Because he will have told her time and time again, she cannot do any better than him and she believes it....she looks broken down to me,her make up is a mask of her true state...he is an narcissist through and through.
The wife is so amazing to put on a brave face for this, you can tell her heart is broken. You can tell shes dying for her husbands love and loyalty but due to her kind and soft nature she puts up with it for the sake of wanting to keep her husband. Hope she finds a much better man who sweeps her off her feet.
DIVORCE THIS CREEP. To His WIFE DON'T ALLOW HIM TO MAKE A CHOICE OF WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE. GOOD BYE 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️. THIS MAN had no RESPECT for his WIFE.
Preach it! After years of mental/emotional abuse and gaslighting by a spouse, while trying to make it work, many of us have clung to bad relationships due to being raised to fight & work it out! Unless we leave & get help to recognize that we HAVE suffered abuse it is a vicious cycle that never ends!
If you TRULY love your spouse, you can’t even think about cheating with someone else. I’ve been married to my wife for 15 years and it still feels like we just got married yesterday. Our love life is still very exciting and she’s also my best friend in the world and the best part is she feels the same way about me.
Agree 100%. I've been married 28 years and I have never cheated. I think adultery is disgusting. Sleeping with someone else's spouse is like putting on someone else's dirty underwear. The outside person is disgusting and the cheating spouse is disgusting.
@@OngezwaDumel I suggest that you go where selfless people spend their time. Prayerfully go among people that voluntarily feed and clothe the poor, care for the disabled and build homes for the homeless. If you find someone who does these things for the sheer joy of helping those in need and is also an active member in his church you may do well. There is also less competition for such men because many modern women don't see a man who volunteers to help the poor as a catch. These type of men have shown that they know how to love selflessly and enjoy caring for others. I have given this advice to my own daughters.
Husband does not love his wife Do not I repeat DO NOT get involved with people who are seperated or married. If married or seperated RUN and keep on RUNNING
I was separated for 4 years when I met my husband. My ex disappeared, no idea where. 4 months later I got some mail told me where he was called my lawyer sent him papers. We were divorced in one month. The greatest man I met in my life got married 3 years later. I didn’t expect him to stay with me when I was just separated. I told him many times he doesn’t have to date me. He nope your wonderful and worth waiting for.
I hate when a woman blames the other woman. Blame your husband! He's supposed to be loyal to you, the other woman is a stranger to you who probably just views you as competition. I don't agree with that behavior but she owes you nothing and he owes you the vows he promised.
@@andy42x it seems as though you arę triggered by Dr Phil. Could it be that he is your mirror and that YOU are reflected back at yourself so everything you see is a Goof? Could it be that you don’t take yourself seriously and that you are … you know… Goofy?
@@myrmillionade3512 I'm willing to accept the premise that both I as well as dr. Phil are goofs . Except that nobody takes me seriously, but him ...he's got legions of fans that do
This man wife is beautiful, move on there are so many men that would treat you as you deserve. He’s only doing this to you because he can, if you move on he the only one that will be hurting.
Omg love how Dr.phil knows and Has his audiences back lol Most if Not All of the ppl in his audience are intelligent enough to see the wierd or off-ness in situations When things are Just not right they laugh or make noise that make the show even better in my opinion Lol
We all have bad days, but I cannot for the life of me imagine having self-esteem so low, that I would tolerate that from a man for even one day. Let alone give him a choice.
Separated doesn’t mean divorced! She triggered me saying that when she met him he was separated. Just like engaged doesn’t mean married. This man is a joke, he doesn’t take his marriage serious, if he did, he wouldn’t have a side piece.
I couldn’t tear up someone else’s marriage. I would feel terrible to do that to another woman. I’ve found myself in that exact situation and I immediately ran for the hills when I found out how was “separated”. I’m glad I did. It wasn’t easy. I thought I loved him. It hurt a lot to walk away but years later I know I was right. He ended up having several affairs and has children that are the same age with different women. None of those women ended up a winner in that scenario. Very sad. I think 20 years later, he learned that he needed to change. At least I think he did. He’s been married awhile to someone new and they have a couple of kids. I don’t know, I just couldn’t be the other woman. That’s not how I was raised.
