Dear Ex Best Friend..

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  • @blueviolet3374
    @blueviolet3374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +768

    It hurts so much

  • @emilyaho8671
    @emilyaho8671 6 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    14 years of her being my best friend. Thrown away like it was nothing. I love my honey 💔💔💔

    • @alexismann8834
      @alexismann8834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emily Aho same💔

    • @audrucy
      @audrucy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same but 7 years.. 💔🤧

    • @alexismann8834
      @alexismann8834 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andrea Ruu 💔🤧

    • @k4yl_x
      @k4yl_x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same lmao 16 years

    • @marytta8511
      @marytta8511 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same... but it was 8 years😭

  • @shouyavelvet3102
    @shouyavelvet3102 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1436

    I'm watching this because I've been replaced by my only friend of 12 years. but this video has helped Edit: 2020 everything has gotten better [with friendship, literally everything sucks] we dont talk anymore but I found people who care

    • @raquelmardones3876
      @raquelmardones3876  6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I’m so sorry :/ I’m glad I could help

    • @anastasija8691
      @anastasija8691 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same..

    • @timber2timber211
      @timber2timber211 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ava _Vlogs i will never replace my friends mya or falyn they are the bests friends i had all my life we became sisters and always be i only replaced one 1 girl named mallorie i replaced her with mya and falyn ans never replace them cause they actually rock and awesome more thin mallorie

    • @itzstarblox7113
      @itzstarblox7113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m going through the same thing, and it makes me feel so alone, but I’ll come out on the other side better just like u

    • @ll9892
      @ll9892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same...

  • @alyssak66
    @alyssak66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1506

    best friends for 4 years, i thought of her as my sister, she met my family, i met hers. but it all crashed down. edit: it’s been a few years and i realized how two faced and fake she was to me. i realized that i would never be her #1 even after everything. she had talked shit to my face about my appearance, my personality, etc and i didn’t see that because of the bond i thought i had with her. but, i don’t regret anything because i have grown from us parting. mentally, mostly. i have finally been able to be genuinely happy again and i found really good friends. and i wish the best for all of you guys also. much love to you❤️❤️

    • @rebecca_lynne
      @rebecca_lynne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      same except for mine was 3 years...

    • @michelletropper
      @michelletropper 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same...🙄😔

    • @purxplerblx5204
      @purxplerblx5204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same mine was 6 years idk how the hell everything just boom gone 😔

    • @blessynrhoe5334
      @blessynrhoe5334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is exactly mine

    • @ava-ng4gb
      @ava-ng4gb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      7 here 😭😭

  • @sarahmansueto7090
    @sarahmansueto7090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    who else had a elementary best friend that want loyal to you when you both entered highschool

    • @nfiseverythinggg5335
      @nfiseverythinggg5335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      not me

    • @ThatssoJayy
      @ThatssoJayy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Literally me rn🥺

    • @annaboggs9427
      @annaboggs9427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish :c

    • @danasvlogs3155
      @danasvlogs3155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oooo I had on of those....... not anymore tho

    • @maelight1624
      @maelight1624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Audrianna Floerchinger Haha I know right same. This is what I do during my sad hours :(

  • @belmacehic5504
    @belmacehic5504 6 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    that rain is my tears for my ex best friend i hope she is happy without me and im sorry for stteping
    in your life.

  • @riplyssa7353
    @riplyssa7353 6 ปีที่แล้ว +891

    Watching this because for some reason it still hurts. Best friends for over a year, planned our entire future together, I loved her. Idk what happened, she changed, became toxic and emotionally abusive and manipulative. She hates me now, wishes I was dead. I see her ever day in class, I can’t even look at her without shaking. I forgave her, but I just wish she would stop haunting me. I still very much love her, well the old her, the part of her that was my best friend at least. Why did this happen to me??

    • @evistte
      @evistte 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      TheNoshPlays Want to be ibfs by any chance? I can relate to this so much but in ibf version. 🙁

    • @bitekixx7524
      @bitekixx7524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I lost a bff who was friends with me for 4 years 😭😭😭

    • @amongus-gx7wq
      @amongus-gx7wq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same she was the person I would turn to when I was happy or sad. When she went to middle school she started being mean acted grown and left me. I wish she was still here but I lost her. She told me I was beautiful and never let me down she understood me. And now I’m just lost and alone.

    • @timber2timber211
      @timber2timber211 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      TheNoshPlays i know thats what happend to me when i was in 1 grade

    • @unicornqueen1767
      @unicornqueen1767 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      TheNoshPlays same with me but I try to get through it

  • @michd5290
    @michd5290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    1 day: “We are BFF’s forever!”
    1 year later: **walks down hall and doesn’t look at each other**
    Comment if that happens to you..
    Like if you miss your best friend..
    I miss mine :( I’ll always remember her smile and how we cared for each other so much. Edit: Thanks for the likes! Right now I’m doing better on it BUT My other friend ditched me. I don’t miss her tho. They both were my friends btw and now I don’t need them! I never realized how rude they were! They never cared for me xD

    • @daphneemrc6779
      @daphneemrc6779 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christy G I feel you.

