I’m Worried We’re Going To Run Out Of Money!

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  • @kensmart1976
    @kensmart1976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +277

    $150K annual household income and $920 house payment. They are in debt because of free will spending.

    • @jamesjazzy8040
      @jamesjazzy8040 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      True...I think they're snorting their income...

    • @Dividendflywheel
      @Dividendflywheel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@jamesjazzy8040
      😂 snorting their income.
      Spending without a plan

    • @ericmanso7355
      @ericmanso7355 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Snorting
      Lol

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@jamesjazzy8040I snorted while laughing at this comment

    • @triad6425
      @triad6425 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jamesjazzy8040that would make the most sense, but if you aren't paying attention is easy for money pass through your hands like water

  • @Woopigmavs
    @Woopigmavs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +177

    Most millennials I know would do unspeakable things for a $920 mortgage 😂

    • @nsant
      @nsant 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I'm a millennial, and I have a 2000 sq ft house 3 bed 2 bath 2 car garage on half an acre fenced in. My mortgage, including insurance and taxes, is 1350. I feel lucky and blessed to have that.

    • @Jane5720
      @Jane5720 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s ALL speakable

    • @BrianaBudgets
      @BrianaBudgets 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah I’m 30 and pay $1,070 for a 1 bed 1 bath apartment with an upstairs neighbor that stomps around at all hours of the day and night.🤓

    • @loudandnerdygames5986
      @loudandnerdygames5986 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mid 30s with a 2 bed 2 bath apartment cost 1362.49 with weed smokers and homeless people around and my apartment is considered cheap. I wish I had that lady problem. She spending too much and had too many kids. Just cause your married don't mean birth control is no longer a thing. Most people out their lucky if their family half that income but really struggling on a quarter of that.

  • @ThePatriots010304
    @ThePatriots010304 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +213

    There's really no reason to be in debt (other than house) with a $150k income with a $920 mortgage payment. This is absurd.

    • @Sakurasan2023
      @Sakurasan2023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Agreed 👍

    • @youtubekeepscensoringme3357
      @youtubekeepscensoringme3357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      They ear out more then she's admitting to

    • @asiasimmons9995
      @asiasimmons9995 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Not so sure. I see pay statements at work. $150k even with dependents after taxes and insurance costs is not so much with 5 kids. A mortgage is only the beginning. We had thousands of dollars a year in maintenance costs on our house not including one off repairs. A patch on the roof was nearly $1k six years ago. Old cars need more frequent repairs. My husband has 2005 Sequoia. It’s paid off but any repairs are now min $700 and that happens at least once a year. And he is religious about maintenance and doesn’t ride her hard.

    • @tatianagoleva4062
      @tatianagoleva4062 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      .... mom of 4 here - totally true caller. Her grocery bill might be around $2500, plus all adult size clothing/shoes/teens needs. $4 school lunches cost me $400 a month, etc

    • @Re3VxRNxCLAN
      @Re3VxRNxCLAN 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You obviously don’t have 5 kids

  • @JacobMathewsPanoxol
    @JacobMathewsPanoxol 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Watched Dave everyday for 6 months while I was saving up to buy my first house. Got the house, stopped watching and my finances got out of line. Needless to say I am back watching Dave again.

    • @britanny5363ify
      @britanny5363ify 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same!

    • @justinaacorn5721
      @justinaacorn5721 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Uncle Dave keeps us all in line!😊

    • @riverrat3269
      @riverrat3269 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. Drifted away and then stated being careless again.

  • @zybard01
    @zybard01 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    $150k income with 5 kids and they were told to go bankrupt on only $47k debt, with $10k from a car???
    fire the finance advisor. They should have little Fed taxes and can easily eat large, cheap costco bulk meals

    • @Dan16673
      @Dan16673 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      A attorney told them to xontinue w the attorney

    • @DMS1010
      @DMS1010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes insanity. Show a bankruptcy attorney a check and they will show you a case

    • @Mr.Boring_Man
      @Mr.Boring_Man 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The financial advisor saw raw data. Not this sanitized and rehearsed version of the story. The numbers don't make sense because her story has a million wholes in it.

