Carey, this was another great video. The over used expressions like "partners in crime" rang a bell with me. So, question...with so many dating scams going on out there, it there a way to show authenticity and sincerity? Maybe I should wait for your next video. Cheers!
I can’t speak for all men, but for men I know, it’s most important to be your genuine self. A positive attitude is far more important than looks. A smile really helps, but don’t whiten excessively (glow in the dark teeth are a little scary and make you seem like you care too much about superficial stuff). If we can tell you’re wearing makeup it might be too much. Don’t bother getting out the microscope to look for hairs. If you can’t see a hair with normal eyesight, we won’t notice. Forget all the silly dating ‘rules’ and crazy advice. It’s either going to be a match or not. Just be yourself, and don’t play stupid games (play stupid games, win stupid prizes). And please don’t judge us men too quickly either - it takes a little time for both men and women to relax and get to know each other, but so many people are in too much of a hurry. Good luck!
I will comment on points where we agree. Lol Positivity. Yes! Smile. Yes! Avoid crazy anything. Yes! Don’t play stupid games. Yes! It takes time to get to know people. Yes! 🤎 And thank you for not trying to speak for your entire gender. Much appreciated! 👍
From a man, dont worry about your clothes, dont worry about your teeth, dont wear a crew cut, dont worry about anything but your weight. If your under control, you beat 90% of the population.
Yikes. Please worry about Your teeth!! But sincerely, I don’t believe anyone is trying to beat the population. We are just trying to find somebody where there is mutual enjoyment- as we are.
Deal breakers: Stanky breath Negative attitude Mellow Yellow Teeth Not fit? learn about prolonged fasting and get lean. That's a huge issue today as most Americans are overweight and that's nnt attractive. Cursing Addictions Good luck.
Yes, me too. 14 years for me. I was actually thinking for the first time in all that time, on one of my hikes in the woods recently how awesome it would be to have someone to share that experience with. But at 58 years old, I don't look 22 anymore. I'm healthy according to my bloodwork, though I do have arthritis, so can't run down hills anymore. After watching a few of these videos, I have come to the conclusion that unless I spend a bunch of money on my looks, I don't have a chance LOL
Such a practical lady , thank you . Having single friends to talk with about your dating journey is the best . In particularly single peops of the opposite sex . Yes teeth , somewhat important to Me . I would not date somebody with bad teeth .
Practical indeed, my friend. I don’t have time to beat around the bush when common sense will get us there so much more quickly! I agree on a nice smile and male friends and I appreciate you leaving a comment!
There actually could be many reasons why a person's teeth are not white. It could be health or genetics. I was a smoker years ago (18 years to be exact) and even though I don't smoke, I've never been able to get my teeth completely white; even with treatments.
@@keithwinnick3135 Keith mine were discoloured from antibiotics. I tried laser whitening , it’s very painful . Ended up getting crowns . It was costly and took some time , worth it for Me though . Having white teeth isn’t that big a deal . I think it’s wise to get teeth fixed if needed .
@@OlderWomenRock Absolutely agree with you. I think what we both would look for is...outward signs of "Are you taking care of yourself" and "Are you going to be around for a long time so we can enjoy what life has to offer". All the best to you dear lady!
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OMG, Coach, wonderful vid! You brought up a number of subtle points that deserve to be discussed and, together, really make an enormous difference. Great job! By the way, I LOVE your hair band! ❤️ VERY nice! 😉
But we keep changing up the layers and taking an inch or two here or there, right? Lol I know all of these, I just sometimes forget to keep up on all of them. (She says Mumbling with bleaching molds on her teeth)
I have been bleaching my teeth for 25 years now - it's been around longer than it became popular and it has not done anything to my teeth. I get compliments all the time! This piece of advice is gold. But better for me if others don't do it lol 😂
One of the things you mention, I have trouble doing because I live by myself and I am isolated plus I work from 6 AM and I don’t get home till after 5 PM, 6 PM. I drive a school bus for a living and I have a mid day route it, I would love to go out and meet people and I like to go walking but I have people that worry about me when I go out walking because this is by myself. I also do like coffee places and I go to the grocery store and try to walk around, but that could tempt me to spend money that I don’t have. I do you like Barnes & Noble and I do like coffee, places and libraries and dancing. I play a flute so I don’t know if I should go playing instrument somewhere I just need some ideas of places I should go. I didn’t go to church, but he know lotta people my age are online watching church I guess I’m trying to find places I can hang out that are safe for me to go alone like I have gone to Holland Michigan by myself when they had a tulip festival. People usually seclude me when they see me by myself.
@@CoffeewithCarey Carey, you know that's not true. This is YOUR experience but it is not the experience of all women. Location, location, location! It all depends on where you live, and once you hit a certain age - you are making the top of the "easy victim" list as a woman when you are out in public on your own, especially when out on leisure activities.
I suggest taking a friend with you who will be honest and supportive to try on clothes. A last check in a full length mirror before you leave the house is a must!
Fun fit and friendly.. basic.. not covered in makeup or hair colors.. no income requirements (just not drowning in debt from unrealistic education expenses) Modest, classy.. not trashy clothing... Carry a conversation more than 7 seconds..
This was well needed Mrs Carey and so much to consider when dating or having a social life. I did not any of these topics until you brought them up and always appreciate hearing your insight. You have some nice head ties and I love this black and white one.
Both expressions are correct, but they have slightly different structures. "I appreciate your taking the time to write to me" uses a possessive pronoun ("your") before the gerund form of the verb ("taking"), while "I appreciate you taking the time to write to me" uses the pronoun "you" as the subject of the gerund phrase. Both forms are commonly used and acceptable in English.
Can you do a video on signs that a person isn't ready to date over fifty or signs a person is ready to date? Also what are your thoughts of people dating singles with handicap kids or dating someone who is a full time caregiver?
To be totally honest with you I really don’t have any experience with people dating full-time caregivers. I would just imagine that you would have to be understanding as you would, with anyone who has other obligations to family and understand that that’s a priority for them and be supportive. If that’s going to be too much for you to be sharing attention with another obligation that is probably very time confining, then he or she may not be your person. Those are just my initial thoughts
This is more for the guy: Get someone to proofread your profile.When I see a ton of spelling errors I say “Next!” Some of the things people write are just not clear.
Bad news… at your age you are no longer in poisition to be picky. I’m close to 50, wife left and I went way younger. No offense but men look for these things youth, Feminine fit and friendly. Your not holding the cards anymore at an old age. Anyone telling you different is just telling you what you want to hear
Still very superficial, she don't have the time left that she had when she was in her twenties, In her fifties and still trying to build the perfect man,lol. Im fifty seven years old and the days of trying to meet a woman's requirements are over, it will never happen. I try to meet God's requirements for my life, that is where my happiness will come from. Tell her to meet man's requirement and take off that make up and then have all those requirements for men.. Not meaning to sound mean, but do you know how hard it is for men to try to be good people and all of a sudden being told that they fall short just because of some superficial requirement..