    • @angelinaballerina7547
      @angelinaballerina7547 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christy G I feel you so much..😭😭😭

    • @larisavdd3156
      @larisavdd3156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a bestie i thought she said she felt outstanding and left me alone trying to steal all my friends we are in a fight for 1 month now ( 3 months lol) ..im sick of it days are getting darker ander harder everytime i see her Being happy and not caring at all she says its my damn fault she says i got to change well thats not gonna happen tho 🤦🏻

    • @chickairish4689
      @chickairish4689 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christy G hits worse when you relate :(

    • @TocaBoca_Dia
      @TocaBoca_Dia 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Day 1:"BESTIES FOREVER!" 6 years later:"we re done" that is

  • @itz.broskif
    @itz.broskif 6 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Honestly same.. I’m here because I can’t quiet explain how I feel or what I want to say, you’ve helped a bit. Thanks

    • @raquelmardones3876
      @raquelmardones3876  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so glad I could help but trust me things do get better whether you continue to be friends in the future or not

    • @itz.broskif
      @itz.broskif 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Complete Me I know.. But it’s just been a couple years and I still can’t to stop thinking about it. I connected with her in a way I haven’t with anyone before. And it sucks because she just left me out of no where...

  • @indy5573
    @indy5573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    when your best friend cant hang out with you

    • @sarahsmith3295
      @sarahsmith3295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      angelic I now how you feel, the same happened with me...

    • @elle-louise1411
      @elle-louise1411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      but she can hang out with her “friend”

    • @sophiaswift5566
      @sophiaswift5566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

    • @kayleereagan2407
      @kayleereagan2407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      when your (ex) best friend goes and tells everyone youre pregnant and other stuff to literally everybody and then when you go to talk to her abt it she denies everything....yeah after almost 5 years she left me :'(( it rlly hurts but im sorry

    • @gilbogabbins9609
      @gilbogabbins9609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or when your best friend that you would never be terrible to replaces you and it breaks your heart

  • @alecanchola559
    @alecanchola559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    really miss my old bestfriend. i thought we would last forever but, i lost her. miss u everyday J

    • @ren9879
      @ren9879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will never hear her speak those words "miss u everyday J"

    • @roro.y7973
      @roro.y7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup same that hurts

    • @julietreardon1
      @julietreardon1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It does hurt a lot 💔

  • @emily_-bz4mp
    @emily_-bz4mp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    "We'll be bestfriends forever!"
    *2 years later*
    "Were still besties!"
    *5th grade comes around*
    Its gone.

    • @emilyjenn8321
      @emilyjenn8321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Azure_Gacha for me...
      5th grade: Hey bestie!
      6th: Hey bestie!
      7th: (she got new friends, she is kinda popular...)

    • @gpgstix9365
      @gpgstix9365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I relate ngl :)

    • @slimefanitic4396
      @slimefanitic4396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2nd grade and 3rd: friends
      4th grade and 5th: best friends
      6th grade: friendship is sadly going away she’s been distant from me

    • @AltKaycee
      @AltKaycee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For me it was best friends to 2nd grade all the way up to 6th of being not best friends more like strangers

    • @anamariebautista6436
      @anamariebautista6436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes same

  • @justnataliee4087
    @justnataliee4087 6 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    I’m watching this because my best friend was super nice, she started lying about me, saying I bullied her. She broke 2 of my friendships by telling them that I punched her and beat her up. She wanted to tell on me at school. Currently she gives me dirty looks, I just smile at her, if she drops something in class, I pick it up for her. I don’t get a sorry I don’t get a thank you. But she gets a smile, I was super close to her and now she doesn’t have any close friends, but I’m still nice to her. She may hurt me claim that I hurt say that I’m faking sorry for nothing when she is faking forgiving for everything. She hurt me, and I just give her a smile when she glares at me. Everyone out there struggling with a friendship some of hem get better, but the only thing I can say is that be nice to them even if they aren’t nice to you. That’s my story, and I hope you enjoyed it..

    • @raquelmardones3876
      @raquelmardones3876  6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Natalie RBX things will get better whether she realizes she needs you or not

    • @alyssacochran3113
      @alyssacochran3113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Almost the exact same with my ex best friend

    • @mayranunez2171
      @mayranunez2171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stay srong

    • @angelsqt
      @angelsqt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same my friend said I bullied her

    • @angelsqt
      @angelsqt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I still want her back

  • @jy4nna
    @jy4nna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    2:05 These words give me shivers...
    These were the exact words that *my* ex best friend wrote on her old Roblox profile pic..
    That was way before this video was uploaded.
    Man, hadn’t been on in a long time.

  • @ayagilmikaela
    @ayagilmikaela 6 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Im Cryinggg😭

  • @mikaraya3821
    @mikaraya3821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My bestfriend replaced me! Great! Now im lonely.

