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- When you are emotionally attached to someone, they become important to you. As you progress in your relationship, slowly but steadily you find it hard to imagine your life without them. Do you find yourself currently emotionally attached to someone? Are you falling in love with someone you shouldn't? We recently did a video on how your childhood affects your attachment styles here: • How Does The Attachmen...
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www.regain.us/advice/attachment/how-do-you-know-when-youre-emotionally-attached-to-someone
www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/sweet-love/emotionally-attached
www.successconsciousness.com/blog/letting-go/what-does-emotional-attachment-mean/
www.highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-people-absorb-emotions
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It's good to be emotionally attached to someone, but it always sucks when the feeling is not apparently mutual. :(
T_T
Yes, the worst feeling truly.
Yes
Pain
It is true
6 signs your emotionally attached to someone:
You clicked on this video
yup
Ha ha ha! Yes.
I’m not,I just came her to know this stuff for the future 👀
I'm not, and did anyway. So much for your theory.
I just gotta say...
I love your profile pic.
Video Summary:
1. You find it difficult to let go of them
2. You really understand each other
3. You absorb their emotions (not always while realizing it)
4. You want your family and friends to know about them
5. You take interest in the things they enjoy
6. You want to spend time with them more often
Thanks
When I wanted to spend more time with the person I’m attached to she pushed me and said “can’t you see I’m trying to avoid you?”
@@ViaKai I-
@Verca_Arts Not really. Just because you like someone doesn't mean they owe you to like you. You can't help who you are attracted to or not attracted to.
@@nofybn7794 lol she could have at least said it in a polite manner
6 signs you're emotionally attached to someone:
This video was recommended to you
I got this from notification
@@zyen0308
yup same
Nope
It got recommended to me right after that heartbreaking I had..😔
Very intuitive!
I'm emotionally attached to someone who's completely ignoring me💔
Thanks for all the advices guys!
Have a great day/night :-)
A few 2021 updates to clear out things :
I was able to establish a connection with the person
over the months, not the best one but a great start. And this isn't a romantical unhealthy attachment
Aw, I’m sorry. Try talking to them more and see what that does for your relationship.
Exactly 🤧
Read up on different attachment styles, might help x
Relatable.
Krishna Patel what age are you? If you don’t mind me asking x
this can apply to friends too right because everyone’s saying they thought of their s/o’s and i thought of my best friend 😳
It can, past me relates.
Finally!! I thought no one else thought of a friend or 'friend'
@@Sandra-qb2vi Yeah, I actually thought this was for any kind of emotional attachment, whether it be a friend or love interest. I was relating this video to my bff Summer up until when they mentioned "partner" in connection to an emotional attachment. But I still think this applies to any type of it, really. Because I can tell you, I am emotionally attached to my bff
FOR SURE. 😁
That’s meeee ;-; I love my bestie so frickin’ much
That would literally be the only person I'd think off for the past 30 years of my life. 2 bad she's gone.
I was extremely attached to my, dog we were bestfriends for almost 4 years. He's gone now though....
I've been in same situation. I know it's hard to get over.
Is you talkin bout a dog or a person I’m lost
Janani S K ahhhhhhh I got you fam hope you feel better
Yes, my dog was the only “person” I could think of 😔 I lost him 2 weeks ago after 9 years together
Sorry for your upsetting loss ❤❤😇
Maintain your boundaries and make sure you still have enough alone time. ♥️
Everyone needs to remember this! ☝️
Right. Self, remember this.
6 Signs You’re Emotionally Attached to Someone:
1. You find it difficult to let go of them.
2. You really understand them (and vice versa).
3. You absorb their emotions.
4. You want your friends and family to know about them.
5. You take interest in things they like.
6. You want to spend with time more often!
I hope this helps~!
It does thanks a lot!!
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Thanks chief
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I feel this all with j-hope wtf
okay imma just-
1: yes I find it difficult. I wouldn't want a life without her and I'd take a bullet for her
2. I understand her but I'm a very closed off person, I usually don't talk about my emotions. I usually, and I know this is bad, bottle them up. But I completely understand her.