    • @robertvalinsky9804
      @robertvalinsky9804 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mr.Boring_Man holes too

  • @PInk77W1
    @PInk77W1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Dave’s plan works
    6yrs ago I had
    $3100 take home income
    $11,000 credit cards
    $0 savings
    $400 rent
    Then I found Dave and did a 180.
    Now
    $4100 income
    $0 credit cards ( cut up )
    $0 rent paid cash for home
    $40k savings.
    I feel like I won the lotto
    Thx Dave

    • @angel-ij4xv
      @angel-ij4xv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dave plan sucks

  • @FrenchCruller03
    @FrenchCruller03 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    If you're considering bankruptcy, it's time to cancel the saxophone lessons!!

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Bingo, and full blown cell phone plans as well as ALL subscriptions.

    • @GhostruckerX
      @GhostruckerX 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

    • @Sakurasan2023
      @Sakurasan2023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed

    • @13ikea
      @13ikea 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Disagree

    • @garyjennings5795
      @garyjennings5795 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@13ikeaI agree with your disagreement.

  • @Cloudyconfusion
    @Cloudyconfusion 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I admire this woman. I wish my mom and dad would have been her, would have changed their behaviors and called and asked for support. We lost our home and it broke our entire family apart. 10 years later and our family is still broken from the emotional toll it took on my parents. They’re unhappy every day because they sold their house thinking it would solve their poor money handling when it just prolonged it. Now they still have money arguments and mishandling, they just have those arguments in a smaller home. I hope the best to this mom, she’s saving her kids from trauma by doing this. I’m sad her husband isn’t on the phone with her but she is saving her kids a lot of heart break

  • @alinatamashevich3354
    @alinatamashevich3354 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    These are the type of people who think the children call the shots. Hint...they don't. Seen this way too much, can't say no to little Johnny.

    • @lexalee5795
      @lexalee5795 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely Agree

    • @user-id7ut8uc2j
      @user-id7ut8uc2j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sometimes they do. Especially if they have autism or mental health issues. Don't be so quick to make gross generalizations.

    • @lexalee5795
      @lexalee5795 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-id7ut8uc2j be quiet! If they got autism they don’t call the shots either! Autism kids can be tamed, they’ll get the belt just like any other kid!

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-id7ut8uc2j You are correct! Most of these "children" can be found being babysat as adults in jails and prisons.

  • @SmarterFinance2
    @SmarterFinance2 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It's not how much you make, it's how much you spend. You can make $1 million dollars a year but if you can't control your spending you will be in trouble!

  • @YoPhocFays
    @YoPhocFays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Running out of money. One of my biggest worries when thinking about retiring early

    • @JewelBlueIbanez
      @JewelBlueIbanez 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Find ways to make more money while retired. My dad flips cars.

    • @YoPhocFays
      @YoPhocFays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @JewelBlueIbanez Oh, that's not the problem. I do have steady income even in early retirement. But you never know what life throws at you.

    • @sami-9233
      @sami-9233 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Issues retiring? Then go back to work or find additional stream of income there are solutions to everything

    • @YoPhocFays
      @YoPhocFays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sami-9233 I'm stilling working. I have multiple sources of income. You just don't know what life brings is the point

  • @Meinvt
    @Meinvt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    She’s in a mess but not horrible. I can’t believe she was told elsewhere to declare bankruptcy.

    • @masoquistaeo
      @masoquistaeo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s the normal thing to do. They can pay off their debt in a year if they get serious.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've enticed some people think bankruptcy is the answer to everything

  • @higherliving
    @higherliving 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great segment! Life sometimes drive us non stop and we just try to keep up. Great advice!!!

  • @NipItInTheBud100
    @NipItInTheBud100 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Daves advice about those expenses not being a surprise and how to plan for such expenses was genius! This has been the best episode I have seen so far!

  • @goskaes5468
    @goskaes5468 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "calm down,line up and behave".....Love it!

  • @scottdorsey8220
    @scottdorsey8220 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Parents should engage their children in the budgeting process, as early as possible so the entire house is on the same page working together to meet budgeting objectives. This action can have positive downstream effects for everyone involved.

    • @donaldlyons17
      @donaldlyons17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe or maybe not.... Stuff only works if, as, and when it works.

  • @gdolly166
    @gdolly166 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Are you kidding me. 920 mortgage with 150 gross?