    • @elikakyptov
      @elikakyptov 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@renate4651 yep

    • @ayinini
      @ayinini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

  • @user-ue4tz6ru8f
    @user-ue4tz6ru8f 6 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    My bestfriend replaced me and now she hates me and we did everything together a-and idk what to do without her 😭😭

  • @maddiefuentes6750
    @maddiefuentes6750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had a best friend she was the shoulder I could cry on but now she is the stranger with memories... I miss her so much everyday! 😔😞

  • @starrynekogacha487
    @starrynekogacha487 6 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I Cut, I Pop Pills, I Cry, I Hurt Myself For Her, But I Need To Respect Her, I Love You Jdice, I Always Will..

    • @sunsets232
      @sunsets232 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      iiKumiko when I was 13 I use to do drugs and smoke everyday I was a stoner because of what happened between me and my ex best-friend and I use to cut myself to.

    • @Y.G-z9n
      @Y.G-z9n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you're doing better now.💕

    • @aliaalh8522
      @aliaalh8522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i hope youre doing better now, plz dont hurt yourself xx

    • @sophiemcnicholas5058
      @sophiemcnicholas5058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Urmom LMAO yea she does know the difference cause she put the right one......
      PFFT guess you don’t lol

    • @sophiemcnicholas5058
      @sophiemcnicholas5058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Urmom LMAO sorry I thought I meant the first “to” yea I agree lol sorry 😂

  • @abigailvasquez6417
    @abigailvasquez6417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    In tears rn bc I made the stupid mistake of taking out issues at home on my bsf instead of coming to her for help we had our whole lives planned we where going to college together and then be at each others weddings and this morning at school I actually forgot for a second that we aren’t friends anymore I got up to greet her until I remembered all the pain and I just pretended to be going to the water fountain so she wouldn’t notice and a few weeks ago she tried to explain how she felt but I was to wrapped up In my own pain to realize what I did to her and now she’s gone and she’ll never forgive me and I cry myself to sleep almost every night wondering why me why did I have to loose the only person who I felt I could truly trust no matter what one of the few people I loved with everything I had there’s a piece of my heart that she’s taken and I will never truly live again Jasmine Vasquez if you ever see this please forgive me I made a terrible mistake and you had nothing to do with it and I deserve all the stares of disgust in the hall and all the hate bc I know what I did was worse😭

  • @elizaeasther6788
    @elizaeasther6788 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    My bestfriend is my everything but she's doesn't want to talk to me or anything she is the one that Always make me laugh..I have being replace by my other friend😞

  • @user-yt1qq4zx8j
    @user-yt1qq4zx8j 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm like crying- This is literally how I feel about this one girl who was my best friend.

    • @sammy972
      @sammy972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same...

  • @calidibello3893
    @calidibello3893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    this is so good, you inspire me so much

  • @never387
    @never387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who else lost a bestfriend and has been CONSTANTLY CRYING over the days, weeks, and years?

  • @jayjoreads259
    @jayjoreads259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My best friend was there for me. One day, she snapped and blocked me so I couldn’t get in touch and when I eventually got through, she told me she was happier without me. That hurt. A lot. She hurt me, but I still want her here with me.

    • @mettenvr8379
      @mettenvr8379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jay-Jo i feel you..

  • @sydneyneff7021
    @sydneyneff7021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a bestfriend and she backstabbed me one day for someone else... I find my pictures of her on my phone and cry about how good if friends we would of been today if she didn’t leave me. 😭 so many things we did for each other, all the way for nothing... now if your reading this keep your friends close until you can’t! You will not be sorry..

  • @joanna-de2tw
    @joanna-de2tw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I started crying when i watched this because i have one really important friend and i'm not important to her any more... and i dont know why... We met about 8 years ago and she was only person who listened and supported me for real😭💔

  • @lillyc9694
    @lillyc9694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My best friend since kindergarten just replaced me with someone from the highschool we go to...we are juniors now and she doesn't even text me or acknowledge me but in my heart she will always be my sister and my best friend even though she can live without me...
    To everyone who sees this or has gone through the same thing keep fighting and don't give up things will get better I promise

  • @shadowmystery6774
    @shadowmystery6774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Watching this reminds me of my guy bestfriend...We had an intense fight...resulting in him insulting me, called me names. The guy I used to know turned into a devil. Whenever we see each other in public, we would fight...punch each other and leave as if nothing happen. To be honest...I want it to stop... but he doesnt.
    So Zack...if u are reading this...
    I want us to be bestfriends again...

