Preach Adrienne you can see how much she has evolved, Israel has truly brought out the best version of her. Adrienne is more mature, she's acting again, she got her passion back for singing. Adrienne is just thriving in life, she's never been more confident. I can say the same for Jeannie and Loni you can see they are in healthy relationships, you just see the change to them and its been for the better.
I was in an abusive relationship and I became very angry, hot tempered and very aggressive as a way to show people I'll never be the victim again. I found someone who is slowly changing that narrative
Absolutely loved this…the realness these ladies give in every episode is the reason why I fell in love with this show.. I’m really going to miss them 😭
You cannot put someone's actions onto someone else. Hold yourself accountable to YOUR actions. If he's treating you poorly, stop putting up with it. Leave. People treat you the way you allow them to.
@@SunshineShortiee well that's not always the case like if you are dealing with a controlling possessive person you really think that person is going to let you walk out of their life
I must say: I’ve watched you ladies from the very beginning until now and the amount you have matured through it all…if the show has to end, I’m assured the most precious gift outside of the laughs, cries and everything in between is seeing your growth. It. Has. Been. Real. Thank you for lending us you for the past 8 seasons. Your journey in public has not been in vain. ❤️
People either contribute or contaminate your relationships; and by so doing show you who you are and what you need in order to feel positive and whole.
Again, why are they canceling this show???? The advice that these women bring are helping multiple generations of men and women!!!! We need to petition this and go against the network!!!!
They failed to upload the episodes on TH-cam. Not many people are home during the day to watch their show. They got low views as a result and now have to cancel the show. The producer of this show is terrible. They could have fixed this problem by uploading the full episodes on TH-cam
Loni is so RIGHT! and a woman does become the best version of herself when she is loved the right way. It helps you to grow and become a better person. Someone who is not adding weight as A said but giving wings so you can fly!😁❤
You can absolutely lose yourself in a relationship. It can break you’re entire sense of self and change you as a person. As for who’s fault? I think it takes 2 to tango. I wouldn’t say a woman’s behavior is a direct result of how her man is treating her, but I do think that’s the case in some situations. In others (as Jeannie mentioned), the woman is just acting a fool and the man isn’t involved. Overall, each individual in the relationship must take inventory of their part and take responsibility. Sometimes in relationships we have hidden expectations and agendas that we either hide from ourselves or don’t care to pay attention to. As Loni says, this is where we can be our own demise because we don’t know what we want and expect someone else to know and give it to us then get angry when our mind wasn’t read properly. Either way, in relationships… it is often not just a one sided problem. Usually, both parties contribute to the issue.
Preeeeech Garcelle 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I loved this convo so much and liked it for if I need to come back to it. Always be and know who you are in a relationship and take a step back if you start acting like someone you're not because of someone else.
"Your actions will tell me how much you respect our relationship." If I'm not getting what I need, I'm out. Don't settle or change yourself. That's how you block your blessings. Have faith things will happen when they're meant to 🙏🏼
I actually kinda agree with this. My wife was in a toxic relationship before me with a person I have learned is super narcissistic. The way they fought and even got physical. Because I treat her better and differently and bring her peace....we never argue and yell at each other first of all abd from what her friends and family say they have never seen her like this. I think a woman is a reflection of how she is being treated. Take Jeannie Mai for example as well. Different women with Freddie. Better woman with Jeezy. Super different in the opposite way
I believe it too. A good relationship does not dim your light. A good relationship is NOT struggle love. Granted, every relationship needs to be nurtured. Be it child and parent. But there is a BIG difference between struggle love and working on your relationship. #DoesItGiveyouWeightorWings????
You want to say we wont ever have these talks again??😭 These ladies have been like my older sisters who are wiser and genuine with you. I remember their words when dealing with situations and get so much knowledge on how to handle situations that I have not faced yet. They are funny, kinky, motivational, entertaining, smart, and everything above. Plus, they are younger than maaaany hosts of other shows so cancelling this show was the worst possible idea since they still have so much to offer. A PETITION SHOULD BE SIGNED!!