3. I really do. If she feels sad I feel sad and try to make everything for her better. If she's happy I'm happy, and I don't want her not happy.
4. My family and friends know of her existance. I like talking about her but the subject is usually changed after like 2 or 3 sentences.
5. nope we both like mostly the same things
6. I absolutely LOVE spending time with her she's my everything and I would gladly hug her.... If I could.
This is about an online friend from Australia.
I'm emotionally attached to someone across the sea-
Aww I hope you get to meet her soon!
If you text her, pay attention to who texts first- if it's you starting the conversation everytime, try to get less attached
Dang I felt that, stay strong!
Jade The Animator i felt that.
@Niana and Shawn _ ShawNia No I haven't :(
@Niana and Shawn _ ShawNia it's usually her because I don't really know how to start conversations
Being emotionally attached to someone and them leaving, kills you... :(
So true 😔, physical injury is way easier to handle
Tell me about it... ;'(
Wow... I thought I was alone.
Well they still haven't left...but they're going and going further away...
@@lazyghost39 this is like the problem I've been having and she does have on and off days where she would DM me or I will DM her and the connection is pretty strong. Till she sometimes me and her would disconnect and it starts to drift away, day after day as like it's getting dry and I would sometimes feel like, she doesn't like me anymore and nor does she care about me. 😕
now i realised i’m so in love with someone
That's good to know! How many of these signs described you?
Is emotional attachment the same as benign “in love “ ?? What if you’re attached to a best friend and it’s strictly platonic ?
@@vladislavkozlov4978 nope. You can have a really deep connection with friends or family without being in a romantic relationship.
This is me to my soulmate... I never thought I'd find my true love, especially where I lived. One day while online, this guy just started chatting with me. It took us both a while to realize we had feelings for each other, but we were both hesitant because we thought we each were taken. Once we realized we were both single, 7 months after we started talking (& exactly 7 years after this video's release date), we started dating officially as boyfriend/girlfriend.
Over time he got me into hockey as I got him into drag racing. We already had a bunch of other things in common, & we always help each other through thick & thin.
He is just the greatest guy in the world to me. He's someone I want to be with forever. 💖
Rub it in why dont ya hahaha.
Congrats 💐
@@lagroad Idk if this is sarcasm but she's just telling her story. She doesn't appear to be bragging.
You'll get your chance dude dw :)
aweeee that's SOOOO cuteee :'))
Gonna keep it a 100 with you Healthy relationships are boring fam
i’m really emotionally attached to this guy that i’m friends with but i have a huge crush on. i’ve known him for 8 months and have liked him from the start but he has a girlfriend but what confuses me is that he hasn’t told me that she’s his girlfriend. we used to text back to back and see each other lots at work and he was so sweet and cared so much but now it’s like he’s distancing himself and cutting me off and like he doesn’t care about me as much anymore since he doesn’t text me as much and makes excuses to not be around me or talk to me
moon phi hii! i dont know if my words are okay, but you are great just the way you are. you don’t need him to be your amazing self, you are great!
maybe he might be in a toxic relationship, you never know what a person is going through . youre worth so much more than someone who is with someone else . you deserve to be picked first . someone will do that one day , for now pick yourself first❤️
It might be that he was going through a rough patch with his gf at that time and he found comfort by talking to you and now things with his gf is getting better so he is spending less time with you.
It's just a possibility. I'm not saying it is happening I'm saying it could be happening.
Nevertheless, you seem like a dope person! If you feel he isn't giving you enough time then try to get rid of your romantic feelings or talk to other people be it boys or girls. Just build on or make new friendships and that might turn into a relationship down the line
I had this one friend. He finally got a gf and she was so possessive and jealeous of me that she made her bf stop talking to me altogether. He finally told me years after they broke up.
