When a *man* tells you he loves you. When a man tells you he loves you, he will be sitting right next to you, looking into your beautiful eyes of wonder with a smile on his charming face. He hold your hand in his and whisper the words on his butterfly silk lips into your mind of imagination and temptation. He will call you evey morning to wish you well and to be happy that magnificent day. He will love you and cherish you. When he asks if you loved him too, he will be standing right at your door with flowers in hand. He will smile at you as the words fell into your lap like a leaf in the light breeze, realizing you did. You realize that he meant every word of it. Because he is a man, remember? A happy, happy man.
People don't understand that the guy who wrote this, and who performed this, was writing about one specific person. He was angry, and after you get hurt so many times you start to believe all guys are like this. This is his poem. If you can't understand it from multiple perspectives don't listen.
notice the word "boy" is used instead of the word "man". that is because a man would never do that no matter what. a man will tell you he loves you and will give you every reason he knows of how and why he loves you. a boy will not do that. a boy will tell you he loves you and leave you because he either does not know better or does and doesn't strive to do better. please, fall in love with a man, and do not, please do not fall in love with a boy
Vanessa Ruiz I know, I went through the same thing, it sucks. But once you hit rock bottom there is no other way to go then up, and even if you have to claw your way up with no one there for you then do it. Fight as hard as you can to get back up and show him what he lost. I know you can make it through this. All of you. You guys are probably the real strong people
There is a difference between a girl and woman, and a boy and a man. A woman and man will own up to their words, understand the responsibility of caring for another person, and when they make a mistake, own up to it. A boy and a girl on the other hand, will deny it all, and find it an endeavor to only gain from not give
When you truly love someone, this won’t happen I promise. I’m not saying it would be easy but true love never fades. You see no other person as attractive when you’re with the one you truly love. But it is only true love when they feel that same way. You will know when you feel it.
This boy said “i love you” but then 2 days later those words were fading away he starting liking a new girl my heart was broken cause I thought he meant it and it just broke my heart and he thinks I’ll never forget about it and tries to be my friend now.
But is it true? Or do you want it to be true? The first time they said it they may have pretend. They may have loved you latter on. But did he really love you the first time he told you?
If it was love, a genuine person would never treat you second. A girl who has never experienced anything and hearing the words "I love you" will make anyone vulnerable. Then to realize that everything was false will break any person. The video implies that we all have to realize that love has to be earned, not handed out freely. That no matter if he breaks your heart, he will just be a another memory of a "boy" that is still experiencing his own love, a person you used to know. That not to fall in love with a "boy" but a genuine person who means it.
I fell in love with him at 16. Almost two years ago. I will never forget the night in March of 2019. He told me he loved me for the first time. I was his first love and he was mine. We loved each other no matter what. Not even the ocean between us could break us apart. But here we both are and the ocean broke us apart.
Fun fact . . . I did in fact tell her I loved her while on a business meeting, inside my car. And after that business meeting I got money. After I got money I got in a plane and I traveled 1300kms to be with her. And now I'm a 23 yo white atheist guy , married to the 22 yo Muslim woman that I love. We have a daughter.
i remember hearing this video in 6th grade after a break up and i was so sad that i believed everything in this video pero just a reminder to everyone to boys and girls ,, if someone loves you so much she/he will make the effort to make time for you ,, don’t stress over someone who isn’t gonna stress over you , your beautiful in every way ,, trust me
My goodness who hurt this girl ???when I tell my girl I love her that’s what I feel plain and simple from the bottom of my heart there’s no underlying theme with secretive ideas and meanings
When you are 16 and thinking that the person that you placed your lips on , was only thinking of you . But atlas , he didn’t . He never did , he always compared you, and told you that she was better . Now he never said this. But you still felt his lips on yours. And you want it gone, all of it . His touch, his words, his memory, CAN I PLEASE STOP FEELING HIS TOUCH !! I’m over this .... I’m over feeling like that I was enough , or that I am someone’s first, and being lied to. I scrubbed my whole body, my lips , everything . And I can still feel it . I really want to stop, please . My head hurts, I want this feeling to stop .
