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Most questions either didn't apply or had 2 equally applicable answers. Too short to have any real validity. More of a fun test for entertainment with little to no science.
I do believe that those of us who pursue a filipina, and then actually make the trip to PI, are very unique and similar. The majority of men talk about doing something, but never do it. Men who truly do go to PI, are definitely cut from a different mold. Look at life as a great adventure, and are not afraid to live life on our own terms .
@@TheFilipinaPea I seriously thought I would be a Sigma. Definitely a sigma most of my life. I think now I'm just more mellow now and I don't hotly pursue women. Either they like me or they don't.
Well, I first came here over 21 years ago, and never once considered it to be something to fear. So, I don't think less of those that don't get around to come here. Some of them might not have the financial freedom to do it. I know a few people who would do well here, but they just don't have the funds. People are practically living in their cars now in the States, so traveling is definitely out of the question. Someday, I'll be able to fly them out. In the meantime, I'll try to enjoy living with my fiance. But I miss my Western friends. The locals here just don't have the same humor as me. We don't really have much in common aside from being biped mammals.
I have been in Cebu for two weeks now . the lady I came here to see is married and separated from her husband . She told me she was never married when I met her online . However being upfront honest and kind to people has landed me a better Filipina who is younger without children and works two jobs. She does not money me to death like the person I came here to see. Being kind respectful and having some knowledge of culture has serviced me well. Americans here are often seen as arrogant. My new GF is very happy that I never complain and am eager to learn more about her culture. We Americans need to be more patient and understanding while we are here . Had I not behaved and been honest about what I wanted this would have been a wasted trip.
@@TheFilipinaPea your help has been invaluable. I had been here before your channel but an American will never learn everything. It is very clear you do your homework.
The biggest difference I found when going to the Philippines is that the women are more God fearing and they were not afraid to let you know they liked you. Compared to the USA, these women weren’t just to trying to play you against whoever else they had an interest in. So glad to have been married to my Filipina for 30 years. And she looks as good today at 63 than many woman do in their late 30’s. 5’, 105#.
As a sigma male, you described my whole life. We move in silence and analyze everything. Probably the reason why I was survive 6 yrs. straight in the Philippines untouched. Alpha males can spot sigma males right away, we don't go along to get along. We like being alone, being alone makes you stronger.
The problem with the labels is that every man can play a different role in different circumstances. One sociologist said that every group of four men will have an alpha, beta, nerd, and clown. But you can take four alphas or four clowns and put them in a group and the same roles will emerge, so the labels are not tied to the person. Some meek men have been surprised to find themselves as the leader in an emergency because they were the only men who knew what to do.
That's an excellent point and I think it's really unfortunate that we categorize people so easily and readily. I am introverted by nature but when I recognize that nobody else is going to address an issue, I'll become more alpha. I have surprised my friends in the past by how loud or aggressive I have been.😅
I took a massive leap of faith and went to Cebu last Sept, you just make up your mind and do it and thats it. I met my Pillipina there and now im working on a fiancée visa. For those of you who are debating it i say just do it and don't wait.
Hard to believe I've been following your channel for almost 4 years now, damn that went by fast. Pushing almost 300k subscribers and I don't see you stopping now. Take care and I'll see you Tuesday.
I’m an INTJ… 64 years old, financially secure, semi-retired author. I have travelled alone extensively over the years, but have not been to Asia. I’m just learning about the Philippines now, after talking with some young people I know whose families are from the Philippines. I worry a bit that if I travelled there I’d remain in the shadows and not make any connections. I’m not the kind of person to initiate a conversation with someone I haven’t met. But I’m very interested in learning more.
I came over 20 years ago. I avoided the bar girls and the big cities. I was polite and read a book about the culture on my flight to Manila. Within a few weeks I found a woman with a pure heart and got married. It was the smartest thing I have ever done in my life. We are happily married in Florida with trips back every few years. One will know if the Philippines is for you or the woman within a few days.
Your explanation of a sigma man was quite good. I disagree that you can train yourself to be a sigma, the emotional intelligence they possess is something they are born with. Trying to make an alpha let go of his ego, or have a beta grow a pair is some very poor odds.
Many sources seem to think it can be done: ideapod.com/how-to-become-a-sigma-male/ www.quora.com/How-do-I-train-myself-to-be-a-sigma-male th-cam.com/video/0zp1-wTFkuQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=jLvIroJ-0tyjCt3b medium.com/@velidran/unleash-your-true-power-becoming-a-sigma-male-68a7f4419be4 (but these were just a few I found in a few seconds - there are many more) 😉👍
Amen, a person can adopt strategies to be a better person, but there are some sigma traits that world hates. There would be no reason to become a true sigma so that more people would not like you. I am super kind to people but many do not like who I am. Because I am confident when they are not, they think I am arrogant. I don't think I am above anyone. I was born a sigma, and since I have become a christian, I am asking God to make me softer. I had a challenging childhood that made me super strong. And God is faithful this year to soften the edges. So, in a way, I am becoming less sigma but God made me one in the womb. I will always be one. Jesus even said, because they hated Him, they will hate you. I think He was sigma too. He called the elite, broods of vipers and whitewashed tombs full of dead men's bones. I think only a sigma would do such things especially in those days.
@TheFilipinaPea I think people can learn how to peacefully accept being in an empty and windowless room, but I feel that's different from someone else's innate ability to feel completely at home in an empty and windowless room. Thanks for the great video!
Omg! I called it! I started watching your videos about six months ago before I came to the Philippines in February. Like recognizes like. I said this woman is like a sigma female. But I didn’t really know that that label existed for women. You are absolutely right about the advantages and disadvantages of sigma males in the Philippines. I will be back in the Philippines in July. And it’s funny because I intentionally avoid all cities saturated with western alphas. Instead, I will be spending my time once again in Calbayog. There were no foreigners in Calbayog. I was the only black, foreigner sigma, male in town. And I loved it! Your videos just keep getting better and better. Thanks Pea!😊👍🏾💯
I rolled my eyes a bit, because I felt like I was having my ego stroked by all the positive aspects listed about "sigma males", but I did find a valuable nugget of truth in the comment about having to learn to put up with injustice. Seeing people abuse animals or others because of their station in life or their own believed superiority enrages me. I will need to learn to keep that in control for my eventual future in the Philippines. Unfortunately, I have already had to completely cut out a Filipina out of my life, and I have seen how necessary that is when talking to other men who have already retired there. Thanks for the great video as always, Pea.
For the most part animals aren't seen as humans in Asia. Though there are upper class people who are animal lovers. In the Philippines they even walk them through the strip mall in BGC. If you go for middle class to wealthy women you'll be ok. Most of the horror stories you hear about dating Filipina women are about low class Filipinas with no education. For some reason they are the preferred choice with foreign men. If you stay in an affluent area like BGC you'll be ok. Of course there are plenty more places to explore, but you will need to make friends to guide you. The social class system in the Philippines left over from Spain is still as powerful as ever.
As an American permanent resident living in the Philippines and married to to lovely, loving, and lovable Filipina, you described me very well without ever meeting me, Pea. I appreciated everything you said as did my wife. Keep up the good work without fundamentally changing your channel. Thank you.
