Glad you're enjoying this series! And yes, while the monologues may be written and prepared before they're preformed, they are still all genuine and personal stories told by the performer.
patrick kimbrell well this isn't a vlog channel. If you want something more spur of the moment, there's endless vlog channels out there. These videos are written in a story-like way and are aimed to get right to the point, condensing its meaning and emotion. Without a script, it will most likely end up being some form of ramble.
People don't realize this but in relationships you fall in and out of love with the person many times but there has to be some spark to bring you guys back to the feelings you had initially. It takes effort on both sides to develop that spark. If one person is unwilling it won't work. Being in love is a choice. Choosing to stay with your partner through thick and thin is a choice. Not everyone is meant for monogmous relationship. People who don't commit and stick it through when things get tough often have many failed relationships because there will always be something about your significant other at some point that will make you fall out of love.. but you work in the relationship when problems arise, work it through and then fall back in love. Long term relationships are hard work but its worth it in the end. Of course there are deal breakers though that no one should continue to stay in such as cheating, lying, unhealthy addictions, abuse etc. You do have to be compatible in what you value in a relationship for the relationship to work out to some extent. If you fall in love with the person for the wrong reasons you will soon realize your values don't align and the relationship will never last. I know several married couples whose personalities are very different but their relationship lasts because their core values are similar in what they want out of the relationship.
Wow very well put together! People just don't realize what these four letters hold and sometimes just throw them out in the wind like air droplets though this four letter word actually carries a weightage of some one else's feelings,emotions, hopes and future life!! Cox when you say them you are actually saying that yes I will make it work no matter what it takes and I will be through the crest and troughs fearlessly because I LOVE YOU! I was devastated to see that a lot of people around us don't give this four letter word it's due importance and play with it so casually
While this is true, the other end of it is when one has tried hard to open the others eyes to let them know that that if they didn't work on things that eventually I would check out. I would get back that they were a grown a** man etc etc. Well fast forward, I grew tired of trying, I have no more tears left to shed and now he wants to try. I don't get that and sorry to say. it's a little too late as far as I am concerned. I don't trust what he says, because his words are just that, and usually no follow through. Been separated almost 3 years now, there won't be a 4th. He can be a kid on his own. And yes, I did try but when it takes two not one to work on a relationship, thus the 3 year separation. 🤌🙅
What's worse? *That moment when you realise you can't possibly be in a relationship because you can't even love yourself no matter a whole other person* Damn, that was depressing
Well, let me try (against my better knowledge) and safe some poor lost soul believing they need to love them self first before they are able to love anyone else. Amy Young has a great video on this subject. I really recommend anyone who believes this even the slightest, to go and watch her video: th-cam.com/video/Cfs5LXISgLU/w-d-xo.html
This guy had the most amazing article and podcast on Modern Love. I knew it was his story immediatly! Loved this, SoulPancake you guys make my heart all warm and fuzzy.
2:21 - "So I did what anyone should do when they're heartbroken. I put down all the windows in my car, stepped on the gas..." I thought he'd gonna say that he tried to kill himself by carbon monoxide poisoning.
If you don't love someone, say it, end the relationship or don't even start it. Love is natural, it's st that time cannot built. And for me, as a man. I prefer a broken heart more than wasting time in a bad relationship.
When you love someone, you never 'stop loving them'. Love as we know it today is very superficial and barely skims the surface. In my opinion love is deeper, like the deepest ocean, and never runs dry.
Love is not a feeling. You can feel great when you wake up, then feel crappy 5 min later from something minuscule. People today confuse love with "feeling" love. It is scientifically proven the "lovey dovey" feelings fade after 1 to 2 years. If that's what you call love, I feel sorry for you. Real love is service, charity. Making your partner feel valued even when you're tired and don't feel like it. Real love is sacrifice, and commitment. Our society values "what do I want" and "I want someone to make ME feel good" we don't experience the full joy of making someone else feel wonderful. THATS where the fulfillment in love comes in, by giving our best to our partner. No one these days knows what real love is. If you're in a relationship only to "feel good" and have someone "make you feel good," you will never be truly happy.