As soon as the mistress left with him,you already know that he came on the show to lie to his wife. If you love the mistress and Wife why would you bring the wife who you betrayed in front the mistress? He was trying to mock his wife,and humiliate her. His wife held face,bc she’s probably is unbothered and tired of his mess. Narcissistic men or men with narcissistic tendencies do not like when people don’t play into them. He was upset when they laughed. He even had the audacity to YELL &LIE at his wife and accuse her of lying about the STD’s while “saving his marriage”. If you’re trying to save your marriage you’d be at least kind to her ???
If you're a polygamist, then go be a polygamist and learn how to do it the right and respectful way. And if the women want monogamy, then go be monogamous with a monogamist.
I find this situation is in hands of these women. Walk away. Value yourself. And look at the man! He's not even something to fight for. These are beautiful women who can get better men out there.
Same thing I love Shantelle. I laughed 😂 He sounds like my ex who wanted to keep being with me and another girl when we were together. These people are greedy. When you truly love someone you don’t fall in love with another person.
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Dr. Phil made a fool of people. Total disrespect. What a troll
I enjoyed watching your show, Dr. Phil. And I would gladly watch more of it in the future. I subscribe to your channel, you deserve it. ☺
Moral of the story: Never ever trust a man who says that he's "separated from his wife and plans to get a divorce".
Awesome comment!!!!
You like drama... Try this...
👏
Never a MAN PEROID
Very true it's a national anthem for confused men😁
Why does the wife give him the power to choose? Why doesn’t she just leave?
I agree
Exactly
my guess is she's insecure.
So true!
Because he will have told her time and time again, she cannot do any better than him and she believes it....she looks broken down to me,her make up is a mask of her true state...he is an narcissist through and through.
This man is delusional LOL “I take my vows seriously” ok man your mistress says otherwise hahah
Like 😂😂
I love your TH-cam name💓💓💓💓
it's not delusion, it's narcissism like Phil said.
@Octavia Dimah uh-that's not what happened
Haha! So does the wife!! WTF
The wife and mistress both need to leave him then see how he feels
Agree!
Date each other
Exactly. Ladies need to stop giving men so much power
Absolutely! They both deserve better.
definitely. they could both do so much better.
It’s the sits up straight and puts his head forward and answers everything aggressively for me ✨
So true
So funny
Ikr
You problem
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The wife is so amazing to put on a brave face for this, you can tell her heart is broken.
You can tell shes dying for her husbands love and loyalty but due to her kind and soft nature she puts up with it for the sake of wanting to keep her husband. Hope she finds a much better man who sweeps her off her feet.
No she won't. Lol
She’s amazing for being a dummy and going on a talk-show?
Her eyes are so sad
Lmao the side chick walked so fast behind him she is trainedddddd hunty. 😂
Right? At least the wife finally showed some self respect, and stayed.
Hahaha that's a good 1
I wish there was a *high five* emoji because that's what I'd be using to respond to your post. 🙂💯👍
some women are beta, sad but true
I'll never understand why people call themselves gods and goddesses. Especially Christians who know paganism is blasphemous.
He talks like a toddler
Hahahahahagagagaha
I was looking for this comment bahaha
A gay toddler. ha
Exactly
😂😂
YOU CAME WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO TRY AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
Staaaap it! I spat my coffee out reading your comment! Good one! 🤣🤣🤣
The audacity! Lol
😂😂
DIVORCE THIS CREEP. To His WIFE DON'T ALLOW HIM TO MAKE A CHOICE OF WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE. GOOD BYE 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️. THIS MAN had no RESPECT for his WIFE.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It is so sad to see women with such low self-esteem that they want to be with a man like that.
His wife should have divorced him a long time ago.
Preach it! After years of mental/emotional abuse and gaslighting by a spouse, while trying to make it work, many of us have clung to bad relationships due to being raised to fight & work it out! Unless we leave & get help to recognize that we HAVE suffered abuse it is a vicious cycle that never ends!
Million men in this world! Move on. No man is worth all this nonsense!
👍
@@chantelparker4108 You aren't the Chantel in the show, are you?
