Also, the book at the opening is Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s-1950s. Book at 10:32 is Surrender Your Sons by Adam Sass, a thriller about Connor, who is sent to a conversion camp by his mother and their Reverend.
I had a military lover and he was blown to bits by our forces in Nam in '71. No sorry, no widower's compo, nada. Two weeks earlier our place was raided in FW. I once worked w/ haters at UT/Austin where I was literally lectured about keeping that 'queer shit' to myself and I lectured the boss and was told I was fired. Again and again it happened til haters killed my dog and cat and smashed my place with big stones and burned it down. I lived on the street and moved to NZ with help from the Sheep that Roared, PM David Lange. O used to talk with Kathy Cronkite (Walter's daughter) about HIV as an equal opp pathogen and human rights and homosexual pairs in Nature. Now we know Jesus and John were ;pvers, and Gandhi. Love you
Being 50 and seeing gays become a political and cultural force to be reckoned with; truly an accomplishment. In my 20s I advocated being out and proud because we had nothing to hide and made a lot of phone calls to politicians in red Texas!
Hey Zach and Alister, we're the authors of the book you just received, Hugh and Neal. We love seeing our book in such a wonderful, loving, home. We wish you both continued happiness as your journey through life and love continues. And, Zach, thank you for clarifying something for us. At the end of the wonderful movie, "Alex Strangelove", we always wondered whether the short clips of people telling their coming out stories were real people, or good actors. We now know that at least the first one, you, is real. As soon as your coming out video started playing at the end of this post, we recognized it immediately. Not by your face so much, but from your voice - and your accent. We're both from Texas too. Hearing that accent, it felt like being back home:)
**edit: I don’t want the point to get foggy here. THIS is all I want y’all to take away from this. There shouldn’t be arguing. Neither of us discussed our political beliefs. I have before, but it just wasn’t in this video because we didn’t go into it. Simple as that. Alastair recounted what THE BARBER HERSELF reasoned why she’s voting for Trump. Her words, and she was very clear. Don’t like it? Take it up with her. I didn’t ask for any Trump info, folks. What A and I discussed was the clear prejudice he faced and how no one should have to deal with that. I believe in God. In my own experience with religion, I have found I am much more centered having a direct relationship with Him than I ever was going through any sort of organized middle man. However, I hold no prejudice against religion. What I do take issue with is people who use religion as a justification for hatred and bigotry. It’s unacceptable. Now, Alastair works long hours daily at a very high stress job. Having to deal with that barber at the end of an already shitty day was a little much for him, and he needed a moment to decompress. Fuck any of y’all who take issue with that. Find a heart. He’s human. That’s the message.
@Sally Vee Totally welcome your view. Speak for what you believe in. I have a general distrust for politicians and their voting histories that I refuse to excuse any of them from criticism. Both sides. Too many politicians go with the wind and current popular opinion for career and monetary benefit that I have a hard time looking the other way. There’s just too much hypocrisy.
Neither of u said anything political, but Alastair was right to be upset over the barber's homophobic remarks. My issue was not so much political as her using Christianity to justify her hate. Jesus hated no one. I am Catholic & go to church every Sunday & I stay in the church because I believe it's the route to Salvation, but also to get in to change. If all the gay Catholics & Allies left, u would just have a church with people like Alastair's barber. We have a lot of haters in our church & they are very vocal, but we have a Pope who recently said "Pope Francis told a group of parents of L.G.B.T. children yesterday that “God loves your children as they are” and “the church loves your children as they are because they are children of God.” & who has backed "Civil Unions" & uses the word Gay which is not used in the church. He has flipped the church on its ear & angered the conservatives. This is where I am fighting for normalcy for the LGBT Community in the church to gain acceptance. Matthew Shepard radicalized me. Hearing that with gay couples in New York,before gay marriage was legalized, the older one of the couple would legally adopt the younger one, so they would have the same rights as family members to be with their loved one in the hospital or to inherit the house they shared., that radicalized me. So we fight for tolerance, equality & acceptance in our own way, you by your VLOGS, which are a blessing & me by trying to make my church, which has many flaws, better. I will get off my soapbox, let the criticism begin.
@Sally Vee You see it's people like you that perpetuate the divide in your country but you just can't see it. Quite insulting #disrespectful responding to Zach's explanation in such a way after he expressed he had no desire to debate politics. He was sticking up for his guy in a candid heartfelt display of loyalty. Respect that if nothing else.
@@get2rog It’s all good, she was just responding. If I put something out publicly, I expect that others are gonna give their input. Let’s not argue in here por favor. There’s enough of that elsewhere that it shouldn’t spill over here too.
The more you celebrate who you are the more people will celebrate you because your joy and light will help them to find their own joy and light. Blessings and love to you both!
Hugs to Alastair.Christians should respect and embrace everyone.I love and support members of lgbt as a Christian.Hope my fav A&Z stay safe and positive .Best wishes .
Ha ha ha I have seen all the Golden Girl episodes (without exageration) at least 50 times each. I actually mouth most of the show as I know it all off by heart now.
I've tried to find the words many times, and I've tried to reach out... but I know you have so many fans and so many guys like me that find inspiration in your love and the "real" way you present your lives. My BF and I have built 3 homes and renovated one so seeing you buy your home together, watching you move... and just living your lives, touches my heart like nothing else. If ever you come through Ohio, it would be my honor to take you out to eat, or meet you guys... just so I could try and express what you mean to so many of us! God Bless You... the world is changing, and your videos are part of the change, never discount the influence you have! Luv You Guys!
Stop making me cry. That first part touched my heart. Thanks to Alastair and Zach for acknowledging those who came before. I am so thrilled to have found this today. You guys always make me smile or think, I love that. Alastair looks adorable in his robe. Thanks for starting my Alexa with a timer, yes she heard that. LOL Thanks guys!! This was beautiful!! Much love!!
Guys, so cool and so appropriate you taped your fave photo to inside of such an amazing book. That really touched my soul. Even at 58, it was a tough time coming out 30 yrs ago, and I know in comparison to our brothers and sisters that came before me, that I had it better. I thank those brave gay soldiers, the women and the men and the non-binary, for fighting against discrimination and ignorance. Stay strong men, be well. Bless your souls.
I damn near shed a tear, just the meaning and symbolism and everything about it. Had I had that book and a pic with my husband, I'd have made the same gesture.
Thank you both- so special and true. Thank you both for your service this Veterans Day. Remembering all the LGBTQ+ members of our military who have served so honorably. And to All selfless individuals who volunteer to serve.
Oh wow that book looks amazing! and the sentiment of putting the picture of you and Alastair in the back is so heartwarming. Also ice storms are the best, but not if you have to drive anywhere haha.
Been eyeing that book for a Christmas/anniversary gift for my husband. You sealed the deal. I'm following your lead and adding pictures showing our love over our 38 years together. Hasn't always been an easy road to travel. I'm thankful to those before us who helped pave our way. I'm also very thankful for you guys sharing your love publicly to help others be their true selves. Love watching you guys. It takes me back to our first years together starting our 38 year love story that I treasure. 💖
@@AdventuresofZachandB Paul, we are the authors/collectors of LOVING. Your 38 years together with your husband is an inspiration to us all. We hope you like our book, and and early Merry Christmas to you both.
That's so sweet. I am still very much a youngun, as I'm only in my twenties but I know I'll find a wife someday and do something just as special. Now _that,_ is a dream. :')
Putting your picture in the back of THAT book speaks volumes. What a away to share your Love with your future (children or relatives). Continue to be strong role models for those that are watching.
