Roasting Target’s Pride 2024 Collection

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  • @LunaMoon-nq8uo
    @LunaMoon-nq8uo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +706

    ...my only question is....
    *How?*
    *Target, how did you manage to make a PRIDE COLLECTION homophobic?*

    • @jessicaoutofthecloset
      @jessicaoutofthecloset  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +136

      Ah, big corps 😪

    • @diane8996
      @diane8996 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Target hasn't been on our side... The only reason why they started stocking Pride merch was because Lady Gaga caught them donating to anti-LGBTQ+ charities. But they have pandered to homophobes/transphobes this whole time. For example, they were going to stop selling Abigail Shrier's transphobic book (ehhh... censorship... but the book is full of actual very dangerous lies, so...) and they turned around and started reselling it a day later because of conservative backlash.

    • @thinkEdem
      @thinkEdem วันที่ผ่านมา

      profitmaximalisation.xls said so

    • @Anonyomus_commenter
      @Anonyomus_commenter วันที่ผ่านมา +34

      Probably trying to appeal to the people who raided their stores last year

    • @idontevenknow9758
      @idontevenknow9758 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They were trying to hard to thread a needle. They want the right-wing crowd and still want to appeal to the LGBTQ+ community. In short, they want max profits they never cared about either group just how much they can get them to buy. Which means, a lamer collection and meaningless rainbow washing products.

  • @decgal81
    @decgal81 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +605

    I am so DONE with Target pandering to the right wingers. Last year, I wanted one of the swimsuits that were for transwomen even though I'm cis. I *hate* how skimpy most swimsuits are and I felt really seen in that I have no desire to show my goods at the pool, but I also don't want to dress like a Duggar. It's depressing, really. But honestly eff the right wing. While they yell for "freedom," all they do is take freedom from others. That's NOT freedom, that's fascism. "Freedom for me but not for thee." That should be their motto.

    • @OscarLangleySoryu
      @OscarLangleySoryu 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That was a normal swimsuit designed with the ability to “tuck”.
      It didn’t cover any more than any other one piece if you don’t have a dick.
      There are however boardshorts designed for women, and also swimsuits that have shorts shaped bottoms.

    • @ArtichokeHunter
      @ArtichokeHunter 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

      @@decgal81 fwiw I'm a cis woman who recently started wearing swim trunks because I don't like how revealing most "women's" swimsuit bottoms are, and I love it. I ended up buying the largest from the boys' section because I'm too small for men's.

    • @psychedelicpegasus7587
      @psychedelicpegasus7587 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

      YES! I'd love to find a swimsuit with extra material. Hot tip: Get a swim costume that has extra material gathered at the stomach area. It can be altered for more coverage lower down or the gathered material on some can be rolled down a bit to create the tiniest of mini skirts. Kind of like Japanese school swimsuits in anime. 😊

    • @conlon4332
      @conlon4332 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Why didn't you buy it?

    • @decgal81
      @decgal81 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      @@conlon4332 It wasn't available by the time I learned of it :( Target removed it bc of all the backlash.

  • @aylaerdmann
    @aylaerdmann 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +419

    Target pride peaked at the " Live Laugh Lesbian" shirt

    • @theelmgrove
      @theelmgrove วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Yes!!! I never got that shirt, but I want to embroider one for myself, it's just too iconic to not

    • @actuallywaffles5267
      @actuallywaffles5267 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      I desperately wanted to buy that one, and I'm only bi. It was just to perfect. But I live in Kansas so of course they chose not to stock it at any of my nearby locations.

  • @gregg_rulz0k824
    @gregg_rulz0k824 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +765

    Listening to this while working my electronics shift at Target. Our store doesn't even have the pride collection this year, not that I ever really felt represented/supported by their selection of candles with random pronouns on them or dog shirts that say "dare to be you" that were immidiately marked to be thrown in the trash once July rolled around.

    • @conlon4332
      @conlon4332 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

      I hate companies who throw things away as soon as the correct time for them has passed. So wasteful. Just make them half price or something.

    • @CaliMel184
      @CaliMel184 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

      It's absolutely disgusting that these big companies produce all this crap and then throw it away. What a colossal waste of resources.

    • @no-be3zv
      @no-be3zv 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      nitw reference

    • @MrSchimpf
      @MrSchimpf วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Two years ago I could get pride stuff at the Target in my own town. Last year they went wild and I was giddy, and I could get it anywhere. This year I went to a Target on the north side of Chicago...I saw a better unofficial local pride section there in 2016! It was sad and shocking, and their loss became Hot Rags (at Woodfield in the suburbs!)'s gain, as I got the lesbian flag I've been wanting for a long time as an ally. That was Chicago; the display at my local Target was the size of a locker.
      So damned sad; if they wanted a quick bit of profit them and Kitchenaid could've painted their signature blenders in LGBTQIA+ colors, they were almost there!

    • @nodoboho
      @nodoboho วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@MrSchimpf DASH has a rainbow-covered waffle-maker for Pride. They could sell that.

