Both Jeannie and Adrienne are perfect examples of, “who you are with, matters.” Jeannie before didnt want kids, but had all the makings to be a GREAT mother. Adrienne in past episodes, literally said she didn’t like holding hands or displaying PDA. Its amazing to see that with the right partners, they are allowed to be their true selves. Its like seeing a beautiful exotic bird in its natural habitat. Just being its authentic self 🤍
The best relationship Is when you feel at ease, and comfortable, and grow into an even better version of yourself. You can still feel like “you” and maintain your identity.
Something that I notice that makes me think, ugh red flag, is when someone ALWAYS talks about their partner and they really put that partner on a pedestal. Don't get me wrong it's lovely to be in love but you should be equal and still have your own identity. Some people actually become quite draining to be around when they're in a relationship because that's literally all they talk about. I agree with Adrienne 100%, the greatest relationships are the ones where you become more yourself than you've ever been before. I'm learning that quite recently.
Loni is on point with the Megan Good bit. Absolutely accurate. It’s always and I mean always better to maintain your sense of self in any relationship you’re in...that goes for friendship, familial relationships and even work relationships. Never ever lose yourself trying to please others, chances are they’re not worth it, not worth your time and not worth your energy. It goes hand in hand with putting yourself and needs first, knowing what you want and speaking up for yourself every single time.
First of all with the Meagan thing when it comes to Christianity. If they are learning and growing in their relationship with God of course then you won't lose your identity. It will be more like becoming like Christ not one person losing their identity to the other person. The bible says "The two become one flesh!" They come together to grow in God individually, then together to be one with God. Not the world's way of doing things but God's way of doing things. I believe Meagan didn't understand that and was still too caught up in the world's way because there is no need to be sexy for God. That is for your husband alone. Who needs to dress provocatively in church! Then all the attention goes to you and not on God(the sermon)and you become a distraction. There is a time and place for everything!
@@dianemccray718 you’re very right tbh. But I guess people are too carnal to understand that. I believe you can channel your “sexuality” differently. You can be modest but still have a sexy “aura” to you if that makes any sense? But yeah it’s just not appropriate for Christian women to be dressing explicitly then saying “it’s my personality” etc. if your “personality” is against God’s word then it has to change. It’s not about “losing yourself” because our identity is in Christ really anyways lol. I think we should be changing for the better tbh.
I lost my identity when I was in a bad relationship but I regained it back in a positive way and continue new chapters in my multi talented career!!!!!!!!!!!
Been there done that. It’s called people pleasing. When you’re raised to believe that your opinions and likes and interests don’t matter this is a recipe for disaster as an adult. It took a lot of self work to get out of the habit. And now I have a partner who encourages me to have a life outside of him. I told him my struggles and he looks out for signs and tells me when he sees them so I can course correct. I also catch it through therapy. It’s a whole lot of work but it’s worth it. You gotta be happy with yourself at the end of the day.
I believe the "right" person for you can definitely "bring you back" if you have been in a dark place. And in some relationships you can definitely lose yourself. Never lose yourself for sake of others!
This only happens to people who are insecure. It’s exactly what Loni said. The other person molds into whatever their partner wants them to be because they are afraid to lose their partner’s love. It’s very toxic.
Yea I had a friend that was seeing a guy that drove a motorcycle then all of a sudden she got her motorcycle license. Then the next guy she was suddenly into buying a home that was in his area 🤦🏾♀️
It definitely happens when you are insecure. When you don’t have your own hobbies beliefs and goals you will loose yourself very quickly. Being with your partner everyday is great but missing that person and reuniting is the best! Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
I’m not going to lie but Adrienne in season 4 WHEN she met Israel was totally the girl who tried to fit into his world. I feel like especially these past 2 seasons is when she’s started getting her own identity back.
Jesus loves you guys! He died on the cross for our sins and rose again from the dead on the 3rd day, repent, accept and believe that He is your Lord and savior. Have salvation today and forever ❤️❤️❤️
I have lost so many friends to men lol I had a best friend who literally told me she couldn't see me anymore because she doesn't want to take away time she could be spending with her man lol I was like bye felicia I've had a solid relationship with my husband for 12 years and although at the start we did live in each others pockets we eventually stopped and developed a healthy dynamic where we do things separately
I lost a friend to a lesbian relationship, everybody that was good she wanted them out. She turned her out. 25 years down the drain with this masculine woman
Looking back at my past relationships, I not only lost myself but literally turned into someone I did not recognize. I'm talking about 100+ lb weight gain to include health, mental and emotional issues when I dated the wrong ppl. As soon as I got rid of them that is when I began to thrive in ALL areas of my life. I lost the weight and now in the best shape of my life, I'm pursuing my passion of writing, and have excelled in my career. I used to want to stay in my house hidden from the world, but now I'm making travel plans (Japan, S. Korea, Italy, etc.) and shopping 🛍 all the time 😄 I learned that the person that is truly meant for you will not dim your light, but help it shine brighter as with Adrienne & Jeannie's situations. If you're questioning who you are in a relationship, then you should reevaluate that relationship.