I can't remember when I first "discovered" you. At times you make me want to stand up and applaud, when B died, I cried too, but most consistently, I love your thinking. Time after time you are so morally right, other times you make me laugh as deeply and fully as I can. Then Alastair. How was it the both of you knew you were meant to be one? There has never been a post where the two of you have not made me appreciative of your communication, your love. Every time you lift me, you make me rededicate myself to fighting for our value to humanity. Thanks again, Michael
You guys are fab! You remind me of my husband and I when we were younger. We're still in love after 29 years together. We had our first wedding in 1993 and legal one in 2013. Keep loving each other, laugh every day and remember you are your husband's best friend. You're both so sweet together. It's possible to be that always. Kevin & Michael
Yes, we yelled, marched and fought for our lives so we all could be free. The fight is not over. Make a copy of the photo and start a new book. Show the reality of your lives so no one else can question our morality. Show them them the meaning of FAMILY. As long as any one of us is excluded from society, we are all at risk. - PR Mendez
@@jeanatkinson2022 i know u don't understand love between 2 men and u may never understand considering you were born a woman but that doesn't mean you have to be bitter...
Being a lot closer to 70 than to 60, I have been watching your videos for a few years now. I love and am very impressed with the efforts you put into videos. I am also quite touched by the two of you and how you interact with each other and the world. I am old enough to recall when it was illegal for two men or two women to have a loving relationship. Keep doing what you are doing. The struggle started long before I was born and it will continue long after I am gone. Being heterosexual is the norm and as such, it is the assumption whenever people encounter other people. But it doesn't mean that we have to simply accept 2nd class status. It is important to speak out where it is necessary to do so. For example, in the case of the hairstylist, if that person had spoken in this fashion to me, I would have waited until the haircut was done and then politely explained that I would not ben returning since I was unable to patronize a person who considered it appropriate to attack me as a person and deny me the same basic human rights of any other human being simply because I have a husband and not a wife. Be proud of who you are and how you treat others, as well as how you treat each other. You are both fine young men and may you have a wonderful life together.
I wish there was a way on TH-cam to express something greater than just a "thumbs up like". I've been enjoying your videos for a long time, and I think this is one of your best ones yet! Sometimes there is brilliance in simplicity :-)
My late Partner and I helped end DADT. Dr. Lou was a retired USAF Bird Col. He was the Commander of the USAF Clinic at Charleston AFB during the first Gulf War in 1991. I was HD USAF from the late 1970's. Seeing Alistair serving openly warms my heart. Many of us worked hard with time money and direct action to make that happen guys. Love Y'all
The book was a beautiful and heart-warming gift 👍 Thank you for the moments of your lives you share with us and allow us to experience - they bring comfort. And that ending put so much in perspective - Thank you!
69 next year on July 1 and bless you and Zach and all our GLBT tribe on Earth. One day all love will be holy and our love will be honored and celebrated. Keep smiling and working together and pls know how happy I am (as well as my deceased loves_) for you two and for your family and friends, and for all our people. love, joe
I am 65 years old gay man. Growing up in the 60’s and 70’s, I knew I was different, but couldn’t identify how it was. I was sent to Catholic school for 5 years. No I wasn’t accosted by the priests. Great fully, I was too gay for the priests. They wanted the butch little boys and that wasn’t me. The nuns thought I was “cute”. When I started junior high I went to public schools and was immediately bullied. Couldn’t figure out why. I was teased and threatened by my family. My parents would see gays on tv Liberace, George Hamilton, Jerry vale and others and make such hateful things about them that I knew I have to hide who I am, but I was never able to hide it. I turned to alcohol at age 18. I ended up a daily drunk. Was for many years until a dear friend and drinking buddy was brutally honest. She called me out on it which sent me into a panic. She kicked my ass and when I shared with other friends what she said they were so happy. I found so much trust, and support that within a month I put the booze down and have not had another drink for 27 years. The lady who gave me the truth passed away last October at the age of 58. I will always owe her a debt. I have just seen your post and I am so overwhelmed with joy and gratitude. I will be looking back in time to find your beginning posts. Thank you for you. I still have not persued a relationship and due to health reasons don’t know that I will. Just know that what you are doing is so positive that I know you are giving other questioning young teens courage. Please keep doing what you are doing. I just instantly love you both. You are REAL! BWBSLU. (Be Well Be Safe Luv You)....Angelo
@@jeanatkinson2022 First off, not every single person has to turn to God to reach happiness and peace. Second, not every one believes in a God. So, that's that.
Such a wonderful video as always, the editing is so vivid and bright. You get so personal with us, I for one thank you for for having this channel. Giving the internet and everyone on it, a chance to see inside your lives, and your ongoing love story. ❤️
Definitely one of my favorite videos ever. The cinematography was so good it felt very cinematic and documentary like and also welcoming like I was a fly on the wall and that is something I enjoy about all of your vlogs. I love how every video feels like it started with a thesis statement and every scene is paragraph developing what you want to say. I really feel like I'm watching a tv show or something. The shots are beautiful. The story is beautiful. The message is beautiful. I'm glad to be here for the ride.
So good to have this kind of video back again. I'm sure it's hard to constantly have strangers peering into your lives, but so many wish to have what you two share. Thanks for allowing a few moments of fantasy, of vicarious imagination.
Representation in literature is SO important. Whether society likes to acknowledge us or not, LGTBQ+ people are a part of the world. I think a lot of LGBT people can relate to the situation Alister encountered with the barber, myself included. Same goes for gyms, auto mechanic shops, and so much more. So sorry that happened to you, thanks for sharing that experience with us; love and blessings to yall!
It’s always so inspiring to see the love between Zach and Alastair. I have followed your channel since beginning a few years ago, it’s amazing how far you have grown. Always have each other, always.
You really are living the dream of many gay men. I showed my older friend (60ish years old) your channel. When I told him you two were married his response was "When I was a kid I played with my younger brothers toys and had GI Joe fall in love with a Cowboy... who knew Gi Joe would marry a cowboy years later for real."... you are living a life gay people could only imagine and never think it would really happen. Great big bear hugs.
This was an excellent video. After many years a very special man came back into my life after learning I have brain cancer. Sharing those special moments once again and being able to express our life more openly has been a blessing. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
You're good enough to defend your Country through it's military Alastair but to some of the ignorant, they feel that you're not good enough to live in it .. best to you both ...
Zach if I could tell you anything face to face it would be this 3 years ago I could not have imagined me being openly out as a gay proud man and that was due to you Zach I ask myself every day was it worth it but I put that question to the back of my mind because I have that nagging thought every day but I know it was worth it and you and Alastair gave me that freedom Zach I’m more enthusiastic I’m more happy than I’ve ever been and I’m thriving since coming out and the beginning of this video you were right we should be so lucky we can be openly out compared to those guys way back I guess you could say we’re picking up where they left off
Excellent perspectives. Thank you for sharing the barber story. I've gotten this identical anxiety from my niece who posted a story about liking someone's FB post is condoning their lifestyle and not right with Jesus. Crushing. It still keeps me up at night.
I was thinking about getting a new mattress the last time you partnered with Helix so I took advantage of your discount and I LOVE my new mattress! Also, thanks for making me need to cancel my Alexa timer! 😆
I've been subscribed to your channel for a couple years now and really love your thought-provoking commentary in your videos ("Daddy Issues" in particular really resonated with me). I think you bring more to the table than many other You Tubers, and I really appreciate that.
I totally agree with you Laurie, "Daddy Issues" was one the most powerful pieces of film I've ever seen. They are the most realistic guys I've come across on utube. Cheers, Paul.