Yesterday, I broke up with my fiance. We were together for 2 years, and he too thought that all we needed was to just work it out. But I had just fallen out of love with him, and I didn't want it to happen, and I tried to make it work, but "it" was just...gone. The timing of this video rattles me, as it's almost exactly what what happened to us. I didn't want to break his heart, or hurt him, but how do you tell someone, you just don't love them like you used to? Probably the hardest thing I've had to do, and I'm still figuring out if I made the right choice or not. But I don't think thats an answer I will ever get...
I've never seen a video so sad or as sad as this. It's the kind of sad that won't make you cry but leave you shocked. I'm shaking a little and I'm stunned. I've never seen it from a guy's perspective.
If life has taught me one thing, is that no matter how hard you try, you can never change people, and you cannot make something that’s broken, work again.
Hello I can recomend you to dr tuda ,the great relationship restorer /healer ,who will help you. He helped me get my ex back and he can also help you in all relationship problems and get your crush/ ex back too💓💓💓💓
I'm 16 and just got out of my first relationship a few months ago. She was one of my classmates at school, we hadn't talked much, but she was cute, and I liked her as a person. One day, when I was feeling down on myself, thinking "No one is ever gonna like me back, and I'm gonna be forever alone.", later that day, she asked me if I wanted to try dating her, after a few things happened, I said yes. I was happy, even though we couldn't talk outside of school, or even meet up because of her controlling, homo-phobic, parents who didn't let her go anywhere or have a phone. I, sadly, wasn't at school a lot, because of some personal issues, but I'd try to go and spend as much time with her as I could, without being too clingy or annoying. About a month after we had started dating, a few days before halloween, I was having a mild panic attack in class, she noticed and asked me I was okay, I tell her "I'll be fine.", a few minutes later, she asks me what I thought about cheaters, I tell her what I think. My GF then goes on to say "I think I might like someone else..." and that was it, I asked the teacher if I could use the washroom, then went to the washroom and cried. We've barely even spoken since then, and our conversations are usually short and uneventful.
Relationship is about give and take. Relationship is about cooperation. Relationship is about like the old days when you do the dishes, she wiped the dishes dry, the plates and the glass with dry cloth. And talk amicably in a positive and cheerful environment. Relationship is when she's in pain, you hug her tenderly, and help her and give her what she needs , healthy food or drinks or whatever necessities she needs. And vice versa for you. When you're in pain and she helps to support you. Relationship is about positive communication. Relationship takes lots of energy to make it work. Relationship is hard sometimes.
My story's too long, but short version, we married too soon after dating. I knew she had anxieties, but believed that she would feel better as our marriage got underway. Sadly, her paranoia only increased and resulted in her physically attacking me after months of imagined scripts in her head. After a few months, I accepted her back, but the violence happened again. That one moment, I knew that there was no way to save this and it was devastating, but there was no other way. In the years since, we started talking again, and I've helped her with several things. The feelings are complex, it's hard not to be bitter about some of what happened, but I know I must forgive. She recently moved to another state and we are friends. There will always be a love there, but also always a sadness.
A lot of people never say this to themselves their entire life. Serial monogamy and really just co dependent people will do anything to not be alone. they would rather be miserable and just deal with the known life than be alone and not knowing what they will deal with. I was codependent for 20 years. Don't waste if life unhappy like I did.
Man! I can somewhat relate! I completely understand the pain and then relief after a failed relationship. Great to know someone had this experience as well hahaha! Thanks soul pancake
ONLY 227 VIEWS?! did another video get accidentally posted again? alrighty then, hello to those of you who are here with me and to those who shall see this soon!
I was unsubscribing the channel, by mistake i press the hit play button of this video. So I was like what the hell "this will be my last video, anyway let me watch it" but after watching this video. Now I am back subscribing to the channel again and reminded me why I sub the channel last time :-) Thanks, Amm0
You can owe all you want but I believe that if you're married you may even fall out of love but you work it out and you rediscover the person you're with, you do not abandon the other.
Inês Dionísio - My husband abandoned our daughter and I; I didn't know his whereabouts. I filed for divorce pro bono! - he came back out of nowhere - cancelled the divorce. I don't love him - I've already mourned the death of the marriage and we are still together. Now I'm a man hating bitter old Betty for staying and trying to work it out for nearly 20 years. I don't want the kids and refuse to pay child support. Oh boy the regrets.