My ex finds his confidence in a pair of unprescribed glasses. Which like good for you?? But actual real confidence in yourself feels better and you should give it a try. I am wondering if I was his confidence for all that time
He told me he loved me and that’s the first time someone other than my family had said that to me and I was shocked, happy and I told him I loved him back. And then I had to watch him leave for another girl.
I have never heard a single boy confess feelings to me or compliment me expect once my school senior ( he's a great singer),heard me singing with my friends and told me I have a good voice. First and last time I heard something genuinely good about me from a guy, neither before that nor after that one time a guy has said anything nice to me
Lyffraun Flecora Dont feel stupid, you are probably an amazing girl and you dont need someone in your life who doesn't love you. You can get through this, I believe in you.
Lyffraun Flecora Just leave. Its the easiest thing to do and if he does that then he isn't worth your time. You are worth more then that and you deserve so much better. You got this girl. I believe in you.
thank you very much I really mean it, I know I can get throught this, there are alot more people suffering from worse problems, I know the pain will go away someday
Lyffraun Flecora People may be suffering worse but these are your problems, you are going through this now and for now it feels horrible to you so it matters. The pain will go away some day but until then you'll have to fight. If no one else is here for you or rooting for you I am. I'm here for you. If you need to talk I'm always here. Try to have a good day. You can do this.
I feel like through the use of boy instead of man it shows that he is too naive to genuinely love you. Meaning that yes not every guy is the same but if he is too naive he will be unable of loving you whole heartedly
when he told me he loved me, it made me feel so special and hopeful. maybe because i dont remember anyone else saying it to me. my family havent told me they loved me in years and neither did anyone else. it means so much to me because he felt like the only one who cared about me. I felt so special when i heard those 8 letters. but it turns out it was a lie, maybe not hearing it at all is better than knowing someone didn't mean it, and maybe thats why my family hasnt said it either. they dont wanna lie.
Sometimes , people do love you but it's hard for them to express it , hard for them to say it. Don't worry , that was the first time you heard it and it didn't go as planned but it's okay , he just wasn't the right one for you. All you gotta do is wait , one day out of the blue sky someone will be infront of and tell you how much he loves you and he will mean it too cuz everyone has a soul mate somewhere around the world and one way or another they will find each other. All you have to do is wait and trust the fate and have faith too, cuz meeting someone is fate , knowing them is choice and falling for them is beyond control. I hope you're having a wonderful day , stay safe.
bc he doesn’t love you, not really. he might want you but that doesn’t mean he values you. he doesn’t want to be your man, he just wants you to be his woman. walk away and heal.
I had a long distance relationship with this boy i loved and it felt like true love for us. He suffered depression and problems and I was there to always make him happy. He would always tell me he loves me everyday. But then a month ago he suffered a serious crash which I never knew because he never came online to tell me because he lived to far and he was in the hospital. He then came back but was only online for a day. He lost everything. His house just everything. He then a few weeks back committed suicide... I wish he would’ve talked to me... I still text him everyday even though he is gone and tell him how my day was going. I miss him so much I remembered me saying to him that the first thing I do when I see him is that we were gonna have a movie night because we loved watching movies.. now he’s resting in heaven and I just miss him so fucking much I wish he would’ve spoke to me idk why he didn’t.. I lost the feeling of what love I after that. I just want him back that’s all I ask from god..
Nothing I could comment can make up for your loss. I too am in a relationship, a long distance one and I too also suffer from depression and social anxiety. The reason that your boyfriend didn’t speak to you most likely was because he was ashamed and embarrassed and he most likely felt like a failure and he didn’t want you to see him that way. Depression warps the mind and makes us believe a different narrative that we know isn’t true but we still choose to believe. I’ve also tried to take my own life and my girlfriend knows this. It scares me a lot that one day I might choose to take my own life and never get to see her. Please I ask you for his sake and for yours, keep moving forward. As hard and as impossible as that may seem it’s all you can do for yourself and for him looking down upon you from heaven with a smile. Just try to smile back.
I came to this video expecting to hear something different but I’m kinda glad I didn’t hear what I wanted to hear because it made me wake up and realize that sometimes this is true.
