Hello Carey, i am 70 years young and have been thinking of joining an online dating site. Your videos are so informative. Im highly conscientious, and I sometimes leave dishes in the sink overnight too. I ramk high in all the rest. I just started following you, Carey. You know your stuff. Thank you for sharing.
Love that you’re trying something new and also enjoying the channel! If you run into any major hurdles using idating apps schedule an hour with me to help walk you through it and make sure you’re dating profile is working for you rather than against you! 🤎👍
One thing I didn't hear [but may have missed] is being as honest as one can in their self evaluation. I have many single, male friends that comment on how "great a catch I would be," yet don't really see the complete picture of themselves. For myself, the one I question would be the extroverted? I can do this, and am required to do so in my daily career, however it isn't usually preferable unless it's at a function that I really enjoy. I'm also better at this in groups of friends and people I know rather than with strangers I am meeting for the first time.
I don't know where I fall on this list. I love men with long hair. Someone that is kind-hearted Someone who not only loves me but is willing to be friends with my Autistic son without judgement. Someone who realized I have other friends and interests that maybe they don't I like having fun I don't enjoy drinking alcohol I have been told since childhood I have a wild imagination I have a lot of interest. Don't put them down. I am still trying to get to know my own soul. Don't try to convince you have all the answers. You don't. There is way too much about me that this little box will allow writing About and I am still learning. I made so many mistakes when I was younger that I figured I needed to look inside. I am a good caring woman who trust GOD and wants a happy life. They don't need to an exact duplicate of me, just maybe similar....ie their own interests. Don't call me stupid because I believe in the Supernatural/Paranormal. It is just an interest
I lived alone for so many years I’m not sure how I feel about sharing my space with someone or going to their place. I prefer to get married first before doing all this complicated stuff.
Especially when Trader Joe’s offers that box mix around the end of the year holidays! 🤦🏻♀️👍 Having plenty of millionaire clients, I can assure you that is not true on its own.
Wow, I have all those, hopefully , I can find a suitable partner in future. A good way is to join fitness classes as only 5% of fitness classes are men, so men enjoys the company of all the females' fitness enthusiasts. I do about 7 to 8 fitness classes per week and enjoy all of them.😊
After watching this video, I ran outside and washed my 🚙. I like a man who physically washes his car. The $35 a month unlimited car wash access is ridiculous. Also, if a man likes gardening, I want him to be the one planting and maintaining. Going to the garden center and picking out plants, then calling Brad to plant it, isn't gardening... Same with home cleaning. Men can dust and clean bathrooms also. Plus cooking or putting together a meal. I just ate a salad. I shredded the lettuce and cheese 3 days ago. I worked 12.25 hours last night. I don't want a man who would starve if restaurants closed. All these things affect finances. I've found men who do these things have great finances and the ones who Don't, have a ton of debt.
I think I do pretty good on the list. My M O is to typically help people. Perhaps to my own downfall. Show up on time be sunny and 75. I do things with people never one to sit around much unless it is to listen to the sunshine in the woods. Live in a very nice paid for house. I live in N ID my truck and car are a bit disappointing to me. Truck never has died in the woods. Thank you God. Car needs updating. Have all my teeth smile lots. Life is good. Trust in God to steer me to the right woman. In the meantime it is fun to hang out with my friends and family
I love to cook breakfast for my partner and me , cleaning home is so relaxing to me watching him laying on the couch in potato position . Ahhhhh so darn dream. Why I always find guys who is wild and aggressive ? Who want to ride bike ( that I scared to death ) and who want to create a drama if we not going to night club every other evening ?🤷♀️😭😭😭
Waaaaah!!! Introvert reluctantly raises her hands... Wants to stay home. Sit on the porch in the wee hours with the morning coffee, listening to the birds wake up and the frogs start squawking - without talking myself. On the swing under the trees, just cuddling, snuggling and holding hands. Have naughty adventures in the privacy fenced backyard and not get in trouble in public. Lives happily in small town USA and content to remain there. I think all that go, go, go - is for the birds. Or the dogs. Or for people who don't like themselves and cannot stand to be alone. I lived [LTRs + marriage] with men like this in the past, and it was exhausting. I like quieter times, friends coming over for social times, playing cards, talking sh*t, drinking coffee [or a beer, wine etc - BYOB], a BBQ or home cooked meal. And visiting them under the same conditions. I don't mind hitting a flea or farmers market on the weekend, shake my bootie in a club every once in a while, or go to a show or concert - but not every darn time I leave the house. I bet there are plenty others that are the same - been there, done that - let other ppl go get mugged in the crowds... I'll be happy staying home! Totally with the other 3 points you made though, although I would use the word conscientious a bit differently or within a different context.
