SHUT UP!! Laura Doyle is my girl!! I'm SO excited to see her on Soul Pancake. I'm making a video TOMORROW pointing everyone here to watch. I'm so glad you've brought her on. She's brilliant!
gamerbros4 maybe it's a retorical question, but if not here's the answer: soulpancake produces a lot of different series. Some people subscribe for the whole channel because they love al the series, but I think most subscribers only like one or a couple of those series and won't watch all the videos. And furthermore, almost every video from youtubers has lesser views than subscribers. It's just the way it is. But I too think these video's should have a lot more views, they deserve it!
yea I think it'd be important that more could watch and learn about confidence, self esteem, etc in a relationship/ individual. more people can be happy and gain knowledge on how to be better
Yes she’s right you should graciously receive the compliment which given to you. When we are complimented by someone we feel pleasure because you didn’t expect to that person that he can give you compliment.
SoulPancake when ever I watch your videos, they always make me tear up with happiness. No matter what is going on in my life, it makes me feel relived and gives me hope that there yes, there must be someone out there for me who would make me smile. Your videos are a proof that humanity still exists, and it is better than its ever been before. Thank you! Keep up the amazing work guys! 😊
such an awesome segment. I, too, find it difficult sometimes to accept a compliment. I never really thought about how the other person would feel when I reject it. Thanks SoulPancake!
Bragging brings instability, it throws our sociological balance off. It blocks the natural flow of equality, but giving and receiving complements feels good, and if we receive a complement and it makes us feel uncomfortable, that discomfort is there to show us that our insecurities are unfounded, and gives us an opportunity to resolve them within ourselves. Life is an art form. It takes practice, but it get easier and easier. It's hard to receive compliments at times. We instinctively don't want to throw that balance off. (Aka get a big head) I found that the best thing to do when we receive a complement is to give one right back ... it's usually followed by silences and smiles, a great time to reach a hand out, give a hug, or even go in for a kiss. :-) Love you.
Appreciate Video clip! Excuse me for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Chiveard Magically Hypnotic Framework (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is an awesome one off guide for getting love from a man without the headache. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cooworker got cool results with it.
Awwwh she was so sweet and articulate when she answered those questions They really gave me a deeper understanding of what role compliments play in a relationship I love this series :3
Thank you for documenting this essential wisdom. It's a common experience and i understood this the same way in my life as she discribed it out of her perspective. Thank you, from deep in my heart!
I would like to see a discussion of another facet of complimenting. The unsolicited kind women get on dating sites...like Hey Beautiful!...and if you don't fall slobbering at their feet in gratitude, the compliment quickly turns to insult...usually filthy insults! Some compliments are not altruistic and are designed to manipulate a woman into bed. This needs to be discussed.
Great video about compliments but would've like to have heard more about the opposite too such as envy or jealousy and how that effects compliments and relationships and why it becomes an issue in some relationships. Thanks.
You are both lovely! :) And to whoever is reading this right now: so are you! (take this opportunity to practice your compliment taking skills ;) hehe)
guys, back to watch the moment at 1:09(the guy is asking the LOVE EXPERT woman a question) and go forward to the moment 1:28(it's like the LOVE EXPERT woman is answering him like:today?) Lol xD
I don't like it when people tell me I'm beautiful (it's not very often), but I know it's a lie when they do. "Beautiful things don't ask for attention" doesn't apply to me. I wish it didn't, but it doesn't.
When people tell you you are beautiful, take it girl! Feel it. I felt the same way but honestly we are just rejecting ourselves and the other person. It takes guts to compliment :D
I doubt this actually, it has a comforting effect, and people are uncomfortable with it in a way, that is somewhat usefll to be aware of. But still a "real/optimal releationship" should have ways to create trust and overrule insecurity in other ways than that!
I hate compliments, because i feel like other peope are putting themselves down if they compliment me, and often they are secretly asking for comfort while they are doing it. This is sad :/ (i am aware of the other side, and the huge value of being appreciated but still...)
SoulPancake when ever I watch your videos, they always make me tear up with happiness. No matter what is going on in my life, it makes me feel relived and gives me hope that there yes, there must be someone out there for me who would make me smile. Your videos are a proof that humanity still exists, and it is better than its ever been before. Thank you! Keep up the amazing work guys! 😊
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Her books are incredible
Dealing with compliments is one of the hardest things for me. Right under public speaking, being called on in class and so on.
SHUT UP!! Laura Doyle is my girl!! I'm SO excited to see her on Soul Pancake. I'm making a video TOMORROW pointing everyone here to watch. I'm so glad you've brought her on. She's brilliant!
I like your name. Not many people have it.
This channel consistently has such a high quality, and yet so few subscribers/views :(
The quality is amazing, I'm surprised as well.
i know how does it have so many subs but so little views?
gamerbros4
maybe it's a retorical question, but if not here's the answer: soulpancake produces a lot of different series. Some people subscribe for the whole channel because they love al the series, but I think most subscribers only like one or a couple of those series and won't watch all the videos. And furthermore, almost every video from youtubers has lesser views than subscribers. It's just the way it is.