Thanks beachesboy, I've checked out some of Matt and Blues videos but keep coming back to Zach and Alastair. I have more in common with them and enjoy Zach's views on life. Cheers from Australia, Paul.
You two have been a great inspiration for me. You helped me with coming out to the people around me, as well as giving me hope for a better day when those who hate us will finally be dead and gone.
I really love your content. I remember when I first watched your coming out video changed my life for the better. I wasn't moving in secret anymore it helped me open up the my parents. Hell we stronger than ever, all because of that video a few years ago.
I just discovered your videos. I am still processing the emotional impact they are having. Your raw, natural authentic selves. Your LOVE for each other. Your creativity. Your heartfelt love letters. Your communication. Your dedication. Your maturity. Your humanity. May you both live to continue to experience your individual growth and your growth together for the rest of your lives. Thank you for sharing.
I've been watching ya'lls channel for over a year. Thank you so much for showing a loving and human relationship. It gives this lonely 33 year old hope for the same.
I actually have a photo in my old family photos on my dad's side that shows two men who have taken a very questionable photo (like they were a couple) I want to say it was early 1900s in Italy or late 1800s
Zach and Alistair ... YOU GUYS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY.... IF YOU DONT CLOSE YOUR BLINDS THE OTHER WAY PEOPLE CAN SEE IN AND YOU CAN'T SEE OUT... the bottom part of the blind needs to face the window...otherwise people can see in...just leave your blinds closed the way they are and go out side and see if you can see inside...PLEASE
Thank you so much. I cannot believe an ice storm hit Texas in October. I had to move from Austin the northern California in July. I am so homesick. But I am so grateful for you two and these wonderful videos.
You guys are just so great together and I always love your message! And you are an inspiration to everyone who will hear that message. I simply don't understand why some people who claim to be Christians actually don't seem to get the meaning of the real message of Christ...The message of love for all people regardless of whether or not they agree with you on everything. My Mother always said, "life would be pretty dull if we were all the same." And she was so right about that! There's room enough in this world for all kinds of people. If we would all learn to let people just be themselves, I think everyone would be a lot better off. You really had me wondering what you two were up to when you said you were partnering with Helix...I couldn't believe my ears until I realized you were talking about mattresses! HA! That book you received looks totally amazing! I'm going to have to see if I can find it. Such a great gift - and so inspiring! On another note, it looks like you have been having a lot worse weather in your neck of the woods than we have had here in Ohio. We've had a little rain, but it hasn't been anywhere near cold enough to freeze. I sure hope you didn't have much damage with all that ice! That can be some scary stuff! Sorry I've gone on so long but I just wanted to let you know how appreciated you guys are! Take care.
I am never able to finish a single video of yours without breaking down with emotions of love and gratitude... thank you! for when you share your love, you share dreams, faith and hope for those who are still struggling with themselves, their demons of past and sometimes with their families. God Bless You both!
We do have the freedom and no one can take that away. Politics aside, we are who we are. I love and married the man I was meant to be with and no one can take that away. Some day people will see all lives as equals. We have to continue to be who we are and fight for our rights or else those that came before us will have lost.
I sprinted to the bookstore when I saw that it was released. They only had one copy. Waiting for a nice quiet time to sit down and spend a couple hours flipping through it.
Zachary and Alistair! Over the past many months you both have made me cry and grieve....and that is such a great thing. You have both given me...comfort when my partnership ended....faith that there may be a new beginning....and trust....that maybe I just might find the love, and care, and respect, and fondness, and the best friend that you two have found with each other. I am not sure if you both TRULY understand how much inspiration you have given all of us who have watched you. During times such as these...we need touchstones...anchors like the both of you! Please don’t stop sharing with us. You lads are a beacon in what just keeps on getting darker days. For myself...you both have brightened some dark times. THANK YOU BOTH...AND YOUR FAMILIES...AND WINNIE...AND BRANDO!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
From the first generation that was finally able to live openly myself it is wonderful to see younger people understanding what those who went before went through to make a life open and free possible. Remember how precious that is, guard it and expand the circle of love to our brothers and sisters around the world who are still forced to hide in the dark.
Love the vlog as always. Carry on being yourselves don't let the world change you. I have been with my husband for 20 years plus and as time goes by my love for him has deepened. Xxx
Thank you both for sharing your authentic selves with us. It takes a lot of guts to put yourself out there for the world to see. Keep your heads up high and keep on keepin’ on!
I love you recognize the tough fight that happened before I’m 66 it was a different era when I was in my twenties. I love that you guys can be you guys.
I just love how sweet and organic your videos are. I love these peeks into your everyday life but it's not totally random, it has a theme and a message. And the editing is amazing! Also loved seeing footage of Baby Zach from 2016. All of it makes me feel warm and fuzzy 😊
Thank you for reminding the world of how difficult it was for two people of the same sex who loved each other to be together and not be judged. Be grateful and gleeful that you two can be together and celebrate your love with no restrictions. I feel honored that somehow I found your channel at the very beginning, and that I have been able to watch your love unfold. I wish you two the best of everything. Happy Thanksgiving!
This comment is specifically directed at Alastair and Zach. (Not looking for replies from anyone else.) Concerning the issue at the salon... Firstly, I was saddened to listen to your experience. I really felt the hurt in your voice. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Life is hard sometimes, huh? I hear your gut reaction, and I understand it. You’d be completely justified to never grace their business again. “Grace”. That’s a word filled with meaning. Undeserved, unmerited favor, thats the true definition of the word. Your barber doesn’t “deserve” your forgiveness. They haven’t done anything to “merit” it. I wonder how she/he’d react if you gave them it anyways. What if you went back? What if you continued to go back? What if you extended them kindness and showed them who you were? What if you showed them the good man you are? I wonder if in so doing you could make a difference in one life; In one persons ignorance. Grace is a beautiful thing. It’s one of my favorite things. Grace has the ability to soften even the hardest hearts and build a bridge where there once was none. We want change. We want normalization of homosexuality. We want acceptance. I believe we get it by these small actions. Sure, it’s only one person, but everyone has the ability to make a ripple of change. A hand must be extended by one side or the other. Unity is achieved in these small acts. Would you consider it? All the best to you beautiful boys. ☺️ -Shawn
Omg, that barber is so narrow minded that I can’t. As usual, I enjoy your video immensely. From the get go, Zach pointing at the photo, and says, “2017” and Alastair replies immediately, “Is it?”😅. Come on, Alastair, even I remember it was taken in 2017, Alastair is so goofy and child like sometimes it literally makes my heart melt. This is a rare quality in today’s society, he must be protected at all costs, period. I know you guys have your own ups and downs in life, but bear in mind that you are so loved by so many people in our community, you two are one of the most loving and genuine people I have ever seen in my entire life and I am 49 already. I know Zach you said in your early videos that you would never ask us for money and I respect that so much. But son, if you ever encounter any difficulties financially or in life in general, especially during this pandemic. let your fans know pls, I can’t speak for the others, but I will be more willing to help and show you guys my appreciation for the joy and inspiration you guys have brought me the past few years. And you two are by far my favourite TH-camrs on line and no one even comes close. Gossip queens and peeping queens, 😂, ciao for now. Sending love from Hong Kong, stay safe and sound pls.
