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- Have you heard of the term emotional neediness? While it may sound very negative, it just means that you may have the tendency to depend on others too much to validate or approve of you, or your emotions.
Know that some level of neediness is part of human nature, and many of the signs that may make someone overly needy are not their fault. If you find yourself relating, remember to be kind to yourself. You can always work to correct or improve upon behaviors that might make you too needy.
If you relate to this video and want to understand more about why you fear relationships, we've previously made a video on abandonment issues: • 7 Signs You Have Aband...
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Bosurgi L (N.d.) “Adult Emotional Dependency (AED)”. Lucabosurgi.com. Retrieved from www.lucabosurgi.com/adult-emotional-dependency-aed/
Davin K (2020, May 26). “9 Signs Of Emotional Neediness”. Your Tango. Love. Retrieved from www.yourtango.com/experts/kristindavin/are-you-emotionally-needy-your-relationship
“How Anxiety Affects Relationships” (N.d.). San Jose Anxiety Counseling. Retrieved from www.sanjoseanxietycounseling.net/anxiety-treatment/relationships/
Reynolds M (2015, November 14). “The Reason You Are Needy”. Psychology Today. Wander Woman. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wander-woman/201511/the-reason-you-are-needy
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"you suffer from anxiety"
"you have trust issues"
"you doubt yourself"
welp, there goes my luck in finally trying to form a somewhat strong human connection.
Yeah- I have all six of the things they described but truly you can find people who you can rely on! It may take a bit but there are amazing people that will see you as a great person.
Same-🙂
Also, "You are indecisive" for me-💀✌
I have do all the 3 things written above
Aww sending lots of love take care and don't doubt yourself ❤️❤️I too have trust issues
Same I can't even stop myself from causing road rages when I'm driving because people drive so God damn slow and they don't indicate to turn at the right time but most importantly I'm so fricking sick of 70 and 80 year old people coming into shopping centres because all they do is just stand around like a statue without even moving out the god damn way🤦♂️
Everyone agrees that her voice suits best for these super cute animations
I highly agree.
🎯
MOST DEFINITELY
Her voice is soothing
Yes, its like a *temporary* cure to everything, but recommend that people/you get professional help,
I hope you live your life to the fullest.
"6 Signs your Emotionally Needy"
I know I am needy but I'm still gonna watch it anyway
True😆😆
Another one here bro, hugs for fisical contact and reinforcement and reasurance with validation of our status. 😁🤗🤓
Same lol
Same bro
yeap...
6 Signs You’re Too Emotionally Needy
1. You have an unhealthy attachment style 1:21
2. You’re unsure of yourself 1:53
3. You suffer from anxiety 2:19
4. You have trust issues 2:45
5. You doubt yourself 3:11
6. You’re indecisive 3:40
I’d recommend watching the video for more information and subscribing to Psych2Go! ❤️❤️❤️
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Thank you!
Thanks for adding the title too!
thank youuu
Thank you these are always useful 😄👍
" gotta catch em all"
I feel like a Pokémon master on symptoms
Kinda wanna meet you out of curiosity
Date! date! date! date! date!
Same heheee
gotta speedrun filling out my symptom dex
i might get the world record 😳
Swag
I wasn't a needy person but just super affectionate. Over the years of hurt, I can feel I've gotten more needy and so I try to stay distant at the same time because my personality was already overwhelming for some before and I don't wanna mess people up now, especially being the age I am I feel like it's embarrassing.
Mood/accurate/relatable, just saying
human capabilities are abused its ok nobodies perfect and pristine
We are all diamonds beyond compare
@Godspeed Abhi the video title threw me off lol 😅
Thank you 🙂🙏😇
I can relate 🥲
You need those who crave affection.
So, if a person DOES have some/all these traits… then what?
It’s nice to put a label on many of the issues in these videos but I wish they had a “follow up” video that was linked describing ways you can help, heal or improve.
I guess it just seems like a ton of “diagnosis” with not so many “help” videos.
More videos on how to heal/help/improve/grow would be great.
