She told me that she would always be there for me I was the only on ever there for her and she never helped me with my problems She goes days without texting me and she dosnt text me at all I thought she would always be there.
I stay with my friends they can do whatever but I'm glue I will always stick and remember my friends and always be with them even when they out grow and out stretch me...I will stick, like glue
Girl... don't be friends with her no one does that no matter what circumstance there in. My ex best friend and I got back together multiple times but it just made it worse.
Sanjukta Sharma if she dumped u once she will do it again... i would never “dump” a friend no matter the circumstances. My friend isn’t guilty of my problems. My friend doesn’t deserve to be dumped for my own problems. It’s not an excuse. Girl I’m telling you cuz I’ve been through the same She isn’t a good friend if she dumped you for something you didn’t even do. It wasn’t your fault that she had some problems. It means that anytime she has a problem she will dump you, then when she’s back on fine, she’ll call you and apologize. That aint good for no one
nothing is worse than losing someone u loved so much that u thought that they're a member of ur family lost my 9years best friend. couldn't relate more
"Please don't tell the younger me that her best friend is only there for a limited amount of time" .. I actually had dreams where what happened... Happened.. And it happened.. My longest friendship broke me more than it ever built me up
yeah I feel broken. but memory was great guy when u first met I guess your memory sucks can't remember all the times I've been there for you take your crap at work while you cheated you were never faithful took me years to realize cause didn't want to believe it maybe your fan club feels sorry for you but I don't you lie lie lie
The worst feeling in the world is the one where you no longer want to be their best friend anymore and there's no way to explain to them why. And on top of all that you beat yourself up only to realize that you are actually not the victim but the perpetrator in this situation
My Ex best friend sent this to me and I began to cry. My grandma has a very deadly cancer, and was given only a year to live. My ex best friend turned her back on me the pain changed me. The pain changed my apperance and also my personality. After she saw what the pain did to me she sent this to me as her final goodbye. I will always miss her no matter what because she is in so many of my memories, so it is hard to get her out if my mind. I will always miss her.
Friends can hurt? How’s your grandma? I lost mine to cancer 3days before my birthday ( 14.09.19) and that broke me, and im not same after this , but i really want to
Just had a friend break up about a month ago, still hurts like it was yesterday. She broke up with me after 2 years by a text message. When we spoke on the phone she was making accusations that were completely false about me. Little did I know she knew nothing about me even after living with me for 2 years. She let her own issues cripple her and took it out on me. This video helped me realize that. I hope everyone realizes that she was completely wrong one day and understands what she is missing out on
Sarah Swailes man I had a friend break up last week in gone middle of class. It was so embarrassing. We had been friends for over 2 years and this video is exactly what happened. I miss her
Mine happened a long time ago... our friendship is dead. We still see each other everyday and act as we were as close as before... we know we’re not, we’re just sitting together cuz society makes us, if we don’t, it’s awkward, everyone will see how our “great” friendship is over. It would be embarrassing and I don’t know why but it feels like so. And it’s even harder cuz we have to pretend we’re still close... but we’re strangers to each other now... slowly our friendship got rotten until one day... there was nothing we could’ve done about it. WE are dead. She is alive, I’m alive. But WE are dead.
I faced exactly the same situation as you, the only difference is that mine happened in January.. . On my birthday. She came to my house and treated me like trash, then when she left she sent me texts that spoke of things I never did, about her being jealous and me being heartless. I used to care for her, but that part of me died. The part of me that cared for anyone is now ashes. I am only filled with hate, and that is because of the thousand knives that are still wedged in my back. Take it from someone who has seen a lot. Friends mean nothing. Stick with your family, because friends are temporary. Any friends I have now, would make no difference to me in their disappearance.
This is for my ex-bestie. ( ibff) Dear Best Friend When I found out that you just see my messages and dont answer. Was. Was horrible. Knowing that you just moved on me to another. Was hell. I felt Something broke inside me. But that wasn't my bone. Nope. That was my hope. My Life ( AND MY LIFE WAS YOU ). My energy what just comes from you! I WAS who saved you from suicide. I WAS who helped you on the bad days. I WAS who cared to you. I WAS who loved you the most on this planet. What's wrong with you? Thats the gratitude.....for that .FOR THAT?! ..Days get worse. We fight every day, every hour when we speak to each other. You promised that you'll never ever leave me. You were my friend. My bestie. My another half. You said you are my friend so you'll never lie to me. You said: If I am your friend I'm not gonna lie to you, right? You know what? *FRIENDS* *-DONT LIE-* Then.. you just talked about another girl, that how much she's better than me. Then u just said nothing and gone from my life. You became a memory. And then. The days period get worse to me. I needed to find another one. The ONE. But i can't, you were the best. Who always cared no matter what! And now. You change me. And move on... Ps: Thanks if u read that. I know u have the same, worse, or better. *Everything get better! Remember! It's always sun behind the darkness.*
Niki_ Gameplay I had a similar situation. I had a friend for 7 years, in 5th grade she started bullying me, talking about me behind my back, being mean to me. She moved schools. Then I met this girl. She was amazing, I loved her. We were so close. Every day we went to each other’s houses. Every weekend we had sleepovers. I loved her. But she told me she didn’t want to be friends anymore this year. I was heartbroken, I still am. I see her with her new best friend. We sometimes wave and say hi to each other but we barely talk anymore. I don’t know what to do. Wanna maybe be internet friends? Only if you want to tho. I would never ditch you._.
I'm sorry for that. I lost my best friend 3 years ago and now, he's in my school and we see each other sometimes and it pains me because I knew everything about him. Now, now I don't even know his name.
This has touched me so much, I'm in tears, thank you so much for realising it wasn't just me. This has made me realise people go through this all the time! Thank you.
Thanks for your words. This kind of feedback inspires me to continue making videos. I'm so glad you're able to find comfort in this piece. It is indeed a hard process, to lose a best friend is truly a struggle. But at least those going through it can know they aren't alone. Thanks so much for watching ! :)
I remember talking about our future together.. traveling the world together and then settling down in Canada.. where did that go? Where did the forgiveness go? One damn argument.. ONE DAMN ARGUMENT and this friendship is gone for. Your a different person now.. where did my BEST FRIEND go?.. where did my life go..
*We said we will be friends no matter what* *What happened to that,was it all a dream?* *The secrets we told each other was that justFake....Who was that yesterday what changed was it me!?Who was that what Happened....why did I change....why did we change?*
Yeah. I've lived through this. I'm glad I'm not the only one who went through this sort of this. I have a comment which is really long with me wanting to believe she'd ever respond. I miss her. She made my life better and then ruined it.
Riley, if you ever read this: I hate you, and I hate what you did, but I'm so tired of being angry about still Loving you I'm sorry I ever fell in love with the way your hair felt, or your laugh, I'm sorry I ever loved *you*
Somehow Snake I'm glad i'm not the only one who feels this way. If I could change just one thing about my life I would have never *ever* Met my ex best friend
I'm glad I don't have to be sad about this alone. I wish she could just stay that before. If I could stay friends with the before I knew. We could have stayed before s forever. Together. But she had to become an after and to keep my life from ruining itself and becoming a pit of sorrow I changed and tried to move on.
This helped me cope with my friend who just left me. She stopped talking to me. One period we were laughing and joking and the next it’s like I didn’t exist. She wrote me a letter telling me that she didn’t want to be friends and that she doesn’t love me anymore. Thank you for helping me through this.
