There is a difference when somebody is not the biological parent, but they know this before going into being a parent. Opposed to being deceived to believe that the child is yours. In such a short time, it would hurt, but I would completely understand if he walks away. It would be more difficult to walk away after say 20 years of raising a child and then finding out they are not yours. Only way to fix this? Mandatory DNA test at birth.
To prove fraud you'd have to prove there is ZERO chance of this guy being the father. If they slept together and the dates were similar enough that even the mother could convince herself... That does not a fraud make.
Right? I'm a former foster kid, been adopted since I was 5, and all I want is for my future kids to have a stable environment and a loving, supportive family.
@@LostPlutotarianI think she is saying that she couldn’t give the baby a stable loving family - she was all alone. She is clearly messed up and needs to do a lot of work before she’s ready to be a decent mother. Unfortunately her child is now stuck with her - giving it up might have been the smart thing to do.
She means she doesn’t have a support system. She is not saying the baby deserves the same, she is explaining why she thought it was a good idea for him to have custody of the baby, because she who grew up in foster care, no family, no car, etc wasn’t able to
The audience gasps, and they have to remind them that this isn't "Maury". The defendant doesn't seem to be very bright. There was no question in her mind... well, here we are. Now it's not even a question. It's an absolute fact that her assumption was 100% wrong.
You want hospitals to get sued. Only a court of law can force someone to take a DNA test. Otherwise it’s an unconstitutional violation of the Fourth Amendment. That’s why typically these tests are done when not voluntarily after one of the parties petitions the court and a judge rules there is probable cause . Actually women aren’t legally required to go to hospitals to give birth. I have relatives who were born at home as I have a cousin who was a midwife.
@@valeriewoods6882 They would be the ones who gathered the data as well as this. The divorce rate for men and women is 50% and 90% of the time it's the women who files. The divorce rate for gay men is 25% the divorce rate for gay women is 75% clearly women are the problem and the worst are the feminists
"The doctor said I was 30 days pregnant and I had had sex with Corey 30 days earlier. There was another guy I had sex with 33 days earlier but it couldn't have been him 'cause the doctor said 30 days. The doctor was able to deduce based on the size of the baby, guesstimation, and you know... asking the baby, "How long have you been in there?""
God bless this young man and his family - I’m sure he met somewhere else who is deserving of his love, support and respect… he better off without her, and I pray he is thriving ❤🙌🏽❤️🩹.
10-15 days ... that's the red flag there. modern tests can't pick up pregnancy until a month in and back when this was recorded they would have been less accurate. Poor guy. what she did was really really cruel
I was wondering if maybe fetal heartbeat or ultrasound picked something up... no heartbeat until 6 weeks though, and from what I can see thats about when ultrasounds can see anything. Maybe the 4 weeks was an estimate by the doctor? "At LEAST four weeks but probably more than that." ?
I can't imagine the grief,heartbreak, this man and his family felt after raising and loving the baby as their own, for almost a year. They will never get over this. Neither will the baby. How traumatic to be taken away from the arms and home of so many that cared and loved for him, the only people he knew. 😭😭😭
Her comment about the calendar says that the had been 'together' four weeks to the day. I think she meant 10 days was the 'last point of contact' but they had been together before that too.
@@battledamageprincess Here you are again! I think you must be the type to do just this sort of thing by how you seem to be defending this mother's actions. For shame.......
The cost of DNA sampling is a fraction of what it started out to be. By now it is feasible to have a sample taken from each baby and the profile stored on file. Not so much for these kinds of situations but to have the biological info available to doctors in the future. Just keep it out of the hands of the insurance companies.
he said they were 10-15 days after they were together…and she convinced him it was his…they both do not get biology--no way could she know she was 4 weeks pregnant so fasr…although he seems to be an upright lovely man
He seems like a model father. Very responsible and caring. I hope he is doing well these days, he deserves it, unlike some jerks who are in this program sometimes
What a wonderful man, a wonderful family - what a terrible women to take advantage of that and the poor baby stuck being passed around like a hot potato.
