"He's had a problem with respect and authority for quite some time now"... Good idea to buy him the car he's been pestering you for. Rewarding bad behavior always works😂.
@nisinisi4627 you're a mom, probably just like the video and probably just like my mom too. That is a Class A Narcissist in the court room, lies, wants to keep control of him. She bought the car so she could dangle it over his head, it's all about control. I fell so sorry for that kid, he's most likely in his late 40s early 50s by now, I hope he was able to get away from her. What a horrible mother. She can't be wrong she can't be told no. You can tell when someone is dealing with a narcissist because you'll ask them a question, like judge Judy asks the boy what he doesn't like that his mom does and all he can bring up is that he'd like to be able to sleep in. Narcissist make you feel crazy, like nothing you do is good it right and you have to rely on them for everything that way when they want to cut you off or make you look bad, you have to fall back on them for help.
Tame and calm doesn’t bring ratings, and ratings equal money. I prefer her this way, but don’t we all prefer to have tame, calm and peaceful people around us? She’s like everyone’s favorite Auntie here - we can talk openly to her, we can take all of our problems and issues to her and she always gives us the right advice.
Kid refuses to grow up. Mother is trying to impart some responsibility in him but just refuses. He assaults her, sells drugs from his sister's apartment which got her kicked out, drank himself into alcohol poisoning and needed to be revived. Has himself an underage gf that enables the idiot.
I see the problem with the boy, it's the mama. Why do some parents think they can be as hateful and disrespectful to their children and the children are supposed to not be affected by it?
I understand people who have issues with how parents treat them. However, if you are an adult and don’t want your parents meddling in how you life your life then you should NOT be asking them to buy you stuff. That’s common sense. I can’t stand the whole my mom/dad is so mean and abusive meanwhile asking mom/dad can you give me money, buy me a car, let me live with you?
Just let the kid be. Let him live on his own and figure it out himself. She has to let go. She is holding onto him so badly. Let him grow. Shit hits the fan when youre on your own. But you learn responsibility. Let him learn.
Maybe watch the other parts a d see of you still think that. He has an underage gf, a conviction, sells drugs and thinks drinking to the point of alcohol poisoning is no big deal. His one example of his mother being the worst is she drives him everywhere he needs to go, until he was forced to move our after asislting her, he living rent free and was not asked to pay any bills. and in return she asks him to babysit his own younger brother. The mother desperately trying impart some sense of responsibility in the grown ass adult for years he just refuses to grow up and all his problems on mommy.
Hopefully the boy defendant grew up to be a man, instead of a spoiled brat that gave his mother grief of not wanting to get up to go to school and work. Hopefully he is a responsible man with a nice wife and three kids. And is better to his mother.
Older JJ would never let the plaintiff and defendant go back amd forth fighting with each other, even if they're mother and son. Interesting how her approach changed.
no joke these old original episodes that had started before I was even in the double digits as far as age...but matter of fact these og episodes are my absolute favorite
"You had 9 jobth in the last 8 month". He was probably tired of hearing her lisp . Shame though as the guy is handsome and hope he now walks on the straight and narrow with a good wife and kids. Parents should NOT bribe their troubled children with gifts.
When I was growing up, I wa shown the belt. To this day, I'm respectful, kind and helpful of others and I've never been to jail or in trouble with the law. I blame the mum, end of story.
i'm having similar problems with the defendant. adulting doesn't necessarily mean i disagree with my parents, it's just that they have their own way of doing things, and i have mine.
Well I hope you're living on your own, paying your own bills and not asking your parents for shit. If you're not, you Need to be. That's how you get to Do things Your way.
Uh sounds like from this clip the mom's the one with more of a chip on her shoulder than the son. Maybe it's justified but she had way more outbursts than he did and so it was weird for JJ to call him out for being angry at her
That entire family needs therapy. I believe the son is troubled and the fact that the father was only mentioned once is a problem for me. Where is the father in all this? The 17 year old immature girlfriend needs stay out of it. Yes, I said immature. She is too young to be caught up with a young adult who already has a record, can keep a steady job, can't pay his debts, irresponsible and is involved in so many questionable activities. And this is going off on what he said/admitted to only. No parent wants their 17 year old daughter dating a young man like him.
