Thank you. I watched this 4 years ago when my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer. I periodically come back to this video. He passed in March, and I am filled with more love than loss, but this is absolutely comforting. My dad and I had a similar relationship that y'all had. ❤️
So sorry for your loss. I remember that moment so well, my dad also had cancer, the day the doctor said that there was nothing more they can do and his body couldn't tolerate anything else. I miss him so much, there isn't a day that pass I don't think of him and it's been since 2014. He lived 2 weeks and 2 days after that.
My dad died 6 years ago when I was 14, he was terminally ill for 18 months prior to passing, the hospital/ICU/Hospice story was all almost the exact same with him too, this video really made the feels kick in.
My dad died 5 years ago, when I was just 10 years old. Absolutely broke my heart. It affected my life forever, But this showed me that I should be happy & cherish all the moments I have had with him, and to appreciate the 10 years that I have had with him & to appreciate everything. Thank you for this. xX
My dad also passed from cancer one year after my mom passed away. Your story really touched me. I remember the way it felt to learn my dad was doing to die, it was like being punched in the soul. Hearing him take his last breath left a hole in me, but I will always have the memories of him supporting me in all of the crazy adventures I had. I am so glad that you got to have that from your dad too.
What a wonderfully touching story. So many of us do not get a lasting memory that really connects us with those who pass. I am so glad you did, and that you were willing to share.
This touched my heart. Aside from the movie bit, I had a very similar experience with my dad. Watching him battle and ultimately lose to cancer was incredibly hard. But I will forever be grateful for the special last moments I got to share with him. I'm glad you got such a special last moment with yours too. Peace and love.
Nick Ross... You are one of the most touching, interesting, beautiful human beings I have ever had the pleasure to listen to. I am always looking forward to more videos from you :) Lots of love from Paris
Kung-Fu Kenny Family Some people have parents that may be alive but they are not good parents so what's to be thankful for? Thanks for giving me life? Nope , had/have a shitty life full of hate and abuse and neglect. Thanks for always being there for me? LOL I mean for not ever being there bc it's better getting drunk everyday or simply just not caring. Whether it was a school function, birthday or holiday, when my children were born, or right now while I battle stage 4 cancer my parents could care less. I can barely move bc my bones hurt and I always feel nauseous , but according to them I am just lazy. Sorry, but some parents don't deserve it. I sure am unthankful, ungrateful, and uninterested in MY parents and glad I have other family and my best friends family, too. That was a far too in depth answer lol but u get the point. Long story short.. I hate my parents and they are assholes..
My dad passed away this morning, or yesterday morning, havn't slept in days. I am glad he is finally not suffering of pain, I just know he is in a better place.
Im 15. My dad is 79. hes still here, but all of us know hes gonna die soon. i dont want to lose him and i dont wanna think so much of the future. he got cancer in his stomach. hes so strong and got through a lot of things and im so proud of him. i hope someone sees this
I just got the news my dad has cancer in his stomach a few hours ago. We don’t know much, but it doesn’t look good. I’m heartbroken. I can’t picture ever being completely happy again. I know I will, and I know we will together while he’s still here. I hope you are well.
@@mikeking8155 Hey Mike im so sorry to hear that i know exactly what u are feeling right now, it breaks my heart because u cant do nothing and thats the worst feeling. my dad is 80 now and is doing pretty good, of course hes still not in best shape but hes getting better everyday. I really hope that ur father n your family will get though these difficult times n make sure to check on him and your family often, remember time cant be stopped so enjoy every single moment! Blessings to your father and your fam 🙏🏽
My dad has a potentially deadly disease that he thought was a cough for years.. I don’t wanna lose him I love him so much he’s been the best dad he could. But if he does pass, I know that he loved us so much I just want him to live.
My father passed away from cancer on the first day of september 2020, five weeks after his diagnosis. My favourite person in the whole universe. I miss you, I love you. Life.
Stephanie DeGange God bless you and your whole family as well Stephanie, and I am sorry to hear about your father. It's tough but will make it through and don't be afraid to say what you got to say to him before he goes, let him know how special he is to you❤️
I hope your getting better man, I was so touched by your video as I am going through this now and the sadness I feel is like nothing I have experienced before, you take care and God bless.
Sorry for your loss! I remember the day my grandma was hospitalized like it was yesterday, I had to go home from school with a fever and my mom was in town because my grandma had a doctor's appointment. They thought that she had jaundice, but apparently it progressed because they found out she had tumors in her liver that had spread through her body and a few months earlier she was fine. One month later, she passed away on Nov. 12th, 2017.
Thanks for sharing. Your story was unique from mine; however, I put myself into your position in a smilar way. I just learned last week that my father has Stage 4 cancer and we need to prepare for Hospice and so forth. I deal with challenges in humor. It helps me; it helps my dad; and it helps the family. But, in the end ... I cry when I go home. To my friend in this video, thanks for sharing and I owe you a hug. -Brett
Stay strong and prayers to you, your dad, and family. Hospice is a good idea when it’s time. When my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, we collectively decided against hospice to our own detriment. My mother’s death could’ve been much more peaceful.