These days even women over 50 have unrealistic standards and overrate themselves in the scale of things. Hypergamy is real and alive in the minds of delusional women. Most still want the 3 sixes, 6 feet tall, 6 pack and 6 figures. What they fail to realize is guys like that are rare and probably are married or dating 30 yr olds. Heres some advice for women to be successful dating over 50. Dont be fat, dont wear too much make up. dress nicely but not like grandmar even if you are. Men dont care what you do for work, they care about you being feminine and bringing peace into his life, not drama and chaos. Be realistic about yourself and how you look cause guys will be about you. Most guys dont care about any wrinkles you may have on your face, they prefer honesty and that includes your looks, but if you want a slim good looking man in your life, dont be fat. Guys think if you cant look after yourself now when will you ever. If you think your a boss babe leftie that takes no shit from anyone then thats fine but get used to living with cats, not a man.
Wow, you must know how much we really love men commenting here not with their own valuable opinions, but as if they are an expert and have been elected to speak on behalf of an entire gender. 🤦🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey So I guess your not really after what men think then. Fair enough. But giving women the same advice over and over again like very other "expert" and expect to get different results, thats real smart too I guess. You will get simps that agree with you totally but women aren't attracted to men like that. So you can mock my post if you want but Its from a mans perspective. Take from it what you will.
@@chriskostopoulos8142 Chris! Lol You are just ONE man. I interview dozens of men every WEEK. I have screened thousands of men while matchmaking and coaching. You are not speaking for all of them!🤦🏻♀️ We are only interested in YOUR OPINION. You are more than welcome to share that. What you are not welcome to do is tell us what everybody else thinks or wants. You are not qualified.
I just start in the dating-scene. As a man i think this video is nog good. Man arent that picky on appearance. Dot give too much attention to that. Just 2 things are important. 1. Older man dont want a nagging woman. Never again. Accept us and let us know that. 2. For a woman first comes feeling intimate end talking open end after that sex. For a man it is different. Intimacy comes after sex. So compromise. But dont expect a man to become very open and vulnerable before sex.
Thank you for sharing your opinion here, Bob. I would beg to differ on your suggestion that men are not picky about appearance. But you’re certainly entitled to your opinion. 👍
@@CoffeewithCarey Well, it may be a cultural thing (i am european). But almost all the male sites agree about this subject. F.e. most woman want a man taller them 1.80 m. And from my personal experience: Woman spent so much more effort on their (and her partners) appearance. Also i never had heard a man complain about their partners looks. Interesting why You (and I guess many woman) have a different view.
@@CoffeewithCarey I am an psychologist, 61 year, started my first 10 working years from a womans organisation for empowerment exclusively with woman. After that almost 70% of my clients were woman. From my working past I work often with socialisation of man and woman. And in my experience: woman know much less of man then they think. Man know more from woman, probably because woman have asked attention for that the past decades. Could you have an interview with f.e. @thematthewhussey? He has opinions that many man share.
@@CoffeewithCarey yes it's silly alright. Not interested in a debate or argument. People are so superficial it's sickening and you know it. They just strive to keep their shallow/ superficial side concealed. Men aren't as good at hiding it as women are. Or maybe it's just more important to women than it is to men. What's your take on a man with a heart of gold that doesn't have movie star teeth or is dressed in plain clothes and has a less than "sexy" hairstyle? You recommend that he play the game so as not to embarrass his date? For you to say that my take on your video is "so silly", is just your personal opinion but there's a lot of ugly truth to the situation. Like someone else a few comments down says - a lot of us are happier single. Do we get to feeling lonely sometimes? Hell yes we're human. But the rest of the time we're happier for not having to deal with people and their nonsense. I'm 57 and most of the people I've dealt with in my life have been a disappointment. Sad but true. Nothing against you and your videos I'm sure they are great for certain people. Peace ✌️.
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Ladies, you do whatever makes you feel most like yourself!!! 🤎 and don’t worry about what anybody else tells you you should do with your body, your hair, your clothes…
@@CoffeewithCarey Wrong. He is absolutely correct. The fact that you do not understand that has me questioning your understanding. When a woman ages and "hits the wall" she loses the bloom of NOT just youth but also of Femininity. She starts to look more androgynously and\or manly. Long hair negates this transformation and allows for a more feminine appearance.
@@jonnsmith180 Ladies do whatever you feel makes you feel most like yourself!!! Sorry, John, that YOU do not understand… but many of us don’t dress or styles ourselves for men. We do it to express who WE are. If that woman with the short hair is not appealing to you then pick somebody else! There’s no need for her to pretend to be someone she isn’t.
Whiten my teeth? I've always had yellow-ish teeth..same hairstyle since mid 30's. oh dear.. I'm sunk right from the get go with #1. I do get compliments on my outfits though. :) Scams? yeah, I had one of those. Whenever they lay it on too thick, I run now. So basically dating in your 50's is just as shallow as dating in your 20's. .
You can view it as shallow if you choose, but I think that one strength of being over 50 is that we understand how the world works and we dont need to waste time with negativity or fighting things that are unimportant. You can have a bright, beautiful smile that makes you look healthy AND feel confident speaking to and smiling at EVERYone. …Saving your energy for the big fights, like tending to the environment and helping to save the planet for our future generations! Or even sharing your story and warning others about those horrible scammers! 🤷🏻♀️
I definitely don't have time to waste on negativity or men who promise you the world in the beginning and it all goes south after you've made the commitment. I was married to one of those and have been single for the last 14 years. I was sort of thinking about putting a toe in the water now. I watched a bunch of your videos last night, and yes, what I gather is dating over 50 IS just as shallow as it was in my 20's. Bright smile, cute haircut and look healthy which basically means look younger and be thin. I have some health issues too, so I'm thinking my great personality, clever wit and unusual interests won't get me very far, LOL Same as it ever was, its still all about looks. @@CoffeewithCarey
@@crystalheartstarI agree. I am going to live my life, with or without a man. While it appears men are obsessed with women’s looks, they don’t apply the same standard to their own appearance. Thank you.
You've got that right! Same clothes they wore in high school pretty much, and ear hair, nose hair, long eyebrow hair yet we're supposed to look like Barbies. I'd rather find someone who appreciates me for who I am, not who I pretend to be to fit some beauty ideal. I can look past someone's supposed external imperfections, and see them as an attractive man because of their personality, sense of humour, their heart and their beliefs. Especially at age 58. I see all over the place people are going crazy that even Pamela Anderson went out in public without makeup :D @@nomiddlenamenmn427
@@crystalheartstarI agree. I would love to see more videos reaching out to men about how important self-care and healthy living are. I am in my late 50s and am approached by Jolly Ollies in their early 70s. I finally had to explain that a passionate kiss with one would be like passionately kissing a friend of my granddad’s. I work on staying as fit as I can, but for health, not superficial vanity. I love being alone and won’t settle just to have someone. Thank you.
Don't overthink things , don't ' test " a good man. We aren't as focused on physical appearance as you are , so come as you are . And for God's sake , don't assume that we're the same as the last 5 duds that you ran into .
Absolutely do not come with preconceived notions; instead treat each person as the unique individual they are. 🤎👍 However, you can only speak for yourself. If you are not focused on physical appearance that’s very sweet, but you have not spoken to the five thousand men I have over the last decade, and heard their preferences for a partner. 🤷🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey the average man also does not understand how female narcissists work either. Many do not care about intellect or what makes a person tick. They also don't worry about how much money you make . That's a red flag to me when I'm asked about occupation right off the bat .