@@CoffeewithCarey You're right - it could be seen as such. I think the misunderstanding a lot of people have about introvert folks, is that they are not social. This is not necessarily so - it's just preferred in smaller groups with larger gaps of quiet time in between than with most other folks. And our activity level is often calmer and less hectic too - so it may seem lame to busy people that thrive on crowds, noise and fast paced action, but that's what keeps us centered, focused and comfortable. Quality focused interaction over quantity...
What I “read on this channel”? I don’t know what that means but….No. lol It was an equal distribution of men and women between 20 and 60. 🤔 But interesting that you think men want somebody who is unkind, boring, inactive, lazy, selfish, negative, angry, bitter, pessimistic, flaky, and messy! 🤣🤣🤣
Hello Carey, i am 70 years young and have been thinking of joining an online dating site.
Your videos are so informative.
Im highly conscientious, and I sometimes leave dishes in the sink overnight too.
I ramk high in all the rest.
I just started following you, Carey.
You know your stuff.
Thank you for sharing.
Love that you’re trying something new and also enjoying the channel!
If you run into any major hurdles using idating apps schedule an hour with me to help walk you through it and make sure you’re dating profile is working for you rather than against you! 🤎👍
3/4: because I hate doing dishes and I don’t have a dish washer. 😕 HOW-EVER, I feel like I excel in the other 3! So coo-toes to me. 😊
Love it!
Ps. I saw on Instagram, a little, itty-bitty, portable, countertop, dishwasher! 🤔
@@CoffeewithCarey I need one of those....lol.
Also I need a countertop washing machine. Saw a commercial for one the other day
One thing I didn't hear [but may have missed] is being as honest as one can in their self evaluation. I have many single, male friends that comment on how "great a catch I would be," yet don't really see the complete picture of themselves. For myself, the one I question would be the extroverted? I can do this, and am required to do so in my daily career, however it isn't usually preferable unless it's at a function that I really enjoy. I'm also better at this in groups of friends and people I know rather than with strangers I am meeting for the first time.
Yep, you should certainly keep in mind
whether you would get along better with an introvert or extrovert when dating. 👍
Where are these men who want to go out and do stuff?
Where are you?@@paulferguson8763
I don't know where I fall on this list.
I love men with long hair.
Someone that is kind-hearted
Someone who not only loves me but is willing to be friends with my Autistic son without judgement.
Someone who realized I have other friends and interests that maybe they don't
I like having fun
I don't enjoy drinking alcohol
I have been told since childhood I have a wild imagination
I have a lot of interest. Don't put them down.
I am still trying to get to know my own soul. Don't try to convince you have all the answers. You don't.
There is way too much about me that this little box will allow writing About and I am still learning.
I made so many mistakes when I was younger that I figured I needed to look inside. I am a good caring woman who trust GOD and wants a happy life. They don't need to an exact duplicate of me, just maybe similar....ie their own interests. Don't call me stupid because I believe in the Supernatural/Paranormal. It is just an interest
I am still trying to get to know my own soul. Don’t try to convince me you have all the answers. I loved that. 💖
I lived alone for so many years I’m not sure how I feel about sharing my space with someone or going to their place. I prefer to get married first before doing all this complicated stuff.
Yeah, people get stuck in their ways. Although I don’t think you could put the cart before the horse.
Hi Carey. I do believe in getting to know a person who is astrologically compatible. Its all in the stars..
I'm ok when asked what's your sign
I’m not a believer, but you are certainly not alone. You do you,Terri. 💖👍
I do the dishes right after a meal but never wash my car. I have an unlimited plan at the local car wash!
I have a hose.
Money makes everyone want you. ☕☕👍👍
BTW....Cornbread is easy to make.
Especially when Trader Joe’s offers that box mix around the end of the year holidays! 🤦🏻♀️👍
Having plenty of millionaire clients, I can assure you that is not true on its own.
@@CoffeewithCarey Well Carey, I hope you are getting handsome fees from those clients for your matchmaking services.
Money does not make everyone want you. However, if you choose to stay poor that would bother me.
Some of us guys are naturally introverted, outgoing one minute then quiet and retreat into a protective shell the next
I am an introvert. 100%But I don’t think I ever retreat into a shell. Maybe you are referring to something else that you should look at.