I agree. I relate to all of these things but would like tips for what to do next to help! I'm getting more anxious now thinking about it lol
Yes! Exactly! Sometimes it makes me more anxious too! Seeing all these things and saying ‘yep, yep, i have those- then having no idea what to DO about it. It’s the reason I sometimes quit watching these…. I get a big list of “problems” and not so many “solutions”
I will explain here
Emotional Neediness when we have these feelings we need to feel happy because it make us feel full euphoric more confident kind of fuzzy feelings to just take the place we feel void or stressed or sad
We either get this feeling from someone we love and need more time to spend with them to fulfill this void because we feel we can't get feelings of happiness when we sit alone so Knowing the key of your happiness ( NO NEED TO SPENT YOUR TIME WITH THE FAKE ONE JUST THINGS you do with yourself praise gift helping adults writing your positive traits a bath sleep going out)
The more you know the key of your own happiness done with your own hands the less needy for others attention you become
You should write on a paper things make you happy just sit in silent place and think deeply
Also helping others will make you feel happy and let you feel that you are so loved and skilled person you will get praises alot and a lot of sweet words
Think deeply of that and take care of yourself
Wish you summer full of sunshine ❤
Honestly I think the best thing to do is to go to a therapist because that way they can help you sort out those issues I think this video is just to see if we have any of these signs but they should tell ppl to talk to a therapist because it's important to really get to the root of why those issues may occur
if you can't aford a therapist or if you can for that matter the idea is to still focus on you look inside mind, body, and soul learn what inside you, outside in your immediate or other enviroment, and the conditions you are living under all feel to you does it please your mind body and soul for this if not? Why not? What can you adjust or what needs a total rewrite? Eatting better & getting better gut health will also help because it links to the rest of your system so you can function better on all levels.
don't be afraid of tough answers like I'm dissatisfied with everyone in my life & how they treat me.
Would then lead to the question of what does my mind and soul define dissatisfied as? Not what the dictionary or another says uncovering this gives you a soul language to comprehend.
This leads to asking knowing this base definition: What treatment do they do I do not like that causes me to feel dissatisfied? Would lead to something like they don't respect me or hear me?
Meaning I want and need respect which means I must respect myself first (define how this looks and what does this mean to you) and if no one hears you do you hear you? (no, you do not else you'd not allow yourself such lack of inner respect and not allow others to treat you in disrespectful ways) but you have to uncover what you feel inside is disrespectful in this case don't just go with what the movies or others around you say is disrespectful if disrespectful to you means they don't close doors but tone isn't something you care about then do you also close doors? Or have you learned to leave them open? Did you tell them to close the doors? But if they don't then you can't make them they just signal a thousand times after you've told them like twice close the doors that they do not respect you so that is your answer. Keep working to respect yourself inspite of it. ect. this leads to the road of solution which in this case can you live with such disrespect for the rest of your life? (no, else you would've been fine with it by now.) so this means you need to ponder more is moving what is required (do not care about how or resources now just think I must move and look to move for opportunity or resources later) what is your life once you move, think you have already moved it has already happened what is your new world looking like feeling like without these disrespectful people to harm you?
you need to connect to you be your own friend not in a way to harm others but learn who you are on all levels mediation, prayer, self analysis, do not care what others think, stop behaving like they wish or expect if this is not aligned with you (but this will ruin your known life, but this is required to get to you) if you say I want to do something or I will do something at this time make this sacred and a promise to yourself then do what you said raise yourself keep your self made promises. ect.
1. you have an unhealty attachment style 1:21
2. you're unsure of yourself 1:53
3. you suffer from anxiety 2:19
4. you have trust issues 2:45
5. you doubt yourself 3:11
6. you're indecisive 3:40
I hope I could help!
Again
How are you so fast?
6 days agoo!!?
Thank you so much! I literally feel called out in this video lmao
Curse you time travellers
The wrong people will always teach you the right lessons
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Huh? lol
Actually, thinking about that you might be right. Cause the wrong people constantly show you what not to do and be. But the thing is, not everyone learns from lessons. A lot of dumb people out there lol
Sometimes you wanted someone doesn't mean you need them, so be care who you choose
There's this girl in my class. I barely know her. She approached me one day and said she kinda knew me since she saw me walking my dogs and she said "hi" to me once. ONCE. She wanted to be my friend since she doesn't have many friends so I pitied her and agreed to be her friend. I hate touching. I made that very clear to her. She wouldn't stop touching me even when I keep pushing her hand away. She keeps holding my hand, yanking my arm, slapping my back, poking me, wrapping her arms around my arm, etc. She keeps making me go everywhere with her. She even wanted me to go to the bathroom with her. She wouldn't take no for an answer so I often had to lie to her. I told her how I felt one day and that we shouldn't be friends anymore because I didn't want to hurt her any further. She still does it.