@@highlyfavoredMG Thank you! Believe it or not, half the battle of weight loss is all mental. So, if you're with someone that is not helping your psyche, then your health in some ways is bound to suffer. I had to get my mind right, did A LOT of research involving weight loss & nutrition and settled on vsg when I was 330+ lbs 😳 It's not for everyone hon, but it was what worked for me 😊
Unfortunately, this is me. I was 20 and he was 31, and been together ever since. We got married and I’m now 33. I can admit that I changed myself, how I dress, going out with friends, where I should go, etc. He needs to know EVERY detail, going out with friends became a thing of the past, unless it’s a couple thing. I love him but it is exhausting, I gave ALL my 20s and if I can go back I would change all of it…any young girl reading this, don’t let a man trap you and change everything about you.There’s so much more out there besides being in a relationship in your teens and early 20s, love yourself first, wish I would’ve listened to many older women who saw the red flags day 1 !
Amen!! Don’t let a man trap you. I wish I could sing these sweet words into every 18 year old girls ears. Help them understand their worth. Looking back, I don’t know what it would’ve taken for me to understand the words “never loose yourself for someone else” but my biggest wish is that I took those words to heart and protected myself. Not everyone out there is for you and people can be true scum. Love yourself first 💛💛💛
Telling people that they are ALWAYS going to be themselves and act, think the same as they used to while still being married is not wise. You have to evolve according to the circonstances, adapt. You can't act a certain way when you are a teacher, married to a politician or a religious figure. I'm sorry but this freedom freedom all the time everywhere is not possible in real life
From what I saw Megan stayed the same after marrying. Her husband seemed supportive and stood up for her when people tried to come for how she dressed or roles she took. Never got the feel she lost her identity. More like they grew apart and just were not on the same page anymore. Very amicable.
But you do change for your partner as their particular qualities allow you to bloom and evolve as a person. Losing yourself stems from insecurity, incoonsistency and feeling inadequate
Always be yourself! If your partner or even your friends and family for that matter, have a problem with you and you’re not doing bad things or being a total ahole, then they can step off and let you be free to be yourself with people that appreciate and love you for who you are. My husband hates musicals, and we go watch one twice a year because he knows I love them and he endures it for me. I also go watch UFC with him, because he enjoys it so much and so I watch the fights with him also, even if it’s a little cringy. No one should have to change themselves for anyone!
Dear Real Daytime producers and Key persons, Please reconsider this being the last season. There is and will be no other show that balanced important topics, current events, but relevant and trendy discussion. The other similar shows on competing broadcasting appeal to a specific demographic of older, non- diverse groupings. If this show leaves,the younger, hipper, sophisticated demographic are lost and have no place to go. Those competing shows honestly do not give the uniqueness and diversity that The Real Daytime provides . I'm sure many agree with this post for various reasons and want to continue having a safe space in The Real ! Please think deeply on this one .... Blessings!
I have been there and done that. Four years without having any toxic crap from both personal and family issues feels so good. Now, I am loving my singlehood and staying reserved for "the real, true one."
No one in the world can know the truth about relationship between man and woman only great god almighty no one can know what is the heart the only little I can say if you two are fortunate to love one another or the woman love you more than you then you appreciate her the only way out because if you loves her more and don’t love you in return what a problem
Not for nothing.. I love when people can be who they are without apology even if they are or not in a relationship. I think women have quite of bit of pressure to be super strong support their family and be flawless while doing it. Sometimes things are not always peachy and it does not lessen worth and esteem. Women are not define by society's standards, rather know their worth even when not at their best
I am not going to miss Adrianene, like girl you know what Loni is saying about Megan Good is true!! Now because she is your friend and directed your husband’s video you can speak the truth about her!! That girl was living a lie and being someone she is not while married to that man. A blind dog could have seen that??!! How can’t you!! And Loni is right, Megan just posted the other day about being herself and being free!!!
I am sorry but unless you truly understand Christianity and God. True freedom comes from God not the world, people and their way of doing things. You grow and develope to learn it is about Christ not you! So if what you are doing makes it more about you than God then you don't understand! You have to decide did you come to Jesus for him or you. Who did you come to serve, God, yourself or the world(Man)! Because in God you and your husband become one flesh not anybody losing their identity!