Ex best friend, I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for all the memories and laughs. The only reason I am who I am today is because of you. You taught me that your friends should trust you, above all others and if they don’t then they aren’t your friends. You probably didn’t mean to teach me this, but you did. You taught me this when you chose to believe others over me and when you decided to call me a lair. So, thank you for this lesson. Goodbye.
I miss my best friend so much. It’s so sad we grew apart because she was like family to me and she doesn’t recognise the person I am now and I don’t recognise the person She is 💔💔💔
I usually don‘t comment but now I have to. Omg I‘m in tears. This video is so accurate. Every sentence just happened as it‘s described and this hurts. When me and my ex-bestfriends were still bestfriends I could never imagine that our friendship would ever come to an end, no never ever... Sometimes when I sleep I dream about her and that we just talk as everything is normal and I think that we can be bestfriends again. But then when I wake up I realize that it was just a dream and that it just wont happen.
this video helped tremendously with my ex bestfriend and my ex boyfriend . it made me realize nobody is forever , everyone is temporary and everyone changes . but eventually life goes on and it gets better .💞
I had a best friend who meant so much to me. She did so much for me and I did so much for her. We were like 2 peas in a pod, we were alway together. But after high school, she never talked to me again, she jyst ignored my messages, I tried to contact her in alot of ways but she never responded... First I thought I did something wrong and that it was my fault. Now I know it isn't my fault and it is her problem if she doesn't want me in her life anymore. Now I know who my real friends are and they will never leave me💕
This happened to me too, i miss her still and I hate it. I just want to hold my BFF on last time, talk one last time. But i can't, i can't get her out of my head and it's been monthes.
Amazing friends sent me this on my birthday along with a whole ass slide show telling me how much I have changed. I had just moved schools and this was a hard pill to swallow. the thing was it was always me trying to hold one to this friendship that had given me so much joy and happiness. I wanted to desperately understand what went wrong and how everything went downhill, but nowhere on that 8 slide presentation gave me the answer later I reached out to one of the friends and apologized. But I didn't really know why I apologized. we are back to friends but whenever we talk I remember how I put myself in the garbage just to keep a friendship that disrespected me. But this time I intend on communicating.
I had a best friend since I was 3 years old. We were always together,laughing, we were never apart. In 1st grade is where everything changed, she didn't use to talk to me anymore, she kept ignoring me and I got really sad. One day she wasn't at school so I asked her other friends "Hey, where did she go?" And..... They told me that she had moved to another place far away. I was so shocked because she didn't tell me but she told her other friends! So we stopped being best friends. In 3rd grade I met this girl, she was amazing! We were always there for each other, we were always talking, we were never apart. I am now 10, in 5th grade and I'm so glad I met that girl back in 3rd grade!
It’s sad that when you say forever you don’t wish it was longer because your think forever is a long long time, but in reality “forever” is honestly the shortest, most bittersweet thing.
Kimberly X you don’t deserve a “friend” like her... if she was your real friend, she would have accepted you the way you where. You deserve so much better then her!
My ex bff never was the typical girl that said “I love you” all the time. She actually NEVER said that to anyone, I see her as a girl who is ashamed to say “i love you” to anyone, even if that anyone was me, her best friend. It always was “I like you a lot” but that was never, and it never will be enough. I used to hear other girls saying “ohhh I love youuu” or run at the other one and hug. Mine wasn’t like that. I could never talk about periods cuz she would be too awkward to. I mean cmon! We’re 15 it’s a normal thing... and the worst thing is that we’ve been “best friends” for 7 years, everyone pictures us as “the duo” at class we socially HAVE to be together when the teacher says “make partners” and I know I don’t wanna be with her and I guess she doesn’t either. It’s so awkward lately, few years ago we would at least have something to talk about... now? Nah. But if somehow we’re not together, everyone else will see and start the gossip. “Oh Chloe and *the girl* aren’t friend no more” or “ohhhh *the girl* Chloe betrayed you with susan” it’s annoyingly hard. And now that I think of it. That toxic relationship makes me not make any new friends cuz everyone will say “ohh she’s ditching you for whatever girl” and I know I shouldn’t care about what people say but it’s kinda hard to not to. Knowing that 7 years of my life have been thrown in the trash (speaking of the friendship not the whole 7 years lmao) it’s just sad. Legit my “BFF” has came over to my house twice. TWICE IN 7 YEARS. That can’t be good. And I used to really like her and I don’t know why. She doesn’t show her feelings, she’s too neutral. Too busy with school, or too ashamed to talk about periods, or family stuff, or even tv shows! What the hell? I don’t know if I should try to get the friendship back or just ditch it. I think the second option if the better one.
I had a bsf, her name was Meleny We were friends since 4th grade we were the best of friends👯 But then we went to middle school we had no classes together. She met a girl named Gizell and it broke my Heart not seeing her after school. It broke me when she left me and left with Gizell after school. She left...she's gone She got popular and just abandoned me in the street. Our light bulb went out The fire went out when Gizell was the water The rope ripped I miss her and still don't know why I love her The F in forever was a lie
Jessica Elizondo I know how u feel, I moved away from some place and next thing I know my bestie for life was sending me snapchats of her new friends, doing things I have always wanted to do with her, but never had the chance😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
My ex best friend did practically the same but it is really hard not to miss the old her cause I see her family all the time cause my sister is best friends with her sis and our parents are friends
Leah Chambers that sucks Leah, just know that there will always be another someone out there, maybe not the one but someone who u know u r compfterble with. I moved to some where were people are so different from what I'm used to, and it's hard to get used to because there is always that fake person going around, spreading fake storied that u weren't there long enough to understand. Why does she hate you ? Why did she leave me for someone else? Who am I nothing anymore to her Exept something that she used to know? U might ask ur self these questions but know that there might have been someone there while u weren't cause u were busy and thinking that hanging out with somebody other than u was ok, but it was not. Don't let her ruin ur life, when ever u see her, try bringing that knew friend of yours with you, tell ur parents what happened so maybe they will reconsider what u feel when u see her when u see her. I know this sounds stupid and not helpful, but just know that it's not the end of the world, don't let her overwhelm you, and think about those memories that makes u laugh so hard that it won't make out feel worse because everything has changed. 😓❤️
My best friend took my heart, softened it so it hurt more when she betrayed me. She ripped it in half like a piece of paper crumpled it and left it to die.