Any time you try to live up to a humans requirements you are going to lose, be you and if you are good enough, you are good enough. If you're not you are not, but don't let no human put requirements on you, that's a guaranteed path to misery..
So... I want to add something, scared I won't be understood! I am a senior citizen, a woman too. I hate those false eyelashes! They make women look like drag Queens. I hate those horrible platform shoes that look like you should be on a pole!!! I love my glowing gray hair, it shines and glitters in the sunlight. I can grow lovely finger nails. My feet still look young and my ankles are not swollen from eating a poor diet. I seemed invisible to men for 20 years. Now that I collect SS men are interested again to they always asked 'So how much is your check?'& 'Do you own your house?' Sweet isn't it!
@@CoffeewithCarey What I mean is, someone that’s a golddigger was very considerate by revealing themselves early on. I thought your humor was very dry and was just appreciating it.
Please do not whiten with whitening strips. These cause irreversible damage to your enamel. And in your 50s! Go to a dentist who will whiten them safely or you'll have regreats.
Definitely true about the lipstick color orange it will make my B1 teeth look a lovely yellow. However, I could not disagree more about bleaching. It’s relatively inexpensive if you have trays made and use opalescence from the dentist or purchase from somewhere reliable online. We are talking about the smile you present to the world every day. It’s the first thing people notice about you and there’s no reason to live with yellow teeth in 2022. I agree that bleaching strips from the store will only get you a couple shades lighter but professional bleaching can give you MovieStar teeth! (Not the movie stars who have veneers, though.) I think one of my kids had a Zoom treatment done at their dentist office for around $200. For people who need immediate results and do not want to fuss with gels. It’s not like we’re talking about two or three shades. Bleaching can make a huge difference. And I agree that everyone should be taking excellent care of their gums. My dentist office thinks I am a freak of nature, in that there is barely any plaque or tarter when I get cleanings. Polish her up and check for any pockets. (No pockets! 👍) A reminder about the waterpik: It does not replace flossing! You still have to floss at minimum once a day. I usually floss three times a day. And I do not recommend mouthwashes, unless prescribed, because they change the bacteria in your mouth and kill the good bacteria, which then influences your gut health. Really appreciate hearing from you miss dental hygienist! 😬 Thank you for the reminder to check with your dentist first! 💖👍
As far as diet goes it is very important to eat healthy bit once thing I’ve learned by trial and error to wake up 2 lbs less was simply to drink two glasses of water each night before bed. Try it.
Yup, because you will be up by 3 am having to go pee.... And then you will spend the next 2 hrs tossing + turning trying to go back to sleep, and finally succumb about half an hour before you need/want to get up again [if you're a morning person like me], eventually oversleep and be grumpy for the remainder of the morning. Eat too much to take the grumpy away - and voila - you gained 2 pounds instead of loosing them... 😜🤪🤣🙃
If you want a successful, attractive guy, date a man at least 20 years older. That's your target market. To them, you will be a desirable catch. You don't want that? You want the attractive, athletic, wealthy 62-year-old? That would be me. My gorgeous girlfriend is 31. Hate to tell it to you, but that's the way it is.
@@CoffeewithCarey Agreed. That's why so many women over 50 remain single, because the only guys they would want are not interested in them. In a way it's the mirror image of when women were in their 20s. At that time, they held all the cards, and many were highly dismissive of suitors. Now the shoe is on the other foot.
@@Nordic_Sky Lots ARE finding partners too. 🤎 Just like the fellas. 👍 Dating can be challenging at every age. Hence my client diversity over the years. 27-72.
@reverendbluejeans1748 - Yet, as Sancho says to Don Quixote, "common sense is the least common of the senses." That is as true now as it was in the 1605 when Cervantes wrote Don Quixote.
@@CoffeewithCarey- Thank you for the great quote from Ben Franklin. In addition to being a very wise man, he was also an amazingly successful after-50 dater!
One 10,932-person studyTrusted Source from 2014 found that: 47.9 percent of people in a relationships waited a few weeks 35.5 percent had sex on the first date or within the first few weeks of dating 9.9 percent had sex before the first date
Uhm no. Absolutely not. 🙄 Do as you, please, with your body and your skin, be kind, be generous; be thoughtful and curious and have a loving, positive attitude.
I'd love to a lady in your country who loves black men, she should be 50 +, Christian minded. I'm always on the road driving in the days. I make furniture in my spare time, church on Sundays
whiten your teeth...wear yoga pants or a dress...the ONLY thing that matters is your personality & determining if you have Done ANY work to resolve your Mommy & Daddy issues...if you think men are going to put you on a pedestal as in your 20's-30's, you are in for a Shock. Men are done with bad attitudes, gaslighting, complaining, entitled, non-sexual head cases. there's a reason you're divorced.
Some people do not take every opportunity to last, Joe. They are just not set up for it with their attitude. You don’t know anybody like that? It’s more likely that you don’t know somebody who is always looking for a laugh in my experience.
Many teaching Universities have very affordable options for dental health. Dental health is health. Many people are very concerned about choosing a healthy partner when they are searching in their 50s. There are also public dental clinics in some areas.
Well because teeth health are overall just one clue of if people take care of themselves. I agree dental care is very expensive in the United States but this lady has some good options please call around and a local university or college will have a dental program and have a clinic usually. Good luck and take care!
well, please don’t tell that to all of my matchmaking and coaching clients who are happily dating. sorry to hear you have given up. hopefully there are a couple episodes here to inspire you to put yourself back out there in a positive way. 🤷🏻♀️
I know it does, I have friends in their 50s and 60s and 70s in Florida and they're all having a wonderful time dating here. It has a lot to do with location and how many people in your age range are there. I moved to Florida in my 40s and I've been with someone for a decade now.
Teeth are not white, they are ivory. Bleaching teeth removes the animal content of the tooth, making them more susceptible to deterioration, and brittle!
My friends and family get our bleach from our dentists. Always have. I don’t think they would be supplying something dangerous to us, especially if it was going to remove the animal content of our teeth! Lol
I'm definitely too poor to date. This is ridiculous advice. How about advising men that were 50 in an update down country that doesn't value humans enough to allow them to be healthy and fit? Off to watch dating over 50 in the real world video.
Why would they do that? I coach women over fifty every week about relationship issues they have with a new partner and match women over 50 all the time. Many new relationships for them … and some have even married the person to whom I’ve introduced them.
I’m so glad my dad’s wife didn’t believe this because she didn’t meet my dad until She was 52 and they got married when she was 53. Remember there’s exceptions to every rule just cause it’s not your cup of tea doesn’t mean it’s not someone else’s.
Call this just sounds like the artificial superficial stuff that all of social media is feeding everybody anyway. And you could be as beautiful as you want. As sexy as you want. You could be knocked out drop dead gorgeous model like 50 year old woman. But if you are not attracting the man was not looking for what is on the surface this advice helps nobody. It's already out there in the world. Men have eye candy for days for women from 20 to 70 who look like 20 year olds. It's also professional. And guess what happens to them they get cheated on and discarded too. That is not the advice you should be putting out there and that is from a woman who is 50 years old.
