5 Style Mistakes Lesbians Make, But Shouldn't - Part 2
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i love that jade became the lesbian auntie who helps us not be cringe
hahahahjahajha that comment on point!
Yaaasss! ❤️
We don’t deserve her😭
As a baby gay, you are really helping me with trying out masculine looks.
I would love to see you do a "Shop with Me in the Women's Section... " of H&M or Zara or somewhere else that's easily accessible. Like don't even buy the items just an online shopping trip with Jade :) as always another great video
I would love that too!
Oooh, agreed
Yes! I would love this!
“it’s like you look like the outfit, rather than looking like *you* in that outfit” 🤯🤯
I love the juxtaposition of hard and soft/ masculinity and femininity. I find it very attractive. I love an effortless pulled together, well dressed confident woman. Tailored looks also do it for me.
me watching this video attentively and critically like im not living out of a college dorm closet rotating through the same 5 pairs of shorts every week on repeat
Point 4 is very validating to me :) I’m very curvy and plus-sized, and when I was first coming into my masculinity I felt insecure because I *couldn’t* wear men’s section clothes and still look good. Like it made me less masculine or something. Silly stuff, but it got to me as a baby butch.
I used to have confidence to dress like you do, but I gained weight after getting clean. Now I just wear big shirts and hoodies. I never want to shop because I hate being my size. You give me hope to what I wish to get back to. You’re extremely inspiring, so please keep doing what you’re doing. Some days when I’m in the deepest part of my depression, I can watch your videos and get a smile on my face every time. Thank you for being you!
The oversized watch is giving Ben10
Men’s wear is not boring IMO. American men’s wear is boring lol. I’ve seen Asian, European and African brands killl men’s wear lately. I rather shop foreigner men’s wear/ street wear brands than buy women’s clothes. For one the quality of women’s clothes is in general not as good as men’s and also I’m shaped like a dude and women’s clothes lot of the times makes extra room for hips, boobs, etc stuff I just don’t have lol
I agree! American and Canadian is boring asf.
Ohhh interesting. This checks out for me as an American, makes sense that we’d have the most boring menswear.
What asian european and african brands tho?
@@aliasanew3398 I’ve been heavy into Daily Paper, Labrum, Ashluxe All three are African but Asian is more specifically Japan tbh. But they are pretty pricey though (really good quality though) 😂so approach with caution
misogyny kills all the fun and quality lol
what you said about menswear being kinda boring and incorporating feminine stuff to make it a bit less boring resonated with me. throw some colour or shape or patterns in there. I had a guy friend who was wearing like a floral button up and he was saying how he had to go to the women's section because the men's section was too boring and never had any real colour or fun patterns.
thinks about the dark leggings, longish button-downs, vests, and various combat boots that comprise most of my wardrobe..... yeah: they're not going anywhere.
Totally agree! For me, I can’t really shop in the men’s section since I’m on the shorter side. I’ve found that some of the best “masculine” pieces in my closet (like blazers, trousers & button downs) are ironically from the women’s section at the thrift store. You’d be surprised how many masc stuff are there if you know what to look for. Best of all, they actually fit my frame.
as a baby gay, thank you!
I love how you talk about the privelege of developing your style and that it takes time and effort. I am a late bloomer at the end of my 20s, finding my queerness and just finding my masculinity and not gonna ly i am a bit overwhelmed. But I can take my time and its ok if I don t have the energy right now to change. At the same time you are motivating me to give this coming change the energy it deserves.
See this is 1yo, but just wanted to say congrats on discovering yourself. I hope your queer and style journey has been going well 😊
@@bossyboots5000 Yes in the meantime I have come out as genderfluid and finaly found joy in experimenting with clothes. I did take one little step at a time and today I can be playful with it. your comment warmed my heart. Thank you for spreading kindness and well wishes
@@Beccination you're welcome! 😊 So glad to hear that you've found a playful relationship with clothes that makes you feel in sync with your gender expression.
Me embracing my masculinity and being gay af: 🌈✨
My bf:
S A M E
Drop em if they ain’t here for you exploring you
The goal is to make your bf question if he is gay while dating you, probably a woman
Not the clock taped on the arm 🤣🤣
As of today, I finally have income again (halleluuyerrrr) and can stop pretending I'm a minimalist and buy a few good pieces. I get to actually use some of this bomb advice! So happy!!
Thank you for mentioning privilege when it comes to clothes shopping. I love watching lgbtqia+ fashion videos, but I often find that the recommendations for clothing are totally out of my financial ability. Would you consider making a fashion video for broke people? People like me consider it a splurge if I spend more than $20 on a pair of jeans, and with the pandemic, going to resale shops aren't really a great option.
your last point really resonated with me! being intentional with how you look can just be another extension and expression of identity
exactly
Omg so when is Jade starting her personal lesbian styling services
Not the wall clock
I'm not a lesbian or even a girl but i still watched this cause i love your personality :)
i’ve always presented extremely femme because i was just stuck and “comfortable “ in my bubble. but recently i am not happy dressing super femme or having my titties out all the time lol. these videos have been a GODSEND for me because i have recently found that androgyny is how i feel most comfortable. honoring my feminine and masculine sides without having to choose one and letting my confidence be the main part of my outift.