Best friends since we were little she dumped me a few days ago 😭 I do and don’t miss her I miss her because she was the best thing that happened to me and I don’t miss her because she betrayed me but that friendship didn’t last best friends forever I don’t think so 😭😭😭😭
so here is my BIG story: I was in like third grade and I was looking for friends (don't judge me) and I found this one girl (lets call her Lily). She liked videogames like I did . I met her and my 2 best friends (Lets call them Cookie and Wolf) and they got along pretty well. Later that year she was against Cookie and was saying very rude things about her (by the way Cookie was in a different class and Wolf was 1 year younger then us)she was saying that because "Cookie would spend time with her classmates at lunch time and not with us" I was very easily manipulated at that time and I thought Lily was saying the truth...A month later we were BFFs again,but now she got mad at Wolf because she was a tomboy.......(I know... she is an idiot) Then again we were BFFs. BUT the year after that she had some beef with me........Soooo,before school I would be having fun with Cookie BUT NO,THAT WAS NOT ACCEPTABBLE.She was mad at me.And I (being the baddass bitch that I am) was done with her shit. She would talk about people behind their backs (Including me), ignore people then expect them to treat her like a goddess (she did that to me),if she liked pandas YOU COULD NOT LIKE THEM,if she wore a bun YOU COULDN'T WEAR ONE,she was a very idiotical ,ignorant,selfish and arrogant person. When I told her we were DONE her little minions (Bunny and Princess) would try to talk to me. I saw that she wanted me back BUT I WAS TO GOOD FOR HER AND I WOULD NOT LET HER MISTREAT ME EVER AGAIN. I found better friends and was so much happier. She was a shitty friend,and she was never there for me,I had to understand her but she didn't need to understand me,she nedded to be the center of the universe when she was not,and Bunny & Princess weren't real friends.They were like drugs to make her forget about me...She wanted me back. But I didn't want to go and I didn't. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING THIS TILL THE VERY END IT MEANS A LOT TO ME AND IF YOU ARE GOING TROUGH AN EXPERIENCE LIKE THIS REMEMBER: YOU ARE NOT WORTH IT,YOU ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT Lol I'm such a mom
I can't relate to it... We were best friends since 4th grade and now recently in my 10th grade I got too sick that I was hospitalized for a month... She never called me,but I was fine with that( because our exams were going on Soo...) when I came back to school I was kinda hoping to meet my bestie first, I met my all friends and even my bully was/is nice to me... But my ex BFF(fakest friend who has literally hurt me the most) she still didn't showed up...she was with a new girl... I went to her and tried to talk but she seemed too happy with them she literally just said "hey.... What's up?..." and then ignore me the entire time while talking to her "new friends"....i felt very bad... But still I tried to talk to her... But she was like I was a stranger...since than its been 4 months I have not talked to her at all... To be honest... I miss her old self... When she was my friend, I never told her not to make new friends but she just left me for another friend.... Anyways... I'm not gonna make any BFF anymore They r nothing more than fake people who will make u depressed 💜😊
At times I just randomly think about my best friend. I have been thinking about how much I miss her and I feel like she did nothing but my other friend caused this between us. Whenever I think about her, my heart just breaks and makes me really upset. I still want to be friends with her...
I have watched this a few times. I've had a friend since I was one. I'm now 14 and she's 15 it stopped last September when I was 13 and ever since I've been so so so sad. I really miss her and she left me for someone else. I like her instagram and Facebook posts she never likes mine back. I always say hello to her when I see her but I got no reply back. We don't everything together. We even went on holidays together. I'm so sad I miss her
I know how you feel. It's a very painful process that hurts to go through. Some friendships just weren't meant to be, no matter how much we wish they were. It's a harsh reality. I have a newer video that's a bit more personal than this one- it is directed to my best friend which I felt like I was losing. It's titled Dear Best Friend, and it covers the topic of feeling the loss as it happens, whereas this video talks about the pain afterwards. I hope you will check it out and that my material can help you realize that although you might feel alone, you are not alone. There's a whole community here that's feeling the same pain you are, and I hope that gives you a sense of comfort. You're going to be okay.
I miss my ex best friend dearly I bet no one will read this but I have to get it out I'm a senior in school now but I met her in 6th grade we did everything together but 10th grade she changed she got a boyfriend and they had dated for three years they started dating in 8th grade but she started to talk to other boys I ignored it at first but then I realized that it wasn't ok to do that so I talked to her boyfriend and he was heart broken and sometimes I feel like I didn't do the right thing but me and her split apart at the beginning of 11th grade and I had issues with my family so I moved away from them and somewhere three hours away from everyone and I had a boyfriend at that time and a month after I moved I heard she was now dating my boyfriend while he was with me and she broke me I didnt want to make friends and start over I was broken and when I finaly talked to my (ex) boyfriend he said he had liked her for a while even when he was dating me and I was broken the boyfriend I had before him did the same thing too he was abusive and emotionally draining and I guess I just miss who she was I always said to her I wish we can be friends even past high school but its never going to happen thank you for whoever stopped and read this ik it doesn't make sense but I just wanted to get it out there somehow
Gray Wolf it make sense bc I went though this but I’m way younger and there is a lot more drama and I did something bad that I regret..I became a ......bully with her.but then we had a big fight.....,but then I became friends with her again idk why but I changed from that,she did to.not in a good way in a bad why. She bullied me and my friends.then my friends ether moved or went to a higher grade.i was alone.but then I told her that if she doesn’t stop she’ll be the one that is hurting more then me.but she didn’t change
I cried so much after watching this video. I can say that most of the things was just the same as mine. I have this old friend who was very closed to me. But as days passed by. I've noticed that she wasn't paying attention to me anymore and she wasn't even talking to me for the whole time as if we aren't best friends. Then one day. I saw her with some ppl who used to be her ex best friends on the past. Laughing and having fun. At first. I was so very happy for them coz they are now in good state. But i didn't thought that those ppl would replace me. :
This touched me because I had a friend she would be my friend that day but the next day she would hate me idk y she would hate me but she had some of my friends to hate me but I felt so alone without her but no I don't miss her she hurt my feelings and talked about my mom and friends and family and I never talked about her mom or her or her friends or her family I don't miss nothing about her and she doesn't miss me
yes my best friend also blocked me and don't want to talk with me avoid me and there is the wrost thing is the family matters it alaways happene that you love anyone too much so he or she hurt you wrostly cause human have no sence about who has truly care for you and who don't
After my best friend became “popular” she befriended me, and started acting like I was a stranger because I wasn’t “good enough” or “pretty enough” I was too much of a mess to someone like her. But, I remember on the certain first grade of school I knew a lot of people because I wasn’t new to the school. And I gave her a smile when she first came into the class, we soonly became best friends after that. Now it became the next grade, and she had a boyfriend and so many other friends. She didn’t need me anymore, she made more friends than me than I could ever make because of my shy and messy personality. I remember her talking behind my back blaming me for all the bad grades we got together on projects, when she didn’t even try to communicate to me. On them she tried doing everything by herself and whenever I tried giving out a helping hand or listened to her she just pushed me away. She always acted like she was soo important, when I had my own goddam problems that were way worse . And yet I didn’t tell her because I knew that she wouldn’t care. I remember she never supported me in the things I wanted to do, like cheer. I wanted to do cheer with her but she said she couldn’t see me doing it, why? Because For some reason I wasn’t good enough in her eyes. Why did she start acting like I’m a stranger? Because I wasn’t good enough and I never will be anyways, I don’t like backstabbing bitches like her. And she doesn’t deserve my respect. Girls like her are never set for fame they’d end their career before it even started. Does it hurt me a hella lot? Yes. But have I made new friends who are brutally honest and aren’t like her at all! Yes. And the best part is I can see all my friends setting themselves to a bright future.
Shinyskiez Aj I feel bad for you bc I went through the exact same dam thing yes it hurts like hell but they are nothing now and when all her fake friends leave when she treats them like she did to you she’ll come back and you can say NO bc real friends are kind and nice and trustworthy.it mite hurt to say NO but you have to let go of fake friends....mine could never do that and I let them in to my life after they hurt me and they did it again but when you say NO you will feel free
This happens with my best friends this year and it’s so heartbreaking! I was in much pain but she acts like everything is fine as she just pushes me away! I have a new friend that is much more nice and supportive than my old one who once had the same problem. I am a much better person than who I was than when I hung out with my other
I miss my best friend so much, he left me for someone he met on a video game and then we barely talked and now we dont even play or talk to eachother 🤧😭
Amara Illusion Shy it's going to be okay. I'm here with you, feeling the pain of losing someone important to you as it happens. My newest video titled dear best friend is about the process of losing your so called best friend. If you enjoyed this video, I recommend that one. Thanks for watching, and I hope you're okay.
My bestfriend...we called eachothers sisters, I told her my deepest darkest secrets...She changed, quickly...I miss her old personality! But now we're strangers...