Tza Foxx I am really sorry, it is very sad. However, it's not late to do your life, you have tried! Don't live in that gall! Is not doing good to anyone. About child support, I mean.... is your child!
Inês Dionísio exactly.. What bothers me is when you have given so much on the table then you simply back out just by saying I fell out of love? It's so horrible.. It's almost like cheating
I realised the moment my partner fell out of love with me, and it was when he didn't want to fight for us when distance was put in between us. He just ended it and I ended up in a new place by myself without the support of him because he didn't want to work through it. I was heartbroken.
Wish I could find someone better to make my whole world turn into a magical one.. I fell out of love because I hooked up for 5yrs with a cheater, thought everything would work out but I can't stop myself from falling apart. Wondering where on Earth is the right guy for me? That someone who will love me unconditionally and want to spend the rest of his life with me? ONLY ME! Watching your video from Philippines and I never thought of a man like you breaking for loving someone so much..
Such a beautiful channel sad that I've only just discovered it today the moment when you realise you are gay video really struck a chord with me only recently have I realised and accepted my sexuality thank you whoever makes these you have changed my life
Been there. The day when I reached for my boyfriend’s hand in the movie theater in the dark and he never grabbed mine back, I knew it was over. We broke up the next day.
I somewhat relate to this. My girlfriend whom I've known for two months, and am in deeply love with her- sent me a breakup message due to her mothers thoughts. My girlfriend is the sweetest, lovingest girl in the whole wide world, and I love her so much. She is my soulmate. Her mother doesn't agree of the age difference. I'm 12, turning 13 in May and my girlfriend is 16, turning 17 in April. Yes, it weirds some people out- but it's the love that counts. We both make each other smile, laugh, and most importantly- we're happy. We're both currently fighting for each other, and hopefully- we can be together, even though the worlds thoughts against our age difference conflict that. Thank you for reading this, person. Enjoy your day or night,
Oh gosh, I feel so bad for you... I have never been in a relationship myself but I think I have an idea of how hurtful it must’ve been for you to put so much work and thinking into this five-paged heartfelt loveletter and to get a text message simply saying “Thank you for the flowers 💐 “ She didn’t even mention the letter!! If I had been her in that situation I would at least have written a little bit more. That’s heartbreaking 😕😢 So sorry, man 😓
I kind of want to break up with my boyfriend, but I don't want to break his heart. I can tell that he loves me a lot, but I am not entirely sure that I do anymore. On some level, I really care for him and I don't want to hurt him, but around 70% of the time I don't feel happy. What should I do? Because 30% of when I am happy it's like everything in the world is perfect.
Would love to know the immediate aftermath of this story, as it's been my experience that if she's sending out these messages she already has your replacement lined up in the wings. The whole 'make life miserable' schtick is a passive/aggressive way to manipulate *you* into being the one to move on, clearing the way for the new guy to step in. This way, she's *always* in the right as far as she's concerned.
+John Lewis - True. I know this myself. I've had it happen to me (my ex bf went through this exact process to break up with me so the woman he'd had on the side could step in) and I've had a girlfriend of mine do this to her man. It's pretty effective, which is why so many people opt to do this as they believe it has minimum consequence and at least they don't have to take the blame if _you_ break up with them instead of them doing it.
I can't stand this guy. Nothing pulls me into his story. But I think because I'm in a place that's similar to his lady's not his. I'd listen to her video lol
Tina Carroll - SAME HERE! My husband is so complacent, predictable, and dry. I've told him about my unhappiness; that I want to cheat, I want a divorce. I'm not in love with him. We have kids. 😔
I feel like guys have a really hard time breaking up and would stay in a toxic relationships with a person they are obviously not compatible with just because they love them and u think that they become so dependant , makes me sad a lot of my friends are in that situation, I try to be honest with them but hey still go back to their girlfriends so yeah to each his own I guess...
When he lost his job so you do your best and help fund stuff and take the brunt of the costs for outings as the house was always full and you couldn't do couple things, when he'd ask for special meals and to make sure he got the best you spent money you didn't have but going without for someone you love doesn't mean a thing, when he took the money back intended to buy your birthday cake, when you share but he gets mad you don't want to but it's okay when he doesn't. And when you soend the last of your money for the week on stuff but he came into money and you had to borrow 20 dollars to survive the week.