They keep finding new tumours in my dad, and while they're still willing to offer treatment, I can already see the writing on the wall ... I'm 37, and still feel so unprepared for what's to come. I am scared to see him suffer potentially, or see the final moments... I cannot fathom the finality of it... 💔💔💔
My dad went in for a persistent migraine turned out to be stage 4 cancer. We were shocked! None of us could believe it but it was true he lived for 4 years after and passed away in 2007. It's been a long 10 years but I'm finally coming to terms with his death! Life is so weird that way, cherish every moment...
My father is dying too. They are bringing in hospice today. I have no idea how to cope, what to do, think feel, anything. I don't know how people move through this in their lives. Things will never ever be the same. My mom's best friend, companion for 60 years is not going to be here with us anymore. I just don't even know.
A couple of months and my mom passed, june to august 27th its officially been a year and god it hurts because i wish she could have been like that, but it was also cancer and in the end she couldnt talk, had to have socks on her hands so she wouldn't take her oxygen mask off, it still feels so real, the nights i spent watching her from 11pm to 8am no sleep i stayed by her side listening to her rattling as she slept and i don't know why but this year is a lot harder for me and i cant focus on anything, ive been told multiple times to stop grieving because i should be past it but. That was my mom. She wanted me to get a degree but i can't do anything in my classes but cry and because of it my sister who i'm living with may kick me out. It's all so surreal I keep telling everyone I know like it's not real, that she won't kick me out but. Life is so. Horrible sometimes. I just hope that in the future I can be stable and have my own place with my partner, that's all I ask for. Anyways, if ya'll read this thanks sorry for spilling my beans like you guys are my close friends lol, i hope you all have a good day though
Ryou I’ll be there. Talk to me if you need me. My sister died when she was three months old. I’d always wanted a sister and I was so excited. Me and my brothers had gone shopping with our dad to get presents and everything was fine. Then my step mum gave birth. We didn’t know what my sisters illness was. And still don’t know. I saw her only twice but I treasure those moments. I have another sister now and she’s a sweetheart, but I wanna live my life as my sister would.
Ryou I'm so sorry for your loss. You aren't alone, believe me. I have a history of mental illnesses, and I know it's hard. Surround yourself with the people who you want to be around. Think into the future and what amazing things you will live. The past is in the past, and you can't stay sad forever. If you are still having trouble, I would recommend that you speak to a therapist. I'm only 14 years old, and I've seen a lot, but life keeps on going. Good luck, random person on the Internet :)
My mom died in 2008 and it still hurts so bad.. İt's getting better tho.. you have to and you will get used to it and I wish you all the best for your future xx ❤
This hurts me... My Dad is inside right now, he's unhealthy and has a lot of health issues. One of them being Dementia. I take care of him. Always have. I don't know what my life would be like without him. Everynight I cry, wondering when he'll go and just what from. He's older, 64 as of this month, and I'm only 24 as of July. So I guess you'd say I have older parents. My Dad has already had a sever heart attack once, many other problems. My Dad has always been my best friend. I've never been closed to my Mom. I'm so worried about him... He knows he's going to die. I'm more worried about me. I don't think I can handle it.
Kacie Lysne 64 isn't older hun. That's young to have all his issues and young to die. Ur basically still a kid at 24. U will understand one day when u really r old like me. Thinking about u and hope everything happens the way its supposed to.
Jess Secrest you missed the point. I DO have old parents. My Dad had me at 40. That's pretty old for having a newborn. I never said he wasn't father. And also, yeah 64 is not "old" per say but every human and body has different health factors. So my Dad may not be "old" to you, but his doctors have said his health makes him the age of 80. So if you don't know, then you don't know... Like I said I've taken care of him my whole life basically, I know my Dad. Not everybody has health to make it to their 80's, so I don't understand why you're telling me about my father when you don't know him or his health but thanks for wishing the best for him.
Jess Secrest I also didn't label all his health issues, so when you say those things, you still don't know. He has a brain tumor also the size of a softball that's pushing down on his spine. And many other things. I worry because I know I need to. I don't just worry cause the number of his age. He also still smokes 2-3 packs a day which is why he had his first heart attack. Idk why I'm explaining myself... I just wanted to vent. But I will say do NOT call me a kid. I'm a SINGLE mother to a 4 year old. I've been taking care of my father forever. And our old house, 4 pets, his new apartment, and mine, and paying for it all. So sorry. I don't think I'll ever "understand" why someone would comment the way you did not knowing anything, calling me a "kid" and saying my dad isn't old, when his health makes him 80+........ I'm glad you were nice at the end but the rest of the comment I almost felt offended. Just letting you know for future reference. But thank you
It’s a lot to handle. But you can handle it. In fact, you are. Make sure that you take time for yourself and your life as well. You can be devoted and giving daughter without taking all your time with your parents. Also, after you do a lot if care taking you are going to get fatigue or burn out. It’s natural. In 2008 my mom was in a rehabilitation facility and was in a terminal stage of her life. She had several months or more where she would probably live (as it turned out she hung on for over year after that). I went to see her almost every day after work and at least one day a weekend. That year, I was very excited by the election coming up and flew to Ohio to do campaign legal work for the Obama campaign. It was something I really wanted to do and it meant a lot to me. I took the time for myself to do that and when I came back she was still there and I was a much better caretaker for having taken a little time off of care-taking.