INTP working as a K-8 Head Custodian. 62 Work/ 21 Vacation/ 118 Calendar Days from Retirement. Another 45 days or so to clean out my apartment, give most of my stuff away, store five boxes of keepsakes with my son & get on the plane for Cebu City. Definite Sigma. The Philippines is an Unconventional Solution to the Issues retirees face.
Holy Shit!! You described who I am!!! I only assert myself when I know when people are fucked up in their thinking when they try to take over and try to be in charge. I have no tolerance when people try to get others to get hurt when ordered because of their ego not a calculated strategy. I have no tolerance for people who are bullies.
Very well put Pea. I never mentioned this to you before but one of the main reasons I subliminally watch your videos is because over the years of watching your videos, to me have proven that you have a lot of Sigma traits. I feel that I would have an amazing conversation with you because you are a very rare type of individual just like myself (a Total Sigma). It's pretty rare to have someone read my personality like a book and it's a little scary because I thought nobody knows who I really am. It does get lonely time to time but not always.The Star Track skit tells me a lot about you and why you chose that particular skit. LOL Not because i think you are going to fly away on some space ship Lol But the thought of the uncertainty of outer space is what attracts you. What ever you decide to do with your TH-cam Site, I know you will have thought it out with the best possible outcome for yourself. I really appreciate your time and energy that you have put into this project and I wish you and your family all the Best.
No need to reply Pea. I’m a sigma. Didn’t know what that was but i guessed that once u started to describe it. Not all pertains to me but most of it does. I’m a bit of a loner and a workaholic, that’s y I’m a trucker who works close to 100 hours a week. I’ve always strived to be the best at everything I do and wanted to our my own business which is y I own my own truck which makes me a small business owner. This was cool. I like learning new things and to be honest. I always thought I was an alpha but that never felt right but I knew I wasn’t a bata. Great vid Pea explains a few things lol. That part about will cut u out of their life part really hit home too. My best friend of over 20 years. He is the one who first got me to go to the Philippines. My wife was introduced to me by his wife. 5 years ago we had an argument and haven’t spoken since.
Yes, do an internet search and take the tests. do it at several sites. They are fairly accurate. The Pea did not touch on all of a true sigmas traits. But some traits of sigmas are hated by the world. There is only one true sigma personality, INTJ-A. Several other personalities share many sigma traits but they also have traits that run against a sigma.
Ahhh, the joy of that “light bulb” moment when you finally understand why you do and think as you do and why you never fit into the “norms” previously known.👍🏾
This is exactly what I was thinking when I heard about Sigma. I never heard of it before, but it was like someone was reading my thoughts. I like to be more to myself, Im not very open to many people, so when they were explaining in great detail about how I am, I felt sort of violated by it, like they hacked into my accounts to get my info or something and were making it public.
I am a sigma male , very preserve l can be in a place, and no one will know l am there, l give the advance not take the advance, l pay attention to my surrounding. Never make decisions out of my emotion, and never rush things. Over 6 years no relationships patient man, man of character and great leader qualities.
Another great informative video. And a great reassurance that Filipino life is for me. I sent this video to my filipina, and she totally agrees. Thanks again for all that you do.
That blue dress again, cant begin to express how well it suits you, as stated before. I hope we aren't going to have bad news on Tuesday, I'm sure not. BTW, you described me almost perfectly.
Wow Pea, thank you very much for your wonderful support, i am a sigma and was forced into being one by society via the workplace. I do not sit and watch, sometimes i just don't care. I do care about injustice but will not fight but help the needy. I am forced into myself often very easily and also have a very soft side which im certain will help me. Is being very quiet around family good or bad? I absolutely love your content!!
Watch the Philippines truth channel before you come to the Philippines .Before you make the biggest mistake of your life as many miserable Expats have found out.😮
A Sigma can choose whether he wants to be a leader or a follower, depending on the situation. The choice is based on his strategic thinking. It's a quality that could be described as shrewdness. Good Video Pea, I gave it a like. I hope it earned me that mind meld you hinted at.
A Sigma is a master of himself and doesnt care about leaders or followers or any social structure, he plays by his own rules and doesnt give a fk about what anyone else is doing.
Being a Sigma means you are unable to be pressured or influenced, you are ungovernable, you don't need anyone, you don't suffer fools, you find a woman who appreciates, accepts and respects you that you build a mutually loving connection and bond with over a long period of time.
@@TheFilipinaPeaHmmmm, As a faithful watcher of the Pea I wondered if the 2 vids per week was sustainable. You have great content. Your audience will follow you which ever way you decide to take your channel. Damn Girl, there is more to life than youtube. I think you are about to find that out. :>)
Sweet Pea, this is one of the BEST presentations that you have done! The breadth of your knowledge and your research ability are amazing. I had not heard of "Sigma Male", but have some knowledge of personality types--INTJ/Melancholy/C/Strategic Planner/Marine Officer/Engineer--so I recognized some of the traits that you mentioned. Several people have said that they would not have the courage to do what I am doing in moving to the Philippines, but I did not associate it with the Sigma Male. My former wife summed it up for me; "That's great, you've always been an adventurer." I hope that I am one of the ones who is thrilled with the decision that you announce on Tuesday. ❤
Awesome video! That blue dress went great with that background and I liked the pendant you were wearing too. I hope whatever changes to this channel and/or whatever else you have going on in your private life are definitely for the better bring you closer to whatever you are trying to achieve and/or have been searching for. Please don't settle for anything less and don't ever give up either. You are an incredible woman and deserve ALL of the best things this world has to offer. Thank you for ALL that you have done and continue to do. It is greatly appreciated and an important work. Your voice has definitely changed the game for TH-camrs in the Philippines.
Great show. I happen to be about 75% sigma, and 25% aloha. I’ve always preferred to date traditional Asian women, and now have a Filipina fiancée. Im very happy and we rarely have conflict. This makes sense to be about sigmas having success in the Phil’s. Thanks Pea 😊
I took that test many years ago while working for a company. My personality is only in one percent of the population, according to the test. Sigma...yes, it describes me well. No, I'm not wishful thinking..I would hate myself if I were an Alpha! Great to provide the tests Pea! Salamat!
I can't tell you how many times my Filipina girlfriend has said "oh my god, men here never do (whatever i just did that she likes)" There were times i actually felt bad. I would be praised for things that i didnt earn, they are just a benefit of having been born in the US. But, i quickly stopped feeling bad when so many of the things she loved about me are things even the poorest filipino guy could have done for her. She is a gorgeous, hard working woman, talented, intelligent, loyal, no kids, she is literally a dream come true. To think she had trouble finding a local man who would treat her like she deserves is INSANE. We have so much in common and so much to love about each other, I am sure that we were meant to be together, but plenty of Filipino guys could have made it a lot harder for me to find her, so I have no sympathy when i hear a Filipino guy complain about foreigners taking their women. No, we aren't stealing their women, we are appreciating them
You described me perfectly, Pea. I always did things a little differently than my peers. I joined the military when it wasn’t the cool thing to do in the early 70’s. I decided to go to the Philippines myself in the late 70’s, met and married a Filipina in the early 80’s. My actions have sigma written all over them, but I never heard the term sigma before describing my personality. Thanks for the information!
