathy lol
The world went to the other side, everything abnormal became normal
sadly yes
it’s so sad bro i feel so bad for the father
@@dimitrijekrstic3712 me too, it’d be such a shock. I can totally imagine.
@@Katerina77823 I don’t wish that to anyone🙏
Are yall ok? People cant control this, they are born this way, a parent should love their child unconditionally, and if they cant based on their sexuality or gender orientation maybe thay shouldnt have kids in the first place
The worst feeling in the world for a father is to feel that he has failed.
What's worse is losing your child
@@aiyanyaqoob2203 This feels like a blend of both.
@@aiyanyaqoob2203 That's also a part of it 😮💨
he didnt fail??
@@diamonds4skulls Well he didn't protect his son from that mindset he developed, sooooooo...
He lost his Son and why these pathetic people are clapping? ? He just lost his Son.
He didn't lose anyone. He got a daughter.
Life’s to short to live it for someone else bud. You have to live your life your way
@@DainnGreywallStfu that’s nonsense
@@DainnGreywall which would mean he lost the son, duhhhhhhhhh
They are told to clap, and like snowflake sheep they do!
People say this is a bad father but really i believe the father feels that they are rejecting the life he gave them
It’s like all your memories suddenly got erased and replaced.
Same as betrayal, it shatters you
This. That's that alot of people forget, imagine you being around someone for decades thinking you know them, believing it. Only for them to turn out to be trans, it really shattere you espcially if its your offspring.
And nothing against trans people either, I'm just saying how it is for those around you, espcially if you haven't let them know prior.
Yeah
@@SuperSwagTino i wish this wasn't true. but i think it is for many. but i cant control how others feel. i just know how i feel, and i know in my heart that this is something i have to do, something that finally makes me feel like myself, like I'm not wearing clothes that don't fit me.
Look at that father's eyes at 1:29. From tears to stony emptiness, seeing his son like that. My heart hurts for him.
I feel sorry he was taught that this is a tragic thing
@maxenceho303 It is, seeing your son like this is like seeing him turn to an femboy
@@Mokeno77-rc7er I don’t how that’s such a tragedy tbh
@@Coolhalono, it's worse than that. It is seeing your beloved son living delusional life and not accepting the way he exists.
I wouldnt see why it matters to have a son or daughter. Humans have no use to precous mother nature.
The father felt like his whole life has turned upside down, everything just went crushed
I feel sorry for him
Yes, it is like a death for the father. Knowing that his son has had a complete break from reality.
i hope he’s miserable
@@unitunes4763good. hopefully the situation pushed him into suicide. i feel bad for his daughter.
yes the son@@BLACKSPlNK
@@jas5519 nope that is the guy’s daughter.
The father's tears came out of disappoinment 😢😢
Under no circumstance should this conversation have been shared with the internet. This situation is far too complex and deserves to be speculated within the family only.
Stfu you and I are watching this shitshow and enjoying it greatly
The Media need Sensation People earn through it
it is all about money ۔no respect no values of relation
If we don't brings to light, we will forever remain in the darkness of ignorance, apathy, ignorance and conflict. MLK Jr tried to teach us that, as did Buddha, Gandhi, Jesus and countless others. We cannot improve what we don't acknowledge. I'm sure Dr Phil said something like that too. The "Big Book" (AA book) also said we cannot change what we don't admit. There needs to be much more conversation about this issue globally. The fact that you want to bury your head in the sand regarding such a serious issue is a symptom of the problem. And it's not your fault. Society teaches us to either ignore or kill things and people we don't agree with.
Respect for your consciousness
I don't think he's a transphobic person. He's just heartbroken.
I agree I think he's just heartbroken too
Trans men are men
He's heartbroken because he's transphobic.
As a femboy I can feel that father :(
@@dodonodens8802 ? How's that any different lmao
One person is hurt while the others are cheering, what a world we live in.
In a Dr Phil feild , no respect while having a moustache ( Man not . ) ! Dr Phil is just a TV personality and a joker . Dot The End
I think the people clapping are paid by the TV network.
@@moeafrica1674
Feild?
A part of me wishes this was fake.
aw 😩 this made me so emotional… I think that the biggest misconception is that people make it seem like parents don’t have the right to be hurt by something they don’t understand. It’s okay to hurt or disagree, but LOVE is what has to be consistent. I hope that their relationship is great now.
If you don't understand it then how do you understand that it hurts you?
Fr
no he just a transphobe stop making excuses💀
@@ayyboii8108 you don’t always understand hurt. but for someone like this older man who grew up in an era where this wasn’t as normalized or respected, he doesn’t understand it. there is no definite answer as to why he is as emotional as he is. all I’m saying is, being apart of the lgbt+ community myself, I have seen people genuinely hurt or confused for whatever personal reason. and I feel like they have that right to feel that way, as we do about other things. the problem comes in when you CHOOSE to disrespect and “unlove” one because of personal objection…
@UC-2haj4MXB-WO90ADa1bMFw this was such a great way to put it. thank you!
Someone needs to give that man a big hug 😢♥️
Somebody needs to give that man a normal son. One who isn't mentally ill.
Not only a hug
Where Is Zack now?
Which one
Which man
This poor man, my heart goes to him.
Probably hes not even transphobic or homophobic. He think he failed as a father, and his dreams of being at his sons wedding, holding hus nephew, and his old friends congratulating him are now gone.
Wtf
And he wants his daughter to suffer because he can't love his child enough to support their happiness do you know how selfish this is?
that’s so selfish. he is transphobic. very transphobic. he won’t listen to what she is saying. he literally said it’s not his fault. he is in no way the victim in this situation so don’t make him out to be one. her well-being and happiness are way more important than any “dreams” that horrible father had.
@@willzisi3888 dude i am talking about his reaction. I think every father will be extremely sad or angry. I dont know the aftermath, in my country we dont got Dr. Phil. But this clip is the father reaction, and i see nothing transphobic. I see a man devastated by (his perceived) guilt, struggling to even see his son. He is even convinced that basically his sons dysmorphia is caused by a joke he made once.
He is transphobic, he doesn’t accept his daughter at all. He just acts like a victim