I'm in the same situation now. I'm 24 and my dad is 63 and will die today or tomorrow. I've been there for hours and just getting rest now. I hope this gets easier. I really do.
I couldn’t believe it when my dad went down so fast! I all happened so fast. It’s changed my life forever…. Now I fear losing my mom! It’s haunts me. Live when she dies I will truly be alone in this world… I can’t even sleep feeling sad feeling like how could I send more time with her. It kills me 😢 lung cancer is evil it took time away…. Like time stopped in my life and it’s never really picked up again
wonderful story, I was estranged from my dad, I grew up in care and he never wanted kids (was forced into marrying my mum) anyway I had a distant relationship with him through his third wife and when he died she didnt tell me for a month and when I visited to find out where he was buried she refused to tell me and threatened to get the police on me. She also so told me that he hated the fact that I am gay as well. Its good that he got to have a such a great relationship with his dad and got to say goodbye. I forgave both of them and said goodbye in my own way!
It’s the moment that I’ve been dreading all of my life. I’ve been so so fortunate but at the age of 51, both of my parents are still alive, but all things considered, going strong in their late 80s. But my father has a huge amount of health problems, essentially only one wire from his pacemaker is what’s keeping him alive, but you could never tell it from looking at them, they both are the picture of health for their age. Especially being an adopted person, my parents are more than just family, more than friends, they are literally a part of me, and when they pass, that part is going to be ripped off of me, and I have no idea what I’m going to do. Sounds crazy doesn’t it? At 51 years old I’m worrying about this, you would think a 51-year-old man would be more mature, and normally I am, But not when it comes to losing the two people I love more than anything else on this planet. To be honest I don’t know if I want to stick around after they’re gone, they’ve done more than support me throughout my life, they have been my life, and everything I’ve done they’ve been there supporting me, even if they didn’t agree with me, it always let me know how much they love me. I myself have had 37 surgeries since I was 20 because of Crohn’s disease and intestinal cancer, they were there for every single surgery, and were the first people I saw when I woke up from them. That’s the kind of love and dedication I’m talking about it, and while I do everything in my power to make their lives as easy as I can, the truth is they won’t be around much longer, and I have no idea what I’m gonna do once they’re gone. Is it absolutely ridiculous that a man my age are so attached to his parents that he won’t want to live after they’re gone? I can’t talk anymore, my eyes are filled with tears and I’m just too upset, all I can tell you is, cherish your parents, they are the only people on this planet that will love you no matter what, and make sure they know how much you care, because once they’re gone, it’s too late to say I wish I would have. Thanks for listening, and God bless.
I’ll pray for your dad. I am in the same boat. My father is dying as well and the doctors had told me he only had 3 months or less to live. At the moment I am at a loss and I don’t know what to do
Me and my dad have never been close. My parents are married and I wan never taken away but me and my parents never really had a connection. They started to talk to me less and less when I came out as lesbian. Lately things have been getting better though. My mom was away on a trip for the church she serves and my dad talked to me a lot more. We even like the same music, we’ve been blasting classic rock every time we go somewhere. I’m sorry about your dad and I will definitely try to cherish every moment I have left with mine❤️
ill be losing my dad tomorrow after he was fighting multiple surgeries in the last 7 weeks John ,Dad a day will not pass where i wont think of you your 6 brothers and sisters will miss you so very much you Mother knows you will be with Grampap and Christian, Melissa,John,Skye, and Myself love you and we are so very proud of you you was always there. We will take care of Mom , You just rest now and maybe one day we will all see you again. ill be there to say goodbye just rest in peace.
I can't relate ,me and my dad barely or never talk even tho we live in the same house. Never teach me anything, never explained, never be supportive. I guess I don't have to be that sadden when the time come. :/
My dad has gone through a lot. Fighting, getting beat up, and doing a lot. And now his back and his tooth keeps hurting like crazy for him and he can’t hear too good and he throws up a lot and he has infected teeth and stuff. And he sleeps a lot and he gets mad sometimes but I know he still loves me and it’s just cause of what’s going on right now. I think he might be dying and when I hug him and when I see him it brings tears in my eyes cause I think he’s dying.
My dad has also gotten very ill, deathly ill. My dad is most likely going to pass soon and we don't know how many more holidays we'll have with him so we made last Christmas special. I'm only 12 at the time and I know that if he does it's gonna he bad for both me and my mom because I wont have a father figure to grow up with and I'm worried about my mom because she would would have to take care of me and my 2 year old sister. I'm just worried for what could happen soon.
My dad is dying of cancer and is in the hospital right now, i havent told anyone who i know and the hardest part is that i dont remember the last words between us and im not going to see him again...
