She's gorgeous!! How can anyone not want to be married to her or have a daughter-in-law like her..... She would be gladly welcomed in my family.... I wish her love and a beautiful story like she deserves...
I almost cry but then i felt good on the last part that finally you accept the fact that youre not really meant for each other and all you have to do is to accept and let it go. Just stay strong don't lose hope your still young and you'll find someone better that him that will fight and stand on your side no matter what.
JustOneGuy it’s not the same thing. Rape hurts someone, cousin marriage is between two consenting people and hurts no one. Apples and oranges. So in fact you’re the one being stupid.
There are just so many rules when you are a Bengali girl...It's great to see another fellow Bengali not caring about what society has to say and enjoying her life
I think it's the most beautiful thing, when you finally realise you don't need others to make you happy, all you need is yourself and a whole lot of love.
OMG!!! You dodged a MAJOR bullet by "losing" this boyfriend of yours. Normal dudes and families don't approve of marrying within the family...like...wtf? Also, imagine dealing with that spiritually limited mother in law of yours for years.... unfathomable. Consider yourself lucky.
Amazing video!! Thank you for sharing this. She was a prisoner and now she's free. Glad to know that she knows how beautiful, poweful and unique she is. I hope that it lasts forever. xoxo from Brazil
I understand her...I'm finally in her situation... I can't even describe how good I feel now. Sometimes I almost start crying about it cause I'm so happy & relieved.
Awww I actually like her hair and I think she's pretty, I hope one day she meets the right person who will know her true worth :) Be strong! And know that you true beauty comes from within
Wow. What a reality to face when who you are is just not enough for the people you love. In the end, I feel she still got what she wanted. She found love, self-love. It's the most important love in our lives.
Exactly. What this lady went through i feel it now. I feel free in my aloness. But im not alone. I have me. Love. Understanding. Im thankful for the skin i live in. For the being that i am. Yes.
Arranged marriages are what is Islamically allowed, in Islam you’re not allowed to go mingle with the opposite sex and form your own relationships without the family as an umbrella.
Zainab Mirza you are right but it is also alright to go propose someone you like in an appropriate manner and approach their family for consent. Arranged marriage is not just followed by muslims of South Asia. I have seen this practice among Hindus too.
You go girl! That guy and his mom were autentic asholes (seriously, a little warning?) your life is much more than whatever someone else expects I just went throu a lot of trouble with my familie's expectations, its not gonna be easy but I will go on and don't let them push me down ever again. It took me time to learn this is the best you can do with your life: live it yourself
I hate that she said "Muslim parents tend to arrange marriages" NO, that is only South Asian cultures that do this sort of weird racist ish and marry to cousins back home. South Asian culture is very distinct in that the family/parents basically control their kids' destiny especially in marriage - and that's for Muslim and non-Muslim South Asians. Us African Muslims never do this weird stuff and are much more open minded
Many Arabs do it too, especially Saudis. I'm African and grew up Muslim too, my community doesn't do arranged marriages but they do pressure people in a way. It's not unheard of for people to marry their first cousins too, but I always assume that's something we picked up from Saudis lol
racist? this is just a description of their cultural traditions - arranged marriages and in-family marriages are a part of the cultural practice of south asians - whether you like it or not. just cuz it can be bad doesn't mean calling it out is racist...
What a crap way to break up with someone and in a Cersie/Jamie sort of way. I'm glad that creepy guy didn't get to have this good person. He was unworthy.
A very good story of u And all Muslim parents are not like that also u had nothing to prove if u did all that to prove to that mom that u r free and u can do what ever u want it wasn't worth it Power and loving ur self doesn't mean to prove somebody else something or to do what somebody else said don't Just be u and stay u other things and what other pple say doesn't count doesn't matter U r u and always u and every person is btfl n good looking as he/she is Love and peace ✌
So beautiful 😍 It’s seems to me like God was protecting you for him and his parents,If he was the one for you he wouldn have chosen you no matter what and protected you from his mother.... girl 👧 you will find someone better trust me
I don't know...she didn't seem all that happy in the end, her sorrow and longing is still first and foremost. Not as uplifting as I'd hoped for. I hope she found the right one someday...