My husband recently started working full time for our business and I introduced him to a long term client as “my husband” and they looked me in the face and said “well, looks like we will be going somewhere else now”
Well there's a lot going on there. Firstly, please explain to this person that those two weeks of vacation bible school weren't supposed to spread out forty years. Secondly, you should mention that his favorite pastor's clever and calculated omission of the Good News of Jesus Christ to suit the taste of his audience is as good as a lie. "Love covers a multitude of sin" (for ALL of us). Your client hasn't learned in all of his years of church attendance the salient truth that the gospel is Grace based and not sin based. What a dark and nasty view of the world he has! When you say Grace you are saying someone's name. What is one of Zach's favorite sayings? "You do you & let everyone else do themselves".
Well, that is their choice, I suppose. My response is "I'm sorry to hear that. If you change your mind, we'll be happy to have you back as a valued client."
Zack and Alistair , it's been a while ! It's so Nice too see You Back ! I haven't seen your First Video (From this Season ) , but will watch next ! Really Miss the Lives !! Hope to see Them Soon !! Lots of LUV !! 💞💞
Duuude, wow, just wow! I first started following you somewhere around the time you were about to graduate high school I believe. I kind of lost track of you not long ago, other interests showing up in the recommended list, etc... but I saw this and you had a tear in my eye shortly after I clicked it. First off, as a retired Navy veteran, let me say how proud I am of your husband. After spending 50 some odd years in the closet, the 'friends of Dorthey' were always there, but the whole 'mental illness' issue kept the fear alive and well in a lot of us. And now he can serve proudly and openly, you go boi. Now about that book. I watched you turn thru some of those pages and as hard as I and my 'friends' had it, they had it so much harder. And the men of color even more so. I am soooo glad that some one your age understands and appreciates the battle so many fought to get us where we are. Some day, someone is going to go through that book and end up on that photo of you and Alastair and I sincerely hope that they have the same sense of appreciation for the battle that you do. Barbers are a dime a dozen, there's one for you out there some where. Haters are gonna hate, nothing we can do about that but love them the way we want to be loved cause in the end, love will always win. Peace out my friend. P.S, the Firefly tv series and movie were some of my favorite shows, maybe I'll have to read the book too. Ciao Bella
Just discovered you two years since this post. I have been seeking out to read and view mm LGBTQ books, movies for past 18 months. As a 70 year questioning woman, I have a lot to learn about queer love, struggles, happiness. Your vlogs are pure poetry! Celebrations of love and marriage. I adore you both.
Oh gosh! So much to unpack in this video. It is a beautiful video. Love the book. It's amazing what we have to endure just to be ourselves. Zach you are lookin absolutely delicious. Those butt views were spectacular. Alastair you been hiding those cakes all this time. Zach you lucky guy! 😊 Alastair i am so sorry you had to experience that. *Cyber hugs*. Love you guys. Keep up the great work.
Even though we know those people exist, it can be disconcerting when you’re suddenly faced by one of them. Hope they see the light soon. You don’t always have to engage. Love to you both. You’re an inspiration to others.
The accent, I'm not as active as some on here, but I watch from afar. You two are role model for the gay community. We at times are our worst enemies. We need more couple like you. As for the hairstylist karma will get her. Zach your accent is a charm you need to get into voice over work.
at 65 you & Alistair have so much to be happy about nowadays that you can live & have the life together that you want. as a closeted gay man growing up in the '60s & 70s & 80s, i can only watch you to be happy & loving something i could never have when I was your age. oh, how times have change for the good for guys like us thanks for your videos I love them!!
Dude, your story @12:34 really made my heart kinda drop. I give you credit for not walking out midway haircut and telling her to Fuck Off. Lets all hope for a better and equal future. Today is a New Beginning for us All.
Another great video Zach. I definitely get what Alistair was saying about getting blindsided by other people's homophobia and not sure how to deal with it. It is shocking. On a lighter note though, Zach setting the timer on the Alexa was registered on my Alexa as well. Lol...
❤this is the best VLOG ive ever seen, your love is so genuine i cried from being so happy for you! The entire world should see this vlog & this episode specifically! Thank u for being the gay couple I always needed to see on tv! Your love is inspiring and heartwarming! God bless your family & thank u for sharing your lives with the world! ❤😊❤😊❤
That’s a great gift. Hopefully 2020 will continue to bring positive changes but I’m worried. The new makeup of the Supreme Court has me concerned about women rights and the rights of LGBTQ.
Hey guys! I would just like to say that I have been watching your channel for a number of years now. Aside from the fact that I am also an out gay man married to the love of my life, I would just like to comment on how wonderful of a videographer you are. Your ability to capture a moment and make it into a short film/story always seems to move me to tears. You’re both very talented and I have thoroughly enjoyed watching you blossom and grow throughout your time here on this platform. With all the love and respect, Justin.
Also, the book at the opening is Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s-1950s.
Book at 10:32 is Surrender Your Sons by Adam Sass, a thriller about Connor, who is sent to a conversion camp by his mother and their Reverend.
I had a military lover and he was blown to bits by our forces in Nam in '71. No sorry, no widower's compo, nada. Two weeks earlier our place was raided in FW. I once worked w/ haters at UT/Austin where I was literally lectured about keeping that 'queer shit' to myself and I lectured the boss and was told I was fired. Again and again it happened til haters killed my dog and cat and smashed my place with big stones and burned it down. I lived on the street and moved to NZ with help from the Sheep that Roared, PM David Lange. O used to talk with Kathy Cronkite (Walter's daughter) about HIV as an equal opp pathogen and human rights and homosexual pairs in Nature. Now we know Jesus and John were ;pvers, and Gandhi. Love you
lol TH-cam unsubscribed me from you guys and I thought u weren’t uploading, destiny doesn’t want me around you guys or what 😫😫 Zachary ?!?!?
@Bojan V Awww your kindness is so touching. I learned that love is the answer that will get us all to a better place. Bless you for caring.
Thanks, I was just about to ask what that book was titled?
@@josephsanangelo Much love and respect for your story, especially your resistance.
At 56, you're living a dream I once held and fought for and glad to see you and Alistair have what you now enjoy!
Being 50 and seeing gays become a political and cultural force to be reckoned with; truly an accomplishment. In my 20s I advocated being out and proud because we had nothing to hide and made a lot of phone calls to politicians in red Texas!
Amen...
Hey Zach and Alister, we're the authors of the book you just received, Hugh and Neal. We love seeing our book in such a wonderful, loving, home. We wish you both continued happiness as your journey through life and love continues. And, Zach, thank you for clarifying something for us. At the end of the wonderful movie, "Alex Strangelove", we always wondered whether the short clips of people telling their coming out stories were real people, or good actors. We now know that at least the first one, you, is real. As soon as your coming out video started playing at the end of this post, we recognized it immediately. Not by your face so much, but from your voice - and your accent. We're both from Texas too. Hearing that accent, it felt like being back home:)
Can I get it in Kenya???
Thank you for such a great piece!!
Your book is a delight. A simple link between those who blazed the path we walk along.
@@johnpetry5321 thank you!
@@harnes64 not yet:)
@@hughnini2167 Do you have a link to the book?
**edit: I don’t want the point to get foggy here. THIS is all I want y’all to take away from this. There shouldn’t be arguing.
Neither of us discussed our political beliefs. I have before, but it just wasn’t in this video because we didn’t go into it. Simple as that. Alastair recounted what THE BARBER HERSELF reasoned why she’s voting for Trump. Her words, and she was very clear. Don’t like it? Take it up with her. I didn’t ask for any Trump info, folks. What A and I discussed was the clear prejudice he faced and how no one should have to deal with that. I believe in God. In my own experience with religion, I have found I am much more centered having a direct relationship with Him than I ever was going through any sort of organized middle man. However, I hold no prejudice against religion. What I do take issue with is people who use religion as a justification for hatred and bigotry. It’s unacceptable. Now, Alastair works long hours daily at a very high stress job. Having to deal with that barber at the end of an already shitty day was a little much for him, and he needed a moment to decompress. Fuck any of y’all who take issue with that. Find a heart. He’s human. That’s the message.