Cheating trifling modern woman knowingly committed paternity fraud and should be held accountable. Paternity fraud should be a criminal offense with civil financial punishments
On the other hand, my ex was cheating on me while I was pregnant and after I gave birth to his second beautiful son he accused me of the baby not being his. So I said GOOD. let’s go get the blood test at the hospital. That was before DNA. He shut his big mouth after that. He was looking for an excuse to divorce me but he couldn’t use that one. And both my sons look just like him today as full grown adults.
That's BS. She didn't cheat. The other guy was miles before this one. There's no evidence that she meant harm. A child should not be used as damages in court.
You can't take the ghetto out of someone. She picked the best father she knew and doubled down on their relationship when her period stopped.. Probably hit the roof when he got a DNA test. When he started calculating the numbers on her pregnancy she started the I don't want to be a mother stuff as a fallback.
How do you not know though? What was she doing the whole time? Moving around with a blindfold? Nah…. She saw a responsible man and thought “I have a sucker”.
@@fhenlizhao5406 you don't know ish either though, i just think you "ANGELS" are just raining down on this girl like u know her and stuff, like this doesn't happen all the time. My older brother thought he had a kid with his ex and after she was 4 months old he found out it wasn't his, he didn't go sobb and try suing her. he moved the fuck on
Any mother that claims child benefit from a "father" who isn't the father should be charged with fraud unless she is honest about the fact that she doesn't know who the father is.
She’s a leech who used him for free daycare and food Somebody must have let bishop know that something wacky was going on here bc 9months is a long time to just wake up one day to want a test Good thing she might have played him for another year or 2 until it became more clear it wasn’t his child
DNA should be automatic at birth no matter what. And this is coming from a woman whos been with the same man for over 10 years. This would cut back on courts being filled with this nonsense when it should just be knocked out from the moment the baby is born.
Exactly.Even though he found out the baby wasn't his,no way they would just hand the baby over after raising him for almost a year. She was putting him up for adoption anyway.Why didn't she just let them adopt the baby? so traumatic for the baby too,ripped away from the only home,family he ever know, the love and care,routine. He will be affected for life as will this family. I can't imagine their pain having to give her the baby.
> 10 to 15 days after we got together she told me she is pregnant ... I think she specifically selected him as a sucker to date when she found out she is pregnant
I watched both parts, and it doesn't say whether his name was put on the birth certificate or not. In most states, if he is the person who is named and signed as the father, it doesn't matter what the DNA test proves. The name can only be removed, and his rights to the child withdrawn if ordered by a judge . Usually, the biological father has to be prepared to step into the child's life and be a father. It's very difficult to just say you're not the father and walk away, especially if the person is as responsible as the plaintiff and caring for the child without public assistance. The courts don't want to remove a child from a loving environment that the state isn't paying for, only to place them in a home with a mother who needs assistance to financially provide for the child. I hope the good job she stated that she had is good enough to provide for the child, and she is caring and loving him in the way he deserves.
4:35 I get what she’s saying but “4 weeks pregnant” means it’s been 4 weeks since your last PERIOD. You could’ve gotten pregnant two weeks prior and be considered 4 weeks pregnant.
I googled... the earliest one can detect a pregnancy (ultrasound etc) is six weeks. I wonder if the doctor said 'at least 4 weeks but no earlier'. OR shes lying.
I can't imagine loving and caring for a child for 8-9 months, only to find out you are not the father. Just heartbreaking.
my kids have paws ...
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Well he was the father, just not biologically.
@@AlexIsModdedmissing the point. He was deceived and that is no slight matter.
Biology does not make you a mother or father. He was the father, just not the biological father. Talking like that denigrates those who adopt.
There is a difference when somebody is not the biological parent, but they know this before going into being a parent. Opposed to being deceived to believe that the child is yours. In such a short time, it would hurt, but I would completely understand if he walks away. It would be more difficult to walk away after say 20 years of raising a child and then finding out they are not yours. Only way to fix this? Mandatory DNA test at birth.
She picked him as the babies father because he’s decent.
Bingo!