I figured my best friend had been talking about me for years. Thank u for this. I think i hate her but i know i dont. I helped her so much and she talked about me. But i still love her :/
@The Pupito Pals I only have one right now my second hated my first my first hated my second after that I couldn’t go on like that anymore so I left my second but my first was a little angel lol but the second was a devil with her little horns
I am still your best friend. We have been together since we are babies. I changed because you replaced me with others that you swore were better than me. You did not see the real diamond you had. I moved heaven and earth for you. For my love and joy, you played games with my heart. My love was true and still I love you. Now you found someone new.Are you Finally Happy? All this time, we could have spent Great times together. Instead, you choose to stab me in the back. I hope you are happy. The person to be mad at is YOU
Im crying this is so true I lost my best friend two years ago...when I found out she was moving to Canada, I cried and cried begging her not to go, but she left, she left when I needed her most. We keep in touch every once In a while but I miss her and we’ve grown apart I have a new bff but i still miss her and she’s...different
I lost my best friend in the entire world this school year, he started to hang around popular people and I miss him every day and I hope if he sees this comment he realizes how much he is meaning to me in this world right now!
my ex best friend was never perfect but I could ignore all the flaws she had because she was worth way more than her flaws. Whenever I did something slightly bad, she would hold a grudge forever. Whenever she did something very very bad I ignored it. She was my bff after all. But with time, she changed more and more. First she became a frenemy then a bully. But I was holding onto her. She was still my bff even tho she was somewhat a different person than I knew. But I was reluctant this time when I told people she was my bff. Then she made a boyfriend and she became a bully+stranger. Didnt know her anymore. Didnt want to be with her even for old times sake. Its so cliche. you know, this bf wins the girl and the friend is left behind thing. Her bf definitely made things worse, so fucking worse. Maybe if he wasnt in our lives we could have been better. Or not. Who knows? there had already been problems. So now, we rarely talk. She and I. And I gotta say, Im living so much better without her. Im glad I got to know all the good things about her. All the good things we had done in 8-9 years. Bad things however, isnt forgotten. I dont miss her. Because she wasnt all good.
Thank you for speaking my grief.. I lost my best friend. She has become someone i don't recognize anymore. She doesn't tell any news to me anymore. She is just... Gone.
She said she'll be there for me no matter what
But things got hard
So she were the first to leave.....
Ana the person that you thought would heal you causes you the most pain..
She told me that she would always be there for me
I was the only on ever there for her and she never helped me with my problems
She goes days without texting me and she dosnt text me at all
I thought she would always be there.
@@addysenfriend same..
well find someone who says fuck you like me and my best friends do and boy its been lasting long
I stay with my friends they can do whatever but I'm glue I will always stick and remember my friends and always be with them even when they out grow and out stretch me...I will stick, like glue
The way i cried after watching this . My best friend is no longer mine . That memories are nothing but sadness 😭😭😭
Aaliyah Pillay my friend made me cry she called me a fake friend
Same
Aaliyah Pillay I.....I now how you feel my friend....well she...she change....a lot and I mean a lotttt
Cuphead Texting SHIPPS I know how you feel
@oof._.kady same
I miss my bestfriend, 😭, I miss what she were
Xyzah Cayabyab me too 😞😞😭😭😭 we were bestfreinds for 4. Years 😞 I miss her 😭😭
Xyzah Cayabyab I broke up with my friends over Easter and I don't regret it.
Same, me and my ex. Bff, were besties for 6 Years😭😭😭❤❤❤
Same 😭
I dont wanna be that person but its you** not she
Before best friend
Now a stranger with memorys
I FOUND THE PERFECT VIDEO OMG THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS IM CRYING 😭
Army? Yayyy i am too my bias is v
emi sugarbird me too I actually sent it to her
my best friend replaced me...
Wither Clue same
Wither Clue same here 😭😭
I can understand you so bad
Same it happened today
Me too...
6 years! Bestfriend s for 6 years
Today , not anymore.
She dumped me through a text
Okay guess what! we're back again together! She was depressed for some external reasons. She's okay now
Sanjukta Sharma well okay then..
Girl... don't be friends with her no one does that no matter what circumstance there in. My ex best friend and I got back together multiple times but it just made it worse.
Sanjukta Sharma if she dumped u once she will do it again... i would never “dump” a friend no matter the circumstances. My friend isn’t guilty of my problems. My friend doesn’t deserve to be dumped for my own problems. It’s not an excuse. Girl I’m telling you cuz I’ve been through the same
She isn’t a good friend if she dumped you for something you didn’t even do. It wasn’t your fault that she had some problems. It means that anytime she has a problem she will dump you, then when she’s back on fine, she’ll call you and apologize. That aint good for no one
Sanjukta Sharma
Mine got a new best friend over time.... Now BUDDY is my hated word.
“forever is an overstatement.” that really broke me.
I miss my bff too😭😭
But I sometimes I know what bff means😖😖
Best FAKE friends😔😔
kris chan no bfff means best fake friend forever and bff means best friend forever
kris chan Thats true
@@eww4330 today its been exactly a year since xxxtentacion died. #LLJ 😔❤️
I can relate I don’t believe the word BFF I don’t believe every time I use it doesn’t work so don’t believe it
kris chan I understand
I can relate..
Some of these people just use u and dont even realise
Olrando Florida ye that is what my “BFF” does and it hurts but I cant say anything because I’m to scared
My bestf always asked me for help.. But then when my teacher asked us to look for a partner for projects.. They uh
Gone
nothing is worse than losing someone u loved so much that u thought that they're a member of ur family
lost my 9years best friend. couldn't relate more
This happened to me too. We were BEST friends for 10 years.
me me , I lost my 4 Month friendship with my Ex bsf, He chose his girlfriend over me 😕
@@Jinasecretdiary do you want to talk with me about that? Because I want
We were friends for 4 months and I never had a friend better then her. I can’t get over her!
We were best friend for 11y
Having your best friend become someone you don't even know anymore completely sucks. My ex best friend broke my heart
Same
It sucks, now thanks to her I have severely bad trust issues
Same
Samara Rose same
Mine sexually assaulted me
"Please don't tell the younger me that her best friend is only there for a limited amount of time" ..
I actually had dreams where what happened... Happened.. And it happened.. My longest friendship broke me more than it ever built me up
Arianna Heart I feel
yeah I feel broken. but memory was great guy when u first met I guess your memory sucks can't remember all the times I've been there for you take your crap at work while you cheated you were never faithful took me years to realize cause didn't want to believe it maybe your fan club feels sorry for you but I don't you lie lie lie
Arianna Heart ik... that happened to me too...
Arianna Heart same here... we were friend since we were young but now ...where is she?
Thats one if my fears i had a freind sinnce the age of 5 we are both 13 now and i dont wanna lose her!
Every sentence of this is true..I don’t miss what she is I miss what she was💔😭
The worst feeling in the world is the one where you no longer want to be their best friend anymore and there's no way to explain to them why. And on top of all that you beat yourself up only to realize that you are actually not the victim but the perpetrator in this situation
9 years of fake friendship..
hmm
Same dude
Same
Think of that but 11 years...
That’s why my pic is what it is
Try 15 years 😪😪
Blah Blah blah I’m sorry 😞
This is one of those videos were it's soo good you wait before you read the comments
My Ex best friend sent this to me and I began to cry. My grandma has a very deadly cancer, and was given only a year to live. My ex best friend turned her back on me the pain changed me. The pain changed my apperance and also my personality. After she saw what the pain did to me she sent this to me as her final goodbye. I will always miss her no matter what because she is in so many of my memories, so it is hard to get her out if my mind. I will always miss her.