For all the girls here..... Never let or rely on a boy to tell you how worthy you are for something. Women are not toys or objects. I realize not all boys are like this but you do NOT need a boy or anyone to tell you how great, beautiful, or amazing you are. Okay so I have a story for you. I liked this boy for so long and thought I really wanted to be with him. A lot of people liked him and he had a girlfriend but I really liked him. I cried over him because he never liked me back and I know everyone you crush on is not gonna like you but I really wanted him to. At this point I was crying like a baby and thought I wasn't good enough or that he would never liked me. I started too judge the way I looked more and I always felt uncomfortable doing anything because I thought I looked weird. I always thought I needed a relationship and needed a boyfriend but I've grown out of that mentality. Now in present day I finally don't like him and am WAY happier. The thing is in middle school and high school especially now, people give us this feeling that we HAVE to have a boyfriend or we NEED to jump in a relationship, but honestly girls......you DO NOT need a man or boy to make you feel good or worthy. There are tons and loads of boys who just use girls. You are NOT an object, a toy, or a maid and you don't need to act like one for a boy. You are better off being independent than dating boys you know don't care about you. If a boy doesn't treat you right or always tell you what you need and need to do in a relationship then you should honestly just leave them. NEVER depend on a boy to make you feel happy or worthy about yourself because YOU'RE AMAZING!!
Me: I love you with all my heart Looks at him and sees he is staring at another girl Him: what? What did you say Me:oh...nothing dont worry about it I have had to many moments like this
It’s crazy bc I say “I love you” when I mean it but if I grow distant it’s bc I grow scared, I hide my emotions to protect you from myself not to hurt you, and if she doesn’t show the same remorse naturally I lose feelings
For anyone who is hurting. It will get better he sucked but you can do better. You will become stronger never let him have power over you.Walk proudly don't let him know he effected you keep strong you will get better and find someone who will treat you right.He didn't deserve you and he was lucky he even got to be in your presence.Go rule the world girl you've got this.
*I love my best friend. He’s told me he loves me too, we’ve had ups and downs but we’ve gotten through it. I honestly believe him when he says it. He is legit the first person I’ve ever been friends with that has made me the happiest and cry the hardest. I don’t know how, but I never want too lose him. And I hope it’s not easy for him too lose me if I am ever the person too end our relationship.*
I had a best friend too, ended up dating him, I loved him so much and still do, he told me he loved me and I believed it... I was stupid. One day he didn’t talk to me for a few weeks which was unusual, we talked everyday. Then out of nowhere he ends our relationship and scars our friendship. I still don’t understand why or what happened. I talk to him here and there, I act like everything’s cool, but nothing hurts more than when a best friend abandons you. Be careful please
TheDarkLordofAll *thank you so much. What’s crazy is I’ve had multiple people tell me to be careful. I’m a person that when they love someone it’s hard to register that someone decides your love isn’t enough.*
Slowly his text became shorter, his reply’s only came after hours of waiting. See he never told me he loved me; he only told me about how he loved her. That’s the problem he was never in love with me. He only came when he wanted me for help with homework. The day I hear I love you come out of his mouth will be the day he gets married to her. For those words were not meant for me. 💔
I’m so in love with him. I don’t think he loves me back. No matter how much he tells me, I will never be able to convince myself that he truly does. I know I’m gonna lose him. There’s not a day that goes by where I don’t worry about him breaking up with me or something happening. I don’t know what to do.
I think that I can understand you sis. :) The key is to hold on every moment, and learn to appreciate all the times what you're able to spend with him. I know, it can be hard sometimes, but try to close your thoughts, and enjoy the moment. ✨
Shinom4ever He didn’t do anything. He tries to prove to me all the time that he loves me and that he’s not gonna break up with me but I think I just let doubt get into my head. I don’t really know.
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I’ve never fallen in love. I fell in love with the thought of being in love.
Me too sister
same
Or the thought of someone loving me
Becky Leanne same
Girl,I’m in tears 😭
I didnt fall in love with him. I fell in love with the lies he told.