But,Honestly you can’t expect Adrienne to speak on that. She did what a friend was suppose to do and her job. Unless you’re messy you don’t tell your friends personal business on tv.And that was a bad example to me. He’s a Pastor she knew that going in and there is a certain way you do have to present yourself as a Pastor wife. She obviously wanted to change there is a difference.
Sometimes people want you to stay the same because the old you benefits them. The "new you" as some would say benefits the marriage because you're molding into one. And some people are actually maturing. And there are a lot of people that are just not going to understand it.
I think Loni is off with Devon and Meagan. No one can make you change but we can choose to change. He always seemed like he supported her. Secondly, he isn't a pastor of a church, he a minister who travels and speaks. Lastly, I don't know however, I think they split because she decided she didn't want children and he did.
The problem is sometime u don't know that ur loosing ur self,and sadly u can have people who are close to u telling u the truth but u don't hear them because ur so in love with that person,it takes time to realize that ur not ur self anymore u live in someone else shadow,trust me it took me years to know I was not myself anymore,I was always uneasy when he came home,I was always finding a way to please him until I left.being in love is beautiful,but also love yourself.and I love love.
A partner can definitely have an impact on one in such a way where you lose your identity. But if it's not in a healthy way then no.....Your partner could force you to actually evaluate who you are and become a better person. If it's in a controlling way then nahh....
My second husband and last before, I didn’t go out as much because I always been a homebody but with this marriage I go out more because my husband takes me out to eat I just went out with my girlfriend to Universal se on time,. This Christmas we are going to a somewhere in down in Florida. I never did this with my first marriage, I was lost. After, 5 years of separation from my kids father and first marriage I was my old self again and started dating I got skinner beautiful, my curves back, clip extensions. My second marriage I dress sexy, now I wear wigs not all of the time because I need to let my hair breath. I have good texture of hair not to sound superficial but I have hair that I can manage but it’s thick too. But, this weather in Florida gets hot so I have my hair short. Yes don’t loose yourself be your authentic self.
that's my dad because after he got married to my Sept mom we didn't know our own dad anymore because of her she made him into someone we don't know he is having fun with anybody he does everything that she says. She is a not a good person at all.
Wanted to present this to a person but. Decided not. Maybe it’s my phone speakers but some of these ladies voices are so harsh it scared me. Not to hurt just as a suggestion Thank you
Hmmm idk about the Megan Good marriage. She might have felt stifled . Yes but how long was she going to be a Hollywood sex symbol anyways? She said she was sick of being typecast. She knew who she was with, she knew he was in the church and she was starting her Christian journey too. I just don’t think that this sexy dressing and wanting attention will last long. she’s freshly out of the cage so to speak but that will get old fast. I think their marriage ended for something deeper. Adrienne adjusted quite well to being a bit more conservative and I don’t think she regrets it or feels super stifled , sometimes you gotta grow up . Be sexy with your man
Man I hate to say it, but for some reason I’m not fully convinced Jeannie and Jeezy are right for each other. I’m not sure but I think Jeannie is changing a lot for him. I remember she said a while back that she wanted to give authority to her man or something like that. Also, her wanting a baby after all this time. Plus in the video, she seems quiet and I even noticed her cringe, after repeating the comment of not having a social life. I’m not sure if I’m the only one seeing this. I want them to a great couple for each other, but I am not sure if that is the case. Loni and James and Adrienne and Israel do seem right for each other! They talk about their partner in a genuine way. Jeannie, I’m not sure if it’s genuine or not. I feel like in the past she would try to make herself believe she was with The One and I’m afraid she might be doing this again. Again! I hope them the best. Hope my speculation is wrong. There is obviously a lot I don’t know about their relationship. So, I could be off.
Disagree, Jeannie is the happiest she has ever been and its not because she molded herself to be someone she is not. A person can change their minds about wanting kids, no one forced that on her.
I think she’s navigating her new role as a mother. It’s hard for women who are hyper independent to switch roles into loving a tiny human so much that your wants and needs go on the back burner. She’ll figure it out.
@Mandy S Well only Jeannie knows if she is the happiest she has ever been. Since it’s her life and her relationship. I was just stating my doubts, but it’s none of my business. I do hope she is the happiest is has ever been. I do agree anyone can change their mind about anything later in life. For sure. I am sure she will do her best to raise her child. That is undeniable that she loves her child.
