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I hate cooking but I hate BEING BROKE even more.
Me too, but like Rachel says - there are lots of simple meals that are inexpensive and easy to make. I have a repertoire of 3 meals I rotate and alternate with a salad and a can of salmon :) I do like to make soups on Sunday morning which produces about 14 very nutritious main dishes
@@curiouscat3384can of salmon? What the bloody shit? 🤢
High quality RED salmon - not crappy Starkist pink salmon. I've been studying nutrition for a while now - it's just as nutritious as fresh (can't get fresh anyway unless you're an Alaskan or Norwegian fisherman) King Oscar is a good brand - try it! And please try not to talk to strangers with ugly language. @@Tunechi65
@@Tunechi65 A lot of people are struggling out there. We are suffering and we don’t know where our next meal is coming from. Sometimes canned salmon is all we can afford. I have no idea how we will get through this.
A hotpot and a rice cooker are your best friends if you don't like cooking
I keep hearing her say "But every week another bill comes due." No Shit! That is the way it works.
And if you freeze a few meals ahead, you have your I-don't-feel-like-cooking days covered.
Yes! The freezer is your friend (even if its just the freezer that's part of your refrigerator).
I just went to the US. I got frozen meals from Trader Joes. They were delicious and way cheaper than going out to eat. It is cheaper to cook, of course, but on a trip, trying out new things, not having to buy full size food that I wouldn't be able to finish and having to cook after walking 10 miles in a day... I loved it.
I know she sounds like she's surprised lol
I keep a pizza and pre-cooked hamburger patties in the freezer for that very reason.
I cook on Sunday and parcel out batches to heat up during the week. Solves being too tired to cook and helps me stay in nutrition.
I do the same...bulk cooked my meals
Yes, not only does this tend to be better for your health, but it does prevent the temptation to grab take-out. Everyone gets tired on some weeknights, especially after a bad day. The key is to at least have some options to reach for on a bad night. Homemade "microwave" meals in individual containers in the freezer can be helpful too. As a single person, a lot of recipes make a number of portions, so eating (for example) 2 and freezing 2 works well because eventually there are a number of choices in the freezer.
Good morning Ms. Roberts - That sounds terrific, and it sounds like you and your gang can enjoy most/all evenings.
Okay
Good idea 👍🏽
Ramsey be going off, but he never tells a lie. This message was not just for Janet, but for me as well.
You go girl 👧
Yo same😆
Taco Bell is sitting there going "Don't drag us into this!"
Hahaha facts, it is trash though
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Taco Bell is cheaper than home cooking.
Finance and Business books have been so helpful. I’m 55 and my wife 50 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. No longer putting blames on FED for our misfortunes. Saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn weekly.
You have done great for yourselves. I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do for me now because I have no idea of how and where to invest in. I would be happy if you could advise me based on how you went about yours, as I am ready to go the passive income path.
That is so amazing, I’m trying to get onto the housing ladder at 40. I wish at 55 I will be testifying to similar success.
Credits to STEPHANIE KOPP MEEKS, she saw me through the process. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience.
Heard many good recommendations about Stephanie Kopp Meeks by some YT channels, Seminars and other platforms
Thanks so much I was able to find her page and I already leave her a message.
I will never understand why people just can't live on less than what they make. It's so simple, yet people struggle with it. It's so easy
Easily available digitally accessible loans
because ppl in this country were raised to be taught to live above your means, all the credit cards and different loans are telling ppl you can borrow $$ to live a fancier life than your income. And most ppl don't have self control to block all those out
Ken is saying , “Can I please talk”?! It’s all over his face lol 😅
And, maybe too much coffee and needs a potty break.
@@JustinCase780 😂😂
He should probably was thinking about putting some vodka in the tumbler. May as well if you don't have to talk.
"we paid our bills 3 weeks past the due date then a week later, they're due again"
Yeah no fucking shift. Ken's face was like WTF?
"I'm tired from all this work so I am going to go out to eat and give myself twice as much work to do tomorrow."
The big black hole in many households is FOOD. It needs to be a line item in the weekly budget, and that's all you get to spend. If you want to order pizza Friday night, there has to be room in the food budget. FYI homemade pizza is delicious and easy to make; kids love choosing their own toppings. Take lunch to work or school; you'll save a fortune. Take kids to the library to check out books and movies. Have picnics in the park. Go to everything that's free in your town and at your church. You can get rid of debt and still have fun; it doesn't have to be all doom and gloom.
Agree - it takes planning, and agreement by both spouses. And discipline!