There was this other time when she needed me to go to the nurses office with her again and stuff because she's sick. I already took her there a few times so she should know how to do it herself already. She kept guilt tripping me. "PLEASE, I DONT HAVE ANYONE ELSE!" she said. She even told me she puked. So, I took her there. Since the other times we did it her way and she pretty much wasted 2 hours of my fucking time, I did it my way this time. The girl wouldn't stop touching me despite me glaring at her and pushing her hand away. Even the others saw how uncomfortable I was. When I took her there and was about to leave, she begged me to stay. She even wanted to give me money just to make me stay... She looked so pathetic and I pitied her so I stayed (without taking her money). I waited until her parents arrived to take her home. Exhausted. I was so exhausted. Even talking about her makes me exhausted.
@@wheresdarice3988 you do have hands, right? I mean, knuckles, right? That too sharp ones?
@@erenav7989 Bruhhh, I ain't gonna get in trouble in my first year! I already established a good reputation there! Plus, her parents goes to my parents' workshop. I wouldn't be surprised if the outcome was her parents burst in there and started throwing hands like a bunch of buffoons.
@@wheresdarice3988 lmao.
Ok brother.
To reiterate, “emotional neediness” is perfectly fine. Our emotions make us all need things. Being aware of your traits and how you are will help you better function in your life. Please take care of yourself. ❤️
Hello again
@@melonade1798 Hello!
Thank you!
@@afi_rizu You’re welcome!
@小樂 Thanks! I’m happy to have helped.
I'm so honoured they made a video on me!
You're welcome! :D
ROFL ❤️
@@snaxicakes what's so funny?
@@jegks111 They were being sarcastic.
😂😂😂
Talking about only 2, 3 and 4 signs.
How can’t I be unsure of me when people judge me for being who truly I am?
I have social anxiety and no one will give me support. They will say I’m crazy and to move on.
I have trust issues because everyone I once knew left me for others, and all because I’m an introvert.
I've had very similar things happen to me in the past. I don't know how to help but just know that I believe in you! Take care of yourself! 💕
I am an introvert and have social anxiety, trust issues , people have abandoned me and judged me but despite all this i don't need anyone to support me (it doesn't mean that i never wanted support) . This is because they wud never really understand what i am going through . So all i can tell u is become someone on whom u can rely on , make urself the best version of you not for anyone else but for urself . Stop thinking about what others feel about u . Think about what u feel about urself and strive towards being better every day. Atleast it worked for me , i left clinging and depending on others and became independent.
Sameeee🙌I am an anxious introvert. People in my country don't give a crape about anxiety and psychology so no one really understood me and I always felt alone. Until I found a friend who is always curious and understanding. She gives me space and will be there for me when I need. Hopefully you would find a good friend like mine too😇😊😊until then don't be soo hard on yourself, and do love yourself, you r not alone.
I will tell you my Instagram account to chat with me... I'm here for help I will try ❤my best
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I've tried everything in the book to do away with my anxiety issues, but no matter what, that other person just can't handle it and I don't blame them. This is why I was better off alone. Thanks for this
Thank YOU for this. It just confirmed that I'm better off solo and in doing so will simplify my poor mental health!
@@j.kay275 just focus on you and whomever follows suit will gravitate
Some of us are better off without friends. They leave anyways.
I've been there too... But with every encounter I could release some of the trauma-energy that caused this neediness in the first place. lots of crying but gratitude for the pain too because I allowed it to get out of my system... Now finally I can hold the space for these energies and can reflect on them when they occur without them controlling me... and finally I have someone in my Life. It's one of the most beautiful experiences I've ever had... Please don't give up.
@@bcrosek that’s why you gotta tie them up in your basement 😀
I liked how she sounded sad at first but then happy when actual video started...Like her voice can express her feelings..
Yep. I know I am a handful which is why I distance myself from others.I don't want to bother them with my problems.I have too many so I can't have a stable emotional connection with anyone.But its ok.