@Sally Vee you’re right
@Sally Vee Totally welcome your view. Speak for what you believe in. I have a general distrust for politicians and their voting histories that I refuse to excuse any of them from criticism. Both sides. Too many politicians go with the wind and current popular opinion for career and monetary benefit that I have a hard time looking the other way. There’s just too much hypocrisy.
Neither of u said anything political, but Alastair was right to be upset over the barber's homophobic remarks. My issue was not so much political as her using Christianity to justify her hate. Jesus hated no one. I am Catholic & go to church every Sunday & I stay in the church because I believe it's the route to Salvation, but also to get in to change. If all the gay Catholics & Allies left, u would just have a church with people like Alastair's barber. We have a lot of haters in our church & they are very vocal, but we have a Pope who recently said "Pope Francis told a group of parents of L.G.B.T. children yesterday that “God loves your children as they are” and “the church loves your children as they are because they are children of God.”
& who has backed "Civil Unions" & uses the word Gay which is not used in the church. He has flipped the church on its ear & angered the conservatives. This is where I am fighting for normalcy for the LGBT Community in the church to gain acceptance.
Matthew Shepard radicalized me. Hearing that with gay couples in New York,before gay marriage was legalized, the older one of the couple would legally adopt the younger one, so they would have the same rights as family members to be with their loved one in the hospital or to inherit the house they shared., that radicalized me.
So we fight for tolerance, equality & acceptance in our own way, you by your VLOGS, which are a blessing & me by trying to make my church, which has many flaws, better.
I will get off my soapbox, let the criticism begin.
@Sally Vee You see it's people like you that perpetuate the divide in your country but you just can't see it. Quite insulting #disrespectful responding to Zach's explanation in such a way after he expressed he had no desire to debate politics. He was sticking up for his guy in a candid heartfelt display of loyalty. Respect that if nothing else.
@@get2rog It’s all good, she was just responding. If I put something out publicly, I expect that others are gonna give their input. Let’s not argue in here por favor. There’s enough of that elsewhere that it shouldn’t spill over here too.
Zach you're really becoming an expert storyteller and filmmaker. Your past few vids are like mini movies. Well done!
The more you celebrate who you are the more people will celebrate you because your joy and light will help them to find their own joy and light. Blessings and love to you both!
Hugs to Alastair.Christians should respect and embrace everyone.I love and support members of lgbt as a Christian.Hope my fav A&Z stay safe and positive .Best wishes .
These 2 make me believe in love. Also, the fact that you guys watch the Golden Girls makes me love y’all even more.
Same here, here’s to another Golden Girls gay couple fans!
Golden girls gay here too
I'm a mix of Sophia and Dorothy
Ha ha ha I have seen all the Golden Girl episodes (without exageration) at least 50 times each. I actually mouth most of the show as I know it all off by heart now.
I truly look forward to your videos. They represent love, kindness and strength in a very intimate and beautiful way.
That makes me feel good. thank you
I've tried to find the words many times, and I've tried to reach out... but I know you have so many fans and so many guys like me that find inspiration in your love and the "real" way you present your lives. My BF and I have built 3 homes and renovated one so seeing you buy your home together, watching you move... and just living your lives, touches my heart like nothing else. If ever you come through Ohio, it would be my honor to take you out to eat, or meet you guys... just so I could try and express what you mean to so many of us! God Bless You... the world is changing, and your videos are part of the change, never discount the influence you have! Luv You Guys!
hi whats up
Stop making me cry. That first part touched my heart. Thanks to Alastair and Zach for acknowledging those who came before. I am so thrilled to have found this today. You guys always make me smile or think, I love that. Alastair looks adorable in his robe. Thanks for starting my Alexa with a timer, yes she heard that. LOL Thanks guys!! This was beautiful!! Much love!!
Guys, so cool and so appropriate you taped your fave photo to inside of such an amazing book. That really touched my soul. Even at 58, it was a tough time coming out 30 yrs ago, and I know in comparison to our brothers and sisters that came before me, that I had it better. I thank those brave gay soldiers, the women and the men and the non-binary, for fighting against discrimination and ignorance. Stay strong men, be well. Bless your souls.
I damn near shed a tear, just the meaning and symbolism and everything about it. Had I had that book and a pic with my husband, I'd have made the same gesture.
That was such a beautiful moment.
Love yours videos, bendiciones (blessings), my favorite gay couple !!
Bellos!
Baby Zach !!! Lol you’ve changed so much in 4 years. I’m so happy for you guys and I love your addition to that book. Great idea 🌈❤️
Amazing how far we have come this book speaks for all of use the LGBTQIA community
I love your videos your editing is amazing
Omg 😳 he has no accent your Spanish is great 😊 I’d like to here Zach to speak it .....
Thank you both- so special and true. Thank you both for your service this Veterans Day. Remembering all the LGBTQ+ members of our military who have served so honorably. And to All selfless individuals who volunteer to serve.
Oh wow that book looks amazing! and the sentiment of putting the picture of you and Alastair in the back is so heartwarming. Also ice storms are the best, but not if you have to drive anywhere haha.
This video is already hitting me in the heart
Happiness not in another place, but in this place. Not in another hour but this hour. - Walt Whitman You two embody this. So good to see.
Love this
Y’all are just the best and you’re watching The Golden Girls while you eat. What could be better? Your love for each other always shines through.
Been eyeing that book for a Christmas/anniversary gift for my husband. You sealed the deal. I'm following your lead and adding pictures showing our love over our 38 years together. Hasn't always been an easy road to travel. I'm thankful to those before us who helped pave our way. I'm also very thankful for you guys sharing your love publicly to help others be their true selves. Love watching you guys. It takes me back to our first years together starting our 38 year love story that I treasure. 💖
I’d love to see when you do add a picture. Either on email or social media
@@AdventuresofZachandB Paul, we are the authors/collectors of LOVING. Your 38 years together with your husband is an inspiration to us all. We hope you like our book, and and early Merry Christmas to you both.
That's so sweet. I am still very much a youngun, as I'm only in my twenties but I know I'll find a wife someday and do something just as special. Now _that,_ is a dream. :')
hi paul
hi I need a lover
Putting your picture in the back of THAT book speaks volumes. What a away to share your Love with your future (children or relatives). Continue to be strong role models for those that are watching.
I feel your pain Alastair. It makes me sick knowing we still live in such a nation. Hugs to the whole family.
I can't remember when I first "discovered" you. At times you make me want to stand up and applaud, when B died, I cried too, but most consistently, I love your thinking. Time after time you are so morally right, other times you make me laugh as deeply and fully as I can. Then Alastair. How was it the both of you knew you were meant to be one? There has never been a post where the two of you have not made me appreciative of your communication, your love. Every time you lift me, you make me rededicate myself to fighting for our value to humanity. Thanks again, Michael
You guys are fab! You remind me of my husband and I when we were younger. We're still in love after 29 years together. We had our first wedding in 1993 and legal one in 2013. Keep loving each other, laugh every day and remember you are your husband's best friend. You're both so sweet together. It's possible to be that always.
Kevin & Michael
Yes, we yelled, marched and fought for our lives so we all could be free.
The fight is not over.
Make a copy of the photo and start a new book. Show the reality of your lives so no one else can question our morality. Show them them the meaning of FAMILY.