After watching the video again. I think what feels off to me is Jeannie behavior while talking about her relationship, she just seems uncomfortable. While she talks about Adrienne she seem more comfortable. Also, she does agree that she changed. She says before she was a lot and now she is more “legal”. Idk, she makes it seem like he saved her. Something just rubs me the wrong way. I know this is an unpopular opinion. Also, I don’t mean any harm to Jeannie and Jeezy.
@Kim I knew I couldn’t be the only one that saw something off! I see your point. I do think Jeannie might be that type of woman to change for her man. Although, I haven’t seen many videos of them together, so I haven’t been able to notice how she is around him. I’ll add one more thing. Did Jeannie grow her butt when she was starting to date Jeezy? I’m not keeping tabs, but it seems around that time. So, I wonder if she grew it for herself or because she wanted to mold into what she thinks he wants. I promise I’m not a Jeannie hater! She’s a lovely lady. I’m just a bit nosy lol. 👃 🤷♀️
It's call "loosing yourself in the relationship". But I would say this, You can't have a partner of a high quality standard and dress and behave slack and out of character, yes don't loose yourself but still at the same time show what is merit.
About what Lanny said..... Why did the pastor marry her? Is she a christian woman...? Like I don't know her... One thing is to change your wardrobe to actually honor God.... Like I need to look into this because is a good change if it's done for God not only because you husband is a pastor. Soo she went back to the ways of the world
@@mildredscotch4686 Idk. I believed she wanted a child, just not with him. Heck they were always separate and she was always attracted to a man of color. People marry at times for comfort however their partners aren't their true choice, idk. What do you think?
Both Jeannie and Adrienne are perfect examples of, “who you are with, matters.” Jeannie before didnt want kids, but had all the makings to be a GREAT mother. Adrienne in past episodes, literally said she didn’t like holding hands or displaying PDA. Its amazing to see that with the right partners, they are allowed to be their true selves. Its like seeing a beautiful exotic bird in its natural habitat. Just being its authentic self 🤍
🌺Beautifully said!🌺
@@leleemcmurphy2246 Thank you so much 🙏🏼🤍
Facts! I've seen both women evolve and be the best version of themselves and its beautiful to see
@@mandys1038 absolutely!🌺
Yes, I could not agree more. Perfect examples!
The best relationship Is when you feel at ease, and comfortable, and grow into an even better version of yourself. You can still feel like “you” and maintain your identity.
Something that I notice that makes me think, ugh red flag, is when someone ALWAYS talks about their partner and they really put that partner on a pedestal. Don't get me wrong it's lovely to be in love but you should be equal and still have your own identity. Some people actually become quite draining to be around when they're in a relationship because that's literally all they talk about. I agree with Adrienne 100%, the greatest relationships are the ones where you become more yourself than you've ever been before. I'm learning that quite recently.
Yes , it’s draining .
@@bsbgirl85 I don’t think she bought up Adam other than when they were talking about relationships
@@Msladyrae92 this person is hateful and hate Tamara so much..She is a troll who commentes about her that way for years
Loni is on point with the Megan Good bit. Absolutely accurate. It’s always and I mean always better to maintain your sense of self in any relationship you’re in...that goes for friendship, familial relationships and even work relationships. Never ever lose yourself trying to please others, chances are they’re not worth it, not worth your time and not worth your energy. It goes hand in hand with putting yourself and needs first, knowing what you want and speaking up for yourself every single time.
Megan was still dressing sexy when she was married to Devon though
First of all with the Meagan thing when it comes to Christianity. If they are learning and growing in their relationship with God of course then you won't lose your identity. It will be more like becoming like Christ not one person losing their identity to the other person. The bible says "The two become one flesh!" They come together to grow in God individually, then together to be one with God. Not the world's way of doing things but God's way of doing things. I believe Meagan didn't understand that and was still too caught up in the world's way because there is no need to be sexy for God. That is for your husband alone. Who needs to dress provocatively in church! Then all the attention goes to you and not on God(the sermon)and you become a distraction. There is a time and place for everything!
@@dianemccray718
Well said! 👏👍 Totally agree! 💁😊🤓🙏
@@dianemccray718 you’re very right tbh. But I guess people are too carnal to understand that. I believe you can channel your “sexuality” differently. You can be modest but still have a sexy “aura” to you if that makes any sense? But yeah it’s just not appropriate for Christian women to be dressing explicitly then saying “it’s my personality” etc. if your “personality” is against God’s word then it has to change. It’s not about “losing yourself” because our identity is in Christ really anyways lol.
I think we should be changing for the better tbh.
@@dianemccray718 I agree
Why did this show just start getting super real and deep when they have been cancelled?! A podcast with Jeannie and Garcelle is REQUIRED!