Guys, currently my dad is in the ICU suffering from a tumor, and if he bleeds anymore, he will die. I beg of you, please, pray together for my dad to live.Please.
I'm scared to lose my dad this year, He got his leg Cut off due to his infection of his leg, and somehow he is a bit weak.. I'm literally begging for god not to lose him this year..
My dad is a good person when he isn't drunk. He gave me money and he's very nice to me. But whenever he's drunk he would swear at me and my mother. He would abused us, especially my mom. He's so lazy that he never had a consistent job to support us that's why my mom had to do everything for us including my school fees. She did everything to provide for me while my father didn't do anything but drink and smoke and it made my life feels like hell. I saw how my mother suffer because of him. She would constantly asked somebody to give her a job even if it pays so little just to get by through the entire day that's why she's always tired and of course he would always give me hard time too. I can't even focus on studying because when he's drunk he's so loud. When my mom finally found a regular job with decent salary we tried to get away and move out of the house but my father would always finds us. Now that I have a job, he would just expect me to pay for everything while he is out drinking everyday. I really hate him and I really wish him to die. He's so toxic to our family. I really feel sorry for my mother. She left her family because they are so poor and she was expecting a good life here in manila, but all she get was suffering and torture. I'm so guilty for not being a good daughter. Now that I have a job, I truly understand how hard she raise me. But my father is still with us continuously torturing us to this day. If I'm being honest, I really want him to die. That's how much I hate him. I hate him to death.
My dad used to be abusive and angry too when he drank. Now he’s very old, frail, and has an incurable disease. He has mellowed out but it’s painful to see him so sick. You stated that your father is a good man when he’s not drunk. I encourage you not to wish for his death but that he quits all his addictions and heals.
I'm 17 years old I got news today my father that he's dying and i haven't seen him a year because he beat up my mum and his drug addiction to meth as a result of 20 + years of regular drug and alcohol abuse he has cirrhosis of the liver it started with hepatitis but his habit restrained him from seeking treatment and my mum was not right in the head at the time because she also was addicted to drugs so things went by and I've grown up seeing him do drugs on a regular basis and I was ok with it for some reason but I see he's done this to himself now and I have the chance to see him to say goodbye and he's done alot of bad disgraceful things in his lifetime and I don't trust him enough for a smooth experience of saying goodbye it's the dilemma I'm facing and I think i will see him and say goodbye because in fear of regret I'm sure there's alot of people experiencing similar situations as a son I will try and see him and say goodbye and give him a positive experience before he passes away because at least that's what he deserves he is 48 years old so I will never touch any dangerous drugs because it's proof that you die young and that's a lesson for me to know and hopefully the process will be easy for me and I will be able to move forward easy and excell at being a good person
Nice story ! December is death month in my family I dread it My dad age 50 dec 18 My aunt age 50 dec 14 My gmom age 75 dec 25 Uncle age 52 dec 26 I just turned 50
My dad went into hospice and passed away early this year. Thanks for making this. It's so hard to put words to those final experiences.
Stephanie Thomas I'm sorry for your loss♥
For me I could call this "The year of death." Sorry for your dad.
-Three years late, but you and family are in my prayers. Hug.
Thank you. I watched this 4 years ago when my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer. I periodically come back to this video. He passed in March, and I am filled with more love than loss, but this is absolutely comforting. My dad and I had a similar relationship that y'all had. ❤️
So sorry for your loss. I remember that moment so well, my dad also had cancer, the day the doctor said that there was nothing more they can do and his body couldn't tolerate anything else. I miss him so much, there isn't a day that pass I don't think of him and it's been since 2014. He lived 2 weeks and 2 days after that.
My dad died 6 years ago when I was 14, he was terminally ill for 18 months prior to passing, the hospital/ICU/Hospice story was all almost the exact same with him too, this video really made the feels kick in.
Wow... Amazing story. Losing a loved one is real life. These things happened and I'm grateful for people who are willing to share their experiences.
Alright ....that hit ..right in the feels😢
My dad died 5 years ago, when I was just 10 years old. Absolutely broke my heart. It affected my life forever, But this showed me that I should be happy & cherish all the moments I have had with him, and to appreciate the 10 years that I have had with him & to appreciate everything. Thank you for this. xX
My dad also passed from cancer one year after my mom passed away. Your story really touched me. I remember the way it felt to learn my dad was doing to die, it was like being punched in the soul. Hearing him take his last breath left a hole in me, but I will always have the memories of him supporting me in all of the crazy adventures I had. I am so glad that you got to have that from your dad too.
Oh my god… I am going through similar condition I’m 20 and don’t have power to bear this situation
It’s a shame that a lot more of social media isn’t like this. It was a really beautiful, well made and moving piece of work.
What a wonderfully touching story. So many of us do not get a lasting memory that really connects us with those who pass. I am so glad you did, and that you were willing to share.
This touched my heart. Aside from the movie bit, I had a very similar experience with my dad. Watching him battle and ultimately lose to cancer was incredibly hard. But I will forever be grateful for the special last moments I got to share with him. I'm glad you got such a special last moment with yours too. Peace and love.