  • @roowyrm9576
    @roowyrm9576 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +159

    I am, indeed, watching you in bed...with my cat. I'm nearly 70, queer, a mother, grandmother, former teacher, retired environmental (frontline) activist, and a Druid.
    I love watching your videos, especially the historical ones, and following your beautiful family ...much love to you all.

    • @user-he2ts9si2q
      @user-he2ts9si2q 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      I literally want to be you when I’m older 🥹🥹🥹

    • @flerkenflerkenson8410
      @flerkenflerkenson8410 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      I hope I'm as cool as you when I'm older omg

    • @MegaKhelditia
      @MegaKhelditia วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Madam, thou art goals.

    • @yoyoyoyo-lq4jb
      @yoyoyoyo-lq4jb 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      Thats the kind of old queer i wanna be. A cat loving witchy grandpa that tries to make a difference ❤

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +266

    14:54
    “Toddlers are really just
    tiny, tiny teenagers.
    So misunderstood.”

    • @xexpaguette
      @xexpaguette วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      if you remove the "really" your comment becomes a haiku :)

    • @pjgoldstein6562
      @pjgoldstein6562 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      There's a reason why they call it "threenagers" after the terrible twos.

    • @isabellamaria5632
      @isabellamaria5632 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      From a psychological perspective this really is spot on

  • @AliFinNoble
    @AliFinNoble 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +160

    I'm dyslexic and my son is 8 years old. The other day my mother was here and she heard me reading the story to him at bedtime. When I came out she was in tears she was so proud of me, she said my reading has improved so much. I haven't noticed but it was a great moment

    • @isabellamaria5632
      @isabellamaria5632 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

      How wonderful, for a mother to see her child teaching her own child to read. I’m going to go cry in a corner now because, I also have a disability, and I hope this happens for my mother with me in the future and my children.

    • @catsmother4556
      @catsmother4556 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      I myself am dyslectic. The best thing I ever did was read to and teach my three children to read. It improved my own adult reading massively.

  • @Palindrome78
    @Palindrome78 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +191

    My local Target bowed to the bigotry and did not have a Pride section this year.
    Pathetic how companies cower to a shrinking base while ignoring a growing base.

    • @hicat808
      @hicat808 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      It really is a lose-lose. It was getting unsafe in some areas. My area is a pretty accepting one, but we had people threatening to have a "peaceful" invasion more or less, and at a certain point the company needed to choose between protecting the team and standing up for beliefs. It's kind of unfair to make the team members fight for something they didn't agree to be fighting for, fielding phone calls all day and complaints all day, threats, etc, at varying levels of actual danger.
      I have a hard time believing they couldn't have come to a better compromise, like having the section of un-changed original merch available online at least rather than doing away with it completely.
      Fwiw I thought the ombre cups were cute at least 🥲
      It's just sad though because it feels like we lost many years worth of progress this past year, it's been wild.

  • @OscarLangleySoryu
    @OscarLangleySoryu 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +114

    “Rainbow” items that are just multicolored are almost as huge a pet peeve for me, as when I see items that have all the rainbow colors but purposely put one of them in the wrong order so that it doesn’t look like a rainbow.

    • @calliemyersbuchanan6458
      @calliemyersbuchanan6458 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      i'm so torn because I love wearing pride rainbow rep and it frustrates me that they are trying to pass off that crap as "pride" merch but i also just like rainbows and bright colors so i also just kind of like those items. I look forward to seeing what different companies put out for pride month because it's usually all so colorful (like that striped dress. I LOVE it...for what it is) Why is pride month the only time companies put out colorful adult clothes? I hate seeing all the fun and happy patterns on children's clothing knowing everything they make for adults is some variation of beige or olive or rust!

    • @tejaswoman
      @tejaswoman วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@calliemyersbuchanan6458they don't always have all their full line of designs available, but Princess Awesome can be a great place to find colorful clothes for adults, with said clothes often being made to match children's clothes they make.

  • @jessicapontious6151
    @jessicapontious6151 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +131

    Those red spots are Petechiae. Definitely something to mention to your prescribing doctor, especially if this is the first time you had them. They're basically tiny vasculature that have burst; they've been a part of my hEDS+ journey. Hope it at least helps the migraines!