His mistake was not doing a blood test
@ bingo! And today with DNA it’s even easier to determine paternity.
double standards-based
@@hihoware-s6j what are you talking about?
Audience thought they were at Jerry Springer. 😂😂😂
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Facts!😂
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Paternity fraud. Women who do this should be held accoutable under the law
@lykesharrison, in some states, now, they are being held accountable.
As a lady , I agree
There should be mandatory jail time for paternity fraud.
I agree!!! I don’t know why the law continues to have these type of women get away with this
As a woman I agree.
To prove fraud you'd have to prove there is ZERO chance of this guy being the father. If they slept together and the dates were similar enough that even the mother could convince herself... That does not a fraud make.
Right on...
@@battledamageprincess are you out here giving children to the wrong father too?
What a stand up dude!! He didn't deserve that!! Nor did the baby!!
What a decent, smartly dressed, articulate, handsome young man. I wish him well in his life.
Its amazing to me see Judge Judy so mellow. The Recent Judge Judy would have tore her to shreds.
He seems like an ideal father. Can't say the mother seems very nice though.
She doesn't seem to think she did anything wrong
The way she looks at him when he’s talking….
I was going to make the same comment. Handsome gentleman.
Agreed. She oozes ill-breeding.
@@johnsmi213 Handsome and well spoken. Obvious he likes snow bunnies 🐰
"i was in Forster care and had no one" proceeds to suggest giving up the baby when it has family. What...?
Right? I'm a former foster kid, been adopted since I was 5, and all I want is for my future kids to have a stable environment and a loving, supportive family.
@@LostPlutotarianI think she is saying that she couldn’t give the baby a stable loving family - she was all alone. She is clearly messed up and needs to do a lot of work before she’s ready to be a decent mother. Unfortunately her child is now stuck with her - giving it up might have been the smart thing to do.
She means she doesn’t have a support system. She is not saying the baby deserves the same, she is explaining why she thought it was a good idea for him to have custody of the baby, because she who grew up in foster care, no family, no car, etc wasn’t able to
I wonder where this woman is now, how many kids does she have who don't know their father? Completely irresponsible
Same here 😅
Back then, you just had to wonder. Now, almost 30 years later, there's this thing called Google that solves all speculation.
@@johnsmi213 Well, go ahead and solve it. Bet you can't
The audience gasps, and they have to remind them that this isn't "Maury".
The defendant doesn't seem to be very bright. There was no question in her mind... well, here we are. Now it's not even a question. It's an absolute fact that her assumption was 100% wrong.
The lady in the back trying to no laugh when court learned that baby wasn’t son of the dad is crazy
she clearly knows a thing or two about this kind of thing...she done tricked a few guys back in her day 😭
DNA tests should be automatically done. This is sad!
they say that 30% tested the man is not the father
@mark-r5w7w to me that's a HUGE number. Wow!
You want hospitals to get sued. Only a court of law can force someone to take a DNA test. Otherwise it’s an unconstitutional violation of the Fourth Amendment. That’s why typically these tests are done when not voluntarily after one of the parties petitions the court and a judge rules there is probable cause . Actually women aren’t legally required to go to hospitals to give birth. I have relatives who were born at home as I have a cousin who was a midwife.
Who is They?
@@valeriewoods6882 They would be the ones who gathered the data as well as this. The divorce rate for men and women is 50% and 90% of the time it's the women who files. The divorce rate for gay men is 25% the divorce rate for gay women is 75% clearly women are the problem and the worst are the feminists
"But the thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies"-Lawkeeper Equity Mlp Ace Attorney EOJ
Enemies are faithful, they never betray you, they want to harm you and that's it.
Scandalous girl! How heartbreaking 😢 for him. Sad for her too to think so little of herself and her life choices.
"The doctor said I was 30 days pregnant and I had had sex with Corey 30 days earlier. There was another guy I had sex with 33 days earlier but it couldn't have been him 'cause the doctor said 30 days. The doctor was able to deduce based on the size of the baby, guesstimation, and you know... asking the baby, "How long have you been in there?""
Exactly...it's a window of time. She knows that. Smh.