  • @nrg1123
    @nrg1123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Saxophone payments aren't a surprise" - Dave Ramsey 2023

  • @John-du2mq
    @John-du2mq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Also, Mr 18 year old needs to be working and contributing if he still lives there.

    • @TheSonyExperience
      @TheSonyExperience 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      At 150K they don’t need their 18 year old working to contribute to their home. Sure they can work, but $12 bucks an hour is a drop in the bucket. I would want my daughter focused on starting her career or school. Not cleaning my mess

    • @HatedJared
      @HatedJared 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@TheSonyExperience you know how you work on a career at 18? You work.

    • @TheSonyExperience
      @TheSonyExperience 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@HatedJared Most 18 year olds work on their career by going to college. So the work would just be to subsidize their increased expenses. But I would never expect my child to pay bills in my house because I cant manage my money..

    • @SVSky
      @SVSky 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TheSonyExperience the 18 year old works to manage THEIR OWN finances. Actually they should have had at least 4 years experience by that point.

  • @daveburkitt5287
    @daveburkitt5287 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Daves a great guy gives desperate people hope

  • @kbere4142
    @kbere4142 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We make about $80k w/ 3 kids and a baby on the way. We’re putting myself and my husband through school SELF PAY… and we have $2k in debt… wth do these people do with their money????

    • @leahwolber7082
      @leahwolber7082 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I understand how it happens, we make $170,000 a year and stopped saying “no” to things we thought we needed. We’ve learned we have to save up for the things we need to have done instead of reacting immediately. For example, our basement flooded last winter and we still haven’t remodeled it. We’re saving for it instead of just throwing it on credit cards. Now we really think before making a big purchase.
      By the way, well done to cash flowing his school! You should be proud!

    • @kbere4142
      @kbere4142 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@leahwolber7082 thank you! It’s really hard saying no to things when they seem very important at that time. We certainly deal with that too. I wish y’all the best!

  • @joshuajerome2232
    @joshuajerome2232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve got a little over 100k in CC availability and keep my utilization between 0-1%, and I only have a 55k annual income. It’s really easy to use CC’s wisely.

  • @tonebonebgky2
    @tonebonebgky2 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I constantly worry about running out of money, it's just the way it is if you're low income, have money coming up and it's going towards my debts but in the meantime it's just hard to say the least, these what I would consider "rich people" just don't know how to deal with money and yes I have a nearly grown kid with autism.

  • @JasonGroom
    @JasonGroom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please, please, please do not EVER stop your 401k fully. Reduce it to your match. It might take a little longer to pay the debt down, but a 401k match is a 100% return on investment. No interest rate you are paying is higher than that unless you have some payday loans and such, that are charging 10% a month.

  • @HangNguyen-ih8rf
    @HangNguyen-ih8rf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    My parents was making $50k combined income raising 5 kids. Bought 10 used cars in cash and their mortgage was paid off in 2 years. This was during the years 1990-2010 just for inflation info.
    And they have never used a credit or debit card😮

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Credit/ debit card is just a tool to spend cash.
      Nothing complicated.

    • @BOBTHEBUILDER1111
      @BOBTHEBUILDER1111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      50k was good money in 1994! That sure helped

  • @frankthetank5013
    @frankthetank5013 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    How in the Sam hell does somebody get $33K in credit card debt?? 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @boredoreos
      @boredoreos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      29% APR...

    • @Csencharles
      @Csencharles 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Using it like a credit card instead of like a debit card

    • @grega2362
      @grega2362 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Expect to spend 300 on groceries, get the surprise birthday party, pick up a gift and a card, dont put anything that isnt necessary back, spend 350, ignore the bill, go grocery shopping, have an emergency bake sale , but 20 cupcakes, spend 340, ignore the bill, buy junk food and shop 2x a week.

    • @---cr8nw
      @---cr8nw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@grega2362, the last time I had some credit card debt, I used regular grocery shopping to help get out of debt. I had about $900 on the credit card from a car repair. My usual grocery bill (at the time) was about $200 per week and I usually paid for it with the debit card. But after that car repair, I would put the groceries on the credit card and immediately transfer a little bit more from my checking account over to the credit card. If the groceries were $208.57, I'd transfer $215 over. At the end of the month, I had put about $800 on the credit card and paid about $830 towards it. But the magic of this trick is that the payments apply to the existing balance first. So by paying $830 during the month, I paid down the existing $900 down to $70 and put $800 more on the credit card. So the bank charged me interest on $70. The interest was only $1.17 instead of the $15 it would have been if I had just paid for groceries with the debit card. Then I made a payment of $200 which applied to the new charges. After just a few months I had it paid off. And I saved myself most of the interest that I would have paid over those few months. It's not that big of a deal on $900 at 19.99% APR, but it could be if the balance and interest rate were higher.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyday living

  • @theburnetts
    @theburnetts 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    “We lived simply and only ate out once a month”. Oh…also we have $33,000 in credit card debt. Something doesn’t add up.