I’m an expert on this subject lol. No hate please just being honest. I am in a very toxic relationship. My husband and I just had a fight about this this weekend. When we first got married I was so nice and always did things for him and put his needs above my own and what did I get for it? Just a whole lotta tears. He has never been unfaithful, as far as I know, and never been physically abusive but man when he is upset he knows where to poke until I cry. After years I got tired and I would still cry but I would fight back, but of course words don’t hurt them like they hurt us. We are fine most of the time. This weekend I got all dolled up and I asked him “how do i look” and he just gives me a look and keeps on walking and this is usually his answer. We were going to get tacos and when we got there I asked him to go order and I would stay with the kids so they could eat their happy meals and he said “let’s just go home then.” I snapped. I told him how I felt like he just wants me to do everything for him but he won’t do anything for me and that he would rather drive all the way back home and blame me instead of getting in line and ordering and how this is how he is about everything. I may or may not have yelled it at him but I just hit my breaking point. This man had the nerve to look at me and say “ you see, this is why I don’t do anything for you or answer you when you ask me how you look. Because eventually you do stupid things like this.” He said he is the way he is because of how I am. I’m the kind of person that when I’m wrong I will say I’m wrong but I became this because of how he treated me and I was patient with him for so many years before I started standing up for myself. So yes, I agree that if I “act crazy” it’s definitely because of his behavior. I know I need to learn to not let him get to me and that’s on me. But that’s just straight up gaslighting. It feels so good to get that off my chest lol.
@@desjennings1325 thanks 😊 there is no one in my life I feel comfortable being this honest with so it’s definitely a weight lifted. And like I said I am really fine. It’s mostly just annoying and I feel like I have 3rd child lol
@@fakeaccount704 yea he is a good dad at least. I would leave if it weren’t for the kids. But I have suggested therapy to him for years and he said no one is ever gonna tell him how to change. He said he will change when he wants to which he does for months sometimes but then some trivial thing will set him back again.
@@lidiapacheco8046 take a vacation just the two of you, even if it’s for a day. Tell him how you feel and what he can do to make you feel better and ask him how he feel and listen to what he says. Don’t give up yet.
Love is not self seeking, love doesn’t envy, love is kind, it’s patient. Anybody that causes you to self doubt or dim your light is acting out of selfishness not love
The ultimate love is self love. If you are not in relationship with someone else, be in a relationship with yourself (pray, read, selfcare, girltrip, cook, travel, go back to school, workout, plant a garden, serve people, bless yourself & others) 🌹
I luv you ladies great conversation This is a real thing some women don’t like to admit it but it happens especially when u don’t no yourself or luv yourself it’s very easy to take on someone else perception of you
My husband keeps doing things that look like cheating. Saying he's doing overtime but find out he went to a hotel. I have found pregnancy receipts that were not for me. Missing condoms and heard phone conversations with a seductive tone and when confronted immediately hung up the phone, when I i offered to speak to the person on the other side of it. Now I never caught him in the act but im sick of it. So my reaction is to be guarded towards him. And any wifely duties are done as a mandatory act rather than out of love. He keeps telling me I'm not acting like a wife. After all the things he has done. I cannot give myself to him lovingly. So I understand when Jeannie says reactions can be based on how the person treats you
I remember whe n I was in a relationship with my children father,I was always worrying what is he going yo say,or I wear something he was like ur my partner now ur not suppose to wear clothes like that,naturally I'm an introvert I hate confrontations,I hate arguments,so I stayed quite,I think also the lack of communication between us led to so many things,I wasn't happy and peaceful I think he wasn't too,so I left ,4 years later I'm single and happy.I concentrate on my two kids
I’ve been watching this show from wat back when. My observation is Jeanie Mai has been showing up differently since she had a baby. She doesn’t participate as you used to. She doesn’t look like she wants to be on the show…looks a bit sad sometimes. I hope I’m wrong and that she’s fine
I don’t think it’s always that. Some women are just psycho and treating a man bad because of her past. But yes, some men are horrible to their woman. So, yes it’s both but not always the man’s behavior.
i would say yes how a person acts can affect your behavior because say you live with someone that is lazy and your the one doing everything by yourself that's going to effect your mood
@3:35 I can more than imagine ‘the weight’ of being the wife, having to deal with your husband fooling around with an ex or a next. While you quietly move on, and carry on about your life, allowing their spotlight to seem as it may….
Would a man’s bad behavior be a reflection of how his wife/girlfriend treats him?! No not always! As Jeannie said, some people just have issues that they act out now matter how well you treat them!
No ... There's no integrity if you get to be moved by the external environments of other people... You own your own lane... You are responsible for your actions...
Never complain about a man’s podcast talking about how manipulative women can be .. especially since all y’all do is bash men on here and act like women do no wrong
So basically if the woman acts out it's the man's fault, and if the man acts out it's the man's fault. I just summarized eight seasons of this show. You're welcome.
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“If it cost you your peace, it's over priced.” 👏🏽👏🏽
LOVED that
That line hit hard
That was a WORD!
💯
Oooo I love that saying!!!!
