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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 มี.ค. 2012
- www.ted.com Shame is an unspoken epidemic, the secret behind many forms of broken behavior. Brené Brown, whose earlier talk on vulnerability became a viral hit, explores what can happen when people confront their shame head-on. Her own humor, humanity and vulnerability shine through every word.
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It's amazing, you asked "how many of us view vulnerability as a weakness?" My answer is I only see vulnerability as a weakness for myself, I see the strength of it or in it for others.
Sooo we all here because of our therapists?😂😂
Ninety-nine percent of the women commenting on this will not appraise their man for being vulnerable she even says that at the end of the video and I think most of you skip that. That same ninety-nine percent of women will shame their man or beat them up for being vulnerable for the women out there this is my call to you do better by the men who are vulnerable in your lives.
Excellent talk. Empathy is the antidote to shame. Which is why those with narcissistic parents suffer so badly with shame.
My therapist sent me here after a groundbreaking session. Bless this woman. And my therapist. Haha hope and healing to everyone!
that one guy in the audience with the full belly laugh. man what a champ
I learned early on, the first time you as a male cry in front of your partner will change the relationship forever. She will never look at you the same, she will never forget that sight, that memory. No matter how much she says it doesn't affect her thoughts of you. She will now always compare you to her idealized image of you or of other men to you will always lose out.
"They'd rather me die on top of my white horse than to see me fall down". How powerful. And true.
Being vulnerable is one thing, being able to deal with the punches that come from letting your guard down is a completely different one
"Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change." I'm lying alone in my room watching this on a laptop. I clapped. I KNOW this is true. I wasn't able to change and get out of a rut this year until I embraced my vulnerability. I let go of pride. I fell wholly into the arms of those I trusted. And I was lifted up, and found my strength, and I changed.
"They would rather me die on top of my white horse than to see me fall down."
That last thought really hit me. I always think "I'm going to put myself out there when I've worked on all my issues and I'm feeling great and super confident" and then it never happens.
"Vulnerability is the birthplace of creativity, innovation and change." - Brené Brown
"Vulnerability is our most accurate measurment of courage" wow
'They'd rather see me die on my white horse than fall off...' I think every man feels that way
"I make more mistakes than anybody I know, because I try more things." - Jacque Fresco
Therapist sent me here, this helped me in more ways than you can understand
Warning: Do not listen to Brene Brown while driving. I cried or almost cried at least 18x. I cried from laughing, I cried from truth, I cried from realizations. This is so invoking of spirit and truth and profound. I resonate with this so much. I have been shamed since before I could even talk and it disabled me until recently when I realized that I had the power to choose no longer to let the shame control me. I stumbled upon this TED talk by divine intervention and I am so grateful because it came to me at the perfect time to propel me forward into my own greatness. Thank you!
"I know your dad never paid attention, even when you made CFO" - Oh Mylanta! The way that hit me just now!
1) "Never good enough."