Keaira damn this hit harddd
ooooof this hit heart, well said i gotta say.
Iamaivilo 💗
same here
those beautiful lies 😔
I didn't fall in love with him, I fell in love with the version of him I created in my head
Same
When a *man* tells you he loves you.
When a man tells you he loves you, he will be sitting right next to you, looking into your beautiful eyes of wonder with a smile on his charming face. He hold your hand in his and whisper the words on his butterfly silk lips into your mind of imagination and temptation. He will call you evey morning to wish you well and to be happy that magnificent day. He will love you and cherish you.
When he asks if you loved him too, he will be standing right at your door with flowers in hand. He will smile at you as the words fell into your lap like a leaf in the light breeze, realizing you did.
You realize that he meant every word of it. Because he is a man, remember? A happy, happy man.
Oh I want to read this one
i hate how there is always that one boy who you will always love..no matter how bad they hurt you
People don't understand that the guy who wrote this, and who performed this, was writing about one specific person. He was angry, and after you get hurt so many times you start to believe all guys are like this. This is his poem. If you can't understand it from multiple perspectives don't listen.
oml thank you for this explanation, its literally better than mine.
Leah Catherine in complete agreement
this.
I know that feeling... All to well
“He’s just a silly sad boy, remember?” Ugh. Those words hit me like a train.
No boy ever said 'I love you' to me but I clicked and so you are. *We no need no boy, we need a damn MAN.*
notice the word "boy" is used instead of the word "man". that is because a man would never do that no matter what. a man will tell you he loves you and will give you every reason he knows of how and why he loves you. a boy will not do that. a boy will tell you he loves you and leave you because he either does not know better or does and doesn't strive to do better. please, fall in love with a man, and do not, please do not fall in love with a boy
Yes
“he never meant a single word of any of it.”
I felt that.
For anyone whos going through this kind of relationship, I'm sorry.
Birb same, I feel bad for people who are suffering from this relashoushid.
This is me last year
It was the worst thing
This happened to me 6 months ago
Vanessa Ruiz I know, I went through the same thing, it sucks. But once you hit rock bottom there is no other way to go then up, and even if you have to claw your way up with no one there for you then do it. Fight as hard as you can to get back up and show him what he lost. I know you can make it through this. All of you. You guys are probably the real strong people
“I love you” is a very strong thing to say, don’t say it unless you mean it, save someone the heartbreak, please
Couldn't have said it better
I’m glad that I’m not the only one here that this literally just popped up on my recs
I didn't fall in love with him, I fell in love with the thought of him.
Exactly. "When a boy says I love you". It's completely different when a man says I love you
WHY AM I CRYING IF I'VE NEVER BEEN HEARTBROKEN, MUCH LESS IN LOVE BEFORE?
It is probably the music.
There is a difference between a girl and woman, and a boy and a man. A woman and man will own up to their words, understand the responsibility of caring for another person, and when they make a mistake, own up to it. A boy and a girl on the other hand, will deny it all, and find it an endeavor to only gain from not give
this was made 2 years ago and everyone is just now watching it. I love that for us
never let anyone take away your worth. you deserve somebody that’ll treat you right!
a lot of people need to hear this rn ❤
What a beautiful day to be depressed
Right
Ikr🤗. Its so pleasant
0:8 don’t fuckin warn me or anything, I had both earphones in on full volume and it was like “ *WHEN a BoY tElLs YoU hE lOvEs YoU!....* ”
What's sad.. is that you never know when someone really means it when they say, I love you.
When you truly love someone, this won’t happen I promise. I’m not saying it would be easy but true love never fades. You see no other person as attractive when you’re with the one you truly love. But it is only true love when they feel that same way. You will know when you feel it.
I didn’t love him. I loved the illusion of him I made up and thought he was. Until he showed me who he really was.
This boy said “i love you” but then 2 days later those words were fading away he starting liking a new girl my heart was broken cause I thought he meant it and it just broke my heart and he thinks I’ll never forget about it and tries to be my friend now.
to those offended there is a difference between a boy and a man.