Preach Adrienne you can see how much she has evolved, Israel has truly brought out the best version of her. Adrienne is more mature, she's acting again, she got her passion back for singing. Adrienne is just thriving in life, she's never been more confident. I can say the same for Jeannie and Loni you can see they are in healthy relationships, you just see the change to them and its been for the better.
LOVE what Garcelle said about not wanting to change her essence 🙏🏽 a word!
“Do they add weight or do they give you wings?” I love that! ❤️
adrienne’s growth is so pleasing to me.
"If it costs you your peace, it's overpriced."
I was in an abusive relationship and I became very angry, hot tempered and very aggressive as a way to show people I'll never be the victim again. I found someone who is slowly changing that narrative
Hugs my friend… ❤️🔥
sadly I can relate. I cried when I realized I was turning into the same person that had hurt me.
Absolutely loved this…the realness these ladies give in every episode is the reason why I fell in love with this show.. I’m really going to miss them 😭
Ditto 💕😭
Even though this show is ending. It truly feels like I’m watching these women grow so beautifully from where they started! I love this♥️♥️
It’s been a beautiful journey so far ❤️❤️❤️
There isn’t another show that is like this or similar. I’ma miss these ladies 🥹🥹
Adrienne, you made me cry with what you said in this one… so true! I am going to miss this show so much :(
Adrienne speaking facts 💯
Adrienne voice is and has always been good 💯
You cannot put someone's actions onto someone else. Hold yourself accountable to YOUR actions. If he's treating you poorly, stop putting up with it. Leave. People treat you the way you allow them to.
They don’t won’t to leave because many are just desperate for companionship.
Sadly, That's still their choice.
@@SunshineShortiee well that's not always the case like if you are dealing with a controlling possessive person you really think that person is going to let you walk out of their life
@@jeremy19175 notice how I used the word “many” so apparently it isn’t always the case.
Beautifully well said
“If it costs you your peace, it’s overpriced” A WORD!
3:58... I love Loni's look at Adrienne
I must say: I’ve watched you ladies from the very beginning until now and the amount you have matured through it all…if the show has to end, I’m assured the most precious gift outside of the laughs, cries and everything in between is seeing your growth. It. Has. Been. Real. Thank you for lending us you for the past 8 seasons. Your journey in public has not been in vain. ❤️
Jeannie always got them little gem one liners!
If it costs you your peace, it's overpriced🙌🙌That's deep!
Adrienne is right, relationship should give you that piece of mind, support you and encourage you.. if it isn't that, I don't want it
Adrienne has become a woman of such wisdom knowing she is the youngest. The ladies are dope
People either contribute or contaminate your relationships; and by so doing show you who you are and what you need in order to feel positive and whole.
Again, why are they canceling this show???? The advice that these women bring are helping multiple generations of men and women!!!! We need to petition this and go against the network!!!!
They failed to upload the episodes on TH-cam. Not many people are home during the day to watch their show. They got low views as a result and now have to cancel the show. The producer of this show is terrible. They could have fixed this problem by uploading the full episodes on TH-cam
Yeeeessss
Loni is so RIGHT! and a woman does become the best version of herself when she is loved the right way. It helps you to grow and become a better person. Someone who is not adding weight as A said but giving wings so you can fly!😁❤
Went up and hugged the TV at the end, lol. I'm gonna miss you guys so so much!
Garcelle... I feel you.
Garcelle is right. It completely changed me into being bitter, not trusting, and guarded.
It's best just to leave.
The real has been the realest for 8 plus seasons from laughter tears deep conversations and homage to boss women. Going to miss you ladies 🤍🤍
I love Adrienne, but everytime she speaks, I just makes me want to fight her ex.
I'm gonna miss this show so freaking much. Such great advice in this clip 😭
yesss Garcelle! "Can’t Change the essence in my spirit"
loved this discussion 👏 👌 ❤️ 🙌
Dang Lenny really was a bad bf to Adrienne 😂
You can absolutely lose yourself in a relationship. It can break you’re entire sense of self and change you as a person. As for who’s fault? I think it takes 2 to tango. I wouldn’t say a woman’s behavior is a direct result of how her man is treating her, but I do think that’s the case in some situations. In others (as Jeannie mentioned), the woman is just acting a fool and the man isn’t involved.
Overall, each individual in the relationship must take inventory of their part and take responsibility. Sometimes in relationships we have hidden expectations and agendas that we either hide from ourselves or don’t care to pay attention to. As Loni says, this is where we can be our own demise because we don’t know what we want and expect someone else to know and give it to us then get angry when our mind wasn’t read properly.