Im really orry that has been your experience. But I can assure you that does not apply to all of us. I am sharing information based on my own romantics life, my thousand of client’s experiences, and the love life and dating journey of my family, friends and my own social circle. Yes, bad things sometimes happen to good people, but I would never choose to focus on that! I’m not a person who can embrace a negative attitude and my channel reflects that. My own personal experience is very very different than what you described so I’ve go to be me. 🤷🏻♀️
This gal just keeps shooting herself in the foot and misleading her viewers\subscribers. If everything about middle aged dating was "Do what makes you feel good" then they might not still be single.
@@jonnsmith180 it’s a social skill, Jon. There is a way to talk to people so that you are not being negative. You can share your own personal opinion without being negative or making sweeping generalizations. Maybe read through some of my comments to get the hang of it. You always have to leave room for people who don’t think like you and aren’t like you. We are all unique and different. Your opinion is not indicative of your entire gender. 🤦🏻♀️
@@bryank.vaughan4316 wait until you see an episode that I filmed last night, yet to be edited, and maybe you’ll change your tune. Or not. 🤷🏻♀️ You don’t know me.
I don’t know why you’re apologizing to me. 😆 Nobody is recommending bleaching one’s teeth for a date. I think you will find that most of us are bleaching our teeth for a healthy looking smile, for a simple boost of self-confidence, to remove years of unsightly stains that age us by years, because it was recommended by our dentist (and personally, because that is free to me from my dentist), and to face the world with a bright welcoming smile …because we can!
@@CoffeewithCarey I wasn’t apologising. Bleach is a toxin. I’m not prepared to ingest toxins for the sake of the fake ‘Hollywood smile’ fetish. My teeth are fine as they are.
I bleach my teeth daily with a product from Walmart that is $5 and also a little hydrogen peroxide .. I get tons of compliments all the time Tip: blue toned reds and pinks will make your teeth pop even whiter
@@CoffeewithCarey Some of us (like myself) have permanently discolored teeth from antibiotics (tetracycline) I've had my teeth professionally whitened and also used bleaching trays at home to no avail. I think that good oral hygiene is a lot more important than having "white" teeth.
Carey, this was another great video. The over used expressions like "partners in crime" rang a bell with me. So, question...with so many dating scams going on out there, it there a way to show authenticity and sincerity? Maybe I should wait for your next video. Cheers!
Yes. Show up for a date, within the week. In person! Problem solved
@@CoffeewithCarey Ockham's Razor...the simplest answers are usually the best! Cheers!
@@CoffeewithCareyand don’t reschedule or she will move on.
I can’t speak for all men, but for men I know, it’s most important to be your genuine self. A positive attitude is far more important than looks. A smile really helps, but don’t whiten excessively (glow in the dark teeth are a little scary and make you seem like you care too much about superficial stuff). If we can tell you’re wearing makeup it might be too much. Don’t bother getting out the microscope to look for hairs. If you can’t see a hair with normal eyesight, we won’t notice. Forget all the silly dating ‘rules’ and crazy advice. It’s either going to be a match or not. Just be yourself, and don’t play stupid games (play stupid games, win stupid prizes). And please don’t judge us men too quickly either - it takes a little time for both men and women to relax and get to know each other, but so many people are in too much of a hurry. Good luck!
I will comment on points where we agree. Lol
Positivity. Yes!
Smile. Yes!
Avoid crazy anything. Yes!
Don’t play stupid games. Yes!
It takes time to get to know people. Yes! 🤎
And thank you for not trying to speak for your entire gender. Much appreciated! 👍
Well said - it's so nice to hear a man speak in a calm and friendly way, without all the anger, barbs, criticism and censure. Thank you!
That's great advice ❤
I'm going to whiten my butter teeth after watching this. Thanks friend.
hahha. That’s the funniest thing I’ve read all day. 🍿
From a man, dont worry about your clothes, dont worry about your teeth, dont wear a crew cut, dont worry about anything but your weight. If your under control, you beat 90% of the population.
Yikes.
Please worry about Your teeth!!
But sincerely, I don’t believe anyone is trying to beat the population. We are just trying to find somebody where there is mutual enjoyment- as we are.
Some. Back atcha from me as a 60 yo woman.
This is true. This is for all Americans. Just even being average.
@georgesontag2192 - Do you actually know any woman who wears her hair in a crew cut?
Ditto
Ladies - stop using filters on your photos, def ALWAYS full body shots and one smile with teeth photo. your #1 asset in a profile is your photos
yes. 👍
men too!!
-it is super freaky to see man photos all blurry with no pores or wrinkles.
Men need to stop looking like they are taking a mug shot… no more fishing or baseball hat pictures
@@karmasutra4774Yes, no more sunglasses in front of the bathroom mirror, fellas!!
Deal breakers:
Stanky breath
Negative attitude
Mellow Yellow Teeth
Not fit? learn about prolonged fasting and get lean. That's a huge issue today as most Americans are overweight and that's nnt attractive.
Cursing
Addictions
Good luck.
Thanks for sharing your list, Michael.
I'm in this age group, divorced over 5 years and I'm scared to go out there. I think I'm okay alone for now. Lol
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Yes, me too. 14 years for me. I was actually thinking for the first time in all that time, on one of my hikes in the woods recently how awesome it would be to have someone to share that experience with. But at 58 years old, I don't look 22 anymore. I'm healthy according to my bloodwork, though I do have arthritis, so can't run down hills anymore. After watching a few of these videos, I have come to the conclusion that unless I spend a bunch of money on my looks, I don't have a chance LOL
@@crystalheartstarhello dear
All of the points you brought up were helpful and true. Thank you
Glad that they connected for you!
I'm married/over 50 but yeah...nothing wrong with free advice where I can get it. New sub!
also, there’s a playlist with conversation about successful relationships
Great advice, thank you!
you are welcome!
Such a practical lady , thank you .
Having single friends to talk with about your dating journey is the best . In particularly single peops of the opposite sex . Yes teeth , somewhat important to Me .
I would not date somebody with bad teeth .
Practical indeed, my friend. I don’t have time to beat around the bush when common sense will get us there so much more quickly! I agree on a nice smile and male friends and I appreciate you leaving a comment!
There actually could be many reasons why a person's teeth are not white. It could be health or genetics. I was a smoker years ago (18 years to be exact) and even though I don't smoke, I've never been able to get my teeth completely white; even with treatments.
@@keithwinnick3135 Keith mine were discoloured from antibiotics. I tried laser whitening , it’s very painful .
Ended up getting crowns .
It was costly and took some time , worth it for Me though .
Having white teeth isn’t that big a deal . I think it’s wise to get teeth fixed if needed .
@@OlderWomenRock Absolutely agree with you. I think what we both would look for is...outward signs of "Are you taking care of yourself" and "Are you going to be around for a long time so we can enjoy what life has to offer". All the best to you dear lady!
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OMG, Coach, wonderful vid! You brought up a number of subtle points that deserve to be discussed and, together, really make an enormous difference. Great job!
By the way, I LOVE your hair band! ❤️
VERY nice! 😉
Glad you enjoyed it!
LOL. That’s me, same hairdo for 30 years. Long layers! I’m a victim of many of these. Thanks Carey!