    • @Shortballa11
      @Shortballa11 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You’d be surprise. 7 irresponsible ppl can rack up that money easy without eating out. They just don’t say no a lot

  • @sammyc7565
    @sammyc7565 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m starting to like Dave a lot more because of the simple fact that he cares. And says it like it is. And is fun with how he says things.

  • @c.bonabycpa1613
    @c.bonabycpa1613 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was good advice.

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Forget the soccer and saxophone until debt is paid off. Cut the cable. Forget streaming services. Cut all unnecessary things. It's only temporary.

  • @rlangton76
    @rlangton76 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    $920/mo house payment is insanely low. I pay $2350 to barely have enough space for 3 kids. My monthly income is the same as hers and I'm paying $900 alimony/child support. She'll be fine. How she's unable to budget is beyond me.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's learning.

    • @nicolemyers4584
      @nicolemyers4584 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The probably bought their house when they first started having kids. We bought a house 8 years ago for 160,000, four bedrooms and 1.5 acres. Our payment with taxes and insurance is $960. We could never afford our house if we bought it for what it’s now worth though.

    • @tonyawood2911
      @tonyawood2911 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My actual mortgage payment is $700 but after you add the homeowners and flood insurance, it’s $1300 a month.
      I don’t know if she was saying that’s her total cost or before insurance cost..?

  • @alexiscook607
    @alexiscook607 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jade, your hair looks good😊

  • @siegfriedbraun5447
    @siegfriedbraun5447 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I barfed a bit in my mouth when she kept using all of these platitudes.until I realized she was quoting Dave Ramsey to Dave Ramsey. I just let it flow then. This woman is soooooooooooooooo tightly strung! I pity her husband and kids. Husband is gonna say "See? I told you we are okay!!"

  • @Intentionaltia
    @Intentionaltia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The every dollar app is really helpful yall!

  • @jillgott6567
    @jillgott6567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    One of my friends passed away 3 years ago. At the time she was contemplating her THIRD BANKRUPTCY ! It made me sick she had not learned anything and here she was dying. It was an awful experience. Because I was the only one to stick around she wanted to leave the property to me. However, there were so many debts, liens, I said no.

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your next of kin can’t be held responsible for your debt after you die. That’s a myth. Unless that debt was partly in your name when it was borrowed, you can the held responsible for someone else’s debt.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JackieOwl94 But debtors can come after the estate, and they will. That will force the sale of the property to pay the liens and other debt.

  • @bradleymaravalli2851
    @bradleymaravalli2851 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm so confused. They live minimally yet they cannot save. Where is everything going? Is it all going towards the kids and their clothes, fees, sports, activities, braces, dental bills, medical bills, etc?

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyday expenses like food, toiletries, fun and utilities

  • @davidchester429
    @davidchester429 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If I was in financial difficulties every one of those kids over 16 would be having a job. I'd even be encouraging the younger ones to be looking at what they can do to make money. A family is there to pitch in during times of hardship

    • @alyssabird720
      @alyssabird720 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Umm.. no, it's not on the kids to help out their parents who made bad decisions. If they want to spend their parents money for fun and are over 16, they should. But if they're just trying to survive in their parents home, and not demanding money, it's not up to them to make money to help out their parents.

    • @davidchester429
      @davidchester429 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@alyssabird720 I'm hardly suggesting that they are sent up chimneys or to the work house. I certainly wouldn't be having anything in my budget for them beyond food and basic clothes though. I think she also said that one was in his 20s. If I have a 20+ fully grown person living in my house they are contributing to the upkeep of the house on principle

    • @Okaysnack
      @Okaysnack 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ew I bet you’re one of those parents that charge rent. It’s not your kids fault you’re crap with money. But making at 16 year old to get a job to help with you failure is disgusting. Get a second third job. But you cannot hold a child accountable for your crappy financial situation. Fair enough if your child is finished with education and they have their proper’adult job’ and living with you. Yes charge them rent but it’s not the child duty. You shouldn’t have had 2+ kids if you’re going to use them to help with you finances. It’s your failure not theirs.