  • @ash_rock
    @ash_rock 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +101

    So, as an aromantic and asexual person, I feel like I have different relationship with pride merch in general than most, in that I almost never feel represented even when the merch is generally done well (unlike Target's). My aroace experience is that I don't experience attraction or love towards anyone at all. A lot of pride merch (and pride month in general) is about celebrating loving whoever we love or celebrating our gender identities, and a lot of the time, it feels like my segment of the LGBT+ community is left out of the celebration. I feel like the odd one out, like I'm missing the biggest aspects that other LGBT+ people identify with and use to relate to each other. Feeling so isolated from the rest of the LGBT+ community has made me not feel represented by the rainbow flag, which makes me kind of sad as I theoretically AM part of it. I'm happy for everyone who does feels represented by the actually good merch and all of the pride celebrations, and I'm always excited to see rainbow pride decorations around since it's nice to see LGBT+ representation regardless, but I've not yet seen pride merch that I actually feel represented by.
    I've commented this before, but what I DO feel represented by is Jessica always bringing up aro and ace identities in LGBT+ discussions. While I feel forgotten by many, I don't feel forgotten by her 💜

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    • @jamie1602
      @jamie1602 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Last year, Target had ace items! But that was last year. I was able to find a single ace candle left in stock at our Target. The section was completely picked over and people had to leave pretty disappointed because it was pretty decent that year.
      You know. When the right wingers lost their minds.
      Kohls might still have some things left. I ended up finding a button-up and they included the ace flag on it. The bisexual flag was a little difficult to make out so I usually wear a blue shirt with it to make the color pop out a bit more.

    • @Cloudy4Days
      @Cloudy4Days 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Yeah same, it's sad and a bit frustrating. It feels a bit like a gay Valentine's Day. Everyone is having a grand time with their partners celebrating their love, but we can't ever have those feelings for someone else. I feel mostly feel included in the community, but not at pride. It feels kinda like we don't belong anywhere, like we're just forgotten or like no one cared enough to send us an invite to the party. I'm glad that people are finally recognizing ace people exist, but it's also not lost on me that it's only aces, not the aros or aro-aces. It's only people who have romantic attraction. Not the unpalatable having only sexual attraction or the people who feel nothing but friendship

    • @Liam82618
      @Liam82618 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I'm also an aroace, and I see ace a lot more than aro (I can't help but think that's because of low awareness on romantic vs sexual attraction), but I feel like I've seen more merch/awareness in recent years, but online or at a specific event. I do feel like in recent years, I haven't had to bring out a metaphorical whiteboard as much, so that I can explain my identities, but it is definitely dependent on the environment.
      And don't get me started on being agender! I always have to settle for non-binary or gender queer merch, which I don't mind, but it's not my preferred way to describe my gender or lack thereof. I'm not particularly fond of saying that I'm trans either, even though I guess it works.

    • @mahou-blaer
      @mahou-blaer วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Liam82618 I agree with the point of non-binary/genderqueer & agender not really feeling like "trans", since that's dominated by binary trans representation.

  • @eeeeesha
    @eeeeesha 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +166

    Honestly I'm glad we don't have these kind of bad products in the uk. Leaves more room to buy from small queer artists online!

    • @ffotograffydd
      @ffotograffydd 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      Indeed. There are plenty of LGBT+ owned businesses around, also businesses that are genuinely supportive all year round, not just in June.

  • @cheerijessie
    @cheerijessie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +83

    Target was so cowardly this year, thank you for calling them out

  • @coldwings410
    @coldwings410 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +107

    i used to love the target pride collection, not because i bought anything but because it was nice to walk into a store and see support for my community, however shallow. well, my local target isn't even carrying the pride collection this year- so much for inclusivity 😭

  • @charlespentrose7834
    @charlespentrose7834 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    My spawn's first full sentence was "I can do it myself"

  • @scilines
    @scilines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +166

    You aren’t only a TH-camr, you’re a cultural ambassador.

    • @tejaswoman
      @tejaswoman วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      love this - so true!

    • @catherinejustcatherine1778
      @catherinejustcatherine1778 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I, too, wholeheartedly feel this way!

  • @beatriceotter8718
    @beatriceotter8718 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Tip from an American (where things get a bit hotter than England). One of the cheapest and easiest way to keep the heat low inside is to keep the sun off your windows. You can buy external blinds and screens to put over your windows, but honestly even a tarp will work. My parents have a nice looking thing made of bamboo strips that rolls up and down. In the morning, you roll it down to cover the windows so the sun doesn't hit them, and in the evening once the sun is no longer directly on those windows you roll it up so you can get light and any breeze there might be. But you absolutely have to keep the sun off the OUTSIDE of your windows if you want to keep the temperature inside down, particularly if you have large windows.

    • @blaireshoe8738
      @blaireshoe8738 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Indoor blinds and blackout curtains do help a fair bit when used in the same way as you described, but outdoor is even more efficient as you say! Do the best you can to stay cool, y'all, it's been a scorcher this year and summer hasn't even fully ramped up 😭♥

  • @peanutbutrs
    @peanutbutrs 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    Not the point of the video but I absolutely must point out how absolutely RADIANT Jessica looks in that pastel green dress. Absolutely showstopping!

  • @annaphallactic
    @annaphallactic 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    I think that transparent bag is designed to use at big concerts. Many venues are requiring them now, and it's super depressing to think about why. 😢

    • @tejaswoman
      @tejaswoman วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Certainly true in the US 😢

  • @grandempressvicky6387
    @grandempressvicky6387 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    Jess, as an English person, I relate so much to the heat thing.

    • @jessicaoutofthecloset
      @jessicaoutofthecloset  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

      It truly is a different kind of heat!