Beautiful moment with your dad! Glad you could have it !
Nick Ross... You are one of the most touching, interesting, beautiful human beings I have ever had the pleasure to listen to.
I am always looking forward to more videos from you :)
Lots of love from Paris
Was just in Paris! Thank you :)
this is very beautiful. well done soulpancake
this was such a great story, and you are a beautiful storyteller
Thanks :)
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad Nick. All the best wishes to you.
Wow , this is moving yet beautiful
And a lot of people still unthankful of grace of having they parents alive #RiptheDeadones
Kung-Fu Kenny Family Some people have parents that may be alive but they are not good parents so what's to be thankful for? Thanks for giving me life? Nope , had/have a shitty life full of hate and abuse and neglect. Thanks for always being there for me? LOL I mean for not ever being there bc it's better getting drunk everyday or simply just not caring. Whether it was a school function, birthday or holiday, when my children were born, or right now while I battle stage 4 cancer my parents could care less. I can barely move bc my bones hurt and I always feel nauseous , but according to them I am just lazy. Sorry, but some parents don't deserve it. I sure am unthankful, ungrateful, and uninterested in MY parents and glad I have other family and my best friends family, too. That was a far too in depth answer lol but u get the point. Long story short.. I hate my parents and they are assholes..
My dad passed away this morning, or yesterday morning, havn't slept in days. I am glad he is finally not suffering of pain, I just know he is in a better place.
Im 15. My dad is 79. hes still here, but all of us know hes gonna die soon. i dont want to lose him and i dont wanna think so much of the future. he got cancer in his stomach. hes so strong and got through a lot of things and im so proud of him. i hope someone sees this
My father died from copd 07 months ago. I will never be the same. God bless you and your father!
@@christianleitgeb2275 Thank u sir blessings to you and ur family
I just got the news my dad has cancer in his stomach a few hours ago. We don’t know much, but it doesn’t look good. I’m heartbroken. I can’t picture ever being completely happy again. I know I will, and I know we will together while he’s still here. I hope you are well.
@@mikeking8155 Hey Mike im so sorry to hear that i know exactly what u are feeling right now, it breaks my heart because u cant do nothing and thats the worst feeling. my dad is 80 now and is doing pretty good, of course hes still not in best shape but hes getting better everyday. I really hope that ur father n your family will get though these difficult times n make sure to check on him and your family often, remember time cant be stopped so enjoy every single moment! Blessings to your father and your fam 🙏🏽
My dad has a potentially deadly disease that he thought was a cough for years..
I don’t wanna lose him I love him so much he’s been the best dad he could.
But if he does pass, I know that he loved us so much I just want him to live.
I am going through same😭😭. How is your dad brother?
This is just so beautiful. Thank you for sharing!
Another season of magic! Bravo, SoulPancake, bravo.
I'm sad for your loss and happy for your joy.
Such a great way to put it ❤️
My father passed away from cancer on the first day of september 2020, five weeks after his diagnosis. My favourite person in the whole universe. I miss you, I love you. Life.
God bless you, Ardie. My father is dying of pancreatic cancer.
Stephanie DeGange God bless you and your whole family as well Stephanie, and I am sorry to hear about your father. It's tough but will make it through and don't be afraid to say what you got to say to him before he goes, let him know how special he is to you❤️
@@ardimcfly7438 thank you so much...
What an amazing story teller and great story Ross. So happy to know you and be a part of the 0 to 100 series 😊
I love this guy. Too much for words.
that moment when you have an argument with your dad then watch this video and ran to hug the breath out of him
❤️ keep on hugging him
I hope your getting better man, I was so touched by your video as I am going through this now and the sadness I feel is like nothing I have experienced before, you take care and God bless.
I'm glad he got to see your debut though, rest in peace
Sorry for your loss! I remember the day my grandma was hospitalized like it was yesterday, I had to go home from school with a fever and my mom was in town because my grandma had a doctor's appointment. They thought that she had jaundice, but apparently it progressed because they found out she had tumors in her liver that had spread through her body and a few months earlier she was fine. One month later, she passed away on Nov. 12th, 2017.
Thanks for sharing. Your story was unique from mine; however, I put myself into your position in a smilar way. I just learned last week that my father has Stage 4 cancer and we need to prepare for Hospice and so forth. I deal with challenges in humor. It helps me; it helps my dad; and it helps the family. But, in the end ... I cry when I go home. To my friend in this video, thanks for sharing and I owe you a hug. -Brett
Stay strong and prayers to you, your dad, and family. Hospice is a good idea when it’s time. When my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, we collectively decided against hospice to our own detriment. My mother’s death could’ve been much more peaceful.
Man...this one hit me hard 😢
They keep finding new tumours in my dad, and while they're still willing to offer treatment, I can already see the writing on the wall ... I'm 37, and still feel so unprepared for what's to come. I am scared to see him suffer potentially, or see the final moments... I cannot fathom the finality of it... 💔💔💔
My dad went in for a persistent migraine turned out to be stage 4 cancer. We were shocked! None of us could believe it but it was true he lived for 4 years after and passed away in 2007. It's been a long 10 years but I'm finally coming to terms with his death! Life is so weird that way, cherish every moment...