1. 5 page single spaced love letter + flowers? So ummm, humongous font then, right? 2. Billy Joel lyric: I thought it was "She's frequently kind & then suddenly CRUEL...."
Try getting married and realizing it’s over! I non marriage relationships is not in comparison to marriage. It has taken me marriage to realize it is over!
But why that "If you know who I were, You wouldn't love me" couldn't be a way to make this guy go deeper on her feelings? Why did this guy only fix himself on his fake idea of "love" with letters and flowers? Love is not this! It's not a dream or an overdose of feelings: love is about two people (or more hehe) who try to be there for the other in any situation, who try to understand the other in any way possible. Love isn't about letters, big gestures and only feelings, it is about caring.
I don't believe in the premise that someone can fall out of love. They merely fall in love more with someone or something else. But love is something I don't think one can fall out of.
LucJ Perhaps the mythologist(=symbolisms in language/cultures/religions) Joseph Campbell sheds some good light on this....He suggests that a loving relationship requires each person relinquishing a part of themselves for the relationship. ....What that really means per a particular persons experiences is an entirely different thing, perhaps.
LucJenson The truth is, falling out of love is just a nice way of someone thinking they deserve better/they are bored in that relationship. Mind me I'm not talking about abusive relationships. I'm talking about normal healthy relationships.
thing is by that thinking love is reduced completely to what another person can do for you.. what they can bring to your life.. real love in my opinion can occur from somewhat of a distant without any need for reciprocation
The moment I knew my relationship was over with best friend was when she chose a guy over me. Nows she's pregnant, baby dad is absent and he gave her the clap. #karma
Amarea Witt I think if you ever really loved your friend ,now would be the time to swallow your pride and be there for her .that's what a true friend would do 😘
Hello I can recomend you to dr tuda ,the great relationship restorer /healer ,who will help you. He helped me get my ex back and he can also help you in all relationship problems and get your crush/ ex back too📿📿📿📿
i think i may be in love with these types of videos. it uncovers such personal topics in such a beautiful way. bravo.
Windex Bottle it's obvious that they're reading from a script. This channel just keeps getting more and more fake
Glad you're enjoying this series! And yes, while the monologues may be written and prepared before they're preformed, they are still all genuine and personal stories told by the performer.
patrick kimbrell well this isn't a vlog channel. If you want something more spur of the moment, there's endless vlog channels out there. These videos are written in a story-like way and are aimed to get right to the point, condensing its meaning and emotion. Without a script, it will most likely end up being some form of ramble.
ok party pooper....someone hates life here why don't you go somewhere else with that negativity
MattyRides 😂😂😂😂
People don't realize this but in relationships you fall in and out of love with the person many times but there has to be some spark to bring you guys back to the feelings you had initially. It takes effort on both sides to develop that spark. If one person is unwilling it won't work. Being in love is a choice. Choosing to stay with your partner through thick and thin is a choice. Not everyone is meant for monogmous relationship. People who don't commit and stick it through when things get tough often have many failed relationships because there will always be something about your significant other at some point that will make you fall out of love.. but you work in the relationship when problems arise, work it through and then fall back in love. Long term relationships are hard work but its worth it in the end. Of course there are deal breakers though that no one should continue to stay in such as cheating, lying, unhealthy addictions, abuse etc. You do have to be compatible in what you value in a relationship for the relationship to work out to some extent. If you fall in love with the person for the wrong reasons you will soon realize your values don't align and the relationship will never last. I know several married couples whose personalities are very different but their relationship lasts because their core values are similar in what they want out of the relationship.
well said 🙏
Wow very well put together! People just don't realize what these four letters hold and sometimes just throw them out in the wind like air droplets though this four letter word actually carries a weightage of some one else's feelings,emotions, hopes and future life!! Cox when you say them you are actually saying that yes I will make it work no matter what it takes and I will be through the crest and troughs fearlessly because I LOVE YOU! I was devastated to see that a lot of people around us don't give this four letter word it's due importance and play with it so casually
Pixie truth
Thank you I needed this
While this is true, the other end of it is when one has tried hard to open the others eyes to let them know that that if they didn't work on things that eventually I would check out. I would get back that they were a grown a** man etc etc. Well fast forward, I grew tired of trying, I have no more tears left to shed and now he wants to try. I don't get that and sorry to say. it's a little too late as far as I am concerned. I don't trust what he says, because his words are just that, and usually no follow through.