Either way, in relationships… it is often not just a one sided problem. Usually, both parties contribute to the issue.
Agreed 💯
communication 💯
I agree with your comment
Preeeeech Garcelle 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I loved this convo so much and liked it for if I need to come back to it. Always be and know who you are in a relationship and take a step back if you start acting like someone you're not because of someone else.
"Your actions will tell me how much you respect our relationship." If I'm not getting what I need, I'm out. Don't settle or change yourself. That's how you block your blessings. Have faith things will happen when they're meant to 🙏🏼
Damn this show shouldn’t be ending 😞
I actually kinda agree with this. My wife was in a toxic relationship before me with a person I have learned is super narcissistic. The way they fought and even got physical.
Because I treat her better and differently and bring her peace....we never argue and yell at each other first of all abd from what her friends and family say they have never seen her like this.
I think a woman is a reflection of how she is being treated.
Take Jeannie Mai for example as well.
Different women with Freddie.
Better woman with Jeezy. Super different in the opposite way
I believe it too. A good relationship does not dim your light. A good relationship is NOT struggle love. Granted, every relationship needs to be nurtured. Be it child and parent. But there is a BIG difference between struggle love and working on your relationship. #DoesItGiveyouWeightorWings????
I’m gonna miss them referencing blog posts/articles that they didn’t find themselves 😂
You want to say we wont ever have these talks again??😭 These ladies have been like my older sisters who are wiser and genuine with you. I remember their words when dealing with situations and get so much knowledge on how to handle situations that I have not faced yet. They are funny, kinky, motivational, entertaining, smart, and everything above. Plus, they are younger than maaaany hosts of other shows so cancelling this show was the worst possible idea since they still have so much to offer. A PETITION SHOULD BE SIGNED!!
I’m an expert on this subject lol. No hate please just being honest. I am in a very toxic relationship. My husband and I just had a fight about this this weekend.
When we first got married I was so nice and always did things for him and put his needs above my own and what did I get for it? Just a whole lotta tears. He has never been unfaithful, as far as I know, and never been physically abusive but man when he is upset he knows where to poke until I cry. After years I got tired and I would still cry but I would fight back, but of course words don’t hurt them like they hurt us.
We are fine most of the time. This weekend I got all dolled up and I asked him “how do i look” and he just gives me a look and keeps on walking and this is usually his answer. We were going to get tacos and when we got there I asked him to go order and I would stay with the kids so they could eat their happy meals and he said “let’s just go home then.” I snapped. I told him how I felt like he just wants me to do everything for him but he won’t do anything for me and that he would rather drive all the way back home and blame me instead of getting in line and ordering and how this is how he is about everything. I may or may not have yelled it at him but I just hit my breaking point. This man had the nerve to look at me and say “ you see, this is why I don’t do anything for you or answer you when you ask me how you look. Because eventually you do stupid things like this.” He said he is the way he is because of how I am. I’m the kind of person that when I’m wrong I will say I’m wrong but I became this because of how he treated me and I was patient with him for so many years before I started standing up for myself. So yes, I agree that if I “act crazy” it’s definitely because of his behavior. I know I need to learn to not let him get to me and that’s on me. But that’s just straight up gaslighting. It feels so good to get that off my chest lol.
Proud of you for getting that out 🙏🏾
@@desjennings1325 thanks 😊 there is no one in my life I feel comfortable being this honest with so it’s definitely a weight lifted. And like I said I am really fine. It’s mostly just annoying and I feel like I have 3rd child lol
It sounds like narcissism. Shifting blame, picking fights, ignoring, Watch Dr. Ramani and you will be enlightened.
@@fakeaccount704 yea he is a good dad at least. I would leave if it weren’t for the kids. But I have suggested therapy to him for years and he said no one is ever gonna tell him how to change. He said he will change when he wants to which he does for months sometimes but then some trivial thing will set him back again.
@@lidiapacheco8046 take a vacation just the two of you, even if it’s for a day. Tell him how you feel and what he can do to make you feel better and ask him how he feel and listen to what he says. Don’t give up yet.
Love is not self seeking, love doesn’t envy, love is kind, it’s patient. Anybody that causes you to self doubt or dim your light is acting out of selfishness not love
Being treated right by your partner is a blessing.
I’m grateful to my amazing husband who loves and respect ✊ me
Most importantly he respects himself.
Adrienne NAILED IT !!!!
I love this whole clip and loni’s outfit is so cute!
Saving this episode for a rainy day!