    • @DINGD0NG...
      @DINGD0NG... 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Same, but I live in Italy... even worse here
      it's 27°C right now, 11pm. 72% humidity.
      You can FEEL how damp the air is. The other day we had 30°C with 90 PERCENT HUMIDITY
      30°C is already horrible on its own, but with high humidity...

    • @christopherbzowski4346
      @christopherbzowski4346 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      As a Californian the heat here can literally get into the 100s especially in the east and south

    • @katherinewhite142
      @katherinewhite142 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      The sun burn trauma is real

    • @marley7659
      @marley7659 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@DINGD0NG...I have 90 percent humidity in my city and it’s been 24 C. I know it isn’t that hot yet. Although my hair is forever wet/sticky. I am worried cause temps are still going up. I hope the humidity leaves soon.

  • @ethandollarhide7943
    @ethandollarhide7943 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I would like to point out the fact that the only reason there was controversy and boycotts over Target last Pride Month was because Matt Walsh lied about swimwear for Pre-Op Trans People being in the children's section.

  • @maracynicxx
    @maracynicxx 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    A lot of events in the US have safety policies that require bags to be clear and/or of a certain size... for reasons 👀

    • @lilypudd
      @lilypudd 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Like elementary, Jr High and High schools...

    • @blaireshoe8738
      @blaireshoe8738 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@lilypudd Yup, stadiums too! Looks compliant with my local university's bag policies for sporting events.

  • @erraticonteuse
    @erraticonteuse 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    I was willing to give Target a pass for reducing store space for Pride merch because I don't want any minimum wage employees getting gunned down by some lunatic, but the online collection was so pathetic they have lost any goodwill or benefit of a doubt I had left for them.

  • @twitchycoopark
    @twitchycoopark 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Jessica, your blue glittery dress is extraordinarily beautiful and I too am proud of everything you have achieved so far! I love your sense of humour and I'm very glad to have found this nice and welcoming space of yours here on TH-cam ❤
    Edit: Yay Rupert, I'm also a big fan of puzzles and languages! 😊

  • @juliakwiatkowski647
    @juliakwiatkowski647 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    While I have gotten everything else pride from local queer business owners and creators, I did get the rainbow Target pride bag and I am feeling deservedly roasted. Buuut I like it. The straps are actually really lightweight and surprisingly I have gotten compliments on it every time I bring it out. The thing that stuck out to me this year was how my local Target really hid all the pride stuff in a tiny corner of the store.

    • @purcascade
      @purcascade 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I got the rainbow bag too, but the complaints here are valid. 😂 I have a lot of open top bags like that. The black strap really is awful, and I'll probably never use it. I was torn because I always buy from Target's special collections because I want them to keep doing them, but I also knew they had severely watered-down this year's Pride collection. Corporate Pride is a mess.

    • @marqetteliz
      @marqetteliz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I got the #love shirt. But yes, tiny section in back of women's. Disappointed in that.

    • @juliakwiatkowski647
      @juliakwiatkowski647 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      @@purcascade yeah, the pride collection was objectively bad and hidden away. The black strap is cheap AF. Thankfully you can remove it and just use it as a handbag. As a mom with a toddler, I actually like the open top bag since I don’t have to fiddle with as much when I need to grab something if I’m holding my kiddo.
      Corporate pride is def… interesting. On one hand, I think representation is important and acceptance is important. And sometimes a Target or big box store is the only place someone in certain areas might get of LGBT+ acceptance. Sad as that is. I’m lucky to live in a city where there are so many thriving LGBTQIA+ owned small businesses. Pride in general is more celebrated. But I know places where that is far from the truth.
      On the other hand… why scale the pride collection down to please bigots? Oh right. Because Target has to try to please as many people as possible and damn the consequences.

  • @kappagrapes
    @kappagrapes วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    That sparkling dress is so beautiful! It's like a pool of sky, covered in stars...

  • @emmarodriguez6263
    @emmarodriguez6263 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    “It’s our favorite color” is SO sweet 😭🥹

  • @GhostIntoTheFog
    @GhostIntoTheFog 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    As an Autistic creator, the next time you’re at a Google event, you might kindly ask them to stop partnering with A$ on their MSSNG DNA-collection project. We need support and inclusion, not a cure.
    You might also ask them to stop prioritizing hate groups and conspiracy theorists in their search results and allowing their content on YT. You can’t even Google Autistic Pride Day without a puzzle-piece ribbon popping up.

    • @MissingRaptor
      @MissingRaptor วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      We have a pride day!?
      Ooooh!
      When is it?
      I realize at this point that I should probably mention that I'm on the ASD spectrum and not fully up and up on all the fun stuff.
      I agree, though that A$ sucks and they should be called out on their crap.

    • @Anonyomus_commenter
      @Anonyomus_commenter วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      What is A$- I can’t find anything about them if I look it up

    • @TheKinseth
      @TheKinseth วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      It stands for Autism Speaks.

