I'm A Pink Princess But I Don't Think I'm Girlie // May Favourites [CC]
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For me, growing up there was a tendency to view typically feminine things as trivial, shallow, etc. And so, many girls would have a sense of pride in not liking those things and being "one of the guys". This seems to be the result of sexism, and I think we're moving beyond that now and letting people like what they like, regardless of gender. Recently, I've definitely been embracing my more feminine side (I'm a girl btw). I wouldn't consider myself "girly" either, but I enjoy some things that are generally associated with women, and I'm not ashamed of that!
danesook I completely agree. As a girl,I loved wearing skirts and dresses but was never interested in wearing other things typically seen as girly,like makeup or nail polish,so I just stopped wearing skirts and dresses on the basis that they were too ‘girly’ for me.
Came into the comments to make a similar comment...I agree that a dislike or a distaste for stereotypically ‘girly’ things stems from sexism, both from men and women and hoping that we’re moving past that
Exactly! The whole "not like other girls" garbage...which implies there's something wrong with most girls/women!
as a hyper feminine nonbinary person, i relate so hard to the statement 'im a pink princess but i dont think im girlie." lmaooo
This actually makes a lot of sense, I also dress in a ‘girly’ way but am not really interested in ‘girly’ topics, but I think the world is slowly (but surely 😊) getting better at realising that colours, jobs, activities etc actually have nothing to do with a person’s gender! ❤️💙💜
Ps, hi from a fellow low fodmapper! 👋🏽😂
You dress like that and carry yourself in that way, you are a girly girl. You really shouldn't try to justify how you aren't. There is nothing wrong with being girly. There is no such thing as "girly topics". It really is mostly about how you dress and your makeup, all of which blazingly point you as being a girly girl.
@@HistorysHodgepodge I can’t remember this video & what topics Jessica said were girly- but I do know that all I said was that I wasn’t into those ‘girly’ topics, to use Jessica’s wording. I definitely am a girly girl & wasn’t trying to say otherwise. Just that I’m not into whatever topics Jessica called girly
"There is no such thing as a gendered interest." ~ Jessica Kellgren-Fozard
JESSICA HAS WON THE INTERNET!
I totally agree with you on the clothing stuff. What really annoys me about gendered clothing is that my own mother constantly tries to talk me into wearing certain clothes because she wants me to dress more "feminine". But for me femininity is not about a certain type of clothes, it's about what you feel like and I do feel feminine, I just really love trousers, shirts and my short hair. I don't feel obliged to wear certain things just because people perceive them as being less feminine.
I also want to add that I only recently found your channel and have quickly become addictet to it because I find you to be really authentic, entertaining and educating (Claudia too by the way). In this short amount of time (like a week or so) you have already helped me broaden my horizon concerning disabilities and life in general. Since I am gay, your lgbt+ videos have been an added bonus. So thank you very much for sharing your experiences and opinions with us, you do a very good and very important job!
(Btw I'm sorry for any mistakes I made since I am not a native english speaker)
Connective Tissue Issue should be a t-shirt!
Hello Jessica ... I’m relatively new to your channel but have become a real fan. I have auto-immune issues as well (but not comparable to yours) and, even though I’m in Canada and am old enough to be your mother, I’ve learned a lot from you about attitudes towards disability and about coping with grace and humour. You’re beautiful and funny and it’s amazing of you to be sharing your life this way.
There you go, that’s the end of my gush ...
The top of this dress looks stunning, i can't wait for full pictures...
You are my favorite Disney princess 😉😍
And Jessica is real !!! lol
What I love: You. Sounds cheesy but I watch all of your videos, even topics I have no interest in or that don't apply to me at all. I just love your personality, you make everything worth watching. Lots of Love!