Friends can hurt? How’s your grandma? I lost mine to cancer 3days before my birthday ( 14.09.19) and that broke me, and im not same after this , but i really want to
I’m sorry i know what I feels like
Mine left the day Mon died to cancer I'm sorry for your loss
“Not friends, not enemies but strangers with memories”
I miss my old best friend so so much
I see her everyday in the bus
And, i want her old self back.
Same
Just had a friend break up about a month ago, still hurts like it was yesterday. She broke up with me after 2 years by a text message. When we spoke on the phone she was making accusations that were completely false about me. Little did I know she knew nothing about me even after living with me for 2 years. She let her own issues cripple her and took it out on me. This video helped me realize that. I hope everyone realizes that she was completely wrong one day and understands what she is missing out on
Sarah Swailes man I had a friend break up last week in gone middle of class. It was so embarrassing. We had been friends for over 2 years and this video is exactly what happened. I miss her
Sarah Swailes mine happened a few months ago
I still can’t stop crying.
I miss them.
Mine happened a long time ago... our friendship is dead. We still see each other everyday and act as we were as close as before... we know we’re not, we’re just sitting together cuz society makes us, if we don’t, it’s awkward, everyone will see how our “great” friendship is over. It would be embarrassing and I don’t know why but it feels like so.
And it’s even harder cuz we have to pretend we’re still close... but we’re strangers to each other now... slowly our friendship got rotten until one day... there was nothing we could’ve done about it. WE are dead. She is alive, I’m alive. But WE are dead.
I faced exactly the same situation as you, the only difference is that mine happened in January.. . On my birthday. She came to my house and treated me like trash, then when she left she sent me texts that spoke of things I never did, about her being jealous and me being heartless. I used to care for her, but that part of me died. The part of me that cared for anyone is now ashes. I am only filled with hate, and that is because of the thousand knives that are still wedged in my back.
Take it from someone who has seen a lot. Friends mean nothing. Stick with your family, because friends are temporary. Any friends I have now, would make no difference to me in their disappearance.
MinecraftAndMusicFreak i have to disagree with you
this made me cry
+Brenna Morales it's okay, I'm with ya. Stay strong girl.
Brenna Morales me too.. :(
Brenna Morales same
what happened to ..
“i’ll always be by your side”
Haha i think now everyone tell same dialogues..stupid me i believed it
Ikr... 🥺😭
Always means i wont be by your side i hate you i never wanted to be you bff that means that shell never love you
sadieee ! Idk
And what happened to..
Our "friendship" bracelets? XD
Damn.. That was cringe-
This is for my ex-bestie. ( ibff)
Dear Best Friend
When I found out that you just see my messages and dont answer. Was. Was horrible. Knowing that you just moved on me to another. Was hell. I felt Something broke inside me. But that wasn't my bone. Nope. That was my hope. My Life ( AND MY LIFE WAS YOU ). My energy what just comes from you! I WAS who saved you from suicide. I WAS who helped you on the bad days. I WAS who cared to you. I WAS who loved you the most on this planet.
What's wrong with you? Thats the gratitude.....for that .FOR THAT?!
..Days get worse. We fight every day, every hour when we speak to each other. You promised that you'll never ever leave me. You were my friend. My bestie. My another half. You said you are my friend so you'll never lie to me. You said: If I am your friend I'm not gonna lie to you, right? You know what? *FRIENDS* *-DONT LIE-*
Then.. you just talked about another girl, that how much she's better than me.
Then u just said nothing and gone from my life. You became a memory. And then. The days period get worse to me. I needed to find another one. The ONE. But i can't, you were the best. Who always cared no matter what!
And now. You change me. And move on...
Ps: Thanks if u read that. I know u have the same, worse, or better.
*Everything get better! Remember! It's always sun behind the darkness.*
Niki_ Gameplay I had a similar situation. I had a friend for 7 years, in 5th grade she started bullying me, talking about me behind my back, being mean to me. She moved schools. Then I met this girl. She was amazing, I loved her. We were so close. Every day we went to each other’s houses. Every weekend we had sleepovers. I loved her. But she told me she didn’t want to be friends anymore this year. I was heartbroken, I still am. I see her with her new best friend. We sometimes wave and say hi to each other but we barely talk anymore. I don’t know what to do. Wanna maybe be internet friends? Only if you want to tho. I would never ditch you._.
@@miapowell6578 Hey, I'm sorry about what happend to you😣. And sure!. Do you have anything like messenger?
@Mya Bussiere Aww❤️❤️ thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
*_N i k i_* can u please dm on instagram ik this was 5 moths ago but my bsf left me 😪
That made me cry and I can relate to your message
Yes I love this Sarah! This is so strong and the message is so clear and vivid ❤❤❤
QueenKee iiii
QueenKee the fact that my ex best friends name is sarah xD
Same
bangtan sonyeolit mine too
So true my best friends talked bad about me behind my back and I my bestfreind sent it to me but this is really relatable❤️😭
Savannah ._. Same
I'm sorry for that. I lost my best friend 3 years ago and now, he's in my school and we see each other sometimes and it pains me because I knew everything about him. Now, now I don't even know his name.
Savannah ._. Me too :(
Savannah ._. ❤️
Savannah ._. So she is not a bestfriend
This has touched me so much, I'm in tears, thank you so much for realising it wasn't just me. This has made me realise people go through this all the time! Thank you.
Thanks for your words. This kind of feedback inspires me to continue making videos. I'm so glad you're able to find comfort in this piece. It is indeed a hard process, to lose a best friend is truly a struggle. But at least those going through it can know they aren't alone. Thanks so much for watching ! :)
It hurts when they are your first best friend. Ever. And they hurt you in the worst ways possible.
I remember talking about our future together.. traveling the world together and then settling down in Canada.. where did that go? Where did the forgiveness go? One damn argument.. ONE DAMN ARGUMENT and this friendship is gone for. Your a different person now.. where did my BEST FRIEND go?.. where did my life go..
*We said we will be friends no matter what*
*What happened to that,was it all a dream?*
*The secrets we told each other was that justFake....Who was that yesterday what changed was it me!?Who was that what Happened....why did I change....why did we change?*
Exactly why do people do this!?! 😭
I.I.I can Relate to this so much and now that I have memory I feel like I have no friends. But it’s nice to feel that others have the same pain😢
Yeah. I've lived through this. I'm glad I'm not the only one who went through this sort of this. I have a comment which is really long with me wanting to believe she'd ever respond. I miss her. She made my life better and then ruined it.
Riley, if you ever read this:
I hate you, and I hate what you did, but I'm so tired of being angry about still Loving you
I'm sorry I ever fell in love with the way your hair felt, or your laugh, I'm sorry I ever loved *you*
Somehow Snake I'm glad i'm not the only one who feels this way.
If I could change just one thing about my life
I would have never
*ever*
Met my ex best friend
I don't wish I never met her, I just wish she didn't act and feel the way she feels now, and that she never did what she did
RILEY I'M HER BEST FRIEND NOW... can I be your friend somehow snake?
I'm glad I don't have to be sad about this alone. I wish she could just stay that before. If I could stay friends with the before I knew. We could have stayed before s forever. Together. But she had to become an after and to keep my life from ruining itself and becoming a pit of sorrow I changed and tried to move on.
Somehow Snake Same 😭
I love this.
This helped me cope with my friend who just left me. She stopped talking to me. One period we were laughing and joking and the next it’s like I didn’t exist. She wrote me a letter telling me that she didn’t want to be friends and that she doesn’t love me anymore. Thank you for helping me through this.