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I lost my identity when I was in a bad relationship but I regained it back in a positive way and continue new chapters in my multi talented career!!!!!!!!!!!
Go you!💥🎊
Good for you, God bless you! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Been there done that. It’s called people pleasing. When you’re raised to believe that your opinions and likes and interests don’t matter this is a recipe for disaster as an adult. It took a lot of self work to get out of the habit. And now I have a partner who encourages me to have a life outside of him. I told him my struggles and he looks out for signs and tells me when he sees them so I can course correct. I also catch it through therapy. It’s a whole lot of work but it’s worth it. You gotta be happy with yourself at the end of the day.
Absolutely! The disease to please is a great way to describe it. Think we’ve all been there
I think having your own hobbies is very important. Having your own friends. Keep who you are before your relationship.
I love the topics they discuss!! I’m sad this show is ending 🥺😔😫😫😭😭
Adrienne is absolutely right at the end.💯💯💯
I believe the "right" person for you can definitely "bring you back" if you have been in a dark place. And in some relationships you can definitely lose yourself. Never lose yourself for sake of others!
*crazy that this showed up as i’m going through this right now*
This only happens to people who are insecure. It’s exactly what Loni said. The other person molds into whatever their partner wants them to be because they are afraid to lose their partner’s love. It’s very toxic.
@@bsbgirl85 who? Lol
Yea I had a friend that was seeing a guy that drove a motorcycle then all of a sudden she got her motorcycle license. Then the next guy she was suddenly into buying a home that was in his area 🤦🏾♀️
@@Myaccount923 dont listen to her she hates Tamara with a passion.She comments this same ish for years.
ive lost my identity since becoming a mother. when u ask me, "how are you?", i say we are fine.
A great conversation to have this is REAL you must make time for you too😊
It definitely happens when you are insecure. When you don’t have your own hobbies beliefs and goals you will loose yourself very quickly. Being with your partner everyday is great but missing that person and reuniting is the best! Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Didn't Adrienne admit to being "that" girl before, who gets lost in her relationship, and doesn't even answer the phone!? 🤔
She’s grown up a little from that. Let her be!
i completely agree with loni regarding meagan good
I’m not going to lie but Adrienne in season 4 WHEN she met Israel was totally the girl who tried to fit into his world. I feel like especially these past 2 seasons is when she’s started getting her own identity back.
I love this dark short hair on Jeannie 😍 very chic!
Jesus loves you guys! He died on the cross for our sins and rose again from the dead on the 3rd day, repent, accept and believe that He is your Lord and savior. Have salvation today and forever ❤️❤️❤️
Amen, spread the Word! Jesus really is coming soon. Today is the day of salvation. Tomorrow isn't promised.🙏🕊
The one that gets me is how many religions there are around the world. How do you know yours is correct?
@@swimgirl24 Because it is written… Jesus said “I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father (God) but me” I hope that helps!! 💕
Amen
@@AlmondJoie Amen, my fellow believers. It's time to get right with God. ❣️
Wow Garcelles transparency. 🔥🔥
I agree w/Loni about Meagan n Devaughn!!
Everyone had great points and I love that Garcelle threw in the men at the end ❤👏🏾
I have lost so many friends to men lol I had a best friend who literally told me she couldn't see me anymore because she doesn't want to take away time she could be spending with her man lol I was like bye felicia I've had a solid relationship with my husband for 12 years and although at the start we did live in each others pockets we eventually stopped and developed a healthy dynamic where we do things separately
I lost a friend to a lesbian relationship, everybody that was good she wanted them out. She turned her out. 25 years down the drain with this masculine woman
Adrienne and Jeannie’s friendship is cute
Looking back at my past relationships, I not only lost myself but literally turned into someone I did not recognize. I'm talking about 100+ lb weight gain to include health, mental and emotional issues when I dated the wrong ppl. As soon as I got rid of them that is when I began to thrive in ALL areas of my life. I lost the weight and now in the best shape of my life, I'm pursuing my passion of writing, and have excelled in my career. I used to want to stay in my house hidden from the world, but now I'm making travel plans (Japan, S. Korea, Italy, etc.) and shopping 🛍 all the time 😄
I learned that the person that is truly meant for you will not dim your light, but help it shine brighter as with Adrienne & Jeannie's situations. If you're questioning who you are in a relationship, then you should reevaluate that relationship.
I resonate with this
Good for you! So happy for you! Hpw did you lose the weight?