Amen, Adrienne!!!! Yes, Jeannie Mai!!!! Someday I might do a storytime on the Tale of the Two C's. I feel you, A.
preach Adrienne 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 dropping dat weight is the best feeling
The ultimate love is self love. If you are not in relationship with someone else, be in a relationship with yourself (pray, read, selfcare, girltrip, cook, travel, go back to school, workout, plant a garden, serve people, bless yourself & others) 🌹
That is so beautiful you are all ladies on point ❤️🙌🙏🏼
Preaching!
Love me some Jeanine wise words ❤ so fascinating and dope 👌
I luv you ladies great conversation This is a real thing some women don’t like to admit it but it happens especially when u don’t no yourself or luv yourself it’s very easy to take on someone else perception of you
A man should give you wings not weight! I use to think not trusting your spouse was normal. Not anymore ❤️
Gonna miss this crew 😓
My husband keeps doing things that look like cheating. Saying he's doing overtime but find out he went to a hotel. I have found pregnancy receipts that were not for me. Missing condoms and heard phone conversations with a seductive tone and when confronted immediately hung up the phone, when I i offered to speak to the person on the other side of it. Now I never caught him in the act but im sick of it. So my reaction is to be guarded towards him. And any wifely duties are done as a mandatory act rather than out of love. He keeps telling me I'm not acting like a wife. After all the things he has done. I cannot give myself to him lovingly. So I understand when Jeannie says reactions can be based on how the person treats you
I’m going to cry this show is so incredible plz make a podcast or something plzzzzzzzz
These girls are soooo good! I’m going to miss them together talking like this. 🥹
This was so good had to watch it twice👌🏾
I remember whe n I was in a relationship with my children father,I was always worrying what is he going yo say,or I wear something he was like ur my partner now ur not suppose to wear clothes like that,naturally I'm an introvert I hate confrontations,I hate arguments,so I stayed quite,I think also the lack of communication between us led to so many things,I wasn't happy and peaceful I think he wasn't too,so I left ,4 years later I'm single and happy.I concentrate on my two kids
I’m seriously gonna miss this show
Ouhhh I loved this topic and their input
I’ve been watching this show from wat back when.
My observation is Jeanie Mai has been showing up differently since she had a baby. She doesn’t participate as you used to. She doesn’t look like she wants to be on the show…looks a bit sad sometimes. I hope I’m wrong and that she’s fine
@1:07 Yes! I love Loni Love!
Such a good big sister!
❤ YES
Amen Jeannie Amen!!!
Some people are just A-holes and even if their partner is treating them well, they will still exhibit problematic behavior.
I’m going to miss this show so much 😢❤
I don’t think it’s always that. Some women are just psycho and treating a man bad because of her past. But yes, some men are horrible to their woman. So, yes it’s both but not always the man’s behavior.
Agreed
Jeannie keeps deflecting as usual and never answers the question 👏👏👏
i would say yes how a person acts can affect your behavior because say you live with someone that is lazy and your the one doing everything by yourself that's going to effect your mood
@3:35 I can more than imagine ‘the weight’ of being the wife, having to deal with your husband fooling around with an ex or a next. While you quietly move on, and carry on about your life, allowing their spotlight to seem as it may….
Would a man’s bad behavior be a reflection of how his wife/girlfriend treats him?! No not always! As Jeannie said, some people just have issues that they act out now matter how well you treat them!
No ... There's no integrity if you get to be moved by the external environments of other people... You own your own lane... You are responsible for your actions...
Omg garcelle was meeee 🤦
I love Adrienne!❤
Where is Adrienne’s blazer from
Phew good one
Jeannie is giving off apathy towards women who have been in those insecure seasons. She’s not above those women despite her persona.
This is NOT true in my life’s experience. Enough said.
💜💜💜💜
Never complain about a man’s podcast talking about how manipulative women can be .. especially since all y’all do is bash men on here and act like women do no wrong
Yes if it costs me my peace. It’s to expensive. I can’t afford that #deuces
Loni💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
First here!!
Love this!! I needed to hear this. Thanks ladies
Hey
But why blame the man. Y’all always blame men for y’all behavior
I’m so glad this show is leaving
So basically if the woman acts out it's the man's fault, and if the man acts out it's the man's fault. I just summarized eight seasons of this show. You're welcome.
You misunderstood sir.
lol so good
No, it can go both ways. But since this was GIRL CHAT, the ladies were sharing THEIR STORIES.
Lol
Women NEVER take accountability for their actions 🙊
I’m going to miss you @therealdaytime
I needed to hear this!!!! 👏🏾🥹
I just love these girls. 😫😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