Why would the father need repeatedly mentioning unless necessary?This is between the mother and son and like a lot of fathers he is possibly letting mum deal with him while he’s working.If dad was there too there would be claims of them ganging up unfairly. Dad quite possibly may have washed his hands of the child as mothers have a different bond with their children and especially sons and will keep trying to help and do what they can for them.I speak from experience of having 2 of each and my boys are spoilt and I know it’s my fault.They all are in reality.😂 They have more respect than this child has for his mother and would absolutely not treat me like this and appreciate everything I do and have done.More so after moving out and so should this young man.The real World is hard
@emilysjones9746 not all children are the same so comparing yours who were brought up under different circumstances is unfair to all parties involved. Fathers aren't supposed to simply provide financial support. They are supposed to be more involved in their children's upbringing. If the father is leaving HIS SON to continue down this self-destructing path and not step in, then he's part of the problem too. I had both parents and I'm fully aware from experience that fathers are to be more involved than providing financial support.
@ how are you assuming he’s just providing financial support and not bringing him up?😂 I meant he’s working that day to support his family and dad probably had his fill of him at 18 and may have said to his wife you deal with him then or he moves out.Military school does not tend to be a mothers first choice for their son and possibly the father is in the military which would make sense to him not being there and being as involved as you would like.All fathers can’t work 9-5 Monday-Friday.Sounds like not so much of a difference to me with my family actually.Sounds pretty much the same
@emilysjones9746 1. You are the one that said he may be working (that's why he wasn't mentioned). 2. He's obviously in the picture based on what was said (the vacation) but no other mention was made of him and his input in all this. Even some visiting fathers are more involved in cases where there is a dispute between a parent and their child. They're either for the parent or for the child. In this instance neither party in this case made any real mention of him
@@TriciaT2407 No other mention of the father, to me and as Emily said, he has probably washed his hands of the son's behavior. There's nothing More to elaborate on him.
Some kids just don't appreciate sweet chit all! Parents spend these days about $314,000.00 to raise a kid from birth to 18, never mind college, ten years ago that is about $230,000.00. My grandfather helped me buy my first motorcycle at 13, my dad said he was crazy, that winter my drunken dad put a loaded rifle to my head, if my mom had not come home from shopping who knows, the following spring after turning 14 I left home and started working construction. I had skipped a few grades, the principle was a decent sort, so I just sat my exams and earned my grade 12 after taking a couple night classes.
Thank you,someone who is talking sense and not blaming the mum for his behaviour and his expectations for her to do everything for him without any return.Hes an adult and put his younger sibling in danger
Thank you,someone who is talking sense and not blaming the mum for his behaviour and his expectations for her to do everything for him without any return.Hes an adult and put his younger sibling in danger.Your dad sounds awful.I had a childhood where I had to grow up young too and had a shitty dad who still tries to manipulate and control me at 46.Ive cut him out of mine and my childrens life and he still doesn’t accept that it’s his doing.Hes not even allowed legally to see his own mother.My brother is the same and the 3 of them are vile disgusting people
@@emilysjones9746 Some people take a lot longer to grow up, Sorry to hear about your dad. My dad was an alcoholic, fortunately he quit drinking, and we reconciled a decade or so later.
@ unfortunately my dad is too selfish to ever do that and doesn’t believe he’s done anything wrong even after stealing all my nans life savings and stabbing his son.🤦♀️ it’s all feel sorry for him.Thats only a1% of it too.Watch out for the hit movie.😂🤔
"He's had a problem with respect and authority for quite some time now"... Good idea to buy him the car he's been pestering you for. Rewarding bad behavior always works😂.
children act the way they are raised.
The Judy now wouldve def said "Uhmm" is not an answer 🤣🤣
Even I was saying that!😂😂😂😂😂
And would ask yes or no questions. “That requires a yes or a no.” In the first episodes she would let people ramble.
Loving the old throwbacks!
Something is wrong with the mom.