BRUH THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION TBH
lol ty
Lee Dixon Oh mah gawd yes.
as it was meant to be :)
there's also a difference between a man and a gentleman
i fell in love with his lies. and now i will never fall out of it.
Same..
Same
I don’t even know why I clicked on this but this feels like church
Why?
When a man tells you he loves you... He means it.
But is it true? Or do you want it to be true? The first time they said it they may have pretend. They may have loved you latter on. But did he really love you the first time he told you?
it’s so sad when you love someone that doesn’t even know you exist . 😕
"He is just a boy remember. Hes just another silly,sad boy"...but I love him
I’m really scared that people hype up love too much and once I actually fall in love it won’t even be that great.
If its the right person then you'll laugh that u used to think this way.
Luis P I really hope so. Thanks for the encouragement.
That's how life came to be..which is why the ones that truly fall in love are taken for granted...stupid people..
it feels great, like nobody can hurt you.
Anonymous i used to think that until i met him
If it was love, a genuine person would never treat you second. A girl who has never experienced anything and hearing the words "I love you" will make anyone vulnerable. Then to realize that everything was false will break any person. The video implies that we all have to realize that love has to be earned, not handed out freely. That no matter if he breaks your heart, he will just be a another memory of a "boy" that is still experiencing his own love, a person you used to know. That not to fall in love with a "boy" but a genuine person who means it.
the fact that this was recommended to me during these tough times i couldn’t get any sadder😩
You will never stop loving someone.
You'll just find someone you love even more.💕
I hope I do.
When a boy tells you he loves you he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. When a man tells you he loves you, you’ve found the one.
now thats smart , ive never seen it that way
"He's just a boy, remember.?
He's just another silly, SAD boy. Remember ?"
“When a boy tells you he loves you, he is saying he is ready to be inconsistent with you.” @ my precious relationship
Still waiting for that day that someone says it and means it
it's okay girl me too
he’s the one i want, but he’s not what i need.
*he is just a silly, sad boy. remember?*
Damn that hit home
Yes it did
having your heart broken so many times the words “i love you” are sugar coated lies
I fell in love with the person I thought he was and said goodbye to he truly is. Two completely different people with the same face
I fell in love with him at 16. Almost two years ago. I will never forget the night in March of 2019. He told me he loved me for the first time. I was his first love and he was mine. We loved each other no matter what. Not even the ocean between us could break us apart. But here we both are and the ocean broke us apart.
I'm sorry. I can relate though, I fell in love and lost too. But the memories remain, the presence in my heart. Everything remains, im still here.
but why do we have the exact same story and time these things happened
You know you're hurting when you're sat listening to this again...
Fun fact . . . I did in fact tell her I loved her while on a business meeting, inside my car. And after that business meeting I got money. After I got money I got in a plane and I traveled 1300kms to be with her. And now I'm a 23 yo white atheist guy , married to the 22 yo Muslim woman that I love. We have a daughter.
muslims don't marry atheists fyi..
so you're lying
@@najd9072 lol, only dumb people will deny their feelings because of imagined bearded oldman on the sky
@@luciusknight8851 i didn't ask for your opinion about my beliefs.
@@najd9072 You're assuming that he's lying, but this just your guesses so you cant be sure 100%, so stfu bint.
@@najd9072 bruh ok stfu. Just because you wouldnt marry an atheist doesnt mean she is like you
i remember hearing this video in 6th grade after a break up and i was so sad that i believed everything in this video pero just a reminder to everyone to boys and girls ,, if someone loves you so much she/he will make the effort to make time for you ,, don’t stress over someone who isn’t gonna stress over you , your beautiful in every way ,, trust me
Yoselin Ruiz I’m almost in 7th grade and I haven’t had a boyfriend yet because when a boy told me he liked me he straight away broke me
6th?!?!?! Gurl you dont need a relationship
ana-mari i was in 6th 😭😭
Miranda Fowler honestly boys aren’t worth stressing about
How unfortunate for the person I loved to turn out to be just another sad silly boy who never meant anything he said.