There's a difference between being "hyperfeminine" and being "girly", and I wouldn't really consider myself "girly" either, not really. But it really, truly varies, and being gay does have a lot to do with the way I perceive performative femininity. I hate pants and love red lipstick and that weird shade of beigey-pink that appears to be EVERYWHERE now. I aspire to look like Audrey Hepburn every. goddamn. day. Talk yoga and Janelle Monáe's new album with me over hot pink Strawberry Açaí Refreshers. Ask me about my lipstick shade and the historical implications of the Cult of Domesticity. But if you bring up the latest celebrity makeup line or hair removal trend, I'm done with the conversation. Having a deep attraction to and affection for femininity in all its forms has made it easier to pick and choose what aspects of it I want to perform and not see it as shameful. And being "girly" is a word with so much shame attached to it, something boys hurl at you when they want to make you feel small. I almost feel like I should reclaim it, but right now I have the best of both worlds, and it's really freeing. I don't have the words to explain why, it just is, and I'm just me.
“Immune system, where for art thou?”
Ha! Laughed out loud at that one! My immune system disorder led me to have a cold for six weeks this winter! I wish I would have thought to say something as witty as that when I was sick!
Meant to also say that I enjoy all of your videos! I like the variety of topics and the variety of ways you make the videos, with your bubbly joy shining through always! Your lake district video was absolutely beautiful! My all-time favorite video is the one where you go through the wormhole and end up dancing with Claudia! Y’all are so cute together! #relationshipgoals
I'm super into makeup, hair, fashion etc but personality wise I am really tom-boyish! I actually dress more on the minimal, gothy side. I detest that certain hobbies are attached to genders, it's silly. I might love wearing outrageous makeup, but I also enjoy swordfighting. Neither cancels out the other!
* Says she can't eat lentils and that it was a bad idea *
2min later
"I'm going to buy the lentils ones"
🤣🤣
I also like "girly" things, but I've been told that I don't behave "girly" because I am rather blunt. I have such a diverse amount of interests, so I completely understand people assuming that people don't expect you to like certain things based on your appearance.
My aunt and I are the same way. We both love girly things so people are surprised when they see how blunt and foul mouthed we can be. My family jokes that I’m actually her real daughter for that reason 😂 .
I used to only wear the 24 hour Super Stay lipstick and was also having trouble with how shiny it is. So I tried the Super Stay Matte Ink and finds it works really well, but the trick is to wait a few seconds and slick Vaseline on your lips. It makes it shiny for a minute, but quickly settles into the Matte and is nearly impossible to get off. There aren't as many colours as the 24 hour shiny version and I've found some colours work better than others, but it's an amazing alternative to the original!
I'm happy to see your hair curled again. Hopefully that means you are feeling slightly better than in your last video. I'm shocked more people haven't watched the Lake district video, it is beautiful and very well done. Love to you, Claudia, Clara and the puppies
What impresses me is that you manage to find pinks that really go well with your skin and hair! My Mom (a self-proclaimed ginger) could _never_ find a pink that worked with her hair and skin!! I'm also a MEGA huge fan of Veggie Stix, - an American brand of the ones your friend referred to as "eating air". I love eating fluffy food like that so I get the flavor and texture, without feeling sick like I do with a lot of processed snacks.
I am very feminine. I wear flower patterns and dresses all the time but I am very rough, I love football. I roll with the guys in my dress. And with my girlfriend who is very butch I always be dominating hahaha it doesn't matter we all who we are. I love Jessica and totally agree with you💕💕💕💕💕👗👗👡
Yessssss the things we like are the things we like and shouldn’t be connected to gender! I’ve always been categorized as a “tomboy” but I like dresses and makeup as much as being outdoors and fixing things! 😉 (Mulan reference.)
I love how you use "in conclusion" even though you're not writing an essay
Yeeeeeessssss!! You have articulated exactly what I've thought about being "girlie" since high school! Thank you!
'Chips' hurt my soul too. And my chest. The middle of it.
There’s also a sour cream and chive version of both the hummus chips and quinoa chips, they’re delicious
Hay Jessica. Great video. Yes I know what you mean about preferring not to chatter about girly topics, I much rather chat about, wildlife, countryside, Spitfires & Lancaster planes, D.I.Y & car engines. Funny old world we live in. Thank u for sharing. X
I think this is one of my favorite hairstyles that I have seen you wear! I can't wait to see your Vidcon video!