Yeah..I am a bit too..or at least I think I am..I wish and hope the best for you in your life tho.💖🌺Also profile pic looks very Lovely.💙🌸🌺
@@kimberlybogert7031 thank u, u too❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@lokilover7254 Your welcome 💖💗🌸🌺and Thank you💗💗🌺
The first step is awareness so it’s great that you have insight. What are you going to do to fix the issue? Man was not made to be alone.
@@MF-pk2gf i dont think thats true for all people. Im better off to myself. I can't get along with others for too long. Im happier alone. Everyone else would be happier with that too.
Meow!
Let us all appreciate Cindy for managing things so well and being so down to earth while replying to our comments .
Awwww thank you! :) - Cindy
yeah
@Godspeed Abhi ughhhh, why did you do that XD
How can I be emotionally needy when I'm happily single?
maybe around friends?
“happily single” sure u r
Don't bring evrythg to love relationship only..there are othr relationships too..
@@amielortiz4910 Some people actually are.
This sounds pretty needy lol jk
Anxious attachment is not permanent and we can become securely attached …
Not in the professional level but still Psych2go is my therapy session . Anyone like me
Good to know that I'm emotionally needy but how do I help myself? I just feel so helpless to be honest.
I feel you man. It's like im the only kid in my group regarding emotional matureness, despite being an adult.
Idk lay down and cry 😭 come on we will cry together 🤗 actually I’ve been wanting to hold somebody lately like rock them to sleep or something lol
You could journal your thoughts as they come,be sure of yourself,talk about it to somebody you trust and change it's hard but not impossible.
Same😔😔
Same here. Pity me!😔😔😔
This is so true. I found out that I have anxiety a few months ago and I found myself more clingy and feeling more attached to close friends around me. I seek for reassurance and comfort in them so I always wanted to make more friends. but in reality, having anxiety restricted me from being confident and start a conversation with my classmates so it’s rather hard for me to make new friends.
Me: im perfectly fine
Psych2go: you are emotionally needy
Me: AW SHI-
i am clingy because when i like someone i become obsessed.
OK I see your point. The only problem is that human beings are quite flaky and could disappoint us so it's dangerous to obssess over them. Let me introduce you to a special person who is reliable, dependable and doesn't dissapoint. His name is Jesus Christ. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️♥️
Same I lose people bc of it it sucks
I'm trying not to seem clingy in order not to lose them. Anyways they leave because of lack of attention. I wonder, how can people find the perfect middle?
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 I love this because I'm learning Amen
Until you're official in a relationship try not to let the infactuation stage get ahead of itself. You'll save yourself many years of hurt.
I want to change, and not be so emotionally needy of my boyfriend.
I wanna fix myself before its too late and he has had enough.
The good thing is now that you;'re more self aware. You can take smaller steps to make the change. Small step = huge positive impact in your life. :)
Same..
Hey thanks for the examples to our advice! :)
I hope everyone here knows it's okay to not be perfect. Your human. The person your with will love you the way you are.
Today I found out I was too emotionally needy😃
Same here
Yep me too. Everything makes way more sense
Same
Same
Me too and I honestly thought I was Independant and a chosen lone wolf😱
I used to fall apart by any incline I was going to be abandoned. I immediately would let the flight or fight feeling take over. Because, any disagreement was the end of the relationship for me. I am extremely proud of myself that I have conquered that fear, the need to be reassured, validated constantly that everything was alright.
It took me 46 years starting as a toddler to a tortured adult of always feeling not good enough. It is possible to have a breakthrough. It is the most liberating feeling along with total transparency and honesty.
There was a point in my life where I wasn't emotionally needy but that's when I lacked things in my life that made me independent from before.
Depressed, PTSD, anxiety, betrayal, abuse, neglected, victimized, deprived and denied love... yup have had all those feelings, yet chose to rise above... alone is better than living with all these insidious people
I definitely have trust issues, I'm super cautious and weary of people and I take note of the things they say and do. It's just my way of filtering out liars and cutting them off, I don't want to be surrounded with liars in my life. In a sense though I am super affectionate and love spending time with those I care about. I think it could come off as being clingy
This actually helped me see that I have grown from being emotionally needy to more independent! Though, talking to certain people makes my day better, I don't depend on them to keep myself going! :) I'm happy about my growth!