It's perfectly normal, in the end, the man she thought she was going to marry left her without notice and married another woman. The way she reacts to the situation it is what's going to make her grow as a person but it's still hurtful.
Isn't that reality though? I'm willing to be she's happier now alone than she would've been if she ended up marrying into her high school bf's backward/judgmental family. She dodged a bullet and now she's able to grow into the person she was meant to be. Her journey is not over yet, as cheesy as that sounds.
Wishing her to find the perfect man makes me believe you didn't understand the video...of course it was hard for her to lose the love of her young life but instead she found love for herself, she understood that she can be absolutely fine WITHOUT a man. That she can be herself and that no one has the right to judge her for that!
Proud of your strength and your love for you...we all should be in love with ourselves too. You can also be happy you're not with in-laws who don't love you for you. Who needs all that...especially if they're hooking their son up with his First Cousin? (Yuck!)
"I let go of my delusion and fell in love with my reality"
Same
She's gorgeous!! How can anyone not want to be married to her or have a daughter-in-law like her..... She would be gladly welcomed in my family.... I wish her love and a beautiful story like she deserves...
Just saw this video and i was thinking everything you said... She is Gorgeous! I wish her love and a beautiful story likes she deserves...
I wanna be like her one day.
Don't we all though ❤️
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Sameeee
The timing of this video is beautiful
I love my dark skin. To hell with those who find it ugly!
yessss!
you go girl!
In America, darker white people are favored. It's why there's an emphasis on getting a tan.
Thanks for sharing your beautiful heart and story. You go girl🙌🏻🙌🏻👊🏼
This is what i call *Bengali Beauty* 😍❤❤
Dance on your mountain! You are awesome.
Yes!!
I almost cry but then i felt good on the last part that finally you accept the fact that youre not really meant for each other and all you have to do is to accept and let it go.
Just stay strong don't lose hope your still young and you'll find someone better that him that will fight and stand on your side no matter what.
Yesss!!! Love her message 😊
'Made a thon of gay friends.' YESSSS GIRL!!! Never supress your own self for other people because is just an illusion. 》》》》Sending LOVE! 《《《
I hope he watches this video and sees how happy and amazing of a person you are 💕
His cousin??? Eww
You can do better girl
It's a Pakistani thing, that is very very commonly done in that country.
Shut up!!! Cultures are different and respect it!!!
incest is still pretty gross
JustOneGuy it’s not the same thing. Rape hurts someone, cousin marriage is between two consenting people and hurts no one. Apples and oranges. So in fact you’re the one being stupid.
JustOneGuy your culture portray killing innocent ppl as saving usa
What a powerfull meaning! Thank you so much!
There are just so many rules when you are a Bengali girl...It's great to see another fellow Bengali not caring about what society has to say and enjoying her life
I think it's the most beautiful thing, when you finally realise you don't need others to make you happy, all you need is yourself and a whole lot of love.
OMG!!! You dodged a MAJOR bullet by "losing" this boyfriend of yours.
Normal dudes and families don't approve of marrying within the family...like...wtf?
Also, imagine dealing with that spiritually limited mother in law of yours for years.... unfathomable.
Consider yourself lucky.
Possibly the most perfect set of teeth I've ever seen.
Haha what an interesting thing to notice...
Also, beautiful message shared. Kinda needed that. 🙌😁
I found a secret unlisted video! So good
She's so beautiful, inside and out
“I was alone but felt free” - Beautiful❤️
Thank you very much for sharing your story! I very much needed to hear this.
Amazing video!! Thank you for sharing this. She was a prisoner and now she's free. Glad to know that she knows how beautiful, poweful and unique she is. I hope that it lasts forever. xoxo from Brazil
Girl you are beautiful...
go shine
Don't get held by the past
You deserve best
Thanks for the message
I understand her...I'm finally in her situation...