I had a best friend who had a girlfriend. We spent almost everyday together but at one point he distanted himself and didn't want to meet up anymore. Found out that his girlfriend didn't know that we met that often and was afraid that their relationship was in danger. Maybe he had a little crush on me. Nevertheless he decided to work on his relationship with his girlfriend and that meant cutting me out of his life. I felt horrible at that time and was sad that I lost him and doubted myself. I now know that I didn't do anything wrong, it was his dissicion to spent so much time with me, but it was also his dissicion to make more time for his girlfriend.
Btw I wasn't in love with him, but to be cut of like that always hurts
6 signs you're emotionally attached with someone:
you're attached emotionally to someone
Ah yes the floor is made of floor
@@JustPeachy04 this is a good reply
Every 60 seconds in Africa, a minute passes.
Ah yes, another intellectual
Thank you very help
Signs:
-you find it difficult to let go of them
-you really understand them
-you absorb their emotions
-you want you family and friends to know about them
-you take interest in the things they like
-you want to spend time with them more often
I'm sorry if I was not first but hopefully I helped! 💞
U saved 4 mins of my life. I really appreciate that.☺
Always good to see a channel with this much positivity, as compared to the rest of the world events
Thank you!
There is this friend in my life. She is an online friend. I feel so attached to her, that when she is offline I feel hella empty and I want her back. I can easily understand if she's sad, angry or happy just through texts. I hate to think that she might leave one day..
LITERALLY SAMEEEE
Damn bro I feel your pain…
Dude I feel the same for an online friend. It hurts...
It’s so difficult when they like someone else and u know that u can’t have them It’s so painful all I have is to cry!😭😭😭
Why do I feel like I get emotionally attached to anyone too quickly-
Samee!
It’s a thing that happens when you look to someone for something instead of getting your own happiness but I do the same stuff fam
But only for 1 shordie
You're not alone pal
lizzy - ikr that’s deep but it’s okay because I been with her forever but like it’s a lil toxic fam
I'm emotionally attached to my bestfriend, and for a long time I believed that she was my "non-romantic soulmate". She met this boy and started dating him a couple of months ago and we don't talk everyday like we used to. He's pretty similar to me (im a girl) and she tells me that she loves him. I love that she found someone like him but I can't help but feel lonely and feeling "replaced". I miss her but I want her to be happy.
I feel the same way man. I am so emotionally attached to Alyssa that I never imagined my life without her. I feel so sad
When you nod your head at most of these, but aren't ever going to be good enough to be in a relationship 😰
Love with attachments consists of waves of emotions, usually creating invisible iron chains. The problem is that emotional attachments are all we really have, and in that moment, everything else in the universe is nonsense 😊
I had one person in mind when I clicked on this....
You did too didn't you?
Jordie Dahoe yea :vv
Most of us did ?
Rhyder Shepherd or so you thought because I had one shordy in mind but that’s cuz the mans is eliet
My bad spelled elite wrong
Totally I did.
6 signs your emotionally attached to someone:
TH-cam recommend this to me:
That means TH-cam is attached to me
LOL! Or could it be you're attached to TH-cam? :)
I hope you have a long and happy future with youtube
1:23 wild Saitama and Peridot appear!
WoooOoooo!
see the thing is I’m emotionally attached to all my favourite shows casts😳
me with new girl and brooklyn 99
ellie rose yesss I love the Brooklyn 99 cast except terry crews😭
Emotionally attached ≠ love
My crush just told me he likes me I feel rlly happy since I’ve liked him from the start 🥰💞
Congratulations 🎊😄
Good
Brenda Rasmussen thank uuuuu
aww Gongrats uwu
@@rosa5559 Your welcome.
This video made me realize that i am emotionally attached to someone one-sidedly. Its always me who feels like this and never them. I always talk to them whenever i see something funny or when something happened. But its always me doing these things and never them. They never text first and they always give an indication that theyre bored around me
Video: points out that I'm emotionally attached to someone.
Me: *Well, no shite.*
I'm emotionally attached to my online friend, never felt this way before I met him
That's amazing! Sometimes online connection can be so much stronger.