I agree! And homemade pizza is so much easier than people think.
i think it's more on the small purchases ppl spent without thinking. A $30 pizza spending ppl are aware of, but a $5 coffee, a $1 bag of chips ppl think are so small and insignificant shouldn't make any impact on the budget, if everyone in the family think like that, it can add up to a very staggering amnt of extra spending each month
Dave should never have cohosts on his day, because he never lets them get a word in. 🤦🏾♀️
It's amazing how in one generation we've completely lost the ability to balance a checkbook. She can't do simple math and get organized. My dad was able to to know where every penny of his money went and recorded it in his checkbook.
Your dad was able but you didnt mention if you are able to balance a checkbook.
I'm quite sure every generation had some people that couldn't balance a checkbook.
@@blackmuslimconservative but not every generation had credit cards and didnt save for a car, university, vacation, xmas presents, eating out etc etc etc.
Me to lol
It’s not a generation thing; it is a personal thing.
The trick is to do your bills like an Accountant.
Every penny is written down, both incoming money and outgoing money.
including the morning coffee and the afternoon snickers bar and the popcorn at the theatre!
My wife and I have been living on a budget with everydollar for over 5 years and at this point we can’t live without a budget. We were just talking about this recently. Budgeting bring control and it brings peace.
Yes - it's synonymous with "planning ahead". The only way I can eat healthy is to plan, shop and prep once a week so all my meals are quick and easy and I'm not wondering what to eat on my way home. It really helps to avoid those fast food or grocery store hot bar runs.
I enjoyed Ken's insight there.
Dave is right you cannot be complacent about being broke. Get mad and fight your way out of debt.
It’s astounding. What a little discipline can do to change your life. Doesn’t have to be super intense just a little bit. This caller is a perfect example of it. She can’t. “get ahead” because she’s undisciplined.
Right on point. I use myself as an example. Was always “wondering where my money was going?” When I knew exactly where it was going. To B.S. lock in and stop buying what you don’t need and you’ll see some drastic changes
It's fun to eat out and not astounding.
@@JustinCase780 Eating out when you cannot keep up with your bills is astounding
@@ndwhitlow Astounding? Not really. 🤣
As someone who struggles with organizing, it’s hard to figure everything out. It’s taken me years to figure out how to budget. Bills come out at the same time , but paychecks come at different times. I liked it better when it came on the 1st and the 15th. It made it so much easier.
But …it takes time, but I got it.
5:24 Still waiting for the day that Ken can finish a sentence without Dave cutting him off. I guess today wasn't the day. Sorry Ken!
I was thinking the same thing 😅.
I think they do it for the increased drama. The pained look on their face adds to the show.
@@ronaldlindeman6136 He obviously needs to hit the can.
Dave just loves to talk 😂😂
Dave loves to hear himself talk. Rice and beans, rice and beans, and rice and beans for this couple until they get their act together.
Ken can't get a word in!!lol
Frozen vegetables and a couple of fried eggs is a fast supper. You start the vegetables off and fry until crispy. Then push to the side of the pan. Crack in the eggs. Then pile the veg and eggs on top. Small glass of beer. Easy peasy. Frozen veg are a life saver.
😂😂😂😂 I listened to this and transferred more money to savings lol.
I love it when Dave goes off and does the “whiny” voice!
Go work at a few restaurants and see what goes on and you will be cured from ever wanting to go out to eat again.
10 plus year restaurant worker here, through high school and college....100% agree with you. People think they are so high society, and above others because "we go out to eat often"....what they dont realize is that the cooks handling your food are usually ex cons, and live in slum conditions. Not to mention, restaurants use THE CHEAPEST ingredients that are available. Overall, restaurants are gross. Cooks and waiters do some questionable things to your food when out of sight. Grocery shop and eat at home, its better for your gut and wallet.
@@stevegolacks8731 Yep...totally agree!
"No whiney self" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Printing out a blank monthly calendar and filling in your income and outgoings on a visual calendar can really helpful to see what is going in and out when.
Visuals are good. When I was digging myself out of over-spending I looked at my budget and what I spent EVERY DAY!
Use a desktop calendar and write in the bills on the day they're due, and it will help you by having sll of the bills kaid out i the weeks of the month. And then you add in the days that you get paid, and then you can write arrows from the payday to the bills that should be covered by that check. It will help you to visualize all of the flows of everything.
Wife and I just started baby step 7 last month, we have since chopped $500 monthly from the food budget, mostly from dining out.