Thank you so much for sharing your story. We hope you continue to grow and cherish every moment!
My father is dying too. They are bringing in hospice today. I have no idea how to cope, what to do, think feel, anything. I don't know how people move through this in their lives. Things will never ever be the same. My mom's best friend, companion for 60 years is not going to be here with us anymore. I just don't even know.
My biggest person of my family😭 always loved my amazing dad💘
A couple of months and my mom passed, june to august 27th its officially been a year and god it hurts because i wish she could have been like that, but it was also cancer and in the end she couldnt talk, had to have socks on her hands so she wouldn't take her oxygen mask off, it still feels so real, the nights i spent watching her from 11pm to 8am no sleep i stayed by her side listening to her rattling as she slept and i don't know why but this year is a lot harder for me and i cant focus on anything, ive been told multiple times to stop grieving because i should be past it but. That was my mom. She wanted me to get a degree but i can't do anything in my classes but cry and because of it my sister who i'm living with may kick me out. It's all so surreal I keep telling everyone I know like it's not real, that she won't kick me out but. Life is so. Horrible sometimes. I just hope that in the future I can be stable and have my own place with my partner, that's all I ask for. Anyways, if ya'll read this thanks sorry for spilling my beans like you guys are my close friends lol, i hope you all have a good day though
Ryou I’ll be there. Talk to me if you need me. My sister died when she was three months old. I’d always wanted a sister and I was so excited. Me and my brothers had gone shopping with our dad to get presents and everything was fine. Then my step mum gave birth. We didn’t know what my sisters illness was. And still don’t know. I saw her only twice but I treasure those moments. I have another sister now and she’s a sweetheart, but I wanna live my life as my sister would.
Ryou I'm so sorry for your loss. You aren't alone, believe me. I have a history of mental illnesses, and I know it's hard. Surround yourself with the people who you want to be around. Think into the future and what amazing things you will live. The past is in the past, and you can't stay sad forever. If you are still having trouble, I would recommend that you speak to a therapist. I'm only 14 years old, and I've seen a lot, but life keeps on going. Good luck, random person on the Internet :)
OctieBoopTurtle thanks ill try to get better
The Walking Meme thats a good way to look at it to live how they wouldve thank you ill take that into mind
My mom died in 2008 and it still hurts so bad.. İt's getting better tho.. you have to and you will get used to it and I wish you all the best for your future xx ❤
Love you Nick!!!
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Beautiful ! Thank you !
This hurts me... My Dad is inside right now, he's unhealthy and has a lot of health issues. One of them being Dementia. I take care of him. Always have. I don't know what my life would be like without him. Everynight I cry, wondering when he'll go and just what from. He's older, 64 as of this month, and I'm only 24 as of July. So I guess you'd say I have older parents. My Dad has already had a sever heart attack once, many other problems. My Dad has always been my best friend. I've never been closed to my Mom. I'm so worried about him... He knows he's going to die. I'm more worried about me. I don't think I can handle it.
Kacie Lysne 64 isn't older hun. That's young to have all his issues and young to die. Ur basically still a kid at 24. U will understand one day when u really r old like me. Thinking about u and hope everything happens the way its supposed to.
Jess Secrest you missed the point. I DO have old parents. My Dad had me at 40. That's pretty old for having a newborn. I never said he wasn't father. And also, yeah 64 is not "old" per say but every human and body has different health factors. So my Dad may not be "old" to you, but his doctors have said his health makes him the age of 80. So if you don't know, then you don't know... Like I said I've taken care of him my whole life basically, I know my Dad. Not everybody has health to make it to their 80's, so I don't understand why you're telling me about my father when you don't know him or his health but thanks for wishing the best for him.
Jess Secrest I also didn't label all his health issues, so when you say those things, you still don't know. He has a brain tumor also the size of a softball that's pushing down on his spine. And many other things. I worry because I know I need to. I don't just worry cause the number of his age. He also still smokes 2-3 packs a day which is why he had his first heart attack. Idk why I'm explaining myself... I just wanted to vent. But I will say do NOT call me a kid. I'm a SINGLE mother to a 4 year old. I've been taking care of my father forever. And our old house, 4 pets, his new apartment, and mine, and paying for it all. So sorry. I don't think I'll ever "understand" why someone would comment the way you did not knowing anything, calling me a "kid" and saying my dad isn't old, when his health makes him 80+........ I'm glad you were nice at the end but the rest of the comment I almost felt offended. Just letting you know for future reference. But thank you
It’s a lot to handle. But you can handle it. In fact, you are. Make sure that you take time for yourself and your life as well. You can be devoted and giving daughter without taking all your time with your parents. Also, after you do a lot if care taking you are going to get fatigue or burn out. It’s natural. In 2008 my mom was in a rehabilitation facility and was in a terminal stage of her life. She had several months or more where she would probably live (as it turned out she hung on for over year after that). I went to see her almost every day after work and at least one day a weekend. That year, I was very excited by the election coming up and flew to Ohio to do campaign legal work for the Obama campaign. It was something I really wanted to do and it meant a lot to me. I took the time for myself to do that and when I came back she was still there and I was a much better caretaker for having taken a little time off of care-taking.