I’ve been married to a Philippina for over 7 years and lived with her since! I have another saying about arguing with idiots who will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience! I’m over six feet tall and 100 kilograms and have a Philippine driver license and an ACR in my wallet! The house is paid for as well as the new pickup truck and now we’re working on putting a plantation together after fencing in the property first! our house is actually a ranch with a very nice fence and we have two types of goats with turkeys chickens. I’m a retired veteran and love living there and have traveled with my wife to Singapore, Hong Kong,as well as Taiwan ! Never going back to American women ever!
I thought I was Sigma by what you described but I took the test and it says I’m a Delta. I don’t know but here in California, if you are Alpha you better be able to back it up. I lived in Hawaii for 7 years and they straight will ask you.. “What cuz you like fight?” Or “You like lumps?” I straight heard some one tell a guy “What, you like one lickens? I’m Haolie and don’t have to many problems where I go. Miss Pea, your video’s are great! Keep up the good work.
I’ll say this for a man that has traveled the world to so many countries and 6 continents. For my experience there are no other women on the planet that are comparable to a Filipina. To me a Filipina have so many wonderful traits I could not list them all. Thanks for sharing so very interesting ✌🏾.
A Sigma wouldnt want to be a leader of anything - they value their own Freedom first and see leadership as a burden - you are 180 degrees opposite of a Sigma.
Yes, the lone wolf, the sigma male, having failed 99 times but succeeded once, knowing what it means to survive rather than to thrive, having experienced failure enough to value success as it comes in life.
Pea, I've never been to the Philippines & I'm not interested in getting into a philipino relationship. However, I've never moved in with my girlfriend, as I prefer at least 5 days a week by myself.
As soon as you said alpha and beta I knew exactly where this video was going. Pea is looking spectacular in this video. 🔥 Sigmas don't play well with others.
@@TheFilipinaPea, I try and stay away from labels because people change over time and circumstance. I think a lot of people say sigma when in reality they are (conservative) repulsed by modern society and culture, thus keeping their distance (lone wolf).
You just described me to a tee. I had never heard of sigma before watching your video. Thanks for the insight. Keep up the great work. I hope to see your country in the near future.
I always knew you where a Sigma female from watching your videos on your typical daily home routine, the limit you put on your public interaction ect. I think your videos and your interviews with the public are a way to get out of your shell while trying to understand where people are coming from and why they think the way they do. It's a real gift being able to listen twice as much as you speak... that is why we where given two ears and one mouth.
I have watched every video on your channel. As a result, I was able to ascertain and extrapolate your personality profile. You happen to belong to the most rare profile. I always knew you were a special person.😄👍👏❤️
I love how she opened this one up. Yeah, labels are typically overrated. But yeah, I do like the Alpha/Beta/Sigma comparisons. I'm sure in the very near future many young men will come out as Sigmas.
Great video. I am a lifelong Sigma male, who currently is retired in thailand. I started coming to thailand and the philippines when I was twenty seven yrs old. I always knew I was different than other guys, but I only learned that I was a Sigma. Male about two or three years ago. My whole life makes sense now. Fm Kuka
I couldn’t wait to get the hell out of the US. My “friend” who had been inviting me to the Philippines for 6 years (and his family) ended up being sort of pieces of shit when I finally arrived. They didn’t help me learn how to do basic shit like learn the tricycle or know how much things were supposed to cost and then they decided they had some kind of issue with me and started treating me differently but wouldn’t tell me why. Their behavior and my friends lack of taking responsibility to stand up to his family and tell them they were being extremely rude destroyed my relationship with my friend after 6 years of planning to come. We had been in a business relationship for a long time and were interested in similar things and it was a shame that my first taste of Filipino culture was basically trauma related to people being unwilling to directly confront each other to problem solve. I decided that I didn’t need their literal negative Pinoy stereotype caricature asses and started traveling the PH alone and without any direction. It’s been a year and four months in the PH now and I feel a bit settled in here. I still see the same cultural bullshit that destroyed my business plan upon coming here and along with it, my relatinship with my long time friend. I see it every day. I hate a lot of shit about this culture honestly but I didn’t feel any differently in the US, or Mexico, or Canada, or Israel, or Puerto Rico, or Thailand.. and ultimately I still somehow like the Ph the best. I am just a misanthropic fuck who doesn’t really like any human society. We are really shit in every iteration.
I am pleased to understand that you are a Sigma personality. That explains a lot of things. It is one of the reasons for the success of your channel. I am also a Sigma and have found it is not an advantage in the US. But it seems much more likely that my personality will fit in better in the Philippines. I agree with your assessment.
Wow, just want to thank you for this! I've never really cared about other people's "position" in social hierarchy since I could so very much care less about mine or what anyone thinks of me. Now I know there's a "name" for my spot as well as being aware that there are others like me in these traits. Haha As usual, I love your videos and they always brighten my day while giving me something new to think about! Keep up the GREAT WORK!
Hi Pea, I loved your video about the Sigma male. About four years ago I was on TH-cam and heard about the Sigma male. After hearing about the traits of a Sigma I thought I was one and after taking the test it confirmed that I guess I was one. I found your channel on TH-cam as I spend most of my TV time on the TH-cam channel, always investigating and trying to learn new things. A few months ago, I watched your video when you asked Filipinas if they would ever date an Atheist and was pleasantly surprised, as I have been an Atheist, since I was 22 years old and at that time, I thought you were at least Agnostic, though I don't think you should respond to that synopsis, as I understand the faith issue very well. I could go on, though wanted to mention that I am now 85 and decided to go to the Philippines and start a new life, as I keep telling myself the best part of my life is in the future. Why go to a place that is perhaps 90% Catholic, you may ask? The reason is that Catholicism like Judaism are a way of life, both non-confrontive, not like the evangelical movement in the world. I've started a few companies, written a book and have an invention to my name. One of the questions in the quiz way did I enjoy high school or hated it, which was my answer, barely made it out of high school. I don't know how you do it, utterly amazing.
Resident Sigma male, here. You pretty much nailed it all in this video. I live by a code of ethics. Would rather other people have the spotlight, and I happen to be a shark at the poker table 🤣 There is also a strong polarity between our sense of masculinity versus the truly feminine women of the Philippines. It can almost be overwhelming. However, I like taking risks, so the Philippines is probably where I will end up long-term (even if only half of the year is spent between there and the U.S. I'm OK with either scenario 😂) Great video, Pea!
I had never heard of the Sigma until today, but now I know that I am one with one exception. I always think before speaking up. That is probably why I adjusted so well to the Philippines and have been with my Filipina wife for so long
Hey Pea. I never heard of Sigma before but after listening to you I thought that's what i was, for better or for worse. First i took the Myers-Briggs and resulted in enfj, I think (?)) then the other one and it said im Sigma. I just wanted to throw some love your way by telling you what you already know, lol, your very intelligent and what i love the most about is your desire to spread truth and understanding and to do so in such creative ways with truly balanced insight. A rare girl indeed!
Another BANGER Pea!!! I caught myself smiling a few times watching this. Not just because of its 100% complete accuracy but also because your breakdown & delivery were “surgical”. Only a Sigma understands enough to do that. Thank you for explaining how this translates in The Philippines. I’d fit right in.