My goodness who hurt this girl ???when I tell my girl I love her that’s what I feel plain and simple from the bottom of my heart there’s no underlying theme with secretive ideas and meanings
Ryan Miles that means you're not a boy , you're a man 🌟💘
He told me he loved me he did things that made me believe he did, but then I found out he does that with every girl
Not only did I fall for the lies he told but I also fell for every little thing about him.
Why am I watching this a boy had never told me he loved me and no boy ever will.
But.. I'll love you :(
When you are 16 and thinking that the person that you placed your lips on , was only thinking of you . But atlas , he didn’t . He never did , he always compared you, and told you that she was better . Now he never said this. But you still felt his lips on yours. And you want it gone, all of it . His touch, his words, his memory, CAN I PLEASE STOP FEELING HIS TOUCH !! I’m over this .... I’m over feeling like that I was enough , or that I am someone’s first, and being lied to. I scrubbed my whole body, my lips , everything . And I can still feel it . I really want to stop, please . My head hurts, I want this feeling to stop .
I don’t cry in front of ppl ever, so if I cry in front of you, I trust you, and I’m rly hurting and broken
I am feeling the same way right now. But we need to believe that it will get better for all of us, that's the only way we can heal. It will get better
True, happened to me some days ago.
we can never really tell we love someone so much, not until it hurts so much to watch them walk away.
He never told me he loves me.
But I love him.
And here’s my biggest heartbreak, loving a boy who loves another girl
Damn, y’all are some depressed ass kids you need a big ass hug and confidence.
TheWorthy FanGirl all the serious comments 😂 I wish I could hug you for making me laugh
My ex finds his confidence in a pair of unprescribed glasses. Which like good for you?? But actual real confidence in yourself feels better and you should give it a try. I am wondering if I was his confidence for all that time
He told me he loved me and that’s the first time someone other than my family had said that to me and I was shocked, happy and I told him I loved him back. And then I had to watch him leave for another girl.
“he never meant a single word of any of it. he is just a boy *remember?* “
I have never heard a single boy confess feelings to me or compliment me expect once my school senior ( he's a great singer),heard me singing with my friends and told me I have a good voice. First and last time I heard something genuinely good about me from a guy, neither before that nor after that one time a guy has said anything nice to me
“He means I am getting ready to be inconsistent with you now” ouchie
This is why I trust actions, not words
Sometimes you can't trust either of them though Tbh
He never loved me, and when I realized........I felt really stupid.
Lyffraun Flecora Dont feel stupid, you are probably an amazing girl and you dont need someone in your life who doesn't love you. You can get through this, I believe in you.
Birb aww thanks alot it really made me feel alot better, I always felt that he's just playing with my feelings and I don't know what to do.
Lyffraun Flecora Just leave. Its the easiest thing to do and if he does that then he isn't worth your time. You are worth more then that and you deserve so much better. You got this girl. I believe in you.
thank you very much I really mean it, I know I can get throught this, there are alot more people suffering from worse problems, I know the pain will go away someday
Lyffraun Flecora People may be suffering worse but these are your problems, you are going through this now and for now it feels horrible to you so it matters. The pain will go away some day but until then you'll have to fight. If no one else is here for you or rooting for you I am. I'm here for you. If you need to talk I'm always here. Try to have a good day. You can do this.
I feel like through the use of boy instead of man it shows that he is too naive to genuinely love you. Meaning that yes not every guy is the same but if he is too naive he will be unable of loving you whole heartedly
All some people want to hear is those three words, but sometimes it’s not the words, it’s the actions and intentions that should make you feel safe.
There is a beautiful difference between when a boy tells you he loves you... and when a man does
That was awesome
Not gonna lie ima dude and idk if there’s a different have an amazing night I hope either the boy or man for you finds you
One of the only rational point of views and I respect it thouroughly
when he told me he loved me, it made me feel so special and hopeful. maybe because i dont remember anyone else saying it to me. my family havent told me they loved me in years and neither did anyone else. it means so much to me because he felt like the only one who cared about me. I felt so special when i heard those 8 letters. but it turns out it was a lie, maybe not hearing it at all is better than knowing someone didn't mean it, and maybe thats why my family hasnt said it either. they dont wanna lie.