Ex best friend, I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for all the memories and laughs. The only reason I am who I am today is because of you. You taught me that your friends should trust you, above all others and if they don’t then they aren’t your friends. You probably didn’t mean to teach me this, but you did. You taught me this when you chose to believe others over me and when you decided to call me a lair. So, thank you for this lesson. Goodbye.
I miss my best friend so much. It’s so sad we grew apart because she was like family to me and she doesn’t recognise the person I am now and I don’t recognise the person She is 💔💔💔
ITZCJ Lifestyle sometimes its good to spread apart
My used to be best friend did the same to me but she replaced me with someone else and was mean to me I miss the old her 😭
I usually don‘t comment but now I have to. Omg I‘m in tears. This video is so accurate. Every sentence just happened as it‘s described and this hurts.
When me and my ex-bestfriends were still bestfriends I could never imagine that our friendship would ever come to an end, no never ever...
Sometimes when I sleep I dream about her and that we just talk as everything is normal and I think that we can be bestfriends again. But then when I wake up I realize that it was just a dream and that it just wont happen.
I’m so sorry 😭 I can’t imagine loosing my best friend 😭
I have dreams about mine every single week... Usually about us making up or just being the people we used to be.
Wish I wouldn't have to wake up..
yes.
I do miss my " bestfriend " ...
pop rocks! Same😟😟😟
I miss having a best friend.
this video helped tremendously with my ex bestfriend and my ex boyfriend . it made me realize nobody is forever , everyone is temporary and everyone changes . but eventually life goes on and it gets better .💞
I had a best friend who meant so much to me. She did so much for me and I did so much for her. We were like 2 peas in a pod, we were alway together. But after high school, she never talked to me again, she jyst ignored my messages, I tried to contact her in alot of ways but she never responded... First I thought I did something wrong and that it was my fault. Now I know it isn't my fault and it is her problem if she doesn't want me in her life anymore. Now I know who my real friends are and they will never leave me💕
This happened to me too, i miss her still and I hate it. I just want to hold my BFF on last time, talk one last time. But i can't, i can't get her out of my head and it's been monthes.
U killed it girl ! Tht touched me .
damn :/ this is fire tho I relate
I relate on a personal level.
Hamiltion..
I always listen to my best friend's problems, help her with everything. But when i need help, she's not there for me.
then shes not worth being friends with..
That is why I left her, I don't want people like them anymore.
It’s been 2 years now is everything better?
Amazing friends sent me this on my birthday along with a whole ass slide show telling me how much I have changed.
I had just moved schools and this was a hard pill to swallow.
the thing was it was always me trying to hold one to this friendship that had given me so much joy and happiness.
I wanted to desperately understand what went wrong and how everything went downhill, but nowhere on that 8 slide presentation gave me the answer
later I reached out to one of the friends and apologized. But I didn't really know why I apologized.
we are back to friends but whenever we talk I remember how I put myself in the garbage just to keep a friendship that disrespected me.
But this time I intend on communicating.
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I had a best friend since I was 3 years old. We were always together,laughing, we were never apart. In 1st grade is where everything changed, she didn't use to talk to me anymore, she kept ignoring me and I got really sad. One day she wasn't at school so I asked her other friends "Hey, where did she go?" And..... They told me that she had moved to another place far away. I was so shocked because she didn't tell me but she told her other friends! So we stopped being best friends. In 3rd grade I met this girl, she was amazing! We were always there for each other, we were always talking, we were never apart. I am now 10, in 5th grade and I'm so glad I met that girl back in 3rd grade!
Thank you for this.
I had friends where our parents were friends before we were even born and I hate how things ended but I’m glad I have new and better friends now.
It’s sad that when you say forever you don’t wish it was longer because your think forever is a long long time, but in reality “forever” is honestly the shortest, most bittersweet thing.
I was too "clingy" apparently.. I broke I tried changing.. huh I miss her.. we planned to travel the world together.. ha tears in my eyes again.
Kimberly X you don’t deserve a “friend” like her... if she was your real friend, she would have accepted you the way you where. You deserve so much better then her!
Exactly the same problem right here. Jesus..
My eyes are cried out.
Jessica Elizondo same..
Who is chopping onions?
I lost my soul mate, raven I miss her
I remember watching this video before I moved.
I moved.
It has so much more meaning to me now.
She is now doing drugs and hates me i miss what she was 😭
The Pupito Pals I dont think it will happen its been over a year
@@_.rachael.young._5730 now 2 years
SO much truth in this!! Really feel this :(
My ex bff never was the typical girl that said “I love you” all the time. She actually NEVER said that to anyone, I see her as a girl who is ashamed to say “i love you” to anyone, even if that anyone was me, her best friend. It always was “I like you a lot” but that was never, and it never will be enough. I used to hear other girls saying “ohhh I love youuu” or run at the other one and hug. Mine wasn’t like that. I could never talk about periods cuz she would be too awkward to. I mean cmon! We’re 15 it’s a normal thing... and the worst thing is that we’ve been “best friends” for 7 years, everyone pictures us as “the duo” at class we socially HAVE to be together when the teacher says “make partners” and I know I don’t wanna be with her and I guess she doesn’t either. It’s so awkward lately, few years ago we would at least have something to talk about... now? Nah. But if somehow we’re not together, everyone else will see and start the gossip. “Oh Chloe and *the girl* aren’t friend no more” or “ohhhh *the girl* Chloe betrayed you with susan” it’s annoyingly hard. And now that I think of it. That toxic relationship makes me not make any new friends cuz everyone will say “ohh she’s ditching you for whatever girl” and I know I shouldn’t care about what people say but it’s kinda hard to not to. Knowing that 7 years of my life have been thrown in the trash (speaking of the friendship not the whole 7 years lmao) it’s just sad. Legit my “BFF” has came over to my house twice. TWICE IN 7 YEARS. That can’t be good. And I used to really like her and I don’t know why. She doesn’t show her feelings, she’s too neutral. Too busy with school, or too ashamed to talk about periods, or family stuff, or even tv shows! What the hell? I don’t know if I should try to get the friendship back or just ditch it. I think the second option if the better one.
I seriously get how you feel.
Azul Real try to talk to her about cus something could be wrong so don’t just ditch it
I had a bsf, her name was Meleny
We were friends since 4th grade we were the best of friends👯
But then we went to middle school we had no classes together.
She met a girl named Gizell and it broke my Heart not seeing her after school.
It broke me when she left me and left with Gizell after school.
She left...she's gone
She got popular and just abandoned me in the street.
Our light bulb went out
The fire went out when Gizell was the water
The rope ripped
I miss her and still don't know why I love her
The F in forever was a lie
Jessica Elizondo I know how u feel, I moved away from some place and next thing I know my bestie for life was sending me snapchats of her new friends, doing things I have always wanted to do with her, but never had the chance😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
My ex best friend did practically the same but it is really hard not to miss the old her cause I see her family all the time cause my sister is best friends with her sis and our parents are friends
Leah Chambers that sucks Leah, just know that there will always be another someone out there, maybe not the one but someone who u know u r compfterble with. I moved to some where were people are so different from what I'm used to, and it's hard to get used to because there is always that fake person going around, spreading fake storied that u weren't there long enough to understand. Why does she hate you ? Why did she leave me for someone else? Who am I nothing anymore to her Exept something that she used to know? U might ask ur self these questions but know that there might have been someone there while u weren't cause u were busy and thinking that hanging out with somebody other than u was ok, but it was not. Don't let her ruin ur life, when ever u see her, try bringing that knew friend of yours with you, tell ur parents what happened so maybe they will reconsider what u feel when u see her when u see her. I know this sounds stupid and not helpful, but just know that it's not the end of the world, don't let her overwhelm you, and think about those memories that makes u laugh so hard that it won't make out feel worse because everything has changed. 😓❤️
Jessica Elizondo I know how you feel
My best friend took my heart, softened it so it hurt more when she betrayed me. She ripped it in half like a piece of paper crumpled it and left it to die.