    • @TryinaD
      @TryinaD วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Anonyomus_commenterautism speaks, a cringy and terrible organization

    • @teodorasavoiu4664
      @teodorasavoiu4664 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Google is actively involved in developing technology that's killing people in the global south, so I'm not surprised they're involved in eugenics projects too.
      Unfortunately I wouldn't hold my breath for them to stop those partnerships, bc they're not even stopping the aforementioned projects that are aiding genocidal regimes massacre civilians.
      Google will never support us autistics or other disabled folks, they're here to make money off of environmental destruction and corpses. So i don't think we should want or need their support. They couldn't be bothered caring about what autistic people need.

  • @user-ji1nw5tr8z
    @user-ji1nw5tr8z 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    I love watching Jessica get so angry at them, like work it girl, I agree

  • @lakeflutterbyart
    @lakeflutterbyart 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    This month, I said goodbye to the school I worked at for 20 years (closed for lack of funding), started working summer school, started a Patreon, and visited one of our beautiful Wisconsin state parks (Pattison).
    I am disappointed in the lack of courage/support from Target, but it doesn’t surprise me. Their primary focus is money after all. I’m also disappointed in their design aesthetic. Their “rainbow” clothes remind me of the 1980’s.
    This summer, I’m starting a beadwork/crochet/weaving/photography channel on Patreon and TH-cam, and setting up an Etsy shop to sell some of the things I make. I am both confused and excited! I’m hoping to teach others to love art like I do.
    Thanks for teaching me about queer history, fashion, and disability. As an aroace person with fibromyalgia, depression, and anxiety I really appreciate your channel!

  • @sams1982
    @sams1982 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Yes to the parenting book club video! The more in-depth the better

  • @MovieEggman
    @MovieEggman 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I wish these products’s profits would be 100% donated to LGBTQ charities like The Trevor Project.

  • @Trippy_Space_Bunny
    @Trippy_Space_Bunny 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Yes, I have ADHD and autism but my daughter is 15 (who also has ADHD and autism ) Wish I would've known all of this Montessori stuff when she was a baby. 😅

  • @_shannons
    @_shannons วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    How to Montessori Yourself with pride and adhd is absolutely a video I would watch, probably many times.

  • @jennifers5560
    @jennifers5560 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Jessica and Claudia give off so much fun energy!

  • @im_not_richard
    @im_not_richard 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Little Feminists has picture books now! They are incredibly inclusive and montessori aligned!

  • @MullingInk
    @MullingInk 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Your Montessori section brought back a lot of feelings for me. We were planning to do more Montessori-esque parenting, but found as people skimming above the poverty line that it was simply impossible to do without the money to provide the child-sized items or access to items, the expensive toys, the systems so that you can put away one thing before taking out another, etc. I was surprised at how much grief and frustration still remains from that long-ago experience (my youngest child is eleven now).
    And the grief and the frustration of that pale in comparison to the grief and frustration of trying to develop a reading habit with my children as a parent who was invisibly disabled and didn’t know it (EDS, autism, ADHD, other things), when my children were dyslexic, also AuDHD, and had massive auditory processing issues (and low vision in one of their cases). I read books like I breathe air, and it’s so, so hard to adjust my thinking to where I can understand their lack of enthusiasm.
    I think we have made some good memories, and that they respect books even if they don’t love them. I’ve been told by my therapist that I’m a good parent, but it was interesting to see how tender this subject still is for me, and how insecure it can make me feel.
    I think you’re doing a wonderful job, and I wish you continuing success and joy in your parenting journey.

  • @kkeungi5955
    @kkeungi5955 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    As an orphan, I always got mad that being adopted was seen as this bad thing when I was a kid. And it didn't help that EVERY kid's story about orphans would be like "OH, THEY SECRETLY HAD A FAMILY ALL ALONG AND WERE RICH/FAMOUS" so they weren't orphans at all? Or yeah little sad orphan child! Everyone feel sorry for the orphan kid! Ugh. Glad that books are becoming more diverse.

  • @timschantz3233
    @timschantz3233 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    My local Target had a Pride display about a third of last year's. It was moved from the front of the store closer to the fitting room. Black History Month got similar treatment, btw.

  • @heather9130
    @heather9130 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I read the Montessori Baby and loved it. We didn't make a full Montessori home, but we still implemented the principles. My 2.5 yr old LOVES everything to be in its place and is very independent. I didn't know there's a Montessori Toddler book. My library has the audiobook which is perfect!

  • @LifesNeverHumDrum
    @LifesNeverHumDrum วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The line between Rainbow and Candy Stripes is thinner than I thought 😂
    Congrats on hosting that TH-cam event!

  • @JessicaMacKlein
    @JessicaMacKlein 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This was delightful from beginning to end. If I hadn't already hit the like button, I would've smashed it when Claudia "popped up" on the scene! *chef's kiss.
    I loved your roasting of Target, well deserved. Honestly, the whole collection was more of an insult than anything.
    One of my favourite things this month was my new Marsha P Johnson scaft. On that note, I'll leave you with my favourite quote of hers, which is, if anything, even more relevant now..
    "History isn’t something you look back at and say it was inevitable. It happens because people make decisions that are sometimes very impulsive and of the moment, but those moments are cumulative realities.”