Interesting, Pea. I've taken the Meyers-Briggs test, but so far back that I don't remember how I was categorized; and so removed from the designations you mentioned that I don't recall having heard about Sigmas. You got my gray matter swirling a bit, and it dawned on me that there's a group here in the Philippines that I haven't observed getting much attention online. It's an established family (specifically with school-age or younger children). I suspect though that many of those men have Sigma traits. My experience here has shown me noticeable differences between these family-oriented males and the single expat, and the single expat with a Filipina partner without younger children. Priorities, attitudes, and use of time and resources can vary significantly. It might be of interest to your viewers to gain an understanding of how their lives may be altered if and when they move here if they become more 'settled into family life.
Watch out for the boomerang fellas! 😂 While I worry I am too empathetic now, but I am allured by the MacGyver idea; I love fixing stuff! 📐🔨🪚🪛🔩 Love the Captains Log skit! I am happy to make an entry!
You are right madam - also the sigmas reluctance to get socially involved can prevent a lot of bad situations in PH. I am getting rather old to face the winters here at 7000 feet and may get a place in PH for 4 or 5 months a year. I love the Filipinos, they are genuine and open - lots of children running around , reminds me of 50's America. You are exceptionally turned out for this video, stunning really - dining with royalty ?
Sounds like me. Always ploughed my own furrow and never taken too much notice of the crowd. Bit of a loner, but not a shy man and like to think outside the box which lead me to the Philippines in 1999 when I found my first wife. Now happily married to my second Filipina wife since 2011 and hope to retire to Philippines in a few years.
Great video Pea! Your description of the Sigma Male pretty much describes me to a "T". It will be interesting how this pans out when I get to the Philippines in 2025.
My gosh, sigma male? I think you actually described exactly who I am, everything you said is exactly the way I do things, that's good to know I didn't know that before, thank you very much pea ❤
Another great show. Thank you. I have been studying human behavior for many years now . As a 61 year-old. I find that good things come with wisdom and patience. Out here in the Vegas rat race I observe everyone running around like crazy. I won’t let them pull me in to it. Smitty.
Wow! I’ve never thought of myself as a Sigma male but after watching you vlog I now realise that what you talked about and the character traits that you described, you perfectly described me! I now know that I have been a Sigma male for most of my 67 years of life! All of what you talked about rang a bell with me and after picking up my open jaw after it hit the floor, I realized it 😂. Great video Pea and well explained 👍😊
Omg, I think you nailed it… knew I’m an introvert and have a cousin who is definitely an Alfa but i definitely don’t let him push me around or change my thinking
I'm INTJ and a sigma according to those tests. I've known for a long time that I'm INTJ, bit was today years old when I learned what a sigma was. I will say I never really felt quite like an alpha nor beta so that explains it. Thanks for another great video, Pea! P.S. Less than a month now until I'm in Dumaguete myself. I can't wait.
My Precious Miss Pea :) As always, you are spot on with this one as well ! Iv`e studied these traits for several years, and thus, after pesonal examination, I am a textbook sigma male. After living here in Cebu City for almost 2 years now, I have assimilated into this paradise with grace and gratitude, and blessed that I have found a new home here :)
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Half of the questions in this quiz don't even come close to an accurate answer for me
Damn,I'm a Delta 😂😂
Easy test to take, thanks.👍
@@robertruck5501 IS your Oath of Celibacy on record?
Most questions either didn't apply or had 2 equally applicable answers. Too short to have any real validity. More of a fun test for entertainment with little to no science.
I do believe that those of us who pursue a filipina, and then actually make the trip to PI, are very unique and similar. The majority of men talk about doing something, but never do it. Men who truly do go to PI, are definitely cut from a different mold. Look at life as a great adventure, and are not afraid to live life on our own terms .
Agreed I loved my time in the Philippines ( lived there) and planning on going back for the long haul
Yes, you are men of action, taking calculated risks - often the hallmark of a sigma 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea I seriously thought I would be a Sigma. Definitely a sigma most of my life. I think now I'm just more mellow now and I don't hotly pursue women. Either they like me or they don't.
Robert truck,,, yes it's called being desperate,, lonely, weak ..
Well, I first came here over 21 years ago, and never once considered it to be something to fear. So, I don't think less of those that don't get around to come here. Some of them might not have the financial freedom to do it. I know a few people who would do well here, but they just don't have the funds. People are practically living in their cars now in the States, so traveling is definitely out of the question. Someday, I'll be able to fly them out. In the meantime, I'll try to enjoy living with my fiance. But I miss my Western friends. The locals here just don't have the same humor as me. We don't really have much in common aside from being biped mammals.
I have been in Cebu for two weeks now . the lady I came here to see is married and separated from her husband . She told me she was never married when I met her online . However being upfront honest and kind to people has landed me a better Filipina who is younger without children and works two jobs. She does not money me to death like the person I came here to see. Being kind respectful and having some knowledge of culture has serviced me well. Americans here are often seen as arrogant. My new GF is very happy that I never complain and am eager to learn more about her culture. We Americans need to be more patient and understanding while we are here . Had I not behaved and been honest about what I wanted this would have been a wasted trip.
I’m glad you found a good one!
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Don't get bitter; get better!
@@someguy861 you are so right . My best friends Dad told him “Don’t worry about that one , worry about the next one “
@@TheFilipinaPea your help has been invaluable. I had been here before your channel but an American will never learn everything. It is very clear you do your homework.
Definitely 3 things are giving Americans a bad rap: bragging, anger/impatience, complaining😊
The biggest difference I found when going to the Philippines is that the women are more God fearing and they were not afraid to let you know they liked you. Compared to the USA, these women weren’t just to trying to play you against whoever else they had an interest in. So glad to have been married to my Filipina for 30 years. And she looks as good today at 63 than many woman do in their late 30’s. 5’, 105#.
Nearly 40 years with a beautiful Filipina I can vouch for mid 60s appearing mid 30s. In fact most twenty something’s would be envious
Filipinas are truly 100% more desirable than most American woman. The Philippines is like heaven on earth, and the woman there are angels.
More God fearing religious doubt it..😇😺🌻☘️
As a sigma male, you described my whole life. We move in silence and analyze everything. Probably the reason why I was survive 6 yrs. straight in the Philippines untouched. Alpha males can spot sigma males right away, we don't go along to get along. We like being alone, being alone makes you stronger.
this right here brother.
Even the smarter alphas are too dumb to figure us out. It's quite amusing, actually 😂
The problem with the labels is that every man can play a different role in different circumstances. One sociologist said that every group of four men will have an alpha, beta, nerd, and clown. But you can take four alphas or four clowns and put them in a group and the same roles will emerge, so the labels are not tied to the person. Some meek men have been surprised to find themselves as the leader in an emergency because they were the only men who knew what to do.
Very interesting 👌 😮! "The same 4 roles will emerge" why? I think For the group's self survival!
That's an excellent point and I think it's really unfortunate that we categorize people so easily and readily. I am introverted by nature but when I recognize that nobody else is going to address an issue, I'll become more alpha. I have surprised my friends in the past by how loud or aggressive I have been.😅
Once more, as the light of a single candle dispels the darkness, Pea appears to give hope and comfort to Western men!
There’s always hope for you here 👍😊❤️
Gotta Love her sense of humor as well!
I am trying to become a phlebotomist which is a medical skill. I hope it would translate in the Philippines. 🎉
@@maddhatt7082 near impossible for expats to get authorization to work in the Philippines
How eloquently put !!!