But we keep changing up the layers and taking an inch or two here or there, right? Lol
I know all of these, I just sometimes forget to keep up on all of them. (She says Mumbling with bleaching molds on her teeth)
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To each their own! 😎
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Me too!!😂😂
Thank you Carey! ❤
Great advice and I subscribed 👍
Welcome, Daniela! 🤎
Good info and advice on all tips, with exception of teeth whitening as in general it actually physically can weaken teeth.
I get it from my dentist. 🤷🏻♀️
I have been bleaching my teeth for 25 years now - it's been around longer than it became popular and it has not done anything to my teeth. I get compliments all the time! This piece of advice is gold. But better for me if others don't do it lol 😂
@9999deoxys - if you over-do whitening your teeth, as with most anything, it can be damaging.
One of the things you mention, I have trouble doing because I live by myself and I am isolated plus I work from 6 AM and I don’t get home till after 5 PM, 6 PM. I drive a school bus for a living and I have a mid day route it, I would love to go out and meet people and I like to go walking but I have people that worry about me when I go out walking because this is by myself. I also do like coffee places and I go to the grocery store and try to walk around, but that could tempt me to spend money that I don’t have. I do you like Barnes & Noble and I do like coffee, places and libraries and dancing. I play a flute so I don’t know if I should go playing instrument somewhere I just need some ideas of places I should go. I didn’t go to church, but he know lotta people my age are online watching church I guess I’m trying to find places I can hang out that are safe for me to go alone like I have gone to Holland Michigan by myself when they had a tulip festival. People usually seclude me when they see me by myself.
I was wondering if you could give me some ideas of places I could go and not feel that I’m going to get mugged are molested or something?
I go to church sometimes, but a lot of people my age bracket watch TV online. I watch church online.
I have entire episodes on where to meet people. Also, no need to be fearful during daylight hours in public places!
@@CoffeewithCarey Carey, you know that's not true. This is YOUR experience but it is not the experience of all women. Location, location, location! It all depends on where you live, and once you hit a certain age - you are making the top of the "easy victim" list as a woman when you are out in public on your own, especially when out on leisure activities.
@@ssiegreen5292 this would be why you are cautious and why you et people know where you are and whom you are with.
I liked this video and found it very helpful
I’m so glad!👍
I suggest taking a friend with you who will be honest and supportive to try on clothes. A last check in a full length mirror before you leave the house is a must!
nice.
The problem is your friends dont have time.
@@tracycy1084 time for some new friends?
I really liked this video…Thank you!
Thank you back, Paul!
Fun fit and friendly.. basic.. not covered in makeup or hair colors.. no income requirements (just not drowning in debt from unrealistic education expenses) Modest, classy.. not trashy clothing... Carry a conversation more than 7 seconds..
To each their own, right?
This was well needed Mrs Carey and so much to consider when dating or having a social life.
I did not any of these topics until you brought them up and always appreciate hearing your insight. You have some nice head ties and I love this black and white one.
Always with a compliment, Malik. Thank you. And I’m glad you enjoyed the episode and I gave you some things to think about.
Thank you for the good worlds 😁+1 new friend 😁
thank you too! 🤎👍
You are an attractive and articulate woman…a very good role model.
Very sweet of you, Paula. I’m not trying to be a good role model- I’m just trying to share some of the things I’ve learned. 💖👍
as a male , she is not attractive at all.
only women in 20s are attractive.
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Let’s hope you are in your 20s or 30s.
"I appreciate YOUR stopping by, today." (gerund).
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I appreciate your taking the time to message me about my grammar and correct me! Thank you!
I don’t have any married friends 😆all my friends have died and I’m the oldest at the time:60
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Can you do a video on signs that a person isn't ready to date over fifty or signs a person is ready to date? Also what are your thoughts of people dating singles with handicap kids or dating someone who is a full time caregiver?
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To be totally honest with you I really don’t have any experience with people dating full-time caregivers.
I would just imagine that you would have to be understanding as you would, with anyone who has other obligations to family and understand that that’s a priority for them and be supportive. If that’s going to be too much for you to be sharing attention with another obligation that is probably very time confining, then he or she may not be your person. Those are just my initial thoughts
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Hello dear
Love the point blank tips. The way you've put it is just lovely 🙂
Thank you so much! Appreciate you taking the time to let me know!
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Hello dear
This is more for the guy:
Get someone to proofread your profile.When I see a ton of spelling errors I say “Next!” Some of the things people write are just not clear.
Same with taking pictures. Enlist the aid of a family member or friend to help you out with that!
Bad news… at your age you are no longer in poisition to be picky. I’m close to 50, wife left and I went way younger. No offense but men look for these things youth, Feminine fit and friendly. Your not holding the cards anymore at an old age. Anyone telling you different is just telling you what you want to hear
Oh my most of us are definitely happier single
Not most. Some. Some of us prefer, and are happier being single. 💖👍
Sometimes but it’s nice having company occasionally
I know I am😊
Oh, look at how logical and precise they get after smacking that wall..😂
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Still very superficial, she don't have the time left that she had when she was in her twenties, In her fifties and still trying to build the perfect man,lol. Im fifty seven years old and the days of trying to meet a woman's requirements are over, it will never happen. I try to meet God's requirements for my life, that is where my happiness will come from. Tell her to meet man's requirement and take off that make up and then have all those requirements for men.. Not meaning to sound mean, but do you know how hard it is for men to try to be good people and all of a sudden being told that they fall short just because of some superficial requirement..
Exactly right and I agree 100%
These videos are funny AF.😂
Dating coach is a oxymoron.
Great tips. Looking forward to the next video.
Thanks so much! Any suggestions… or questions?
These days even women over 50 have unrealistic standards and overrate themselves in the scale of things. Hypergamy is real and alive in the minds of delusional women. Most still want the 3 sixes, 6 feet tall, 6 pack and 6 figures. What they fail to realize is guys like that are rare and probably are married or dating 30 yr olds. Heres some advice for women to be successful dating over 50. Dont be fat, dont wear too much make up. dress nicely but not like grandmar even if you are. Men dont care what you do for work, they care about you being feminine and bringing peace into his life, not drama and chaos. Be realistic about yourself and how you look cause guys will be about you. Most guys dont care about any wrinkles you may have on your face, they prefer honesty and that includes your looks, but if you want a slim good looking man in your life, dont be fat. Guys think if you cant look after yourself now when will you ever. If you think your a boss babe leftie that takes no shit from anyone then thats fine but get used to living with cats, not a man.
Wow, you must know how much we really love men commenting here not with their own valuable opinions, but as if they are an expert and have been elected to speak on behalf of an entire gender. 🤦🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey So I guess your not really after what men think then. Fair enough. But giving women the same advice over and over again like very other "expert" and expect to get different results, thats real smart too I guess. You will get simps that agree with you totally but women aren't attracted to men like that. So you can mock my post if you want but Its from a mans perspective. Take from it what you will.
@@chriskostopoulos8142 Chris! Lol You are just ONE man. I interview dozens of men every WEEK. I have screened thousands of men while matchmaking and coaching. You are not speaking for all of them!🤦🏻♀️
We are only interested in YOUR OPINION. You are more than welcome to share that. What you are not welcome to do is tell us what everybody else thinks or wants. You are not qualified.