  • @MichelleK.B.
    @MichelleK.B. วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Claudia raving about the rose scent of the face cream brought back a sensory memory of my grandmother using Rose Milk lotion when I was little. I had completely forgotten that was how she smelled.

  • @conlon4332
    @conlon4332 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    26:56 What Claudia said was funny enough, but the subtitles say "whatever was on the floor to be honest" hahahahhaha!
    (She actually said "on offer" BTW.)

  • @Hunterofartemischildofhades
    @Hunterofartemischildofhades 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +133

    Im so done with transphobia. ANYWAY, im happy to announce (bc i find this comment section to be kind most of the time.) That i figured out that im genderfae last week. No longer confused! 😅

  • @ArtichokeHunter
    @ArtichokeHunter 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    It feels pretty obvious to me that what's queer about "It's giving charcuterie" is the slang "it's giving," which I think originated from the ballroom scene. (That's not to say that it actually makes any sense to sell a charcuterie board that says "it's giving charcuterie," because like, what do they think you're going to put on the board that is giving charcuterie besides... charcuterie?)

    • @stellangios
      @stellangios 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      There's an episode of the video series Otherwords (on @storied ) called "How Brands Ruin Slang" and this is a prime example 😂😂

  • @yeet-hawjones
    @yeet-hawjones 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    the target stuff (no matter how tacky) was my first access point into any sort of queer merch when I was younger and had no way to buy stuff online... its kind of sad to see it going from a big display to being shoved in the corner :(

  • @Lcbean333
    @Lcbean333 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    That dark blue sparkly dress is GORGEOUS. It reminds me of Ariel’s dress at the end of Disneys The Little Mermaid

  • @wallspace5
    @wallspace5 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Everyone support Grrrl Spells! (And other companies that Target screwed over!)

  • @rileymarie1940
    @rileymarie1940 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Glad Day Bookshop (in Canada but they ship other places) have fantastic kids books with all sorts of families! They also have loads of books of many genres for YA, and adults with loads of representation! Different abilities, neurotypes, cultures, sexualities, genders, races, etc! They are a fantastic place

  • @DawnSiemer
    @DawnSiemer วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As a parent, the Positive Discipline method made a huge difference for me. There's a book by that name by Jane Nelsen. My first daughter had anxiety issues even as a toddler, and she needed gentle guidance. It think it would mesh pretty well with Montessori ideas. (Or not, if Montessori is too structured for you.)

  • @rose-flow
    @rose-flow 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My absolute favorite channel. You're always speaking the truth in the most witty way.

  • @leadebartolo1604
    @leadebartolo1604 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I don't know if your son watches TV or movies. If he does turn on the closed caption( which you may already use) my son taught himself to read at the age of 2 1/2 it totally shocked me. Our son went to Montessori preschool also.

    • @teamo8474
      @teamo8474 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Yeah that is also very good for learning other languages! That's how I learned english when I was a kid

    • @Noel.Chmielowiec
      @Noel.Chmielowiec 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@teamo8474Same! I learnt to read when I was 3, and we watched foreign movies with subtitles. It gave me very random skill of understanding parts of languages I don't speak 😂 But to be honest, I learnt how to read because I was bored, I didn't like TV much, I didn't like playing with other kids, I mostly drew or played with Lego, so I wanted to be able to read books by myself. And yes, I was very conscious toddler and when I was with my parents or one Granny I wasn't that bored, but with the other Granny.. whole another story.

  • @carolbuzelim
    @carolbuzelim วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The cream part was so wholesome you both are just so cute ❤

  • @sapphosgirlfriend
    @sapphosgirlfriend วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for captioning your videos!!!! The quality of your content is magic 💕

  • @hkol0730
    @hkol0730 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I think Jessica's hair looks particularly stunning here

  • @Spiderpopsicle
    @Spiderpopsicle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    14:53 as a teenager I think we are just big toddlers to be honest.

  • @actuallywaffles5267
    @actuallywaffles5267 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    The Navy dress with the cape is literally everything. I'm in love. You look like a goddess of night.

  • @kiarrasayshi
    @kiarrasayshi 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This is too bad. Buying from the Target Pride collection is a lasti minute pride tradition in my parts. Always can spot some matching girlies at the parade and causes a nice a bonding moment.

  • @uemochi9316
    @uemochi9316 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    the fact both England AND America are both having Hellish unnaturally aggressive heat waves Right now feels like a Cosmic Joke

  • @marqetteliz
    @marqetteliz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I was indecisive about buying from the Target Pride Collection. Most of it is ugly. But worse, they shoved it in the back of the section instead of up front when you would see it coming in. Didn't want to validate their bad decisions. But, I did end up buying their #love rainbow pride shirt because I felt like they should know there is a demand for Pride products. I felt like either decision (to buy or not buy) was bad.