Been separated almost 3 years now, there won't be a 4th. He can be a kid on his own.
And yes, I did try but when it takes two not one to work on a relationship, thus the 3 year separation. 🤌🙅
Sounds like she was going into depression.
What's worse?
*That moment when you realise you can't possibly be in a relationship because you can't even love yourself no matter a whole other person*
Damn, that was depressing
Buzzkill... ugh
Rick C-137 sorry to bring you down from the upbeat and awe-inspiring nature of this video
Well, let me try (against my better knowledge) and safe some poor lost soul believing they need to love them self first before they are able to love anyone else. Amy Young has a great video on this subject. I really recommend anyone who believes this even the slightest, to go and watch her video: th-cam.com/video/Cfs5LXISgLU/w-d-xo.html
jozina1 I just suscribed to her channel, thank you so much. You have brightened my day :)
jozina1 thanks dude! Great video
This guy had the most amazing article and podcast on Modern Love. I knew it was his story immediatly! Loved this, SoulPancake you guys make my heart all warm and fuzzy.
Your love and support makes US all warm and fuzzy 💜 Thanks for watching Candace!
Candace Williamson are you kidding?! it's obvious that they're reading from a script. This channel just keeps getting more and more fake haha
What is the podcast called? I'd love to hear it
This feeling can hurt so much but we need to accept that things doesn't turn out the way we always want it to be.
2:21 - "So I did what anyone should do when they're heartbroken. I put down all the windows in my car, stepped on the gas..."
I thought he'd gonna say that he tried to kill himself by carbon monoxide poisoning.
😂😂😂😂 so true.
Well he did say windows down, not up lol
If you don't love someone, say it, end the relationship or don't even start it.
Love is natural, it's st that time cannot built.
And for me, as a man. I prefer a broken heart more than wasting time in a bad relationship.
When you love someone, you never 'stop loving them'. Love as we know it today is very superficial and barely skims the surface. In my opinion love is deeper, like the deepest ocean, and never runs dry.
That was beautiful ;-;
Like unconditional love. Like the love I have for my children. It never fades. It's tried and true!
Your message resonates truth. Thank you.
Love is not a feeling. You can feel great when you wake up, then feel crappy 5 min later from something minuscule. People today confuse love with "feeling" love. It is scientifically proven the "lovey dovey" feelings fade after 1 to 2 years. If that's what you call love, I feel sorry for you.
Real love is service, charity. Making your partner feel valued even when you're tired and don't feel like it. Real love is sacrifice, and commitment. Our society values "what do I want" and "I want someone to make ME feel good" we don't experience the full joy of making someone else feel wonderful. THATS where the fulfillment in love comes in, by giving our best to our partner. No one these days knows what real love is. If you're in a relationship only to "feel good" and have someone "make you feel good," you will never be truly happy.
This hits close to home.
Yesterday, I broke up with my fiance. We were together for 2 years, and he too thought that all we needed was to just work it out. But I had just fallen out of love with him, and I didn't want it to happen, and I tried to make it work, but "it" was just...gone. The timing of this video rattles me, as it's almost exactly what what happened to us. I didn't want to break his heart, or hurt him, but how do you tell someone, you just don't love them like you used to? Probably the hardest thing I've had to do, and I'm still figuring out if I made the right choice or not. But I don't think thats an answer I will ever get...
ETphonehome thankyou for sharing , all the best
This is exactly how I feel right now
Pooja Nayak yeah you would have no idea
Pooja Nayak dont judge another persons situation that you know nothing about
Pooja Nayak just concentrate on your own life, that is what is best
Good old Billy Joel. Always there in times of need.
"She was frequently kind and then suddenly cruel, Billy. How did you know?" The power of popular song.
Aww :')
He sounds so sweet. He'll find someone better than her that truly loves him some day.
I've never seen a video so sad or as sad as this. It's the kind of sad that won't make you cry but leave you shocked. I'm shaking a little and I'm stunned. I've never seen it from a guy's perspective.
If life has taught me one thing, is that no matter how hard you try, you can never change people, and you cannot make something that’s broken, work again.