    • @camilacabellosfa7716
      @camilacabellosfa7716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shadow Mystery Sometimes best friends can become our best enemy ;)... Stay strong ❤️

    • @gachatwinsgacha8186
      @gachatwinsgacha8186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oml i hope zach readin this gurl dont worry us girls will make u feel better :)

  • @brisaacosta2375
    @brisaacosta2375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my best friend in 2019 I thought as her as my sister but that day it was like the world ended but Im always sad every night and I'll always love her and never forget her

  • @rawruwu522
    @rawruwu522 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I remember my best friend and he was not talking to me when I said I had a crush on him😢

    • @raquelmardones3876
      @raquelmardones3876  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jeanne Danielle I’ve dealt with the same situation

    • @justinpettet-bn4ht
      @justinpettet-bn4ht 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What!​@@raquelmardones3876

  • @Dreamyy._Llxma2410
    @Dreamyy._Llxma2410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried at the end. It won't stop making me think about my ex best friends and all those moments we had together. I'm never going to see one of them again, and it could be likely to be the rest. Times have changed. Friends always move on, and they become strangers to you.

  • @xoxonoulee
    @xoxonoulee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I still get flash backs on when we was "best friends"

  • @charm602
    @charm602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best friends for 6 years ended a week ago, all the words in this video I can relate and I feel this way, I love u my ex best friend and I will miss u

  • @sevenzeroseven
    @sevenzeroseven 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I had a friendship with my bf"f" for 9 years, when i was young id think that she and me will be best friends forever. She always smile at me, she seem happy. But then she started to seem neutral,she wasnt happy, angry or even sad, just a straight line for a "smile" , she stopped talking to me, she never said again "Lets hang out", "I love you" or "You wanna taller?". I see her more happy with other people , EVEN WITH PEOPLE THAT ACT LIKE TRASH TO HER. I always were there for her. And i always think "What i did wrong?", "Im a bad person?" Or "She even remember that im there?".
    In my birthday (I have the same birthday that other girl) She just Tell me "Happy birthday" and never talk to me again in that day, she keep staying with the girl she used to "Shit talk", and not her suppoused best friend.
    She didnt invite me to her birthday even though she invited most people in my class.
    Me and her always vented. She knows all about me, because all the thinks that i Tell her stay true to this day. But i dont now anything about her, all the peolpe that she used to hate are nos the best people in the world, all the things that she tell me werent true.
    Im gonna move out to another school and even the people who dont talk to me were like "Oh we dont want you to go" and we keep talking about that for like 5 minutes, and when i tell her she responded "fine" and the move on.
    Sorry for my venting...

    • @janet.1149
      @janet.1149 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oufff💔

    • @kaisasinivuori808
      @kaisasinivuori808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pg Draw It’ll get better in a few years💗 We’re all a little broken inside, it’s normal

    • @skymel7433
      @skymel7433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its like my story with my ex bestie. So how are u doing, what did you do ?

    • @ashleighmutch9033
      @ashleighmutch9033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t apologise you needed to do that and I hope you felt better after you did

  • @mjknowler
    @mjknowler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recentley lost my best friend and im still in shock
    I remember the words "i hate you" and i feel like my world is falling apart she was perfect Ive had lots of best friends but she made me feel the happiest isnt it funny tht someone that causes ths most joy in your life can cause the most pain?

  • @shimaatantawi1294
    @shimaatantawi1294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    2017: friends forever
    2019: we are strangers
    This a true story 🤐

  • @ayyitsjess9792
    @ayyitsjess9792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me cry cause its so relatable, i was friends with my bff for 6 years then she stopped talking to me

  • @tomochji7580
    @tomochji7580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I cried 😭😭 I am going to send this to my ex bff. I hope this video can make her from ex bff, to real bff
    Edit: This video made her my bff again. I can't thank you enough.

  • @угроза-м6м
    @угроза-м6м 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had this best friend and I have so many memories with her and we got in this big fight that was both of our faults and we grew apart...I’ve been crying myself to sleep and having these weird dreams I don’t feel the same without her🥺😭😭

  • @spinno3238
    @spinno3238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm watching this because I lost my best friend of 8 or 9 years. We promised to stay best friends forever, but I guess that just kind of vanished. I have nothing in common with her anymore, and I feel like I was the only one trying to keep our friendship together. She was great. Still is. I hope her new best friends treat her well and love her as much as I do. I loved you, Katelyn. I still do. That will never change.

  • @des7128
    @des7128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i had the same best friend for 9 years. she was with me throughout elementary and middle school. eventually i noticed that she didn’t feel the way i felt about her. i thought we would be friends forever and even thought of her as a sister. but turns out she didn’t care about me as much i cared for her. other friends even started calling me annoying and saying that i’m stupid and they don’t like me behind my back. after hearing that i ignored it for a while until i noticed the my bestie stopped inviting me to go places with her. she left me out of everything. she stopped texting me. i eventually cut her out of my life after she cut me out of hers. i was devastated. i lost a friend/ sister of 9 years.