I tend to be very independent but I recently realized that when my partner is around, I suddenly become excessively needy... Not only I feel like I need her to cuddle and "take care" of me and I desire to spend a lot of time with her alone, but I also need constant reassurance of how she feels about me and so on... And if I don't receive these kind of things I become very anxious (I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks). The truth is, I realized that all my life I felt like I had to do everything on my own and that I couldn't count on anyone but me, so I keep on doing everything alone on a daily basis but when it comes to her, she's the only person I feel safe with, and that I feel I can be vulnerable with.... So the moment I'm with her, I transform into this needy child who needs hugs and attention and reassurance.... I feel bad because I don't want to burden her with my insecurities...
Im Glad You Were Recommended This is kinda helping me out get thru things that Nobody else Understands but Act like they do ..
I feel like society is so intolerant of neediness that wishing for connection to ANY degree is frowned upon. I feel forced to pretend that I don't need anybody. And that's not enough! You also have to become genuinely appealing to people, on your own, by yourself, before people would bother to care. And even then, will they actually care? Or will they only be interested in you because they actually want to tear you down and see you fail? I feel so cynical nowadays. I live with a fear that everyone I know is a narcissist, and that it may be hopeless to be trying to foster genuine connections.
*edit: I feel bad about saying that. There are actually a few people in my life whom I do think I can trust, who do care about me. I get paranoid about it sometimes. But I can't really say that I "live with a fear." It isn't constant. Sometimes I do feel fairly optimistic. This comment is over-dramatic, in reality.
@Gemma Dann I don't think I'm bipolar. Although it does seem like it, doesn't it? But no, I'd say it is genuinely difficult for me to tell if my periodic paranoia is unreasonable or not. It is somewhere in between. Ever feel that way? I think it's appropriate to feel insecure about things when life is genuinely uncertain.
I completely understand this! I always feel like I'm the person who cares too much about those I'm close to while they barely care at all. And at the end of the day, it just leaves me feeling down and depressed...every once in a while, I'll have a good day where I'm not plagued by all of my insecurities non-stop and can believe the best in people, but those days are getting rarer and rarer.
@Gemma Dann @Cristina Soo, you're both girls. Let me ask you this: how do you feel about your friendships with guys? I get the sense that girls are super reluctant to talk about feelings with guys they're friends with. Like, any sign of weakness in men is just so repulsive to them that friendship with them can only ever be on a shallow level that doesn't involve caring about each other's feelings. True?
Do you give hugs to guys? My life is not in good enough shape right now to be trying to look for a relationship, but I really wish for a genuine friendship with a girl. Hugs go SUCH a long way.. Each one I get is very memorable, because it's such a rare occasion. I'd be thinking about them to soothe myself for many months afterwards. I feel so envious of people that just get hugs on a regular basis. But I'd hate to ask for a hug. I fear that comes off as overly needy.
@Gemma Dann I think you can take it for granted that your guy friends find you attractive. Heck, even if they don't find you attractive, there's ALWAYS endorphins going on between guys and girls. Doesn't mean they secretly expect more from you, though. I wish girls could trust guys not to expect friendships to turn into relationships, and also feel comfortable with the endorphins. I'd like to think that when guy-girl friendships actually work out, they're tremendously empowering to both parties, precisely because of that dynamic. It's very validating to still feel appreciated by the other gender at times when we can't make actual relationships happen, or don't want to, for whatever reason. To have emotional intimacy without the physical intimacy.
It doesn't help that, when giving advice about how to find a girlfriend, girls very typically say that you're supposed to make friends with them first.. I think that's bad advice, and it undermines girls' trust in friendship with men. Guys should take transparently different approaches to girls they're interested in romantically and girls they want to just be friends with.
I appreciate your comments! Good feedback.
@@xcristinat felt like too
I'm not sure if that's considered being emotionally needy but something that occurs to me a lot is that I only feel comfortable going out if I'm doing that with someone else, I feel extremely lost and and awkwardly frustrated if I'm going out by all myself, it's a feeling that everybody is staring at me and everyone is judging me on the inside and it kills me in a way that I cannot even put into words, however that's something I've been trying to work on but it has been worse in the past.