Empower yourself and be your own emotional support..so that these people who we are emotionally attached to will add value to our lives and will not cripple us when they become unavailable
Perfect timing i was just telling my best friend that he was important to me
Do it
Clicked on this and a dear friend immediately came to mind. I've only met her recently and both of us went through a dark past. That was the first time I've ever had a friend that I can really trust even at my most vulnerable moments. She's one of the best things in my life and I'd do anything for her. :(
I feel this way towards a friend of mine that I met through my sister-in-law. I really want to get closer with her but I don't want to risk making things weird between us because our time together feels so comfortable that the thought of ruining that makes me anxious.
It's almost like you don't want to ruin what you have.. incase it's not reciprocated?
Relatable
Before I met my husband,
I manifested the kind of love I deserve...
I made a list with all the personality traits and physical characteristics of my future partner,
and waited until he showed up in my life...
He is real, and he is imperfectly perfect, like me.
We fit just right, because it turns out he was waiting for me, too.
We are grateful for each other, and together we manifest amazing things for our family.
If you're avoidant,
you most likely have said to family members
- who had a major role in your childhood:
"You only accepted me or liked me
when I was happy/obedient/emotionless."
This one simple statement fits with ALL
the core symptoms
of avoidant attachment:
1. Being overly self-reliant
(and in doing so, you hide your needs, emotions, problems, and acute illnesses)
2. Pushing down anger until it explodes
and manufactures the boundaries you crave
but can't/don't/won't always ask for
3. Not wanting to burden others with your problems
4. Wanting to fix your own issues to avoid looking incompetent
or even getting bullied and teased/mocked
5. Numbing out emotions with self-soothing behaviors
that are either totally unhealthy or pseudo-healthy
(like getting addicted to working out and healthy eating)
Remember ALWAYS
this process is all about YOU!!!
Not him.
He is just a catalyst.
Consider,
he may be your twin flame.
Look into that.
After he initiated your trauma,
you're now left to deal with and to heal:
all that has come to the surface.
GOOD! This is a blessing.
Albeit painful. A necessary blessing, nonetheless.
HUGE-HUGE gift!
Major advice!!!
Listen closely!!!
NEVER ever
CHASE HIM.
He will run further
and you will lose yourself more.
You are the feminine.
You are the divine goddess.
You just be
and approve (or disapprove)
whoever comes along.
It's a yes:
you meet my requirements,
or: it's a no,
you do not.
Be clear
on whom you're accepting as a partner
and DO NOT settle for less
(or you just delay what's actually really divinely meant for you).
Accept your struggle, anxiety, fear, sadness. Whatever comes up.
It's all human, and in need of your attention.
If you push it away, deny it, block it, hide it, or run from it...
You will just have to deal with it later...
And when later comes,
those emotions will be:
intensified/amplified/magnified!
1) Put yourself first and foremost!
2) Fall in love with yourself. Be your own dream girl.
3) Rejection is redirection.
Embrace the energies of miraculous possibilities.
And,
Any time you have a painful thought/memory/flashback/worry/belief:
1. Find the belief...
2. Write 11 DISADVANTAGES
to having the belief
3. Write 11 ADVANTAGES
to having the belief
If you can NOT find advantages
then that’s EXACTLY
why you're stuck!!
When you finally see both sides...
Your mind will STOP thinking about it
'cause your brain will be rewired.
So you gotta keep at it,
until you find the positive
to the negative...
And therefore, ultimately
rewire your brain!
AND REMEMBER:
STOP making it all about manifestation
when really, it's actually all about VIBRATION!
AND:
If you haven't heard today...
You are so very loved
and you are so very worthy
of love.
The hardest part
is learning to love yourself
and to know: it's not all your fault,
and to see: that you're beautiful;
wonderfully perfectly
brilliantly created.
You're stronger than most;
a true leader/warrior in the making.
Keep going
and keep thanking.
Remember Jesus was an outcast
and he suffered more
than any human being
could ever endure...
And the most important message here is to forgive them
and to forgive yourself
and to love all.
Keep walking in truth.
One of the great poems of the Zen tradition
ends with this description of the awakened state:
“To be without suffering over imperfection(s).”
AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER:
I am one with the Divine.
I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy:
CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY.
I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE.
I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.
absolutely adoring the design style in this video !! would love to see more of it 😽
Omg I love how it is exactly 4 minutes. It relieves my anxiety from the videos that say 20 minutes of blah blah but it's over 20 minutes by a little bit
Emotionally attached but unrequitedly detached.
Would you like to elaborate? That seems like a very important message. And thanks for supporting our membership!
Thanks for the video! For me this doesn't apply to a romantic relationship. As I watched the video I thought about how emotionally attached I am to my best friend. All the things listed apply to me. My best friend is the greatest thing to have ever happened to me- I wouldn't be here without her. Emotional attachment can be amazing and horrible at the same time. If she pulls away I feel like I'm losing my oxygen. She is the first person I will go to if I need something. I have trust issues and she's the person I trust the most. My wish is that everyone sees what I see when I look at her. That part of the video was just like "yep, very very emotionally attached." Anyway thank you for the video, I love your channel! To anyone reading this, have a great day and never forget that you're loved!
I have all 6 of those with my boyfriend and I can see how and why I’m emotionally attached to him, during those 7 years of just being friends and supporting each other I started to get emotionally attached and now I finally feel like I just can’t live without him🥺💜
My emotional attachment was unhealthy. I am sooo glad I realized and stopped that behaviour. I’m so much happier now that I’ve let them go.
I'm attached to all of my best friends I moved away from:( (we are still talking almost every day though)
I'm so much attached to my parents, I'm so grateful for what they have given me.
😇
anyone feel pathetic for always being the one sustaining a relationship, like they’ve replaced you yet you can’t seem to let go of them
I LOVE THIS ANIMATION STYLE
mi novio es en quien pienso cuando veo esto. encontramos un balance entre lo que nos hace bien. me siento la mujer más afortunada que existe por poder sentirme tan sana y cómoda en una relación. me encantó el video 🥺💘
this made me realise that one person that makes me feel bad is in reality not that important to me, thank you
Me and my best friend are the best example for this video exept the part when whenever someone feels something the other constantly feels the same. It's totally the opposite 😂😂 but we still love eachother , I'm scared to leave her , she is so important to me .
I wish she is watching you guys.
THIS ART STYLE IS SO CUTE
This is a nice video about attachments. It’s amazing just how tied up in our lives we get from our attachments.
Thanks for sharing.
the art style is so cute in this video 🥺
I watched the the one about "true love/feelings" a few days ago and was really depressed with those results. But after watching this I feel better. I'm happy to know I have a companion that who is as attached to me as I am to them.
Those different leaves/flowers on top of the characters' heads are making my mental health better. The animation is so cute!
I'm dating someone who makes me feel super safe and respected and I've had difficulties in my life and she makes everything better. If ur seeing this honey i adore you ☺️❤
Happy to hear that! How did you guys meet?
This was defiantly my Dad. It’s been over two years since he died, and I still haven’t let go. I don’t think any one will ever truly understand how amazing our relationship he was.
Is there anyone who is not emotionally attached to someone who thought they were? Or is it just me?
This is a video that shows possible signs of being emotionally attached to someone, it is possible that these signs don't apply to your attachment. Don't take this video too seriously.
Yeah i think this is more extreme form of attachment. I dont feel some of these things myself and thats a good sign. If you dont either..thats ok.
How many of these signs did you relate to?
I discovered how my feeling attached, so intense the feel inside the heart
1. You find it difficult to let go of them
2. You really understand them and vice versa
3. You absorb their emotions
4. You want your family and friends to know about them
5. You take interest in the things they like
6. You want to spend time with them more often
🌸🌸🌸🌸
This is very helpful for good and bad relationships to know
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This is totally unrelated to the topic but I just wanted to throw it out there how much I ADORE this art style. Like the colors and how soft it all looks just ugh I love it props to the artist who drew this.