I'm in the same situation now. I'm 24 and my dad is 63 and will die today or tomorrow. I've been there for hours and just getting rest now. I hope this gets easier. I really do.
I couldn’t believe it when my dad went down so fast! I all happened so fast. It’s changed my life forever…. Now I fear losing my mom! It’s haunts me. Live when she dies I will truly be alone in this world… I can’t even sleep feeling sad feeling like how could I send more time with her. It kills me 😢 lung cancer is evil it took time away…. Like time stopped in my life and it’s never really picked up again
It sounds like a very mutual experience.
wonderful story, I was estranged from my dad, I grew up in care and he never wanted kids (was forced into marrying my mum) anyway I had a distant relationship with him through his third wife and when he died she didnt tell me for a month and when I visited to find out where he was buried she refused to tell me and threatened to get the police on me. She also so told me that he hated the fact that I am gay as well. Its good that he got to have a such a great relationship with his dad and got to say goodbye. I forgave both of them and said goodbye in my own way!
It’s the moment that I’ve been dreading all of my life. I’ve been so so fortunate but at the age of 51, both of my parents are still alive, but all things considered, going strong in their late 80s. But my father has a huge amount of health problems, essentially only one wire from his pacemaker is what’s keeping him alive, but you could never tell it from looking at them, they both are the picture of health for their age. Especially being an adopted person, my parents are more than just family, more than friends, they are literally a part of me, and when they pass, that part is going to be ripped off of me, and I have no idea what I’m going to do. Sounds crazy doesn’t it? At 51 years old I’m worrying about this, you would think a 51-year-old man would be more mature, and normally I am, But not when it comes to losing the two people I love more than anything else on this planet. To be honest I don’t know if I want to stick around after they’re gone, they’ve done more than support me throughout my life, they have been my life, and everything I’ve done they’ve been there supporting me, even if they didn’t agree with me, it always let me know how much they love me. I myself have had 37 surgeries since I was 20 because of Crohn’s disease and intestinal cancer, they were there for every single surgery, and were the first people I saw when I woke up from them. That’s the kind of love and dedication I’m talking about it, and while I do everything in my power to make their lives as easy as I can, the truth is they won’t be around much longer, and I have no idea what I’m gonna do once they’re gone. Is it absolutely ridiculous that a man my age are so attached to his parents that he won’t want to live after they’re gone? I can’t talk anymore, my eyes are filled with tears and I’m just too upset, all I can tell you is, cherish your parents, they are the only people on this planet that will love you no matter what, and make sure they know how much you care, because once they’re gone, it’s too late to say I wish I would have. Thanks for listening, and God bless.
Lovely words, my Dad also hasn’t long to go!
@@gscranage4594 hugs and prayers ❤️🙏
My dad is dying just came here for support
I’ll pray for your dad. I am in the same boat. My father is dying as well and the doctors had told me he only had 3 months or less to live. At the moment I am at a loss and I don’t know what to do
Me and my dad have never been close. My parents are married and I wan never taken away but me and my parents never really had a connection. They started to talk to me less and less when I came out as lesbian. Lately things have been getting better though. My mom was away on a trip for the church she serves and my dad talked to me a lot more. We even like the same music, we’ve been blasting classic rock every time we go somewhere. I’m sorry about your dad and I will definitely try to cherish every moment I have left with mine❤️
ill be losing my dad tomorrow after he was fighting multiple surgeries in the last 7 weeks John ,Dad a day will not pass where i wont think of you
your 6 brothers and sisters will miss you so very much you Mother knows you will be with Grampap
and Christian, Melissa,John,Skye, and Myself love you and we are so very proud of you you was always there. We will take care of Mom , You just rest now and maybe one day we will all see you again.
ill be there to say goodbye just rest in peace.
I can't relate ,me and my dad barely or never talk even tho we live in the same house. Never teach me anything, never explained, never be supportive. I guess I don't have to be that sadden when the time come. :/
My dad has gone through a lot. Fighting, getting beat up, and doing a lot. And now his back and his tooth keeps hurting like crazy for him and he can’t hear too good and he throws up a lot and he has infected teeth and stuff. And he sleeps a lot and he gets mad sometimes but I know he still loves me and it’s just cause of what’s going on right now. I think he might be dying and when I hug him and when I see him it brings tears in my eyes cause I think he’s dying.
No I'm not crying ....maybe a little
I know exactly how this feels and I’m 13 this hit close to home
My dad has also gotten very ill, deathly ill. My dad is most likely going to pass soon and we don't know how many more holidays we'll have with him so we made last Christmas special. I'm only 12 at the time and I know that if he does it's gonna he bad for both me and my mom because I wont have a father figure to grow up with and I'm worried about my mom because she would would have to take care of me and my 2 year old sister. I'm just worried for what could happen soon.