I think that's anxiety
Omg same
Relatable
You can try to trust yourself, if you don’t, talk to your family or your most trusted friend.
I am emotionally needy and is something that I struggle with. The fear of abandonment runs deep and the feeling that he/she is too good for me is also an issue. I used to be co-dependant but I've gotten better at that at least. Trauma caused the abandonment issues. I hope we, my therapist and I get a hold on it so that I can be a better partner/friend/mother/daughter/and sister.
Wow do a lot of these speak to me. Mostly the anxiety, self doubt, being unsure of myself, even indecisiveness. I can try to deny it all I want, but I can see it already having a toll on my own mind and my relationship. I want the relationship to work out too, but it being long distance and online, my anxiety and self doubt are hitting hard...
I am needy. Yes its due to trust issues along with having a fear of failure and a fear of success (I have both). Therapy has helped me realize alot but I'm still a work in progress. I rather walk away first before I'm abandoned however.
Yesss another Chantal animation!
This video serves as a guideline for where I'm at with myself at the moment. Thank you so much for your hard work in curating important contents like these. ❤️
I love this. I am healing from a TBI and Trauma. This has kept me on target. Thank you! I can now start to understand more of my brain!
Based on the fact of how quickly I clicked on this video, I’m gonna jump the gun here, and go with the assumption that I am indeed too emotionally needy😂
Me too
I also suffer from Socialize Anxiety, I’m not Crazy , I have just been hurt so many times throughout my life and it gets harder and harder these days to totally and 100 percent to trust anyone all heartedly because they play to many mind games and everything , so I chose to build a wall to try and protect me from getting hurt !!! I am very , very Smart and extremely sensitive, some people will understand me and some won’t !!!
I’m really a responsible and a very Loyal person, but never felt that I was appreciate it at all, or completely!!
I know I'm not crazy either and I feel your pain too.
This was a very kind and positive way of addressing the issue. Being emotionally needy is not okay but it's not a reason for hopelessness. There are practical solutions to make one emotionally secure and independent mentioned in the video 🧡
Been watching these vids for a while now. I love the soothing voice and the pictures. Keep spreading mental health and awareness 🙏🏼😁❤ stay strong all suffering with mental health or anyone that knows individuals suffering 💪🏼
I have grown less needy, despite my depression and anxiety, i have became more decisive. Trained my mind to become more antisocial and trained my mind to cope extreme somatic and visceral pain. I am happy to be out. I love this channel and the community, so kind and understanding that you guys are also responsible for my change. Thank u all and do share with me if u have difficult experiences, i can't do much but will try to validate you!!!
Hi! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and how you overcome your struggle. It's definitely not easy, but you did it!
@@Psych2go thanks i love ur channel so much taught me so much!
I feel like I'm anxious and it does across as being needy . Thank you for making me aware I was not needy
I used to be the exact opposite of my current magnetic energy. I used to attract so many people in my life. So many so that I often felt overwhelmed and avoided hanging out. It was really bizarre. I loved being alone, but never felt lonely. These days it's exactly the other way around. I hardly get to hang out with my friends, even though I'm mostly the one taking initiative. I often/always ask, but they just tell me they don't have time, or they feel tired or they can only visit me weeks even months later after asking. I'm feeling very lonely and spend A LOT, (I would say an unhealthy amount of time) by myself through out the day. I do have a full time job, but I haven't clicked with anyone at work so far. I feel the more I take initiative and ask my friends, if they want to hang out, the more I drive them away. I always thought taking initiative is the way to keep in touch with people, but yea I really feel it's doing the opposite for me. On top of that it makes ME withdraw emotionally even more. I started building walls around myself, because it just sucks constantly getting abandoned or being told that no one has time for you... Im honestly at my wits end as to what I should do. I try to let go, be less needy, detach myself, focus more on myself and decided to give my friends a break and wait for them to make the first step. No idea if this is gonna do the trick, but yea... I really don't know what else to do anymore... I wish everyone, who's going through the same that things will work out for you.
the voice is amazing, I think I'll start listening to your videos while studying, it's really relaxing
Some people get mad at co dependency, I love it. Don't change yourself to be "normal" find someone who meshes with your mold.
me, with bpd, laughing at myself because i relate to every single thing in this video
Bi-Five! I too have bpd too 🤚🏻
ME ASF
@@pryscillaontiveros2906 🖐🏿
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they're gonna make me cry, istg the voice and human kindness is enough
Thank you for making this video! It helped a lot!