Sometimes , people do love you but it's hard for them to express it , hard for them to say it. Don't worry , that was the first time you heard it and it didn't go as planned but it's okay , he just wasn't the right one for you. All you gotta do is wait , one day out of the blue sky someone will be infront of and tell you how much he loves you and he will mean it too cuz everyone has a soul mate somewhere around the world and one way or another they will find each other. All you have to do is wait and trust the fate and have faith too, cuz meeting someone is fate , knowing them is choice and falling for them is beyond control. I hope you're having a wonderful day , stay safe.
I know not all boys are like this...there are some amazing boys out there but you have to look in the right areas
Don't do bars or any place with booze. (Just saying.) :D
Men* aren’t like this
“he never meant a single word of any of it”
;
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He repeatedly say he loves me. He shows it too. But it’s like hes flipping a switch. He turns it on and switches it back off.
All people are hurting because they've been betrayed in love. For me it hurts cause no boy ever told me he loved me
he told me he loved me. but why does he keep giving me reasons to think he doesn’t.
bc he doesn’t love you, not really. he might want you but that doesn’t mean he values you. he doesn’t want to be your man, he just wants you to be his woman. walk away and heal.
When a boy tells you he loves you
He probably does. Not all boys are liars. You're lovable, sis❤️
I had a long distance relationship with this boy i loved and it felt like true love for us. He suffered depression and problems and I was there to always make him happy. He would always tell me he loves me everyday. But then a month ago he suffered a serious crash which I never knew because he never came online to tell me because he lived to far and he was in the hospital. He then came back but was only online for a day. He lost everything. His house just everything. He then a few weeks back committed suicide... I wish he would’ve talked to me... I still text him everyday even though he is gone and tell him how my day was going. I miss him so much I remembered me saying to him that the first thing I do when I see him is that we were gonna have a movie night because we loved watching movies.. now he’s resting in heaven and I just miss him so fucking much I wish he would’ve spoke to me idk why he didn’t.. I lost the feeling of what love I after that. I just want him back that’s all I ask from god..
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Nothing I could comment can make up for your loss. I too am in a relationship, a long distance one and I too also suffer from depression and social anxiety. The reason that your boyfriend didn’t speak to you most likely was because he was ashamed and embarrassed and he most likely felt like a failure and he didn’t want you to see him that way. Depression warps the mind and makes us believe a different narrative that we know isn’t true but we still choose to believe. I’ve also tried to take my own life and my girlfriend knows this. It scares me a lot that one day I might choose to take my own life and never get to see her. Please I ask you for his sake and for yours, keep moving forward. As hard and as impossible as that may seem it’s all you can do for yourself and for him looking down upon you from heaven with a smile. Just try to smile back.
Im so sorry 💔😔
Some souls are like oceans you once fall for them and never stop falling.
I came to this video expecting to hear something different but I’m kinda glad I didn’t hear what I wanted to hear because it made me wake up and realize that sometimes this is true.
Title: when a boy tells u he loves u...
Me: Can't relate
For all the girls here.....
Never let or rely on a boy to tell you how worthy you are for something. Women are not toys or objects. I realize not all boys are like this but you do NOT need a boy or anyone to tell you how great, beautiful, or amazing you are. Okay so I have a story for you. I liked this boy for so long and thought I really wanted to be with him. A lot of people liked him and he had a girlfriend but I really liked him. I cried over him because he never liked me back and I know everyone you crush on is not gonna like you but I really wanted him to. At this point I was crying like a baby and thought I wasn't good enough or that he would never liked me. I started too judge the way I looked more and I always felt uncomfortable doing anything because I thought I looked weird. I always thought I needed a relationship and needed a boyfriend but I've grown out of that mentality. Now in present day I finally don't like him and am WAY happier. The thing is in middle school and high school especially now, people give us this feeling that we HAVE to have a boyfriend or we NEED to jump in a relationship, but honestly girls......you DO NOT need a man or boy to make you feel good or worthy. There are tons and loads of boys who just use girls. You are NOT an object, a toy, or a maid and you don't need to act like one for a boy. You are better off being independent than dating boys you know don't care about you. If a boy doesn't treat you right or always tell you what you need and need to do in a relationship then you should honestly just leave them. NEVER depend on a boy to make you feel happy or worthy about yourself because YOU'RE AMAZING!!