I can't even describe how good I feel now. Sometimes I almost start crying about it cause I'm so happy & relieved.
omg i love her and i wanna be best friends with her she seems so full of life, i cried a lil when she said "I have my own mountain" you go girl!!!!!
You are a strong and beautiful woman! Thank you for sharing your story! Keep living life to the fullest!!!
Awww I actually like her hair and I think she's pretty, I hope one day she meets the right person who will know her true worth :)
Be strong! And know that you true beauty comes from within
Wow. What a reality to face when who you are is just not enough for the people you love. In the end, I feel she still got what she wanted. She found love, self-love. It's the most important love in our lives.
I really needed this! Thank you 😊
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story.
❤️❤️
You go, girl! What courage! What an inspiration, you are!
I wish i could ❤ this! You are so bright and beautiful, inside and out! I'm glad you've found freedom within yourself.
Speaks to my heart and what I tell others to do!.. Thank you so much for sharing!..
Love it. Absolutely beautiful, I'm also crying.
Beautiful story...congratulations for finding YOU!
Love when I can find a gem of a video on a platform filled with junk . Subscribed
I could not have come by this video at a better time, thank you!
She was brave with..all experience made her much stronger.hope u'll get the right guy 1day dear. I saw her sadness while talking..
"I dance to my own tune" ...nice line
Exactly. What this lady went through i feel it now. I feel free in my aloness. But im not alone. I have me. Love. Understanding. Im thankful for the skin i live in. For the being that i am. Yes.
Arranged marriage is not a 'Muslim' thing! It's a purely south asian thing regardless of the religion!
Momina zafar yes that annoyed me
Arranged marriages are what is Islamically allowed, in Islam you’re not allowed to go mingle with the opposite sex and form your own relationships without the family as an umbrella.
Zainab Mirza you are right but it is also alright to go propose someone you like in an appropriate manner and approach their family for consent. Arranged marriage is not just followed by muslims of South Asia. I have seen this practice among Hindus too.
Momina zafar nobody marries their first coudin ewwe. not us .
sync it’s literally common in Pakistan, maybe research a little.
Beautiful story. Beautiful message. Beautiful woman. Beautiful person.
Love myself, Love yourself
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didi blabla Yessss ARMY❤❤❤
ARMY!!!!!!
didi blabla I knew I would find this comment somewhere in here 😂😂 ARMYYY
You go girl! That guy and his mom were autentic asholes (seriously, a little warning?) your life is much more than whatever someone else expects
I just went throu a lot of trouble with my familie's expectations, its not gonna be easy but I will go on and don't let them push me down ever again. It took me time to learn this is the best you can do with your life: live it yourself
U go girl story really made me feel something never give up and don't let anyone tell u who to be
There’s just the sparkle in her eyes that amazes me
Live life on your own terms
Wow...”I have my own mountain, and I dance too my own tune” GOOD FOR YOU!!!’
You are absoulutly stunning inside and out, dont let anybody tell you different, best wishes from the UK.
I wish i could give her a hug. This is a heartbreaking though beautiful story of finding her inner self... 💛
Inspiring. Thank you!
- From someone who's never truly been able to love himself.
How can someone dislike this?😐😑
This is such a beautiful message!!
Gongrats dear friend! loving yourself is the best thing you can do.
Keep doing this series!!!!!! I need it🧡🧡🧡🧡
Beautiful. Could really sense how hard it was to share, but thanks for sharing
Omgg I am in love with her😭😭😭 she’s an icon!!
This was really relateable and so inspiring! 😍
Oh my god! Girl, I love you! Beautiful! xxxxxx
she's so pretty how could anyone say that to her
I hate that she said "Muslim parents tend to arrange marriages" NO, that is only South Asian cultures that do this sort of weird racist ish and marry to cousins back home. South Asian culture is very distinct in that the family/parents basically control their kids' destiny especially in marriage - and that's for Muslim and non-Muslim South Asians. Us African Muslims never do this weird stuff and are much more open minded
isnt that hypocrisy? like being racist to south asians?