  • @emmad8732
    @emmad8732 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Big yes to a deeper dive on those parenting books!

  • @ThomasWillett1
    @ThomasWillett1 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The "EQUAL-ITY" shirt actually came out two years ago. My sister got it for me and my mom proceeded to make fun of me for wearing it.

  • @qryptid
    @qryptid 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Target switched from campy Xennial humor pride merch to standard corporate drivel. They were supposed to carry a Mattel pride themed doll and they backed out leaving the doll to be pushed back to next year. Im so salty about it despite it being the absolute least of our worries in this year 2024 lmao

  • @palepomegranate2052
    @palepomegranate2052 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I would love a parenting book video, please!

  • @rainbowtropolis
    @rainbowtropolis วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Happy Birthday Rupert! 🎂🎉🥳
    Happy Pride Month everyone! 🏳‍🌈
    🤟

  • @Hank.Will.I.Ams.
    @Hank.Will.I.Ams. 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Just had a 2.5 day migraine, largely in part to the heat. Sometimes you NEED the air con!

  • @BankySkitch
    @BankySkitch 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I am so confused by the Tippi Hedren bird being a LGBTQ thing, and the Beach Poolside bird, too. Only gay people hang out at the beach and get chased by birds? WHUT?!

    • @ArtichokeHunter
      @ArtichokeHunter 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@BankySkitch my friend bought the birds and I'm like... why though

  • @oiytd5wugho
    @oiytd5wugho วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love how the "pride" rainbows have extra colours, y'know, the thing where a designer adds a random pink, lavender or brown stripe so it's not a gay rainbow. I can never find just a normal 6 color rainbow without pastels or dark colours added on. I actually managed to thrift a rainbow shirt a few days ago, unfortunately it's got a shein tag so idk how it'll hold up, but I really want rainbow socks or thighs that aren't like "here's a random black stripe, enjoy!"
    Edit: I mean actually random colors, not stripes representing trans people and poc, not that that's what they're doing, but ykwim

  • @triciacrockett953
    @triciacrockett953 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love that you gave Rupert the AC. I know a lot of families (including the one I grew up in) who make the parents' room the most comfortable. I have a couple books to recommend. Bathe the Cat by Alice B. McGinty. It's really funny (and has a cleaning theme) and the family just happens to have two dads. When you mentioned Pride being gay Christmas, I instantly thought of the book 'Twas the Night Before Pride by Joanna McClintick.

  • @mschrisfrank2420
    @mschrisfrank2420 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Claud’s entrance 😂

    • @MarketaLedvonova
      @MarketaLedvonova วันที่ผ่านมา

      I chuckled when she slid into the frame 😂 The sound effect as well 😂

  • @MrSchimpf
    @MrSchimpf วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    "I'm sorry, is meat queer?" 🤣 That made me absolutely gag, Jessica, I was absolutely confused when I saw the Target display this month and was like 'why on earth is this here?!'.
    The best 'display' piece I can get there now is a generic rainbow fan; I was sad to see they didn't see how they cleared out their flag stock yearly that they no longer have pride flags! Why? It's the best expression you can have!

  • @themayhemofmadness7038
    @themayhemofmadness7038 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just absolutely love your style. It is so gorgeous. And that blue dress is fabulous. ❤❤❤❤

  • @enbyfairyyy
    @enbyfairyyy 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Yes to more videos on Montessori and books you found helpful!

  • @alecburrett7482
    @alecburrett7482 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    As a target shareholder, I am keen to see how naff this collection is.

  • @Picklescape
    @Picklescape วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes to montessori parenting book recommendations please!

  • @amekat
    @amekat วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    dying at claudia’s hyperbole of a “generational cream”

  • @conlon4332
    @conlon4332 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well, today was the last day of term, and this academic year, for me! Which honestly is a big relief, it's been a very stressful month. I'd had exams, questions over funding for my education (which still aren't resolved), lots of hospitals appointments and new diagnoses; I saw a neurologist who thinks I have autonomic nervous system problems and hyperactivity, although ran out of time to give me proper diagnoses or medications to help, I'll be seeing her again but who knows when, you know the NHS, and a rheumatologist who diagnosed me with EDS and Fibromyalgia. It's great to have answers and find a community of people who struggle with the same things I do, but it's been a lot to deal with all at once, and that overwhelm has taken something of a toll on my health. I'm hoping to relax and focus on non-academic and non-medical things for a while now, namely sewing and gardening.

  • @sersastark
    @sersastark 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    jessica...lol youre a CONTENT PRODUCER FOR TH-cam!! this is what you tell them! 😎

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My family tradition is to read the baby their first book before they come home.