  • @lezleeanne6885
    @lezleeanne6885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    2019 yall
    Guess what I lost my BEST BEST friend last year.....I was always there and I loved that she always laughed and smiled🙂🙂
    She’s like a sister to me👭

    • @lilyschannel1231
      @lilyschannel1231 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      LeZlee aNNe I lost mine 4 days ago and she was LIKE MY BIG SISTER 😭😕😕

  • @madisonamolsch643
    @madisonamolsch643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just want to say thank you for posting this because it helped me get through this

  • @srasra4102
    @srasra4102 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I miss my old bestie friend , now she with someone who don't actually know the real her .. I'm with her within 5 year but she more trust the 8 months friend ... Know she left me behind , fall apart. I miss her .🙂💔

  • @nisrienmahri1762
    @nisrienmahri1762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    known him since i was 4 and now i'm 14. 10 years of friendship couldn't just be swept away because of one misunderstanding and it's not even caused by me, it was another "friend". he was brainwashed and forgot all the things i've done and now he hates me for no reason, not answering my texts and if he's not gonna try harder... why should I?

  • @abby5530
    @abby5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best friends for 10 years and then I got replaced she made it obvious too, especially when I was being bullied by her new bff and she didnt help.

    • @jaelynnt9493
      @jaelynnt9493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ominous mominous feel u

  • @shianneslife1012
    @shianneslife1012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    dang this hit me hard asf. my ex bestfriend has been gone for 5 months and its been hard without her. it may seem stupid because i just met her this year but she was the only person to go to whenever i needed anything and without her here im nobody. she has always had my back and when we went our own ways i had nobody. i started cutting myself(not just because i lost her) and i didnt know what to do with my life anymore but i found a new bestfriend(jayden) who is always there for me i love him so much and yes hes a boy!!

  • @harringtonsbestgirl
    @harringtonsbestgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My best friend I’ve known since I was 3 went to Wisconsin (it’s about a 17 hour drive from where we live) for almost a month I missed her so much I had to hangout with someone to get my mind off her. And is did everyday and now we aren’t as close but that other friend that I used to get my bsf off my mind is now my current bsf I love them both with all my heart, but the now ex best friend was still my friend and we talked sometimes but she recently called everything off, talking, friendship, heck even looking at each other, if your reading this, I love you Breeana Bishop and as long as your happy, I am too

  • @fem.b
    @fem.b 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best friends for more than 13 years... I remember going to her house one time when there was a huge fight between my parents, because i trusted her the most. She transfered to my school and found a popular girl , and just threw me and our years of friendship away and acts like nothing ever happened.

  • @atlas7622
    @atlas7622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best friend for just over 6 years... Fell out over another friend... I won that friend but it felt so bad. The friend I won isn’t even my bestest... The one I fell out with was. Now I have no-one

  • @haleyschember1452
    @haleyschember1452 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its the worst feeling. Especially when they say you will always be their friend and you won't get replaced and then it happens. You get replaced. And thinking about then every day sucks😭 I cant get past my lose of my best friend I wish I wouldn't tried harder

  • @xoxo.r-u9o
    @xoxo.r-u9o 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Let admit it , We're all here because we miss our best friends 😢

    • @jenniferandbrad3636
      @jenniferandbrad3636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually I'm here thinking about what I would do without my bsf, particularly my boy bsf. He means the world to me. All my friends do.

  • @no-cb1bp
    @no-cb1bp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just lost my best friend of 11 years... every word of this relates to what we’ve been through together.. but I guess no matter how many memories we shared, how many laughs we laughed, how many hugs we gave each other, how many times we were the shoulder to cry on for each other I was ever good enough for her..

  • @torimckinney2392
    @torimckinney2392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2015: friends
    2016: Best friends for ever
    2019: start to slowly drift
    2020: they are talking behind your back and doing bad dangerous things so you decide to let them go

  • @noone-cu5ng
    @noone-cu5ng 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The worst thing is watching your “bff” turn into a stranger. And when you know it was not your fault.

  • @alexishamlin564
    @alexishamlin564 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I lost a frend one that wus close to me... when she left she took half of me with her... but i hope we can be frends even thow i know that we never will be.. i miss the whay her famly wus so nice to me.... and i miss her but she dose not feal the same she wus some one i cood run to whensomthing good or bad happend

  • @naomiig6383
    @naomiig6383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My bff and I have been friends for almost 9 years we went each others house at least 2 times a week I felt like their family was mine ,my family was hers . We knew each through down and up . She changed me forever she made me feel what life was being yourself and having fun . People would tell us were glued together at some point I felt like I was in love but people change .

  • @nicoleparker2260
    @nicoleparker2260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2013:we will be forever friends
    2019: you have a new bestie and one text finished our friendship

  • @xanmusubi
    @xanmusubi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was talking to my cousin about my ex best friend and ended up on this video. It's amazingly sad how one word or sentence just breaks apart a decade of friendship.

  • @kdramaobsessed5283
    @kdramaobsessed5283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2013: Besties forever!!!!
    *2020:* "Gets depression and gets replaced"

  • @naomimondragon845
    @naomimondragon845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it sucks when you & your best friend are in that place where it feels like you’re going to conquer the world & then the next you stop talking for no reason & everything turns into nothing.