If you TRULY love your spouse, you can’t even think about cheating with someone else. I’ve been married to my wife for 15 years and it still feels like we just got married yesterday. Our love life is still very exciting and she’s also my best friend in the world and the best part is she feels the same way about me.
Agree 100%. I've been married 28 years and I have never cheated. I think adultery is disgusting. Sleeping with someone else's spouse is like putting on someone else's dirty underwear. The outside person is disgusting and the cheating spouse is disgusting.
I hope to have a partner / husband who will feel this way about me 😭
@@OngezwaDumel
I suggest that you go where selfless people spend their time. Prayerfully go among people that voluntarily feed and clothe the poor, care for the disabled and build homes for the homeless. If you find someone who does these things for the sheer joy of helping those in need and is also an active member in his church you may do well. There is also less competition for such men because many modern women don't see a man who volunteers to help the poor as a catch. These type of men have shown that they know how to love selflessly and enjoy caring for others. I have given this advice to my own daughters.
I hope to find that kind of love soon
Sure Jan.
It's not love, theres no honor in cheating on the one ya love.
I would tell the girlfriend, Hey, he's all yours honey, lol! You can have him!!
👋👋Gail, you and me both.
WTH, is there no men left in America? because if he's it. WOW...what did she turn down to except this🙃
Sameeee! I’d hand him over on a silver platter and thank her for taking such garbage out of my life.
👍 right
Yes! Absolutely
lol not gonna happen…
She’s an older woman probably doesn’t work. Doesn’t have a bank account. Depends solely on him unfortunately .
Dr Phil: "If you're leaving you need to go this way".
😭😂
i have SO MUCH secondhand embarrassment for this man. he totally had it coming though
This whole situation is so embarrassing and ridiculous. 😂
😂😭
AND DISRESPECTFUL
@@jessicamitchell4482 I agree. Everything about it screams YIKES
He clearly doesn’t understand the meaning of married life. The mistress also have no moral and shame.
And the wife is idiot who accepts his behavior
If it's married life , married men should stay in MARRIED life.
"WHYYY ARE YOU baaaack???" 😂😂😂
My question is why would these two be fighting over that weirdo??!!!! 🤷♀️
😂😂😂
He really is quite weird, isn’t he! He is pouting like a baby, incensed when faced with the truth, “I’m leaving”. See yay mate, GO ALREADY!!
He acts and talks like a toddler 😭
the wife is prettier than the mistress. 😓
Ikr
Because it not always about looks.
Looks don't mean nothing nowadays 🙄
Lol true
There is a saying...doesn’t matter what the mantle looks like as long as you’re poking the fire.
The way he said “I don’t know what’s so funny” 😂😂 with so much sass okay sis
"I'm committed to my wife, so i came here with my girlfriend, because i take my vows seriously." Guess he forgot the vow of fidelity then...
The mistress waddles after him...
Lol!!! And then waddles back on stage. 😅😅
Husband does not love his wife
Do not I repeat DO NOT get involved with people who are seperated or married.
If married or seperated
RUN and keep on RUNNING
The husband doesn’t love his girlfriend either. He has no idea what love is
Yes RUN women or men RUN
I was separated for 4 years when I met my husband. My ex disappeared, no idea where. 4 months later I got some mail told me where he was called my lawyer sent him papers. We were divorced in one month. The greatest man I met in my life got married 3 years later. I didn’t expect him to stay with me when I was just separated. I told him many times he doesn’t have to date me. He nope your wonderful and worth waiting for.
“Did you give your wife two STDs?”
“No I didn’t” 😂😂😂 his face tho
😂😂😂😂😂
He said she cheated that's why she got em she didn't reply to it ,she could've though who knows, sometimes cheaters get offended when is done to them
He's the kind that would end up killing his wife..even though he has a girlfriend..til death us do part...nobody leaves him...true narcissist!
That flashed through my mind too. All I'm thinking is that the wife should RUN FAR from that man ASAP.
The wife is just amazing
Yea except that instead of being mad at her "husband" shes mad at his girlfriend. How dumb can you be?
She really isn't, I'm leaning more towards dumb af.