I took a massive leap of faith and went to Cebu last Sept, you just make up your mind and do it and thats it. I met my Pillipina there and now im working on a fiancée visa. For those of you who are debating it i say just do it and don't wait.
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Hard to believe I've been following your channel for almost 4 years now, damn that went by fast. Pushing almost 300k subscribers and I don't see you stopping now. Take care and I'll see you Tuesday.
I won’t stop till they make me (whoever ‘they’ is) 🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea Maybe Spook can tell you who "they" are 👻
I’m an INTJ… 64 years old, financially secure, semi-retired author. I have travelled alone extensively over the years, but have not been to Asia. I’m just learning about the Philippines now, after talking with some young people I know whose families are from the Philippines. I worry a bit that if I travelled there I’d remain in the shadows and not make any connections. I’m not the kind of person to initiate a conversation with someone I haven’t met. But I’m very interested in learning more.
Wish you guys the best. Been married to my Filipina for 19 1/2 years. It's been the best. 💯👍🏾
Been the worst for some of us. The key we learned is to never petition or put a ring on it.
I came over 20 years ago. I avoided the bar girls and the big cities. I was polite and read a book about the culture on my flight to Manila. Within a few weeks I found a woman with a pure heart and got married. It was the smartest thing I have ever done in my life. We are happily married in Florida with trips back every few years. One will know if the Philippines is for you or the woman within a few days.
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What year did this occur?
@@senseofstilebefore 2004.
marriage is for idiots
I heard that there’s a little blue pill that does wonders for the middle aged man. Who knows one day you may even be able to come again.
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Your explanation of a sigma man was quite good. I disagree that you can train yourself to be a sigma, the emotional intelligence they possess is something they are born with. Trying to make an alpha let go of his ego, or have a beta grow a pair is some very poor odds.
Many sources seem to think it can be done:
ideapod.com/how-to-become-a-sigma-male/
www.quora.com/How-do-I-train-myself-to-be-a-sigma-male
th-cam.com/video/0zp1-wTFkuQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=jLvIroJ-0tyjCt3b
medium.com/@velidran/unleash-your-true-power-becoming-a-sigma-male-68a7f4419be4
(but these were just a few I found in a few seconds - there are many more) 😉👍
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Amen, a person can adopt strategies to be a better person, but there are some sigma traits that world hates. There would be no reason to become a true sigma so that more people would not like you. I am super kind to people but many do not like who I am. Because I am confident when they are not, they think I am arrogant. I don't think I am above anyone. I was born a sigma, and since I have become a christian, I am asking God to make me softer. I had a challenging childhood that made me super strong. And God is faithful this year to soften the edges. So, in a way, I am becoming less sigma but God made me one in the womb. I will always be one. Jesus even said, because they hated Him, they will
hate you. I think He was sigma too. He called the elite, broods of vipers and whitewashed tombs full of dead men's bones. I think only a sigma would do such things especially in those days.
It's like a club you're born into, or doomed to, depending on your perspective.
@TheFilipinaPea I think people can learn how to peacefully accept being in an empty and windowless room, but I feel that's different from someone else's innate ability to feel completely at home in an empty and windowless room. Thanks for the great video!
A sigma male never argues with an idiot, because he knows that onlookers won't be able to tell which of them is the idiot.
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A sigma male doesn't care what onlookers think. The reason a wise man doesn't argue with an idiot is because it's a waste of his time.
@@wildbill562 This!
usually for me the idiot saying something so stupid it leaves me speachless.
What are you talking about? ANYONE who argues with a sigma male IS an idiot.
Omg! I called it! I started watching your videos about six months ago before I came to the Philippines in February. Like recognizes like. I said this woman is like a sigma female. But I didn’t really know that that label existed for women. You are absolutely right about the advantages and disadvantages of sigma males in the Philippines. I will be back in the Philippines in July. And it’s funny because I intentionally avoid all cities saturated with western alphas. Instead, I will be spending my time once again in Calbayog. There were no foreigners in Calbayog. I was the only black, foreigner sigma, male in town. And I loved it! Your videos just keep getting better and better. Thanks Pea!😊👍🏾💯
I rolled my eyes a bit, because I felt like I was having my ego stroked by all the positive aspects listed about "sigma males", but I did find a valuable nugget of truth in the comment about having to learn to put up with injustice. Seeing people abuse animals or others because of their station in life or their own believed superiority enrages me. I will need to learn to keep that in control for my eventual future in the Philippines. Unfortunately, I have already had to completely cut out a Filipina out of my life, and I have seen how necessary that is when talking to other men who have already retired there. Thanks for the great video as always, Pea.
For the most part animals aren't seen as humans in Asia. Though there are upper class people who are animal lovers. In the Philippines they even walk them through the strip mall in BGC. If you go for middle class to wealthy women you'll be ok. Most of the horror stories you hear about dating Filipina women are about low class Filipinas with no education. For some reason they are the preferred choice with foreign men. If you stay in an affluent area like BGC you'll be ok. Of course there are plenty more places to explore, but you will need to make friends to guide you. The social class system in the Philippines left over from Spain is still as powerful as ever.
As an American permanent resident living in the Philippines and married to to lovely, loving, and lovable Filipina, you described me very well without ever meeting me, Pea. I appreciated everything you said as did my wife. Keep up the good work without fundamentally changing your channel. Thank you.
No fundamental changes coming - just a re-focusing 😉👍
INTP working as a K-8 Head Custodian. 62 Work/ 21 Vacation/ 118 Calendar Days from Retirement. Another 45 days or so to clean out my apartment, give most of my stuff away, store five boxes of keepsakes with my son & get on the plane for Cebu City. Definite Sigma. The Philippines is an Unconventional Solution to the Issues retirees face.
Exactly Ted! And sigmas excel at finding unconventional solutions 👍
Fellow INTP here. Hope your relocation goes smoothly and wish you all the best!
PLEASE have a plan B should things not work out in the Phils. Having said that I wish you the very best of the very best.
@@laserbeam002 Plans B, C & D are written out.
@@tedjohnson4451Excellent!
Holy Shit!! You described who I am!!! I only assert myself when I know when people are fucked up in their thinking when they try to take over and try to be in charge. I have no tolerance when people try to get others to get hurt when ordered because of their ego not a calculated strategy. I have no tolerance for people who are bullies.
Very well put Pea. I never mentioned this to you before but one of the main reasons I subliminally watch your videos is because over the years of watching your videos, to me have proven that you have a lot of Sigma traits. I feel that I would have an amazing conversation with you because you are a very rare type of individual just like myself (a Total Sigma). It's pretty rare to have someone read my personality like a book and it's a little scary because I thought nobody knows who I really am. It does get lonely time to time but not always.The Star Track skit tells me a lot about you and why you chose that particular skit. LOL Not because i think you are going to fly away on some space ship Lol But the thought of the uncertainty of outer space is what attracts you. What ever you decide to do with your TH-cam Site, I know you will have thought it out with the best possible outcome for yourself. I really appreciate your time and energy that you have put into this project and I wish you and your family all the Best.