Hello I can recomend you to dr tuda ,the great relationship restorer /healer ,who will help you. He helped me get my ex back and he can also help you in all relationship problems and get your crush/ ex back too💓💓💓💓
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I'm 16 and just got out of my first relationship a few months ago.
She was one of my classmates at school, we hadn't talked much, but she was cute, and I liked her as a person. One day, when I was feeling down on myself, thinking "No one is ever gonna like me back, and I'm gonna be forever alone.", later that day, she asked me if I wanted to try dating her, after a few things happened, I said yes. I was happy, even though we couldn't talk outside of school, or even meet up because of her controlling, homo-phobic, parents who didn't let her go anywhere or have a phone. I, sadly, wasn't at school a lot, because of some personal issues, but I'd try to go and spend as much time with her as I could, without being too clingy or annoying. About a month after we had started dating, a few days before halloween, I was having a mild panic attack in class, she noticed and asked me I was okay, I tell her "I'll be fine.", a few minutes later, she asks me what I thought about cheaters, I tell her what I think. My GF then goes on to say "I think I might like someone else..." and that was it, I asked the teacher if I could use the washroom, then went to the washroom and cried. We've barely even spoken since then, and our conversations are usually short and uneventful.
Relationship is about give and take. Relationship is about cooperation. Relationship is about like the old days when you do the dishes, she wiped the dishes dry, the plates and the glass with dry cloth. And talk amicably in a positive and cheerful environment. Relationship is when she's in pain, you hug her tenderly, and help her and give her what she needs , healthy food or drinks or whatever necessities she needs. And vice versa for you. When you're in pain and she helps to support you. Relationship is about positive communication. Relationship takes lots of energy to make it work. Relationship is hard sometimes.
So true. It's a 1 way street and both parties have to be vulnerable.
My story's too long, but short version, we married too soon after dating. I knew she had anxieties, but believed that she would feel better as our marriage got underway. Sadly, her paranoia only increased and resulted in her physically attacking me after months of imagined scripts in her head. After a few months, I accepted her back, but the violence happened again. That one moment, I knew that there was no way to save this and it was devastating, but there was no other way. In the years since, we started talking again, and I've helped her with several things. The feelings are complex, it's hard not to be bitter about some of what happened, but I know I must forgive. She recently moved to another state and we are friends. There will always be a love there, but also always a sadness.
Maybe its because you watch Info Wars 🤔
A lot of people never say this to themselves their entire life. Serial monogamy and really just co dependent people will do anything to not be alone. they would rather be miserable and just deal with the known life than be alone and not knowing what they will deal with. I was codependent for 20 years. Don't waste if life unhappy like I did.
Man! I can somewhat relate! I completely understand the pain and then relief after a failed relationship. Great to know someone had this experience as well hahaha! Thanks soul pancake
ONLY 227 VIEWS?! did another video get accidentally posted again? alrighty then, hello to those of you who are here with me and to those who shall see this soon!
He is a great storyteller, I would listen to him tell a story anytime
I was unsubscribing the channel, by mistake i press the hit play button of this video. So I was like what the hell "this will be my last video, anyway let me watch it" but after watching this video. Now I am back subscribing to the channel again and reminded me why I sub the channel last time :-)
Thanks, Amm0
You can owe all you want but I believe that if you're married you may even fall out of love but you work it out and you rediscover the person you're with, you do not abandon the other.
Inês Dionísio - My husband abandoned our daughter and I; I didn't know his whereabouts.
I filed for divorce pro bono! - he came back out of nowhere - cancelled the divorce.
I don't love him - I've already mourned the death of the marriage and we are still together.
Now I'm a man hating bitter old Betty for staying and trying to work it out for nearly 20 years.
I don't want the kids and refuse to pay child support.
Oh boy the regrets.
Tza Foxx I am really sorry, it is very sad. However, it's not late to do your life, you have tried! Don't live in that gall! Is not doing good to anyone. About child support, I mean.... is your child!
Inês Dionísio exactly.. What bothers me is when you have given so much on the table then you simply back out just by saying I fell out of love? It's so horrible.. It's almost like cheating
Inês Dionísio ah this helped me
Relationship and marriage don't rely solely on attraction.