My dad has terminal brain cancer and it’s only a matter of time before I know what comes next
Thank you.
My dad is dying of cancer and is in the hospital right now, i havent told anyone who i know and the hardest part is that i dont remember the last words between us and im not going to see him again...
Guys, currently my dad is in the ICU suffering from a tumor, and if he bleeds anymore, he will die. I beg of you, please, pray together for my dad to live.Please.
How is he?
That Moment You Realize that the That Moment You Realize meme is not funny.
PS This channel needs more Rainn Wilson and, of course, more cowbell!
I'm scared to lose my dad this year, He got his leg Cut off due to his infection of his leg, and somehow he is a bit weak.. I'm literally begging for god not to lose him this year..
I love this guy :)
how can you dislike a video like this!?
My dad has cancer he is in hospital and I dno when I’ll ever see him again
My dad is a good person when he isn't drunk. He gave me money and he's very nice to me. But whenever he's drunk he would swear at me and my mother. He would abused us, especially my mom. He's so lazy that he never had a consistent job to support us that's why my mom had to do everything for us including my school fees. She did everything to provide for me while my father didn't do anything but drink and smoke and it made my life feels like hell. I saw how my mother suffer because of him. She would constantly asked somebody to give her a job even if it pays so little just to get by through the entire day that's why she's always tired and of course he would always give me hard time too. I can't even focus on studying because when he's drunk he's so loud. When my mom finally found a regular job with decent salary we tried to get away and move out of the house but my father would always finds us. Now that I have a job, he would just expect me to pay for everything while he is out drinking everyday. I really hate him and I really wish him to die. He's so toxic to our family. I really feel sorry for my mother. She left her family because they are so poor and she was expecting a good life here in manila, but all she get was suffering and torture. I'm so guilty for not being a good daughter. Now that I have a job, I truly understand how hard she raise me. But my father is still with us continuously torturing us to this day. If I'm being honest, I really want him to die. That's how much I hate him. I hate him to death.
My dad used to be abusive and angry too when he drank. Now he’s very old, frail, and has an incurable disease. He has mellowed out but it’s painful to see him so sick. You stated that your father is a good man when he’s not drunk. I encourage you not to wish for his death but that he quits all his addictions and heals.
The same is happening to me. I'm only 9 and my father haves stage 3 colon cancer. That's all I want to say....
loved it
why did 8 people dislike this
My dad is "dying" right now and guys please pray for my dad
My pops died on my first birthday from drunk driving.. .. don't drink and drive kids! R.i.P dad ❤️
Ayy it's the dude from buzzfeed
He was actually just a feature in BF.
Like how Gabi tried things out with BF for a while & didn't like it so she stopped filming with them.
I'm 17 years old I got news today my father that he's dying and i haven't seen him a year because he beat up my mum and his drug addiction to meth as a result of 20 + years of regular drug and alcohol abuse he has cirrhosis of the liver it started with hepatitis but his habit restrained him from seeking treatment and my mum was not right in the head at the time because she also was addicted to drugs so things went by and I've grown up seeing him do drugs on a regular basis and I was ok with it for some reason but I see he's done this to himself now and I have the chance to see him to say goodbye and he's done alot of bad disgraceful things in his lifetime and I don't trust him enough for a smooth experience of saying goodbye it's the dilemma I'm facing and I think i will see him and say goodbye because in fear of regret I'm sure there's alot of people experiencing similar situations as a son I will try and see him and say goodbye and give him a positive experience before he passes away because at least that's what he deserves he is 48 years old so I will never touch any dangerous drugs because it's proof that you die young and that's a lesson for me to know and hopefully the process will be easy for me and I will be able to move forward easy and excell at being a good person
Oh no I feel Awful
today it has been six months since my dad died he died march 23 2017 at 3:30. he had gone into multiple organ failure
I was glad when my Dad was dead,because He wasn't suffering anymore. Motor neurone disease is a horrible curse on humanity.
What movie was he in?
Why was it all about him and the movie, and not the actual dad?
The same thing is happening to my dad and I’m only 16.
Nice story !
December is death month in my family I dread it
My dad age 50 dec 18
My aunt age 50 dec 14
My gmom age 75 dec 25
Uncle age 52 dec 26
I just turned 50
MIKE WAITE I hope you're still around!
Make sure you have a great doctor, get check ups and stay healthy. Take care of yourself.
he has cancer 😔🖤
wish to know which movie it weas :) and the name of this actor in this video... amazing story
My dad died last year on July 4th he died from lung cancer😢😔
My dad passed away today
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565 like I love your channel
Well that hot a bit to close to home.
who says this is trending
What's my dad died because he was 24 years old
Pogchamp
Hi
Hey
and now he's dead?
who is this actor?
Marina Skyler says in description
My dad is dying T_T
Why don't this person call her as Mom instead of father's wife?
P Satish Patro Because probably he re-married to another woman...
Bc it isn't his mom..
No offense, but no one cares about the movie. Alsmost sillyi.
Monetizing father's death. Nice.
My dad iS in the process of dying right now. My heart is breaking