🎉Wow, congratulations to you both!🎉
He usually tells people that it often takes 2-3 months to get a budget to work. But, I understand. I am tired of people who have a huge income or even a good income who can not pay their bills
I needed this reminder. Thank you!
Eating out, there's the problem
They have a travel trailer and bringing home home nearly 70 thousand a year.
The eating out is one of them, but there's more to just eating out.
Ken really nailed it on this one.
We loved like this with food all my life!😊
Poor people stay poor by acting rich and rich people stay rich by acting poor.
Thanks Jay Shetty.
@@robloxvids2233that’s a compliment .
@@rebeccaoprea9917 You like to be compared to a vapid scam artist? Lol. That dude is the worst.
Very true
💯! I only spend 25% of my income. Takes discipline.
I hate when people say “yeah” or “right” instead of acknowledging what he’s saying with an actual reply.
THIS !! they reply with but
Great advice. It would have been great to hear Ken's take on the situation, too.
Live the plan ,write the plan, and do the plan. Only Uncle Dave. This one was for me.
They both have to be 100% for this and working together on it. Sounds like they have to make a lot of changes in their life, starting with no access to "spending money".
When I get my paycheck I literally WRITE EVERYTHING down. I’ve been doing it for 10 years now. It works every time.
Before I click on a new clip I try and guess where the callers are from🤷♂️..today was my favorite: Boise, Idaho..I just love that name..hopefully one day I can go visit😊
😂 that was in the military and is this moment on this project I realized that he washed all the memories have been busted it bootcamp came through and I think he would have made a great recruit division commander in the Navy I can't speak for the other branches but I would say definitely I did have a marine person in charge of being in charge of me running us through 115 degree weather in the shade in the Middle East I can see him in the in my mind yelling at me saying what are you doing😂😮😮
What?
Love Daves rant!!! 🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂
Whether you believe you CAN or you CAN'T, you're right.
I’m so whiny for sure. It’s hard. But we’ve been sticking to our principles and we’re up to $980,000 net worth before 40 years old!
What a man Dave Ramsay,total legend
Groceries.
Rent/Mortgage.
Utilities.
Transportation.
Minimum payment on everything.
Pay off lowest balance.
Repeat.
Utilities come before housing.
@@1timothydillon stoopid autocorrect 😏😄
Living for the Joneses interfere with people having common sense.
Dave needs to hire a dietician as a Ramsey personality
He looks great. Why put someone down
@elizabethheiland5632 I agree; I meant that people that call in could benefit from a budget-savvy dietician that could make beans and rice; rice and beans more appealing. Lol
Since food is such a money sieve for so many, that's actually a good idea. They don't have to be a dietician. A penny-pinching mom whose freezer game is strong would be a great asset. She could have a cooking show with recipes and teach us how to can, freeze, and stockpile lol.
This is where I disagree with Dave in terms of eating out......everyone deserves a treat now and then. We need food for different needs, not just for survival. Sometimes, life happens where one does have to grab food on the go (like if you accidentally left your lunch or dinner at home, and it's gonna be 12 hours before you'll be back). It's OKAY to pick up food from a restaurant every once in a while....businesses can't survive without customers, and just because someone lacks money doesn't mean they don't deserve a decent meal out once in a while. Maybe what they can do is just budget for how many times a month they can eat out/order in, and stick to that.
People need a quality of life...something that brings them joy and comfort...money can't and shouldn't be all work and no play.
Kenny C looks like he's ready to put in his 2 week notice. Being completely steamrolled then ignored by Dave in front of dozens of us viewers is dehumanizing.
I saw that too. Comes on the heels of Dave announcing "Ken Coleman is THE best person in the business when it comes to getting people to find ways to make money" but then he disses him in real time like usual. Dave makes Ken just sit there and think, not allowed to speak lol.
I'm guessing that he hopes that he will survive until Dave retires. I mean his other colleagues don't do stuffs like that to him and he also has his own show here. So, I'm not sure if he could get somewhere else something as good as he has on Dave Ramsay (minus Dave, of course 😋).
He adds nothing to the show. I skip episodes that he is the cohost.
I saw Ken too. I said, don't quit.
I actually like him a lot. His career quiz online is great.
Ken likes to shoot looks to the booth when dave interrupts him!
I have a spreadsheet with 31 lines on it. They correspond to each day of the month. I enter the positive incomes on the days im getting paid. And enter subtraction entries for the date the bills are coming out. If anything is coming out on the first of next month (or first week really) i include it on the 31st line so that the last check will cover it. At the bottom i do an equation to show any snowball or extra.