The best Eat Real crisps (IMO) are the quinoa chilli and lime flavour! 😋❤️
My favorite thing this month is finding Jessica's channel❣️
I totally agree. You're not girly because there is nothing "girlie". You like, dress, behave, however you are and want to, and that should not depend on your gender at all, and no one should make you feel like you have to because of your gender.
Thanks for making such a video! :D
Your cheerful attitude is infectious!! Your videos always make me smile :D
I watched the Lake District video as soon as you posted it - I love your travel videos, they're always so beautifully produced!
I agree! I love traditionally “feminine” clothing, makeup, etc. But I also have a degree in modern European history and love making things with my hands. I once played a game “Battle of the Sexes” (problematic, I know), and all of the questions “I wasn’t supposed to know as a woman” were about military history. So I mopped the floor with everyone. 😉 I don’t like limiting people.
I resonate with the title of this video SO SO MUCH! 👗👛
Girl you're looking stunning in that dress - truly a little princess ❤ I laughed and smiled so many times while watching this, thank you. And my favorite video from this month was absolutely the Lake District video.
Happy Pride Jessica! Hope you have an amazing June xxx
you're hair looks amazing
First part is so so so so interesting (separation of gender presentation/expression and gendered interests) and I cannot wait to discuss more!! ❤
Thank you lovely! I can't wait either!!
I loved this whole video. As always you are so charming and entertaining. You always make me smile and laugh
Love you Jessica! You always make my day a bit sunnier even though its raining outside. 😁
Oooooh the top of that dress is SO pretty! And I love the pink
your hair is goals
OMG !!! I JUST STARTED CHECKING UR CHANNEL !! I LOVE U SOOOOO MUCHHHH
Hotaru Kuroko welcome! You’re going to love going through her videos. Sometimes I have them on as background sound, because her voice is soothing.
People like Jessica r really making a difference, in my class in school we watched a BBC doc on m.e. which isn't s very common illness and it just makes me so happy that it's being more and more recognised. Jessica I love u keep doing what u do u r amazing!
I LOVED your Lake District scrapbook video. My wife and I visited the Lake District, including Lake Windermere, in 1993 and it was as beautiful then as it is in your photos. Please continue to make the scrapbook videos. They are fantastic. 💕
The Lake District video was awesome! I find outdoor spaces super relaxing so that was very lovely and calming to watch 😊 I don’t dress in princess dresses but I do like discussing lipstick 😜
I love love LOVE the Lake District video! It is a lovely mixture of informative and personal. I'm looking forward to more.
I think I can recognise this, but perhaps from the other way around. Me and my two sisters are... Not your classic girly girls. No... My mother would always say that there is a little bit of gasoline and gunpowder in our blood, which I can agree with. I myself have had a huge interest in literature, history, video games, medieval reenactment (omfg medieval reenactment is the best), and in general, I have never really had a lot of female friends.
Which meant that, for a very long time, I felt like I couldn't be feminine, because I didn't care a lot for feminine things, like they were a source of shame.
It is only very, very recently, that I have been able to admit to myself that I do like the idea of wearing some vintage styles, I think they look wonderful. I would love to get a dress that doesn't have to hide my figure, where I can feel comfortable and feminine.
Even if I would put a black petticoat underneath all of my dresses.
Also, I think that my favourite was actually the "How to read lips", though "Having a Carer in your 20s" was a close second!
My favorite video this month was the one about PACE. Super informative! Loved it! I also love seeing Clara :)
💗 the Dress!!!
I LOVE THOSE CRISPS THEY'RE SO CHEAP AND TASTY
My favourite video of yours this month was actually the Lake District Scrap Book. It was such a lovely video but I got so much wanderlust!
Your hair is curled! Hope your feeling better! How is your British historical fiction going? What are you reading? Your shoes are also fantastic!
Shannon Brockhurst Have you read Bernard Cornwell?
I'm currently reading the Last Kingdom and LOVING it!
My favorite thing right this second is the fact that you have tiny stubby fingernails just like me! I've never seen anyone with such tiny nailbeds as I have and I always felt kind of self-concious about it and reluctant to polish my nails because that would draw attention to them. But you have them too and you are so awesome and I'm absurdly exited about it. If it wasn't so late, I'd polish them right now. But I just don't have the spoons right now.