....😭
God,what the hell have I done to my ex-best friend-
This video made me literally cry...
I feel you bad 😢😢😢😭😭
Never seen anything as relatable as this for a long time.Surely made me stronger to be used to not talking to my best friend everyday!🙂
Best friends since we were little she dumped me a few days ago 😭 I do and don’t miss her I miss her because she was the best thing that happened to me and I don’t miss her because she betrayed me but that friendship didn’t last best friends forever I don’t think so 😭😭😭😭
Same
I have no friends and I'm still watching this
I will be your friend
:D 1st friend
(=ↀωↀ=)
so here is my BIG story:
I was in like third grade and I was looking for friends (don't judge me) and I found this one girl (lets call her Lily). She liked videogames like I did . I met her and my 2 best friends (Lets call them Cookie and Wolf) and they got along pretty well. Later that year she was against Cookie and was saying very rude things about her (by the way Cookie was in a different class and Wolf was 1 year younger then us)she was saying that because "Cookie would spend time with her classmates at lunch time and not with us" I was very easily manipulated at that time and I thought Lily was saying the truth...A month later we were BFFs again,but now she got mad at Wolf because she was a tomboy.......(I know... she is an idiot) Then again we were BFFs. BUT the year after that she had some beef with me........Soooo,before school I would be having fun with Cookie BUT NO,THAT WAS NOT ACCEPTABBLE.She was mad at me.And I (being the baddass bitch that I am) was done with her shit. She would talk about people behind their backs (Including me), ignore people then expect them to treat her like a goddess (she did that to me),if she liked pandas YOU COULD NOT LIKE THEM,if she wore a bun YOU COULDN'T WEAR ONE,she was a very idiotical ,ignorant,selfish and arrogant person. When I told her we were DONE her little minions (Bunny and Princess) would try to talk to me. I saw that she wanted me back BUT I WAS TO GOOD FOR HER AND I WOULD NOT LET HER MISTREAT ME EVER AGAIN.
I found better friends and was so much happier.
She was a shitty friend,and she was never there for me,I had to understand her but she didn't need to understand me,she nedded to be the center of the universe when she was not,and Bunny & Princess weren't real friends.They were like drugs to make her forget about me...She wanted me back. But I didn't want to go and I didn't.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING THIS TILL THE VERY END IT MEANS A LOT TO ME
AND IF YOU ARE GOING TROUGH AN EXPERIENCE LIKE THIS REMEMBER:
YOU ARE NOT WORTH IT,YOU ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT
Lol I'm such a mom
Sometimes people make big stories very confusing and frustrating.but at least they earn online money using women and relationships.
YOUR STORY IS EXACTLY LIKE MINE...OMGG WUT....???
Dat Girl, my ex-bestie is called lily..
I can't relate to it...
We were best friends since 4th grade and now recently in my 10th grade I got too sick that I was hospitalized for a month... She never called me,but I was fine with that( because our exams were going on Soo...) when I came back to school I was kinda hoping to meet my bestie first, I met my all friends and even my bully was/is nice to me... But my ex BFF(fakest friend who has literally hurt me the most) she still didn't showed up...she was with a new girl... I went to her and tried to talk but she seemed too happy with them she literally just said "hey.... What's up?..." and then ignore me the entire time while talking to her "new friends"....i felt very bad... But still I tried to talk to her... But she was like I was a stranger...since than its been 4 months I have not talked to her at all... To be honest... I miss her old self... When she was my friend, I never told her not to make new friends but she just left me for another friend.... Anyways... I'm not gonna make any BFF anymore They r nothing more than fake people who will make u depressed 💜😊
Bye wtf is this im screaming
Why is no one talking about her accent I love it
Omg thanks 😭😭😭
You have no idea how much i balled my eyes out while watching this...
I miss her... I miss her so much! I WANT HER BACK!!!!! I want her back... 😭😭😭😭💔
11 years.... she said “I’ll always be by your side” and what happens? She replaced me...... I can’t stop crying😭😭😭😭
My bestfriend just stopped... She stopped talking to me so suddenly I thought something happened but no... She just stopped
Leyla Baysan it happened to me too..
I love this passion! So strong! But it is also true that people are allowed to grow up and mature and change...
Tiger girl 15 true
My only best friend were my twin sister but she's gone and the only best friend that I have now is her memories and her photos. This made me cry.
At times I just randomly think about my best friend. I have been thinking about how much I miss her and I feel like she did nothing but my other friend caused this between us. Whenever I think about her, my heart just breaks and makes me really upset. I still want to be friends with her...
I have watched this a few times. I've had a friend since I was one. I'm now 14 and she's 15 it stopped last September when I was 13 and ever since I've been so so so sad. I really miss her and she left me for someone else. I like her instagram and Facebook posts she never likes mine back. I always say hello to her when I see her but I got no reply back. We don't everything together. We even went on holidays together. I'm so sad I miss her
I know how you feel. It's a very painful process that hurts to go through. Some friendships just weren't meant to be, no matter how much we wish they were. It's a harsh reality. I have a newer video that's a bit more personal than this one- it is directed to my best friend which I felt like I was losing. It's titled Dear Best Friend, and it covers the topic of feeling the loss as it happens, whereas this video talks about the pain afterwards. I hope you will check it out and that my material can help you realize that although you might feel alone, you are not alone. There's a whole community here that's feeling the same pain you are, and I hope that gives you a sense of comfort. You're going to be okay.
thank you
nice piece! love the way you told this story. beautiful!
Bradie Lee yeah one side of it
Dustin Williams so you know the other side? 🤔
I miss my ex best friend dearly I bet no one will read this but I have to get it out I'm a senior in school now but I met her in 6th grade we did everything together but 10th grade she changed she got a boyfriend and they had dated for three years they started dating in 8th grade but she started to talk to other boys I ignored it at first but then I realized that it wasn't ok to do that so I talked to her boyfriend and he was heart broken and sometimes I feel like I didn't do the right thing but me and her split apart at the beginning of 11th grade and I had issues with my family so I moved away from them and somewhere three hours away from everyone and I had a boyfriend at that time and a month after I moved I heard she was now dating my boyfriend while he was with me and she broke me I didnt want to make friends and start over I was broken and when I finaly talked to my (ex) boyfriend he said he had liked her for a while even when he was dating me and I was broken the boyfriend I had before him did the same thing too he was abusive and emotionally draining and I guess I just miss who she was I always said to her I wish we can be friends even past high school but its never going to happen thank you for whoever stopped and read this ik it doesn't make sense but I just wanted to get it out there somehow
@Vlogs by A aww thank you and I have actually
Gray Wolf it make sense bc I went though this but I’m way younger and there is a lot more drama and I did something bad that I regret..I became a
......bully with her.but then we had a big fight.....,but then I became friends with her again idk why but I changed from that,she did to.not in a good way in a bad why. She bullied me and my friends.then my friends ether moved or went to a higher grade.i was alone.but then I told her that if she doesn’t stop she’ll be the one that is hurting more then me.but she didn’t change
Every year or two I come here and I cry... 😞
it really works our for me get my ex back
I can help you out
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I cried so much after watching this video. I can say that most of the things was just the same as mine. I have this old friend who was very closed to me. But as days passed by. I've noticed that she wasn't paying attention to me anymore and she wasn't even talking to me for the whole time as if we aren't best friends. Then one day. I saw her with some ppl who used to be her ex best friends on the past. Laughing and having fun. At first. I was so very happy for them coz they are now in good state. But i didn't thought that those ppl would replace me. :
This touched me because I had a friend she would be my friend that day but the next day she would hate me idk y she would hate me but she had some of my friends to hate me but I felt so alone without her but no I don't miss her she hurt my feelings and talked about my mom and friends and family and I never talked about her mom or her or her friends or her family I don't miss nothing about her and she doesn't miss me
Damn I wish I would sent this to her but can't cause she blocked me 😪
Maybe it really is best if you two just go separate ways for now
+S Kisa Yeah you are right
Stay strong!