I realised the moment my partner fell out of love with me, and it was when he didn't want to fight for us when distance was put in between us. He just ended it and I ended up in a new place by myself without the support of him because he didn't want to work through it. I was heartbroken.
I've been watching through all of the vids in this series and this channel has now earned a sub!!
That felt like a virtual hug
Ugh...now I want to break up with him.
cbrida11 😆😆
Wish I could find someone better to make my whole world turn into a magical one.. I fell out of love because I hooked up for 5yrs with a cheater, thought everything would work out but I can't stop myself from falling apart. Wondering where on Earth is the right guy for me? That someone who will love me unconditionally and want to spend the rest of his life with me? ONLY ME! Watching your video from Philippines and I never thought of a man like you breaking for loving someone so much..
*It's so true it hurts..*
Perfect song. I love this guy!
Such a beautiful channel sad that I've only just discovered it today the moment when you realise you are gay video really struck a chord with me only recently have I realised and accepted my sexuality thank you whoever makes these you have changed my life
Been there. The day when I reached for my boyfriend’s hand in the movie theater in the dark and he never grabbed mine back, I knew it was over. We broke up the next day.
oh bless this man's heart.
I suspect she did still love you but she was depressed.
Nice video, genuinely.
This was amazing
Meow Moosawi it's obvious that they're reading from a script. This channel just keeps getting more and more fake
I somewhat relate to this. My girlfriend whom I've known for two months, and am in deeply love with her- sent me a breakup message due to her mothers thoughts. My girlfriend is the sweetest, lovingest girl in the whole wide world, and I love her so much. She is my soulmate. Her mother doesn't agree of the age difference. I'm 12, turning 13 in May and my girlfriend is 16, turning 17 in April. Yes, it weirds some people out- but it's the love that counts. We both make each other smile, laugh, and most importantly- we're happy. We're both currently fighting for each other, and hopefully- we can be together, even though the worlds thoughts against our age difference conflict that. Thank you for reading this, person. Enjoy your day or night,
wth youre a child
this is just simply beautiful.
amazing advice . Thanks for this .
I really needed this right now
It's sad that this is exactly what happened to me yesterday.
Oh gosh, I feel so bad for you...
I have never been in a relationship myself but I think I have an idea of how hurtful it must’ve been for you to put so much work and thinking into this five-paged heartfelt loveletter and to get a text message simply saying “Thank you for the flowers 💐 “
She didn’t even mention the letter!!
If I had been her in that situation I would at least have written a little bit more.
That’s heartbreaking 😕😢
So sorry, man
😓
her response to the letter and flowers must've been so upsetting for him
This is almost exactly what just happened to me and my friend and how we fell apart
Thank you ❤✨🙏
Well he ended up married anyway. So heres that
Thank u for this...
I kind of want to break up with my boyfriend, but I don't want to break his heart. I can tell that he loves me a lot, but I am not entirely sure that I do anymore. On some level, I really care for him and I don't want to hurt him, but around 70% of the time I don't feel happy. What should I do? Because 30% of when I am happy it's like everything in the world is perfect.
what did you do??
Would love to know the immediate aftermath of this story, as it's been my experience that if she's sending out these messages she already has your replacement lined up in the wings. The whole 'make life miserable' schtick is a passive/aggressive way to manipulate *you* into being the one to move on, clearing the way for the new guy to step in. This way, she's *always* in the right as far as she's concerned.
possibly..
or she actually had mental health issues like so many of us do.
John Lewis sounds like ur projecting
+John Lewis - True. I know this myself. I've had it happen to me (my ex bf went through this exact process to break up with me so the woman he'd had on the side could step in) and I've had a girlfriend of mine do this to her man. It's pretty effective, which is why so many people opt to do this as they believe it has minimum consequence and at least they don't have to take the blame if _you_ break up with them instead of them doing it.
I totally had to google that song. Anyone else?
Never wait anything from anyone!!
Nunca esperes nada de nadie!!!
Sounds like she let go of a great guy who is capable of love, commitment, and honor. Chances are, she will always be unhappy.
Spot on 😢
The way he described it sounded like a scene from a movie...
Thank you!!!!!!!