My friends stopped texting me and I feel very numb emotionally
Insomnia Animations same :/
bruh facts
I get this a lot to
same
That happens to me, and it hurts
Love the new constant-ish characters and the art style.
this is genuinely scary being in a relationship and being so emotionally attached and not really knowing if they feel as deeply as you do
That’s why your not supposed to be attached
I don't have anyone like this, and maybe it's better like that. It can be lonely sometimes, but not feeling the need to have someone with you all the time makes me relaxed
Being attached to anyone isn't worth it they end up finding someone new.
yup and if the feelings aren't mutual & unreciprocated
I went here when the title reminded me of last night. I just knew I miss that person so much that it drained my energy.
First of all...This animation art
Is soooooo Cuteeee
Ahhh!
Second...I think we can all relate this
I do very much with my dear best friend ^^ she is my soul sister
And I love her very dearly ❤
He means a lot to me, so much more than he will ever know
6 signs that you are emotionally attached to someone:
1) 0:46
You find it difficult to let go of them
2) 1:13
You really understand them (and vice versa)
3) 1:39
You absorb their emotions
4) 2:09
You want your family and friends to know about them
5) 2:29
You take interest in things they like
6) 2:58
You want to spend time with them more often
Hope this helps!
Yay the cutest animation style is back!!💕
And that's how I found out I was emotinally attached to cheese crisps/chips.
Damn I thought you said crips and I was boutta say
Lollll
The artwork when said "seen, heard and accepted". 💖
After watching this, I’m definitely emotionally attached to my bf, and I hope that’s not a bad thing.
so...my entire friend group? makes sense theyre very amazing
2 views, 41 likes, 0 comments-
TH-cams on something again.... ♡︎
Mhm
But you realize people can like the video before watching, right?
I have this someone who played a very important role in my life. I really didn't expect for me to be this attached to her hhhhh. She's always there, listening to my stories no matter how fucked up my stories are. I don't usually want to talk to people but she makes me want to talk to her more and more. She gave me the support I never got from my family and keep telling me that my feelings are valid. She's really important to me :'D
I’m so attached at my sister
That’s normal but... like.... I’m scare of go out with my friends without her
Idk why maybe I’m just too introvert...?
(Sorry for my bad English)
I was like that with my brother but know he's annoying and rude to me
Overprotective
@@suicidaltweek322 me when I was little lol
Alabama
@@lagroad stop
Emotional attachment is so painful 🥺💔
I love how just 4 months ago I had 1 friend who was actually getting more separated from me since she had other friends (in my eyes they aren't good friends tho) and now I have 7 after joining a group chat. Everytime I talk with them they take me back to when I was unbroken (: With their support and love I finally dared to open up about my mental health problems. It's the best decision I've ever did in my whole life😁
I'm not emotionally attached to someone but just seeing this video was so beautiful that made me cry.
When you realize you’re emotionally attached to someone who isn’t emotionally attached to you
Even if im emotionally exhausted this person is the one social connection that never would be a burden
I have emotional attach with my boyfriend, it’s really difficult to see him graduating college not seeing him in campus, it’s very hard for me going forward with my education without my boyfriend. It’s makes me feel deeply sad make me want to cry a lot because of this emotional attach to my boyfriend.
I have this friend online and ngl when I clicked this video I immediately thought of him 😂 we talk for hours and hang out most of the time while also knowing our boundaries and when we need space. We do have a lot of common interests and share a lot of views and opinions which make the conversations endless. He isn't my romantic interest nor an actual best friend but he is a really really good friend and one of the few that I dearly treasure. Shoutout to you Bar, my dude o/
Damn I’m not emotionally attached to anyone
Edit: Not anymore at least
Isnt the flag in the background of your profile picture the Asexual flag? Im not good with those, but if you are Ace it probably impacts more than relationships
Mr Diamond um no it doesn’t...?
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 Its Ace in the back and Bi snuck in there. Not sure it has much to do with this persons sexuality. But your sexuality is just who you're sexually attracted to, has nothing to do with who you're emotionally attached to.