Miu Kagome damn😔
yes my best friend also blocked me and don't want to talk with me avoid me and there is the wrost thing is the family matters it alaways happene that you love anyone too much so he or she hurt you wrostly cause human have no sence about who has truly care for you and who don't
She said that she wouldn’t leave me even if I got jealous but then she left me in the dark
15 years of fake friendship..Can you guys imagine?? She was my best friend since we were in pre school:( LIFE GOES ON 😭❤
After my best friend became “popular” she befriended me, and started acting like I was a stranger because I wasn’t “good enough” or “pretty enough” I was too much of a mess to someone like her. But, I remember on the certain first grade of school I knew a lot of people because I wasn’t new to the school. And I gave her a smile when she first came into the class, we soonly became best friends after that. Now it became the next grade, and she had a boyfriend and so many other friends. She didn’t need me anymore, she made more friends than me than I could ever make because of my shy and messy personality. I remember her talking behind my back blaming me for all the bad grades we got together on projects, when she didn’t even try to communicate to me. On them she tried doing everything by herself and whenever I tried giving out a helping hand or listened to her she just pushed me away. She always acted like she was soo important, when I had my own goddam problems that were way worse . And yet I didn’t tell her because I knew that she wouldn’t care. I remember she never supported me in the things I wanted to do, like cheer. I wanted to do cheer with her but she said she couldn’t see me doing it, why? Because For some reason I wasn’t good enough in her eyes. Why did she start acting like I’m a stranger? Because I wasn’t good enough and I never will be anyways, I don’t like backstabbing bitches like her. And she doesn’t deserve my respect. Girls like her are never set for fame they’d end their career before it even started. Does it hurt me a hella lot? Yes. But have I made new friends who are brutally honest and aren’t like her at all! Yes. And the best part is I can see all my friends setting themselves to a bright future.
Shinyskiez Aj I feel bad for you bc I went through the exact same dam thing yes it hurts like hell but they are nothing now and when all her fake friends leave when she treats them like she did to you she’ll come back and you can say NO bc real friends are kind and nice and trustworthy.it mite hurt to say NO but you have to let go of fake friends....mine could never do that and I let them in to my life after they hurt me and they did it again but when you say NO you will feel free
jayanne1322 I’m happy someone else understands me thx
Np it easy to understand
Why are their fake friends I mean we are humans we make mistakes but I'm not a human....
IM A POTATO
The potato even potatoes make mistakes
S Kisa ye
S Kisa I still can believe you answerd me❤☺
+The potato believe it! 😊
S Kisa I still don't 😱
I miss her so much😕 4years and then it gets ruined
My best friend moved and after 2 years with her gone other people got in the way and ripped us apart
Same
Lost one of my best friends 8 years ago and it still hurts. Knowing why only makes it worse 💔
This happens with my best friends this year and it’s so heartbreaking! I was in much pain but she acts like everything is fine as she just pushes me away! I have a new friend that is much more nice and supportive than my old one who once had the same problem. I am a much better person than who I was than when I hung out with my other
Cool and I wish you the best🙏
I miss my best friend so much, he left me for someone he met on a video game and then we barely talked and now we dont even play or talk to eachother 🤧😭
im watching this becuase i lost my best friend today..
Amara Illusion Shy it's going to be okay. I'm here with you, feeling the pain of losing someone important to you as it happens. My newest video titled dear best friend is about the process of losing your so called best friend. If you enjoyed this video, I recommend that one. Thanks for watching, and I hope you're okay.
S Kisa Thank you....
My bestfriend...we called eachothers sisters, I told her my deepest darkest secrets...She changed, quickly...I miss her old personality! But now we're strangers...
I get ur pain too.
My bestfriends backstabbed me and I cry about it almost every single day, and this really relates to me thank you
I figured my best friend had been talking about me for years. Thank u for this. I think i hate her but i know i dont. I helped her so much and she talked about me. But i still love her :/
Literally the story of my life its sad that my friend did that
My old bestie just stopped talking to me after a year after I moved
Same but we got put into different classes that's why she stopped talking to me
@The Pupito Pals I only have one right now my second hated my first my first hated my second after that I couldn’t go on like that anymore so I left my second but my first was a little angel lol but the second was a devil with her little horns
@The Pupito Pals but also after I moved we weren’t very close anymore I don’t mean my distance I mean by heart ❤
I am still your best friend. We have been together since we are babies. I changed because you replaced me with others that you swore were better than me. You did not see the real diamond you had. I moved heaven and earth for you. For my love and joy, you played games with my heart. My love was true and still I love you. Now you found someone new.Are you Finally Happy? All this time, we could have spent Great times together. Instead, you choose to stab me in the back. I hope you are happy. The person to be mad at is YOU
Tracey Hughes relatable
I feel your pain
Im crying this is so true I lost my best friend two years ago...when I found out she was moving to Canada, I cried and cried begging her not to go, but she left, she left when I needed her most. We keep in touch every once In a while but I miss her and we’ve grown apart I have a new bff but i still miss her and she’s...different
I lost my best friend in the entire world this school year, he started to hang around popular people and I miss him every day and I hope if he sees this comment he realizes how much he is meaning to me in this world right now!
my ex best friend was never perfect but I could ignore all the flaws she had because she was worth way more than her flaws. Whenever I did something slightly bad, she would hold a grudge forever. Whenever she did something very very bad I ignored it. She was my bff after all. But with time, she changed more and more. First she became a frenemy then a bully. But I was holding onto her. She was still my bff even tho she was somewhat a different person than I knew. But I was reluctant this time when I told people she was my bff. Then she made a boyfriend and she became a bully+stranger. Didnt know her anymore. Didnt want to be with her even for old times sake. Its so cliche. you know, this bf wins the girl and the friend is left behind thing. Her bf definitely made things worse, so fucking worse. Maybe if he wasnt in our lives we could have been better. Or not. Who knows? there had already been problems. So now, we rarely talk. She and I. And I gotta say, Im living so much better without her. Im glad I got to know all the good things about her. All the good things we had done in 8-9 years. Bad things however, isnt forgotten. I dont miss her. Because she wasnt all good.
I miss my best friend now she is someone named memory and she always try to beat me up and now i just dont know what to do😭😭😭😭😭
I feel you :(
So true but instead of moving away it's more like going to different colleges
Erza Scarlett what?
I love it so much, I cried, I laughed on past and now I hate making friends best friend is not just a tag but for some people it is more than that
Thank you for speaking my grief.. I lost my best friend. She has become someone i don't recognize anymore. She doesn't tell any news to me anymore. She is just... Gone.
I only knew my “bff” for five months I cried when she left me