Same. Everyone should have their finances on a spreadsheet.
I needed that lecture thank you
Also cooking your meals is a lot cheaper. What you need to do is make a menu, and shop that menu plan. Another tip is to make dinner as 4 portions - 2 portions fir lunch the next day. Not only cheaper but it's healthier.
I don't understand how people don't have budget and stick to it. I think Dave saw through her blame the husband excuse. Dave trying to get her to take accountability lol love when he did the woman's voice that was great.
1000% agree with Dave. When I hit the millionaire net worth, I started spending like I was in Congress losing sight of the principles that got me to become wealthy. I had to listen to Dave yell at his callers a few times to get me back on track. Thank you, Dave for screaming away my foolishness.
They need a cashflow spreadsheet. The budget tells you what but your cashflow tells you when
THIS is what I watch this channel for! 😂
if you write down your bills/budget etc and not do anything to change that, yeah nothing changes.
We can’t get ahead = no banks will give us more loans.
Great input from Ken once again
If we are honest, MOST of us do this until we KNOW better. Love Dave's Brutal honesty tho. He's 100% right.
"Dog food at Taco bell" 😭
People eat out way too much. It's bad for their finances and their nutrition. Who knows exactly what they're putting in that "food". If they write down EVERY bill they are paying for, they'll realize they don't really need Netflix etc. Do the baby steps and bask in the freedom of being in control of your money. Sacrifice a bit now and eventually you'll be able to enjoy the occasional splurge.
There is a hole in Janet's boat!
I call my bank for a balance on my checking account, write it down then, list those bills due with the payment and, check number or whether they're auto payment. I save every month for bills that will be due such as car insurance (bi-yearly), property taxes, car tabs. Then, I figure what amount I will need for gas and food. I save all my receipts and, tuck them within the monthly paper trail created. It really is not a burden but, when I see the balance after this, I actually feel the money in my hands. Due to this technique, I will have zero debt in 13 months and, will also be close to getting a new roof with what I've been saving each month. I am on SSI and, the most lavish expenditure is a monthly pint of Hagen Daz. LOL.
thid happened to me i thought i could spend and still spend money pay bills and become rich but nope it does not work like that for some of us we have to hit the bottom, i even started washing my own clothing sometimes, cutting my own hair
rifing on that vip bus, eating at home, everytime i can get free food or a snack i get so thrilled,
i just need Max 4 months till im debt free 🎉🎉🎉
Live the plan, do the plan
does anyone else see Ken giving the look of 'if wasnt live on the air id be having a righteous fit right now?
Dave did the talk to the hand, and then cut him off when it was sappose to be his turn to chime in....the advice is solid yes but please show your co-host(s) a little more
faith/respect
I love the Breakfast Crunchwrap!
send me one
I'm retiring after December and trying to figure out how to keep my food budget to 50 a week. Today I spent 38 at Circus Fruit
Funny hearing Dave talk about nutrition 😆
Right !!
I agree overall with Dave but IMO he should've addressed and given constructive advice on the issue of not writing down all the bills/forgetting a bill/expense.
It may sound irresponsible, and it is, but the issue of forgetting about this subscription service or that automatic payment and so on is a real thing for many especially when there's a lot of bills and someone is new to budgeting.
Eating out the single biggest way you can get into debt.....food is marked up 4-5 times, and if you have a drink? Even more.
"but how do we get ahead" x9
It doesnt magically go away! You have to write them down and budget those past dues. To catch up THEN you get ahead
Groceries and gas are usually grossly under budget. That’s where it’s getting messed up
Blessings
Lack of self discipline, giving in to your immediate gratification impulses, is the problem.
I've heard Dave say, that the problem of getting out of debt and building wealth, is 75% behavior and 25% math.
A man who make $10, and spend $11, (and goes into debt), is an unhappy man.
A man who make $10, and spend $9, (and invests $1 in income producing assets), is a happy man.
Dave doesn't let his partner speak
✝️🙏
Use your debit card history to write out your budget. All of those reoccurring payments that ARE YOUR FOUR WALLS write down first. Then next. all of your other payments you have to pay should be dated and taken out and the amount you want to pay down on the least should be taken out. Then there should be nothing left until your debt free. After that things get fun but they dont change.😊
Eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. You won’t be hungry and that’s the point.
Thank you this helps I understand this caller
I think they missed something on this one. It sounds like they are trying they just can't emotionally see the progress while taking down the debt. Maybe they haven't paid a single thing off and they are feeling drained and needed motivation not a rant.
Also get rid of the trailer.