Off topic but I’d love a video covering the designers, style influencers, etc. that inspire your personal style
just waiting for u to call me out
in a good way tho! my mind is ALWAYS open
i'm conflicted whether i still like my large-ass watch cuz you made a point
Jade is definitely my best friend in my head. 🙃 - sign a socially awkward black lesbian
You explain clothing like it’s a whole other language. So many great concepts to consider here!!
Girl I was STRUGGLING to get dressed today and your channel popped up like a blessing. I was literally crying because i've recently been wanting to tune into my more masc side but it's like 95 degrees out and didn't know how to dress for the weather without being high femme. Thank you for existing
Honestly, this advice is mostly about doing inner work than it is about style. It's not really that XYX is a bad way to dress. Its interrogating WHY you wear what you wear. And if you're actually expressing yourself or if you're expressing who you think you're supposed to be.
I love this (little) series and the examples (good and bad ) are great to see what you mean and how you see the outfits. Random idea for a video - what if your viewers send in pictures of their favorite/worst/whatever fits and you give tips on how to improve ?
Proportions got me like oh 🤯 this is why I look like a lil boy... A lil, short, scrawny boy who raided his big bro's wardrobe 🧐
There is a consciousness in how Jade speaks and conveys her thoughts and points 🙃😁
Really appreciate this video!
you rly came for the justin bieber 2015 purpose outfits
You add such an influential, inspirational, and important voice in the community for those seeking their individuality. I hope you don't think for a second that you aren't so necessary, on both channels.
Could we get a madeyoulooks eyewear vid pls and thx?
Please please please tell me how to dress in the warm weather I have no idea what I’m doing
Thanks for this video! This is going straight to my "styles & outfits I like" playlist. I've made many of these "mistakes" and I want to remind myself why not paying attention to the overall outfit may be a bad idea when wearing something in a particular way. BTW, if you happen to watch that playlist, be aware you'll find all kinds of videos collected by a non-binary AFAB. And most of them are old fashioned looks and body positivity videos.
Hey just wanted to say that your playlist looks bomb af
I ran back the Wendy clip so many times 😂
Honestly you deserve so much more views, subs, likes, etc. I don’t subscribe to as many people as I use to years ago. Even the people I’m subscribed to now I don’t keep up with their content, except for yours. All of your videos are entertaining and refreshingly genuine. Man do I aspire to have your confidence. Also you’re such a fashion inspiration for me. Thanks Jade
Right?! Jade is probably the only youtuber I was regularly watching 4/5 years ago that I still watch now.
That last point is so important. No one should really be dressing the same way at 40 as they did at 25 or at 16. Styles change, personal preference changes, people's understanding of their personal expression changes. And really, wearing the same stuff for decades with no change is boring. I came into my butchness/started dressing as masculinely as I had been wanting to instead of trying to force myself into a traditionally feminine presentation relatively late (in my late 20s/early 30s), and while it was stressful trying to figure out what "butch" looked like for someone my age with a grown-up job who needed to be taken seriously and not look super costume-y or too much like a teenage boy, I think it saved me from getting trapped too long in some of the more common clichés you mention in this and the other video. I definitely did some of them (I blame gay puberty), but it did help to look in a mirror and have to think, "Okay, but can I go to a Serious Work Meeting dressed like this?" And of course, being more established as an adult also meant that I had more disposable income to spend on things like tailoring, which definitely wouldn't have been the case when I was younger.
I just found your channel yesterday and have been watching all the videos, because they have so much good advice and just food for thought!
true true. i remember dressing very conservatively when i was a teen, only wearing solid colour t-shirts and layering it with a jacket/long-sleeve shirt because i was very insecure with my body and afraid of standing out too much, but now that i'm in my 20s and more comfortable in myself, i find myself drawn to bright patterned shirts, and i don't mind clothes that expose more of my collarbone area. it's amazing how styles could change so drastically in just a few years, and i look forward to how my style could change when i reach my 30s.
I love the point you made Jade of balancing- some days I want to look more masc other days I want to channel just feeling girly and it’s very true people feel they have to be strict to one style, no baby flourish! Experiment, your fashion should be fun without limitations.
About the watch, my wrists are t i n y t i n y, I actually have a quite regular sized watch but it looks a bit oversized LOL
Idk if you’ve made this video before but if you could like rate outfits then give tips on what you would do to fix them that would be greatly appreciated🙌🏾🙌🏾
see, i thought about doing content like this but i feel it’s hard to objectively critique someone’s outfit without your own bias ESPECIALLY when the styles are just different. BUT...maybe.
Yess I'm excited 😌😌
definitely working on expanding my look beyond my hoodie/jeans/vans cartoon character wardrobe, your videos are very helpful! :)
Appreciate you Jade 💕
You should talk about sustainable fashion/fast fashion situations
Solid and much needed advice, thanks for looming out for us all Jade 😊
Im hypeeeee for this video, teach me your ways LOL ill take what i resonate with :)
Great tips!