👀
I am emotionally attached to a guy I met in 2017. I never loved myself and thought I would never be good enough for him. One night when smth should happen I pushed him away and we both fucked up after. *To anyone who feels 'not good enough' but is still emotionally attached to someone:* communicate. Ask the person what he/she thinks of you. I will never know if I pushed him away for good (in case he doesn't felt the same) or if I made a mistake and destroyed smth that could've turned into stargazing together for years and admiring the weirdest fashion and art pieces together.
I hope he's doing well wherever he is.
And when you're emotionally attached to someone but you're not friends with them anymore and barely talk ... ?
i have this attachment to my teacher and it feels like i can't control it. i'm a whole different person around her and she's always on my mind. it's like whatever i do i think of her first. i go specific ways in school to see her. i overthink every little thing she does that makes it seem like she's annoyed/fed up with me. i see her as a mother figure and i think i've made that pretty clear with her, i've written her so many letters. i get really jealous when she shows another student love or anything and i know it's so stupid. she has the ability to make me have the best day ever. i'm really scared to leave her next year
me: attached to my crush to the point that im obsessed with her
her: haha guess what im gonna friendzone you pls stay away from me
:,,(
FELT
Anonym Anonym it might’ve sounded weird, but im only obsessed with her because i grew up in a toxic household and she’s the only person who understands me, doesn’t hurt me and loves me. she literally helped me with all of my problems. i just cant imagine finding a person like her, thats why im always scared that she’ll leave. im still in love with her and i understand if she doesn’t, but i just dont want her to leave. basically i got too attached and obsessed with her because im scared of being hurt anymore. i hope im not weird-
That must be so confusing
Same with a boy who comes and goes out of my life and so not sure if I will ever see him no more? Unless he has a job ? But this virus killed it to even though we saw each other last year in October. But it all changed after I told him I think I am into you ?
I am glad I met her as my friend 💗✨
But I can't hold my tears when I imagine the day without her
I am emotionally attached to my girlfriend. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
i always had people leave me when i loved them truly, but this time this time its finally not one sided they care for me better than i do i just love it so much i wanted to express it oh and, if u went tru those leaving people don’t loose hope please they come in the worst time of ur life but the right time for yall to meet :3
Wow you're lucky
YIKES THIS IS LITERALLY ME!!! This is why i try not to get involved with anyone
I love you guys so much. For someone like me who has her own history with mental illness and now helps others, your videos have been a huge part of my journey. You inspired me to start my own mental health channel where I interview celebs about mental health. Billy Bob Thornton will be my next video going up ! Thanks for the motivation. I implore your followers to come check them out !
This channel! Always has my back. I fell in love with a boy back in August who had depression then and was doing drugs. He rejected me a lot of times. We are friends, but he's fucking bipolar and i can never feel that he likes me, although sometimes he shows it. I dragged him out of depression and he never even thanked me and treated me like shit. I could never be mad at him bc i'm scared i'll lose him. We have the same personality type and all. I love him so much but it's so toxic.
Seems like you know the goods and the bads and you're here for input. Well I've been through the same thing, he didn't have depression but I'd just tell you to let it go. Similar to batman's quote: "You either die a hero or live long enough to become the villain.". I suggest you end your friendship now rather than wait for it to be slowly, completely destroyed. If you don't feel like taking a strangers advice, talk to your parents.
@Williams Jack Lopez Castro yeah, i think i'll have to let him go
@@randymandy556 thank you for your comment ♥️ i think that ending our friendship would be the right thing to do
@@bokorjudit8 No problem, glad to help!
I'm emotionally attached to my boyfriend. He is the only healthy relationship I have had. The one's before him were mentally and emotionally abusive and toxic. He is the only person who has supported me and never left my side, no matter what the issue is we talk it out. Me and him have both been through a lot, we we are both holding onto each other and refuse to let go. We always make sure we have communication, respect, affection and democracy in our relationship. He's also the first guy to say he loves me and means it.
i get emotionally attached to everyone and everything 😔🤚🏼
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Williams Jack Lopez Castro wait what 😳
its just a slowly and painful progress to forget this one person