As long as any one of us is excluded from society, we are all at risk. - PR Mendez
"Being gay is God's greatest gift to me." - Tim Cook.
I wholeheartedly agree.
Good. All love is holy, so it is a gift of God.
And what a wonderful gift it is. We are here as we have been since the beginning of time.
Sorry, but that's not from God. He can't and won't support sin!
@@jeanatkinson2022 i know u don't understand love between 2 men and u may never understand considering you were born a woman but that doesn't mean you have to be bitter...
@@leohernandez4739,👍
Being a lot closer to 70 than to 60, I have been watching your videos for a few years now. I love and am very impressed with the efforts you put into videos. I am also quite touched by the two of you and how you interact with each other and the world. I am old enough to recall when it was illegal for two men or two women to have a loving relationship. Keep doing what you are doing. The struggle started long before I was born and it will continue long after I am gone.
Being heterosexual is the norm and as such, it is the assumption whenever people encounter other people. But it doesn't mean that we have to simply accept 2nd class status. It is important to speak out where it is necessary to do so. For example, in the case of the hairstylist, if that person had spoken in this fashion to me, I would have waited until the haircut was done and then politely explained that I would not ben returning since I was unable to patronize a person who considered it appropriate to attack me as a person and deny me the same basic human rights of any other human being simply because I have a husband and not a wife.
Be proud of who you are and how you treat others, as well as how you treat each other. You are both fine young men and may you have a wonderful life together.
I wish there was a way on TH-cam to express something greater than just a "thumbs up like". I've been enjoying your videos for a long time, and I think this is one of your best ones yet! Sometimes there is brilliance in simplicity :-)
My late Partner and I helped end DADT. Dr. Lou was a retired USAF Bird Col. He was the Commander of the USAF Clinic at Charleston AFB during the first Gulf War in 1991. I was HD USAF from the late 1970's. Seeing Alistair serving openly warms my heart. Many of us worked hard with time money and direct action to make that happen guys. Love Y'all
The book was a beautiful and heart-warming gift 👍 Thank you for the moments of your lives you share with us and allow us to experience - they bring comfort. And that ending put so much in perspective - Thank you!
We’ve come a long way, but we aren’t there yet
69 next year on July 1 and bless you and Zach and all our GLBT tribe on Earth. One day all love will be holy and our love will be honored and celebrated. Keep smiling and working together and pls know how happy I am (as well as my deceased loves_) for you two and for your family and friends, and for all our people. love, joe
I am 65 years old gay man. Growing up in the 60’s and 70’s, I knew I was different, but couldn’t identify how it was. I was sent to Catholic school for 5 years. No I wasn’t accosted by the priests. Great fully, I was too gay for the priests. They wanted the butch little boys and that wasn’t me. The nuns thought I was “cute”.
When I started junior high I went to public schools and was immediately bullied. Couldn’t figure out why. I was teased and threatened by my family. My parents would see gays on tv Liberace, George Hamilton, Jerry vale and others and make such hateful things about them that I knew I have to hide who I am, but I was never able to hide it. I turned to alcohol at age 18. I ended up a daily drunk. Was for many years until a dear friend and drinking buddy was brutally honest. She called me out on it which sent me into a panic. She kicked my ass and when I shared with other friends what she said they were so happy. I found so much trust, and support that within a month I put the booze down and have not had another drink for 27 years. The lady who gave me the truth passed away last October at the age of 58. I will always owe her a debt.
I have just seen your post and I am so overwhelmed with joy and gratitude. I will be looking back in time to find your beginning posts. Thank you for you. I still have not persued a relationship and due to health reasons don’t know that I will. Just know that what you are doing is so positive that I know you are giving other questioning young teens courage. Please keep doing what you are doing. I just instantly love you both. You are REAL! BWBSLU. (Be Well Be Safe Luv You)....Angelo
@@angelogiberti9379 and never turned to God. How sad.
@@jeanatkinson2022 First off, not every single person has to turn to God to reach happiness and peace. Second, not every one believes in a God. So, that's that.
@@jeanatkinson2022 haha jean. Thats sooooo nice of you to say that, keeep doing this, piece of shhit
Such a wonderful video as always, the editing is so vivid and bright. You get so personal with us, I for one thank you for for having this channel. Giving the internet and everyone on it, a chance to see inside your lives, and your ongoing love story. ❤️
Definitely one of my favorite videos ever. The cinematography was so good it felt very cinematic and documentary like and also welcoming like I was a fly on the wall and that is something I enjoy about all of your vlogs. I love how every video feels like it started with a thesis statement and every scene is paragraph developing what you want to say. I really feel like I'm watching a tv show or something. The shots are beautiful. The story is beautiful. The message is beautiful. I'm glad to be here for the ride.
So good to have this kind of video back again. I'm sure it's hard to constantly have strangers peering into your lives, but so many wish to have what you two share. Thanks for allowing a few moments of fantasy, of vicarious imagination.
Representation in literature is SO important. Whether society likes to acknowledge us or not, LGTBQ+ people are a part of the world. I think a lot of LGBT people can relate to the situation Alister encountered with the barber, myself included. Same goes for gyms, auto mechanic shops, and so much more. So sorry that happened to you, thanks for sharing that experience with us; love and blessings to yall!
It’s always so inspiring to see the love between Zach and Alastair. I have followed your channel since beginning a few years ago, it’s amazing how far you have grown. Always have each other, always.
You really are living the dream of many gay men. I showed my older friend (60ish years old) your channel. When I told him you two were married his response was "When I was a kid I played with my younger brothers toys and had GI Joe fall in love with a Cowboy... who knew Gi Joe would marry a cowboy years later for real."... you are living a life gay people could only imagine and never think it would really happen. Great big bear hugs.
This was an excellent video. After many years a very special man came back into my life after learning I have brain cancer. Sharing those special moments once again and being able to express our life more openly has been a blessing. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
You're good enough to defend your Country through it's military Alastair but to some of the ignorant, they feel that you're not good enough to live in it .. best to you both ...
Zach if I could tell you anything face to face it would be this 3 years ago I could not have imagined me being openly out as a gay proud man and that was due to you Zach I ask myself every day was it worth it but I put that question to the back of my mind because I have that nagging thought every day but I know it was worth it and you and Alastair gave me that freedom Zach I’m more enthusiastic I’m more happy than I’ve ever been and I’m thriving since coming out and the beginning of this video you were right we should be so lucky we can be openly out compared to those guys way back I guess you could say we’re picking up where they left off
Excellent perspectives. Thank you for sharing the barber story. I've gotten this identical anxiety from my niece who posted a story about liking someone's FB post is condoning their lifestyle and not right with Jesus. Crushing. It still keeps me up at night.
Zach looks muscled up again looks like he’s been hitting the gym again good man
He’s definitely been blasting those arms.💪🏼
I try to be like zach..zach got a nice body.
I thought he never stopped
I was thinking about getting a new mattress the last time you partnered with Helix so I took advantage of your discount and I LOVE my new mattress! Also, thanks for making me need to cancel my Alexa timer! 😆
hi I need a lover
I've been subscribed to your channel for a couple years now and really love your thought-provoking commentary in your videos ("Daddy Issues" in particular really resonated with me). I think you bring more to the table than many other You Tubers, and I really appreciate that.
I totally agree with you Laurie, "Daddy Issues" was one the most powerful pieces of film I've ever seen. They are the most realistic guys I've come across on utube. Cheers, Paul.
Paul. Another ‘real couple’ on TH-cam: Matt & Blue.