Thank you so much! It helped me to understand my uneasinesss
Wow getting every sign positive when talking about self issues
Thank you, this brought much clarity and confidence in understanding my issues. I will gladly work on this aspect of my life, thanks again.
I've been through pretty much all of these at some point or another, but just want to pop in to remind people it is possible to become emotionally stronger and become self-sufficient with the appropriate time and care put into understanding yourself better.
This is validating! In my early 20s in the relationships I was in, I was absolutely emotionally needy.
30s are awesome lol self sufficiency is amazing y'all
I relate 5 points out of 6 and it destroyed every romance relationship I had :')
Yes I know the feeling
Your voice is sooo soothing and calm, i love your voice ❤
I love your soft voice for real it makes me really calm
Everyone is important and great
dude i already know i'm SO emotionally needy, why am i watching this lol?
I was hoping they’d provide some advice.
oh this one was very true. thanks for sharing
Cool video. Sometimes due to trauma it is hard for self-reliance so we can end up relying on others to much for comfort etc. This isn’t bad per se, it is just that we need to learn how to sue their selves because people become sort of addictions. Losing faith in yourself is terrible, luckily this could be remedied with practice and care
I can relate to many of these, my past wasn’t the best and it is how I gained trust issues, I always felt like something was gonna happen, it also grew to me wanting constant reassurance or validation, it is what ruined my first relationship, I got too emotional attached and I was very needy of constant emotion, I always had anxiety and I had trouble trusting my own companion, all because I was too emotional and sensitive, I always hated myself for always being needy and wanting constant validation, i would always give too much emotion, I’m trying to get better but it’s going slowly
When I was younger, I was emotionally clingy.
Your voice never fails to calm me, awsome video :)
i feel all of those mentioned in the video
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i have an avoidant partner, while i myself am an anxious one. it's hard to assure myself that we're okay. i always feel that there's something wrong whenever we don't talk to each other, such as when my partner is too busy, or when she need some space to be alone. yes, i'm having a hard time trusting her and constantly needed some assurance. and it is unhealthy, cz i kept hurting my own feeling by having negative thoughts and flipping the thoughts over and over again in my head.
and in the end, it's all on me to find ways to assure myself that everything's alright. even tho it's still hard, i am willing to try.
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thanks for the informative contents, been following this channel for a while now. your vids makes me know a lot more about myself.
much love
When every "HSP/ emotional people" type is relatable-
This is what I feel now..
of all the videos I've seen, this was the one that nailed me the most
bro i like how u exsplain things because u make it sound simple for my small brain so thsnk u for knowleage it helps knowing about this kinda stuff
dear person that is reading this be happy even if your day is bad remeber there somebody that wish they had what you do but everybody even you is loved💖
This video clearly defines me 🥺😭
Really needed this rn
I know quite a few people who exhibit these signs of emotional needs. I enjoyed this video significantly! 😊
Ok, when i clicked on this video i did not expect to get attacked this precisely lmfao
*Idk why but all of the list relates me except that I am more clingy on a pillow because I have no one in our house nor have a girlfriend.*
I love the voice behind this 😍🥰 it's too soothing and lovely
I've subscribed love your work! Your voice is very soothing.
Can you maybe make a video about the reasons why people are emotionally needy? It’s already explained in the video but I mean can you find the reasons in childhood or can you do something against it?
Non attachment, Non inner resistance and Non judgement are the main source of happiness life.
Not really. Its a balanced lifestyle that gives me the feeling of inner happiness. When I neglect myself l feel these things. But if I keep everything in check I do ok.
Fantastic video.I love it so much.
When all the 6 tips fitted, I just
I think most of these aren't really signs you're emotionally needy. They're signs that you COULD be emotionally needy.
I’m Very Italian, and I’m very affectionate;I’m a very caring , good human being . I’m very lovable !!! Does all this mean that we could never be in a relationship and have friends ?