When they fuck up and thats when they decide to admit their love for you lol
when a boy tells you he loves you.. and he actually means it 🥺🥺🥺
True love is when you put someone else's happiness over your own.
(No I'm not taking about abusive relationships because there is no love there.)
Me: I love you with all my heart
Looks at him and sees he is staring at another girl
Him: what? What did you say
Me:oh...nothing dont worry about it
I have had to many moments like this
I am that sad silly boy, but i just can't help loving her
Walk away from there where you can't find your worth.
He never meant a word of it.....
That really hit me.....harder than I expected
“He is just a silly, sad boy, remember?”
This hit me
It’s crazy bc I say “I love you” when I mean it but if I grow distant it’s bc I grow scared, I hide my emotions to protect you from myself not to hurt you, and if she doesn’t show the same remorse naturally I lose feelings
I did this poem for my drama a few years back, it still resonates with me
For anyone who is hurting. It will get better he sucked but you can do better. You will become stronger never let him have power over you.Walk proudly don't let him know he effected you keep strong you will get better and find someone who will treat you right.He didn't deserve you and he was lucky he even got to be in your presence.Go rule the world girl you've got this.
*I love my best friend. He’s told me he loves me too, we’ve had ups and downs but we’ve gotten through it. I honestly believe him when he says it. He is legit the first person I’ve ever been friends with that has made me the happiest and cry the hardest. I don’t know how, but I never want too lose him. And I hope it’s not easy for him too lose me if I am ever the person too end our relationship.*
I had a best friend too, ended up dating him, I loved him so much and still do, he told me he loved me and I believed it... I was stupid. One day he didn’t talk to me for a few weeks which was unusual, we talked everyday. Then out of nowhere he ends our relationship and scars our friendship. I still don’t understand why or what happened. I talk to him here and there, I act like everything’s cool, but nothing hurts more than when a best friend abandons you. Be careful please
TheDarkLordofAll *thank you so much. What’s crazy is I’ve had multiple people tell me to be careful. I’m a person that when they love someone it’s hard to register that someone decides your love isn’t enough.*
my best friend told me he loves me last night. but I have a boyfriend and he knows this. and I'm really confused.
y’all i felt that in my chest
“I lov-“
Me : “oup, nope, NOPE, boo bye ✋🏼”
girl me too
Slowly his text became shorter, his reply’s only came after hours of waiting. See he never told me he loved me; he only told me about how he loved her. That’s the problem he was never in love with me. He only came when he wanted me for help with homework. The day I hear I love you come out of his mouth will be the day he gets married to her. For those words were not meant for me. 💔
"i love you" are just words and they don't mean anything if you don't want them to
"He's just a boy, remember? He's just another silly, sad boy, remember?"
i fell in love with the person i created in my head
“it means he is getting ready to be inconsistent with you”
i felt that
There’s a difference between a boy and a MAN
Preech
Yes!
I’m so in love with him. I don’t think he loves me back. No matter how much he tells me, I will never be able to convince myself that he truly does. I know I’m gonna lose him. There’s not a day that goes by where I don’t worry about him breaking up with me or something happening. I don’t know what to do.
I think that I can understand you sis. :) The key is to hold on every moment, and learn to appreciate all the times what you're able to spend with him. I know, it can be hard sometimes, but try to close your thoughts, and enjoy the moment. ✨
Chloe Coffey If you want to talk We can On insta 😔🥰
What did he need to do to make you believe it? A lack of trust in a relationship always ends badly.
Joyful Parrish yea if you want to! My ig is _chloe.coffey_ 💕
Shinom4ever He didn’t do anything. He tries to prove to me all the time that he loves me and that he’s not gonna break up with me but I think I just let doubt get into my head. I don’t really know.
I don’t know why this was on my recommendations but i somehow needed it
I didn't fall in love with him. I fell in love with the mask he wore.
I just related to that on a personal level