@@highlyfavoredMG Thank you! Believe it or not, half the battle of weight loss is all mental. So, if you're with someone that is not helping your psyche, then your health in some ways is bound to suffer. I had to get my mind right, did A LOT of research involving weight loss & nutrition and settled on vsg when I was 330+ lbs 😳 It's not for everyone hon, but it was what worked for me 😊
@@misskizzz I am so happy it worked for you.The goal is being healthy and you did just that.
LONI , the most composed yet hilarious human being ever to exist
Unfortunately, this is me. I was 20 and he was 31, and been together ever since. We got married and I’m now 33. I can admit that I changed myself, how I dress, going out with friends, where I should go, etc. He needs to know EVERY detail, going out with friends became a thing of the past, unless it’s a couple thing. I love him but it is exhausting, I gave ALL my 20s and if I can go back I would change all of it…any young girl reading this, don’t let a man trap you and change everything about you.There’s so much more out there besides being in a relationship in your teens and early 20s, love yourself first, wish I would’ve listened to many older women who saw the red flags day 1 !
Amen!! Don’t let a man trap you. I wish I could sing these sweet words into every 18 year old girls ears. Help them understand their worth. Looking back, I don’t know what it would’ve taken for me to understand the words “never loose yourself for someone else” but my biggest wish is that I took those words to heart and protected myself. Not everyone out there is for you and people can be true scum. Love yourself first 💛💛💛
Telling people that they are ALWAYS going to be themselves and act, think the same as they used to while still being married is not wise. You have to evolve according to the circonstances, adapt. You can't act a certain way when you are a teacher, married to a politician or a religious figure. I'm sorry but this freedom freedom all the time everywhere is not possible in real life
Not Loni name dropping 🙃 felt the heaviness on the panel for a second
I can relate…when I got divorced I felt like I was let out of a cage…free again.
First of all!!! Can we talk about Lonnie's HAIR !??? 😩🔥❤❤❤❤❤ ultimate model for that hairstyle... just gorgeous and I want that style like NOW!
It's so hard to say goodbye ... gonna miss these ladies! Glad this popped up in my recs today since Fox removed it from their line-up.
From what I saw Megan stayed the same after marrying. Her husband seemed supportive and stood up for her when people tried to come for how she dressed or roles she took. Never got the feel she lost her identity. More like they grew apart and just were not on the same page anymore. Very amicable.
Never another show like this. Must keep it going
But you do change for your partner as their particular qualities allow you to bloom and evolve as a person. Losing yourself stems from insecurity, incoonsistency and feeling inadequate
Always be yourself! If your partner or even your friends and family for that matter, have a problem with you and you’re not doing bad things or being a total ahole, then they can step off and let you be free to be yourself with people that appreciate and love you for who you are. My husband hates musicals, and we go watch one twice a year because he knows I love them and he endures it for me. I also go watch UFC with him, because he enjoys it so much and so I watch the fights with him also, even if it’s a little cringy. No one should have to change themselves for anyone!
Agree
Dear Real Daytime producers and Key persons, Please reconsider this being the last season. There is and will be no other show that balanced important topics, current events, but relevant and trendy discussion. The other similar shows on competing broadcasting appeal to a specific demographic of older, non- diverse groupings. If this show leaves,the younger, hipper, sophisticated demographic are lost and have no place to go. Those competing shows honestly do not give the uniqueness and diversity that The Real Daytime provides . I'm sure many agree with this post for various reasons and want to continue having a safe space in The Real ! Please think deeply on this one .... Blessings!
Once I divorce I found myself again... never realized I was lost
Oddly enough even though they're always in the spotlight... The Kardashians. Those girls will be chameleons to any man they're with.
When the dressing changes then you know there’s a lot of influence taking place
I literally said the same thing about Megan Good !
I have been there and done that. Four years without having any toxic crap from both personal and family issues feels so good. Now, I am loving my singlehood and staying reserved for "the real, true one."
Show your support for the ladies...like and comment their video's.
Love Ms. love’s hair 😍
i thought loni was gonna say kourtney kardashian😄😄😄😄
I thought she was gonna say Tamera with Adam lol
I don't walk on eggshells for anyone. Take it or leave it. Period.
No one in the world can know the truth about relationship between man and woman only great god almighty no one can know what is the heart the only little I can say if you two are fortunate to love one another or the woman love you more than you then you appreciate her the only way out because if you loves her more and don’t love you in return what a problem
Relationship doesn’t always mean marriage or romantic, people do this for their parents and their friends, and family as well ALL the time!
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Loni was absolutely right about MEGAN!!