Son as well!!
She is hovering over him like flies on shit.
@nisinisi4627 you're a mom, probably just like the video and probably just like my mom too. That is a Class A Narcissist in the court room, lies, wants to keep control of him. She bought the car so she could dangle it over his head, it's all about control. I fell so sorry for that kid, he's most likely in his late 40s early 50s by now, I hope he was able to get away from her. What a horrible mother. She can't be wrong she can't be told no. You can tell when someone is dealing with a narcissist because you'll ask them a question, like judge Judy asks the boy what he doesn't like that his mom does and all he can bring up is that he'd like to be able to sleep in. Narcissist make you feel crazy, like nothing you do is good it right and you have to rely on them for everything that way when they want to cut you off or make you look bad, you have to fall back on them for help.
The old Judge Judy episodes had Judge Judy more tamed and calm. She not only making judgments but teaching important lessons to the litigants.
She still teaches important lessons, she just doesn’t treat the litigants like children anymore.
Tame and calm doesn’t bring ratings, and ratings equal money.
I prefer her this way, but don’t we all prefer to have tame, calm and peaceful people around us? She’s like everyone’s favorite Auntie here - we can talk openly to her, we can take all of our problems and issues to her and she always gives us the right advice.
😂 now she's like, "I don't care a rat's behind!"
She's seen a lot of shit already, and she's tired of dealing with all these stupidities!
@ Exactly
Mom seems like a drama queen.🙄
😂 really?
Kid refuses to grow up. Mother is trying to impart some responsibility in him but just refuses. He assaults her, sells drugs from his sister's apartment which got her kicked out, drank himself into alcohol poisoning and needed to be revived. Has himself an underage gf that enables the idiot.
Ya think?
ONE QUESTION: Where is his father? There's a deeper issue here.
Working most likely 🤷♀️
He said his father is the one who works and brings home the money when JJ told him his mom was hardworking.
@@emilysjones9746 You don't understand. My wife is taking my son to court, and I'm not there? That's unusual...
@@aaronbrutus2654Then you should have asked "why isn't the father in the court room?" They answered the question you presented.
The older Judge Judy wouldn't tolerate this crosstalk between them.
She'd direct them to the case at hand, or tell them to go see Dr. Phil.
Exactly!
Exactly! Or guide them by asking yes or no questions. Now she doesn’t listen to the whole story like she used to in these old episodes.
She's not drinking as much now.
Mom thinks she is in dr phil, gurl, you are in a court.
I see the problem with the boy, it's the mama. Why do some parents think they can be as hateful and disrespectful to their children and the children are supposed to not be affected by it?
Parents rarely realise that their children's behaviour and attitude is often just a mirror of their own
@@davlin7685, the hardest person to face is the man in the mirror.
James is the product of his mothers parenting
Judge Judy now would not allow them to talk to each other like they do
I understand people who have issues with how parents treat them. However, if you are an adult and don’t want your parents meddling in how you life your life then you should NOT be asking them to buy you stuff. That’s common sense. I can’t stand the whole my mom/dad is so mean and abusive meanwhile asking mom/dad can you give me money, buy me a car, let me live with you?
Just let the kid be. Let him live on his own and figure it out himself. She has to let go. She is holding onto him so badly. Let him grow. Shit hits the fan when youre on your own. But you learn responsibility. Let him learn.
Mom is 100% the problem
Maybe watch the other parts a d see of you still think that. He has an underage gf, a conviction, sells drugs and thinks drinking to the point of alcohol poisoning is no big deal.
His one example of his mother being the worst is she drives him everywhere he needs to go, until he was forced to move our after asislting her, he living rent free and was not asked to pay any bills. and in return she asks him to babysit his own younger brother. The mother desperately trying impart some sense of responsibility in the grown ass adult for years he just refuses to grow up and all his problems on mommy.
Yet he is the one who begged the problem to buy him a car. Why didn’t he beg his dad who he claims pays all the bills?
@@jivy1022 LET HIM MAKE HIS OWN MISTAKES!
@@anndeecosita3586 You don't know that they don't all live under the same roof. She's just the one that sued because she's the nutcase.