@@CoffeewithCarey Ok. refer to my last post.
@CoffeewithCarey you can say 2 men now.
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Hi, Germany! Lol
I was stationed in Augsburg. US Army.
I just start in the dating-scene. As a man i think this video is nog good. Man arent that picky on appearance. Dot give too much attention to that. Just 2 things are important. 1. Older man dont want a nagging woman. Never again. Accept us and let us know that. 2. For a woman first comes feeling intimate end talking open end after that sex. For a man it is different. Intimacy comes after sex. So compromise. But dont expect a man to become very open and vulnerable before sex.
Thank you for sharing your opinion here, Bob. I would beg to differ on your suggestion that men are not picky about appearance. But you’re certainly entitled to your opinion. 👍
@@CoffeewithCarey Well, it may be a cultural thing (i am european). But almost all the male sites agree about this subject. F.e. most woman want a man taller them 1.80 m. And from my personal experience: Woman spent so much more effort on their (and her partners) appearance. Also i never had heard a man complain about their partners looks. Interesting why You (and I guess many woman) have a different view.
@@bobbrinkman1396 my male matchmaking clients have never come to me and said, “ I don’t care what she looks like.”. ;-)
@@CoffeewithCarey I am an psychologist, 61 year, started my first 10 working years from a womans organisation for empowerment exclusively with woman. After that almost 70% of my clients were woman. From my working past I work often with socialisation of man and woman. And in my experience: woman know much less of man then they think. Man know more from woman, probably because woman have asked attention for that the past decades. Could you have an interview with f.e. @thematthewhussey? He has opinions that many man share.
@@CoffeewithCarey😂
Thank you for confirming that it's all about who you are on the outside. Many of us suspected that. Now we know for sure.
Cmon James. So silly. You know that’s not what I said. 🤦🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey yes it's silly alright. Not interested in a debate or argument. People are so superficial it's sickening and you know it. They just strive to keep their shallow/ superficial side concealed. Men aren't as good at hiding it as women are. Or maybe it's just more important to women than it is to men. What's your take on a man with a heart of gold that doesn't have movie star teeth or is dressed in plain clothes and has a less than "sexy" hairstyle? You recommend that he play the game so as not to embarrass his date? For you to say that my take on your video is "so silly", is just your personal opinion but there's a lot of ugly truth to the situation.
Like someone else a few comments down says - a lot of us are happier single. Do we get to feeling lonely sometimes? Hell yes we're human. But the rest of the time we're happier for not having to deal with people and their nonsense. I'm 57 and most of the people I've dealt with in my life have been a disappointment. Sad but true. Nothing against you and your videos I'm sure they are great for certain people. Peace ✌️.
Great video
Thank you. ☺️
All 10 - spot on.
Thank you, Tracy!❤️👍
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Ladies, long hair is always more attractive. Don't let anyone talk you out of that.
Ladies, you do whatever makes you feel most like yourself!!! 🤎
and don’t worry about what anybody else tells you you should do with your body, your hair, your clothes…
Wots the point of long hair if u don't suit it.?
@@CoffeewithCarey Wrong. He is absolutely correct. The fact that you do not understand that has me questioning your understanding. When a woman ages and "hits the wall" she loses the bloom of NOT just youth but also of Femininity. She starts to look more androgynously and\or manly. Long hair negates this transformation and allows for a more feminine appearance.
Absolutely correct.
@@jonnsmith180 Ladies do whatever you feel makes you feel most like yourself!!!
Sorry, John, that YOU do not understand… but many of us don’t dress or styles ourselves for men. We do it to express who WE are. If that woman with the short hair is not appealing to you then pick somebody else! There’s no need for her to pretend to be someone she isn’t.
Wow that's amazing 😍
Whiten my teeth? I've always had yellow-ish teeth..same hairstyle since mid 30's. oh dear.. I'm sunk right from the get go with #1. I do get compliments on my outfits though. :) Scams? yeah, I had one of those. Whenever they lay it on too thick, I run now. So basically dating in your 50's is just as shallow as dating in your 20's. .
You can view it as shallow if you choose, but I think that one strength of being over 50 is that we understand how the world works and we dont need to waste time with negativity or fighting things that are unimportant.
You can have a bright, beautiful smile that makes you look healthy AND feel confident speaking to and smiling at EVERYone.
…Saving your energy for the big fights, like tending to the environment and helping to save the planet for our future generations! Or even sharing your story and warning others about those horrible scammers! 🤷🏻♀️
I definitely don't have time to waste on negativity or men who promise you the world in the beginning and it all goes south after you've made the commitment. I was married to one of those and have been single for the last 14 years. I was sort of thinking about putting a toe in the water now. I watched a bunch of your videos last night, and yes, what I gather is dating over 50 IS just as shallow as it was in my 20's. Bright smile, cute haircut and look healthy which basically means look younger and be thin. I have some health issues too, so I'm thinking my great personality, clever wit and unusual interests won't get me very far, LOL Same as it ever was, its still all about looks. @@CoffeewithCarey
@@crystalheartstarI agree. I am going to live my life, with or without a man. While it appears men are obsessed with women’s looks, they don’t apply the same standard to their own appearance. Thank you.
You've got that right! Same clothes they wore in high school pretty much, and ear hair, nose hair, long eyebrow hair yet we're supposed to look like Barbies. I'd rather find someone who appreciates me for who I am, not who I pretend to be to fit some beauty ideal. I can look past someone's supposed external imperfections, and see them as an attractive man because of their personality, sense of humour, their heart and their beliefs. Especially at age 58. I see all over the place people are going crazy that even Pamela Anderson went out in public without makeup :D @@nomiddlenamenmn427
@@crystalheartstarI agree. I would love to see more videos reaching out to men about how important self-care and healthy living are. I am in my late 50s and am approached by Jolly Ollies in their early 70s. I finally had to explain that a passionate kiss with one would be like passionately kissing a friend of my granddad’s. I work on staying as fit as I can, but for health, not superficial vanity. I love being alone and won’t settle just to have someone. Thank you.
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Older women are the best in these times, we men just need to know the right words to say right things to do , how to move around lovely ladies.
To each their own, I say. People are people. If you find somebody you connect with how lucky is that?!
Don't overthink things , don't ' test " a good man. We aren't as focused on physical appearance as you are , so come as you are . And for God's sake , don't assume that we're the same as the last 5 duds that you ran into .
Absolutely do not come with preconceived notions; instead treat each person as the unique individual they are. 🤎👍
However, you can only speak for yourself. If you are not focused on physical appearance that’s very sweet, but you have not spoken to the five thousand men I have over the last decade, and heard their preferences for a partner. 🤷🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey the average man also does not understand how female narcissists work either. Many do not care about intellect or what makes a person tick. They also don't worry about how much money you make . That's a red flag to me when I'm asked about occupation right off the bat .
Any time you try to live up to a humans requirements you are going to lose, be you and if you are good enough, you are good enough. If you're not you are not, but don't let no human put requirements on you, that's a guaranteed path to misery..