I can't stand this guy. Nothing pulls me into his story. But I think because I'm in a place that's similar to his lady's not his. I'd listen to her video lol
Tina Carroll - SAME HERE! My husband is so complacent, predictable, and dry. I've told him about my unhappiness; that I want to cheat, I want a divorce. I'm not in love with him. We have kids. 😔
It takes two. I'm sure there are things that you are doing as well to contribute to the dynamic in the relationship.
Tina Carroll don't worry. same here
Yes I'm fully aware of what I own in the situation.
love this
I feel like guys have a really hard time breaking up and would stay in a toxic relationships with a person they are obviously not compatible with just because they love them and u think that they become so dependant , makes me sad a lot of my friends are in that situation, I try to be honest with them but hey still go back to their girlfriends so yeah to each his own I guess...
When he lost his job so you do your best and help fund stuff and take the brunt of the costs for outings as the house was always full and you couldn't do couple things, when he'd ask for special meals and to make sure he got the best you spent money you didn't have but going without for someone you love doesn't mean a thing, when he took the money back intended to buy your birthday cake, when you share but he gets mad you don't want to but it's okay when he doesn't. And when you soend the last of your money for the week on stuff but he came into money and you had to borrow 20 dollars to survive the week.
Long marriage ending now... similar situation. My husband doesn’t love me
1. 5 page single spaced love letter + flowers? So ummm, humongous font then, right?
2. Billy Joel lyric: I thought it was "She's frequently kind & then suddenly CRUEL...."
I wish i watched this video before i broke up with my girl 😣 i loved her ! But i knew our relationship was over 😢💔
Got a wedding ring on so I guess it worked out fine for him.
every girl deserves a guy like him and no guy deserves a girl like her. 😄
God bless you
Try getting married and realizing it’s over! I non marriage relationships is not in comparison to marriage. It has taken me marriage to realize it is over!
Can we get a video about being on the other side. For instead "that moment you realise that you are no longer inlove with him/her"
Damn , that was strong .
How am i watching this?
With your eyes.
Damn
my girlfriend broke up with me today, so this hits close to home
Lmao this guys is so extra I cant
But why that "If you know who I were, You wouldn't love me" couldn't be a way to make this guy go deeper on her feelings? Why did this guy only fix himself on his fake idea of "love" with letters and flowers? Love is not this! It's not a dream or an overdose of feelings: love is about two people (or more hehe) who try to be there for the other in any situation, who try to understand the other in any way possible. Love isn't about letters, big gestures and only feelings, it is about caring.
He is so fair
this man is an actor
Sometimes I thank God, for unanswered prayers.
I don't believe in the premise that someone can fall out of love. They merely fall in love more with someone or something else. But love is something I don't think one can fall out of.
i agree i think what people fall out of love with is infatuation. in terms of 20/30yr marriages i'm not so sure though
LucJ Perhaps the mythologist(=symbolisms in language/cultures/religions) Joseph Campbell sheds some good light on this....He suggests that a loving relationship requires each person relinquishing a part of themselves for the relationship. ....What that really means per a particular persons experiences is an entirely different thing, perhaps.
LucJenson The truth is, falling out of love is just a nice way of someone thinking they deserve better/they are bored in that relationship. Mind me I'm not talking about abusive relationships. I'm talking about normal healthy relationships.
thing is by that thinking love is reduced completely to what another person can do for you.. what they can bring to your life.. real love in my opinion can occur from somewhat of a distant without any need for reciprocation
this is why i think much of what we label love really isn't at all
Maybe he was frequently kind and suddenly invalidating?
His breakup: Billy Joel:: my breakup: Fiona Apple. (It was years ago, haha)
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Thank God for Billy Joel.
REPOST?
hello
He tells stories like Hasan Minhaj.
I'm single Crew wya?
Really....
Wait, I know this story: Modern Love?
Where is kid president😑😭
Red flags...everywhere.....
The moment I knew my relationship was over with best friend was when she chose a guy over me. Nows she's pregnant, baby dad is absent and he gave her the clap. #karma
Amarea Witt I think if you ever really loved your friend ,now would be the time to swallow your pride and be there for her .that's what a true friend would do 😘
Ouch.
100 mile an hr wow u must have a slow car
the background music kinda sucks lmao I love the poetry tho!
The music tho..
Hehaahahahahhahaah Damn
good thing i never had a boyfriend
Madison, your next relationship this time with a man could be better
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