    • @hayleydavis7562
      @hayleydavis7562 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@davidchester429sounds like the 20 year old is heavily disabled. Not sure you listened to much of the conversation, just what you wanted to hear.

    • @davidchester429
      @davidchester429 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hayleydavis7562 depends on the disability. My mum has next to no use of one of her arms and works harder than any 10 people I know combined. Working from a young age is such a good thing to get children doing. The financial aspect of it is probably the least important. I had a job from 14. The biggest thing it teaches you is the value of money and how hard you have to work to get it. The idea that parents funding adolescent activities and college education is helping their children is far removed from the reality in my experience

  • @eliza_kai
    @eliza_kai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Same income except our living expenses are insane in SoCal while raising six children. Even when our income was twice that, the chaos overruled. Really wish I had followed these principles and moved out of here years ago. The cost of living here is unlivable. Our apartment complex is full of lawyers, doctors, financial gurus lol, all paying $4000 + for a 2 bedroom. Sad state of affairs. Stupid. It’s just plain stupidity. Wish someone would’ve just said that to me and I’d listened.

  • @Buggu3
    @Buggu3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish I made 150k n my mortgage was $920 … that wud be a dream

  • @susanthibodeaux5378
    @susanthibodeaux5378 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes you just nail it.

  • @linhaton4957
    @linhaton4957 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Kids don’t NEED everything they ask for. Don’t pay for a saxophone if you can’t afford it.

    • @aboutwhat1930
      @aboutwhat1930 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Probably a requirement for a class in high school. Only question is if it's a debt to the school (the kid gets the sax, they'll get a bill) or a charge at the store (a rental or for purchase).

    • @Shortballa11
      @Shortballa11 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if he is rlly
      Good lol

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aboutwhat1930only reason it would be required is if he chooses to take band. That said… $50 to help your child be educated in music isn’t an expense to fight over.

    • @aboutwhat1930
      @aboutwhat1930 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adamseidel9780 100%, it's an education expense at that point.

    • @rlangton76
      @rlangton76 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The sax payment was required for school. Any parent with a kid in band understands these expenses come up.

  • @nikitakucherov5028
    @nikitakucherov5028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This caller is gonna make it

  • @robinkrieger8003
    @robinkrieger8003 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I am so surprised by this call….glad they reached out to Dave….budgeting will help them immensely

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Quit making others rich will help more

    • @Machetemike8343
      @Machetemike8343 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It sounds like their problem isn’t budgeting, their problem is a cash flow shortage to their emergency fund. In addition most of their debt comes from credit cards, if they weren’t making those payments towards those debts in the first place then they would’ve had a robust emergency fund more suited to their needs.

  • @hyottey1980
    @hyottey1980 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I was in so much debt until the kids grew up one by one. Once they left so finally almost finish with debt

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly its just a season of life

  • @thetruth5635
    @thetruth5635 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She will be good

  • @moonmoon8748
    @moonmoon8748 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Dont worry be happy🌻

  • @jerrylansbury9558
    @jerrylansbury9558 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    So before having kids.........you dont realize they cost money ?

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      0:43
      There is the problem. Too many kids.

    • @jerrylansbury9558
      @jerrylansbury9558 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stevenporter863 Yes.........but the bible bangers dont see it that way..... Kids are a gift from god ! At the same time.....no one set of parents can care for that many kids !!!! They are dished around like cookies....and others are expect to help care for them ! No parents can give that many kids attention as needed. The kids are neglected !

    • @jameywallace5133
      @jameywallace5133 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stevenporter863too many entitled kids

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jameywallace5133 ... Or parents who never leave a want unfulfilled.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      7 people in a house isn't sustainable anymore financially e en at such a high salary and low cost of living ($950 mortgage)

  • @joelmartinez2278
    @joelmartinez2278 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    150K??.....900 mortgage?....yup...no issues. I have 5 kids as well and don't make that much nor is mortgage anywhere near that low

  • @lindsaybell1187
    @lindsaybell1187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where do they live for that house payment?