No need to reply Pea. I’m a sigma. Didn’t know what that was but i guessed that once u started to describe it. Not all pertains to me but most of it does. I’m a bit of a loner and a workaholic, that’s y I’m a trucker who works close to 100 hours a week. I’ve always strived to be the best at everything I do and wanted to our my own business which is y I own my own truck which makes me a small business owner. This was cool. I like learning new things and to be honest. I always thought I was an alpha but that never felt right but I knew I wasn’t a bata. Great vid Pea explains a few things lol. That part about will cut u out of their life part really hit home too. My best friend of over 20 years. He is the one who first got me to go to the Philippines. My wife was introduced to me by his wife. 5 years ago we had an argument and haven’t spoken since.
Alluring and well spoken as always Pea. Easy to see why you are THE authority on West meets East.
And I’ll do my best to keep it that way 👍❤️😊
I’ve never heard the phrase Sigma, but as I sat and listened, it was like you were a sketch artist drawing my portrait. Kinda crazy.
Read up on Myers Briggs personality types. This is a related subset. You will have heard of Alphas and Betas perhaps?
Yes, do an internet search and take the tests. do it at several sites. They are fairly accurate. The Pea did not touch on all of a true sigmas traits. But some traits of sigmas are hated by the world. There is only one true sigma personality, INTJ-A. Several other personalities share many sigma traits but they also have traits that run against a sigma.
@@puppyupper4565 Also MANY YT channels, some better than others.
Ahhh, the joy of that “light bulb” moment when you finally understand why you do and think as you do and why you never fit into the “norms” previously known.👍🏾
This is exactly what I was thinking when I heard about Sigma. I never heard of it before, but it was like someone was reading my thoughts. I like to be more to myself, Im not very open to many people, so when they were explaining in great detail about how I am, I felt sort of violated by it, like they hacked into my accounts to get my info or something and were making it public.
Very informative, as usual, Pea.
Not looking forward to Tuesday's news.
...and always let the ads play
I am a sigma male , very preserve l can be in a place, and no one will know l am there, l give the advance not take the advance, l pay attention to my surrounding. Never make decisions out of my emotion, and never rush things. Over 6 years no relationships patient man, man of character and great leader qualities.
Another great informative video. And a great reassurance that Filipino life is for me. I sent this video to my filipina, and she totally agrees. Thanks again for all that you do.
Great point of view. Thanks for sharing ❤
And thanks for watching, Carletto! ❤️👍
Her story of the driver seemed very focused.😅 Is Pea ok?
Only just saw Notification,Somehow Missed the Bell 2 ur Show and adds gonna Watch Now😊
That blue dress again, cant begin to express how well it suits you, as stated before. I hope we aren't going to have bad news on Tuesday, I'm sure not. BTW, you described me almost perfectly.
Blue is her color!
Thanks Jules! It’s nothing drastic, I don’t think 😊👍
@@RiderOftheNorth1968 that sounds like a Chelsea supporter.
@@TheFilipinaPea 🤞🤞
This video about the Sigma Male was extremely good. I learned so much and it was extremely helpful! I felt like you had been watching my life???
Wow Pea, thank you very much for your wonderful support, i am a sigma and was forced into being one by society via the workplace. I do not sit and watch, sometimes i just don't care. I do care about injustice but will not fight but help the needy. I am forced into myself often very easily and also have a very soft side which im certain will help me. Is being very quiet around family good or bad?
I absolutely love your content!!
Thank you Pea all your videos are helping me prepare for my journey to the Philippines
Watch the Philippines truth channel before you come to the Philippines .Before you make the biggest mistake of your life as many miserable Expats have found out.😮
I’m glad to hear it - makes me feel like what I do is worthwhile 👍😊
A Sigma can choose whether he wants to be a leader or a follower, depending on the situation. The choice is based on his strategic thinking. It's a quality that could be described as shrewdness. Good Video Pea, I gave it a like. I hope it earned me that mind meld you hinted at.
shrewd and pragmatic. good comment
A Sigma is a master of himself and doesnt care about leaders or followers or any social structure, he plays by his own rules and doesnt give a fk about what anyone else is doing.
Being a Sigma means you are unable to be pressured or influenced, you are ungovernable, you don't need anyone, you don't suffer fools, you find a woman who appreciates, accepts and respects you that you build a mutually loving connection and bond with over a long period of time.
A true sigma would never post the results of his personality test in a comments section
This description worked for me. I took my enjoyment of solitude to China. Married with 2 kids now.
As an old guy, who can no longer keep an American woman, I identify as returned mail.😊
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That was funny 👍
You are not alone my friend.
Ha,ha,ha, I know the feeling, bro.
Since I was a pilot...am I "airmail?"
Peaday is the only day of the week that occurs twice each week.
That might change on Tuesday 😳❤️
Spoiler alert?😁 I love your honesty towards the ones that will be sad about your decision.
@@TheFilipinaPeaHmmmm, As a faithful watcher of the Pea I wondered if the 2 vids per week was sustainable. You have great content. Your audience will follow you which ever way you decide to take your channel. Damn Girl, there is more to life than youtube. I think you are about to find that out. :>)
@@TheFilipinaPea a video everyday? hehe
@@TheFilipinaPeaOMG I am so worried! 🙏🙏🙏
Sweet Pea, this is one of the BEST presentations that you have done! The breadth of your knowledge and your research ability are amazing. I had not heard of "Sigma Male", but have some knowledge of personality types--INTJ/Melancholy/C/Strategic Planner/Marine Officer/Engineer--so I recognized some of the traits that you mentioned. Several people have said that they would not have the courage to do what I am doing in moving to the Philippines, but I did not associate it with the Sigma Male. My former wife summed it up for me; "That's great, you've always been an adventurer."
I hope that I am one of the ones who is thrilled with the decision that you announce on Tuesday. ❤
It is a term popped up on internet in 2010. Look on Wikipedia
Thanks, Keone, I looked it up.
There is more to see in the Philippines than just the women, they are just an added plus.
Very intuitive, thank you for sharing.
Beautiful video, great job in your description
Thanks!
For such a man with class, I don’t even have to ask what type you are (a CLASSY one, who ironically knows how to get a lady intoxicated) 🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️
On booze and my Sigma personality!!! Take care Pea! @@TheFilipinaPea
Awesome video! That blue dress went great with that background and I liked the pendant you were wearing too. I hope whatever changes to this channel and/or whatever else you have going on in your private life are definitely for the better bring you closer to whatever you are trying to achieve and/or have been searching for. Please don't settle for anything less and don't ever give up either. You are an incredible woman and deserve ALL of the best things this world has to offer. Thank you for ALL that you have done and continue to do. It is greatly appreciated and an important work. Your voice has definitely changed the game for TH-camrs in the Philippines.
I’ll be announcing on Patreon this weekend, so you’ll know before anyone else 👍
I'd never heard of a Sigma male before, but it pretty much describes me perfectly.
Then investigate a little further - you might discover exactly who you are 👍😊
Great show. I happen to be about 75% sigma, and 25% aloha. I’ve always preferred to date traditional Asian women, and now have a Filipina fiancée. Im very happy and we rarely have conflict. This makes sense to be about sigmas having success in the Phil’s. Thanks Pea 😊
I took that test many years ago while working for a company. My personality is only in one percent of the population, according to the test.
Sigma...yes, it describes me well. No, I'm not wishful thinking..I would hate myself if I were an Alpha!