Thanks beachesboy, I've checked out some of Matt and Blues videos but keep coming back to Zach and Alastair. I have more in common with them and enjoy Zach's views on life.
Cheers from Australia, Paul.
You two have been a great inspiration for me. You helped me with coming out to the people around me, as well as giving me hope for a better day when those who hate us will finally be dead and gone.
No matter what you guys do together, it is absolutely beautiful. Love you both a lot.
I was about to go to bed as well looks like Zach and Alastair have other plans for me now I have a reason to be awake
I really love your content. I remember when I first watched your coming out video changed my life for the better. I wasn't moving in secret anymore it helped me open up the my parents. Hell we stronger than ever, all because of that video a few years ago.
That book and you adding yalls picture to it brought tears to my eyes.. thank you..
hi how are you doing
@@mikelumly2909 I’m fine. And u?
can you please come see me sometime
@@mikelumly2909 umm I don’t know u.
@@rodlawrence5946 hi can you please be mylover
I just discovered your videos. I am still processing the emotional impact they are having. Your raw, natural authentic selves. Your LOVE for each other. Your creativity. Your heartfelt love letters. Your communication. Your dedication. Your maturity. Your humanity. May you both live to continue to experience your individual growth and your growth together for the rest of your lives. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you. Beautiful, hopeful, loving and inspiring message!!!!
Thank you for sharing all of parts of you both together! ❤
I could spend hours just watching those two pairs of buns lol
I've been watching ya'lls channel for over a year. Thank you so much for showing a loving and human relationship. It gives this lonely 33 year old hope for the same.
I actually have a photo in my old family photos on my dad's side that shows two men who have taken a very questionable photo (like they were a couple) I want to say it was early 1900s in Italy or late 1800s
I like hearing that stuff, a lot of people would hide that stuff up and pretend it never existed.
I bought this book for my husband, too. It’s special as we move forward w our community as human beings showing the world it is just as normal as...
“It took me three years to find a good barber and they’re homophobic”
Best quote lol
Don't go back
@Resell Hobo I knew it you like Asian ladies 🙈🙈🙈🙈
sad to know.... huhuh
Zach and Alistair ... YOU GUYS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY.... IF YOU DONT CLOSE YOUR BLINDS THE OTHER WAY PEOPLE CAN SEE IN AND YOU CAN'T SEE OUT... the bottom part of the blind needs to face the window...otherwise people can see in...just leave your blinds closed the way they are and go out side and see if you can see inside...PLEASE
Thank you so much. I cannot believe an ice storm hit Texas in October. I had to move from Austin the northern California in July. I am so homesick. But I am so grateful for you two and these wonderful videos.
You guys are just so great together and I always love your message! And you are an inspiration to everyone who will hear that message. I simply don't understand why some people who claim to be Christians actually don't seem to get the meaning of the real message of Christ...The message of love for all people regardless of whether or not they agree with you on everything. My Mother always said, "life would be pretty dull if we were all the same." And she was so right about that! There's room enough in this world for all kinds of people. If we would all learn to let people just be themselves, I think everyone would be a lot better off.
You really had me wondering what you two were up to when you said you were partnering with Helix...I couldn't believe my ears until I realized you were talking about mattresses! HA!
That book you received looks totally amazing! I'm going to have to see if I can find it. Such a great gift - and so inspiring!
On another note, it looks like you have been having a lot worse weather in your neck of the woods than we have had here in Ohio. We've had a little rain, but it hasn't been anywhere near cold enough to freeze. I sure hope you didn't have much damage with all that ice! That can be some scary stuff!
Sorry I've gone on so long but I just wanted to let you know how appreciated you guys are! Take care.
I am never able to finish a single video of yours without breaking down with emotions of love and gratitude... thank you! for when you share your love, you share dreams, faith and hope for those who are still struggling with themselves, their demons of past and sometimes with their families. God Bless You both!
We do have the freedom and no one can take that away. Politics aside, we are who we are. I love and married the man I was meant to be with and no one can take that away. Some day people will see all lives as equals. We have to continue to be who we are and fight for our rights or else those that came before us will have lost.
I almost cry when I see your videos...sheer elation at how much has changed in my lifetime! Thank you 🙏
I sprinted to the bookstore when I saw that it was released. They only had one copy. Waiting for a nice quiet time to sit down and spend a couple hours flipping through it.
Beautiful commodity you have. Bookstores are ancient relics around here.
Zachary and Alistair! Over the past many months you both have made me cry and grieve....and that is such a great thing. You have both given me...comfort when my partnership ended....faith that there may be a new beginning....and trust....that maybe I just might find the love, and care, and respect, and fondness, and the best friend that you two have found with each other.
I am not sure if you both TRULY understand how much inspiration you have given all of us who have watched you. During times such as these...we need touchstones...anchors like the both of you! Please don’t stop sharing with us. You lads are a beacon in what just keeps on getting darker days. For myself...you both have brightened some dark times. THANK YOU BOTH...AND YOUR FAMILIES...AND WINNIE...AND BRANDO!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
loved the comments /talking about golden girls and whom is more like whom, mad me laugh, cheers from Canada
From the first generation that was finally able to live openly myself it is wonderful to see younger people understanding what those who went before went through to make a life open and free possible. Remember how precious that is, guard it and expand the circle of love to our brothers and sisters around the world who are still forced to hide in the dark.
I always love getting these notifications seeing your videos are inspiring!!
Love the vlog as always. Carry on being yourselves don't let the world change you. I have been with my husband for 20 years plus and as time goes by my love for him has deepened. Xxx
The cinematography in these new videos is so good. Loving the new videos Zach ✨
The recognition is very much appreciated
Raul, Your English is just fine.
@@beachesboy1994 thanks?
Thank you both for sharing your authentic selves with us. It takes a lot of guts to put yourself out there for the world to see. Keep your heads up high and keep on keepin’ on!
This voice hypnotizes me. I love it. ❤️
I love you recognize the tough fight that happened before I’m 66 it was a different era when I was in my twenties. I love that you guys can be you guys.
I just love how sweet and organic your videos are. I love these peeks into your everyday life but it's not totally random, it has a theme and a message. And the editing is amazing! Also loved seeing footage of Baby Zach from 2016. All of it makes me feel warm and fuzzy 😊
Thank you for reminding the world of how difficult it was for two people of the same sex who loved each other to be together and not be judged. Be grateful and gleeful that you two can be together and celebrate your love with no restrictions. I feel honored that somehow I found your channel at the very beginning, and that I have been able to watch your love unfold. I wish you two the best of everything. Happy Thanksgiving!
This comment is specifically directed at Alastair and Zach. (Not looking for replies from anyone else.) Concerning the issue at the salon... Firstly, I was saddened to listen to your experience. I really felt the hurt in your voice. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Life is hard sometimes, huh?
I hear your gut reaction, and I understand it. You’d be completely justified to never grace their business again. “Grace”. That’s a word filled with meaning. Undeserved, unmerited favor, thats the true definition of the word. Your barber doesn’t “deserve” your forgiveness. They haven’t done anything to “merit” it. I wonder how she/he’d react if you gave them it anyways. What if you went back? What if you continued to go back? What if you extended them kindness and showed them who you were? What if you showed them the good man you are?
I wonder if in so doing you could make a difference in one life; In one persons ignorance. Grace is a beautiful thing. It’s one of my favorite things. Grace has the ability to soften even the hardest hearts and build a bridge where there once was none.