No she isn’t. She’s a dummy
Yes! She's cool, she's beautiful, she's gorgeous, she's everthing 100%
I hate when a woman blames the other woman. Blame your husband! He's supposed to be loyal to you, the other woman is a stranger to you who probably just views you as competition. I don't agree with that behavior but she owes you nothing and he owes you the vows he promised.
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I agree 👍💯
True
That part
So true!!!
I just love Dr Phil. He speaks for what is logical and reasonable. This is therapy for the soul.
You can't be serious. He's terrible. I watch this the same way I watch Jerry Springer. Its a goof
@@andy42x it seems as though you arę triggered by Dr Phil. Could it be that he is your mirror and that YOU are reflected back at yourself so everything you see is a Goof? Could it be that you don’t take yourself seriously and that you are … you know… Goofy?
@@myrmillionade3512 I'm willing to accept the premise that both I as well as dr. Phil are goofs . Except that nobody takes me seriously, but him ...he's got legions of fans that do
@@andy42x well there you go. At least he is achieving something with the goofiness.
Hrs committed to adultery, not his marriage!
“I don’t know what you think is so funny” 💀😂
imagine getting cheated on by a dude named melvin
And he brings home to STDs.
Why did she even come to the show?
God women is so weak today.
“This is serious,This is my life we’re talking about” WHEN HE SAID THAT I DIED CAUSE I COULDNT TAKE HIM SERIOUS
his wife is gorgeous , wtf is wrong with these men and women to put up with that ish
yes the wife is sooo pretty!✨
I asked my ex the same question. 🤷🏻♀️
Wife looks controlling tho
@@charliehutton1483Because women who don't feel comfortable having affairs makes them controlling? 😂
It’s so funny how the side chick walks after him 😂😂😂
Like a dog after it's bone 🦴
@@Megan6772 She is a human! Please don’t compare people to animals. That is rude.
“if you’re leaving you need to go this way”
I did the thing where you laugh so hard you don’t make a sound you just exhale violently
😭
wheeze
🤣
*WHEEZE*
"One bald guy to another" that had no reason being that funny 💀💀
This is some Jerry Springer sh*t! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I hope both these women have learned their self worth by now and found happiness and peace away from him.
I don't understand why women fight over that man! I'm sure she doesn't love him anymore, but she doesn't want to give her husband to someone else.
This was 7 years ago. Anyone know if they’re still together? Any of them? I hope both women kicked him to the curb.
Me too
Dr Phil's vocabulary on point
Okay when he came back and started talking I couldn't hold it anymore
You nailed it dr Phil!!! That’s exactly what we are thinking!!😂😂😂😂
How horrible how he’s humiliating his wife with his cowardice and poor character.
This man wife is beautiful, move on there are so many men that would treat you as you deserve. He’s only doing this to you because he can, if you move on he the only one that will be hurting.
Why blame the other woman? Blame your man!
Sometimes Dr. Phil is just MOOD!!!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
I like that dr phill stands up to their audience and gave them a reason
For a man named "Melvin" , he sounds and behaves exactly how I thought a man with that name would. posturing drama queen.
“I don’t know what you think is so funny”
What a disgusting man. The tears and quivering and “Aw pity me my life is so hard with two women!” ugh
I love how the wife literally gets how stupid this is as soon as he walks out and everyone laughs xD
“We’ll, Dr. Phil, she’s my wife.”
Then you should’ve left the other woman alone.
He is a snake, he flew out there with the mistress, lol clown. He is such a victim buhahaha. Phil is being punked lolololol
Lmao yes, he said he took his vows seriously.. boy please then left the stage lmao
@@bfree4830 lol. He is the true meaning of a clown
Y’all gotta remember that you lose them how you get them so don’t be out here ruining relationships because chances are they gonna play you too
Phil said “wh wh why are you back “😂
he is directing dr. Phil attention to the audience which is a very smart move from him.
THE PAIN IN THE WIFE EYE'S 🤦🏽♀️ SOOO SAD
I don't know what y'all think is so funny--
Husband exits stage left-- oh wrong way
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg love how Dr.phil knows and Has his audiences back lol
Most if Not All of the ppl in his audience are intelligent enough to see the wierd or off-ness in situations
When things are Just not right they laugh or make noise that make the show even better in my opinion
Lol
Him: I don't know what you think is so funny.