Great to provide the tests Pea! Salamat!
Coffee, Tea and Pea. What a way to start the day.
What more could one ask for? 🤣
A day without Pea is like day without sunshine.
I believe a real sigma would not waste their time arguing as it is usually a fruitless endeavor to make a point to an idiot.
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Exactly!!! Well said
Winning a debate with an intelligent person is difficult. Winning an argument with an idiot is utterly impossible.
Yup
The whole beta, sigma, alpha garbage is astrology for men.
I can't tell you how many times my Filipina girlfriend has said "oh my god, men here never do (whatever i just did that she likes)"
There were times i actually felt bad. I would be praised for things that i didnt earn, they are just a benefit of having been born in the US.
But, i quickly stopped feeling bad when so many of the things she loved about me are things even the poorest filipino guy could have done for her.
She is a gorgeous, hard working woman, talented, intelligent, loyal, no kids, she is literally a dream come true. To think she had trouble finding a local man who would treat her like she deserves is INSANE.
We have so much in common and so much to love about each other, I am sure that we were meant to be together, but plenty of Filipino guys could have made it a lot harder for me to find her, so I have no sympathy when i hear a Filipino guy complain about foreigners taking their women.
No, we aren't stealing their women, we are appreciating them
You described me perfectly, Pea. I always did things a little differently than my peers. I joined the military when it wasn’t the cool thing to do in the early 70’s. I decided to go to the Philippines myself in the late 70’s, met and married a Filipina in the early 80’s. My actions have sigma written all over them, but I never heard the term sigma before describing my personality. Thanks for the information!
Great insight, we are rare but still there.
Pea, we could use people like you here in the West, always telling it like it is. I love it
I’m trying to get there! (2025?) 🤞
I’ve been married to a Philippina for over 7 years and lived with her since! I have another saying about arguing with idiots who will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience! I’m over six feet tall and 100 kilograms and have a Philippine driver license and an ACR in my wallet! The house is paid for as well as the new pickup truck and now we’re working on putting a plantation together after fencing in the property first! our house is actually a ranch with a very nice fence and we have two types of goats with turkeys chickens. I’m a retired veteran and love living there and have traveled with my wife to Singapore, Hong Kong,as well as Taiwan ! Never going back to American women ever!
Good evening Pea. My favorite day of the week. And my favorite time of the day, vitamin Pea time. Let's get this show on the road...
And a bronze medal (and maybe a shot of vitamin P) for Ron ❤️🥉👍
I thought I was Sigma by what you described but I took the test and it says I’m a Delta.
I don’t know but here in California, if you are Alpha you better be able to back it up.
I lived in Hawaii for 7 years and they straight will ask you.. “What cuz you like fight?” Or “You like lumps?”
I straight heard some one tell a guy “What, you like one lickens?
I’m Haolie and don’t have to many problems where I go.
Miss Pea, your video’s are great!
Keep up the good work.
I’ll say this for a man that has traveled the world to so many countries and 6 continents. For my experience there are no other women on the planet that are comparable to a Filipina. To me a Filipina have so many wonderful traits I could not list them all. Thanks for sharing so very interesting ✌🏾.
You nailed my character traits exactly!!!! I am a leader at work that leads hundreds of people. But at home and in my life, I’m a lone wolf.
A Sigma wouldnt want to be a leader of anything - they value their own Freedom first and see leadership as a burden - you are 180 degrees opposite of a Sigma.
Pea, our INFJ Ambassador, and Sigma Femme Fatale, melding East and West in the Philippines.
Thanks 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
Yes, the lone wolf, the sigma male, having failed 99 times but succeeded once, knowing what it means to survive rather than to thrive, having experienced failure enough to value success as it comes in life.
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Amen.
Well said 🤘🤘
OMG I love how you know and use the difference between "demand attention" and "command attention"
I never knew I was a sigma until this description! It makes a lot of sense now some of the things that have happened in my life. Thanks pea!
Often, what refines a man is what defines a man.
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Pea, I've never been to the Philippines & I'm not interested in getting into a philipino relationship. However, I've never moved in with my girlfriend, as I prefer at least 5 days a week by myself.
And just what do you do during those 5 mysterious days, hmmm? 😳🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea I am sure that SunRise wile never tell, But the Shadow knows, bwahahahah.
As soon as you said alpha and beta I knew exactly where this video was going. Pea is looking spectacular in this video. 🔥
Sigmas don't play well with others.
Ahhhh, another man familiar with the types! Are you a sigma too?
@@TheFilipinaPea, I try and stay away from labels because people change over time and circumstance.
I think a lot of people say sigma when in reality they are (conservative) repulsed by modern society and culture, thus keeping their distance (lone wolf).
You just described me to a tee. I had never heard of sigma before watching your video. Thanks for the insight. Keep up the great work. I hope to see your country in the near future.
I always knew you where a Sigma female from watching your videos on your typical daily home routine, the limit you put on your public interaction ect. I think your videos and your interviews with the public are a way to get out of your shell while trying to understand where people are coming from and why they think the way they do. It's a real gift being able to listen twice as much as you speak... that is why we where given two ears and one mouth.
Today I learned that I am a sigma. Never heard that before but it describes my personality perfectly.
Lucky man 👍👍🍀
I never knew Sigmas were a thing until today as well…Now it all makes sense 😊
@@TheFilipinaPeaI always learn from you Pea. You’re a wealth of useful information.
Your dress suits you perfectly. Unta tanan angayan😥
Thanks! I do love my blue ❤️👍
Hot miss@@TheFilipinaPea not just the color kundili tanan gyud swear🥰😻
her skin tone and blue go together like peanut butter and jelly.
Hi Pea,
I suspect that you are an INFJ. Am I right?
You would be correct, yes - good guess 👍😊
I have watched every video on your channel. As a result, I was able to ascertain and extrapolate your personality profile. You happen to belong to the most rare profile. I always knew you were a special person.😄👍👏❤️
I love how she opened this one up.
Yeah, labels are typically overrated.
But yeah, I do like the Alpha/Beta/Sigma comparisons.
I'm sure in the very near future many young men will come out as Sigmas.
Great video. I am a lifelong Sigma male, who currently is retired in thailand. I started coming to thailand and the philippines when I was twenty seven yrs old. I always knew I was different than other guys, but I only learned that I was a Sigma. Male about two or three years ago. My whole life makes sense now. Fm Kuka
I am a sigma male to my core. Sounds like the PH is for me
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I couldn’t wait to get the hell out of the US. My “friend” who had been inviting me to the Philippines for 6 years (and his family) ended up being sort of pieces of shit when I finally arrived. They didn’t help me learn how to do basic shit like learn the tricycle or know how much things were supposed to cost and then they decided they had some kind of issue with me and started treating me differently but wouldn’t tell me why. Their behavior and my friends lack of taking responsibility to stand up to his family and tell them they were being extremely rude destroyed my relationship with my friend after 6 years of planning to come. We had been in a business relationship for a long time and were interested in similar things and it was a shame that my first taste of Filipino culture was basically trauma related to people being unwilling to directly confront each other to problem solve. I decided that I didn’t need their literal negative Pinoy stereotype caricature asses and started traveling the PH alone and without any direction. It’s been a year and four months in the PH now and I feel a bit settled in here. I still see the same cultural bullshit that destroyed my business plan upon coming here and along with it, my relatinship with my long time friend. I see it every day. I hate a lot of shit about this culture honestly but I didn’t feel any differently in the US, or Mexico, or Canada, or Israel, or Puerto Rico, or Thailand.. and ultimately I still somehow like the Ph the best. I am just a misanthropic fuck who doesn’t really like any human society. We are really shit in every iteration.