We want change. We want normalization of homosexuality. We want acceptance. I believe we get it by these small actions. Sure, it’s only one person, but everyone has the ability to make a ripple of change. A hand must be extended by one side or the other. Unity is achieved in these small acts. Would you consider it?
All the best to you beautiful boys. ☺️
-Shawn
Well said!
Beautiful
That was elegantly said.
Omg, that barber is so narrow minded that I can’t. As usual, I enjoy your video immensely. From the get go, Zach pointing at the photo, and says, “2017” and Alastair replies immediately, “Is it?”😅. Come on, Alastair, even I remember it was taken in 2017, Alastair is so goofy and child like sometimes it literally makes my heart melt. This is a rare quality in today’s society, he must be protected at all costs, period. I know you guys have your own ups and downs in life, but bear in mind that you are so loved by so many people in our community, you two are one of the most loving and genuine people I have ever seen in my entire life and I am 49 already. I know Zach you said in your early videos that you would never ask us for money and I respect that so much. But son, if you ever encounter any difficulties financially or in life in general, especially during this pandemic. let your fans know pls, I can’t speak for the others, but I will be more willing to help and show you guys my appreciation for the joy and inspiration you guys have brought me the past few years. And you two are by far my favourite TH-camrs on line and no one even comes close. Gossip queens and peeping queens, 😂, ciao for now. Sending love from Hong Kong, stay safe and sound pls.
My husband recently started working full time for our business and I introduced him to a long term client as “my husband” and they looked me in the face and said “well, looks like we will be going somewhere else now”
sorry that happened to you :(
That kind of response infuriates me. I hope you told them where to go. In Australia that means "f*#k off" and don't come back.
Well there's a lot going on there. Firstly, please explain to this person that those two weeks of vacation bible school weren't supposed to spread out forty years. Secondly, you should mention that his favorite pastor's clever and calculated omission of the Good News of Jesus Christ to suit the taste of his audience is as good as a lie. "Love covers a multitude of sin" (for ALL of us). Your client hasn't learned in all of his years of church attendance the salient truth that the gospel is Grace based and not sin based. What a dark and nasty view of the world he has! When you say Grace you are saying someone's name. What is one of Zach's favorite sayings? "You do you & let everyone else do themselves".
Fkn unbelievable.
Well, that is their choice, I suppose. My response is "I'm sorry to hear that. If you change your mind, we'll be happy to have you back as a valued client."
Zack and Alistair , it's been a while ! It's so Nice too see You Back ! I haven't seen your First Video (From this Season ) , but will watch next ! Really Miss the Lives !! Hope to see Them Soon !! Lots of LUV !! 💞💞
Duuude, wow, just wow! I first started following you somewhere around the time you were about to graduate high school I believe. I kind of lost track of you not long ago, other interests showing up in the recommended list, etc... but I saw this and you had a tear in my eye shortly after I clicked it. First off, as a retired Navy veteran, let me say how proud I am of your husband. After spending 50 some odd years in the closet, the 'friends of Dorthey' were always there, but the whole 'mental illness' issue kept the fear alive and well in a lot of us. And now he can serve proudly and openly, you go boi. Now about that book. I watched you turn thru some of those pages and as hard as I and my 'friends' had it, they had it so much harder. And the men of color even more so. I am soooo glad that some one your age understands and appreciates the battle so many fought to get us where we are. Some day, someone is going to go through that book and end up on that photo of you and Alastair and I sincerely hope that they have the same sense of appreciation for the battle that you do. Barbers are a dime a dozen, there's one for you out there some where. Haters are gonna hate, nothing we can do about that but love them the way we want to be loved cause in the end, love will always win. Peace out my friend.
P.S, the Firefly tv series and movie were some of my favorite shows, maybe I'll have to read the book too. Ciao Bella
Love your post, straight from the heart.
Thank for sharing your lives with us. I think you two are a great couple and I love the topics you cover. Much love to you both. ❤️
I’m totally here for the “let a mf say something homophobic to my face.. I dare em” 😂😂💪🏽
You are such a filmaker Zach... You have such a sensitivity to put content together that you lift and warm people so easily. Congratulations!
That opening with the book made me cry. So true that we are the beneficiaries of all those guys.😥🥰
Just discovered you two years since this post. I have been seeking out to read and view mm LGBTQ books, movies for past 18 months. As a 70 year questioning woman, I have a lot to learn about queer love, struggles, happiness. Your vlogs are pure poetry! Celebrations of love and marriage. I adore you both.
Oh gosh! So much to unpack in this video. It is a beautiful video. Love the book. It's amazing what we have to endure just to be ourselves. Zach you are lookin absolutely delicious. Those butt views were spectacular. Alastair you been hiding those cakes all this time. Zach you lucky guy! 😊 Alastair i am so sorry you had to experience that. *Cyber hugs*. Love you guys. Keep up the great work.
Even though we know those people exist, it can be disconcerting when you’re suddenly faced by one of them.
Hope they see the light soon. You don’t always have to engage.
Love to you both. You’re an inspiration to others.
You have the freedom to dream Zach, and Alistair has the reality that is you - to love and to hold you, and you, him.
Powerful episode. From the struggle of our people to your own personal triumphs. Brought a tear to my eye. You guys continue to inspire. Thank you.
That is SO awesome! That book is on my Xmas wish list!!!
This is such a marvelous post. So loving, so gentle, so honest. So down-to-earth, so wistful, so sad, so happy. Powerful!
The accent, I'm not as active as some on here, but I watch from afar. You two are role model for the gay community. We at times are our worst enemies. We need more couple like you. As for the hairstylist karma will get her. Zach your accent is a charm you need to get into voice over work.
at 65 you & Alistair have so much to be happy about nowadays that you can live & have the life together that you want. as a closeted gay man growing up in the '60s & 70s & 80s, i can only watch you to be happy & loving something i could never have when I was your age. oh, how times have change for the good for guys like us thanks for your videos I love them!!
You two sleeping was absolutely adorable!
Dude, your story @12:34 really made my heart kinda drop. I give you credit for not walking out midway haircut and telling her to Fuck Off. Lets all hope for a better and equal future. Today is a New Beginning for us All.
Another great video Zach. I definitely get what Alistair was saying about getting blindsided by other people's homophobia and not sure how to deal with it. It is shocking.
On a lighter note though, Zach setting the timer on the Alexa was registered on my Alexa as well. Lol...
❤this is the best VLOG ive ever seen, your love is so genuine i cried from being so happy for you! The entire world should see this vlog & this episode specifically! Thank u for being the gay couple I always needed to see on tv! Your love is inspiring and heartwarming! God bless your family & thank u for sharing your lives with the world! ❤😊❤😊❤
That’s a great gift. Hopefully 2020 will continue to bring positive changes but I’m worried. The new makeup of the Supreme Court has me concerned about women rights and the rights of LGBTQ.
me too... NOBODY is going to make my Marriage invalid...
@@davidkadingojr.6941 and no one going to take my daughter’s right to do what’s best for her body or her health. United we stand for our rights 🤝
The supreme court won't. It's all propaganda from the liberals.
@@Ronkyort0dox You were saying?.....
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Hey guys! I would just like to say that I have been watching your channel for a number of years now. Aside from the fact that I am also an out gay man married to the love of my life, I would just like to comment on how wonderful of a videographer you are. Your ability to capture a moment and make it into a short film/story always seems to move me to tears. You’re both very talented and I have thoroughly enjoyed watching you blossom and grow throughout your time here on this platform. With all the love and respect, Justin.
Love you guys, UK 🇬🇧 loves you.
You are absolutely right. You are a blessing to those of us who were beaten and more, yet we did not give up. God bless you both.