These videos have been a big help I've definitely been trying to expand my closet and find what is my style. Embracing whatever energy I feel that day.
Make one for the gays. We deserve to get dragged.
listen, i don’t want any drama lol
real good video!
Love this
Dammit Jade you’ve done it again 😭 dragging me for filth and I’m here for it!!
I catch myself wanting to say "bye girl" at the end of your videos on this channel, but i do appreciate the uniqueness an individuality of each channel. Keep creating awesome content! Im here for it all!
I’m cryinggggg at the giant watch! OMG i love it!
Thank you so much for breaking this down. I was so lost.😳
love this video! i love trying different outfits even if I’m not sure how they’ll turn out, and this video put into perspective and vocalized my thought process when it comes to trying new outfits out and finding new ones! always admired your style, so glad to hear your input on these pieces 🤘🏾
You deliver such great points! Very informative video, thank you :)
I love ur channel
so many good points
I’m so glad I found your Chanel 😂
thank you!!! i'm going to a friend's wedding in september, i wanna mix masc & femme, HELP
The last couple mins of this video are absolute gold!!!!! Go awf Jade. Incredible insight which is applicable regardless of gender/ orientation etc.
Actually my new fav channel. Not just for the fashion, but the energy jade and her gf bring 💯💯
This is good advice. Props
I love the point you made about the evolution of personal style during different periods of your life. You're so right.
Id love to hear your thoughts on height & gender & fashion (and welcome more short people fashion tips!!) appreciate you Jade
I've been coming back to this vid a few times in the last year because it's like the most articulate explanation for every fashion struggle I've had since coming out like 10 years ago. It's just so good. Thanks so much Jade.
I agree ! I used to dress how I thought society saw masculine lesbians now I’m much older and they baggy look I think was apart of me being uncomfortable with my body and just lost in what I thought I had to wear. But everyone is different if wear what makes you feel like your best self but always remember we all evolve as we get older so let your style display that
This resonated. Especially appreciated you speaking on the lack of access and info for ppl outside the binary. Reminding us that it is our work to do - and also the privilege around that. How we present is pretty damn important to this world. And helping the community by sharing your journey and information is shifting the narrative. I can feel it!!!! Thank you
OMG. I AM SO THANKFUL OF FINDING U. T.T I've been trying to update more of my style.
in my 20s and experimenting with diff clothes (sometimes lookin like a fool) and enjoying every moment of it lol fuk it life sucks anyway
You're always so articulate about something as difficult to describe as style. I really liked what you had to say about maturing your style as you get older, and doing a refresher now and then to update cuts and silhouettes. That's something I've been trying to be very conscious of: balancing feeling like I've found my signature style and I've intentionally minimized my aesthetic, with keeping current and age-friendly so my style doesn't become stale or dated (in a non-cool, not-vintage kinda way). I think I've nailed it rn, but it's def something I stay conscious of, as you say.
I love your look here, btw. 3GP, totally. And the "set," so to speak. It's so nice to see some personality instead of cookie cutter Insta minimalism (which is a pleasing look, but it doesn't allow much in the way of individuality). Just wanted to share some love.
giant watch.... i feel called out. My watch was a hand-me-down from my stepdad and I've had it since I was 15....
Hoodies are my weakness...please send help😩
Your pf pic has me dying 😭😭
not me calling my gf immediately after watching this to call her out kek
dead at the minute disclaimer at the beginning of the video lmao
What's your take on how to tuck shirts/anything really?
And also belts?!?!
a lil french tuck is always good. or tucking all the way around, and pulling it out a liilllllll bit.
@@madeyoulooks thanks!! If you have enough material for it, I'd love a video on tucking😍
Loved the video. Can you make a similar video on hairstyles for natural hair (shaved, twa, hairlines, etc for us black natural haired lesbians interested in showcasing a masculine of center style)? Thanks!!
it was all hehe haha until you said sumn about my suspenders 😭
I would've gotten away with it too if it wasn't for my signature collection of M.K./Diesel watches --
I love content creators that give the disclaimer, I'm talking to my younger self.
I dress from the free boxes at the co-ops😅
do you have any tips for how to wear sweatpants in a way that DONT look sloppy? 😅
im having a lot of trouble finding fashion rings that fit my fingers because theyre small and slender. do you have any recommendations?
I feel like wearing a watch at all these days says "I'm a cheater and don't want to check the time on my phone or I might get caught"
I always put on my NICE sweatpants to watch Jade.
im going for the chain fuckboi vibe but i wanna elevatee
I feel dragged but I love it
idk what trippy Mandela affect this is but I swear Jade use to say "wear what you want, wear what you like, DON'T wear it out"
Where are you getting your silver jewelry?
Are my lurid Hawaiian shirts going to appear on the list?
Bold of you to assume i make mistakes
i love that you clarify “you do you” in the beginning haha
That 'mature the aesthetic over time' talk got me like "yikes"
im hearing...:) groove on from the uniforms and be creative, experiment, and investigate progressing your styles...lets have fun and not be so serious :)
Omg where is that Wendy clip from 💀