Me: LMAO
Phil summed it up perfectly.
Dr. Phil plays a doctor on TV very well! LOL!
We all have bad days, but I cannot for the life of me imagine having self-esteem so low, that I would tolerate that from a man for even one day. Let alone give him a choice.
I feel so bad for his wife
Aww the poor guy playing the victim card talking about “I take my vows seriously.” Boy please
Separated doesn’t mean divorced! She triggered me saying that when she met him he was separated. Just like engaged doesn’t mean married.
This man is a joke, he doesn’t take his marriage serious, if he did, he wouldn’t have a side piece.
“Separated” is the classic argument of a cheater and side piece.
I can’t remember ever seeing Phil in the audience before!
He is saucy.....like he has a little sugar in the tank?
LOL i haven't heard that one in a long time
I’m hollllllllin 😂
Lol i love that expression
😂😂😂😂😂
prolly how he gave his wife those two STDs 😩😖
Despite the controversy over Dr.Phil…you gotta admit he has some savage moments 😂
I’m committed to my marriage. I know it doesn’t look like it. Lol that was epic.
This is what happened when people think and do the way they think and do. This man is a true and a gentleman
Separated still means MARRIED.
The selfishness and arrogance and disrespect to bring your side chick to work things out with your wife 🤷🏽♀️
I couldn’t tear up someone else’s marriage. I would feel terrible to do that to another woman. I’ve found myself in that exact situation and I immediately ran for the hills when I found out how was “separated”. I’m glad I did. It wasn’t easy. I thought I loved him. It hurt a lot to walk away but years later I know I was right. He ended up having several affairs and has children that are the same age with different women. None of those women ended up a winner in that scenario. Very sad. I think 20 years later, he learned that he needed to change. At least I think he did. He’s been married awhile to someone new and they have a couple of kids. I don’t know, I just couldn’t be the other woman. That’s not how I was raised.
The two women should hook up and form a relationship and tell him to get out.
Dr Phill puts it down 💯💥
As soon as the mistress left with him,you already know that he came on the show to lie to his wife. If you love the mistress and Wife why would you bring the wife who you betrayed in front the mistress? He was trying to mock his wife,and humiliate her. His wife held face,bc she’s probably is unbothered and tired of his mess. Narcissistic men or men with narcissistic tendencies do not like when people don’t play into them.
He was upset when they laughed. He even had the audacity to YELL &LIE at his wife and accuse her of lying about the STD’s while “saving his marriage”. If you’re trying to save your marriage you’d be at least kind to her ???
He’s mad funny asf🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes 🤣🤣🤣
Why is he playing he victim ?? Damn...
He looks like an actor! He wanted to have his cake and eat it too!
I love how he so effeminately walked off the stage lol 😂
I have found this is true 99% of the time, the second one is usually younger and a step down from the first!
This guy is probably the most genuine IVE seen on Dr. Phill
Because it’s one of the most easy cases. He clearly doesn’t love either of these women so they both should leave him.
"i meant my vows till death do us part" BYEEE LMFAO
If you're a polygamist, then go be a polygamist and learn how to do it the right and respectful way. And if the women want monogamy, then go be monogamous with a monogamist.
Fighting over the man who obviously needs to come out of the closet. lol
Yesss!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
FR!! 😂
Lol
I didn't want to say it.
He doesn't want either of you, he wants his own MAN!
This is so disrespectful. She deserves so much better
I find this situation is in hands of these women.
Walk away. Value yourself.
And look at the man! He's not even something to fight for. These are beautiful women who can get better men out there.
Good job Dr Phil good job 👍
This guy’s ridiculous 😂
This man is scary. Like his eyes when he denied giving his wife STDs, that's how u detect murderers☝🏾
He acts like a 12 year old preteen BOY who can’t get his way❗️
Separated is not divorced! It's an excuse.
Same thing I love Shantelle. I laughed 😂 He sounds like my ex who wanted to keep being with me and another girl when we were together. These people are greedy. When you truly love someone you don’t fall in love with another person.
He thinks being dramatic will change facts ..
I know having a side woman is wrong
But if u do the side one should be better looking not same or worst physically