Not for nothing.. I love when people can be who they are without apology even if they are or not in a relationship. I think women have quite of bit of pressure to be super strong support their family and be flawless while doing it. Sometimes things are not always peachy and it does not lessen worth and esteem. Women are not define by society's standards, rather know their worth even when not at their best
I am not going to miss Adrianene, like girl you know what Loni is saying about Megan Good is true!! Now because she is your friend and directed your husband’s video you can speak the truth about her!! That girl was living a lie and being someone she is not while married to that man. A blind dog could have seen that??!! How can’t you!! And Loni is right, Megan just posted the other day about being herself and being free!!!
I am sorry but unless you truly understand Christianity and God. True freedom comes from God not the world, people and their way of doing things. You grow and develope to learn it is about Christ not you! So if what you are doing makes it more about you than God then you don't understand! You have to decide did you come to Jesus for him or you. Who did you come to serve, God, yourself or the world(Man)! Because in God you and your husband become one flesh not anybody losing their identity!
But,Honestly you can’t expect Adrienne to speak on that. She did what a friend was suppose to do and her job. Unless you’re messy you don’t tell your friends personal business on tv.And that was a bad example to me. He’s a Pastor she knew that going in and there is a certain way you do have to present yourself as a Pastor wife. She obviously wanted to change there is a difference.
Sometimes people want you to stay the same because the old you benefits them. The "new you" as some would say benefits the marriage because you're molding into one. And some people are actually maturing. And there are a lot of people that are just not going to understand it.
So Loni says that it was beautiful that she came back to worldly ways rather than walking towards God. She was still vivacious with her husband.
I sure would love to hear Tamera weigh in on this topic. As Loni would say, "🎶Adaaammmm🎶". Lol!
I think Loni is off
with Devon and Meagan. No one can make you change but we can choose to change. He always seemed like he supported her. Secondly, he isn't a pastor of a church, he a minister who travels and speaks. Lastly, I don't know however, I think they split because she decided she didn't want children and he did.
Wow, I needed this conversation. I wonder if having daddy issues is a culprit of losing your identity in a relationship?
I wouldn’t doubt it
Yup, yes. Speak.
That's me. I've lost my identity.
The problem is sometime u don't know that ur loosing ur self,and sadly u can have people who are close to u telling u the truth but u don't hear them because ur so in love with that person,it takes time to realize that ur not ur self anymore u live in someone else shadow,trust me it took me years to know I was not myself anymore,I was always uneasy when he came home,I was always finding a way to please him until I left.being in love is beautiful,but also love yourself.and I love love.
Lani looks great in this color!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A partner can definitely have an impact on one in such a way where you lose your identity. But if it's not in a healthy way then no.....Your partner could force you to actually evaluate who you are and become a better person. If it's in a controlling way then nahh....
To make it standard do what you want to do but be careful not watch out for because can't trust one oviously🙏😱😡
My second husband and last before, I didn’t go out as much because I always been a homebody but with this marriage I go out more because my husband takes me out to eat I just went out with my girlfriend to Universal se on time,. This Christmas we are going to a somewhere in down in Florida. I never did this with my first marriage, I was lost. After, 5 years of separation from my kids father and first marriage I was my old self again and started dating I got skinner beautiful, my curves back, clip extensions. My second marriage I dress sexy, now I wear wigs not all of the time because I need to let my hair breath. I have good texture of hair not to sound superficial but I have hair that I can manage but it’s thick too. But, this weather in Florida gets hot so I have my hair short. Yes don’t loose yourself be your authentic self.
I miss being my old self
This was good
That's me, all the way!!!!!
Well can't do two in one if try so to see if work out.🙏😷😎
I like how they garcelle& loni were taking turns at the end be like oh no you go head 😊😏 I just love their relationship together .😊
WHY TF ARE THEY CANCELLING THIS SHOW? WHY? I NEED AN EXPLANATION DAMMIT
Uggghh I’m gonna miss u guys too much 😢
this cast is the best
This reminded me of kourtney and Travis
that's my dad because after he got married to my Sept mom we didn't know our own dad anymore because of her she made him into someone we don't know he is having fun with anybody he does everything that she says. She is a not a good person at all.
Yes Loni.
Kim Kardashian is a perfect example of this. She even talked about it on their Hulu show.
I think there’s more to life than be sexy 24/7 Meagan is back to being herself, she said she likes being sexy and exotic.
Wanted to present this to a person but. Decided not.
Maybe it’s my phone speakers but some of these ladies voices are so harsh it scared me.