@@curlybeautyblogger For real. Doctors don't know exact conception dates. It's just an estimate.
This is one of the cruelest things a woman can do to a man.
Does she not understand that all that explaining is null and void considering… he isn’t the dad…
I can't imagine the pain he must of felt finding out that the child wasn't his, my heart goes out to any man that has dealt with a situation like this
She would drive me crazy because she keeps correcting him and adding to what he says.
You dodged the bullet on this waste of flesh bro.
The "OOOOOOOOOOUUU" from the audience 😂😂
His gf looks about 45 years old
❤hopefully he meets a sweet, decent lady to have a baby with.❤
Hopefully he Met a nice lady. This is a very very old clip. I hope they both learned and moved on.
Where is baby Adrien today?😢
Probably dead.
@@stratfordbabyor probably mentally dead. :(.
Jail.
This man is way too good for this lying woman.
God bless this young man and his family - I’m sure he met somewhere else who is deserving of his love, support and respect… he better off without her, and I pray he is thriving ❤🙌🏽❤️🩹.
Why didn't Judge Judy immediately question her about paying child support since the man took custody?
10-15 days ... that's the red flag there. modern tests can't pick up pregnancy until a month in and back when this was recorded they would have been less accurate.
Poor guy. what she did was really really cruel
Esp. tests back in the 90s. Some nowadays can pick up about a few days after a missed period. But back then, most likely not.
I was wondering if maybe fetal heartbeat or ultrasound picked something up... no heartbeat until 6 weeks though, and from what I can see thats about when ultrasounds can see anything. Maybe the 4 weeks was an estimate by the doctor? "At LEAST four weeks but probably more than that." ?
I was looking for that comment. Men and women should be more educated on pregnancy.
I can't imagine the grief,heartbreak, this man and his family felt after raising and loving the baby as their own, for almost a year. They will never get over this. Neither will the baby. How traumatic to be taken away from the arms and home of so many that cared and loved for him, the only people he knew. 😭😭😭
a very decent young man. Sad the baby went back to her because I doubt the child is well cared for.
She knew she was pregnant with his baby 10 days after they were together? Seems unlikely, especially back when this was filmed.
That tells you that she knew the whole time that he wasn’t the father smh
It's IMPOSSIBLE not unlikely.
@@stratfordbaby you can get a positive result after 10 days.Even more so with the early tests so not impossible
Her comment about the calendar says that the had been 'together' four weeks to the day. I think she meant 10 days was the 'last point of contact' but they had been together before that too.
@@emilysjones9746this looks a lot older video. Back then it was not as early as
I like when she scolded the audience for making sounds, SOMETIMES lol its okay sometimes but others its a "court room" 😂😂😂😂😂
1:45 An unusual warning ⚠️ by both Bird and Judy to hush the courtroom but it does happen every once in a while.
I can’t imagine showing up at court without brushing your hair. That gal is a hot mess. The black gentleman looks dignified and respectful.
Could he not just be “the gentleman”? He’s the only other person so we all would’ve known exactly who you were speaking of 😏
what? her hair looks fine
@ wow, you must need glasses. She looks like she just got out of bed and didn’t even run a brush through it. Maybe that’s what you do. Who knows.
telling a man he is the father when the woman is not sure should always result in at least 5 years in prison.
Are you high??? Not every bad behaviour is punishable by prison time 😭😭😭
Okay that’s excessive in that case every person who tells a lie should get mandatory 1 year prison sentence 🤷🏽♀️
See how idiotic that sounds
@@battledamageprincess....that's a pity.
@@battledamageprincess Here you are again! I think you must be the type to do just this sort of thing by how you seem to be defending this mother's actions. For shame.......
@@Nattaferg bro i have no children but nice reach LMAO
There should be a DNA test for all children born.
Great idea. You should fund it.
We the taxpayers have insurance for that. Babies are tested for a variety of illnesses. @@guccilady1017
The cost of DNA sampling is a fraction of what it started out to be. By now it is feasible to have a sample taken from each baby and the profile stored on file. Not so much for these kinds of situations but to have the biological info available to doctors in the future. Just keep it out of the hands of the insurance companies.