Most Americans should never leave America, then the world would be a better place.
I am pleased to understand that you are a Sigma personality. That explains a lot of things. It is one of the reasons for the success of your channel. I am also a Sigma and have found it is not an advantage in the US. But it seems much more likely that my personality will fit in better in the Philippines. I agree with your assessment.
Wow, just want to thank you for this! I've never really cared about other people's "position" in social hierarchy since I could so very much care less about mine or what anyone thinks of me. Now I know there's a "name" for my spot as well as being aware that there are others like me in these traits. Haha As usual, I love your videos and they always brighten my day while giving me something new to think about! Keep up the GREAT WORK!
Good video Pea, love the waterfall in the back ground 😎👍💖
Spot on Pea with the sigma male desciption. Love your videos!
Hi Pea, I loved your video about the Sigma male. About four years ago I was on TH-cam and heard about the Sigma male. After hearing about the traits of a Sigma I thought I was one and after taking the test it confirmed that I guess I was one. I found your channel on TH-cam as I spend most of my TV time on the TH-cam channel, always investigating and trying to learn new things. A few months ago, I watched your video when you asked Filipinas if they would ever date an Atheist and was pleasantly surprised, as I have been an Atheist, since I was 22 years old and at that time, I thought you were at least Agnostic, though I don't think you should respond to that synopsis, as I understand the faith issue very well. I could go on, though wanted to mention that I am now 85 and decided to go to the Philippines and start a new life, as I keep telling myself the best part of my life is in the future. Why go to a place that is perhaps 90% Catholic, you may ask? The reason is that Catholicism like Judaism are a way of life, both non-confrontive, not like the evangelical movement in the world. I've started a few companies, written a book and have an invention to my name. One of the questions in the quiz way did I enjoy high school or hated it, which was my answer, barely made it out of high school. I don't know how you do it, utterly amazing.
Resident Sigma male, here. You pretty much nailed it all in this video.
I live by a code of ethics. Would rather other people have the spotlight, and I happen to be a shark at the poker table 🤣
There is also a strong polarity between our sense of masculinity versus the truly feminine women of the Philippines. It can almost be overwhelming.
However, I like taking risks, so the Philippines is probably where I will end up long-term (even if only half of the year is spent between there and the U.S. I'm OK with either scenario 😂)
Great video, Pea!
I had never heard of the Sigma until today, but now I know that I am one with one exception. I always think before speaking up. That is probably why I adjusted so well to the Philippines and have been with my Filipina wife for so long
Just curious, What’s the exception? 🙂
Long time watcher... you're spot on, as always. Great video!
Interesting. Liked the analysis.
Hey Pea. I never heard of Sigma before but after listening to you I thought that's what i was, for better or for worse. First i took the Myers-Briggs and resulted in enfj, I think (?)) then the other one and it said im Sigma.
I just wanted to throw some love your way by telling you what you already know, lol, your very intelligent and what i love the most about is your desire to spread truth and understanding and to do so in such creative ways with truly balanced insight. A rare girl indeed!
Great observation about labels being like horoscope signs.. I couldn't agree more.
Wow! This describes me to a tee. Never knew I was a sigma. Thank you for enlightening me.
Another BANGER Pea!!! I caught myself smiling a few times watching this. Not just because of its 100% complete accuracy but also because your breakdown & delivery were “surgical”. Only a Sigma understands enough to do that. Thank you for explaining how this translates in The Philippines. I’d fit right in.
Interesting, Pea. I've taken the Meyers-Briggs test, but so far back that I don't remember how I was categorized; and so removed from the designations you mentioned that I don't recall having heard about Sigmas. You got my gray matter swirling a bit, and it dawned on me that there's a group here in the Philippines that I haven't observed getting much attention online. It's an established family (specifically with school-age or younger children). I suspect though that many of those men have Sigma traits.
My experience here has shown me noticeable differences between these family-oriented males and the single expat, and the single expat with a Filipina partner without younger children. Priorities, attitudes, and use of time and resources can vary significantly.
It might be of interest to your viewers to gain an understanding of how their lives may be altered if and when they move here if they become more 'settled into family life.
Watch out for the boomerang fellas! 😂 While I worry I am too empathetic now, but I am allured by the MacGyver idea; I love fixing stuff! 📐🔨🪚🪛🔩 Love the Captains Log skit! I am happy to make an entry!
You are right madam - also the sigmas reluctance to get socially involved can prevent a lot of bad situations in PH. I am getting rather old to face the winters here at 7000 feet and may get a place in PH for 4 or 5 months a year. I love the Filipinos, they are genuine and open - lots of children running around , reminds me of 50's America.
You are exceptionally turned out for this video, stunning really - dining with royalty ?
Sounds like me. Always ploughed my own furrow and never taken too much notice of the crowd. Bit of a loner, but not a shy man and like to think outside the box which lead me to the Philippines in 1999 when I found my first wife. Now happily married to my second Filipina wife since 2011 and hope to retire to Philippines in a few years.
Great video Pea! Your description of the Sigma Male pretty much describes me to a "T". It will be interesting how this pans out when I get to the Philippines in 2025.
Gosh ,, I’m a sigma and alpha female can’t be pushed around but has a great heart . Pea you are incredibly talented and very pretty
Thanks for the education. I never realized I was a Sigma until watching your video.
Blue really is your color Pea! Looking sharp as always
My gosh, sigma male? I think you actually described exactly who I am, everything you said is exactly the way I do things, that's good to know I didn't know that before, thank you very much pea ❤
Another great show. Thank you. I have been studying human behavior for many years now . As a 61 year-old. I find that good things come with wisdom and patience. Out here in the Vegas rat race I observe everyone running around like crazy. I won’t let them pull me in to it. Smitty.
Wow! I’ve never thought of myself as a Sigma male but after watching you vlog I now realise that what you talked about and the character traits that you described, you perfectly described me!
I now know that I have been a Sigma male for most of my 67 years of life!
All of what you talked about rang a bell with me and after picking up my open jaw after it hit the floor, I realized it 😂.
Great video Pea and well explained 👍😊
Omg, I think you nailed it… knew I’m an introvert and have a cousin who is definitely an Alfa but i definitely don’t let him push me around or change my thinking
I really liked this video. I am 100% sigma male. Got yourself a new follower. Interesting facts. Thanks.
I'm INTJ and a sigma according to those tests. I've known for a long time that I'm INTJ, bit was today years old when I learned what a sigma was. I will say I never really felt quite like an alpha nor beta so that explains it. Thanks for another great video, Pea!
P.S. Less than a month now until I'm in Dumaguete myself. I can't wait.
My Precious Miss Pea :)
As always, you are spot on with this one as well !
Iv`e studied these traits for several years, and thus, after pesonal examination, I am a textbook sigma male.
After living here in Cebu City for almost 2 years now, I have assimilated into this paradise with grace and gratitude, and blessed that I have found a new home here :)