No, you just need to find somebody, who likes this kind of affection. It's very hard though. I'm also very affectionate and it "killed" all of my relationships. It's too much even for the trees in my garden 🤣 ... 🥺 ... 😭
That’s funny ! 😃😂🤗🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love your voice it’s so calming and sweet
The introduction requesting us to subscribe if we like the content made me learn that I was not in fact subscribed! I am now though so all is well! :)
Alright, just gonna say my part of this. I have DPD, and yes I'm very needy because of it, and you are NOT a bad person for being emotionally needy. Most of the things in this list you can't even help, such as having anxiety, you're wonderful how you are! I spent years upon years of hating myself because I'm emotionally needy and I'm finally starting to accept myself for it, so do NOT, I repeat do NOT think this video demeans you, so you are perfect how you are. I love all of you and hope you all love yourselves :)
How can I help myself when I'm emotionally needy?
It’s these reasons that Im in the condition I’m in right now. I pushed her away. It was 100% my fault because I was too demanding of her. I wish I wasn’t me. If there was a button that changed me forever, I wouldn’t hesitate for a second.
I’ve left a trail of wreckage with most relationships and would gaslight and blame my partner for a lot of my faults. I didn’t realize I was doing it until recently because it’s a very anxious response and I had been blind to most of my anxiety for a while until I saw your video talking about the impressions our childhoods left on our brains and I picked up that book how we love to see if I could make sense of it. I stopped halfway through I’ll admit because of alcoholism. But I did learn and make slight progress and that’s good i try every day to make sense of what’s there see if I can move any prices further along. It makes me wonder sometimes if I’m falling down an endless rabbit hole trying to get out.
Even without watching the video, I know I would be one. At this point, I'm being needy and clingy also easily jealous and afraid of losing someone due to abandonment issue is already an inside joke, to the point of ascending into meme for my friends.
I will explain here
Emotional Neediness when we have these feelings we need to feel happy because it make us feel full euphoric more confident kind of fuzzy feelings to just take the place we feel void or stressed or sad
We either get this feeling from someone we love and need more time to spend with them to fulfill this void because we feel we can't get feelings of happiness when we sit alone so Knowing the key of your happiness ( NO NEED TO SPENT YOUR TIME WITH THE FAKE ONE JUST THINGS you do with yourself praise gift helping adults writing your positive traits a bath sleep going out)
The more you know the key of your own happiness done with your own hands the less needy for others attention you become
You should write on a paper things make you happy just sit in silent place and think deeply
Also helping others will make you feel happy and let you feel that you are so loved and skilled person you will get praises alot and a lot of sweet words
Think deeply of that and take care of yourself
Wish you summer full of sunshine ❤
Low self esteem and lack of confidence are the reasons some ppl feel needy. Imo, the solution would be to really use your time alone to work on yourself, learning to trust and love the person you are :) good luck Psych2goers 🥰
This video felt very much like a checklist to me... and I need a hug :(
I will explain here
Emotional Neediness when we have these feelings we need to feel happy because it make us feel full euphoric more confident kind of fuzzy feelings to just take the place we feel void or stressed or sad
We either get this feeling from someone we love and need more time to spend with them to fulfill this void because we feel we can't get feelings of happiness when we sit alone so Knowing the key of your happiness ( NO NEED TO SPENT YOUR TIME WITH THE FAKE ONE JUST THINGS you do with yourself praise gift helping adults writing your positive traits a bath sleep going out)
The more you know the key of your own happiness done with your own hands the less needy for others attention you become
You should write on a paper things make you happy just sit in silent place and think deeply
Also helping others will make you feel happy and let you feel that you are so loved and skilled person you will get praises alot and a lot of sweet words
Think deeply of that and take care of yourself
Wish you summer full of sunshine ❤
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I'm trying to help in these new comments everyday and thanks psy2go for building this traits in us because when you explain I feel maybe my point of view will help them
I wish you summer full of sunshine
You deserve a lot
Your animation are so cute and I appreciate the time you take for every videos
You are better than a Google article
And I wish you talk about schizophrenia
And how people understand it wrong by thinking you have two characters
I wish you spread the correct information about this topic
And also I love to see a video with your bf having fun together or going to restaurant showing us the right way to use our day effecting it beneficialy in our physical and mental health
Love you so much💕💕💕💕💕💕
Me a emotionally detached person ~ interesting...~