  • @keturahbilney6812
    @keturahbilney6812 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    im watching this now because i had to stop being her friend... our friendship has been toxic for the last 4 weeks

    • @imogenstevens6616
      @imogenstevens6616 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      4 weeks mine has been going on for a year.. she has betrayed and bullied she ain't ma friend anyone I hope she goes to all after what she did to me

    • @chayanneflores1788
      @chayanneflores1788 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feels💯

  • @alishamccarroll9786
    @alishamccarroll9786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My best friend and I got into an argument n I'm still recovering from all of the name calling n slut shaming when I didn't do anything wrong, I wish it could go back to normal but it can't it all started because of a rumour that wasn't true. I also lost another best friend 3 years and a half ago he was battling cancer...brain cancer n he just couldn't hold on he was only 12 at the time. He would be 15 now the same as me. I miss him so much, the both of them xxx

  • @uglysagittarius7740
    @uglysagittarius7740 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A best friend’s not just your best friend. A best friend is someone who loves you. A person who’s as goofy,weird, and awkward. A person who stands by your side. A person who’ll be there till’ the very end. A person who keeps it real. Tells you the truth even if you don’t like it. The one who made you laugh all the time. And made you happy when bad things happened. If you have your best friend still. Then make it work. Have a nice Saturday!

  • @abbymarta6026
    @abbymarta6026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i lost all of my best friends that have been there for me for 5 years and when one thing happens they act like i’m invisible, no one they ever knew

  • @peepeepoopoo9640
    @peepeepoopoo9640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so it's 3 am and i'm crying ...I miss her even tho she is the reason i'm crying right now.. i was friends with this girl from 2nd to 4th grade .we lived on the same street so in the summer of 4th grade it all strarted with me texting her if she wanted to hang out, after that we would meet at exactly 1pm on the bench next to the local grocey store. It was like this for a month until we met 4 girls. They wanted to join our group so we agreed . i loved having all the company sometimes we would even hang out with some boys. from the strart it was clear that my friend (lets call her briana) was getting along with them so much better than i did but it didn't bother me that much .but then she started to hang out with them more often ,without me . i invited her to a sleep over , and long story short i told her that i liked on of the boys (lets say josh) she told me tath she liked his brother (tyler) after a couple of the days all the sudden josh asked me if i liked him-being shy i said no, the next day i confronted briana about it, she said while facetiming one of the 4girls she might of told her about my crush on him and that girl told her friend who told him. I was really dissapointed but we were still bffs until school strarted , we would go home together , when we were at school she would be the purfect friend but on our way back home she would get really mad at me for no reason (for like two weeks) than she started to talk crap about me to everyone so i felt bad and stoped being friends with her (oh and she had ,,depression,, and she would actually cut her self for atention) than she started to bully me at school calling me names and once she told me to go f myself witch really hurt me , our friendship was going up and down , as if now i'm still her friend and i regret it. Now i have a real bff witch i love.
    And now Briana is a drama queen, vaping, drinking hell and redbull, having boyfriends older than her, and letting boys touch her . Even after an year it still hurts really bad

  • @oliviaolsen4148
    @oliviaolsen4148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me and my ex BFF talked all the time and we would never say anything negative abt each other and everybody said that we were perfect for each other. One day I found out we were moving and I told her and she started crying and we got closer. Then quarentine we slowly started drifting apart and then she blocked me for no reason and it was rly random. I miss her so much and everything means nothing without her and idk what happened but I wish I could say sorry for whatever I did. Ik you won't see this but if you somehow do just know that I love you forever and you still mean so much to me and maybe I should let go but I can't. Whoever is reading this plz don't take the times you have with your loved ones for granted. Text your BFF rn and tell them how much you love them and you are thankful for them bc one day they might not be there and then you will miss them so much it's unimaginable.

  • @staybin1941
    @staybin1941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This relates to me. The last time that i talked to my ex best friend was May 2,2019 😭💔

  • @ianzerczy876
    @ianzerczy876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My best friend meant so much to me but she met this guy and it changed everything...

  • @ebookworm13
    @ebookworm13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is no longer my Best friend cause he moved away many years ago and I still think of him every day but I don't think he even remebers me. Im a teenager now and we were childhood friends for over 5 years wich was most of my life at that point. I always secretly wished that he would Come Back but he never did.

  • @cowpapi
    @cowpapi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’ve been friends with this girl since 2012 she was like my second buddy, the only person i could count and rely on. We relied so much to each other, every secret we own, we weren’t afraid to share to one another. We created so much things that we had to manage by two of us. Through our friendship, we fought so much but it ends with us apologizing to each other. I adored her so much. Until one incident, our 7 year relationship ended simply. We blocked each other off social media or irl. It’s been a year without her, and i had no problem half a quarter year w/o her but lately i’ve been thinking how she is doing. So I created a secret acc to see her profile, and now she’s doing better than me. She looks happy with all her new friends and i still wonder if she still thinks about me. Till this day, i still wished we shouldn’t have break off our relationship that easily and i still pray for her even if we aren’t close anymore.