  • @WeR1bodyNChrist
    @WeR1bodyNChrist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The keys are “Budget and Discipline”. Stay within your means.
    ❤Zero debt❤ All Glory to God🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @Winnie-Kay
    @Winnie-Kay 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Having a box of cards, birthday, anniversary, thank you, condolences, and what have you, plus 20 or 30 dollars in the box for gifts, will help eliminate any surprises.

  • @jillgott6567
    @jillgott6567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These people have a crazy nice income $150k there is not any reason they can not pay their bills.

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    $920 in Massachusetts?

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Probably bought the house 10+ years ago.

    • @mian3446
      @mian3446 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Probably next to Rhode Island or way west

    • @Meinvt
      @Meinvt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It says Worcester. Possible if they’ve had it for awhile

    • @Chicagofire24
      @Chicagofire24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      10. Must be 30 years ago.

  • @thatcomicdad1687
    @thatcomicdad1687 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Off subject but what is that song at the beginning

  • @nvrdwn3140
    @nvrdwn3140 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    12k a month income and a house payment of 900 I don't see how they can't pay off all their debt in a year. 2k groceries (very generous amount) 400 phone, 300 insurance, 300 electric, 100 water sewer etc, 600 gas, whatever I'm missing this adds up to almost 5k leaving 7k left. Why do they feel they need to go bankrupt???

    • @LiquidRetro
      @LiquidRetro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't forget health insurance, this is the USA.

  • @paulettemart
    @paulettemart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    920 house payment, like how? 😮

  • @clarasuarez1454
    @clarasuarez1454 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You only pay for saxophone lessons if your child is gifted at playing saxophone and wants to do it and there is a chance that music will be his professional career.

  • @CharlestonSharkTeeth
    @CharlestonSharkTeeth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Start explaining to people they need both a monthly budget AND a yearly budget and they need to blend.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, people often forget the annual expenses.

  • @Sangsinga682
    @Sangsinga682 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The kids should get a part time job

  • @dominicwilson564
    @dominicwilson564 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you papa dave

  • @LukeofAllTrades.
    @LukeofAllTrades. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is the money going? Private school and activities for the kids? Just can't figure out where $10k/month is going. Something doesn't add up.

  • @kangkhita
    @kangkhita 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Popping out more kids while having less than ideal financial circumstances to support those kids well isn’t fair to the them. Please take family planning classes and financially plan for children.

    • @Slim3398
      @Slim3398 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen!

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's a little late they're already here. But they should have been able to handle it without going in to all this debt.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      7 mouths to feed will make you financially insecure no matter how much you make

  • @freebird7284
    @freebird7284 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    all the kids go to work as soon as they are able, it's one for all and all for one, the family.

  • @JackieOwl94
    @JackieOwl94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Why is it always the people who make a ton of money who end up in these situations? My husband makes about $38k per year on a single income, and we save a ton of money and have almost zero debt. The one car debt we have is almost paid off years ahead of time.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just depends on the individual.
      I made over $160k/yr. in my career. My only debt was a nine year mortgage and retired 15 years early.

    • @themusic6808
      @themusic6808 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lifestyle inflation, not budgeting. People who make a high income tend to use it as a means to simply just spend more money, and their higher income subsequently allows them to borrow more money than a lower income person could normally qualify for. Believe me it’s entirely possible for people making over 6,000 a month to find ways to end up in their overdraft by months end and put the rest on a credit card until they get paid again, then when their credit card bill comes around they’ve spent their income and make the minimum monthly payment. So on and so forth.

    • @josephbanks9897
      @josephbanks9897 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with u 100% about these high income earners. They have no common or financial sense. They have the income, but is clueless about running a house hold. And probably life too.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They have 5 kids

  • @howardbloom6974
    @howardbloom6974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why don't I hear no alcohol, no beer, no recreational drugs, no snack foods. Maybe carpooling. Implications to buy their products. You do good work. Could be better.

  • @Tehui1974
    @Tehui1974 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mathematically, she should be able to make the numbers work in her favour.

  • @windsongshf
    @windsongshf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    A 150K household income with a 900 bucks a month mortgage, are you kidding me? That's frikkin' amazing! However, the more I hear about kids, I'm thinking they're more of a curse than a blessing in this financial reality. No wonder young people aren't having them.