@@guccilady1017Why??
@@guccilady1017Because you're a cheater?
Shame on this woman, for the hurt she caused him, but the baby in particular.
How sad! He bonded and took care of that baby. I think he wants the money back because he’s hurt and angry.
When there's no question in her mind she should have interviewed her downstairs friend.
this is so vile, why arent dna test a mandatory at birth in america because such things happen so much.
DNA was in its infancy then.
I don’t think they should be mandatory. I just wish girls and guys took that kind of intimacy more seriously.
In North Indiana, it is mandatory unless you are married. Not sure why everywhere isn’t like that!
he said they were 10-15 days after they were together…and she convinced him it was his…they both do not get biology--no way could she know she was 4 weeks pregnant so fasr…although he seems to be an upright lovely man
@@Tranquility32 we can't force or establish people to take this more seriously,but we can make dna testing mandatory, I hope it becomes
He seems like a model father. Very responsible and caring. I hope he is doing well these days, he deserves it, unlike some jerks who are in this program sometimes
What a wonderful man, a wonderful family - what a terrible women to take advantage of that and the poor baby stuck being passed around like a hot potato.
3:02 Pure EVIL!
Dayum, a paper calendar. And girl, you don’t want to care for a baby or put it the system? Keep your legs closed or keep your pants zipped!
Corey… You are not the father!
i can just imagine her screaming & crying running backstage saying it's wrong 😂
She clearly loved Santa Claus...HO HO HO.
That right there is a sharp looking black man👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I know baby Adrian is an adult now. I hope he grew up to be successful and loved and cared for well.
3:39
The heck was that?
What a weird head nodding woman, she is bizarre.
Cheating trifling modern woman knowingly committed paternity fraud and should be held accountable. Paternity fraud should be a criminal offense with civil financial punishments
On the other hand, my ex was cheating on me while I was pregnant and after I gave birth to his second beautiful son he accused me of the baby not being his. So I said GOOD. let’s go get the blood test at the hospital. That was before DNA. He shut his big mouth after that. He was looking for an excuse to divorce me but he couldn’t use that one. And both my sons look just like him today as full grown adults.
That's BS. She didn't cheat. The other guy was miles before this one. There's no evidence that she meant harm. A child should not be used as damages in court.
@@Jingeb58 oh really? Ok. Call it what you want.
@@AnastasiaRomanov-w9xSo what?
@@jasminerobertson4913 was I talking to you? Mind your own business jasmine. Get lost.
You can't take the ghetto out of someone. She picked the best father she knew and doubled down on their relationship when her period stopped.. Probably hit the roof when he got a DNA test. When he started calculating the numbers on her pregnancy she started the I don't want to be a mother stuff as a fallback.
My guy has a type 😅😅😅
😅😅 I had to pause when they showed the gf. I’m like where?? 🤦🏾♀️
They obviously both have a type if they weren't sure if they ever thought the baby was his.
this girl seems chilled, she thought it was his & it wasn't. Why's he making a big deal out of it, move the heck on
Idiotic response.
How do you not know though? What was she doing the whole time? Moving around with a blindfold? Nah…. She saw a responsible man and thought “I have a sucker”.
@@fhenlizhao5406 you don't know ish either though, i just think you "ANGELS" are just raining down on this girl like u know her and stuff, like this doesn't happen all the time. My older brother thought he had a kid with his ex and after she was 4 months old he found out it wasn't his, he didn't go sobb and try suing her. he moved the fuck on
Oooh, a classic!
She's gross.
At the family Thanksgiving table, nobody dares to ask Heather, "Light meat or dark meat?"
Do these two not know about contraception?
Do you not know that contraceptives aren’t 100% effective?
How about don't sleep with more then 1 man simultaneously? Then u won't have these type of problems
I knew about contraception but my wife still got pregnant.
Either way had she just been honest with him then this would've been avoided
@@mihniahyaBut they ARE extremely effective. What young people need to do is take THAT form of intimacy more seriously. … IMHO.