  • @ashleyjimenez4720
    @ashleyjimenez4720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Ima send this to her and see what happens
    Wish me luck

    • @Si-rx9ex
      @Si-rx9ex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what happened

    • @ashleyjimenez4720
      @ashleyjimenez4720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Si-rx9ex we were having an argument and then she called me fake so I said how. Then she said cause you are. And I said no I'm not because when u ran away from home i had my arms open and i accepted u into my house. And she didnt say nothing and ignored me. She didnt talk to me for a month. Then I send her this and I said goodbye forever. Then she apologized

    • @Si-rx9ex
      @Si-rx9ex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Ashley Jimenez do u think i should send this ti my ex bestfriend, we havent been talking for like 6 months, im pre sure she wont reply but should i still send this to let her know?

    • @Si-rx9ex
      @Si-rx9ex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Ashley Jimenez and yeah people come and go, it sucks :(

    • @ashleyjimenez4720
      @ashleyjimenez4720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Si-rx9ex I think you should send it and if they dont reply then just try ur best to get through it and if they do open it just tell them how much they ment to you. But it also depends on what happend

  • @gwem_2360
    @gwem_2360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I grew up surrounded by fake ppl by bullies and they manipulated me into thinking I was a shitshow I never had any friends besides them and I thought what they did to me was normal cause I didn’t know better when I found real ppl real friends I was so lost cause they never told me what to do or to give them all my food or anything they were nice and now I don’t know who I am I am lost still everything I do is to fit in and not be stuck in a situation like that again do mostly they were fake they turned me into fake ^_^😪

  • @sia-tb5cx
    @sia-tb5cx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel so bad to all the people that lost their Bestfriends😞💔 While I almost lost mine😪🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @atomicnumber8051
      @atomicnumber8051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ... I lost my best friend a months and a half ago, and it hurts like hell

  • @ab15784
    @ab15784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    me and my best friend we’re neighbors and friends since we were 2 years old we would hang out everyday then she moved away then 5 years later she moved back and she was a different person and then she hated me💔🥺😔

  • @oliviagrace889
    @oliviagrace889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I'm going for it. I'm going to use her real name with no regrets. She'll see it someday.
    Dear Ce'Ve,
    I loved you. You were like a building. It took so long to get to the top, but I did. Then, you gave me the sight of the ground below. Who you really were. I knew that this "break" was the end. So I fell. I thought you'd catch me, but no. You watched me fall. I ran into you today. Never got the chance to tell you that I was in love with you. Sure, you knew I liked you, but I LOVED you. So damn much. I miss you, come back one day. I love you. 🌹🌼💕

    • @gachatwinsgacha8186
      @gachatwinsgacha8186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This poem is so sad u go gurl😭😭😭❤

    • @bolivia.j
      @bolivia.j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we have the same name. I hope you’re doing better

  • @norahtheexplorer2563
    @norahtheexplorer2563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a best friend along with another one. All three of us were super close and could talk about anything but now I'm not as close as I used to be with one of them, she just changed....alot and she is very different from how she used to be... I'm still very close to the other one, but the one I'm not close to anymore hardly ever talks to me...and I feel like she just doesn't like me as much anymore...I still love her very much and I wish we were still close...it's hard losing a best friend especially if you've known them for a very long time 😞

  • @antwniouathanasia1202
    @antwniouathanasia1202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm crying cuz I have ex BFF and I want her back
    Do u think I'll send this to her?
    Do youu think she I'll forgive me for everything bad I did?
    (don't ask me what I do I don't wanna say...)

    • @atlas7622
      @atlas7622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Athanasia Antoniou just send it ... trust me it feels better after

    • @Tamar-nb1jh
      @Tamar-nb1jh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey did everything worked out between you guys?

    • @madisonamolsch643
      @madisonamolsch643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Athanasia Antoniou I sent it me my friends it fixed things for a little bit not for long but that just could be fate for me so I say do it. You never know what the outcome will be

    • @sammy972
      @sammy972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg same i have i ex bsf and i miss her so much i sent her this vid... what happened is taht she was so clingy.. and i got annoyed then i dumped her and she heartbroken and she would smile at me and i would just give her dirty looks.... i told her yesterday i miss her and she said she will think about bein best friends and thats rlly nice of her bc she legit heartbroken! i wish i never dumped her.... i love ehr so much she so sweet

  • @user-pk7uw9ym6v
    @user-pk7uw9ym6v 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This one gets me every time I’m crying over people I lost over 6 months ago I should hate them after it all but I can’t I miss them so much

  • @immenixproduction9511
    @immenixproduction9511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This is a awesome video

  • @cutygirl2631
    @cutygirl2631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just sent that to my ex best friend and I'm waiting for her to see it and reply ,(my anxiety is killing me rn) I really wish things work out and we can get back friends. We had like a fight 1 week ago, but that week was so hard, so I wanted to fix things before things get worse & I really hope everything turns out good

  • @kyrstinnfoster2646
    @kyrstinnfoster2646 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My ex bestfriend hates me now her name is Emma💔😕

    • @dancetea2286
      @dancetea2286 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      kyrstinn foster write her this note

    • @konwabankonki5784
      @konwabankonki5784 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @fang-dm3ge
      @fang-dm3ge 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First: I'm so sorry for you Second: I love your profile picture

    • @alyssamueller1204
      @alyssamueller1204 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry my ex best friend her name was Emma too 😭😭❤️

    • @uglysagittarius7740
      @uglysagittarius7740 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      kyrstinn foster Awh..my ex best friend will really always be my BFF..