  • @ixykix
    @ixykix วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a hypermobile person and a person with vasculitis I've had very similar skin marks. I saw someone else mention petechiae, which is a possibility for sure. I've had migraine injections, but I'm assuming mine have been different because they are Triptan injections for acute migraine and cluster headache treatment. I don't think I've had skin reactions to Triptan injections. Hopefully you've gotten an answer from your doctor about the skin marks and that they clear up soon. As a former Clubbie (sorry finances don't permit atm) I very much enjoyed seeing your social events over time and it's really interesting to see the TH-cam events. My daughter (like many kids 😉) thinks a career in TH-cam would be amazing (along with being a palaeontologist and an artist 😉) and it's a career I have no knowledge in, so very interesting to see different aspects. Happy Pride month and Happy Disability Pride for next month too x

  • @shaebarry4888
    @shaebarry4888 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You are wonderful!!!!! Thank you so much for being you!!!!

  • @manbehindthedesk43
    @manbehindthedesk43 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    as someone who found out they where transfem late last year, looking back at target folding so easily was so so disheartening
    ok i get it, the targets near me (in the US (in targets, whatever isnt defence, it was the one of the most liberal parts of the US)) where reseaving bomb threats so i understand sort of?
    but Starbucks also reseaved bomb threats but i went there a lot and the baristas still had their queer pins and Starbucks still had its "we are supporters of LGBTQ+" even after pride month and the one near me still does
    so it just makes me super sad that target folded so easily to transphobes

  • @Emihana
    @Emihana 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    I didn't even know Target had a pride collection.

    • @valap_
      @valap_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      Neither did Target.

    • @s.f.nightingale1735
      @s.f.nightingale1735 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They don't.

    • @absentmindedgenesequencing7020
      @absentmindedgenesequencing7020 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Really? Do you go to target in June?

    • @Emihana
      @Emihana 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@absentmindedgenesequencing7020 I'm gonna be honest I forgot Target existed for a while.

    • @absentmindedgenesequencing7020
      @absentmindedgenesequencing7020 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Emihana 😂👍🏽

  • @trifonovfan9819
    @trifonovfan9819 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Call Target !

  • @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
    @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have a somewhat relevant story. So, I needed new clothes for the summer because it had been forever since I bought anything. I’m in a pretty religious and conservative area and at the time of writing this I still live with my parents (looking into remedying this soon). I skipped Hot Topic even though it was the only store I would’ve actually wanted anything other than the basics from because I’m afraid of expressing myself here. So I got the basics that I needed from Walmart because they were the cheapest. Now, Hot Topic has been for the gays since forever ago. They have a massive pride collection on their website of over 1200 items. I knew I wasn’t going to buy anything even though I really wanted to, but I decided to see what they had in the store closest to me anyway. When I pressed the little button that shows what items they have in store, 0 things popped up. Like yeah I wasn’t expecting much but 0 items under pride? Just made me sad man.

  • @bloodstoppin
    @bloodstoppin 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    your blue dress is sooooo pretty!!

  • @tarasalad
    @tarasalad วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video covering such a variety of subjects!

  • @namtellectjoonal7230
    @namtellectjoonal7230 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As somebody struggling thanks to my ADHD I would LOVE a video about how to Montessori yourself, please xD

  • @katandallthat
    @katandallthat 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    i knew that the roasts would be good coming from such a fashion icon but i WAS NOT ready. you came for their necks and i loved it 🥰

  • @zeusathena26
    @zeusathena26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If you work in a store in the US, you're probably required to use a clear/see through bag for your purse. All mall stores usually require this. The US has a severe theft problem. Corporations wont pay a living wage, or medical care. So employees steal, & resale a lot. I've seen it often.

  • @Angua-tu3ot
    @Angua-tu3ot 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love you guys!💜

  • @BloodiestMaria
    @BloodiestMaria วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am neurodivergent and learned American Sign Language early 20s
    It has greatly improved my communication capabilities

  • @alexandralee3632
    @alexandralee3632 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Grandmother in Cantonese would actually be “maa maa” on the father’s side (paw paw is the mother’s side) so that’s what Rupert’s children would call you! Love you both! ❤

  • @nebula1oftheseven488
    @nebula1oftheseven488 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes!!!I would love a books rec. 📚

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My grandmother said you’re not middle aged until you’re 75.

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think I like your grandmother!

  • @kennethgustavison1812
    @kennethgustavison1812 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wednesday was my roommate's birthday, so I went to the nearest Target to see what their pride collection looked like this year. I didn't see a pride display AT ALL, and the only prominent rainbow I saw was a cuddly Sponge Bob Square Pants holding a rainbow and wearing a cape with a rainbow stripe and rainbow striped socks. So THAT'S what I bought for him. I don't know if the larger Target south of here has a pride display, but that was RIDICULOUS to not see any pride stuff at all.

  • @scilines
    @scilines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love the Clubbie videos and seeing you and Claudia grow over the years. 🥰

  • @katielouise210
    @katielouise210 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    100% yes please on your parenting books!! not sure if i'll be a parent in the future (although i'd love to be), but regardless i find your and claudia's parenting style so wonderful and something i would love to emualate 💗

  • @sebastianebracho
    @sebastianebracho 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yesss please share those books!