Judge Judy don't play that "oooh and aaah", laughing or comments in her courtroom. She will put you out without blinking
Good on Judy for checking the audience, this is not Jerry Springer people! 😂
She is such a liar… She should be jailed for at least 9 months
This episode is actually an ad for condoms
The earliest I’ve been to a video!!!! 🥹🫶🏼
He's a stand-up guy. Hopefully, she turned her life around, but have my doubts.
He had no business brunch with her in the very first place
Way to repeat the past young lady. Well done:(
What in the Maury Povich?
Love judge Judy
10-15 days after y’all met. Dude no wonder she chose you! Simp king 👑
People having children irresponsibly
We are going to share the baby, go back & forth. What ?! These idiots having unprotected sex.
The audience is extra this isn’t Jerry Springer relax 😂😂
Any mother that claims child benefit from a "father" who isn't the father should be charged with fraud unless she is honest about the fact that she doesn't know who the father is.
So, in conclusions, she sleeps around...a lot!
I can see why she wanted him to be the father, he's a decent guy.
She’s a leech who used him for free daycare and food
Somebody must have let bishop know that something wacky was going on here bc 9months is a long time to just wake up one day to want a test
Good thing she might have played him for another year or 2 until it became more clear it wasn’t his child
Jungle fever at work.
DNA should be automatic at birth no matter what. And this is coming from a woman whos been with the same man for over 10 years. This would cut back on courts being filled with this nonsense when it should just be knocked out from the moment the baby is born.
From bed to bed🤮🥹
@@BrendaRudman she was sleeping with anything that would sleep with her
He’s a good man!!! His family too!
He has a type :)
Oh how Judge Judy changed...
I knew she was a pos when she kept downplaying everything he’s done.
She chose a sucker 😢 she found one.
order- its a courtroom, ladies and gentlemen. i miss the 90s
This poor man, these kind of women are reprehensible.
He’s such a good man a good dad his family wanted the baby too why not let them adopt them that’s horrible that baby would have so much love
Exactly.Even though he found out the baby wasn't his,no way they would just hand the baby over after raising him for almost a year. She was putting him up for adoption anyway.Why didn't she just let them adopt the baby? so traumatic for the baby too,ripped away from the only home,family he ever know, the love and care,routine. He will be affected for life as will this family. I can't imagine their pain having to give her the baby.
Judge Judy is nice and soft spoken here. 😅
Corey has a type 😂
10-15 days later most test can’t detect that early it would take a missed period to at least alert you, she already knew she was pregnant.
Wow . That’s sad. He seems like a good person. She’s horrible
Another woman using her child as a weapon. Sad.
> 10 to 15 days after we got together she told me she is pregnant
... I think she specifically selected him as a sucker to date when she found out she is pregnant
Mandatory jail or restitution for paternity fraud. What an evil thing to do to a man.
she knew she was pregnant before she even got with that dude.
I watched both parts, and it doesn't say whether his name was put on the birth certificate or not. In most states, if he is the person who is named and signed as the father, it doesn't matter what the DNA test proves. The name can only be removed, and his rights to the child withdrawn if ordered by a judge . Usually, the biological father has to be prepared to step into the child's life and be a father. It's very difficult to just say you're not the father and walk away, especially if the person is as responsible as the plaintiff and caring for the child without public assistance. The courts don't want to remove a child from a loving environment that the state isn't paying for, only to place them in a home with a mother who needs assistance to financially provide for the child. I hope the good job she stated that she had is good enough to provide for the child, and she is caring and loving him in the way he deserves.
DNA testing after birth should be mandatory
4:35 I get what she’s saying but “4 weeks pregnant” means it’s been 4 weeks since your last PERIOD. You could’ve gotten pregnant two weeks prior and be considered 4 weeks pregnant.
I googled... the earliest one can detect a pregnancy (ultrasound etc) is six weeks. I wonder if the doctor said 'at least 4 weeks but no earlier'. OR shes lying.
That baby is a full grown adult now, if they are still alive, and it must suck real bad for them to see this video.
She was raised in foster homes but went out and got pregnant. She was sure the boy was his, but when it wasn't his, she didn't want it.