So... I want to add something, scared I won't be understood! I am a senior citizen, a woman too. I hate those false eyelashes! They make women look like drag Queens. I hate those horrible platform shoes that look like you should be on a pole!!! I love my glowing gray hair, it shines and glitters in the sunlight. I can grow lovely finger nails. My feet still look young and my ankles are not swollen from eating a poor diet. I seemed invisible to men for 20 years. Now that I collect SS men are interested again to they always asked 'So how much is your check?'& 'Do you own your house?' Sweet isn't it!
so nice of them to let you know what they’re really looking for so early in the dating process. Thank them!!
@@CoffeewithCarey lmao!
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@@CoffeewithCarey What I mean is, someone that’s a golddigger was very considerate by revealing themselves early on. I thought your humor was very dry and was just appreciating it.
@@sethtenrec I understood
Please do not whiten with whitening strips. These cause irreversible damage to your enamel. And in your 50s! Go to a dentist who will whiten them safely or you'll have regreats.
ugh so many people our age with Bad teeth whats the deal???? this includes women!!
Lack of dental care or not being aware of how accessible bleaching is… 🤷🏻♀️
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Definitely true about the lipstick color orange it will make my B1 teeth look a lovely yellow.
However, I could not disagree more about bleaching. It’s relatively inexpensive if you have trays made and use opalescence from the dentist or purchase from somewhere reliable online. We are talking about the smile you present to the world every day. It’s the first thing people notice about you and there’s no reason to live with yellow teeth in 2022. I agree that bleaching strips from the store will only get you a couple shades lighter but professional bleaching can give you MovieStar teeth! (Not the movie stars who have veneers, though.)
I think one of my kids had a Zoom treatment done at their dentist office for around $200. For people who need immediate results and do not want to fuss with gels. It’s not like we’re talking about two or three shades. Bleaching can make a huge difference.
And I agree that everyone should be taking excellent care of their gums. My dentist office thinks I am a freak of nature, in that there is barely any plaque or tarter when I get cleanings. Polish her up and check for any pockets. (No pockets! 👍)
A reminder about the waterpik: It does not replace flossing! You still have to floss at minimum once a day. I usually floss three times a day.
And I do not recommend mouthwashes, unless prescribed, because they change the bacteria in your mouth and kill the good bacteria, which then influences your gut health.
Really appreciate hearing from you miss dental hygienist! 😬 Thank you for the reminder to check with your dentist first! 💖👍
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Great I’m 47 and got braces I can’t friggin figure out how to floss and have only been doing the waterpik and brushing 🥹
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As far as diet goes it is very important to eat healthy bit once thing I’ve learned by trial and error to wake up 2 lbs less was simply to drink two glasses of water each night before bed.
Try it.
Hopefully somebody else will read that and try it. I cannot.
Yup, because you will be up by 3 am having to go pee.... And then you will spend the next 2 hrs tossing + turning trying to go back to sleep, and finally succumb about half an hour before you need/want to get up again [if you're a morning person like me], eventually oversleep and be grumpy for the remainder of the morning. Eat too much to take the grumpy away - and voila - you gained 2 pounds instead of loosing them... 😜🤪🤣🙃
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looking for love still been able to find a thrust worthy wife am 54...
I am 53.
Maybe because you comment things like thrust-worry🤷♀️
(Adult) children are always oversharing😂
You’ll have to have a conversation about that!💖👍
If you want a successful, attractive guy, date a man at least 20 years older. That's your target market. To them, you will be a desirable catch. You don't want that? You want the attractive, athletic, wealthy 62-year-old? That would be me. My gorgeous girlfriend is 31. Hate to tell it to you, but that's the way it is.
Glad you have a wonderful partner and it’s working for you, but some women are not at all attracted to older men. 😏
@@CoffeewithCarey Agreed. That's why so many women over 50 remain single, because the only guys they would want are not interested in them. In a way it's the mirror image of when women were in their 20s. At that time, they held all the cards, and many were highly dismissive of suitors. Now the shoe is on the other foot.
@@Nordic_Sky Lots ARE finding partners too. 🤎 Just like the fellas. 👍 Dating can be challenging at every age. Hence my client diversity over the years. 27-72.
Id love to meet older ladies over 50, race doesn't matter.
As long as she's a lady
What qualifies a woman as a lady?
I’m wondering if our definitions match up.
How about dating over 70?
How about it?
You’re over 50, no?
Nice video, new subscriber, age 66. Yikes
Welcome! Always happy to have young folks like you! 🤎
Advice seems like 90s common sense. Seems quite mlmited
“Common Sense Is Something That
Everyone Needs, Few Have, And
None Think They Lack.”
Benjamin Franklin
Then you haven’t been dating much! She covered everything that’s happening out there that people are over looking!!
Thanks for having my back, Diane! 💖👍
@reverendbluejeans1748 - Yet, as Sancho says to Don Quixote, "common sense is the least common of the senses." That is as true now as it was in the 1605 when Cervantes wrote Don Quixote.
@@CoffeewithCarey- Thank you for the great quote from Ben Franklin. In addition to being a very wise man, he was also an amazingly successful after-50 dater!
I'm from Philippines, JOHN Carlos looking for a matured that I can love for the rest of My life
Good luck
Do you think people are having sex earlier in the relationship than say 20 or 30 years ago? Thats been my experience, I don't know.
People started having sex in junior high 30 years ago, so I certainly hope not!!!
One 10,932-person studyTrusted Source from 2014 found that:
47.9 percent of people in a relationships waited a few weeks
35.5 percent had sex on the first date or within the first few weeks of dating
9.9 percent had sex before the first date
In 2021: 50% of couples chose to have sex between a week and one month of meeting.
18% within the first week
21% waited 8 weeks.
There are no rules you need to do what feels right for you and right for you with that specific individual. th-cam.com/video/-hc5opiH5mE/w-d-xo.html
@@CoffeewithCarey How the he!! do you have sex before the first date??? Sexting? Phone Sex? Or what???
Thank you
You're welcome!
Say this again to the women in the back...at least 2 full body shots on dating apps. (And stop with the filters ladies..:)
I’m saying it loud enough so EVERYbody can hear me. Men use filters too!!!
I like older women, honestly they are good,age is just a number
You do you. 💖👍
I prefer being single but thanks
No “but” required. Nobody here is secretly hoping you partner up. You do you. 👍
Who is hanging the flag upside down?
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What teeth?
There is always some one out there with an opinion who knows absolutely nothing about the culture of dating…. Stick to washing dishes
You’re a hoot, Davy.
You gals need to approach guys.
we all need to approach everyone. With kindness. A smile and a kind word to people wherever you go? Can you imagine the difference we can make? 👍🤎
Hello 👋 my name is stephen paras from Pakistan am servant of God
Hi.
Natural tooth color is an off-white. People with blazing white teeth freak me out. I can't imagine those chemicals are good for your enamel.
Ask your dentist.
It is SO simple. Don't be fat. Don't have any tattoos or weird piercings. Give a damn what you look like. Be pleasant.
Uhm no. Absolutely not. 🙄
Do as you, please, with your body and your skin, be kind, be generous; be thoughtful and curious and have a loving, positive attitude.
I'd love to a lady in your country who loves black men, she should be 50 +, Christian minded. I'm always on the road driving in the days. I make furniture in my spare time, church on Sundays
This is not a dating site. Your comment is inappropriate.