I got to the point where I always have a extra three or four grand in my account. This way it doesn't matter when I get paid I just pay my bills all at once.
They are to tired to cook but not to tired to go out and eat in a restaurant
Geez this isn't that hard, a fourth grader can figure this out. I get paid on the 15th and the 30th of each month. My wife gets paid every two weeks so her paychecks gradually shift. But on the 16rh and the 31st or 1st, I pay all the bills due at that time. Eons ago I sat down and and easily figured out ok, these bills are for the 15th check, and these bills are for the 30rh check. Also, DO NOT use your bank account debit card because you end up with dozens of little transactions and yeah, if you don't watch really close, you'll run out of money. I take out a wad of cash for us each check. We pay cash wherever possible, and minimally use credit cards, like for gas and if there is something you have to swipe a card for.
A couple of things I noticed is that it sounds like she started writing things down, but she either did it really fast without looking at everything, or maybe her head was in the sand, and didn't make the effort. Getting the first step down is vital, because once you actually start DOING the plan, you need to make sure you're not overspending in a certain budget area. Chances are she will lose her discipline and overspend (not that I EVER did that), but tracking things accurately will be her guide to help get back on track, which improves discipline, if she decides to do the work. Good luck and God Bless to this lady and her family!
The way she mentioned "all the little bills" did make me think that perhaps, she just forgot about bills they are subscribed to and it threw the budget off - Hulu, Netflix, Amazon, etc. Autopay can kill you if you forget you're subscribed to it.
@@KatieBellino I got that sense too. I love me some Netflix and Amazon, but they don't come for free! Those electronic payments don't seem real somehow, I've been there before. I will give her credit though, at least she started the process, which is more than most people do. Maybe this is what she needed to get things going on the right track.
I’m trying to understand how hard it is to do a simple budget. Good grief, it’s almost like this lady has never heard Ramsey talk about budgeting before.
A caller that doesn't have a budget. Never happens...shocker!
She mentioned all the "little bills." I think she thinks about mortgage, student loans, cars, utilities when she budgets, but forgets about things like her Hulu and Netflix subscriptions because they're small. The problem is if you have enough of those, you can throw the whole budget into chaos because you forgot about an extra $200 worth of stuff.
@@KatieBellino Yes, and meals out on 13th Street add up fast. It's hard to say no because Boise is awesome.
I do not understand the concept of budgeting at all. Utilities, Food, Fuel and Mortgage/Rent is hard to make complicated. People today seem to be trying to make their lives about suffering, because past generation apparently did not suffer enough already.
@@KatieBellino True, but each "little bill" should only be a surprise once - then it should go into the budget for the next week/month.
This couple needs to work together and use the envelope method realistically. Also important to give each of you some mad money.
It's insane how easy budgeting can be. It should be a requirement that you don't graduate H.S. til you know how to budget!
Dave’s taking no sh*t today!
You can find a reason to do something, or you can make an excuse not to.
They need to make more money. 75K between 2 people isn't that much. That is like they both make 37,500K a year.
It's incredible that people can say they are bringing in 70K, 80K, sometimes 120K + and they just cant' get a handle on it.
In the case of this caller $6,500 / month and can't get it together, wow!
Just goes to show what debt can do a person, couple, family, whoever.
Personal finance is SO EASY . People complicate it, knowing what they really need to do , but just don't want to do it.
The only thing that works is live on less than you make! and stop eating out.
Owe money on a travel trailer and only make 70K gross income?! Welp, that explains a lot. If you're making 35k each you both need better jobs or change your lifestyle significantly.
Eating out is ruining it for a lot of folks and not just financially
Junk food is addictive, which why people are going back there repeatedly, not just for convenience.
If your tired everyone eat Chef Boyardee 😊
Never disrespect taco bell.. I love it! 😂
It's worse than dog food.
I'll just point out that a box of macaroni or a spiced up package of ramen with frozen veggies is actually pretty decent. I have those kinds of options available for those nights when I'm more tired.
Yes or cook a turkey freeze small portions to add meatballs or porkloin
Planning for "being tired" helps too, as in "I remember being too tired to cook last week, so let's plan on one frozen pizza night."
I bet you produce some rank farts after eating that
Sounds like they aren't on the same page... A part of me feels for those who have to work with a partner on finances. It can be difficult enough to discipline yourself... but to expect another to be super disciplined as well can be a constant uphill battle. Either it'll work x2 or can end up being a disaster.
In so many of these calls, people are struggling with debt, but they have a travel trailer. Why?