_"Mawm"_ comes off as domineering and mean. 🤨
Really? How? Sounds to me she’s done a lot more than some would to help and she’s had enough.
*Drinking Game* Take a shot every time they say 'CAR' 🤣
Take a shot every time mom says car
I would NEVER drag my son on TV like this. Awful. I understand he needs to grow up but i dont think this is the way to go.
I’m sure the son has his issues but the Mom is a problem too.
Hopefully the boy defendant grew up to be a man, instead of a spoiled brat that gave his mother grief of not wanting to get up to go to school and work. Hopefully he is a responsible man with a nice wife and three kids. And is better to his mother.
Don’t count on it. She raised him.
@@AnastasiaRomanov-w9xcan't blame it on the mom Little sht is thick headed you can tell by the way he's talking about his mom
HARLOT.
SLAG
@@stratfordbaby who are you calling a harlot?
The problem is the MOTHER
How?
No its the son
@@sharonrobinson3186 You're the problem.
Older JJ would never let the plaintiff and defendant go back amd forth fighting with each other, even if they're mother and son. Interesting how her approach changed.
back in the day JJ was more of Dr Phil than JJ...
Are you sure that's his mom and not his gran.
That was my thought 😂
no joke these old original episodes that had started before I was even in the double digits as far as age...but matter of fact these og episodes are my absolute favorite
Me too.
He needs TOUGH LOVE MOM! He needs to pay rent or get out.
As someone from Pittsburgh. I am very familiar with Brentwood. He's pretty well behaved to most people in that area.
Sorry, I’m a little slow. What do you mean? Thanks.
The kid that tried to take Donald out is from the area bethel park. Now let that sink in
@@KaylaHumphries-us8jqHe said Brentwood.
@@pollutedyouth🤦🏽 Meaning that many of the kids from that area are unruly. He's tame compared to most.
@ Got it! Thanks.😁
Wow this is a good start!
"You had 9 jobth in the last 8 month". He was probably tired of hearing her lisp . Shame though as the guy is handsome and hope he now walks on the straight and narrow with a good wife and kids. Parents should NOT bribe their troubled children with gifts.
Wooo Judge Judy let’s go!
It's Denny from 'the room'
back when JJ had allowed them to talk to eachother
James is 💅🏻 ✨
If only his name were Bart
This feels more like Dr Phil than Judge Judy
Same as my mother all about herself to a point
🎉 Yeehaw part one❤❤
Jawbs...
And _"I know she's my Mawm..."_
“Yeah I just wanna be a lazy brat!”
When I was growing up, I wa shown the belt. To this day, I'm respectful, kind and helpful of others and I've never been to jail or in trouble with the law. I blame the mum, end of story.
Mom has been way too soft on this brat. That's what the main problem is.
She needs to BUTT OUT and let him make his own mistakes.
i'm having similar problems with the defendant. adulting doesn't necessarily mean i disagree with my parents, it's just that they have their own way of doing things, and i have mine.
Well I hope you're living on your own, paying your own bills and not asking your parents for shit. If you're not, you Need to be. That's how you get to Do things Your way.
i live far from them due to work, but i do visit them bi-weekly. my bills are my expense. tough, but bearable.
The older JJ would not tolerate the back n forth. I like the older one.
James seems... not quite right... then again, neither does the mother...
I believe him
Uh sounds like from this clip the mom's the one with more of a chip on her shoulder than the son. Maybe it's justified but she had way more outbursts than he did and so it was weird for JJ to call him out for being angry at her
The boy looks more like 15 instead of 19.
she looks old enough to be his grandma
It'd be nice if she could order him to wear a hot 🔥 🥵 mess warning ⚠️ 😅 😂
Wonder how Jimmy is now.
That entire family needs therapy. I believe the son is troubled and the fact that the father was only mentioned once is a problem for me. Where is the father in all this? The 17 year old immature girlfriend needs stay out of it. Yes, I said immature. She is too young to be caught up with a young adult who already has a record, can keep a steady job, can't pay his debts, irresponsible and is involved in so many questionable activities. And this is going off on what he said/admitted to only.