Not to hurt just as a suggestion
Thank you
Yes the first thing I thought about was Megan good and her future ex husband
Jeannie lost her identity with jeezy
Hmmm idk about the Megan Good marriage. She might have felt stifled . Yes but how long was she going to be a Hollywood sex symbol anyways? She said she was sick of being typecast. She knew who she was with, she knew he was in the church and she was starting her Christian journey too. I just don’t think that this sexy dressing and wanting attention will last long. she’s freshly out of the cage so to speak but that will get old fast. I think their marriage ended for something deeper. Adrienne adjusted quite well to being a bit more conservative and I don’t think she regrets it or feels super stifled , sometimes you gotta grow up . Be sexy with your man
Wow Lonnie named EXACTLY who came to mind. Megan was not herself at all!!! It seemed like she was hiding in a cave the whole time!!!
Wow loni you've lost so much weight congratulations
Kourtney changed her identity was Travis
yup.
All I can think of is Kourtney Kardashian/Barker. It appears as though she’s completely changed her identity because of Travis Barker 🙃
Man I hate to say it, but for some reason I’m not fully convinced Jeannie and Jeezy are right for each other. I’m not sure but I think Jeannie is changing a lot for him. I remember she said a while back that she wanted to give authority to her man or something like that. Also, her wanting a baby after all this time. Plus in the video, she seems quiet and I even noticed her cringe, after repeating the comment of not having a social life. I’m not sure if I’m the only one seeing this. I want them to a great couple for each other, but I am not sure if that is the case.
Loni and James and Adrienne and Israel do seem right for each other! They talk about their partner in a genuine way. Jeannie, I’m not sure if it’s genuine or not. I feel like in the past she would try to make herself believe she was with The One and I’m afraid she might be doing this again.
Again! I hope them the best. Hope my speculation is wrong. There is obviously a lot I don’t know about their relationship. So, I could be off.
Disagree, Jeannie is the happiest she has ever been and its not because she molded herself to be someone she is not. A person can change their minds about wanting kids, no one forced that on her.
I think she’s navigating her new role as a mother. It’s hard for women who are hyper independent to switch roles into loving a tiny human so much that your wants and needs go on the back burner. She’ll figure it out.
@Mandy S Well only Jeannie knows if she is the happiest she has ever been. Since it’s her life and her relationship. I was just stating my doubts, but it’s none of my business. I do hope she is the happiest is has ever been.
I do agree anyone can change their mind about anything later in life. For sure. I am sure she will do her best to raise her child. That is undeniable that she loves her child.
After watching the video again. I think what feels off to me is Jeannie behavior while talking about her relationship, she just seems uncomfortable. While she talks about Adrienne she seem more comfortable. Also, she does agree that she changed. She says before she was a lot and now she is more “legal”. Idk, she makes it seem like he saved her. Something just rubs me the wrong way.
I know this is an unpopular opinion. Also, I don’t mean any harm to Jeannie and Jeezy.
@Kim I knew I couldn’t be the only one that saw something off! I see your point. I do think Jeannie might be that type of woman to change for her man. Although, I haven’t seen many videos of them together, so I haven’t been able to notice how she is around him. I’ll add one more thing. Did Jeannie grow her butt when she was starting to date Jeezy? I’m not keeping tabs, but it seems around that time. So, I wonder if she grew it for herself or because she wanted to mold into what she thinks he wants.
I promise I’m not a Jeannie hater! She’s a lovely lady. I’m just a bit nosy lol. 👃 🤷♀️
Loni's facials 🤣
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women that make their relationship their identity are called pick me girls
It's call "loosing yourself in the relationship". But I would say this, You can't have a partner of a high quality standard and dress and behave slack and out of character, yes don't loose yourself but still at the same time show what is merit.
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I don´t like Loni because she almost always interrupts and that´s rude
About what Lanny said..... Why did the pastor marry her? Is she a christian woman...? Like I don't know her... One thing is to change your wardrobe to actually honor God.... Like I need to look into this because is a good change if it's done for God not only because you husband is a pastor. Soo she went back to the ways of the world
It’s called being married. Nothing wrong with that.
Thats Me
I'm married to one
Miley Cyrus lost herself too when she was with Liam. I’m sure Liam is not a bad guy but just saying
Invite Candace Owens on your show
Jeanie has changed
Evolved
@@jaeraee3437 that is changing
@@mildredscotch4686 I don't know, I don't believe in changing, maybe growing. I believe it is still in you.
@@jaeraee3437 she didn't want children now she has one that is changing. She even mentioned she changed after her second marriage
@@mildredscotch4686 Idk. I believed she wanted a child, just not with him. Heck they were always separate and she was always attracted to a man of color. People marry at times for comfort however their partners aren't their true choice, idk. What do you think?