Wow, I have all those, hopefully , I can find a suitable partner in future. A good way is to join fitness classes as only 5% of fitness classes are men, so men enjoys the company of all the females' fitness enthusiasts. I do about 7 to 8 fitness classes per week and enjoy all of them.😊
💖👍
3/4, sometimes I get anxious
The good news is, that’s controllable!
After watching this video, I ran outside and washed my 🚙. I like a man who physically washes his car. The $35 a month unlimited car wash access is ridiculous.
Also, if a man likes gardening, I want him to be the one planting and maintaining. Going to the garden center and picking out plants, then calling Brad to plant it, isn't gardening...
Same with home cleaning. Men can dust and clean bathrooms also. Plus cooking or putting together a meal. I just ate a salad. I shredded the lettuce and cheese 3 days ago. I worked 12.25 hours last night. I don't want a man who would starve if restaurants closed.
All these things affect finances. I've found men who do these things have great finances and the ones who Don't, have a ton of debt.
That’s quite the list!
I think I do pretty good on the list. My M O is to typically help people. Perhaps to my own downfall. Show up on time be sunny and 75. I do things with people never one to sit around much unless it is to listen to the sunshine in the woods. Live in a very nice paid for house. I live in N ID my truck and car are a bit disappointing to me. Truck never has died in the woods. Thank you God. Car needs updating. Have all my teeth smile lots. Life is good. Trust in God to steer me to the right woman. In the meantime it is fun to hang out with my friends and family
I love to cook breakfast for my partner and me , cleaning home is so relaxing to me watching him laying on the couch in potato position . Ahhhhh so darn dream. Why I always find guys who is wild and aggressive ? Who want to ride bike ( that I scared to death ) and who want to create a drama if we not going to night club every other evening ?🤷♀️😭😭😭
So are you saying you do have a partner who is enjoying that lifestyle with you?
I would marry you in a New York second
😉Hey why not? Right
Waaaaah!!! Introvert reluctantly raises her hands... Wants to stay home. Sit on the porch in the wee hours with the morning coffee, listening to the birds wake up and the frogs start squawking - without talking myself. On the swing under the trees, just cuddling, snuggling and holding hands. Have naughty adventures in the privacy fenced backyard and not get in trouble in public. Lives happily in small town USA and content to remain there.
I think all that go, go, go - is for the birds. Or the dogs. Or for people who don't like themselves and cannot stand to be alone. I lived [LTRs + marriage] with men like this in the past, and it was exhausting. I like quieter times, friends coming over for social times, playing cards, talking sh*t, drinking coffee [or a beer, wine etc - BYOB], a BBQ or home cooked meal. And visiting them under the same conditions. I don't mind hitting a flea or farmers market on the weekend, shake my bootie in a club every once in a while, or go to a show or concert - but not every darn time I leave the house. I bet there are plenty others that are the same - been there, done that - let other ppl go get mugged in the crowds... I'll be happy staying home!
Totally with the other 3 points you made though, although I would use the word conscientious a bit differently or within a different context.
You gave so many examples of spending time with other people and going out. Lol
@@CoffeewithCarey You're right - it could be seen as such. I think the misunderstanding a lot of people have about introvert folks, is that they are not social. This is not necessarily so - it's just preferred in smaller groups with larger gaps of quiet time in between than with most other folks. And our activity level is often calmer and less hectic too - so it may seem lame to busy people that thrive on crowds, noise and fast paced action, but that's what keeps us centered, focused and comfortable. Quality focused interaction over quantity...
I have all. I’m single bc I don find ppl that have this
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A brown heart? 🤭what you mean ?
@@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx all my hearts are brown. It’s my aesthetic! 😎🤎👍
@@CoffeewithCarey 🤣 nice signature
@@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx ☕️☕️
Sounds like whatever you read on this channel used a female lense to describe what a woman is looking for as "desirable traits".
What I “read on this channel”? I don’t know what that means but….No. lol It was an equal distribution of men and women between 20 and 60. 🤔 But interesting that you think men want somebody who is unkind, boring, inactive, lazy, selfish, negative, angry, bitter, pessimistic, flaky, and messy! 🤣🤣🤣
@@CoffeewithCarey misread my statement. So, you are
wrong respectfully.
😊
Nope, it's money
Then maybe you’re interested in the wrong women. 🤷🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey What the ones with ovaries?
@@CoffeewithCarey What ones with ovaries?
Everyone will want me if I have 💰💰💰💰… end of story…
Certainly not