Many Arabs do it too, especially Saudis. I'm African and grew up Muslim too, my community doesn't do arranged marriages but they do pressure people in a way. It's not unheard of for people to marry their first cousins too, but I always assume that's something we picked up from Saudis lol
racist? this is just a description of their cultural traditions - arranged marriages and in-family marriages are a part of the cultural practice of south asians - whether you like it or not. just cuz it can be bad doesn't mean calling it out is racist...
oh and south asians are notoriously racist - calling out a racist does not make one racist.
Fritzie Tina well said
that warmed my heart
Go You Girl Very inspiring!!!!!
She's absolutely stunning
She is beautiful and brave ❤️
One of my favorite videos for sure 👸🏻
i love you , you moved me to tears
This was such a beautiful story
This is so sad. We all long for a connection and to be loved.
*WISH SHE COULD BE MY GIRLFRIEND*
Bwahahahahaha
Sooo beautiful!❤️✨
Awesome said 😊
Your beautiful. Run free and embrace the beauty you have inside and out.
You go girl. Poeple will never love you if you don't love yourself. Don't take it personal it is a law.
Love your spirit!
I love this😍❤️ thank you
I love this so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
What a crap way to break up with someone and in a Cersie/Jamie sort of way. I'm glad that creepy guy didn't get to have this good person. He was unworthy.
A very good story of u
And all Muslim parents are not like that also u had nothing to prove if u did all that to prove to that mom that u r free and u can do what ever u want it wasn't worth it
Power and loving ur self doesn't mean to prove somebody else something or to do what somebody else said don't
Just be u and stay u other things and what other pple say doesn't count doesn't matter
U r u and always u and every person is btfl n good looking as he/she is
Love and peace ✌
Love her message❤❤❤❤
Lmfaoooo "then he yelled out 'NOOOO!!' " I died
She is a treasure.
This is beautiful ❤
That's soooooo beautiful
Totally relatable. Keep on dancing 🕺
You go girl" because ,you're the "queen"👸 on that mountain!🗻 👏👏
Good for you!
Why does it have so few views ?
(sorry, there are probably some mistakes, i'm french)
The video is currently unlisted, so it hasn't turned up in people's subscription feeds yet.
Dude, that was perfect English.
So beautiful 😍 It’s seems to me like God was protecting you for him and his parents,If he was the one for you he wouldn have chosen you no matter what and protected you from his mother.... girl 👧 you will find someone better trust me
You are amazing and gorgeous and I LOVE your short hair!!
Just like rapmon says love yourself, love myself!
this is beautiful
You go girl!!👍👏❤
I don't know...she didn't seem all that happy in the end, her sorrow and longing is still first and foremost. Not as uplifting as I'd hoped for. I hope she found the right one someday...
It's perfectly normal, in the end, the man she thought she was going to marry left her without notice and married another woman. The way she reacts to the situation it is what's going to make her grow as a person but it's still hurtful.
Isn't that reality though? I'm willing to be she's happier now alone than she would've been if she ended up marrying into her high school bf's backward/judgmental family. She dodged a bullet and now she's able to grow into the person she was meant to be. Her journey is not over yet, as cheesy as that sounds.
Wishing her to find the perfect man makes me believe you didn't understand the video...of course it was hard for her to lose the love of her young life but instead she found love for herself, she understood that she can be absolutely fine WITHOUT a man. That she can be herself and that no one has the right to judge her for that!
I love this
Damn girl I’m so inspired
Proud of your strength and your love for you...we all should be in love with ourselves too.
You can also be happy you're not with in-laws who don't love you for you. Who needs all that...especially if they're hooking their son up with his First Cousin? (Yuck!)
i love this!
I love this soooo much 😥
You’re amazing sister❤️❤️❤️
Made my heart smile