This speaks to me on so many levels!
My favourite videos of yours this month are actually your carer video (and subsequent q&a with clara) as it was very insightful and helpful as a lot of the information is... so incredibly hard to find. I also really loved the lake district one! I love the drone shots and scenery and scrapbooking style!! My favourite thing from this month is that my mum told me we are going on holiday to Northumberland to stay in a cottage near the seaside for 7 days and I'm super excited, I'm going to work on my photography and letter writing so I can write cute letters for my girlfriend. Also happy pride month!!!!
I am a girl and I only shave my legs, do makeup, or wear dresses unless it's for a special occasion. I'm not interested in talking about "girly" things. I love my long wavy hair, but I usually wear it up because it's more convenient. I tend to wear leggings, t-shirts, and sweatshirts in dark colors (navy, black, red). I am not interested in sports at all and I LOVE theater.
Despite all of these things, I am a fierce queen.
You are so posh and gorgeous and your sign language is incredibly elegant💗🌸 I’m actually obsessed with you😭
The dress looks amazing on you ❤️😊
Veggie straws are delicious!
By the way, Happy Pride Month!
My favorite thing this month is epsom salt baths! I’ve been using Dr Teals pink Himalayan and essentials oils bath salts. Lovely scent and relaxing for my tense muscles.
My favorite video was your video explaining PACE, as I didn’t know much about it. I also love that you’ll make videos from the floor when you need to, because you’re comfortable enough with us.
In the past few weeks, I absolutely fell in love with dresses. It is the ideal type of clothing for this hot weather, which I also really like because if it is warm, I don't have to put on all the socks and coats and this makes the getting-ready-process a lot quicker. That's good. And I also don't have to change my shoes when I come to school, so it is easier for me to come to class on time. (I'm actually not into the hot weather itself, it is quite tiring, but, I must admit, it has its advantages. )
Here's the thing
Who you are is not defined by what you wear and how you look
You look amazing and I think labels about people are horrible attempts to categorise their individuality
Interesting selection of snacks
Very cool post
I wish I had the energy to dress the way you do Jessica. I love your hair also :D
Also I ordered some of these crisps just now and I can't wait to get them to tell you what I think
And of course I watched your Lake District video. It was cool. xxx
Also I love girly things but I'm also obsessed with the Grand Theft Auto series on my playstation. I take great pride in killing all the baddies and/or running over them in my car. ALSO I LOVE THE SIMS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the Plantagenets too (although not the military aspect of it, more how they lived.
I love the visualization of your friends eating the crisps 😂Also, LOVE your discussion of girly vs liking "girly" things and how you included discussing gender.
I really liked your video of the Lake District! :3
Favorite thing this past month, my middle daughter's wedding. Favorite video, your Lake district video.
Agree with your comments about gender! I feel like I am the opposite! I love men's fashion and dress in a very "butch" way! However, I'm a total girly girl! People are so much more complicated and interesting than just fitting into easy boxes :)
“Immune system, where for art thou?” ME TOO. I also have connective tissue, CFS, POTS, and Mast Cell so I get it :P
I am so addicted to those veggie straws! 😻
Hahaha I find it so funny that you’re saying the darkest shade is for when you feel like wearing black hahaha, I only wear black lipstick... one of my 10 different pitch black lipsticks 😩 I have a problem
You look so beautiful
I love 50's dressing and 80's rock dressing.
Omg those shoes 😍. I also like girly girl clothes, but as silly as it sounds, I'm oftentimes the one at work to change the insanely heavy 5 gallon water jug, or get any bugs or spiders that may appear.
Ya know what would be really interesting is a "my favorite songs" video because I'm interested to see if you actually like vintage music or other types, idk I just think it'll be cool. Love your videos, you're always gorgeous so whatever you decide to film will be good! Thanks!
I loved the lake district video! now I really want to visit this magical place (too bad I don't live in the UK... or Europe...)
and I love wearing dresses and heels, but I also work as a photographer and love comic books. girly doesn't mean anything today!