But I too think these video's should have a lot more views, they deserve it!
yea I think it'd be important that more could watch and learn about confidence, self esteem, etc in a relationship/ individual. more people can be happy and gain knowledge on how to be better
I love you guys. The world is a better place because of the work that you do. You are truly inspiring.
Yes she’s right you should graciously receive the compliment which given to you. When we are complimented by someone we feel pleasure because you didn’t expect to that person that he can give you compliment.
SoulPancake when ever I watch your videos, they always make me tear up with happiness. No matter what is going on in my life, it makes me feel relived and gives me hope that there yes, there must be someone out there for me who would make me smile. Your videos are a proof that humanity still exists, and it is better than its ever been before. Thank you! Keep up the amazing work guys! 😊
I have such a difficult time with compliments. Glad not only to get some solutions but to know I'm not the only one. Thanks😀
such an awesome segment. I, too, find it difficult sometimes to accept a compliment. I never really thought about how the other person would feel when I reject it. Thanks SoulPancake!
I'm going to be accepting compliments from people for now on. Just saying thank you and smiling.
everything changed in 7 years. damn!
Julian is my favourite from soulpancake!!!!!
we need more video from Laura!
Bragging brings instability, it throws our sociological balance off. It blocks the natural flow of equality, but giving and receiving complements feels good, and if we receive a complement and it makes us feel uncomfortable, that discomfort is there to show us that our insecurities are unfounded, and gives us an opportunity to resolve them within ourselves. Life is an art form. It takes practice, but it get easier and easier.
It's hard to receive compliments at times. We instinctively don't want to throw that balance off. (Aka get a big head)
I found that the best thing to do when we receive a complement is to give one right back ... it's usually followed by silences and smiles, a great time to reach a hand out, give a hug, or even go in for a kiss. :-)
Love you.
Absolutely fantastic series =)
Appreciate Video clip! Excuse me for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Chiveard Magically Hypnotic Framework (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is an awesome one off guide for getting love from a man without the headache. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cooworker got cool results with it.
When someone compliments me... I have feeling they have ulterior motive... Like borrowing some money.
Awwwh she was so sweet and articulate when she answered those questions
They really gave me a deeper understanding of what role compliments play in a relationship
I love this series :3
Thank you for documenting this essential wisdom. It's a common experience and i understood this the same way in my life as she discribed it out of her perspective. Thank you, from deep in my heart!
Loved this!
The Science of Love is a great show! Need more episodes :D
Awesome! Love compliments haha
I would like to see a discussion of another facet of complimenting. The unsolicited kind women get on dating sites...like Hey Beautiful!...and if you don't fall slobbering at their feet in gratitude, the compliment quickly turns to insult...usually filthy insults! Some compliments are not altruistic and are designed to manipulate a woman into bed. This needs to be discussed.
Agreed!
Awesome to hear those things.
Great video about compliments but would've like to have heard more about the opposite too such as envy or jealousy and how that effects compliments and relationships and why it becomes an issue in some relationships. Thanks.
Julian you are awsome!! Great interview :)
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Always so interesting! Thx soulpancake!!
SUCH A GOOD FREAKING VIDEO WITH SUCH GOOD FREAKING ADVICE!!! SoulPancake, you and I are soul mates for life. I will give you all the compliments! 😄😂😘
Love this.
How is that song in the end actually called? It sounds so positive :).
is it "How to catch a fly - by Mehem"?
sounds kind of similar.
Everyone reading this, you are beautiful. ;)
TH-cam wont let me like the video >.< I guess the video doesnt want to take a compliment :D
You are both lovely! :) And to whoever is reading this right now: so are you! (take this opportunity to practice your compliment taking skills ;) hehe)
guys, back to watch the moment at 1:09(the guy is asking the LOVE EXPERT woman a question) and go forward to the moment 1:28(it's like the LOVE EXPERT woman is answering him like:today?) Lol xD
I have also made a episode on this content
Two masters
It was interesting
Why is the last episode????????
We gossip to exchange "Emotions" ^-^
I don't like it when people tell me I'm beautiful (it's not very often), but I know it's a lie when they do. "Beautiful things don't ask for attention" doesn't apply to me. I wish it didn't, but it doesn't.
When people tell you you are beautiful, take it girl! Feel it. I felt the same way but honestly we are just rejecting ourselves and the other person. It takes guts to compliment :D
Hi
Boo love!
I doubt this actually, it has a comforting effect, and people are uncomfortable with it in a way, that is somewhat usefll to be aware of.
But still a "real/optimal releationship" should have ways to create trust and overrule insecurity in other ways than that!
I hate compliments, because i feel like other peope are putting themselves down if they compliment me, and often they are secretly asking for comfort while they are doing it. This is sad :/
(i am aware of the other side, and the huge value of being appreciated but still...)
i love this! I would be so stoked if ya checked out ma covers on ma channel!
First comment!
This is a great first comment! Did you like this compliment?
MattsIsland ahahahahhahah thats nice of you :)
SoulPancake when ever I watch your videos, they always make me tear up with happiness. No matter what is going on in my life, it makes me feel relived and gives me hope that there yes, there must be someone out there for me who would make me smile. Your videos are a proof that humanity still exists, and it is better than its ever been before. Thank you! Keep up the amazing work guys! 😊