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I am 40 and buff. I am looking for a fit sugar mummy. I apply as pool boy and need my own pool house in the mansion. Thank you for the video.
Hope I’m not the one to burst your bubble but 40 is a little old to be a pool BOY.
@@CoffeewithCarey LOL 🤣🤣
He's out there... looking for you. Stay strong. !our fella abounds.
@@CoffeewithCarey😂😅🤣👏
Pools gramps you mean? 😂
whiten your teeth...wear yoga pants or a dress...the ONLY thing that matters is your personality & determining if you have Done ANY work to resolve your Mommy & Daddy issues...if you think men are going to put you on a pedestal as in your 20's-30's, you are in for a Shock. Men are done with bad attitudes, gaslighting, complaining, entitled, non-sexual head cases. there's a reason you're divorced.
Some of us are widows, never divorced.
"I love to laugh". Really?
Some people do not take every opportunity to last, Joe. They are just not set up for it with their attitude. You don’t know anybody like that? It’s more likely that you don’t know somebody who is always looking for a laugh in my experience.
Bad teeth missing teeth so many hung up on that dentist are unaffordable...this is supposed to be about 50 over dating
Many teaching Universities have very affordable options for dental health. Dental health is health. Many people are very concerned about choosing a healthy partner when they are searching in their 50s. There are also public dental clinics in some areas.
@@CoffeewithCarey I shall try it thanks ..been looking dentures and pulling are very expensive medical just doesn't cover..mine are really bad teeth..
If you don’t find something right away keep looking, they are out there! I will cross my fingers and send positive vibes. Good luck!
Well because teeth health are overall just one clue of if people take care of themselves. I agree dental care is very expensive in the United States but this lady has some good options please call around and a local university or college will have a dental program and have a clinic usually. Good luck and take care!
@@mijuajua4820 you can have good teeth and really bad breath ...halitosis
Dating in 50s doesn’t exist
well, please don’t tell that to all of my matchmaking and coaching clients who are happily dating. sorry to hear you have given up. hopefully there are a couple episodes here to inspire you to put yourself back out there in a positive way. 🤷🏻♀️
I know it does, I have friends in their 50s and 60s and 70s in Florida and they're all having a wonderful time dating here. It has a lot to do with location and how many people in your age range are there. I moved to Florida in my 40s and I've been with someone for a decade now.
It absolutely DOES EXIST 🙌 🙌
I hope not!!
Teeth are not white, they are ivory. Bleaching teeth removes the animal content of the tooth, making them more susceptible to deterioration, and brittle!
My friends and family get our bleach from our dentists. Always have. I don’t think they would be supplying something dangerous to us, especially if it was going to remove the animal content of our teeth! Lol
I'm definitely too poor to date. This is ridiculous advice.
How about advising men that were 50 in an update down country that doesn't value humans enough to allow them to be healthy and fit?
Off to watch dating over 50 in the real world video.
You’re going to diss an episode where the title of the episode literally says “For the Ladies”. 🤦🏻♀️
50+ women with no partner should just accept the reality that theyre gonna live alone...
Why would they do that? I coach women over fifty every week about relationship issues they have with a new partner and match women over 50 all the time. Many new relationships for them … and some have even married the person to whom I’ve introduced them.
I’m so glad my dad’s wife didn’t believe this because she didn’t meet my dad until She was 52 and they got married when she was 53. Remember there’s exceptions to every rule just cause it’s not your cup of tea doesn’t mean it’s not someone else’s.
@@riverlady7023 I couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you.♥️👍
@@CoffeewithCarey the need to be right
but men have to also accept that if they want to date young women and are over 50, it will be pay to play.
Call this just sounds like the artificial superficial stuff that all of social media is feeding everybody anyway. And you could be as beautiful as you want. As sexy as you want. You could be knocked out drop dead gorgeous model like 50 year old woman. But if you are not attracting the man was not looking for what is on the surface this advice helps nobody. It's already out there in the world. Men have eye candy for days for women from 20 to 70 who look like 20 year olds. It's also professional. And guess what happens to them they get cheated on and discarded too. That is not the advice you should be putting out there and that is from a woman who is 50 years old.
Im really orry that has been your experience. But I can assure you that does not apply to all of us. I am sharing information based on my own romantics life, my thousand of client’s experiences, and the love life and dating journey of my family, friends and my own social circle. Yes, bad things sometimes happen to good people, but I would never choose to focus on that! I’m not a person who can embrace a negative attitude and my channel reflects that. My own personal experience is very very different than what you described so I’ve go to be me. 🤷🏻♀️
Why in the world would I date someone over 50?!??
This is redundant. You already left this comment on another over 50 video. Don’t you have anything new to add to the conversation?
LOL...!
This gal just keeps shooting herself in the foot and misleading her viewers\subscribers. If everything about middle aged dating was "Do what makes you feel good" then they might not still be single.
Your negativity is really offputting. You can either change that and be more supportive of people being individuals or you can leave. Thanks.
@@CoffeewithCarey Typical. Cry about negativity as opposed to the facts related. Shoot the messenger is not a good tactic.
@@jonnsmith180 it’s a social skill, Jon. There is a way to talk to people so that you are not being negative. You can share your own personal opinion without being negative or making sweeping generalizations. Maybe read through some of my comments to get the hang of it. You always have to leave room for people who don’t think like you and aren’t like you. We are all unique and different. Your opinion is not indicative of your entire gender. 🤦🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey Facts over feelings. It will serve you well. Trust me.
You can't trust most women ....!
that’s so dumb. Lol
@@bryank.vaughan4316 I don’t know what a brick lady is and sorry for having an agenda of helping people with something that I am an expert at. 🤷🏻♀️
@@bryank.vaughan4316 wait until you see an episode that I filmed last night, yet to be edited, and maybe you’ll change your tune. Or not. 🤷🏻♀️
You don’t know me.
I’m not bleaching my teeth for a date. Sorry.
I don’t know why you’re apologizing to me. 😆
Nobody is recommending bleaching one’s teeth for a date.
I think you will find that most of us are bleaching our teeth for a healthy looking smile, for a simple boost of self-confidence, to remove years of unsightly stains that age us by years, because it was recommended by our dentist (and personally, because that is free to me from my dentist), and to face the world with a bright welcoming smile …because we can!
@@CoffeewithCarey I wasn’t apologising. Bleach is a toxin. I’m not prepared to ingest toxins for the sake of the fake ‘Hollywood smile’ fetish. My teeth are fine as they are.
black men want to date women with blonde hair ( any length, any age, any weight, any religion)
uh huh. sure. thank you for speaking for the entire black male population, Mr. User-Xn1B09RX5M!
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Women? All they have to do is sit in a bar and wait.
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I bleach my teeth daily with a product from Walmart that is $5 and also a little hydrogen peroxide .. I get tons of compliments all the time
Tip: blue toned reds and pinks will make your teeth pop even whiter
definitely not orange lipstick! 😵💫😄
@@CoffeewithCarey Some of us (like myself) have permanently discolored teeth from antibiotics (tetracycline) I've had my teeth professionally whitened and also used bleaching trays at home to no avail. I think that good oral hygiene is a lot more important than having "white" teeth.
Do you have any enamel left?