  • @potato-lw8jl
    @potato-lw8jl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel really bad because my best friend is mad at me and she really understood and loved me I miss her I wish I had the courage to tell her my forgiveness i guess life really is unfair I don’t really like sharing my emotions with the internet but I feel like all of u have been through this um my advice is don’t hide from the problem try to let them forgive you you can change anyone’s mind but you have the power to apologize I also am moving schools next year so she’ll be happy and that make me happy my dear ex best friend I love you...❤️❤️❤️

  • @mammonsso2725
    @mammonsso2725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is exactly happened to me and my who’s supposed to be “best friend “😭😭😭

  • @emmas2592
    @emmas2592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my fing god I can relate so much, I lost my bestfriend a couple moths ago and I cry every day and if I could get her back oh trust me I would. My life has changed since I lost her and not in a good way.
    I miss her so much and I just wanna day if you have not lost your bestfriend keep
    Her or him because this is so true and I want to just curl up in a ball and die every day with out her so just take advantage of what you have and don’t let it go

  • @ellycunanan4462
    @ellycunanan4462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2018- I met my friend
    2019- its over sadly😞

    • @tarynscrivener9471
      @tarynscrivener9471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elly Blah I’m so so sorry. I lost my best friend of 9 years just last year. It hurts but I know that you will get through this tough time. If you ever miss your friend, text them. It helps. You got this :)

    • @ellycunanan4462
      @ellycunanan4462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tscriv ty so much :)

  • @habibiyalla8008
    @habibiyalla8008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My only bestfriend was my cousin, the same age as I. I miss her so much, we had the best memories. We haven't talked in a year. And I miss her sooo bad, the worst thing is that I go to the same school as her and I see her everyday in the school halls. Everytime I see her I get reminded that maybe I'll never find anyone as her. No one made me as happy as she did. I wish I could tell her that I'm sorry for being so annoying, but that's just because I love her.

  • @imsad9695
    @imsad9695 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We were best friends for more than five years. It all ended because I did one stupid thing. And I’m sorry, I really am. I want to go back and change everything and be everything you wanted as a best friend :(

  • @isabellewalsh3194
    @isabellewalsh3194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best friends for 10 years... 2 of them left me for no reason. One keeps blocking me whenever she feels like it. They left me at my hardest time in the past 6 years of everything I’ve been through. I just hope they can find someone who made them smile as much as I did even through my pain

  • @bw7354
    @bw7354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2015-2016: though only lasting a year we were the best of friends
    2016-2017: me realizing you aren’t my friend anymore
    2017: depressed
    2018-2019: trying to find a friend who could care about me the way I though you would

  • @dinosaur9539
    @dinosaur9539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    losing a best friend hits hard

  • @juliakubiak1969
    @juliakubiak1969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm watching this because my bff died in a fire a few weeks ago ..... I loved him so much .... I miss him 😭💓

  • @spicycheetos1629
    @spicycheetos1629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My and my ex best friend were so close and always together until she started hanging out with 8th graders, got a boyfriend and became to 'cool' for me and I miss her so much I miss the person she used to be and I just want her back 😭

  • @xoxonoulee
    @xoxonoulee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My ex best friend used me and toke me away from the friends that truly cared towards the end if school she ditched me i lost everything, luckly my olds friends forgave me but i thought she would stop but she did not she told the vice principal false things i said about her 😡😭 I WILL NEVER FORGIVE HER

  • @z.0.3_n70
    @z.0.3_n70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    13 years. It hurts so bad when you literally watch your best friend who felt like a sister change in ways they promised they wouldn’t and you can’t do anything about it 🤧

  • @21moon78
    @21moon78 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My best friend abandoned me after 7 years. Did those mean nothing?

  • @Elizabeth-n3u
    @Elizabeth-n3u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had 4 bffs we were like a family i loved them like brother and sister we had the happiest memories we were there for each other we've known each other for years until one day 2 of them left and nothing has never ever been the same ever again....

  • @s0lxr
    @s0lxr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seven Years
    .....
    And he turned on me for popularity...
    💔💔💔

  • @yusrahussain8079
    @yusrahussain8079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We’ve been together for like 7 years from nursery to year 6 when we went to year 7 we just began drifting apart each time. We dont even say hi when we see eachother in the hallways. I still have my other friends which i ACTUALLY can call BEST FRIENDS they care for me loads and if i get hurt in any way possible, they would want to beat up the person who hurt me.
    I used to love you but now i dont even know who you are we’re not friends, not enemies, but strangers with eachothers secrets