Maybeline superstay now has a wonderful style of lipstick called matte ink or if you use just a little bit of powder over the shiny ones before it fully dries it will dull the shine a bit
Hi Jessica,
I adore your chanel and I think you are such an inspiration! I love your vintage hairstyles for school videos, and I would love to use them with some vintage makeup but obviously for school it wouldn't be allowed (or at least at my school) to be too much. is there a vintage make up for school video you could do? it would be great! love you! xx
I really like you and your content. You're very witty and also ramble, which is just me to a T.
I saw the fun sticks you like in TK MAXX the other day!
I know this is very random and you made this a while ago, but I just wanted to say how much I appreciated you swatching the colours in a heart. Sometimes I find red stripes on arms a little difficult to watch / a bit sort of triggering (for want of a better word), in terms of self-harm. Having had some tricky times over the years, and known others who have too, I just LOVE your love heart swatch approach ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💕💖💝♥️💄💋
I wore the same dress that you’re wearing in this video but mine was white-gold and black! It was so weird seeing the same dress again!
You know, I didn't watch the scrapbook video-mostly because of exams-but I will go watch it now, just for you!
Ssssshhhh you are a Disney princess just accept it! I loved this I always enjoy your favourites because you give great tips for things to buy for us spoonies I will most certainly be looking into those crisps and those shoes it’s so hard to find nice vintage looking flat shoes! Xx
OMG, I'm glad you're back...but for us here in India it's a night time. So, good night...love you😘😘😘
That dress is gorgeous 💗👗
My school's cafeteria serves the lental crisps sometimes and I recommend them as they're not too heavy and are perfect as a light snack or to go with a meal.
The Lake District video was lovely! Those shoes look so good! I need shoes with really good soles because I can't walk for long otherwise and those look nice in addition! Thank you as always!
Ooooooh Jessica & All, at last I have found my Tribe 💟
I would love too see some sort of closet tour video on your channel Xx
That dress is beautiful and I must get one just like it.
I'm kind of the opposite on the crisps! I love the Hummus ones (my fave flavour is sour cream and chive - I've not been able to have anything that flavour for years because it's usually dairy). But I don't like the lentil ones and no-one else in my family will eat them either, haha, so I've got stuck with a bunch of them! They also do Quinoa ones, I'm a bit mixed on those.
Your dress collection is fab 😃
When I was 8 I loved dresses, jewellery and Barbies/Sylvanian Families as well as mythology ( Greek, Roman, Norse, Egyptian...) and dinosaurs!
Love your favorite videos....and that dress! Xoxoxo
I have this dress in navy and it was the best purchase I ever made!!
My May favorites include: my adorable, very fluffy, and very fat cat named Chloe, my shiny new B.A. in gender studies and religion, and lastly pomegranate seeds! Also Jessica I loved your 'My Wife Does My Makeup' video and your 'Have You Been Misled' video! Obviously each of your videos is truly wonderful, but those were my favorite this month!
Hello, Jessica! You look lovely in that dress, but you look very good in dark colors as well. You have a very nice dress that is dark with bright flowers that I love. Thanks for the new lipstick tip. As for the crisps, I wonder if we can get them in America? Plantangenet is such a lovely word. I also prefer history to nail polish. :). You can learn more history in three books or five tv shows than in all of school.
That was the most girlie video I've ever watched but as I adore girly girls, I found it just lovely. ☺️
I kinda relate to the idea of I may be fem but I'm not girly. I think people assume that I like to listen to Taylor Swift and talk about fashion/hair/makeup. When in reality I'm really into science and history, sci-fi and action movies, and I listen to punk rock, power metal, and rock.
I would like to recommend the Kat von D Liquid Lipsticks to you. They are staying on SO GOOD and are super matte! Best formula of liquid lipsticks in my opinion (and I basically tried them all xD)
I feel like I’m split down the middle, I like pastels and girly things and will take your ear off about hair and clothes and nails heck yeah. But I’m also a massive masculine nerd eating Cheetos and playing Warcraft, (though I hate sports) I talk loads about male centralised topics as well.