No parent wants their 17 year old daughter dating a young man like him.
Why would the father need repeatedly mentioning unless necessary?This is between the mother and son and like a lot of fathers he is possibly letting mum deal with him while he’s working.If dad was there too there would be claims of them ganging up unfairly.
Dad quite possibly may have washed his hands of the child as mothers have a different bond with their children and especially sons and will keep trying to help and do what they can for them.I speak from experience of having 2 of each and my boys are spoilt and I know it’s my fault.They all are in reality.😂 They have more respect than this child has for his mother and would absolutely not treat me like this and appreciate everything I do and have done.More so after moving out and so should this young man.The real
World is hard
@emilysjones9746 not all children are the same so comparing yours who were brought up under different circumstances is unfair to all parties involved. Fathers aren't supposed to simply provide financial support. They are supposed to be more involved in their children's upbringing. If the father is leaving HIS SON to continue down this self-destructing path and not step in, then he's part of the problem too. I had both parents and I'm fully aware from experience that fathers are to be more involved than providing financial support.
@ how are you assuming he’s just providing financial support and not bringing him up?😂 I meant he’s working that day to support his family and dad probably had his fill of him at 18 and may have said to his wife you deal with him then or he moves out.Military school does not tend to be a mothers first choice for their son and possibly the father is in the military which would make sense to him not being there and being as involved as you would like.All fathers can’t work 9-5 Monday-Friday.Sounds like not so much of a difference to me with my family actually.Sounds pretty much the same
@emilysjones9746 1. You are the one that said he may be working (that's why he wasn't mentioned).
2. He's obviously in the picture based on what was said (the vacation) but no other mention was made of him and his input in all this. Even some visiting fathers are more involved in cases where there is a dispute between a parent and their child. They're either for the parent or for the child. In this instance neither party in this case made any real mention of him
@@TriciaT2407 No other mention of the father, to me and as Emily said, he has probably washed his hands of the son's behavior. There's nothing More to elaborate on him.
Oh my goodness!!
She is a nut.
This is an old one!!
Matching mom and son poofy hair doos
Why are you bringing the world into your family’s issues?!
Are these old clips before playstation even out? 😮😆
😅
If you want respect you got to earn it
Jimmy is a little slow...
Some kids just don't appreciate sweet chit all! Parents spend these days about $314,000.00 to raise a kid from birth to 18, never mind college, ten years ago that is about $230,000.00. My grandfather helped me buy my first motorcycle at 13, my dad said he was crazy, that winter my drunken dad put a loaded rifle to my head, if my mom had not come home from shopping who knows, the following spring after turning 14 I left home and started working construction. I had skipped a few grades, the principle was a decent sort, so I just sat my exams and earned my grade 12 after taking a couple night classes.
Thank you,someone who is talking sense and not blaming the mum for his behaviour and his expectations for her to do everything for him without any return.Hes an adult and put his younger sibling in danger
Thank you,someone who is talking sense and not blaming the mum for his behaviour and his expectations for her to do everything for him without any return.Hes an adult and put his younger sibling in danger.Your dad sounds awful.I had a childhood where I had to grow up young too and had a shitty dad who still tries to manipulate and control me at 46.Ive cut him out of mine and my childrens life and he still doesn’t accept that it’s his doing.Hes not even allowed legally to see his own mother.My brother is the same and the 3 of them are vile disgusting people
@@emilysjones9746 Some people take a lot longer to grow up, Sorry to hear about your dad. My dad was an alcoholic, fortunately he quit drinking, and we reconciled a decade or so later.
@ unfortunately my dad is too selfish to ever do that and doesn’t believe he’s done anything wrong even after stealing all my nans life savings and stabbing his son.🤦♀️ it’s all feel sorry for him.Thats only a1% of it too.Watch out for the hit movie.😂🤔
I don't like the old episodes. They are too hokey.
No you are too hokey. Yuck you!
Pretty sure it's a daughter. Those haircuts of the mid-late 90s were ROUGH.
Man, that’s a thick Pennsylvania accent