    • @---cr8nw
      @---cr8nw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Kids are only a curse if you refuse to parent them.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup, especially if you have too many kids. These folks have 7 people in a household. It didn't matter the salary, it will never be enough money to make anyone feel secure.

  • @jaytea42
    @jaytea42 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You’re gonna make it !

  • @v.m.4453
    @v.m.4453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Jade is beautiful.
    Just saying...

  • @Machetemike8343
    @Machetemike8343 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    People need to know about 0% APR credit cards that offer balance transfers for up to 24 months I’ve seen. It could help delay a debt snowball and promote future stability by lowering monthly interest obligations and allowing you to put that excess towards the principal, or in your family’s mouth if need be.

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You don’t think these people didn’t try already? And a lot of those debt transfer services just make it easier to not make payments and not take responsibility for their debt. It’s just a quick and easy way to put the problem under the rug.

    • @MrJimmy3459
      @MrJimmy3459 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      horrible advice

    • @summerxia6974
      @summerxia6974 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JackieOwl94 plus the transfer fee is always somewhere between 3% to 5%, that's one grand for $30k debt

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This has been a popular thing since the 90s and it works well for credit card companies.
      Things like this is why Visa and Mastercard are having jumps in quarterly profits and a 10-20% dividend increase last year.

    • @Vegasbonus702
      @Vegasbonus702 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most people that get these offers aren’t in debt . They have great credit but you can always call your credit card company and ask for a lower apr for a year which could be a few percentage points which is better then nothing. Give it a try

  • @aboutwhat1930
    @aboutwhat1930 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    34k CC debts, 10k car, 3k braces, & a $1k/mo mortgage. Income of $150k pre-tax. They got this, easy, as long as they keep the credit cards in pieces. They're making about $100k after-tax, only spending maybe $2k/mo on the home, and thus have $6500/mo to cover their actual needs and all the payments. They can wipe out these debts in the next year, certainly.

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately they’re sitting on nearly a grand a month on interest alone

    • @aboutwhat1930
      @aboutwhat1930 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@adamseidel9780 Possibly up to about $1200 in interest if they have ~30% APR's on the credit cards. They can knock that down pretty quick though on their income, thanks to the low mortgage (probably helped by timing and the below-average home prices in Worcester).
      Regardless that's a lot of interest to pay each month before making an impact on the principle. But with an income like that, they've surely been overspending and need to get the credit card debt gone before interest rates go any higher.

    • @kara2162
      @kara2162 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adamseidel9780 a grand a month in interest on 9k take home shouldn’t be an issue.

  • @leechburglights
    @leechburglights 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yep I made it through but still worried about retirement in 15 years.

  • @littlepixel1650
    @littlepixel1650 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Living not within your means. That’s what this is called.

  • @thebeautifulmanclub3790
    @thebeautifulmanclub3790 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What financial counselor would tell her to declare bankruptcy with $47k in debt and $150k annual income?

  • @victors16811
    @victors16811 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Quick question: why 5 kids???

    • @alleykeosheyan4779
      @alleykeosheyan4779 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree -- if you can't feed 'em, don't breed 'em!

  • @christopherpaige406
    @christopherpaige406 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Children are only a blessing if you planned and can afford them. You're looking at close to $1M/child up to the age of 18. Dave laid it all out to prove my point but he will never cut it off at the pass.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup 7 mouths to feed will always leave you financially insecure no matter how much you make

  • @HoneyxLime
    @HoneyxLime 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can someone who is not ridiculous call in?

  • @kokolovitch56
    @kokolovitch56 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Too many kids and not enough income will keep you in the poorhouse.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. Nobody will ever feel secure at any salary if they have 7 mouths to feed.

  • @commonsenseisntcommon1776
    @commonsenseisntcommon1776 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    5 kids??? Nuts

  • @jenniferwolfe8295
    @jenniferwolfe8295 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I called kid stuff "Yeti" scarry stuff that shows up radomly..and i had an envelope for that .. scout camp, church camp, youth trip,

  • @John-du2mq
    @John-du2mq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You will have to learn how to tell your kids no sometimes. It stinks but it's also a wise lesson for you. You put yourselves in this situation and it's your fault you have to say no. As soon as you take that accountability you'll never go back to it.

  • @khoimavlogs5161
    @khoimavlogs5161 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can you be in debt if you making 150k. You need basic 101 how to manage your money. This is crazy.

  • @theculturewatch2414
    @theculturewatch2414 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Budget and Invest for a few years - possibly downgrade car

  • @shaneferguson8450
    @shaneferguson8450 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5 kids. Good luck.

  • @goofygirl1311
    @goofygirl1311 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The kids should all be working. Even the 11 year old can make money mowing lawns, pulling weeds, shoveling snow, etc. They can use their own money to buy little extras for themselves.

    • @smokinhalf
      @smokinhalf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      When? the children are in school and they should be learning not working

    • @goofygirl1311
      @goofygirl1311 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@smokinhalf They are on summer break now, they are not in school. And kids have been working PT jobs on weekdays after school and on weekends for a long, long time. They can also make money babysitting, mowing lawns, shoveling snow, dog sitting, etc. I know I sure did when I was a kid and my own kids have as well.

    • @sami-9233
      @sami-9233 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They have all weekends and late afternoon spent outside school
      Teaches you A LOT

    • @Sakurasan2023
      @Sakurasan2023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Anyone under 14 can't work legally

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was normal chores and making money when I was growing up before middle school.
      Parents never forced us to make money to pay them unless we were over 18 living at home.

  • @kidneedonor8088
    @kidneedonor8088 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it ok for these people to go to food banks?

  • @raymondsimmons1617
    @raymondsimmons1617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am concerned for this caller. Dave and Jade think they will be okay. They make $150,000, but they haven't been largely wasteful with their money. No big house or car payment. Not much eating out or vacations. And they've run up the credit cards.
    $33,000 in credit card debt is $500 to $700 a month in interest depending on her rate. I can only imagine what it costs to feed 7 people.

  • @patriotdrone9566
    @patriotdrone9566 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This one is simple. She can't budget, period. Fix the glitch on you'll be fine. 150K income with a tiny mortgage. Even with 5 kids this should easy mode!

  • @matthewdeemer254
    @matthewdeemer254 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i currently have about 13k total in my bank account. currently married and a mobile home owner with 600 rent and 536 mortgage. we both work and dont plan on ever having children. we live on a very cheap lifestyle..
    ...so why am i still stressed and worried about my money suddenly disappearing? 😥

  • @alanrios2378
    @alanrios2378 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ppl really be "drowning" in an empty pool. 150k and struggling?

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You will be downing no matter how much you make when you have 7 mouths to feed

  • @paulcasto1582
    @paulcasto1582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NO ONE SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO FILE BANKRUPTCY, PAY OFF YOUR DEBT!

  • @MichaelHasebroock
    @MichaelHasebroock 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have 4 kids and make way less and am in baby steps 4 & 6.

  • @adamgibson473
    @adamgibson473 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im sure itll get easier from here as her kids ages out of the house starting from her oldest child

    • @chatbass2468
      @chatbass2468 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The eldest has autism, so that could mean being able to care for themselves, or lifelong care by the parents depending

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, because some of them will go to college probably. The oldest may never be able to leave the home. That's a difficult future to plan for if you are a special needs parent.

  • @philipgerry5228
    @philipgerry5228 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Time to cut vacations and restaurants.

  • @element720
    @element720 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂 @ considering bankruptcy with a $150k annual income, and manageable debt

  • @scoutandscooter
    @scoutandscooter 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This woman's middle name is chaos.

  • @tristanrodenhauser5267
    @tristanrodenhauser5267 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The 18, and 16 yr old need jobs, the 13/14 yr old can be doing small jobs like lawns or babysitting they can cover their car insurance, gas, cellphone, other wants

  • @jacobsmithjr
    @jacobsmithjr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is anybody going to give her employer credit for sending her to a mandatory retirement meet? lol

  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    $150k/yr and a $900 mortgage? They should be rolling in dough.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Taxes in Massachusetts are nuts.

    • @SRD1281
      @SRD1281 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@djpuplexstop.

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SRD1281 $15 per $1000 of assessed real estate value. Let's say $300k modest home I doubt it $4500/yr but with 5 kids they probably aren't in a 2 bedroom.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      5% state income tax as well

  • @ssp287
    @ssp287 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Worried about $50? What? Probably spend more eating out a week.